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depends on the girl. my body count is in the 30s and i’ve only given head to 2 girls.
/r/seduction27/05/26 08:52 AM
1

curious what your body count is
/r/seduction10/05/26 04:21 AM
19

this is my bread & butter
/r/seduction30/11/25 04:24 AM
1

The opposite is true. Approaching is easier at raves, yes, but have you actually pulled? (Taken a girl home) I’ve never actually pulled from raves because women typically go there with the intention of fun & are locked into their group. It’s harder to pull off. Women who go out clubs actually have the idea of going home with a guy in the back of their head so the possibility is out there. Same night pulls at raves = harder.
/r/seduction31/12/24 01:14 AM
1

The essence of "game" is to elevate women. Being funny elevates the state of a woman, being charismatic elevates the state of a woman. Being rich, handsome, the boss, often comes with you being in an elevated state which enables you to elevate the state of a woman. There's many ways to get an elevated state, the one preached in the pickup community is to approach many in order to break your stagnant energy and get in a more flowy, energetic state but that is not the only way there is. There's al…
/r/seduction24/12/24 01:59 PM
2

There's nuance to this. If shes acting this way cause shes uncomfortable or feeling anxious, its on you to elevate her out of this. However, if shes purposely doing it with intent to play with you or snub you, 100% mirror it & even take it up a notch to break the frame. Once her frame is broken, you should attempt to elevate her out of it
/r/seduction13/09/24 12:23 AM
23

I ask the friends for permission to dance with the girl, then I ask the girl if she wants to dance. Usually the friends are cool with it and encourage it a bit, which helps you massively. You gotta have empathy for the girl's situation. If you randomly go up and grind on a girl while her friend is in front of her, you will fail 9 times out of 10 because she doesn't want to look slutty in front of her friend or because they're hyped up from their own fun and you're coming in with some other energ…
/r/seduction04/08/17 01:13 PM
3

Seddit is only good for dipping your toes on the subject of pickup. Move on to RSD.
/r/seduction30/06/17 01:32 PM
4

Here's RSDTyler's take on it: http://i.imgur.com/rmXGqMW.png
/r/seduction10/06/16 02:19 AM
8

Here's RSDTyler's take on it: http://i.imgur.com/rmXGqMW.png
/r/seduction04/04/16 02:42 PM
171

Showed you have boundaries and are willing to enforce them. That's valuable to girls.
/r/seduction14/03/16 05:12 PM
1

This book is toxic if you aren't already in a position of power or have status.
/r/seduction17/02/16 02:54 AM
2

but I want her to get wet
/r/seduction16/02/16 03:19 AM
-1

Absolutely
/r/seduction15/02/16 02:26 PM
10

You gotta be genuinely attracted to her. You should be sporting a semi while doing it. While doing that, you gotta be focused on that alone. Your mind shouldn't be fearing rejection nor worrying about what other people are thinking.
/r/seduction15/02/16 03:21 AM
1

Status is a must
/r/seduction14/02/16 03:16 AM
-1

Looks aint shit, son. Ditch your paradigm. If you possess anything that increases the woman's survival chances, you are attractive. This means social connections, power, being present in the moment, confidence ect. Don't believe me? Stand up for a girl (or ANYBODY for that matter) and watch what happens.
/r/seduction27/01/16 06:26 PM
3

Meditate instead
/r/seduction17/01/16 03:40 PM
1

Don't try anything you doubt that will work until you get a good understanding of energy.
/r/seduction17/01/16 02:02 PM
4

Bobby, Tyler released a new frame for this subject in this video. check it out
/r/seduction17/01/16 04:31 AM
0

Doesn't sound like wife material to me
/r/seduction06/01/16 03:04 AM
-2

American here, you are right. Women try to lock down a guy asap. Anyone that old is either 1 or 2. If they are attractive and somehow single, they are number 3. Those are rare though, because theyll find a beta desperate enough to put up with her.
/r/seduction02/01/16 03:20 PM
3

One gold nugget from Neil Strauss' new book: The least comfortable girl makes the rules.
/r/seduction21/12/15 03:03 PM
1

Neither. I'm gonna go with supple anus
/r/seduction20/12/15 12:50 PM
2

Yeah, check out RSDTyler's youtube or any other RSD guy's. Tyler's vids are premium quality. Soak in the value.
/r/seduction11/12/15 06:50 PM
1

Expression vs Reaction-seeking. Which one is it?
/r/seduction11/12/15 06:49 PM
0

Nofap + Squats. /thread
/r/seduction11/12/15 06:47 PM
1

Give her fun but don't catch feelings because most girls don't stay broken up. Especially if the relationship was long term. Sleeping with her is VERY possible, don't rule it out.
/r/seduction27/11/15 03:09 PM
1

This isn't your problem so don't make it yours. Just proceed as usual and calibrate accordingly, but don't bend over backwards to accommodate her.
/r/seduction27/11/15 03:08 PM
1

Daily meditation
/r/seduction27/11/15 03:06 PM
1

Any touching done consciously will be perceived as creepy. Let go & let it flow out of you. Good touching should be done on "autopilot" without thinking about doing it first.
/r/seduction27/11/15 03:05 PM
1

I was so miserable that I decided that it would never happen again. In few years, I took salsa lessons (became good), red a lot, went on seddit, learned model, improved my style, my haircut, got a good job, did a lot of stuffs. I became way more alfa, way less insecure You're still insecure. All of those things are for nothing if the girl chooses not to be impressed by them or even care. Learn about self-esteem & authenticity. & girls are always trying to settle down and find a hubby because the…
/r/seduction27/11/15 03:01 PM
1

Research ways to raise serotonin. Get you some supplements from Amazon. Scratch that. Eat a bowl of yogurt daily, and if that helps you, then do as I recommended in the first line.
/r/seduction27/11/15 02:59 PM
2

I'm three dates in and I have no idea how this girl wants to proceed. I stopped reading right there. You are supposed to lead and set up the context for the girl to react to. Girls will always be indecisive because they don't have a firm plan for the future. They follow THE MAN and play supportive role in wherever hes going. So lead it to where you want it and if the girl is cool with it, she will allow it. Don't wait there sitting on your hands waiting for the girl to step up and get things goi…
/r/seduction27/11/15 02:53 PM
1

New friends should come to you on autopilot because of your new swag and your old ones should be naturally phased out. If this isn't happening already, you deserve your current friends. Don't delude yourself.
/r/seduction27/11/15 02:48 PM
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The program by RSDJeffy
/r/seduction14/11/15 11:36 AM
2

Face as many challenges in life as possible so that lil cute 22 year olds don't phase you and neither do their punk frat bros. aka boss up
/r/seduction20/09/15 12:04 AM
-1

Whether you choose A or B depends on how much you've invested in the relationship
/r/seduction19/09/15 10:23 PM
12

If you are interested and engaged in what you two are doing, she will be too. if you are bored she will be bored too
/r/seduction19/09/15 05:54 PM
1

You're gonna get all types of suggestions in this thread and I know you won't wanna try mine, but please try it if all else fails. MEDITATION <-- I cured my own by meditating 20 minutes a day the 2 people that actually listened got rid of theirs as well. It's because meditation re-connects to you to self-esteem. You are getting your confidence from "ego" (logical reasons to feel confident and good about yourself) and it's not going well for you, so switch over to "self-esteem" (being confident a…
/r/seduction16/09/15 04:52 AM
1

Meditation + focus way more on whatever it was you used to do before you met this girl
/r/seduction16/09/15 04:38 AM
1

