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Yup! Imagine marrying and he has a weird fetish or is a bang-bang-splat kinda guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:51 PM
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Saw an interview with the father of a man who was part of a UK grooming gang, awful stuff he said about those girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:52 AM
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A long time ago my boomer grandma spoke about not sleeping around because men won't want to date you. However, I've always enjoyed casual sex and jumped into bed with all my boyfriends. It's never been a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:48 AM
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The first was a bit doofy (he was 17) the second I was very attracted to (at the time) Current one is the most attractive IMO. Current boyfriend is 5'5 - so I wouldn't call him a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:23 PM
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I dated when I was a single mum and it was the easiest thing in the world. If anything, my standards were much higher compared to pre motherhood ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:42 PM
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A sausage is missing !
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:59 PM
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Chance would be a fine thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:21 PM
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Eat the toast, shit the toast. God life is relentless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:19 PM
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We both talk like this openly with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:57 PM
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I'm doing my annual peep show watch and I think I would definitely hook up with Jeremy (and regret it).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:02 AM
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I would do things with him that are illegal in several countries
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:58 AM
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I like being able to go about my business without getting hastled. If I'm horny or lonely, I can go to a bar or party and meet a man there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:13 AM
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Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:15 PM
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Infatuation, love and being IN love are three different things. You won't recognise it until it happens. I was infatuated with my first boyfriend. I got butterflies around him, my heart sped up when I knew I was seeing him and I loved spending time with him. I loved being I'm a relationship, having attention and the sex. But in hindsight I didn't love him, we didn't have a special bond or connection. It was just Puppy love. My first LTR was when I first experienced love. I cared about him deeply…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:10 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:16 PM
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I've only seen open marriages work with queer couples, never with straight couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:18 AM
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Same here, I really get turned on by men being turned on and I love seeing them enjoying themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:13 PM
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I mean..the physical sensation and the feelings are both intertwined. Sex is both a very physiological and psychological experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:49 PM
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Women here are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:40 PM
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My teacher friend had a parent send her a shitty email about something. At the bottom of the email, it said 'if you need any more assistant writing a passive aggressive response, let me know!'
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:18 PM
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Is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:14 PM
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It wouldn't stop me banging him, but it would stop me dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:13 PM
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What's interesting about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:12 PM
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I love the french
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 04:09 PM
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I can't orgasm with someone unless I feel truly desired by them, so they both come as a package (pun unintended). I guess I can orgasm alone, but it's no where near as good. Sex is a three course meal and a wank is satiating my hunger with a pot noodle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:28 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:00 PM
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Correct me if Im wrong, but that movement was always part of a subculture. It absolutely still does exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:59 PM
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Ooh, isn't he a nonce?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:45 PM
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Is he famous ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:59 PM
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Omg. I can tell he's a very attractive man but his whole aura is incredibly lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:28 PM
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It's hard to view a mans sexiness when there's a massive fish in the photo looking at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:27 PM
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No. The male gaze is what men conceptualise as peak attraction. When they do, they have a tenancy to conceptualise hyper masculine features. Obviously he's incredibly handsome and very few women would kick him out of bed if he farted, but he's not the 'gold standard'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:20 PM
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I think we're both saying the same thing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:09 PM
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It's so bizarre to me that people are discussing their sexual pasts with their partner, let alone ask about it. I've never been asked about my sexual past and I've never asked a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:49 AM
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Yes, because masculinity and femininity can be physical characteristics like the persons sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:35 AM
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Oh my goodness yes, he is perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:44 AM
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I wasn't necessarily talking about gay men. He's what straight men consider the gold standard. On the sub, most commenter seem to be gay men so that does surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:42 AM
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He's considered the gold standard for men, he appeals to the male gaze. Younger Henry cavil (before he was super famous) was close to gold standard IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:42 PM
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I liked him in the beach. Also young jude law..wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:40 PM
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Effeminate gay men still have masculine qualities though, and their gender identity is male. 'Masculinity' does encompass physical characteristics, afaik.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:39 PM
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I dunno, young Brad Pitt was beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:56 PM
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Henry cavill is male gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:51 PM
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They look look matched to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:27 PM
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I thought about that. The only issue is that it would get back to the person who saw them and would cause a huge fall out and drama at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:54 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:37 PM
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I really don't like being around her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:37 PM
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I think he will find out as they haven't been careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:32 PM
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I don't get it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:30 PM
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9I have this insufferable 35yo colleague. She's hard working and good at her job, but constantly bitches about everyone. The thing is, we generally get on really well at work and support each other. It's a shame that she has to constantly criticise everyone else's actions and bring such negativity. It also makes me feel like shit because I know she's criticising every single thing I do. Anyway, like me she had an unplanned child very young. She's still with the fella and they have a second kid t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:27 PM
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1. Be attractive to me (obviously) 2. Indicate interest in me, escalate flirtation 3. Don't say or do anything stupid. For repeat encounters the sex has to be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:16 PM
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Yeah, that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:25 AM
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Men who prefer wanking to sex are insignificantly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:07 AM
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> But there isn’t anything a woman could actually do to be good at sex. riding you, blowing you, teasing you, kissing you..arent those active things that women do that make them 'good' ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:41 PM
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I think the confusion here is that we have shifted how we view sexuality. It used to refer to the other persons sex, but now it refers to someone's gender identity. We also don't have terms to describe the sex you are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:25 PM
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Gay men are attracted to masculinity, which trans women are not. Heres a video from a person in the community. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PbBzhqJK3bg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:53 PM
