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ConversationPowerfulBlaze/r/seduction14/07/20 02:33 AM
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I never really cared about Social Media glory but until I got my first best friend it immediately sparked change in me in not wanting to be a lonely guy anymore. I went from having 150 Followers to now close to 900 followers in a short span of time. Majority are girls from dating apps or that I randomly followed in my city and they liked what they saw and followed me back. IG oddly helped change my life tbh.
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:21 AM
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Procrastination is the key word but to make it worse the pandemic came when things were changing for the better for me. Now I feel like it has conditioned me to stay stagnant.
/r/seduction26/04/21 05:13 PM
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Has COVID 19 restrictions prevented from fully being committed to these goals? For me I want the same but my country is still in lockdown.
/r/seduction26/04/21 05:33 AM
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The side effects of smoking that the majority can relate to you bro. Trust me I see so many ppl forming friendship based on drugs and alcohol habit. But yes don't get dependent on it.
/r/seduction17/08/20 03:25 AM
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I'm just reading your comment back and wanna ask if you have found it easier to be social with people who smoke marijuana just like you? I feel that's a huge big advantage as to someone who loves to drink too. I feel you'll have tons of friends by you associating yourself with people who smoke.
/r/seduction16/08/20 10:07 PM
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Yeah I'll never tell about the virgin thing but I already unfollowed her back and blocked her the same day. I got 2 dates now.
/r/seduction18/07/20 04:54 PM
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I know 😔
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:15 AM
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I know 😔
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:15 AM
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Yeah but how when she's driving me? Lol. Im working on getting a car by year end
/r/seduction15/07/20 08:42 PM
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Even though I haven't had an outlandish moment off of being depressed and all I still want to seek help from a therapist to really rid of this thing. And yeah I knew something was off about her 5mins in..
/r/seduction15/07/20 07:39 PM
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You skipped a part bro but no I didn't yap about my depression to her or anybody in that case. I never do that as I don't want to steer people away from me. In terms of appearance, again I've been told by her and many other people in general to do some modeling. In their words they say I look like one. I always take care of myself especially if I'm going somewhere to impress people and know my look and what gets girls head turning. I just never had confidence to talk to them but now I do. And I …
/r/seduction15/07/20 07:36 PM
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Thanks man! All the best for you too
/r/seduction15/07/20 04:39 PM
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Ok do you have any insecurities about yourself? Like appearance, communication skills?
/r/seduction15/07/20 05:23 AM
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Intention was for casual but if it got serious then I'll welcome it. I told her that. I accept my past on most days and try to move forward but I just know majority of women my age will be spooked to hear about a man in kaye 20s being a loner and a virgin. It's taboo to this generation. I do feel like I should be careful but I should continue to lie especially if I want a hookup but also if relationship happens. Once months fly by and love is through the roof with that special woman then I'll te…
/r/seduction15/07/20 03:11 AM
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Lol I meant that in terms of my first date I felt like I did really good not coming off as a weirdo or reacting negatively to her judgemental comments. Also being able to uphold a conversation with a woman in terms of getting to know her, making her laugh by sharing funny stories about work and etc. I just messed up with mentioning her stance about sex and how much it means to her in a relationship. I didn't think it was a bad question as she wanted me to flirt with her more than just telling he…
/r/seduction15/07/20 03:04 AM
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Yea by the end I feel I shared too much info that weren't even true but didn't need to be said. Thank you
/r/seduction15/07/20 02:58 AM
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Have you been using dating apps?
/r/seduction15/07/20 02:56 AM
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Around same age? Well I hope you do great man. It ain't easy but I always tell myself to blend in with the crowd wherever I go. It doesn't mean to be a follower but it means to never expose your vulnerability in any atmosphere that you fear like a big crowd. I went to a big parade by myself it ended up turning up great, went to the club for the very first time with my older sister and my brothers ex girl... Strange right? But I had to do it even if it wasn't the best thought at first. And look w…
/r/seduction15/07/20 02:52 AM
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Thank you for this encouragement! I won't stop making big steps in my life. It's been too long.
/r/seduction15/07/20 02:40 AM
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Canada is Awesome and proud of your success and story. Very inspiring! Thank you!