Lol you just throw yourself in the situation without thinking about it. It's that simple. You "just do it" as people say.
/r/seduction16/09/15 04:37 AM
1

Depends who you're asking. and their interpretation is no better than yours.
/r/seduction16/09/15 04:30 AM
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Set out to accomplish something. Anything. You will align with other people aiming for the same objective. That's how you get friends ^ and when you are going on a journey, or striving towards a goal, a girl will have an open space as a cheerleader, supporter, ect (aka her NATURAL role) and if you can manage to reach a high level at whatever it is you are gonna try to master, you will become a leader and someone whom others look up to in that particular area. So yeah. Just DO SOMETHING
/r/seduction16/08/15 01:23 AM
2

A girl will be whatever it is you want her to be. (if you are of value)
/r/seduction09/06/15 06:24 PM
1

Gather resources & power
/r/seduction08/06/15 05:40 PM
3

start escalating in public then find a bathroom
/r/seduction08/06/15 02:20 PM
1

Yeah it's from fear of other men coming and bashing your head in. It's also why we feel stifled in unfamiliar environments and suppress our charisma.
/r/seduction03/06/15 04:22 PM
1

I think it would only be worth it if you have specific issues you couldn't find the answer to on your own. If you just show up and tell them to fix you, they won't know what to fix and give you basic generic bs that you probably already know
/r/seduction02/06/15 07:52 PM
1

Ok so you haven't conquered your own insecurities while some on here have. What's so hard to get?
/r/seduction02/06/15 12:12 PM
21

Clap LOUD or let out a scream. You gotta be loud enough to where everyone hears you. Once your brain knows that no one is gonna fuck with you it will grant you access to state
/r/seduction01/06/15 06:05 PM
1

do you do kino for the sake of doing kino or are you actually turned on when you do it?
/r/seduction29/05/15 01:10 AM
2

lol why are you asking this. if you can lead a company you can get a girl in bed. trust yourself
/r/seduction29/05/15 12:54 AM
45

The dude got banned from 2 countries and had to justify himself live on CNN. Give him a break
/r/seduction22/05/15 01:50 AM
0

gotta sugar coat everything in this sub
/r/seduction22/05/15 01:37 AM
0

stop masturbating & start meditating
/r/seduction21/05/15 02:32 PM
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lol 30 minutes in and you're down-voted already. this subreddit is fully of pussies
/r/seduction17/05/15 10:10 AM
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You can't run from this, you either face it now or in 20 years when you've reached rock bottom. But you will have to face it. and then after you face this problem there will be an even scarier problem to face. Such is life
/r/seduction17/05/15 10:08 AM
2

can someone explain the psychological effect this is having on the girls? its fun for them
/r/seduction15/05/15 12:40 PM
1

it's because you're placing extra value on them and that kinda stifles you a bit
/r/seduction13/05/15 05:46 PM
1

It's exactly what you think I mean. I didn't pull this out my ass either, RSDJulien (Julien Blanc) suggested it in his program, PIMP, as one of his ways to beat LMR.
/r/seduction13/05/15 12:02 AM
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Escalate to try to get her horny and pull away before she tells you to stop. Keep doing that until shes as turned on as you are. if that doesn't get you anywhere, just turn away and start masturbating. She will attempt to be a part of that in subtle ways (trying not to try). Also keep in mind that if you get as far as fingering her, or her hands being on your dick you gotta go all the way that same night she wont give you another chance without feeling like a slut
/r/seduction12/05/15 09:10 PM
1

This has been bothering me a lot because it's so opposite of what I was taught was right. Yeah, by bullshit media & marketing. it's your life, you set the rules for whats right and wrong. Just face whatever consequences come of it
/r/seduction12/05/15 03:57 PM
1

TD talks about it in one of his old articles: https://www.scribd.com/doc/34607602/Tyler-Durden-10-Alpha-Behaviours-For-Breakbeat-Important#scribd
/r/seduction12/05/15 03:34 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6OA8OiStw88
/r/seduction12/05/15 03:26 PM
5

Careful with these girls man, you are just asking for trouble. These are the type of girls that will cheat on you and give you the most drama out of them all. It's as if your low self-esteem subconsciously gives you the shitty life you feel you deserve
/r/seduction12/05/15 07:32 AM
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This OP. Plus if shes interested in you and she really has a boyfriend, she won't tell you about him
/r/seduction10/05/15 11:40 AM
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It's because you don't know who you are. When you don't know where you stand, other's peoples reactions towards you matter because they could possibly take away from your self-image
/r/seduction10/05/15 06:19 AM
1

I think this is harmless. You could switch it up on her and talk over the phone if you'd like
/r/seduction09/05/15 11:07 AM
3

it's not your looks, its your vibe. If you were uncomfortable, you'll make others feel uncomfortable and naturally repel them
/r/seduction08/05/15 05:56 PM
2

You shouldn't worry about physical attractive-ness much. Try to be the guy that can take on the world without fear instead. or something that just came to me now: To find out if youre attractive ask yourself this: Who do you turn to when you're in way over your head? If it's anyone other than yourself, you're still a boy and not "sex-worthy"
/r/seduction08/05/15 10:45 AM
0

Tyler's Secrets To Getting Back In The Game At An Elite Level After Time Off Real Social Dynamics - How To Get Back In The Game
/r/seduction07/05/15 07:59 AM
-2

Lol you're really gonna get mad because I assumed you're here to learn how to fuck hot sluts? You need to take yourself over to r/relationships
/r/seduction05/05/15 10:33 PM
-10

Would you care if you had 10 other women. Would you care if you already had a gf. Would you care if you had people hitting you up left n right.
/r/seduction05/05/15 05:30 PM
-8

tryhards
/r/seduction05/05/15 05:09 PM
0

Focus on raising your social status instead
/r/seduction05/05/15 01:04 PM
-13

Same
/r/seduction05/05/15 01:04 PM
5

I get what you mean by "king" but he really dropped the ball with pick up. He never took it anywhere when he had to chance and other PUAs capitalized on it (eben peagan, rsd). Hes a regular guy, he might do the odd program here and there but it's nothing noteworthy. The momentum from VHI and The Game only lasts so long and Mystery never evolved past the Mystery Method
/r/seduction04/05/15 09:04 AM
15

Look him up on fb. (Erik Von Makevich?) Last I checked he was still being a drama queen
/r/seduction04/05/15 05:46 AM
1

Awesome. TD from RSD has endorsed this book before
/r/seduction03/05/15 02:39 PM
2

http://www.rsdnation.com/forums/inner-circle/usa-los-angeles
/r/seduction03/05/15 03:36 AM
1

There must "player" types in your area, just copy whatever they do
/r/seduction03/05/15 01:45 AM
1

It feels like all this seduction stuff is based off selecting the girl based on looks and then getting to know the girl. I think what a person has to say and how they act is what makes them attractive. honestly, as long as they are not ugly I don't really care. I have a feeling your entire beliefs are taken from a female. They're not your own, you heard your girl-friend talk about how she judges guys and copied her unconsciously like the golem you are
/r/seduction02/05/15 03:17 PM
1

