Powerful_Carrot3340 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
70	What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?	Discussion	Powerful_Carrot3340	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 12:49 PM
26	Sex Toys	Question For Women	Powerful_Carrot3340	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 11:54 PM

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–	Very Late Bloomers: Acceptable N-Count / Body Count for Men by Age 45? It doesn’t matter at all. The percentage of attractive enough to have options/in shape/semi successful/grounded/normal SINGLE men in their 40s is incredibly tiny. Same goes for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 01:54 AM
1	Rejection Sensitivity Women do pursue hot, educated, successful men. Very actively. This has always always always been the case. Women have always thrown themselves at the top 10% of men. I consider myself a good looking guy. I’m also normal (although I do spend too much time on reddit) tall and semi successful with a good career path. I have never struggled with attracting attractive women. Even in middle school, it was girls who would make it clear they had a crush on me. When I walk into a club/bar with my friends…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 01:47 AM
-7	Sex Toys Never is a very strong word. A full on dildo/dick sleeve is probably different than a vibrator I admit. I was trying to give a glimpse as to what it might feel like to a man when a woman he’s very interested in asks him if she can use her toy to finish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 01:03 AM
6	Sex Toys Love this lol. Thank you for this response. I completely agree. Would you be opposed to the man you’re dating/most interested in using toys every now and then to help get him off or are you referring to using toys yourself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 12:45 AM
3	Sex Toys Thanks for the response. Rubbing her clit to get off in my opinion is entirely different from using a machine. Much in the same way a guy jacking off while you rub him and kiss him is entirely different than him turning on a pocket pussy. I could be wrong though. You’re right, men and women have different anatomies. I was trying my best to paint a picture with a scenario similar to a woman asking a man to use a machine to scratch her itch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 12:40 AM
7	Sex Toys I’m not a writer. I only tried to paint a picture for conversation purposes. Thanks though this made me chuckle	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 12:37 AM
2	Sex Toys Would it feel deflating if a man used a pocket pussy or some other sex toy to “squeeze the juice” in the second, third, or even first rounds? Or would you be happy and willing to let him do his thing while including you the best way he could?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 12:34 AM
11	Sex Toys You’re joking right?? Women asking men for oral/finger/penile stimulation while using a vibrator on her clitoris is very very very common. Tbh, I’ve never seen this in porn. I’ve experienced sex toys with women on multiple different occasions. I’m not going to stop having sex with a woman if she needs to use a toy. I would be lying if I said the sex with women who needed toys to get off was as good as the sex with women who didn’t need toys to get off. It is kind of emasculating when a woman use…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 12:31 AM
8	Sex Toys Would you mind explaining how this is his fault? There’s already one woman here claiming that women are “different” and need more stimulation than men. What would you say to that? Is it the man’s fault? Or are women biologically different? Or both?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 12:24 AM
2	Sex Toys It is different for women. You are correct. I was trying to paint a picture as to what it may feel like for a man when the woman he’s trying his best to please isn’t getting there. There’s something eerie about the hum of a machine while trying to have sex with another human being.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 12:22 AM
3	Sex Toys I would guess that most women who feel safe/comfortable with a man wouldn’t be opposed to asking if they can grab their toy to help them finish if they had been going at it for 20-30 minutes with no luck yet. The itch needs to be scratched. He’s not cutting it. She still wants to finish. She feels confident that he will be chill enough to let her. She asks politely and reaches into her drawer. This is the scenario I tried to paint a picture of. I could be wrong. But I don’t think this is that fa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 12:17 AM
13	Sex Toys Should men feel pity and disgust for a woman who asks him to eat her out while she uses her vibrator to finish?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 12:09 AM
4	Sex Toys Women who need toys to orgasm in the initial mutually fascinated stages are porn addicts who are sexually dysfunctional? Or is this just for men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/23 12:01 AM
3	Sex Toys Good point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 11:58 PM
3	What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man? Losing weight is hard. If it was easy, the majority of men and women would be fit and strong. The majority of men and women are overweight and weak. The majority of men and women are broke. Losing weight and making good money are very hard things to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 02:06 PM
2	What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man? This is summed up perfectly. I meant it in a dating context.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 02:00 PM
