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| 1 | i think a lot of men suffer from "excessive horniness" and it's not diagnosed/treatedAt least people could fine their compatible partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:39 PM |
| 1 | i think a lot of men suffer from "excessive horniness" and it's not diagnosed/treatedYou don’t even know me lol. Weird comment. We can get your tattoo changed when your sex drive changes. I will allow that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:39 PM |
| 1 | i think a lot of men suffer from "excessive horniness" and it's not diagnosed/treatedSpecial? Nothing. It is certainly different than women’s. Men have larger amount of testosterone…feel free to Google the effects of testosterone on the sex drive. Men do not have periods. Men have a refractory time. Men do not have menopause. Men can be fertile far longer than women. The release of dopamine and serotonin in aroused men is larger than in women. We evolved to have more reproductive sex over our lives than women. Before modern medicine the average number of children a woman could h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | i think a lot of men suffer from "excessive horniness" and it's not diagnosed/treatedThey should have it tattooed on their forehead if I was in charge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | i think a lot of men suffer from "excessive horniness" and it's not diagnosed/treatedYou don’t have a male sex drive…at best you have a high female sex drive. It is not the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | i think a lot of men suffer from "excessive horniness" and it's not diagnosed/treatedIt would help everyone not get into crappy 20 year marriages with non-sexual partners…speaking from experience. People should not have to filter through the noise to find compatibility. Let boring people find boring people. Let the rest of us find our freaky matches | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | i think a lot of men suffer from "excessive horniness" and it's not diagnosed/treatedThere are definitely chemicals that inhibit good decision making. Modern medical science is just starting to understand the effects that self-released chemicals have on our biological functions. The brain is an organ with the ability to release on itself a chemical cocktail that is similar to cocaine to bridge the gap between our biological systems and our higher functions. The human brain is its own junkie. The male brain absolutely centers around sex and reproduction. That is why we are here t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | i think a lot of men suffer from "excessive horniness" and it's not diagnosed/treatedYou don’t need to be horny to have sex. That is like saying you need to be hungry to eat a piece of candy. Some of the best sex I have ever had is when I was not in the mood and I could just go to pound town without worrying about orgasming too fast. For men that truly like sex orgasms are a huge inconvenience. Sex is just fun. But then again boring people are boring in all areas of their life. Non-boring people stick a cat tail butt plug in, put on cat ears, a collar and a leash and ask to be w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | i think a lot of men suffer from "excessive horniness" and it's not diagnosed/treatedI take testosterone and fertility meds which make my horniness out of this world. At 44 I have a high libido. I don’t mess with low libido women. I wish people were rated sexually and had to wear their rating. You make a very boring argument for a very boring life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:09 PM |
| 4 | We should be teaching children as young as 5 the meaning of RSV, then by 13 they learn SMVHow does that accomplish that? Only a very minority of people even come to subreddits like this or care for pill ideology. There are 600lb women with boyfriends and some guy with no teeth at the trailer park has two girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 07:57 PM |
| 2 | We should be teaching children as young as 5 the meaning of RSV, then by 13 they learn SMVWhat problem are you trying to solve? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 07:55 PM |
| 7 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.I think most people can use common sense to realize OP is not talking in absolutes. I would suggest that OP say “the average man is far more hornier than the average woman”. Human males are top tier sex machines. In my experience women are not very good at sex and not as driven by sex. We never even have a conversation about women being absolutely terrible at sex because men have such a high sex drive they overlook it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 07:51 PM |
| 2 | If we had absolutely perfect data on sex and relationships, what are the sorts of things we would discover about people?I am done arguing with you on a question posed by OP that is a hypothetical. You think that self-reported surveys are accurate and I do not especially when it comes to a core tenant of how a person views themselves such as cheating or infidelity. Lets leave it at that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 11:54 AM |
| 4 | If we had absolutely perfect data on sex and relationships, what are the sorts of things we would discover about people?Learn how to have a discussion. Let me clarify for you. Surveys contain all ages and are notoriously inaccurate with huge margins of error. For a survey like that to be accurate it would have to survey people on the last day of the average lifespan and have the respondent be completely honest. Some things people tell no one even surveys The question “have you ever cheated in your 72 years of life” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | If we had absolutely perfect data on sex and relationships, what are the sorts of things we would discover about people?If you say so. Self reported information from surveys has been debunked as accurate data for a long time. It really does not matter if it is anonymous or not. You have to be willing to confront your own actions and the first people that people lie to are themselves. Reporting on an anonymous survey first requires someone saying “I am a cheater and I cheated”. We don’t do that. Instead we explain things away and justify it to ourselves or just flat out deny it. OP’s framework was actual good data… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 11:19 AM |