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Depends on a lot of factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:42 PM
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Contrapoints (a trans woman) did a video on this called 'are traps gay'. Her conclusion was that sexual orientation isn't binary and that a male wanting sex with a trans woman is neither gay or straight. You would better asking the LGBT community about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:32 PM
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You're the first bloke on here to say that women are 'easy to please' in the bedroom, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:28 PM
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That's always how its been. That's why it's called 'pulling'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:49 PM
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That's an extremely common way of meeting the opposite sex. I don't know why people would argue that it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:29 PM
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90%? No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:24 PM
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Sorry, but this is absolute BS. No amount of arousal will make a woman cum if they're not being physically stimulated in the right places. Only men can cum from pure imagination, usually only in wet dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:23 PM
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Not how it works. If you needed an appendix taken out and the surgeon had studied surgery but never performed it, would you be OK with that? What if I told you I had read up on carpentry, but never laid a floor..would you be OK with that? Something you need to learn out in the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:21 PM
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Where did you meet them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:15 PM
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I think people conceptualise 'approach' differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:49 PM
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You cannot compare sex to wanking, are you joking? The physical sensation, excitement and arousal from sex is 100x better. A relationship means I get that on tap.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:02 PM
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Probably a large minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:11 AM
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I would love to show people on this sub some of my drunk hook ups lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:59 PM
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Bored, red/orange flag, someone better coming along.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:53 PM
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No worries, I'm not sure I can help but I can try! I worked at a bar when I was a young adult, that gave me a lot of confidence. You realise that people aren't that scary and striking up random conversations is quite easy. As for self image, I just tell myself that most people are so caught up with themselves that they're not really thinking about that cringe stuff you said or did. Unless it's something like shitting your pants in oddbins, most social feux pas you do are entirely forgettable. Fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:25 PM
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I believe there are three big 'firsts'. First love which is being in love with the idea of a boyfriend/girlfriend. You're in love with the concept of love, not the person. This normally happens as a teenager or young adult. It's like 'oh wow, I love kissing and sex and having someone tell me how awesome I am'. Loving someone for the first time. You enjoy their company and care about them deeply. Being in love for the first time. Like the top but it's a very deep connection with the person. You c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:15 PM
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Most men aren't extraverted party people, especially not young men. If you party more and you'll see the effect of beer goggles. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:07 PM
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How different America is in terms of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:46 PM
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Casual sex enjoyer here! I was sexually active about two years before I ever had an orgasm. I wanked A LOT and got to know my body. I had a boyfriend who was quite generous and I knew exactly what I wanted. So knowing which buttons I need to be pressed was well researched. I have low inhibitions, I like going 'all out' when I have sex and Im very comfortable being a sexual person. I don't have any shame around my sexuality. I never ever do sexual acts unless it actually turns me on to do them, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:28 PM
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As a casual sex haver who's friends are casual sex havers, I've observed this innumerable times. At house parties, festivals, clubs ect. If you don't want to believe that, that's on you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:52 PM
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I think it counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:45 AM
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Sexual activity is swxual activity, it doesn't matter what you use to get the job done.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:31 AM
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Both make me feel very sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:53 AM
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Its not just that, it's the sort of stuff they're into. Growing up, adult men always told me how disgusting other men were, men are quote open about how depraved their gender is. Even my partner says it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:17 AM
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lmao, men find male sexual nature disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:15 PM
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haha. Yeah, normally. Once he has passed the vibe check and we're flirting, then I tell him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:58 PM
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I think you're over thinking it. We meet for a drink and see if we vibe. If we don't, we delete each others numbers. Of we do, we bang..and maybe bang again. It's tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:49 PM
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Yes, they can get aggressive. Also rejection is easier when they don't go into the date expecting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:41 PM
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I never state I want casual sex. I just have a drink and see how it goes. I used tinder and a little bit of feeld.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:07 PM
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I'm not surprised this is how redditors see themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:52 PM
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Its different every time I take the test. Once it told my I was I, which is hilarious as I'm a next level extravert.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:49 PM
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My situation is unique, because I was a single mother. I was also just looking to hook up at the time. It was covid times, so couldn't meet anyone organically and pubs did that wierd table service thing. I had a very minimal profile, 3 candid photos and one selfie. I listed a couple of hobbies and a quote. I did minimal conversation and met after a little bit of chiat chat. We would go go a a pub, get tipsy and saw what happens. My now boyfriend was very funny and we instantly hit it off. After …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:54 PM
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An attractive guy hitting on lots of women is going to get lucky 5% of the time, those are the odds even if his game is absolutely awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:52 PM
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I agree with the premise. However, I don't think there are any spaces that actually offer decent 'game' advice. Really, you have to spend most your free time socialising and learning IRL what does and does not work. Develop a sense of humour and build confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:50 PM
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I don't have all the answers, no one does. All I know is that countries who have some social welfare without being totalitarian fare better than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:37 AM
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Their GDP is lower than those countries, they're just better a shifting money around to ensure citizens are looked after. The oil isn't good, but all countries make money unethically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:16 AM
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I was thinking something more like the Nordic model. It has a mixture of free market economics but a strong welfare state. It's by no means perfect, but to me it's preferable over the US, UK, China ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:12 AM
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I'm a free market socialist, I think people should have safety nets when they really need them. I don't think people should laze around and make others work for them. I'd you can't contribute financially, then at least be in education so you can contribute in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:43 AM
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I work in a school in a town where the average parents are much older. There is a lot of autism. Autism is great if you have the resources to properly educate that child, but most don't so the kid and the parents end up struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:38 AM
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People don't like NEETS because they sponge off other people without contributing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:37 AM
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a lot dont abort, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:19 PM
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I'm pointing out that some women have hook ups with men bellow their standard because at the time they are drunk and not thinking rationally. I'm not trying to point out that it happens so regularly that most men experience it. It's not that controversial to point out that alcohol does this to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:19 PM
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Drunk people aren't thinking rationally, that's my point. They want sex there and then, so do things they wouldn't normally do to satiate that need. Sometimes you can't find a hot guy, so you end up with a less than hot guy. Or, you think he's kinda hot when you're drunk, then when you sober up you realise he's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 10:04 PM