0	What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man? I agree that being an overweight woman is much harder. This sounds like hell. Keep fighting. Losing weight, much like making good money is a long hard process. It isn’t overnight. And the people that tell you making good money or losing weight is easy are SNAKE OIL SALESMEN. It’s consistent choices. Over long periods of time. You can do this. Be grateful that you carry most of your weight in your breasts and hips. These are positive biological signals for men. But don’t settle until YOU are happ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 01:54 PM
1	What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man? This is the answer!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 01:47 PM
-5	What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man? Some people are battling genetics their whole life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 01:46 PM
0	What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man? Easy? How so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 01:45 PM
0	What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man? I would agree with you. If you’re a fat man, you can always get rich. If you’re a fat woman, there’s little to nothing you can do to find a partner. I don’t think finding a partner is the key to happiness though	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 01:44 PM
10	What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man? I don’t like this argument personally. I don’t think big women are fetishized nearly as much as we think they are. When a tall thin curvy healthy woman walks in a room both men and women catch their breath. When an obese women walks in a room people are repelled. I think most of the views/shares of obese women on porn sites/social media are just a bunch of deadbeat teenagers sending disgusting stuff to their friends for laughs. Obesity is NOT attractive. I would argue there are many many more wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/23 01:42 PM
–	Women are right Don't know why they removed your comment? Anyways yeah I feel you and see what you're saying. But also you labeled this as a CMV so I'll push back. Yes a friendship is really important. Obviously there has to be something there outside of sex. Obviously you have to love being around each other even if that were to mean zero physical intimacy. But you said "genuine desire" You can meet people that you've never laid a hand on, or have been with hundreds of times, and still feel genuine desire when…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 12:30 AM
–	Women are right I agree with a lot of what you said but focusing on being her friend will NOT illicit genuine desire. Be very careful walking the line of friend/lover. Especially if you don't have a lot going for you physically... You can quickly turn into a friend if you focus too much on being friendly while another man who makes her feel like a sexy woman without outright objectifying her takes your place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 12:11 AM
–	How different would historical gender dynamics and modern dating be if the size/strength difference between males and females were reversed, but everything else had remained the same? I never said I think women would turn all men into slaves. I was simply responding to your comment and reminding you that queens with lots of power over entire civilizations have existed since before the pyramids were built.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 08:40 PM
1	SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILL I’m just commenting for people who read this shit on the internet	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 08:14 PM
1	SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILL Only read the title. These days women have access to money, education, and opportunity. Women are now sharing high value men. That's why these things called situationships are becoming a thing. A situationship is essentially polygamy in most cases. The man she desires it out of her league. But he's willing to go on dates and sleep with her every now and then and since this is the only man she has the hots for, she accepts. This should be a big no no for women but for some reason, more and more w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 08:07 PM
–	How different would historical gender dynamics and modern dating be if the size/strength difference between males and females were reversed, but everything else had remained the same? Women who say things like this act like Queens have never existed throughout all of history......... Queens have been a thing for thousands and thousands of years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 07:51 PM
1	If women like misogynistic men why aren't incels getting any? Because they're not tall and they're not handsome. And because they're not tall and they're not handsome, they've had very limited experience with women. And because they've had very limited experience with women they have no clue how to flirtatiously walk the line of total asshole/misogynist who calls them on their shit and gets them turned on and total sweetheart who listens and understands them and makes them feel special. Women on the internet would say I'm misogynistic. In fact, I just got …	/r/AllPillDebate	20/04/23 04:55 PM
1	Men are often richer for doing controversial non-nasty jobs that women don't want to do Hate to burst your bubble but one girl is Serbian and the other is Mexican. Btw I’m mixed. And we all live in LA…I don’t know if racist is the right term…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 04:24 AM