| 6 | If we had absolutely perfect data on sex and relationships, what are the sorts of things we would discover about people?Over 60% of people cheat and over 80% would cheat if they had the opportunity Most men in long term marriages have visited sex workers of some kind at some point which keeps their marriage together Women are not as good as men at sex if bi and pan people were surveyed. Throughout history 20-30% of children were raised by a father that thought they were his but were someone else’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 11:02 AM |
| 1 | How do girls not find guys who ask them out after just meeting them creepy?That is not true and why would you downvote a dissenting opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 08:23 PM |
| 3 | How do girls not find guys who ask them out after just meeting them creepy?People who are risk takers and confident are more admired. From business to sports to romance. Playing it safe gets you nowhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 08:03 PM |
| 4 | what is a man?I think a masculine man has confidence. He is a problem solver. He is accountable, responsible, and reliable. He is physically and emotionally strong. He will do for others even at his own cost. He carries those that are weaker than him when they need him to. He is a guardian and protector and will always walk toward a problem. He has no fear of speaking up. He acts despite being afraid at times. He spends his days thinking about how to make life easier for those that he loves. He is not afraid … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 12:18 PM |
| 0 | Interesting social experiment showing why dating is a numbers game for menThat is not the data you thought it was. “Looking for dates” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:12 PM |
| 0 | Interesting social experiment showing why dating is a numbers game for menLink | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Interesting social experiment showing why dating is a numbers game for menI think that is a false premise. That goes against human behavior in general. If it is true then it is because they have the illusion of abundance. Why make a choice if better and better options keep presenting themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Interesting social experiment showing why dating is a numbers game for menLets say that almost all women want a successful long term relationship that meets their needs. If every man that shows interest in her is interested in a long term relationship and meeting her needs then “no, it is not an illusion”. However, we both know that only a minority of men are actually interested in that. Many men will show interest because of sex and only sex. So if only a minority of men are interested in a long term relationship and meeting her needs then “yes, it is an illusion”. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Interesting social experiment showing why dating is a numbers game for menExactly. If everyone applies for every job then every job could potentially select from a candidate pool that has every candidate which is an illusion. Instead apply at the jobs that you really want and would accept an offer of employment from. By doing this the candidate pool only contains people that would take the job if offered and the employer has a pool of candidates that would take the job if offered. Why apply at McDonalds as a cashier if you are an engineer? I appreciate you proving my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:33 PM |
| -1 | Interesting social experiment showing why dating is a numbers game for menIt gives women the illusion of abundance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: In honor of Father’s Day, would you act as a father to children that weren’t yours? Why or why not?I said I would consider adopting if a child had zero parents. A mother is a parent. That is not a child “in need”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Interesting social experiment showing why dating is a numbers game for menIf men were more selective they would not have this problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 05:29 PM |
| 6 | Q4Men: In honor of Father’s Day, would you act as a father to children that weren’t yours? Why or why not?It depends on the context. “Not ugly” has been slang for being good looking in these types of subs for a long time. It is a slight play on words that anyone can understand. You should not even need it to be explained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:31 AM |
| 4 | Q4Men: In honor of Father’s Day, would you act as a father to children that weren’t yours? Why or why not?Whatever lol. No they are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:24 AM |
| 7 | Q4Men: In honor of Father’s Day, would you act as a father to children that weren’t yours? Why or why not?Anyone who thinks that being good looking and having money as a man does not give you an abundance of dating options is probably a gravity well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:21 AM |
| 5 | Q4Men: In honor of Father’s Day, would you act as a father to children that weren’t yours? Why or why not?Don’t be ugly and have money gives you more options as far as finding a partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:19 AM |
| 11 | Q4Men: In honor of Father’s Day, would you act as a father to children that weren’t yours? Why or why not?Well, I have options so I doubt my back would be against a wall. If you are not ugly and you have money things are not as much of an issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:16 AM |