/r/seduction15/07/20 02:38 AM
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Exactly. I think she was teasing me at that point as she was driving me home because she already had made up her mind.
/r/seduction15/07/20 02:37 AM
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Thank you so much for this!!
/r/seduction14/07/20 09:46 PM
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She brought up all those stuff except for the sex part. I did everything that would be deemed a good convo but overall she's very judgmental to work around.
/r/seduction14/07/20 09:41 PM
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Lol ahha I can see that. Tbh I was writing fast and should have said I asked her what's her stance on sex on how important for her it is in a relationship.
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:10 PM
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I actually did that tbh I wasn't nervous at all. When the hours were heading toward date time I didn't get nervous but more so of it needs to happen! I've seen a lot of Friday's & Saturdays of me being alone in my room playing games or watching YouTube videos to distract me from reality. Making friends was a priority first and ultimately lead me to still being a virgin as I only focused on that while I was going through terrible social anxiety. People like to talk to me but when it's time to inv…
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:08 PM
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Thank you, dude for the encouragement!
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:03 PM
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Im looking for casual mostly but welcome a relationship if it happens organically. Instagram followers is what everyone is doing to be social.. tbh as lame as it sounds but IG has helped me tremendously with making a friend and having girls swarm me with compliments... something I'm not use to. It has helped with my communication and game play in the dms.
/r/seduction14/07/20 08:03 PM
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Yeah and how she would like to be my photographer to help me get into modeling. I'm glad she is no more though
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:42 PM
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Yeah she was super taken back when I said my last relationship lasted a whole college semester like 5months and I told her it's because I keep getting involved with toxic women that are loud and rude.
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:40 PM
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I can understand that but I was only bothered by her hoping that I have friends and kept grilling me about thinking I wanted sex that night. It was until the next day she unfollowed is when it kind of made me feel bad.
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:37 PM
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Ok ok lol Note jotted
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:34 PM
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LMAOOO well damn something gotta give to get a first date. Lol Plus she been complimenting me a lot about my face lol. So there's that
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:33 PM
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Hmmm something to think about... I gained about over 400 girls in my city on IG so this is tough..
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:30 PM
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The thing is about me is that if I get offended it doesnt show. I keep a straight face or smile. Thank you bro!
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:28 PM
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Thats the plan 😏
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:26 PM
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What I was doing? Wasting time... I legit didn't care about love at all. I was not motivated for it until now.
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:24 PM
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This is why I fake it to make it
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:22 PM
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😔😔😔 That's weird.
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:22 PM
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Any tips?
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:20 PM
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I understand that which is why I lied throughout. Lol. If she had known the truth she would think she had a killer in her car. She even said people with no friends are sociopaths. We laughed a lot and all but ultimately we just weren't a good mesh
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:19 PM
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I did fake it bro lol. I think she really wanted a relationship with me but has shitty priorities she wants
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:16 PM
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I was actually pretty chilled tbh and the girl was someone I wanted to know better with hopes to have sex with but I realized my mistake though. Good advice
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:14 PM
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May I add she loves to use horoscopes to defend her bs? There were a lot of annoyance in that date tbh. Are you comfortable enough to share what age you weren't a virgin anymore?
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:11 PM
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Yeah I don't want her tbh. I wasn't head over heels for her but she had potential to be something serious. I will thank her though for being the first girl to go out of her way to meet me. I notice what I did wrong and won't do it again. Thank you for this!
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:09 PM
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If I ever break the news to a girlfriend that I actually dont have friends and she responds "I'm leaving" I think I would be OK with that seeing her priorities are stupid. She actually did say "Sociopath" when I was about to be honest about having no friends I just remembered lol.
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:03 PM
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Thanks for your great insight. I just feel if I am brutally honest from the jump I would have never gotten far in that date or get any experience for the next time. Even if I didn't like what she was saying I still wanted to do the date to see if I can handle talking for 3hrs to her. I needed this. I forgot to mention that she said she thinks those that don't have friends are indeed "sociopaths"... now remind you I don't got a car right now she is driving using someone else's. Do you really thin…
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:00 PM
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Crazy u say that because that's all I wanted since I was a teenager. I focused more on wanting friends more than talking to girls on that level of love. I felt like if I get friends then the girls would come but it was difficult. I think it set me back a lot.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:47 PM
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Yeah that damn Covid.. I'm hoping for the best! Thank you
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:45 PM
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Thank you!!!
