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| 2 | I AM SO F***ING SICK OF SOCIAL ANXIETYliving with friends on campus of the giant state school Sounds good. I'd suggest reading this before you go. You can get through it in about a week. It does a great job of breaking down day/night game and its a great intro into the world of seduction and pick up. Do you think cold showers are really worth it? There's two main reasons I do them. One, hot showers dry my skin out and I've always had skin issues. Cold showers (and stopping picking my face) have been the best things for my skin. Seco… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/15 03:23 AM |
| 6 | I AM SO F***ING SICK OF SOCIAL ANXIETYI have the same problem (I posted a similar question like a week ago. I've gotten a lot better in dealing with SA though.) The three habits that have helped the most are lifting, cold showers, and meditating. Do these every day and talking to girls will be mentally much easier. Also, a cause of SA can be low self esteem. You need to try to become as cocky and bold as possible , to beat SA. One way is to use affirmations, which are basically things you want in your ideal self (eg. "I can attract … | /r/askTRP | 24/04/15 02:35 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with a burnout properly?No problem. After you finish that, look into the authors other books. His stuff is really good. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/15 03:25 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with a burnout properly?You should try to avoid burning out, by splitting up work over long period of time. If you're in college, you should read this. As for now, just get enough sleep and drink coffee. Burnouts are usually triggered by distractions, so stay focused. Don't let your mind wander when doing work. Always ask "what's next?", and do it. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/15 02:22 AM |
| 4 | The friendzone is a gift, fools.r/TheRedPill Treat it like a salad bar. Take what you want, leave the rest alone for others. | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 08:22 PM |
| 29 | The friendzone is a gift, fools.I don't know but I'm about to unsubscribe. Can't believe were discussing the benefits of the friendzone on a fucking seduction sub. Just look at this gem from the top post of the month... "Rejection is a choice YOU make about the event. If you want to decide that you are ugly, not funny enough, or not confident enough because a girl simply wasn’t interested -- that’s your choice." Guys come to this sub because they want to improve. They want to be better looking, funnier, and more confident. Ins… | /r/seduction | 22/04/15 02:00 AM |
| 2 | The friendzone is a gift, fools.Thanks. Most of the other top comments seem to agree with me. The friendzone is not a "gift" if you're trying to bang a girl. You need to re-evaluate your game, when girls you're trying to get consider you their friend. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice about picking a college.I got rejected to Virginia Tech, which was the best of both worlds. I've been accepted to other out of state schools such as Purdue and Ohio State but they all cost about the same as UofF and I prefer U of F because of the warmer weather and hotter girls. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/15 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice about picking a college.I'm planning to major in Computer Science. I've already had internships where I make $18/hour as a web dev, so I don't think finding a good pay after college should be an issue. But the thing is, a CS degree is what matters, not so much where you get it. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/15 10:38 PM |
| 7 | The friendzone is a gift, fools.She's aware of your existence and she has accepted you into her world. As a friend. You have no reason to expect a female friend to initmatley like you more than anyone else. She sees you as a friend , not as a possible sexual partner. You don't friendzone people you like, and neither would she. She's let her guard down and you get to experience her uninhibited personality. This is why trying to hit on friends is not only a waste of time, but wrong. She let her guard down because you pretended t… | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 06:48 PM |
| 5 | What was the best piece of advice you were ever given?This one should be higher. It's difficult to realize that change doesn't happen over a few hours of reading TRP. To make meaningful change, you have to be consistently working towards your goals for months, years, and even decades. Being motivated is useless if you don't have consistency and discipline. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/15 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Ways to stop anxiety and maintain stoic frame?Thanks for the detailed response. Meditation is going to be a much bigger priority from now on. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/15 04:26 AM |
| 5 | Ways to stop anxiety and maintain stoic frame?I've been trying to get into the habit of meditating, but according to my habit tracking app, I've meditated for only 32% of the days, for the last few weeks. The maximum I've meditated for is about 5 minutes (the monkey is loud), but even then I saw clear improvements in my calmness. Thanks for the inspiration. You reminded me how important meditation is, and I'll try to be more consistent with it. Could you explain what you do to meditate? Like what is you mindset when you begin? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/15 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Ways to stop anxiety and maintain stoic frame?Thanks. I'll look into it but I personally prefer building discipline than using medications (when possible). | /r/askTRP | 19/04/15 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Need text help with bar make out chickYou said to tell her that she needs to make up her mind so what about Only if she started saying that she wasn't busy. Since she is agreeing with you on her being too busy, she seems to have made up her mind. This seems like a shit test. She wants you to break first and try to re-initiate, so that she knows you want her more than she wants you. Personally, I'd either not respond or say "great". Then I'd go find another girl to smash. But, if you really want to continue the convo, you can say "Le… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/15 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Need text help with bar make out chickSounds good. If she objects, tell her that she needs to make up her mind, because you're busy. Then when she says "yes lets go", make sure you still have backup plans. Options give you power. Also you can always try radio silence (cutting off contact and waiting for her to re-initiate, forcing her to accommodate to you). | /r/askTRP | 15/04/15 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Need text help with bar make out chickLet her be the one to ask you to hangout, and then you can give her a "maybe" answer as you consider your other options. Right now, it seems like she is the one with options and you are the one that really wants a date. You need to reverse that, by making her want to hangout with you. Here's a great example of text-game with explanations. Notice how the guy is being ambiguous and keeping the girl guessing. He doesn't sound needy, which is the biggest turn-off for a girl. http://imgur.com/a/MqIUg | /r/askTRP | 15/04/15 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Advice on a girl I met.If she likes you, I doubt she would reschedule for any reason at all. And even then, you could convince/guilt her into dropping her plans and still going out with you. I suggest waiting until Friday to text her. She will likely text you by then. If she doesn't text you by Friday, just ask her if she's still down to hangout. But make sure you are the one who ends the conversation, not her. (you can say that you've got to go b/c you're hanging out with (insert girl), to plant a little jealousy int… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 03:19 AM |