1	Men are often richer for doing controversial non-nasty jobs that women don't want to do Did the word mommies offend you? I don’t think referring to Nannies as paid mommies is that far of a stretch… My point is, these women (who are my homies that I’ve told this very same thing to many times when we’re joking around)went tens of thousands of dollars in debt to become a nanny which IS (whether you like the definition or not) a paid mother/mommy. They hate that being a paid mother is the highest job they could find in LA with a psych degree fresh out of college but that’s just how the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 01:08 AM
1	Men are often richer for doing controversial non-nasty jobs that women don't want to do One went to UCLA and the other two went to a small private Christian college called Biola or something like that	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/23 12:12 AM
1	Men are often richer for doing controversial non-nasty jobs that women don't want to do I know a few women in LA who graduated with psychology “degrees” and are now 60,70, and NINETY THOUSAND DOLLARS in DEBT. Two of them are NANNIES (aka paid mommies) for rich family’s in Mar Vista and the other one works at a brunch spot in Hollywood. They all spend money like there’s no tomorrow and constantly complain about being broke. I’ve asked, so how much are your payments going to be when you finally have to start paying them again? “Idk prob a lot.” Oh god is right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 11:07 PM
12	Just be taller than her, bro Height to women is more important than weight is to men and yet men are shamed into believing wanting a healthy weight woman is shallow while women are celebrated for holding out for a tall man.	/r/AllPillDebate	19/04/23 06:38 PM
19	Just be taller than her, bro This is a hard pill to swallow but, it isn't about you being taller than her. It's much more about you being taller than other men. Walking into a restaurant/store/event/social activity with a tall man that other men literally have to look up to is one of the biggest triggers of female desire. It's dumb. She can be 5'2 and you can be 5'9 but you're still an average man. All it takes is some 6'3 guy to walk by, look down at you, and maybe even smile while carrying on with his day to remind your d…	/r/AllPillDebate	19/04/23 06:23 PM
1	Debates on here are absolutely meaningless due to being unable to set aside your own biases about women or men I tend to be combative on reddit. It's an anonymous forum. I find these threads much more humorous than educational. In real life, I'm actually more of a listener and have always enjoyed the company of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 12:09 AM
1	CMV: Dumping awkward or unattractive guys into the Alaskan wilderness in late winter might make them more attractive. You know what's harder than pitching a tent, starting a fire, and hunting a deer? Making 1 hunnid bands a year. Sure it may not be as manly as roughing it in the woods, but women don't give a shit about these things. "What makes you valuable?" This is the question all men must answer. Once they do, the women will come. For some men, this answer is answered with genetics but eventually these men will also have to prove what makes them valuable to society. You can have the looks of Brad Pitt but i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 11:49 PM
1	CMV : As a Man i believe using Game and Manipulation is immoral, but i believe u have to do it because otherwise u cant compete, and this is actually sad. In my opinion, it's only immoral when things get physical. You HAVE to have sexual discipline and the more you have, the higher value you are to both men and women. You'll never get demons from flirting/having fun/even going on dates with lots of women. You will from sleeping with them though. I'm 26 and I'm just barely starting to develop a lot of sexual discipline. I'm not going to sleep with a woman again until I feel like she could be someone I would be exclusive with and actually commit to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 08:49 PM
–	What would the female version of Red Pill be? Accept that no matter how much money/fame/status you acquire, ONE hour of HARD ASS WORK in the gym will garner more male attention than anything else you could ever do. It is imperative to be self sufficient for obvious reasons but it has nothing to do with male sexual desire. If you believe it does, you are living in a fantasy. Accept that you are probably going to have to chase the man of your dreams as this man is drowning in women that are willing to. The Disney dynamic of Prince Charming ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 07:36 PM
0	For ugly and below-average men. Will sex/love-robots be a good way to cope with emotional and physical lonliness. Ever seen Bladerunner 2049? Ana de Armes? (She is lovely) That’s what I imagine robot companions will be like in the future. I think it will be thousands of years before robots that are indistinguishable from humans will exist if they ever do. I think we will go extinct before we replicate anything close to a soul. Humans are just too complex. In my opinion, it will just make loneliness worse. Theoretically It may be fun for a few months but all it’ll take is one glitch/hiccup to remind you that…	/r/AllPillDebate	16/04/23 03:49 PM
5	If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game? Damn. I’ve never had women burst into tears (don’t really know how I’d handle that with my Johnson out) but there has been a few drunken nights where I just can’t finish and end up losin the blood flow. Every. single. time. this has happened, they get quiet, climb under the covers, and turn over. I feel you brother. Ultimate rizz is getting a woman to finish multiple times and then just tapping out before you get there. Then you climb in bed and say you’re sleepy. I’ve done this once. I would sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/23 05:11 AM