| 12 | Q4Men: In honor of Father’s Day, would you act as a father to children that weren’t yours? Why or why not?No, there are too many single people without kids. If I had no options…maybe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:13 AM |
| 14 | Q4Men: In honor of Father’s Day, would you act as a father to children that weren’t yours? Why or why not?No way, maybe adult children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:10 AM |
| 20 | Q4Men: In honor of Father’s Day, would you act as a father to children that weren’t yours? Why or why not?I would be friendly but I don’t want to be their father. A cool uncle type that they see occasionally if I decide to join them for a special occasion. Other than that no way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:06 AM |
| 45 | Q4Men: In honor of Father’s Day, would you act as a father to children that weren’t yours? Why or why not?Would I want to raise another man’s kids? That depends if they are up for adoption. I would not want to be a father to some single mom’s kids that are young. I am fine adopting a kid that has no parents. If I was to date a single mom it would be living separate lives in separate places and us just meeting up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?If a woman has let you into a relationship and I am not talking about FWB then she absolutely wants the next step which is commitment. It will drive her nuts if you do not eventually commit. Beyonce made a song about it. She is not going to say no when she already said yes. Now I am generalizing sure there are exceptions but they are exceptions. Women don’t want to date for years if they can avoid it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?Haha…no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?Women gatekeep the relationship (sex) and men gatekeep commitment (marriage) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 12:03 AM |
| 26 | It’s really not that hard for unattractive guys/guys with typically unattractive traits to get sex from womenI read the forever alone woman subreddit a lot and they often post stuff like “only ugly men are interested in me”. People are delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 04:44 PM |
| 8 | It’s really not that hard for unattractive guys/guys with typically unattractive traits to get sex from womenI also like chubby girls even though I could pull more traditionally attractive but I really like them. I don’t feel like I have competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 04:40 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Men that are tender and loving in the bedroom instead of rough and dominant are doomed to be mediocre, forgettable loversI can definitely say from experience that women 100% prefer dominance and mostly rougher sex.”Making love” is fine but it should be the minority. I am a big strong guy and I was always afraid of hurting someone. Truth is the more I left marks, the more I choked. the more I commanded, the more I pulled a handful of hair, and the more dirty I talked the more I was complemented. I have now transitioned entirely toward more bdsm, ddlg, freeuse intimacy and it is not really my thing. It just works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Do you think porn and sex bots could cause humans to go extinct?You mean like buying a video game and getting addicted to it and immersed in it? You think too highly of the short haired apes that dominate this planet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Do you think porn and sex bots could cause humans to go extinct?I have made similar comments where someone says “that is a slave”…no it is a synthetic and not real it is just an illusion of being real and the human brain accepts illusions really really easily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Do you think porn and sex bots could cause humans to go extinct?I think you underestimate the human ability to accept an illusion. The same species that is amazed at magic shows and drowns themselves in sports and video games and recreational drugs to just escape reality. Humanity will literally drug itself to death for some dopamine and self-medicating its misery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you think porn and sex bots could cause humans to go extinct?Sure, people that need therapist and medications and have health problems and cheat sounds like a good option… far better than delusion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 01:40 PM |
| 8 | Do you think porn and sex bots could cause humans to go extinct?I think a lot of long time married people will tell you that they don’t divorce because it is such a dramatic and problematic thing to go through. Humanity and relationships is a very flawed and far from perfect dynamic. Having a synthetic life partner that constantly does chores and is available to you for you and whatever your needs are and has the ability to create the illusion of companionship would replace the crappy human dynamic in an instant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you think porn and sex bots could cause humans to go extinct?It does not matter if it is real it just has to have the facade of being real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 01:29 PM |
| -1 | Do you think porn and sex bots could cause humans to go extinct?You mean someone who takes anti depressants just to function daily? That sounds like a really high bar…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 01:28 PM |