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And a lot of men do hang out with drunk and horny women and do get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:17 PM
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Beer goggles also me you cant see them as well, or you find them 'meh' but push past that because you're desperate. 'He's a bit meh, but I've not had sex in months so fuck it' I'm not talking ugly, but not as handsome as you would rather go for. The ones you hook up with sober, swipe online or keep around as a FWB/bf are the best looking ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:14 PM
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Having children is a wonderful experience? Your children are the closest people to you that bring you unmatched joy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:31 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:21 PM
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You said its 'played out' it clearly is not, most people are unaware.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:02 PM
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The people who don't underatand non verbal consent are the minority. Those people need to tell their partner this way, to avoid any problems regarding dating. As for dancing, you should not just go up behind a stranger and grind away. You smile ad dance near them, they either smile and dance back or they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:54 PM
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Actually, it does need to discuss because the majority of people don't know about it. People absolutely should know the risks they take when they plan a baby. Especially increased risk of autism in a country where being neoro spicey is a massive hindrance to your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:52 PM
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I'd you're really smashed, it's not like you remember much..or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:33 AM
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I never hear it IRL, but when that photo of tate circulated (where he's wearing pink knickers and there is no visible bulge) I did tell a few people on meme groups that body shaming wasn't cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:18 PM
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Yeah, kinda.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:55 PM
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Sometimes that's why you regret it, but sometimes you had beer goggles. I don't know why people are trying to argue with me over this, alcohol famously pairs with massive regrets and poor decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:34 PM
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Men do not want to be the one who women regret because he's sub par in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:14 PM
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You have to be in the right place at the right time. Obviously, if you're really ugly you will struggle, but most women who indulge in casual sex have one story where they regret the old beer goggles lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:13 PM
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No no, your bog standard club will have scores of women hooking up with men they wake up and regret. That's what alcohol does. You're drunk nd horny, some dude gives you attention and you bang. You wake up and go 'oh dear'. Also sometimes you do this with friends and colleagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:07 AM
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Yes, those ones are desirable..obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:01 AM
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Well, hook ups often happen out of desperation and beer goggles, so not a good example of what women really desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:09 AM
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Playing sports, playing in a band, (good) jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:36 PM
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Yeah, I deliberately make my self single for at least 6 months between relationships. I met my partner two months after a break up, and didn't date him seriously for about 6 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:45 PM
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Same here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:35 PM
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The actors women find attractive are all above average in looks, though. Both Ryan reynolds and RDJ are insanely attractive, you sound like such a straight male lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:42 PM
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Barely any male actors are 'mid'. It's very hard to get into the industry if you don't have an above average face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 12:53 PM
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Watching a man wank himself off?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:51 AM
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Even 'safe' SW like OF can damage your mental health significantly. You have to sift through hundreds of gross messages, often violent threats and requests to make unethical content. It can also be found through facial recognition technology and ruin future relationships and jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:26 PM
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I definitely had a crush on my boyfriends before being in a relationship with them. I'm aware men are easy to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:23 PM
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I don't often with complete strangers and never with celebrities. Crushes are people I'm acquainted with and see out and about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:42 AM
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Thanks! I'm trying to embrace my 39-32-40 body.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:54 PM
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Mine only grew three inches in the gym, but the shape is sooo much nicer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:48 PM
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Strong sexual attraction to someone, an urge to be sexual with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:42 PM
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Yes I know what 'lust after' means.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:34 PM
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Having a penis inside me when I'm not lusting over him and extremely aroused feels viscerally gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:32 PM
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i cant imagine having sex with someone Im not lusting after. Feels like prostitution without the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:09 PM
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reddit wierdos lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:07 PM
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We do? If I have a crush I fantasise about having sex with him regularly, in different scenarios. If I'm fortunate enough to date him, I regularly enjoy touching them and being sexual with him. I get horny around him, and certain things he does triggers sexual arousal. For example sitting with his arms a certain way, or his smell and feel when we hug. This is common, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:19 PM
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bad toupe fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:13 PM
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Watching porn is cucking yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:26 PM
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Actually, I think more women like it than men. It intensifies orgasm and feels raw and aggressive. I don't think its tied to a womans looks or personality, it just tickles some ginies..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:17 PM
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They can't keep their hands off you, even after several years of dating. They love spending time with you, give you lots of compliments, make sure you're OK.. that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:13 PM
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Gay men don't like it in its entirety. A lot of them get grossed out and u comfortable quite frequently. Most will have a horror story to tell you about another gay man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:09 PM
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gym is an obvious one, if you can grow a beard..do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:36 PM
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No its fine, I'm an open book. Tbh I've not been with many dicks that were too small for me. 'Good dick' usually means very good oral, kissing, touching, nice body, Good dirty talk and PIV which feels good and lasts long.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:11 PM
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That's what it means to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:09 PM
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I would rather neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:35 PM
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Please don't do this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:33 PM
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It means he makes me cum a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:34 AM
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If you're really bad at reading non vocal cues, then you can use dirty talk to 'check in' with your partner during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:47 PM
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Polite indifference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:54 PM
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Ita not abput 'finding yourself'. If you're absolutely miserable in your relationship, you will develop depression. Parental depression is proven to have a massive aversive outcome for children's mental health and brain development.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:44 PM
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Jesus. You're not trash just because one person doesn't want to date you...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:05 AM
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It's fun. When you've had a shit time, having fun is healing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:15 AM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:52 AM
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Tinder during lockdown. Last boyfriend was at a rave in the woods. The one before that was a friend of a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:46 AM
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No, it's a very old term. I've never heard of this happen, sounds weird to me. All the people I know do activities for the event. Men usually go paintballing or go quadbiking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:44 AM
33