3	If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game? The lack of empathy women have for men in general is astounding.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/23 04:57 AM
1	If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game? I find anonymous Internet forums interesting. Flirting in my experience is give and take. I’ve learned with age and experience that if you take a lot, you better give a lot too. I’m an asshole with women. A little arrogant, a little cocky, and at times a little rude. This believe it or not works on most women. Not all, but most. But I’m also a listener. I ask questions and remember details and know when and how to make women feel important because believe it or not, I view them as incredible cre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 04:59 PM
3	If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game? Groundbreaking research. A nice dinner with an attractive partner without stress from work/kids will probably lead to sexy time. Your post reads like an onion article. Don’t take my comments personally. Im only flirting in good fun ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 04:39 PM
2	If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game? Read my other comments in this thread. I think one thing we can agree on is that everyone is entitled to their own preferences. I’ve been with women who use toys and women who don’t. I’ve enjoyed my sexual experience with women who use toys and enjoy watching them squirm with pleasure. Ideally though, if I’m going to commit to someone sexually for the rest of my life, I would like them to be one of the women that can orgasm organically and easily. That doesn’t mean I wouldn’t pass on the woman o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 04:13 PM
13	If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game? “I wouldn’t ask them how to get caught. I would just ask them what kind of lure they liked best and assure them I meant them no harm” Women ☕️	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 03:33 PM
3	If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game? Okay. That was my point I guess in my original comment. Most men just don’t do it for most women. I asked if it was that far of a stretch to make that assumption since most women would be the first to tell you that they don’t enjoy casual sex due to mostly not being able to finish/lack of genuine desire for their partner. I would bet that most encounters with men are men just getting off and paying no attention to the woman’s needs. This comes with experience and communication skills. Something …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 03:29 PM
4	If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game? You think I’m not a fisherman because of my crude/direct anonymous online comments? DM me homie. I will gladly give proof that not only am I fishing, I’m fishing in Los Angeles. One of the most competitive dating market seas in the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 02:27 PM
7	If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game? I’m not being rejected by women. My pain and hurt comes from rejecting women myself and leaving a wake of broken hearts behind me. You can choose to view toys as teammates but I don’t want a teammate when I’m having sex with my gf/fling/one day wife. I want to find a woman who doesn’t struggle to finish and I never have to question if I’m enough. To each their own though	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 02:25 PM
6	If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game? Ready for another non politically correct comment? The toy is a rival. Ideally, couples should experience orgasm organically. Sure you might find a man who loves using toys. I’ve had experience with both. And as a man, there is nothing more satisfying than using your own body to arouse, make love to, and get off a woman. Using toys in my opinion and I would guess most mens opinion is a bit of a buzz kill. The same way it would be a buzz kill if your bf always needed a pocket p*ssy. It might be f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 02:20 PM
16	If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game? Please enlighten me on how women get turned on. Try not to lump them all in the same group as men so often do...	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 08:17 PM
7	If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game? What don't you agree with in my comment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 07:50 PM
36	If the 80/20 rule is true than isn't hetero sex a zero-sum game? Don't ask the fish how to fish. Ask the fisherman. I never ask women for advice on women because the entire point of their sexual strategy is deception. Plus, I've had many many women in my life since my early teens and the things they say they want hardly ever align with their actions. It's funny hearing women on this sub try to womansplain that the 80/20 rule isn't true. These same women would also probably be the first to tell you that org*sming is extremely difficult for them and that most m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 05:57 PM
1	whats the problem with a woman getting with a beta bucks? Please explain	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 06:34 AM
2	whats the problem with a woman getting with a beta bucks? I don’t make the rules	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 06:29 AM