She called me over and started asking about my dog, then introduced herself. Just made some small talk and she said she's seen me around the area a few times (I didn't even know she was my neighbor). she established the whole dynamic, shes gonna be leading here. Go stand outside and look pretty
/r/seduction02/05/15 03:14 PM
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Here's how I view GOD: We are spirits here sent to conquer our fears & move towards love. The more you fulfill those missions, the more you evolve. GOD as the mainstream knows it, was merely a highly evolved spirit. We either evolve and move closer to "GOD level" in this lifetime, or we stagnate and force our spirit/soul to evolve once its someone else. Or to make this fun and sum it up, you are here to climb the 33 degrees of the Illuminati whether it takes you this lifetime or 200 of them.
/r/seduction02/05/15 03:11 PM
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1) Once you've passed the general exchanges, where can you jump in and add elements that drive the convo more flirtatiously? invert this and set up a flirty/sexual frame right off the bat and once that's out the way you can have your general chit chat. 2) When in this situation, how do you ask a girl back to your place when it's at a different place? If you have to ask about this I wouldn't try going for it. When a convo is going good you hit "state" and everything falls into place. If you don't…
/r/seduction02/05/15 02:59 PM
1

Why does it all feel like deception? Because for you it's deception. "Pick up" is not something you do to mask the shitty person that you currently are, but it's a whole new lifestyle shift that will turn you into a desirable person with time & persistence. The person that you currently are would probably have to lie & deceive others into getting laid, but nothing is stopping you from evolving other than self-pity & laziness. Take action
/r/seduction02/05/15 02:54 PM
1

you just moderate your breathing for 20 minutes. If you notice yourself thinking about anything, get back to breathing manually. That's it man, set a timer for 20 mins and do that. It's harder than it sounds but extremely potent
/r/seduction02/05/15 02:40 PM
1

Recommend you go without the app and breathe manually instead. Do it for 20 minutes daily. This is hard
/r/seduction02/05/15 12:47 PM
1

Fucking meditate
/r/seduction02/05/15 11:31 AM
1

You gotta love yourself so much that it infects other people and it spreads. I really recommend you watch the blueprint decoded
/r/seduction12/04/15 06:58 AM
1

Look up serial killers on google images It's like they got this dead look in their eyes, where there's nothing there. You got something similar to that when you're present in the moment, because you're in a zone where morals don't exist. If you've ever glanced at someone and looked down on autopilot (without thinking about it) they were probably present in the moment
/r/seduction12/04/15 12:13 AM
1

Start meditating to be present in the moment. Once you're present in the moment you get shark eyes and I don't give a fuck how cute you look, you'll be one intimidating motherfucker.
/r/seduction11/04/15 07:53 AM
0

Maybe he really is just a mere bitchboy. They get laid too tho. The world will start to make sense again when she gets bored and he has the rug pulled out from under him
/r/seduction01/04/15 12:56 PM
-1

that's the point
/r/seduction26/03/15 08:14 PM
0

lol it's actually a response that could work if you're advanced enough to get away with it. You pass the shit-test + establishes new frame + sub-communicates being unstifled + communicates you can't be boxed in. You just gotta say it with the right energy and you gotta trust yourself enough to hold the frame
/r/seduction26/03/15 07:58 PM
12

LOL
/r/seduction21/03/15 11:08 AM
1

You need RSD
/r/seduction10/03/15 09:35 AM
2

2 suggestions: Grow a beard & start meditating. The beard will make you look older & the meditation make you present in the moment, which will give you "shark eyes". I have the same problem and I know you don't like hearing what I told you because I didn't. People will make these bullshit assumptions about who you are and use those assumptions to filter everything you say/do. You look like JOE from BLUES CLUES.
/r/seduction08/03/15 03:31 PM
0

You probably look like someone who would be a "nice-guy" so they frame their entire experience with you through that assumption. Change your appearance and the way you carry yourself
/r/seduction08/03/15 02:48 PM
0

Would be better just to go ahead and link them to rsdnation.com. Everything that gets talked about on this subreddit is old technology and newbie stuff
/r/seduction03/03/15 11:25 AM
1

are you deleting this any time soon?
/r/seduction26/02/15 06:01 AM
3

Alt.fastseduction archive
/r/seduction23/02/15 04:03 AM
2

^ toxic post revealing the insecurity of the poster. A disempowering perception of things.
/r/seduction22/02/15 01:34 PM
1

What would I say if was in your position? "Thanks." Any emotional reaction is bad.
/r/seduction22/02/15 01:29 PM
20

I lold hard
/r/seduction21/02/15 09:21 AM
1

He's been meditating since 2005 if not longer. He's not an authority on meditation is what he means
/r/seduction20/02/15 07:27 PM
0

Watch RSDTyler's video on it You only need to watch until you understand how to do it. Tyler likes to ramble.
/r/seduction20/02/15 05:22 AM
6

Yes you'll get all that & more. It's very rewarding, just never skip a day
/r/seduction19/02/15 04:44 AM
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You gotta stick with it for a few weeks before you see noticeable positives but they are waiting for you. Meditation is fucking potent
/r/seduction19/02/15 04:36 AM
5

the thing that imports the most
/r/seduction16/02/15 07:37 PM
1

They mean close to nothing. If you want proof go to a club
/r/seduction08/02/15 10:52 AM
1

You're a woman with a dick. You're trying to join her reality, shaping yourself and reacting to her values in hopes that she takes you along for the ride. aka the feminine role
/r/seduction08/02/15 10:50 AM
1

It's inevitable for you. Any advice given in this thread will cause you to micro-manage your behavior around her and that alone sub-communicates you seek approval.
/r/seduction08/02/15 10:45 AM
1

Give an illogical response/shrug her off. If you admit you haven't had sex in a while, she might form a lesser opinion of you. If you qualify yourself to her by proving you aren't a player to her, she will lose attraction. The girl: "yay, I win :/"
/r/seduction08/02/15 10:43 AM
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Because you don't know who you are. When you don't know who you are, another person can dictate how you feel about yourself. When another person can change the way you feel about yourself, you will get shy/nervous because you don't want them to possibly take away from your self-image.
/r/seduction08/02/15 10:39 AM
3

Haha she made you qualify yourself to her. Think of it as her trying to contain you in a box. Any logical or direct response to her statement = you being confined in the box she put you in. Anything that shows you didn't take her seriously would've been good because she couldn't trap you. The "yeah but I don't see anything I like" response would have been perfect because she couldn't trap you + you subtly tease her at the same time
/r/seduction06/01/15 01:38 PM
3

They don't give a fuck about you, but a girl will always desire to be liked by everyone. So she'll text you back, because she doesn't want you pissed off at her.
/r/seduction25/12/14 02:22 PM
3

Actions. If she's letting you take it further, don't worry about anything, you're winning. The friend of the girl doesn't like you though. Women are socially adaptable and will tell you whatever it is that you wanna hear. In her friends case it was something negative about you. In your case it was that everything about the date was good. Which one is real? Whichever one you decide it is.
/r/seduction13/12/14 12:08 PM
2

I say fucking go for it. As a man, you can eclipse any blemishes on your reputation with the value you provide to others. If you're worthless don't try anything outrageous.
/r/seduction13/10/14 11:43 PM
1

Do 10-20 minutes of meditation a day if you want to stay completely calm during extreme levels of pressure. Watch how Tyler stays completely calm during this Meditation gets you there
/r/seduction11/10/14 08:16 PM
1

By making yourself stronger (physically,mentally,emotionally) or by being useful (providing massive value) in your environment. Fear of disapproval is evolutionary & something we all have to protect us from getting kicked out of the tribe. The more you depend on others for safety, the more fear you have. This is why girls want EVERYBODY to like them & can't stand having someone pissed off at them. They depend on society for their own safety since they aren't strong enough to do it themselves. Is…
/r/seduction11/10/14 12:53 PM
2