That died ages ago, no-one gets male strippers for hen dos anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:35 AM
1

I'm all over that body type 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:03 AM
1

There are many types of hippies. Some are absolutely incorrigible, some are great.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:02 AM
1

I don't have a face in mind, just thinking for about that body type. I'm all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:01 AM
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5 5
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:00 AM
1

What's ya job?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:59 PM
3

Can't remember where I read it, but on aggregate don't white people drink and take the most drugs? It's definitely like that in the uk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:24 PM
7

Twerps will never be masculine, because they care too much about what others think. Worrying about how you're perceived is a weakness, and weakness is not masculine. I don't know much about Liam (and get him confused with noel) but the DGAF punks, crusties and hippies are the ones that exude masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:22 PM
7

Love me a woman who can split firewood 🔥 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:50 PM
1

As I became a teenager they got really hot on IDs at bars and clubs. So, you walked around town or your local park hoping to see a group of people you knew and hang out. Sometimes you sat and ate food from tescos, occasionally you would ask a hobo to buy you booze. When I hit 18, the recession made pubs a luxury. So, we pretty much just hung out at the beach, each others houses or the park. Pubs, clubs a raves were treats. It wasn't always glamorous, a lot of it was a bit boring. But we all date…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:35 PM
1

We're seeing the the effects of helicopter parenting and too much screen time. Hopefully, future parents will learn from this and improve how they raise kids. The same way millenials and gen X made improvement on the ways their parents raised them. Limited screen time and lots of socialising from a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:29 PM
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I don't know what country you live in, but that goes against most work code of conducts. What's the purpose of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:18 PM
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My exact thoughts. I only like aex with men who are obsessed with the woman getting off, it's like they're more attuned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:21 PM
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I think having sex with someone who doesn't want it is sad and pathetic. So, I would not date a man or a woman who did that. Fortunately, it's a pretty easy standard for me to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:19 PM
3

😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:51 PM
2

I dont really get nervous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:27 PM
2

Noni wouldn't date a high high count man who wouldn't date a high n count woman. This hypothetical man does not exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:44 PM
2

Huh? I was talking about my house. I could not accommodate him in my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:10 PM
2

I don't think I could...recieve him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:59 PM
1

No, clubs and partied exist for this. If someone looks attractive, you/they approach and see what happens. If you don't like them, no biggy..you carry on your night. I wouldn't want to spend my precious free time and going to a date with someone I know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:50 PM
3

I'm being self deprecating for comedic effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:58 PM
-2

Stop being modest. You have a great bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:39 PM
28

So I'm just too hot for them..phew !
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:38 PM
2

Everyone on here hates clubbing. I had a two day long debate with some lads that did not understand why people like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:26 PM
0

Oh I love your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:08 PM
4

Lol, they sure do! But no one wants wants hang around with a cop. I would be avoided less if he was an actual pig.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:08 PM
15

I respect police offers and I have generally had positive experience with them. I am a white woman, so my experience will likely differ to other demographics. However, I am somewhat on the party scene so I am surrounded by petty law breaking quite regularly. And those laws I don't agree with. So it wouldn't work, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:56 PM
3

Crazy that reddit women have so much dislike towards men who like fitness. It's like they watched a bunch of 00s teen movies and based it on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:39 PM
2

Jocks are way less entitled and misogynistic compared to nerds. Probably because they have a healthy outlet for all their male energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:37 PM
4

Your first point is crazy. You just described a generic 15-60 something man who likes rock music. Your second point is equally wierd. Nothing wrong with showing a lot of skin, it's nice to feel the sun on your body. Can't telling this is a troll or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:35 PM
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Men and women do get FOMO and they can/ do get bored of their partner. Worrying about something commonplace is not irrational. You cannot irradicate all your insecurities, but you can mitigate them somewhat by avoiding what makes you insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:05 PM
2

Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:59 PM
1

And so what? Insecurity is a feeling, people are allowed to feel however they like about stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:59 PM
2

I think I am the same, with a very strong preference for men. Heteroromantic and a tiny bit bisexual. My partner has given me the OK to experiment, but I just haven't found anyone yet and I am extremely frigid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:46 PM
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Projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:19 PM
3

Well there's the stigma, for one. Also the fact a lot of women use romance and lust interchangeably. They probably have never felt romantic attraction towards a woman, so they think that makes them straight. Sexual attraction is the arousal of sexual interest. If looking at a woman arouses sexual interest, then I think it's safe to say they feel sexual attraction towards that person. It's just something that isn't spoken about very openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:38 PM
1

Never. And if I did, anyone I date is within their right to feel insecure about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:44 PM
2

So you commented on my answer to point out the hypocrisy of something you made up in your head? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:40 PM
2

What about those women? What has that got to do with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:37 PM
1

I'm aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:36 PM
12

I think they're bi in denial. Most likely they're heteroromantic and bisexual but don't realise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:25 PM
2

Yes, glad we cleared it up. Does it make more sense now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:05 PM
5

> Maybe I'm looking at porn as filling a gap in the relationship and you're not? And because I see it as filling a gap, the closer it is to home the more worrying it would be? Yes, I think this is it. I've never been with someone who wasn't regularly intimate with me. Porn has always been a last resort when I'm not available due to sickness or being away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:56 PM
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I'm not worried about him cheating, I've never worried about cheating with him or any ex boyfriends to be honest. What I do worry about is him having thoughts like 'A shame she isn't X' or 'a shame she won't do x'.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:35 PM
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The insecurity comes from him having FOMO and not being fully satisfied with what I offer him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:19 PM
6

I would feel insecure if he watched a lot of porn that depicts something he can't get from me. Threesomes, much younger women ect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:57 PM
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Im aware traffickers use OF, but that doesn't mean the existence of it creates more trafficking. If it didn't exist, they would just find different means, sadly. For women considering doing sex work, they are better off doing it at home via camming compared to escorting, stripping or porn companies. We definitely need more awareness of the downfalls of OF. It's incredibly bad for your mental health, and once you put porn out there, anyone can find it. And it goes without saying that the poverty …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:15 PM
3

Do you have a source on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:10 PM
4

Where did I say that never happens ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:17 PM
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If a woman is going to do sex work, I would much prefer if she did it safely from her own home and pocketed all the money. Much better than pimps and the porn industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:16 PM
2

I love rugby bods, thick thighs save lives!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:47 AM
2