1	Marriage is not healthy for Red Pillers or the women with them. Actually adolescence is from 18-25 and it’s widely known males mature slower than females. I don’t expect a man to have his shit together emotionally/sexually from 18-25. In many ways, he’s still a boy. Some men do but most don’t. The same way some men graduate college, begin careers, and buy property before they turn 30. Some do, most don’t. I wouldn’t call a guy in his early twenties wanting to sleep/have flings/relationships with a lot of women as lustful and “weak”. If anything, I would say …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 06:26 AM
4	whats the problem with a woman getting with a beta bucks? The short answer is yes. The long answer is not exactly. It’s not that women can’t fall in love with a normal guy who leads a normal life. They have and will continue to do so. They have to… But it’s not in their nature. Women are fundamentally different from men when it comes to what they desire SEXUALLY. Womens nature is to procreate with the ALPHA APLHA ALPHA MALE. The top top top percent. They can’t help it. Men desire A beautiful woman. Women desire THE handsome man. The words A and THE are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/23 02:32 AM
1	AWALT, or NAWALT? LMAO	/r/AllPillDebate	13/04/23 12:19 AM
9	whats the problem with a woman getting with a beta bucks? The post I responded to has a sentence that reads “He gets to stick his dick in a warm hole from time to time” I assumed the post was purely sexual. This is purple pill. Trust me, I have many many views that would align with the blue pill. I respect many people in my life who have had what appears to be fulfilling relationships rooted in love, sacrifice, compassion, understanding, and unwavering commitment. I’m talkin bout sex homie. And when it comes sex, Alpha FUX. Your wife can love you with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 08:30 PM
8	whats the problem with a woman getting with a beta bucks? Staying with the guy she can get instead of the guy she wants is... Settling. Hubby will soon be joining r/deadbedrooms asking redditors why his "hobbies", dead end job, gradual weight gain, yearly vacation to the same beach, and 5k matched 401k at his management job isn't enough to get his woman wet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 07:37 PM
11	If men were less horny, what would happen? Losing sexual desire in many ways would be the best thing that could happen for most if not all men. From Incel to Chad. They would focus on hobbies, goals, aspirations, education, business, networking, experiences, investments, family, travel, etc. etc. Most women will desire Chad regardless of his personality. But ALL women will THROW themselves at Chad that is extremely sexually disciplined and financially driven.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 07:01 PM
17	whats the problem with a woman getting with a beta bucks? It's not just looks. Unfortunately as a man, you need to constantly be improving in order to retain female desire. Financially. physically, and socially. You can be very attractive but if your wives friends husband starts a business and starts traveling to Europe every summer while you play golf on the weekends with your buddies from college, your wife will start to view you as beta and will slowly become bitter that she picked the wrong man. Because you're fucking losing. Women view the world d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 06:07 PM
-1	CMV: The perception that men are inherently (or most likely to be) net drains on women's lives drives more men to RedPill/Blackpill ideologies Why would that be good to keep in mind? Taking the black pill is like deciding to stand on the sideline and bitch and moan about how good the other team is and how no matter what you do, you will never win. The red pill is analyzing where you stand and getting in the f*cking game and trying your best to win. Even if you’re a 2 on the attractiveness scale, you will receive more respect and admiration from both sexes if you simply… try.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 03:35 PM
13	CMV: The perception that men are inherently (or most likely to be) net drains on women's lives drives more men to RedPill/Blackpill ideologies For decades men go through life thinking a man that is caring, loving, emotionally intelligent, etc. is what women desire. The red pill urges men to become better. Financially, physically, and socially as this is a huge drive for female attraction. IMO, this benefits both men and women. The blackpill pretty much tells men that the hottest guys will always get the hottest girls. The blackpill is irrelevant in my opinion. It would be like saying "only the man that makes 500k can afford a brand new…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 12:48 AM
1	Marriage is not healthy for Red Pillers or the women with them. "On the rare occasion I agreed to be in a relationship" You were out of those mens league. Here's a different perspective. I'm 6'4, a multi sport athlete in college, skinny lean, active, flirty, busy, artsy, mixed with green eyes, with lots of hobbies and interests outside of having sex and surfing reddit. I also make just over 100k/year, have a promising career with investments and benefits, live in Los Angeles, and travel frequently as I usually take off 2-3 months every year. A girl/woman has…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/23 12:29 AM
-1	Blue Pillars reaction to a free tate Andrew Tate is a joke. Anyone who takes him seriously is even more of a joke. His loud mouth, flashy cars, and Dubai lifestyle doesn’t scream masculine, powerful, and happy but instead reveals someone who is… Insecure, a slave to the media, and extremely disturbed/dissatisfied with life.	/r/AllPillDebate	11/04/23 05:53 PM