Start meditating to solve your issue
/r/seduction21/08/14 10:17 PM
1

Go in there with the intention of GIVING. You set the context, the rhythm, everything. You are there to share something and if they want to contribute, good. But they shouldn't have to. You cannot go wrong as long as they aren't occupied with something because you are giving value. You are not interrogating or trying to take any reaction out of them. You are just giving them an experience. Don't seek a technique on how to actually talk to the person, instead seek out experiences to SHARE with pe…
/r/seduction09/08/14 06:40 PM
3

Very related: Julien's emotional spike anatomy
/r/seduction09/08/14 01:55 AM
1

It's hard to go wrong when you're completely relaxed
/r/seduction02/08/14 12:46 PM
-1

Lead by being relaxed yourself. They give themselves permission to relax after seeing you
/r/seduction30/07/14 08:54 PM
1

Search for the PDF and read the first few pages. The author himself gives a brief summary on all his chapters
/r/seduction29/07/14 09:55 PM
2

Better title: What separates you from the men around you?
/r/seduction29/07/14 09:01 PM
1

I have to do everything myself (kino escalation, kiss, sex)? that's your responsibility as a MAN. Any girl that does that for you thinks you're a chump that can't do it himself
/r/seduction28/07/14 12:14 AM
2

all the RSD guys including Todd have tons of free videos online, and I would highly encourage you to suck the value out of all them before taking a paid program.
/r/seduction27/07/14 07:56 PM
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I get this too. This is how I rationalize my way out of it: Sex is no big deal to them, and it isn't the first time they've been in this dilemma and it won't be the last. Giving in and asking her out would hurt her more than what you are doing now. It will be mostly out of pity and the whole relationship will feel yucky, and leave a bad aftertaste. They get sex without consequences. I don't judge. I don't tell. It's a win win. Girls wanna be fucked but have to hold back because of the social con…
/r/seduction27/07/14 01:24 AM
8

perfect video for you
/r/seduction26/07/14 02:46 AM
1

Lift weights/gain weight. grow a beard
/r/seduction25/07/14 09:29 PM
3

Show sexual intent then withdraw it
/r/seduction22/07/14 10:48 PM
2

The solution is to raise your value
/r/seduction21/07/14 02:46 PM
1

You choose a day and let her react to it
/r/seduction21/07/14 12:29 AM
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By building your life & interests to the point where you feel confident in sharing it. You feel good talking about it. You feel good inviting her into it. When you have that, you are GIVING VALUE instead of taking it by not contributing enough.
/r/seduction20/07/14 06:02 PM
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But, I am not sure if that is really what I am suppose to be doing. I don't know how I am suppose to structure things. I sort of suggest we eat dinner (although I really and truly hate dinner dates, would rather do something else besides trying to talk to a new person while trying to eat at the same time). It's whatever you want it to be. It's something out of nothing. It's your world, your reality, the girl is visiting. You define it. You create it. If she loves it, she'll keep coming back for …
/r/seduction20/07/14 05:51 PM
2

Why bend to them at all? Don't bend and keep doing you. The girls that are into your kind of personality will LOVE you. The ones that like you but don't like the goofy part of you will have to accept it. It is what it is. Make them bend to you, don't bend to them. Own it. It is what it is If you still insist on changing, you have to go all the way. Ditch your goofy hobbies, ask yourself what would Ryan Gosling spend his day doing and then go do it. Act is if you were him. Change at a CORE level.…
/r/seduction20/07/14 05:41 PM
1

sex before the first date
/r/seduction20/07/14 03:46 PM
1

It's only creepy once you start doubting yourself. The last girl I fucked told me i was so weird and so creepy but added on "in a good way" after we got done fucking pretty sure she liked me though
/r/seduction20/07/14 12:10 AM
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Women are fluid & adaptable to whatever frame you impose on them. quick examples: if you go in expecting a bad response, they will grant it to you if you go in expecting a positive one, they will grant you that too if you expect them to be good girls and hold back on sex, they will. if you expect them to have sex soon because its no big deal, they will.
/r/seduction19/07/14 02:09 AM
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Because you were trying to join their party when they're supposed to join yours. I'm guessing you did this: they told you they liked you you liked them too, so you made a move your move was to try to be someone they would love you would bend to their likes & interests that's completely WRONG because shes in the drivers seat and girls don't want that responsibility. You are supposed to put something out there(your life, personality, value), and if they like it, they'll go along for the ride and b…
/r/seduction19/07/14 02:06 AM
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Women will be whatever you want them to be. (if you are clear in your intentions) Your negative beliefs turn into self-fulfilling prophecies. The first one to doubt themselves loses. Thinking is bad Trust in yourself & your own judgement is paramount Value trumps looks Replaced kino with being turned on instead (sexual state) Carry yourself in a way where the world is your playground. You do what you want. Be as loud as you want. Say what you want. With complete disregard to the consequences. In…
/r/seduction19/07/14 01:57 AM
1

I troll them
/r/seduction15/07/14 08:51 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=rsdjulien+infield
/r/seduction15/07/14 12:59 AM
1

lol
/r/seduction08/07/14 09:08 PM
1

Get a job that requires excellent social skills
/r/seduction07/07/14 10:05 AM
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Promote a healthy immune system instead
/r/seduction06/07/14 01:00 AM
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youtube.com/rsdtyler youtube.com/rsdjulien
/r/seduction06/07/14 12:57 AM
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Watch these two vids: 1,2
/r/seduction06/07/14 12:46 AM
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You don't give them anything real, you just kind of shrug them off. "I lost them" would work
/r/seduction05/07/14 08:15 PM
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"Take so much action that it turns off that thinking part of your brain" - RSDJulien Build momentum by talking to everybody
/r/seduction05/07/14 06:45 PM
1

The way you feel projects in your body language. Fix your insecurities and find a way to feel good all the time and your problem will go away.
/r/seduction05/07/14 06:44 PM
1

Shared interests & mutual benefit from the friendship. If you guys enjoy doing something together and you have something to offer that benefits them, you are golden.
/r/seduction05/07/14 06:42 PM
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You have to regard yourself as more important than anybody else. You're the star, they're the extras in your movie. internalize this, and eye contact becomes effortless. If you try to do eye contact as a technique it will come across as weird or too intense
/r/seduction05/07/14 06:37 PM
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Freedom from outcome
/r/seduction05/07/14 06:26 PM
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They're putting you in a position where you are qualifying yourself to them, and you are buying into their values. You need to fully believe 100% that there is nothing wrong with being out alone and that they're fucking weird for asking shit like that.
/r/seduction05/07/14 06:25 PM
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How not to give a fuck about the outcome? You focus on the process instead of the result. You push forward but it's okay if you don't get the result. Your new frame: Each interaction is a stepping stone or a lesson towards getting the result you want. You're failing now so that you learn what NOT to do in the future. It's fail now so that I can't fail later
/r/seduction05/07/14 06:21 PM
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26 y/o here. My biggest problem is that I just like girls based on physical appearance, I will love to give a bigger value to the way a girl think, to her dreams, to the connection that we make... but I seen to focus too hard on physical factors and once I like a girl I get to meet here but it's too late I'm too bias. Girls are PROUD of their appearance and they KNOW it's the main reason why guys like them. Don't try to stand out by trying to build a special connection tailored to her interests …
/r/seduction05/07/14 06:01 PM
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I feel like talking to her on there isn't going to do much Then don't. Stay on her radar for the 2 months but don't try to escalate it until you can see her in person. Use the 2 months to build yourself
/r/seduction05/07/14 05:56 PM
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Pickup for a woman = the following: A diet plan/gym daily A good understanding on how to put on makeup Feminine mannerisms There's no such thing as an ugly woman, just a lazy one & for those that want to be proactive and manipulate the process like we do, you can, but you won't end up with the man you want. The type of man that most women are after CAN NOT be picked if the woman is leading. The ones that CAN be picked up will frustrate the fuck out of you because you'll be stuck leading the whol…
/r/seduction04/07/14 09:51 PM
1