Examples please
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:37 AM
2

Not even seen a photo and that sound gross lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:54 PM
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C'mon dude, you're making a conclusion base's on one very odd woman's field report? How do you know she looked like an attractive man? How do you know she had charm, charisma and knew how to flirt? You've also misinterpreted 'the female gaze'.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:04 PM
1

Can you at least summarise?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:21 PM
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What are we supposed to be debating here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:58 AM
1

I thought jesus was the embodiment of god? So whatever the biblical god espouses is the same as jesus?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:55 AM
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Oh em gee. Normal dating interaction!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:08 PM
2

Yah it's cringe and I would next.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:06 PM
1

Nah. I just want to have a giggle and flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:51 PM
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However you phrase it, the person will spout out whatever bullshit that makes themselves look good. Also, treating dates like job interviews is gross. Its an instant vagina dehydrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:36 PM
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I mean..its just straight up rude, whatever the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:06 PM
2

It's not that so much, there's just a big overlap between people who enjoy recreational drugs and people who are willing to have casual sex. Lower inhibition, chaser of nice sensations and less likely to care about what others think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:14 PM
2

Rugby lads are WILD. They do some pretty gross shit though, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:11 PM
1

Haha yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:10 PM
1

Don't get pissy with ME because YOU don't underarand how flirting works. I'm not a teenager, people don't go 'huurr..Will you go out with me?' Anymore. You both flirt, it gets sexual and you make out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:33 AM
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Being civil is very easy and costs nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:10 AM
1

Wooah, what's your problem ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:52 AM
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I flirt a little, see if he flirts back and flirt some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:25 AM
4

If I'm hanging our with a male friend and I like him awxually or romantically, then he'll know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:58 AM
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If my partner turned around and said 'I've won the lottery. You can give up on working and I will pay for everything!' I would say 'he'll yeah!' and fanny around all day with my various hobbies. When I'm looking for a partner, wealth is just very low down on my list of priorities. Traits like physical attraction, chemistry, humour and being a nice person are just much further up. Most people compromise in some area. The women who find a super wealthy partner normally have to compromise on his lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:16 PM
2

You should probably try different bars and nights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:15 AM
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> online dating Less than a quarter of the users on bumble and tinder are women. They are however, all around you, doing stuff. If you want to just lay down and rot, you do that. I think its a bad idea, but its not like I can convince you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:27 AM
4

Have you ever read the book 'generation x'? You just made me think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:42 PM
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I know drinking is a big part of culture (especially mine) but there's tons of different outlets to meet other people now. If I'm feeling single and lonely, I will accept any invitation out, even if its not my thing. Poetry meet up, foraging group, sports game, quiz night, dog park..anything. Because even if you know the people you're going with, the likelihood is there will be new people for you to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:39 PM
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They socialised and partied, a lot. Even nerds would hang out in large groups at the park as teenagers. The moment they could, they went to bars and clubs. University was absolutely wild, having little to no money was no excuse not to party. You could buy a 3ltr bottle of cornershop paintstripper and party with randomers in your kitchen till 3am. They experienced rejection, shame from being virgins, porn addiction and heartbreak..but they still kept going out, had fun and developed the skills ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:53 PM
4

Jesus, what's your problem ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:36 PM
4

It's HPV, you can get vaccinated for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:13 PM
15

Sounds like a male porn brain fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:56 AM
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I know this is a troll post, but I wouldn't bother with sex if I couldn't orgasm. I probably wouldn't date, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:40 AM
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🎶 Take it like a taker, and I'll give it like a giivverr 🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:39 AM
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Definitely happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:36 AM
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Never met a person who had sex in a club toilet, apparently its common place here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:49 AM
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I didn't read all of your post, but yeah duh..most of reddit are introverted outliers. Everytime I bring up clubbing I'm met with men who are aghast I enjoy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:47 AM
2

My partner moved out when he was 17, lived in shared houses and with partners and had to move back in last year due due job instability. It happens, I don't judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:09 AM
2

Twitter will push whatever content the company wants to push. Musk, Zuck ect all have an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:25 PM
2

Obviously not all men are doing the policing, but policing happens, and its a reflection of men's attitudes towards promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:10 PM
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I wouldnt trust anything on twitter, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:19 PM
2

Your first paragraph doesn't match your last paragraph. If they 'didn't care' then they wouldn't refrain from 'dating them seriously'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:32 PM
2

This woman has dated shorter men, so she can be attracted to them. Also, I'm not bothered in the slightest. I found it amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:21 AM
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If you're obese you have a lot of competion. So you've basically created this situation where your competing with a tiny fraction of men, with women much more attractive than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:19 AM
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A colleague of mine said she only dated men over six foot. She has a prettyish face but almost obese. My friend and I laughed at her and said she was being ridiculous as that's a tiny fraction of men. She said she didn't care and would either be eitg a six footer or be single. These women definitely exist, it's not just some nonsense spouted by dudes that need to touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:54 AM
6