1	Marriage is not healthy for Red Pillers or the women with them. What are you talking about........ I'm sorry but you've lost me. We can agree to disagree	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 04:34 PM
1	Marriage is not healthy for Red Pillers or the women with them. Just because Asexual people exist doesn't mean men as a whole don't desire multiple sexual partners. This is true across all of nature. Pregnancy is a giant risk for women. It's not a risk at all for men. Male nature is to spread their seed as far and wide as possible. Female nature is to pick the best possible male that is worth the risk of pregnancy. I learned this about animals in 6th grade.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 04:26 PM
11	Epic headscratcher: How can a woman fail THIS horribly in a world where my 600lb Girlfriend exists? A couple of things stand out to me in the post. If you hate long winded posts, this isn't for you. I'll include a TLDR at the end. She claims that men don't give her the time of day but then claims that she's never had a long term relationship and that she's been abstaining from sex for over a year now. Translation: PLENTY OF MEN give me the time of day and I am very used to sexual advances from men. So much so that I'm ACTIVELY CHOOSING to abstain from sex. The problem is that these men are n…	/r/AllPillDebate	11/04/23 04:14 PM
4	Marriage is not healthy for Red Pillers or the women with them. In short because it’s very very hard to fight nature/biology. Chances are, the men you’re referring to have options. When you’re a man with options, its your nature/biology screaming at you to have as many partners as possible. When beautiful women are throwing themselves at you often, it’s very very difficult to remain faithful. It is imperative you have above average parenting, discipline, self control, life experience, and mental stability. On that same note womens biology/nature is screaming…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 03:50 AM
1	People who consider themselves black pilled, what real life experiences or direct observations have you made that confirm your conclusions about the black pill ideology? What exactly is “the black pill”? I looked it up on the google and all I’m getting are articles about “incel extremism”…	/r/AllPillDebate	10/04/23 01:06 AM
11	Chadsexuality / LesbianPill being real and brutal, and as proof, these posts Women are born with inherent sexual value. We all came from a woman regardless of sex. Women are more valuable than men. It’s been this way since the dawn of time. An average looking woman has 100 times more sex appeal than an average looking man does because women can grow entire human beings inside of them. I definitely don’t view women as baby making factories but this is something truly magical. They are the bearers of life. Women are picky because it’s in their nature where as men, eh not s…	/r/AllPillDebate	10/04/23 01:00 AM
1	Men who follow traditional lifestyles and pursue traditional relationships are sitting ducks for being stuck with alimony I admit, what I said about the 2% being unattractive and undesirable to most men is mean. Extremely mean.With that being said… Thats not shaming women for their choices. That’s just being a dick about their looks. You’re the one calling women SCUM in other threads with me for them simply choosing to chase men/be with men/fall in love with men who have money. I think you’re the one shaming women for their choices.	/r/AllPillDebate	08/04/23 05:59 AM
1	Men who follow traditional lifestyles and pursue traditional relationships are sitting ducks for being stuck with alimony I’ve read through your posts. You claim to have met your wife and gotten married pre tinder but also claim to have put “split the bill” in your dating apps…in the same thread…So which is it? I genuinely believe women who truly love you for who you are will love you if you’re broke or if you’re wealthy. That being said, I also genuinely believe that if you, as a man, do not provide or are actively coming up with a plan of action to beat the game of life, your woman will lose desire for you. She c…	/r/AllPillDebate	08/04/23 05:16 AM
0	Never drive a woman to a first date, and definitely always split the bill. Question? For someone who’s married do you think love exists? Or do you view all women who marry men who happen to be successful as money thirsty tricksters?	/r/AllPillDebate	07/04/23 02:55 PM
0	Never drive a woman to a first date, and definitely always split the bill. I disagree. Call me traditionalist or whatever but having an attitude of “if you can’t pay your own way, you’re not worth of kids” towards a woman seems extremely tone deaf. This should have nothing to do with her being worthy of children. Is she nurturing? Is she mature? Is she feminine? Is she good with children and does she desire them? Is she LOYAL and does she LOVE ME. As a man, I want to provide for my woman. I make pretty good money and live in what I consider a cool city. It’s expensive …	/r/AllPillDebate	07/04/23 02:53 PM
1	Never drive a woman to a first date, and definitely always split the bill. I’m talking about FIRST DATES. I’ve never felt comfortable offering to split the bill with a woman on the FIRST DATE. If she’s only hanging out with me to go to fancy dinners and never offering to pay for an experience/meal or just vibe with me by going on a hike, run, going to a free museums, grabbing coffee, or going to the beach than obviously she’s just using me for free meals/experiences. Hence why I said if she’s going to friend zone you, she’s going to no matter what you do on the first d…	/r/AllPillDebate	07/04/23 02:17 AM