Butthurt chode
/r/seduction03/07/14 11:14 AM
1

Sounds like a mainstream dating advice book. You won't find anything juicy or worthwhile in it. I recommend going to rsdnation and immersing yourself in their content. Don't try learning tricks or techniques, instead try to gain the understanding somebody that's good with girls has of the game
/r/seduction03/07/14 01:48 AM
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I bet a woman wrote this garbage (kidding) This is an interesting viewpoint because we learn through pickup that all of that doesn't matter to get sex. Now we come full circle and attempt to win her heart yet again. Why would you want it though? Pickup theory says value trumps all, and it does. The best man always wins. You should instead have your focus on maintaining that position instead of trying to "undo the lock" on her heart which sounds like a feminine role anyway. Women are fluid and ad…
/r/seduction02/07/14 01:29 AM
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It means you GIVE without fearing about it not being reciprocated or appreciated. GIVING can be love, a greeting, sexual intent, ect. When you GIVE and you are expecting an outcome or you are afraid of being rejected, you will do it half-hearted and it won't be as sincere, or people will sense that you are stretching yourself. It's like when you give a big tip, and you really can't afford to. IT SHOWS.
/r/seduction29/06/14 07:28 PM
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When somebody can benefit you in someway it's VERY hard for them NOT to be charismatic. Yeah it's the status, but think of it more as the VALUE an alliance with him could have in your life.
/r/seduction29/06/14 03:35 PM
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Add something that appeals to girls to your current activities with your boys or start something new that appeals to girls. Draw them in. Don't go and try to infiltrate a group of girls you vermin (kidding) but yeah, start your own party, don't try to join theirs.
/r/seduction26/06/14 01:54 AM
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I've had a really pretty girl CRYING over me and lying about being pregnant so I could stay with her. (She had lots of guys hitting on her constantly) and I've had a girl whom I was a bit ashamed to take home and have my parents see her completely snub me and not give a fuck about the break up. It's not about the support system, or how many options we have, but it's about who had higher expectations about the relationship.
/r/seduction25/06/14 02:33 AM
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RSD covers vulnerability with "clarity of intent+being purposeful." You can't do any of the two without being vulnerable, and when you are being vulnerable you CAN'T avoid doing those two things. RSD really is the bees knees... it goes further than Models. Also, it's CLEAR that Julien is MARKETED as a psychopathic asshole because a lot of people that are into PUA are into that style. Different instructors teaching in different ways. Your post should be titled "Something about RSDJulien just rubs…
/r/seduction24/06/14 12:04 AM
1

Sounds like other people are dictating who you are and what you believe about yourself. Which means you aren't alpha. Read this. Maybe something will click.
/r/seduction21/06/14 04:16 PM
1

This is from Gunwitch Method, I think it's what you're looking for: Section 10: Sexual state broken down. Sexual state is THE most important thing you will learn from this guide. It is THE mind state you will be using to deal with women you want to sleep with. It is most likely the mind state you’ve had every time you ever sexed a woman in the past, at least as soon as the point came when you KNEW it was gonna happen. There is a certain “walks like a duck acts like a duck, must be a duck” dynami…
/r/seduction18/06/14 09:55 PM
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Because: nobody gives a shit about anything you do unless they benefit from it or it's a threat to them. when you try to impress anyone you come across as low status or manipulative. you can never win somebody else's game. They'll always be number one. If you beat them or outshine them they will rationalize a way to feel above you. nobody keeps track of your fuck ups. Only you do. The faster you make the mistakes, the faster you reach a point where you know how to avoid fucking up. nobody knows …
/r/seduction16/06/14 02:50 AM
4

Yes yes. Is he alpha because he got the tattoo? Or did he get a tattoo because he's alpha?
/r/seduction16/06/14 02:09 AM
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Say yes then tell her a wrong name
/r/seduction08/06/14 02:54 PM
1

Let's put it this way... you can "game" an intelligent girl all the way to your bedroom if you have no idea about what kind of status/intellect she has. But if you go in there knowing shes high status/intelligent then you will fuck up. Conclusion: By worrying about this kind of stuff you only make it harder than it needs to be. You are putting her up in a pedestal and setting yourself up to fail.
/r/seduction24/05/14 10:56 PM
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YouTube.com/rsdtyler Get his video of beta male shaming
/r/seduction18/05/14 06:24 PM
2

It will always be relevant
/r/seduction14/05/14 09:03 PM
2

Because we are able to control or behavior and value, thus we are able to control what category we are in
/r/seduction14/05/14 09:00 PM
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Calm down Julien
/r/seduction09/05/14 01:09 AM
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I'm still against it. And if you haven't even fucked her yet then I'm even more against it. I'm very bought in into the idea of sex before any money spent on a girl (dates,flowers are a REWARD) The whole "flowers and chocolates" thing only works when you're so out of her league that she doesn't believe you really like her, and the flowers are supposed to make her believe she's special because you don't buy flowers for anybody else. If it comes from a regular chode it is perceived as an attempt t…
/r/seduction09/05/14 01:07 AM
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She should adapt or accept. If she fails to do one of those then move on
/r/seduction08/05/14 10:41 PM
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You're still winning bro, don't doubt yourself now. She's still dating the fucking boss, and unless she has told you anything about spending more time with her, then don't stress it. She gets it. You have to work. That's your role as THE MAN. Back in the caveman days if you decided to stop hunting to spend more time with your girl it meant death. Stop doubting yourself, you're still winning
/r/seduction08/05/14 09:37 PM
1

You only want to do the cliche movie thing when the girl might have trouble believing a guy like you actually likes her. Only do it if you're a fucking boss. If you're gonna do it as some way to advance or win brownie-points, then FUCK NO you shouldn't do it
/r/seduction08/05/14 09:30 PM
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He just released a new freetour video that's perfect for you http://www.rsdnation.com/tyler/blog/2-new-vids-chicago-free-tour-tyler-max-go-club-makeouts
/r/seduction08/05/14 11:34 AM
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What I'm really interested to know what was going on in her head/ the social dynamics here. If you tolerate disrespect from her, you'll tolerate disrespect from anyone. If she can step all over you, so can everybody else. With success comes consequences that you may not be equipped to handle right now. Let's say you make her your gf. How would you handle another guy trying to fuck your hot gf? (It will happen) How would you handle another guy trying to tool you in front of your gf? What if a guy…
/r/seduction08/05/14 10:06 AM
2