Yeah, gay men famously hate drama 😆 🤣 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:28 AM
4

C'mon, you can't look at the world around you and not see that men dislike promiscuity?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:08 AM
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Like I said, never seen or heard about this. Most people I know don't give opinions on potential partners beyond a polite 'he/she seems nice'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:08 AM
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Well, all friend groups are very different. I think by looking at culture and history we can get a very good idea of how men view female sexuality. Also, just look at how they talk about it when given an anonymous platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:59 AM
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I think you underestimate how pervasive this rhetoric is. I get bombarded with those videos becuse I'm female and it's supposed 'rage bait'. My boyfriend gets them because he's a history nerd who goes to the gym. This was touched on in the series 'adolescent'
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:54 AM
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Look how men talk about women once they have an anonymous platform to talk. Look at the laws and religions they have created regarding female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:51 AM
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Im in my thirties and my friend circle is mixed gendered. If a women said something that catty, everyone would gossip about it to each other and she would have to leave the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:49 AM
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I've never seen what you have described, but I got slut shamed as a teenager predominantly by boys. I also over hear it in gyms and its literally all over the Internet from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:44 AM
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In real life, men build institutions around controlling female sexuality. Also, I've heard way more men throw those words around compared to women. Internet rhetoric and IRL rhetoric isn't that different nowadays, most people are chronically online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:05 AM
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Yep. The only thing that 'encouraged' me to have sex was my vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:52 PM
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Well, it finally happened. A colleague told me she 'only dates over six foot'. She's 5'5", prettyish face but very overweight. She's got loads of muscles, but over those muscles loads of fat and cellulite. My friend and I laughed and shook our heads. My friend pointed out that her dating pool would be tiny, to which she replied 'so, I'll be single then'. My first boyfriend was 6 foot, and I don't recall it ever being mentioned or brought up I'm a conversation. This modern obsession is wierd. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:26 PM
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Women much more likely to judge women or guys for doing porn, onlyfans, stripping, modeling, escorting. Huh? The entire Internet would say otherwise. There's millions of posts and videos of men talking about 'n count' and 'having daddy issues'. They've created terms, slurs and idioms specifically for promiscuous women. Hell, they built entire religions around controlling female sexuality. As for the bisexual thing, gay men also have a lot of prejudice against bisexual men. Type 'bisexual' on 'as…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:12 PM
2

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:23 PM
1

Two boyfriends have said 'I wasn't a boob guy until I met you'.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:59 PM
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I've be on tinder before my keys were in the ignition lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:59 PM
2

I would question his motivation for saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:56 PM
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Women are not collectively 'encouraging' others to do have casual sex. They are merely talking about their experiences, some good, some bad. No one ever said to me I should go and have casual sex with someone, if I've ever mentioned it, it has always been met with a neutral comment (and maybe something about being safe).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:41 PM
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What do you propose women do? Not talk about their experiences? Pretend they had bad experiences when they don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:23 PM
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People have free will. If someone talks about enjoying a thing, it's your responsibility to decide if that thing is or isn't enjoyable for you personally. 'Encouring' is when you are consciously trying to get a person to do something. Women have spoken about enjoying causal sex, and plenty have talked about not enjoying it. They are not trying to persuade others en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:39 AM
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A person doing a thing and enjoying a thing is not 'encouraging' others to do that thing. We all have free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:35 AM
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Lol, same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:07 PM
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Not a single woman has encouraged me to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:06 PM
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Who's encouraging hook up culture ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:39 PM
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Women derive positive feelings about being attractive, it doesn't mean you're actively looking to bang someone. Women will wear revealing clothes when they go out with their partners, I know I do. Men's fashion is cultural. There are many examples of men 'peacocking' in different cultures and throughout history. At festivals, its not uncommon for men to be topless in hot pants and leggings, I welcome that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:34 PM
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Men's decision to not wear revealing clothes is on them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:19 PM
3

When people get older they have less energy for raving, that's common sense surely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:51 PM
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Sure, a partner needs to be responsible in going out. It can't get in the way of life. The point I'm arguing is that clubbing and raving is a single person's activity. Raving is a 40 year old subculture with its own community.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:25 PM
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You've proven nothing, lol. All you've pointe don't that a night with very little demand does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:38 PM
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Which complaints? Lots of comments are valid, lots are not. Gay clubs exist because gay people like to meet other gay people Swinger nights exist, so swingers can meet other swingers. Women don't need to go to a women's club to meet other women, as other women are everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:27 PM
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I love pop music and I love rave music. I go to nightclubs so I can dance to that on a decent soundsystem and connect with other people. If you don't see the appeal, that's fine. But please don't project what you find appealing/ unappealing, when people have valid likes and dislikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:52 AM
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Yeah, I didnt think you had. You should check it out, might do you good !
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:15 PM
0