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:44 PM
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I honestly wasn't crazy about her but she is definitely a looker. I think its because I really like other girls more than her I want to date . Thanks!
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:42 PM
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Thank you. It's always great to hear that from a woman ❤
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:40 PM
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Thanks for your great advice. I will message you about more info about what went wrong with the date on my part.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:39 PM
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Wow thanks for this!!
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:35 PM
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Yeah I couldn't believe that tbh. I won't give up man. Thanks for the advice !
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:34 PM
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I am now but I feel its lame and not an achievement to get something I didn't work for. Lol Thanks!!
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:33 PM
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Yeah Im thankful the first date curse has been broken now. I've been seeing a lot of courage within myself since the past year. Thank you so much dude! Your advice is awesome!
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:31 PM
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Its not there....
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:30 PM
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Damn lol, no faith in me? Just from actually experiencing it I felt it went good but the girl is very judgemental and I saw a lot of strengths in my convos with her that lead to her talking to me for 3hrs.. but I also realize what I did wrong to prepare the next time. Who knows maybe it was the liquor I encouraged myself to drink before going out with her... lol smh
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:27 PM
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I've wanted to since I was a teenager but it costs a lot of money.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:17 PM
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Yeah I realized that some people's priorities and standards are trash but I was really there for the overall experience and truly got it. I'm proud now! Thanks so much and I will!
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:16 PM
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Yeah she unfollowed me and explained that she felt like I just wanted sex. I didn't ask for it, all I asked was her opinion about how important it is for her since she wanted me to flirt with her more. I'm already setting up the next date with another girl. Thank you!
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:15 PM
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Yeah Im happy for the experience but I think I'm a bit in a rush mentally about wanting to get laid, first kiss and all. Thats the problem. My age is catching up with me is what they say smh.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:08 PM
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Yeah I don't plan on living my life with someone I truly am in love with thinking everything I told them was indeed facts. I think I've learned in a lot of relationships within my family or peers is that they all lied to their partner and then when they really got into each other for months they let them know the truth. I just dont want to ruin my chance with a girl who I can literally change her perspective about ppl like me later down a relationship and give her a lesson about something she wa…
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:05 PM
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Yup! Thank you!
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:57 PM
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Thanks!!
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:54 PM
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Lol well I figured since we've been talking like every day since Covid started in March and she begged to see me I would at least would like to know if she remembered my name since she claimed she really wanted to get to know me... Plus I had to fire that one shot back at her red flagging me for pointless things like not having friends leaving me to correct myself to say "I have a few".
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:54 PM
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By telling me "why dont you flirt with me more" after me calling her sexy and beautiful. I instantly thought I would have to go beyond in being a goodie two shoe when she said that or else I would be deemed "boring".
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:48 PM
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I kinda did say some clever, smooth thing like that before I asked about her stance about sex. And yes, I did say I'm just going with the flow of things when meeting pretty women on dates. I said exactly what you said tbh lol The condom thing she asked because she just was stuck on thinking I expected sex when really I told her I bring it just in case if feelings run high I got protection. I don't know why from a woman who looks experienced would look at this as to not wanting to talk to a dude …
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:44 PM
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I know what you mean exactly. I did say something smooth that wasn't too direct before I said "lets talk about your stance on sex".. I just forgot what I said lol.
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:33 PM
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I really did. I would've been depressed again if we actually dated with that mindset of hers.
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:30 PM
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For sure, thanks dude!
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:29 PM
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Lol never boring, dude. I got her to laugh at my jokes several time and really hear me out about other little personal things that I'm not ashamed of but I was just concerned that she wanted to be talked to in a more sexier way since I hadn't through text and she wanted it. So I'm confused
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:28 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:25 PM
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Yeah the car thing can be a let down but at least the one thing I can say to her about that is she understood. And get this... it wasn't even her car lol
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:24 PM
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I hope you're kicking it's ass everyday and constantly improving. All the best
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:23 PM
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Hmm.. like what?