Strongly urge you to become an rsdnation regular (real social dynamics). Watch this video http://www.rsdnation.com/tyler/blog/tylers-secret-instantly-boosting-masculine-energy-10x-infield I want you to pay attention to the "grounding" part of his GPF concept. Stick with RSD. They'll turn you into a fucking boss.
/r/seduction08/05/14 03:16 AM
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Even you realize those traits are pathetic. It's ok to be how you are and feel how you feel... Just don't expect to get those kind of girls. She doesn't want guys with those kind of traits and you don't really wanna deal with those girls either. You guys don't mix. That's the end of it. If you want her, toughen up. If you don't wanna toughen up, find a nicer girl.
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:50 AM
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It's a screening mechanism. All the pussies get weeded out
/r/seduction08/05/14 01:42 AM
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To answer your question directly, what you talk about does not matter to her. Talk about what you want to talk about. If you're into it, she's into it. If you feel bored of the convo, she feels bored of the convo. If your girl had a female version of seddit she would post the exact same thing you just posted. The majority of girls are empty canvasses willing to be filled by whatever YOU like. They are fluid and adaptable, easily influenced by a man who's sure about himself. If you let HER dictat…
/r/seduction06/05/14 03:12 AM
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Not important. Don't aim to match and don't adjust, instead aim to envelop. When you get really good at this shit you will find that girls take on YOUR values and start liking everything you like. Also: if you start liking something they like purely because they like it then they lose respect for you because you are taking on her role instead of leading.
/r/seduction06/05/14 03:00 AM
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Talk at her with stuff you are passionate about or whatever you feel like saying. It's only boring when you think it's boring. If you're having fun she's having fun. Every now and then ask her questions about herself and give your full attention and really listen. Then go back to talking at her. Remember, lower your standards about what should come out of your mouth. If you have to think you are doing it wrong
/r/seduction06/05/14 01:33 AM
1

Buyers remorse? But nah. I think the issue here is that your other co-workers are going around saying they saw your girl go home drunk with you. What comes to mind with this situation? It sounds like you took advantage of her. (You didn't but it's assumed) Do you think your girl is gonna own up to what she did? Fuck no. It's easier to rationalize the whole thing as "I was drunk, i didn't know what I was doing" so she's going along with the "he took advantage of me" thing because she doesn't want…
/r/seduction06/05/14 01:23 AM
1

Yeah I get it. But if you are okay with all of that, what exactly is stopping you from taking action? Why not do it? Because it's okay not to?
/r/seduction05/05/14 05:12 PM
1

You need social proof because high schoolers don't trust their own decisions yet so they'll look to others to know if they should fuck you or not.
/r/seduction05/05/14 04:03 PM
0

We get feedback through action. We learn in which areas we need improvement in. If you aren't testing yourself you'll be one of those guys that THINKS they're good with girls even though they've only fucked the girls that left themselves wide open for them.
/r/seduction05/05/14 04:00 PM
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Good job! (Also it wasn't funny, she just didn't know how to react and chose "this is funny" as the most appropriate one)
/r/seduction05/05/14 12:57 PM
2

Watch this video. http://youtube.com/watch?v=UrR80rlcfA0 It does a great job at explaining the importance of a gradual and steady climb to the top vs a meteoric rise
/r/seduction05/05/14 12:05 PM
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It depends. If you're a newbie, right now it means that you should NOT practice in a place where you have to be frequently because you'll become "that guy" (creep) If you're advanced then it means you shouldn't leave a "trail of destruction" with all the girls you mess around with. They'll cockblock you and you'll become "that guy" (takes advantage of girls) It takes a real asshole to earn number 2 though. Ideally, you do want to become "that guy" that's fucked most of the girls in that environm…
/r/seduction05/05/14 03:14 AM
2

It's a process. You don't really wanna wake up successful though, trust me. Without the proper paradigms and emotional maturity, success can literally drive you CRAZY
/r/seduction05/05/14 02:27 AM
3

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/492248/forum You need to be aiming at fucking her before thinking about a date. If you take her out on a date she will put you in the "provider" role and start making you EARN whatever little sex you get. She doesn't put you in this role proactively, it's a reaction to the frame(or lack of) you are setting YOURSELF
/r/seduction05/05/14 02:25 AM
1

trying not to stick out. You're still reacting to them.
/r/seduction05/05/14 12:54 AM
2

If it's coming from a heathy place (doing it because it's just you. It's self-expression) you won't have any problems. You'll get compliments. [if it was this, this question wouldn't exist] But if you do it for the compliments or for any sort of reaction you'll be coming off as "trying to impress" and come across some resistance.(people giving you shit for it) When you don't genuinely give a fuck about approval or reactions you'll get sick of all the compliments and APPROVAL from others you'll g…
/r/seduction05/05/14 12:26 AM
3

I think you need to trust yourself more. If she was at your house, in your BED, she was very open to it. You just didn't lead well. You were permission seeking. (You do something, then look at her to see if it's ok asif she knows what the fuck is going on) Girls and people In general are malleable and will go with the flow if the person leading them is MORE CERTAIN in that situation than they are. To have a very high level of certainty requires massive self-trust so that you aren't constantly ch…
/r/seduction04/05/14 11:41 PM
2

Watch a few of his vids and judge for yourself. I personally think that Tyler & RSD are the ones that can help you the most with Pick-up & self-improvement. There is no equivalent.
/r/seduction04/05/14 10:39 PM
3

When somebody tells you that you deserve better than them, you better believe them. They'll keep messing up or causing you problems and leave you feeling confused because it makes no sense. Don't try to convince her that she's good enough. Trust me. It's like if the hottest girl in town decided to have a crush on one of the town nerds. The nerd will believe it's some sort of trick and if it's not that, then he's always gonna be doubting himself and full of terror about another "more-deserving" g…
/r/seduction04/05/14 07:19 PM
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I used to be such a people-pleaser... To The point where I felt bad when I won because it meant the other guy would resent me. success in general means you'll have to be imposing... Something I used to hate being and you probably do too. Good luck and remember that other people's feelings ARE NOT your responsibility
/r/seduction04/05/14 05:49 PM
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Internalize this: it's ok to piss off people. It's natural to have a few people disliking you or even hating you. It's okay for other people to lose in order for you to gain. You think you want success with women but you really don't. With that success comes status and with status comes jealousy from other people. Are you sure you even wanna deal with that? Can you handle people blowing your mistakes out of proportion and misinterpreting anything and everything you do? Are you really ready for t…
/r/seduction04/05/14 05:31 PM
6

Strongly urge you to learn from real social dynamics. For somebody who's aim is to improve themselves, there is no better product.
/r/seduction04/05/14 02:02 PM
1

Read up on gunwitch method+ what puacurveball said
/r/seduction04/05/14 12:14 PM
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Don't overthink it. It's simple. If she's laying with you in bed and you try to escalate, she will tell you to stop. But if she doesn't pull away or moves even closer to you, then you shouldn't stop. If she's telling to stop doing something, but she's clearly enjoying it, then you don't stop. Use common sense though, you don't wanna rape anyone too
/r/seduction03/05/14 07:05 PM
1

When you are outcome-dependent you are seeking approval. When you are seeking approval you are perceived as manipulative and/or lower value. Solution: be leading but be free of outcome. It's almost a paradox. You have to show you want her and make moves but at the same time, you have to know it's okay if you don't get her.
/r/seduction03/05/14 05:44 PM
1

Monitoring any of your actions around her so that you don't offend her or make yourself look bad
/r/seduction03/05/14 05:37 PM
1

If you want to do that then go ahead but I don't bend to please other people's needs & ultimately that's attractive to most women because it shows you aren't a people-pleasing little bitch.
/r/seduction03/05/14 04:15 PM
1

Yeah but at the same time you need to shrug it off because that's the natural response from someone who gets it all time and sometimes from people that want something from them.
/r/seduction03/05/14 04:04 PM
2

Say thanks, but in your head you should be thinking "thanks but I didn't need it" Don't be one of those guys that gets all happy when somebody gives them approval
/r/seduction03/05/14 03:00 PM
3

"The only thing standing between you and your dreams is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself on why you can't do it" - Jordan Belfort
/r/seduction03/05/14 02:56 PM
1