| 5 | Do you think porn and sex bots could cause humans to go extinct?Synthetic companions that can have relatively real conversations will end human companionship as we know it. Those will be the real life companions and sex with other humans will be for entertainment. Parenting will be much more selective and probably involve much more donor type dynamics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Why are RP men incapable of empathizing with women?There comes a point with RP men where their desires completely eradicate empathy and their ability to value individuals. In my opinion RP men were already so dysfunctional before embracing the red pill that they were incapable of making a long term committed relationship work and that is before embracing TRP. As to one of your other points…in my opinion the older people are in the dating world the more they are playing the musical chairs of dating with the same dysfunctional people. There is the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 12:19 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.But I never said it solved problems. Repairing can mean many things. But in my context it means repairing the stress that day-to-day can take on a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.That is a strawman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.That is an opinion that I do not share. Sex is one of the most intimate things that two people can do and it is the largest part of our evolution. Invalidating the importance of sex between people invalidates humanity. Everything from advertising to baby clothes would prove your comment wrong. People are sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is a "Low value man"?Does sarcasm always just go way over your head | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is a "Low value man"?Not exclusively just mostly. Sometimes I think about food. I would probably be thinking about sex with the therapist tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 11:56 PM |
| 0 | What exactly is a "Low value man"?See what exactly? What epiphany do you think that you have found? That I use social media for entertainment purposes when I am multi tasking? Nice job! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is a "Low value man"?Sure if the information is important. On Reddit? In this sub? Nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 08:08 PM |
| 0 | What exactly is a "Low value man"?Huh, I think a lot about sex. So do my peers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 08:03 PM |
| -3 | What exactly is a "Low value man"?What?? How did that comment even make sense to you? I own multiple businesses. I own commercial properties. I own rental properties. I own equipment that costs more than most people’s houses. I lift more than men half my age and I have a tremendous sex drive even at 44. If anything ambition has a positive correlation with sex drive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 07:43 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is a "Low value man"?So men in general lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 07:13 PM |
| 5 | What exactly is a "Low value man"?I love how you lead with hyper sexual. You do know what the word compatible means? Anyone with more sex drive than you could be considered hyper sexual by you which is a silly thought experiment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 06:53 PM |
| 0 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.If you say haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 06:45 PM |
| 3 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.I really enjoyed reading your comment. I agree. Men do need to call out their BS more. I told a woman she was terrible at sex and guess what…she started putting way more effort. Alone you can call them out. In groups they circle the wagons to perpetuate the facade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 06:26 PM |
| 0 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.“Here and there” which is ambiguous and individual dependent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.I don’t think most people would have an issue with that. An overwhelming amount of Yes and initiation makes a few Nos forgettable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Then the issue is not sex it is picking a bad partner and a failing or failed relationship. Totally different topic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:03 PM |
| 2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Thank you kind Redditor. I really do appreciate that feedback. I am a heterosexual male but I often think about sucking dick because I know I would be good at it because I know what feels good. I have always thought men would likely give better blow jobs but the same is probably true fir women as far as oral. Something is only “hard” or “work” if the mindset is that it is hard or work. People who want to pleasure other people and get enjoyment of it are probably not laboring on how hard somethin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:02 PM |
| -1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Empathy on both sides and “being in the mood” is a total cop out because we all know someone can get in the mood. What that translates to is “you are not worth the effort”. No one who says that has a great relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:00 PM |
| 4 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.My personal experiences and conversations with a lot of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:37 PM |
| -1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Weaponized means that sex is used as a tool to get what you want. If he only gets sex because he has done XY and Z then that is weaponized sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:36 PM |
| -1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.She does in a marriage otherwise I won’t marry her. That is the agreement to marry me. She can have hers and they will likely be compatible. That is what a marriage is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:35 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Possibly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:34 PM |
| -2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.“No” is only used in sucky relationships. Because good relationships have empathy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Why are people so dense? Your examples are just dumb. Did you miss the part about a loving, caring, and respectful relationship based around empathy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:18 PM |