1	Never drive a woman to a first date, and definitely always split the bill. I agree with 50% of this post. All of my first dates (from dating apps. Meeting in friend groups, work, social settings, etc. is different.) are at public places preferably during daylight hours (brunch, coffee). I always tell them to meet me there and I never offer to pick them up. I usually feel things out on the date and if she seems like the type to split the bill and she verbally brings it up, I won't pressure her otherwise. It's happened a few times and I usually just smirk and wink at her…	/r/AllPillDebate	07/04/23 01:20 AM
–	How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid? No its not fucked that women aren’t attracted to unattractive men. Of course women should have standards and date people who they feel attraction to. It’s fucked that some people are just born with good genes and will have many many chances at relationships while others will never even kiss another human being. It’s also fucked when those who are insecure but maybe a little higher up on the totem pole condemn those beneath them and are cruel. That’s what I meant is fucked. It’s fucked when peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 07:36 PM
–	How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid? Slept on it and thought I’d give a little more insight. My other answer was pretty vague and more theoretical so I’ll try to be more specific. If you have balance in your life these things will come natural but I really think clinginess and forwardness is such a turn off for women and a “secret ingredient” to men who are successful with women. I don’t define success with women as sleeping with them. While that is part of the joy and thrill of being around women, I define success with women by ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 04:54 PM
–	How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid? I deleted Hinge last summer and have vowed to never be on dating apps again. They’re so terrible for you. With that being said, I matched with a girl who I was really excited to go out with last summer. I was always really direct on apps. It’s a fucking app. I would just wait for them to message and then reply “when are you free for coffee” or “when are you free for brunch” This would work about 80% of the time. Met some cool people. Some of which I still see semi regularly in group settings. Th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 06:13 AM
–	How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid? If I’m being real, I quit smoking weed because A.) It was killing my drive and ambition and B.) I was having panic attacks about how incompetent I actually was. A lot of my friends are way better men than me. They would never treat women the way I have in the past. They have strong family ties. They have strong moral values. They would never do drugs and they drink very very rarely. They have more advanced degrees. Better jobs. More money. But again….they don’t have IT. And they STRUGGLE getting…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 05:41 AM
–	How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid? This is what a lot of red pillers fail to recognize. In many many ways, it’s WAY easier to be a man even in todays society. It doesn’t take an MIT grad to realize this. I LOVE women. But I’m happy to be a man and would pick this role again if I were given the chance to start over in life. Men are correct in calling women out for being shallow but men are just as shallow if not even more so. Genetics play an even larger role in female reproductive success. Men on this sub will say things like “an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 04:59 AM
–	How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid? Here’s the thing. Ive lurked on this sub for a long time but for some reason OPs post stood out to me and I had to comment. This is purple pill. The red/black pill in me says that it doesn’t matter. Anything I say most men will take with a grain of salt because I’m 6’4, athletic, skinny lean, make just over 100k, and live in Los Angeles. I don’t say that to brag. I say that to give context. Any advice I give will be laughed at because of the above attributes. However the blue pill in me says to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 12:40 AM
8	How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid? It is fucked up. I wish I could help them but I can’t. You can’t force someone to like you	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 10:34 PM
12	How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid? Good. You’re mentally healthy. Most of my exes are not. And for a long time, I wasn’t either	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 10:34 PM
7	How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid? That’s the thing. I don’t know. Some guys get women, some don’t. I really don’t know…I wish I did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 10:32 PM
16	How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid? This…unfortunately…is the truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 10:26 PM
61	How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid? I’m not a woman but I feel you on this. I’m 6’4, mixed with green eyes, athletic, lean and skinny, and artsy. I live in LA and even in LA I don’t struggle attracting women at all. In fact 90% of my dating life since 15 has been women approaching me. I’ve messed up a lot. Cheated. Lied in attempts to let people down easy. All things I regret and have changed with age and growth. With that being said. None of it matters. Every single one of my exes would take me back in a heartbeat if I reached ou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 07:00 PM