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:21 PM
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Everything you said is very true. I feel like right now as I enter the love pool I'm just trying to experience talking to females, casual sex and a serious relationship if it comes organically. I told her I'm not rushing but just going through the motions of things... pretty much I'm down for whatever. And she would of been detrimental to my mental health for sure with that opinion. I felt so bad when she said that but I had to put my game face on and truly get a real long experience for my very…
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:15 PM
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Tbh she looks real good but I wasn't really excited about her like the other girls I want to go on dates with. So idk if I wanted anything serious with her.. I don't think I came off cocky but a little nonchalant vibe with being talkative and showing my personality to her.
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:06 PM
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For sure. I already am lining up a few right now. Thanks!
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:02 PM
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I honestly showed her how shocked I was that she asked that and started questioning her experience as if I'm the one packed with experience lol. She had a child though. I don't feel like that should be a red flag but now I if I said let's have sex then yes, it's a red flag.
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:01 PM
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Sure was. Thank you
/r/seduction14/07/20 03:58 PM
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I really try not to overdo it when I'm faking it to make it. Majority of us are faking it to make it so hopefully if the relationship does get serious they can truly understand our honesty about our life once they're already into u and shared experience with you. Right now I'm looking for casual sex the most but if relationship happens then it happens. That's what I told her... somewhat lol. And yes, thats true.
/r/seduction14/07/20 03:57 PM
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Yes the whole date I kept hearing that's a "red flag" to something that I didn't feel was a big deal like having few friends, how I never had a long relationship I said I had a short relationship that ended because most of the time who ever I dated they were extremely toxic, how I never brought a girl home (only one honesty) and etc. Can you imagine I was really honest about everything? I would've never had a date that lasted over 3hrs.
/r/seduction14/07/20 03:49 PM
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Like if I said I only have 1 which is brutally true then she would still have a problem with that. I think she was a bad date in terms of wanting high sh*tty standards but overall I wanted the date experience and got it.
/r/seduction14/07/20 03:41 PM
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Thank you. So the reason I couldn't pick her up is that I don't have a car and she asked if I'm planning to get one I said oh for sure 100% by the end of this year. Which I hope she understands seeing the world how it is now. Depression and anxiety has stripped alot from me and that was one of them and I'm working diligently on fixing things in my life asap as I feel a lot better since I've gained a best friend who has motivated me without knowing it. Thanks for the encouragement!!
/r/seduction14/07/20 03:38 PM
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I only brought it up because I didn't want to come off as a boring goodie two shoe and thought she was very open to talking about how important it was for her because she gave me "I'm a freak" vibes through text but I never played that card with her until the date even though she asked me to flirt with her more which I was lost on how I can flirt with somebody more than saying "sexy" & "beautiful". The parents example I brought up to her was more of an instilled thing that parents tell their son…
/r/seduction14/07/20 03:33 PM
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Damn that's different to hear. Everyone makes it seem like being in your late 20s is the end of everything. I choose not believe in that mentality much although it can be daunting but I still feel there is alot of time for dating or a sex life.
/r/seduction14/07/20 03:25 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:57 AM
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Yeah I ruined my life so far. Still fighting tho Thanks
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:29 AM
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Ahaha thanks dude!!
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:27 AM
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Thank you so much. I appreciate it
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:12 AM
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Definitely a lot of pointers to follow here. Thanks for this!
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:12 AM
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Well she texted me and said that she felt like she was a one night stand in my eyes and really wanted to know me. I don't get it in a way because I felt she lead me on to flirt with her on another level like she had text me before. I didn't wanna come off boring talking about the weather, life, education, family and etc. I also never pushed to have sex with her but she just concluded I wanted that. Thanks for sharing your story and encouragement too!!
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:07 AM
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Lol yeah the condom I didn't have to tell her that but I feel I had a good point. Majority of our parents tell their sons to bring it with us if we're meeting a girl. Anything can happen
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:59 AM
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I think with the virgin thing I don't just go around and tell lies. If I'm asked I'll say it happened to ppl and not let it bug me because I feel like I have a lot of time to enjoy that. And plus birthday is in two months so I'm looking for something to go down before then lol She was juicy tbh good look but for some reason I wasn't crazy about her the way she was for me online. And thank you!! I appreciate that, dude!
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:55 AM
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Only got 1 legit friend so far. Some ppl who aren't exposed to that immediately will not understand how one doesn't have a friend. They'll share the same opinions as her. I've heard it multiple times.