Push through it and expose yourself enough to it so that you can't feel it anymore. This is something that will happen often, ESPECIALLY when you're gaming a girl that everybody wants (all hot girls)
/r/seduction03/05/14 02:54 PM
2

If she's ignoring your texts then this is something you win by standoff. If you try to lecture her on it you will be perceived as needy. If you ask why she's taking so long you will be perceived as needy. The solution to this is to build an ecosystem of girls where you have constant attention from a few of them and you won't notice if a couple give you the cold shoulder. Or you can get a hobby and focus your attention on that.
/r/seduction03/05/14 02:51 PM
4

You need to change your thought patterns.. If you expect to fail you won't try your best and that leads you to failing. If you expect to win you will put in the effort needed to get your expected outcome. I want you to learn game from RSD. They'll give you the right paradigms to succeed in general, not just with women.
/r/seduction03/05/14 02:39 PM
5

Get a job that requires social skills
/r/seduction03/05/14 12:48 PM
1

It's all about having your own standards and living up to them. Once your reality becomes unshakable, you will start drawing other people into your world where you are the top guy, the boss. In other words: don't live up to other people's standards where the highest place you can climb is number 2.
/r/seduction02/05/14 03:48 PM
1

RSD student right there
/r/seduction19/04/14 04:11 PM
2

It's bad if you are perceived as trying to impress
/r/seduction19/04/14 08:00 AM
1

Seduction LPT: Read the same thread over, and over, and over. I know a lot of times I'll read a Reddit thread once then move on. But if I'm being honest does that teach anything? Any time you're learning something you'll need to really slow down and digest the info. Take this thread. It's a complete thread for game that has over 10 paragraphs (relatively short for a complete game). You might read it once, but think of how much you won't get by doing this. What will happen when you read it twice?…
/r/seduction16/04/14 11:38 PM
1

The purpose of routines is to get girls giving you positive reactions so that your state goes up and you feel like the shit, which then makes you more witty/present and THAT attracts the girl. RSD's methods leapfrog over the routines... They focus on making you more confident, more present, less stifled, ect. So that positive reactions aren't needed from the girl in order for you to hit state. And if you don't need the positive reactions you don't need routines.
/r/seduction08/04/14 02:36 AM
2

She might not even know she's 9.5 or whatever. Some of the hottest girls believe they are 5s or 6s because they are comparing themselves to the most very beautiful, not the average girls. Just be cool. Act entitled to that girl. And who knows, you might be exactly like her and have a self-image problem
/r/seduction29/03/14 11:27 AM
1

ACT AS IF!!!!!!!!!!! SERIOUSLY.
/r/seduction16/03/14 11:26 PM
1

You don't even bring it up. What you do is assume it means absolutely nothing and it's the norm for guys your age to not have money. btw don't do this if you feel insecure about it AT ALL. You have to have total belief in yourself and the girl will just assume you know what you're doing and go along with it.
/r/seduction16/03/14 11:05 PM
2

Yeah you do. and if you stick around here and learn the principles and mindset, you'll look back on this and be disgusted with yourself
/r/seduction10/03/14 06:44 PM
1

Time to graduate into RSD
/r/seduction10/03/14 02:01 AM
1

It's obnoxious but that's how the guy actually lives his life. It's his reality (Tyler from RSD)
/r/seduction27/02/14 01:39 AM
0

Yes! Be the better product to the point where it's a no-brainer to be with you.
/r/seduction26/02/14 11:53 PM
2

It depends on the girl. Some girls will get nervous around attractive guys. Some girls will get nervous because something about you is off. Which one is it? We can't tell you, you gotta use your own judgement. Trust yourself.
/r/seduction23/02/14 12:03 PM
1

It's only a big deal if you think it is. Next time just tell them that your mom stays with you, in a non-qualifying manner. Fully assume that it's no big deal, and that everybody has their mom staying with them. They won't complain but if they do, look at them with a confused look on your face, as if to say "no one else acts this way, why are you doing this?". Do. Not. Qualify. Yourself.
/r/seduction23/02/14 11:09 AM
1

Don't do it.
/r/seduction21/02/14 02:02 AM
4

it's the leading Pickup company, that's why you see their content on here so much. Not because someone is spamming it on here, but because it has value.
/r/seduction18/02/14 11:33 PM
3

Hug. Touching the palm can be intimate, so you wanna save that for later and take advantage.
/r/seduction17/02/14 01:29 AM
1

You can't be drunk ALL the time, might as well learn to be in state without it. I can't really give you a how to, since I'm not absolutely sure his to do it myself. It just happens when I don't even care about it, but when I want to be in it I can't get it. Game yourself instead of the girl.
/r/seduction03/02/14 01:51 AM
5