| 0 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.So sex is weaponized? Meaning that if he did not do that sex would be withheld. He gets rewarded for doing dishes and bringing in some cash? Does he know this is the dynamic? My point is you should do your 60% regardless of what he does. He then should do his 60%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.If he does not like it then why would he initiate during it? That is like creating a problem that does not exist. Your whole premise is that men are not owed sex which is true. My point is that in a committed relationship like a marriage the marriage is owed sex , the commitment is owed sex, the partnership and team is owed sex because sex repairs, renews, and grows all of that. That it is a commitment to each other to try your best to meet the other person’s needs for their physical and emotion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.You did ask, when free use was discussed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.That is your choice but period sex is amazing especially if is slow and loving and includes tummy and leg massages. It feels so much better and it is absolutely one of the most intimate things two people can do. But even in a free use you can set that boundary…it is just not common to have that type of boundary unless your periods just crippling. He should make you want to feel better not cause more unintentional pain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:01 PM |
| 2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.I will accept that. You have a good point. They deserve a partner just like themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:58 PM |
| 2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Put yourself in as the recieved. Lets say you have a freeuse relationship. Your partner loves you, cares about you, cares about your physical and emotional health. You both agree that you each have free sexual use of each other. When would you absolutely hate that your partner initiates? Keep in mind that they love and respect you and have your best interest at heart? When would you feel like them coming up and saying “go get undressed and in bed” would anger you? Sex is about repairing, renewin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.It is consensual you gravity well. Say it with me C-O-N-S-E-N-S-U-A-L Consensual. Look up the definition of rape | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:53 PM |
| 3 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Maybe, I don’t think many people communicate well which is the core of all problems. I also don’t think people try to work on their health and improving themselves like they should. If two people have great communication and if two people try to be the best people for themselves first and their partner second then I think your point becomes non-applicable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:52 PM |
| 3 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.I want to hear bi men speak up on this. Regardless men still do the overwhelming amount of work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:49 PM |
| 0 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Build up your core and become overall fit. You will also realize sore muscles become strong muscles. Not a tough concept young lady | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:49 PM |
| 2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.The key is that it is consensual and a loving partner that wants a healthy partner makes good choices. You are weirded out because you are not picturing that it is two people that have love and respect and empathy for each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:48 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Good partners on both sides are hard to find. But will you work to keep him? Or will you beat him down with “no” after “no” under the excuse that “you just don’t understand how a woman works” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:47 PM |
| 2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.I do most of the housework. I was more involved as a parent than my ex. I pulled 80% of the weight in the marriage. While being an absolutely 1% provider. Don’t pick boys…find a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:45 PM |
| 2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.It can. That is why it is consensual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:44 PM |
| 2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.My relationship is freeuse. There is no pressure. Both partners have sexual access at all times. It is a core belief in our relationship and it works. I have been in a relationship that you described and it was horrible. You have never been in mine to see the difference. There is no stress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Yes but what you are describing is a lack of working on fixing it. Communicate the problem, get professional help, and work on reestablishing a healthy sexual dynamic. You are literally describing the worst type of partner…the one who wont communicate and seek help when they need it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:42 PM |
| 0 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Go to the gym then. Good sex has pain and inconvenience with it. Like literally the only work you have to put in is the occasional blow job and you act like it is so much work. Hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:41 PM |
| 1 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Also up the bar with what you expect out of your man. Just don’t do that and be a “no sayer”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:37 PM |
| 3 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Wow a blow job. You must be so good. Try eating a vagina until your mouth is about to fall apart. Blow jobs are easy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:36 PM |