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:49 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:46 AM
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Great advice! Crazy enough but IG has helped me a lot with getting a lot of girls attention and slowly making friends with some dudes that live nearby. About 10 potential male friends and 1 legit one so far. So I hope for the best.
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:46 AM
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Yeah I told her my name when we begun texting and if she really wanted to know me she'll remember it. She even told me she showed my pics to her mom and friend... I guess as the "tall guy" I like. Smh Yeah its IG. Majority of girls want to be swarmed in popularity to take pics for that app. She's one of them
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:42 AM
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Thank you. Appreciate it. I don't know what kinda vibe she could of spot in a minute. Lol I did tell her I was an introvert when we started texting so again she lead me on for real if she isn't into that. And the virgin thing isn't important for me to tell because at this age and in this case we the same age, 28 and seems to have a lot of expectations and shitty standards probably would've ended the date way before.
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:38 AM
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I can see why you'll feel like that lol. But when I brought that up was to just hear her take about how important that was for her. But yes, never again. I remembered her name but she didn't remember mines which is odd.
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:30 AM
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Nah she seems judgemental in person I even remembered how I sent her a msg when we started texting saying I'm an introvert and she said "no way" and claimed she's extroverted but date night she said she's an introvert... she crazy I believe now. I just wanted the experience, she looks good but for some reason I couldn't really get into her much. And yes it was an even convo between us. Both of us asked a lot of questions.
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:25 AM
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Yea it indeed was. I didn't want to get dropped home early as I really wanted the experience and possibly the sex but I didn't ask her for sex nor acted like a creep. I only said "let talk about that" since she couldn't come up with a new question for like a minute and lead me on with "u should flirt with me more" text but even then I didn't over do it but as we meet in person it's a problem in bringing it up about how important/or what it means for her? I just didn't wanna come off as a good bo…
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:18 AM
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Religion was brought up too.. but we both agreed that we aren't heavily into it like our family members. I just hated the instant "red flag" comments. What do you mean she was using me? I didn't get anything in return lol. She kept talking vulgar about her p***y and how I could of got it the 2nd date as if I had asked her to have sex that day.
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:10 AM
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Lol nah definitely wasn't nervous. I'm real good on being honest if I came off weird or dumb in situations. It would legit drive me insane lol I definitely had some hiccups but it was expected. If I told her I was a virgin she would drop me home back immediately. Her standards are s(*t. What do you mean I had no dominance? Teach me.
/r/seduction14/07/20 06:04 AM
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Thank you so much for the encouragement. I will.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:59 AM
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Why?
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:59 AM
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Thank you. For a first date I give myself a pat on the back for trying, not feeling uneasy and actually talking to her. It was a learning experience for sure. Thank you I'll read that models.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:58 AM
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She is a turd. I got you though, no sex talk at all on dates even if they lead you.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:56 AM
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True.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:54 AM
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I can understand why you said everything you said but I'm really not what you have mentioned. Yes, the lying part is wrong but would I have gotten that far and getting a true first date experience if I hadn't? She was already looking like she wanted to drop me back home after I said "I don't have many friends". I understand there are Women out there who aren't going to sympathize with me if I be blatantly honest about myself and who I really am. Why? Because not everyone truly understands why so…
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:49 AM
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I hate to put blame on it but depression and anxiety ain't no joke! Everything that I wanted to do or have was stripped away from me because I felt dead inside. Thankfully I still challenged myself to get out of my comfort zone and accomplish some things while going through that.. so the next step by the end of this year is a car.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:20 AM
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Which is so weird... maybe because she saw my IG and saw little to no comments on my pics but still odd and warranted. Like are you trying to get to know me or my friends? Smh
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:16 AM
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Yeah I won't do that again but I feel strongly that I got lead to it and didn't wanna come off as a boring dude. At the end of the day I didn't ask her if we can do it which is how she made me feel. There were a few hiccups but that was definitely the problem. Thank you for your advice.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:12 AM
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Low self esteem issues that stems from when I was in the 5th grade I realized I was depressed and from there I was no longer a kid anymore who hung out with everybody but became distant and fearful to get any attention. Funny you say that because literally everyone that talks to me feels like I've got everything but I don't.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:09 AM
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