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I’ve got a resource for you to kick the addiction permanently, message me bro, if you’re interested
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 02:09 AM
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I understand you man, and agree. The way I see it is that if we put “too much effort” into “trying” to lead a woman, this is actually chasing being disguised as leadership 😎 Some might think this is mincing words, but words are powerful, especially to our minds, and since we’re dealing with changing and understanding our personal psychologies here, it’s worth mincing Cheers! 🥂
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 06:02 PM
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Just consider the op intro click bait , article was still an interesting perspective to read
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 05:28 PM
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It can be a strength and a weakness, the key is being able to consider other people’s frames to determine if it is more accurate than your own at times, because we are never always right. With that being said, when it comes to dealing with women, let’s just assume we’re always right 👍 just kidding but not really, if we don’t then she will, and that’s just baaaaad newwwwws for all
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 01:26 AM
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Maybe! Depends on what we’re talking about. The key subtlety is that there is a huge difference between putting effort into chasing women vs putting effort into leading women. Women do exactly what you’d expect, they run from chasers. You chase after anything it’s going to run. Women want to submit to leaders. Put the effort into leading. 👍
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 07:41 PM
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Neither extreme is correct. Neither 0 effort nor 10 effort (on a sliding scale from 0 to 10) is going to be correct. The law of the bell curves shows us all truths lie somewhere towards the middle. Theory might work for a select few women, but for most women it’s going to be a balance between some effort and low effort. Or another way to look at it is this theory might work for the 1% of men who are that good with women naturally that they don’t have to put in any effort because women are throwi…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 03:09 PM
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It’s a tool not a lifestyle man. This is a post giving advice on developing a skill set that you can pull out of your tool bag for specific situations, I.e. cold approach to be used on unreceptive women. Developing this skill can also lead to other improvements such as improv at a job interview, it can increase your confidence in general, and open up opportunities to have a lot of fun with all people - not just romantic interactions.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 04:41 PM
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Sometimes people already have their minds made up, make quick stereotypes, and show no further interest in what the speaker is offering. 🤷🏻‍♂️ their loss. Good post 👍
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 04:32 PM
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As men, we are naturally inclined to be the protectors of and feel bad for the weaker gender. However, it is in women’s nature to exploit this tendency.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/19 01:58 AM
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I agree I used to run and lift, then I stopped running and only lift, now I don’t feel nearly as good as when I was running and lifting
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 06:32 AM
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I literally do not care about holidays or celebrations period, not even my birthday, I just enjoy being alive each day, that’s enough for me
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 09:01 PM
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Give me some good frames dude
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 05:25 AM
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I think the crazy sex acts were another sign of her emotional instability, when a woman starts trying new stuff like this it’s a sign, a real LTR will want plain vanilla PIV looking in each other’s eyes emotional connection, not face ridding, nut busting porno sex.... But then again women are like a whim, one day they want you next day they don’t, then when they don’t have you they want you again, I think we’re all trying to understand women, understanding that they cannot be forecasted or under…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 02:13 AM
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Women are byproducts of success. Not the goal. This is a great point 👍
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 11:32 PM
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This comment just made all of this make sense. It felt like the way the original story unfolded was cold as shit, and something felt detached about it. No offense. Which is why I felt sympathetic for the girl. However, if it were executed in the proper way, it would’ve been more like DARE, The humorous D for deflect, AAAAA Amusedly Agree And Absurdly Amplify, Repeat, if not effective then Exit the situation... until next time. I like how you said to “never give a girl a straight answer with over…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 04:06 AM
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Does it mean I am still blue pilled if I felt some sympathy for the girl in your story? And if so, what are my next steps to “fixing” myself?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:09 AM
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I was literally just confronted with this question. I rejected that woman because it was not in my best interest to have sex with her. She was willing and ready. I was not. End of story.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 09:32 PM
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Can someone elaborate on the “plausible deniability” part? What are some examples? What’s the mindset there? Thank you
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 09:27 PM
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So error on the side of arrogance 👍 makes sense
/r/TheRedPill17/10/19 08:43 PM
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It is a good point here. Charismatic people walk this line with ease and grace. So the question then is how do we develop the skills of walking that line without faltering to either side? Is it the simple math of awareness, practice, and repetition? Or is there something deeper and more fundamental? I have high hopes that SR is a big part of that equation.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/19 04:37 PM
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Red pill for men? I’ve tried over the years. Women will tell you what they need in order for there to be a better, healthier, happier sex life for the both of you , but it’s just smoke and mirrors. Once sex plummets, there is literally nothing YOU can do to get it back. It’s something SHE has to do. And as you know, there is very little we can do to change what other people do or don’t do. Add to that the fact that people are resistant to change... this puts expectations right where they should …
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 12:55 AM
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I wish my relationship were like this, 🤦🏻‍♂️ wtf is wrong with my life right now
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/19 12:49 AM
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Smile more. Fake it til ya make it. Be entertained more often by stuff that makes you laugh.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 09:07 PM
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A lot of the advice here is right. The problem is with your perspective on the world. You can find a great guy who’s a doctor or a great guy who’s a landscaper, because it’s not the profession, or the money, or any other external thing that makes a person great. It’s the personality, the connection, the love.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 09:52 PM
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I’m a man, I’m just going to say that from my perspective I don’t think there is anything you can/should “do to make” him do something. We value the ability to be the influencer, the decision maker, the leader. If we sense that we’re being “gamed” our reaction will be a reinforcing resistance. I read your other post about the DTR and his reaction is exactly this same resistance I am talking about. He sensed you were trying to get him to do/say/agree to something that you wanted him to say, his r…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 05:20 AM
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For a good man you won’t have to “prove” your worth, so much as be your worth when you’re with him. You’ll just naturally show him what you are all about, from your values to your goals in life, by being congruent with what you stand for or believe in. There is no right or wrong answer, but the more your beliefs, values, and goals align with his, the better the chance for long term connection. Values include things like honesty, trust, openness, forthrightness, loyalty, kindness, ambition, forgi…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 04:34 AM
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The problem is that TRP is an open forum where everyone from the newbs to the unsuccessful and depressed can post articles sounding like their professionals giving advice as if they know what they’re talking about when really they’re simply speculating. Anonymous identities preaching theories as if they are facts. Sounding wise but speaking foolishly. Don’t get me wrong I think brainstorming is great. Just don’t fall into the trap of relying on other people to give you the answers to all of your…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 05:28 PM
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You have got to be kidding me.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 05:20 PM
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Dude wtf. I know this is not relevant. I can’t access this sub on my app it says I must verify my email and login. Duh dur. I already am verified and signed in. It says this sub has 0 subscribers. I linked someone else to this sub and they couldn’t get in either. Is this sub getting shut down officially????
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 09:09 PM
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