| -2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.You need to stay single. I have an exceptional freeuse relationship. You will never understand because you will never experience a relationship like that because of your mindset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:34 PM |
| 2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Women are mostly lazy at sex and are lucky most guys don’t make an issue of it. I am a good lover and have no problem pointing out when someone is terrible at it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:32 PM |
| 5 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Freeuse came from the bdsm community but is being more widely adopted. It is a consensual agreement to remove “no” from the relationship. Both partners typically have sexual access at all times. However, people can add some boundaries or framework but largely that is the deal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:31 PM |
| -10 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.It is absolutely owed in a committed relationship. You are literally committing to meet the other person’s needs. This seems to be a tough concept for you ladies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:26 PM |
| 0 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Ok…and a woman who doesn’t deserves to be alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:25 PM |
| 2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Do you need me to copy the comment I replied to and post it to you lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:25 PM |
| -5 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Sex should not be weaponized | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:14 PM |
| 2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Why do men have to put in all the effort? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:13 PM |
| 7 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.I thought the same way after 20 years of a dead bedroom. Not all women are that way. Maybe most but not all. You just have to be very upfront sexually to figure out who actually enjoys sex. What I have learned is that most women are terrible at sex and don’t really know how to do it. That probably has something to do with why they do not like it. Plus they have probably had partners that are bad at sex. I have been upfront any relationship is a “freeuse” relationship or I will move on. That make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:12 PM |
| -1 | Are younger man/ older woman relationships a potential answer to the imbalanced SMP/ RMP that men here rail against?My girlfriend is 24. I am 44(M). I don’t think it matters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Statistics put aside, based on anecdotal experience, which gender is more likely to commit infidelity all else being equal?It may reduce but so do men’s but it is still exponentially higher | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Statistics put aside, based on anecdotal experience, which gender is more likely to commit infidelity all else being equal?Women they get solicited far more and have far more options. Men rarely get solicited and have way less opportunities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 06:09 PM |
| -1 | The dating market is so skewed against men these days because 18-35 women are in such high demand and 45+ women have mostly lost their interest in sex and datingI read a lot of posts on r/datingoverforty and many people give up over there. Plus older men are often dating down into the younger age groups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 05:08 PM |
| 77 | What will happen when technology reaches a point where you can choose your baby’s gender?People who could afford that don’t drive populations. It would probably be oldest a boy and a younger girl sibling. Poor people drive populations and they won’t have access to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 12:46 PM |
| 2 | I just got banned from r/AskWomen..Reddit is not really a place for discussion minus a few decent subs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 09:55 PM |
| 4 | female emancipation and subsequent promiscuity does not causes societal decline.And how are you connecting that to your statement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 06:52 PM |
| 5 | female emancipation and subsequent promiscuity does not causes societal decline.If it is a fact then provide sources | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 06:47 PM |
| 5 | female emancipation and subsequent promiscuity does not causes societal decline.That is an opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 06:40 PM |
| 0 | female emancipation and subsequent promiscuity does not causes societal decline.Strawman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 06:28 PM |
| 28 | female emancipation and subsequent promiscuity does not causes societal decline.No just a bunch of people on anti-depressants, chain relationships, and kids that don’t know what a functional relationship looks like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Do people (irl) really care about peoples (mainly women’s) “body count” ?Moderate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 02:09 PM |
| 0 | Do people (irl) really care about peoples (mainly women’s) “body count” ?Mine are wealthy and upper middle class so you may be right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Do people (irl) really care about peoples (mainly women’s) “body count” ?It does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 10:28 AM |
| 3 | Do people (irl) really care about peoples (mainly women’s) “body count” ?It matters as far as marriage it does not matter as far as short term relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 01:16 AM |
| 5 | Is AFBB really only about genes vs providor?That made zero sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 11:06 PM |