Did she take you home?
/r/seduction02/02/14 10:50 AM
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Immerse yourself into Real Social Dynamics. Rsdnation.com Tyler & crew's content is really good, and you NEED to watch "The Blueprint Decoded" if you haven't. Go ahead and torrent it. RSD is life-changing, Tyler is a very dedicated instructor and he will help you look at things in new ways.
/r/seduction31/01/14 08:21 PM
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it's like... you get a girlfriend, and you allow yourself to get attached to her instead of being detached. or you go to work where nobody really likes you instead of quitting to avoid any shit you may have to deal with. or you think somebody doesn't like you, and instead of trying to form some sort of defense for anything he might do, you just go on as if nothing is wrong. I think Mark is just trying to tell us to stop expecting/preparing to fail and just let the chips fall where they may. If y…
/r/seduction29/01/14 01:55 AM
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Watch this video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aE9QSuSxIMY If you like it, I really urge you to start watching Tyler's other vids, and going to his Real Social Dynamics website
/r/seduction29/01/14 12:24 AM
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it's whatever you want it to be. I myself take it the same way as you, I think they're trying to put me in a little box and I don't really like it, but I just disregard it and do not react to it in the smallest way. it's whatever. it's as weak or as powerful as your reaction towards it.
/r/seduction28/01/14 03:42 AM
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You're fortunate enough to realize you have a problem. What do you do when you have a problem? You work on solving it. Bitter & cynical is what you are now, but it's not what you always have to be. Congrats on breaking out of your shell.
/r/seduction26/01/14 10:14 PM
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It doesn't matter. You have no idea how much it doesn't matter. You can be honest, or you can put 3 million dollars. She'll look at the number and forget it before 30 minutes have passed. Just do it.
/r/seduction26/01/14 10:11 PM
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The world is against you if you believe it is. You're right. BUT If you think the world isn't against you, you're also right. The world is exactly as how you choose to see it. If you believe you aren't the type of person that can get the girl you want, you'll behave as such and you won't get her. Hell, you might not even talk to her because you believe you aren't good enough. But if you're stupid enough to believe that you can get her, then you will act in ways that will actually help you in get…
/r/seduction26/01/14 09:10 PM
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You just stop thinking about stuff like this. Socializing is about vibing, not thinking. Topics are supposed to "flow" out of you, whatever comes to mind is okay. Don't analyze, don't worry about saying the right stuff, just go with what comes naturally. Your mind is getting in the way.
/r/seduction26/01/14 09:01 PM
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Feel what you gotta feel then get on with your life. Know that even if you succeed in getting her back, things will never be the same.
/r/seduction26/01/14 12:13 AM
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The moment you begin to chase a girl, you lose. Watch this video... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZYIeD-Fr9do Masculine energy wants to be free, Feminine wants to capture that masculine energy, If you want to "trap" her, you take on the feminine role and she has no choice but to take on the masculine one. Do you really think Alpha's do any sort of chasing? Hell no, they eliminate options.
/r/seduction26/01/14 12:04 AM
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it's a shit test. You're not supposed to react or try to prove them wrong, you just keep doing you asif its no big deal because it isnt. It's a girl trying to tell you who you are... think about it... these girls are trying to tell you who you are? When you realize how stupid that is, you can pass any shit test. Girls want somebody that knows who they are, and by not reacting, you communicate that. & even then, you don't want them thinking you're a nice respectful guy UNLESS you are assertive an…
/r/seduction25/01/14 11:58 PM
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You don't game in a small town. You just don't.
/r/seduction25/01/14 11:45 PM
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You could do that but it won't help much.. you're coming at it wrong. You don't resist the feelings or the thoughts, you just let them be there and work on/do something else. The point is to have the new project eventually takeover your complete focus instead of trying to fight/resist what you're feeling.
/r/seduction25/01/14 05:32 PM
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By focusing my attention elsewhere, instead of dwelling on the memories & listening to break up songs.
/r/seduction25/01/14 03:29 PM
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he is just trying to jot some notes down of what he saw more confident guys do. that's exactly what this is. It's not a "how-to".
/r/seduction25/01/14 05:27 AM
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I say you shouldn't because work is work... They have to be there, and for you to try to pick her up is inappropriate because she can't remove herself from the situation that easily. It either goes well or you are going to force her to give a definite rejection (which girls hate to do)
/r/seduction24/01/14 03:52 AM
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Work on being more radiant and have a positive attitude.
/r/seduction22/01/14 12:14 AM
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Only if you do it without any sort of reaction. No flinch at all. None.
/r/seduction21/01/14 11:21 PM
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You do something nice to do something nice and the girl interprets it as a come on or a flirt. You're not even thinking about stuff like that, it just happens. It's similar to how when a hot girl is nice to your friend and he comes over and tells you about how much she wants his D. What I'm trying to convey is: Get to where you feel complete, you don't need anything else. You aren't searching for a girl, you don't need one. You don't even think about gaming anymore, you just can't help being att…
/r/seduction19/01/14 10:40 PM
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What you have isn't abundance mentality, it's something else. What you should be aiming for is: Get to where you aren't even gaming anymore, just socializing. Get to the point you're afraid to be too nice to a girl because she'll think you're interested in her. Get to where you are eliminating options, instead of searching for candidates.
/r/seduction19/01/14 10:20 PM
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real social dynamics. i dont have a link to a post or anything, because i dont remember. you should torrent the blueprint decoded by tyler of rsd
/r/seduction07/12/13 10:36 PM
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This is whAt you're doing: you say the joke and afterwards, you hope for approval and laughter. This is what you should be doing: say the joke with complete disregard to the reactions you are about to get. Get into rsd. Learn about frames and pinging
/r/seduction07/12/13 01:12 PM
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Meditation. He has a video on it, search for it. read "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle
/r/seduction21/09/13 01:04 PM
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Inner game is important because thoughts lead to feelings, feelings lead to actions and actions lead to results. It's all in your mind.
/r/seduction15/09/13 01:39 AM
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Feel what you gotta feel then get on with your life. Know that even if you succeed in getting her back, things will never be the same. Your best move is always to move on.
/r/seduction21/07/13 03:39 PM
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You're as handsome as your confidence, what you look like has nothing to do with it.
/r/seduction10/07/13 01:09 AM
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Is it bogus? Probably. Is it harmful? Not at all. It's healthy delusion. I choose to believe in it. What's funny is that ever since I learned about it, I see it everywhere. Like this post for example.
/r/seduction05/07/13 08:54 PM
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You just copied the chapter summaries at the beginning of the book
/r/seduction22/06/13 12:58 PM
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I hope you were paying attention to what you did to get her, that way you can always get another girl "out of your league" if this one doesn't work out. What you did should put you in a position to do so that you can keep doing.
/r/seduction04/06/13 09:32 PM
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Do you not get attacked by the males?
/r/seduction27/05/13 02:51 AM
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Is it bad to have girls blatantly smiling at you?
/r/seduction26/05/13 06:20 PM
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HOWEVER, I still wouldn't mind fucking them if they dragged me to their house and wanted to fuck. You want to fuck them, but you're too afraid to make a move. Admit it OP
/r/seduction22/05/13 03:42 AM
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Keep at it, it will get fun when you get good at it
/r/seduction07/05/13 02:18 AM
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Talk with a pen in your mouth for 30 minutes a day. It does help. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/19ucae/talking_with_a_pen_in_my_mouth_has_helped_me/
/r/seduction14/04/13 01:35 PM
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an expected surprise?
/r/seduction13/04/13 05:52 PM
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Don't do it to keep the appeal, do it for yourself. Getting attached to a girl is unhealthy and it almost always drives them away eventually. Keep improving yourself
/r/seduction10/04/13 09:39 PM
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I've started doing less and less of the stuff I'd striven to do. Do more of that stuff.
/r/seduction10/04/13 10:09 AM
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Keep improving yourself, that's the message here. For you, right now it means to keep losing weight
/r/seduction31/03/13 03:03 AM
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It was okay.
/r/seduction30/03/13 05:59 PM
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You've discovered the Pareto Principle
/r/seduction20/01/13 11:25 PM
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I'm also interested in said transcripts. PM please
/r/seduction15/12/12 12:07 PM
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Drifting from person to person is inevitable because most relationships don't work out, or they grow stale.
/r/seduction27/10/12 08:24 PM
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I hate the terms "Alpha" and "Beta", they make this place seem like a generic pick-up forum. But, the "alpha" response is to shrug it off. Rejection should not be a big deal to you.
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:17 PM
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I see a lot of books being recommended on this subreddit, and I've always been skeptical of pick-up books. So OP, I wanna ask you if any book helped you in a significant way and what was the name of the book(s)? Did any books help you become a better person or change your way of thinking? If so, which ones?
/r/seduction18/08/12 02:10 AM
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Where did you learn these conversation tiers? Do you have a link to where I can read up on them?
/r/seduction10/08/12 03:27 AM
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Awesome, thanks for the reply!
/r/seduction27/07/12 10:59 PM
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How do you keep a conversation going? Are there any tricks you know? I always have trouble carrying convos
/r/seduction25/07/12 07:04 PM
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Here are some ways: When in conversation with her, ignore her thoughts and opinions. Only talk about yourself and what interests you. Use strict morals on her. Criticize her life style or choices she makes by telling her that it's wrong that she did that and that she should be ashamed. Suffocate her with attention. Basically, be a person with onetis. Tell her you love her and all that jazz.
/r/seduction12/06/12 12:18 AM
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I've seen people say it's manipulative and it has been criticized over the fact that it refers the person you are trying to seduce as "your victim" or something along those lines.
/r/seduction25/05/12 02:23 AM
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I haven't really read any pick up books but I've read "the art of seduction" by robert greene. I think that book is looked down upon here but here's what I remember from it: He says that even good relationships go stale and get boring, and I think that's true. You have to keep it interesting, maybe be distant from her, or instigate a break up. Create low points and maneuver them into highs. It's just up and down until you get bored. I hope you get other answers besides this one.
/r/seduction25/05/12 12:19 AM
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I'm sort of late, but this seems like a good way to do it http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/rfg7j/what_are_some_famous_last_words_youve_told_to_an/c45gq28
/r/seduction09/05/12 01:23 AM
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