| 1 | If you get a cold response when approaching, can you turn it around? Does this happen a lot in approaches?Without knowing how you look, it's hard to say whether this was because of your SMV, or because of your approach. But presuming you're an at least average looking guy, I would have done a few things differently to get better results. Me: so are you guys from here? General questions don't work as well as directed questions in my experience. Instead of talking to them all at once and saying "are you guys from here", you should direct your questions towards one girl, and say "are you from here". It… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/15 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Her heart is breakingPresuming you haven't given her any reason to think you guys would be exclusive, you shouldn't blame yourself for how she feels. It sucks that her heart is breaking but it's not your fault she is so attached to you. Just like you have personal issues that you don't force other people to deal with, her irrational attachment to you is her issue, that she needs to deal with. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/15 09:21 PM |
| 0 | Why you should stop liking pictures on social mediaLike I said it's a great tool when you are already higher SMV. With some photoshop skills, anyone can be high SMV on social media. It's an easy way to boost status if you're in HS or college, and there is no reason to avoid using FB and instagram. I don't mean you should spend hours looking though other people's lives (that's pathetic), but you should always maintain a presence, like you do in real life. I like to think of social media as an extension of regular life, and if you want to dominate… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/15 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Should I just let her be angry at me?Should I just let her be angry at me and wait till she cools down? You should stop trying to pickup girls where you work, and start focusing on moving up the corporate ladder. There are a million great places (bar, club, party, gym, library, mall, park, rave, concert) to meet hot girls, the workplace is not one of them. Just apologize to the girl and make her think you're actually sorry, and then make sure you let the boss know you took care of everything and there's no issue. Next time she disr… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/15 11:47 PM |
| 14 | Talking to insecure girls; "why you talk to me?""You're right girl, some of them are really hot" Better to say that then some blue pill nonsense putting her on a pedestal, but I think the best response would have been something like... "If I wanted them, I'd be flirting with them and not you." It shows that you're a man who goes after what he wants, and it also obviously says that you're interested in her. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/15 02:55 AM |
| 6 | I don't know what to do anymore.Turn your anger in to fuel for self improvement. Take revenge on the cunts that have brought you to this point. And you know what the best revenge is? Success. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/15 04:01 AM |
| 6 | I don't know what to do anymore.What the fuck do I do from here? Read this and this. a world where love is replaced by some fucked up ideal that the media implanted into these whores heads as they let two guys rail them (as they wonder why they can't have fucking relationships)? The media didn't "implant" some ideal of getting railed by two guys into womens heads. Most women have always desired such things. What the feminized media and culture did was teach guys like you that being a kind and respectful gentleman will get them… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/15 03:07 AM |
| -2 | Shit test, or casual misguided conversation?If you weren't interested in her than you wouldn't care about what you said to her, because she would be irrelevant. And I can't say for sure but I would have asked why she thought I was more like a "Brian". | /r/askTRP | 26/03/15 01:48 AM |
| 3 | How to manage time?Seeing that OP is a college student, I would also suggest "How to be a Straight A Student" by Cal Newport, along with Getting Things Done. The book is specifically targeted towards college students and does a great job of showing how you can get good grades and have a social life. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/15 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Crazy girl but awesome layBad idea? Yes. Terrible idea. You don't put your dick in crazy when there are millions of hot girls to fuck. Why would do you wanna be with the one that threatens being pregnant? She's clearly someone who can't handle being a plate, and will do drastic things to make you commit to her. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/15 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Where do you draw the line to being respectful vs keeping rp beliefs?I started reading some red pill and was just wondering, when do you stop doing rp to a girl or people in general and actually have to be respectful or kind? Think of being "kind" as a treat. Every once in a while, when a plate does something to impress you, you can be kind, as a sort of reward to reinforce good behavior. But this is after you have a plate that you're banging regularly. At the beginning you need to stick to the core RP principles in order to get to this point. And in general, TRP… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/15 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Can get em, but can't keep em aroundIf this is about one girl, than yes, you care too much. If you're just trying to improve your overall game and slay more pussy than good, keep learning. And no problem. Telling this to other reinforces it in my mind as well. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 09:37 PM |
| 5 | Can get em, but can't keep em aroundMade out a little. Tried to escalate more but she stopped me. No problem, right? That is a problem. She should be able to make up her mind on whether she likes you or not. Don't be the one that's always asking to go out and always trying to escalate things. Try once. If she doesn't want to, maintain frame and show how little you care. Just get up and leave. Next time she'll be the one trying to escalate things. The person who cares the least has the most power in a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 09:31 PM |
| 1 | I Fucking Hate My Rich DadLaw 38: "Think as you like but behave like others." You don't need to like him in order to pretend that you like him. Getting the real estate is more important than you expressing your hate. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 09:25 PM |
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