| 11 | Online Dating Is Actually OK For Average PeopleThis sounds like an advertisement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 10:10 AM |
| 11 | What makes men gravitate towards Redpill? What got you interested (if you are interested) in redpill?People want to understand relationship dynamics and have expectations and goals for relationships. Right now mating is in a massive cultural transition with possibly marriage and all long term relationships being redefined. We went from a culture where any person was limited to potential mates in their small towns to metros and technology that make the number of mates almost limitless. That has led to change. Men had the leverage as providers. Now leverage has shifted to women as they have not o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 11:21 AM |
| 3 | What is the most important thing a guy can improve that can vastly improve his notch count fast?Be some combination of good looking, wealthy, famous, and powerful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 11:33 PM |
| 7 | What’s your opinion on high n count?Well said and the assumption should always be that they are not being honest. Always assume a higher n count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:02 AM |
| 2 | What’s your opinion on high n count?She is a much older woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:01 AM |
| 6 | What’s your opinion on high n count?It is just reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 03:00 AM |
| 4 | Sugar Dating RealityMost SB are escorts pretending to be SB these days. That ship has sailed. If you want to use money as leverage then look overseas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 02:56 AM |
| 9 | What’s your opinion on high n count?It matters which is why high n count people lie about their n counts. Nothing screams a dysfunctional person like someone with a high n count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Just on the topic of N count, wanted to share this post. What are your thoughts?Damn lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | How much success will looks alone really get you with women as a man.Probably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How much success will looks alone really get you with women as a man.People decide in less than 30 seconds if they would have relations with you. Looks 100% defines that but personality can cause you to lose it. As long as your personality doesn’t lose the deal then looks closes the deal. “He is handsome, I hope he is not an asshole” is the expectation. Not “he is ok looking I hope he is funny”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 05:05 PM |
| 8 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?That is one of the dumbest statements that I have ever heard an adult say. “Options” and “replaceable” are not synonyms. Women may have options but do they have good options? Are great options replaceable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 06:31 PM |
| 3 | On the matter of women having easier dating lives.We are talking about dating and probably long term relationships. If you don’t want to date then don’t. If you do date then don’t consider yourself a victim for having an abundance of options. You can certainly filter your options by something more than “are you 6’ tall”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 07:03 PM |
| 6 | On the matter of women having easier dating lives.I understand the argument being made but it is silly. A thousand job offers is better than 1 job offer even if 995 of those job offers are scams or terrible places to work. It is called options. Options are the key to life. In fact more so than money it is options that separate the rich from the poor. Money is just one vehicle for options. Anyone with an abundance of options telling someone with few or no options that they have it hard for having so many options is silly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 06:58 PM |
| 46 | Is it fair to say that the evidence shows that women find it difficult to feel attraction for a man with less money than her?Evolution largely helped develop men that look at many mates as an option and women to look for the best available mate. This worked in smaller tribes. I am not so sure it works in the modern world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | We know women don't care about men's safety, but they don't even care about their own children's if you think about itI don’t have sources but I have also heard that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:54 PM |
| 9 | Men do not glow up in their 30s. 60% of married couples are within a 3 year age gapThe good ones are already married. Kind of a skewed study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:48 PM |
| 3 | The Dating Market Seems Pretty Screwed Right NowSome thoughts don’t need to be written out or spoken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | The "You did this with prior exes but won't do it with me" is not about the acts done or not done. It's about dating people too autistic to lie about this stuff.You are the spokesperson for all men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | The "You did this with prior exes but won't do it with me" is not about the acts done or not done. It's about dating people too autistic to lie about this stuff.Some men do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 05:58 PM |
| 16 | Betas having sex and children is a bad thing.You need some hobbies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Do most promiscuous women know that men will sleep with anything or are they really that delusional?Every woman on My 600 lb life has a boyfriend or husband. Many men do not have standards. It is the illusion of choice that drives over inflated self worth and abundance mentality. In reality there are very few good long term mates for men or women. Those mates won’t have anything to do with the sexual equivalent of public transportation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 03:01 PM |
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