You dont understand why men go clubbing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:54 PM
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I mean, women can do those thing, no one is stopping you. I think, in general, men are more hedonistic than women. Clubs are quite hedonistic spaces, so they appeal to men more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:34 PM
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> The rest of your post is....not quite irrelevant but, really just flopping out some bullshit with totally different scenarios. Can you be civil, please? > Maybe you just want attention, maybe light flirting, maybe you want to support your friend who is on the pull , maybe, whatever but without either both sexes present, or the place being intended for the same sex to fuck each other, they can't get business no matter who they hire. Or maybe people enjoy dancing, like they have done for millenn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:02 PM
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If people were not drawn to the music, promoters and punters would not pay big bucks to see specific artists or DJs. If someone is simply 'on the pull', why would they pay £40 entry to see a venue where skream played, when they can go to a free pop night? Also, more than half of young people are single, so thats going to be reflected in the demographic..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:48 PM
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> No, this isn't a valid explanation. If it were a non-issue then the clubs would have plenty of patrons. The walls being painted blue versus purple is also a non-issue. what? > there are over 65 clubs, under 30 clubs, gay clubs, etc -- all sorts of niche clubs (that appeal to way less than half of the population) which are highly successful. No, there are nights dedicated to certain ages, not actual clubs. Gay people like to have a space for their own community and have their own culture which …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:37 PM
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Because most women are neutral about men being in clubs, its a non issue. Also, halving the number of customers coming in through the door is bad business and most club owners are not going to do that. People enjoy music and dancing, they always have and they always will. People enjoy dancing to music they like, its not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:23 PM
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Because most women don't care enough about men being in a club to seek out female only clubs? Its just a non issue for most. Plus, a club that halved its number of potential punters would not make enough money and fail. So no club owner is going to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:20 PM
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Very rare few actually go there because thats just their thing that's an integral part of who they are. Most go for the possibility of meeting someone, which is why they're full of young singles. This is incredibly untrue and sounds like projection on your part. People enjoy loud music and dancing with others people. Humanity has enjoyed this for millenia. People go to rock gigs to listen to rock bands, why would they not go to clubs to hear their preffered genre?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:02 PM
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People need community and connection and many people find that through the rave subculture. In fact, the emergence of the 80s rave scene stomped out most football violence in the UK. People found a space to connect, so there was no longer such a nees for tribal warfare on the streets. It was quite remarkable. Clubbing isn't about dressing slutty and shagging randos. For a lot of us, it's about connecting with people, having a shared experience and feeling true euphoria for many hours. I actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:58 PM
1

Yours is to me, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:15 PM
1

That's the thing, you're not in a place to catch feelings, as you're going through a lot and don't have the capacity to get close to someone. Also, sometimes you want to indulge in single behaviour for a bit. A bit of variety, maybe a threesome or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:07 PM
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He needs to be hot and not a dick, basically. For a regular thing, he needs to be good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:31 PM
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FWB seems like a post hoc rationalization for a failed ltr attempt Nah. Sometimes you just don't want a relationship, especially after a break up. However, you still have sexual needs. FWBs can satiate that need until you're ready to start dating again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:27 PM
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This would be me. After a break up, I need to be on my own for a bit. I still have sexual needs so FWBs are perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:25 PM
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This guy fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:04 AM
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Straight women seem like the only group who complain that they don't get receive enough oral, or that the oral they receive is low effort and sub par. Never heard straight men, lesbians or gay men make the same claim. In fact, they frequently talk about how much they enjoy 'giving'. So make of that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 07:53 AM
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I'm just focussed on raising my daughter right now. When she's moved out, I would like some sort of of remote job so I can travel, as I missed out on that in my twenties. Between now and then, getting stronger and more flexible, spending more time out doors and reading lots.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:31 AM
1

Interesting. I had no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:05 PM
1

Aggression isn't the same as abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:23 PM
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I never had any growing up. A few teachers were nice, bit I wouldn't call them role models. I never cared much about famous people, either. There are men I am friends witg who I think are cool, that's it really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:37 PM
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Electric light orchestra?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:15 PM
1

People are welcome to go partying and meet people IRL. They chose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:38 AM
2

What's 'long term' to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:43 PM
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lots of stem jobs are at risk of getting outsourced to AI. But jobs like childcare, nursing, teaching are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:27 PM
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tall, broad-shouldered, extroverted, tough, Can you provide studies that show these traits correlate witg abusive behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:50 PM
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Younnkt caring about trafficking and rape kinda proves my point. Lesbian porn is awful, even lesbians hate it. It's entirely for the male gaze and does not depict stuff that actually feels good for women. Thinking non porn sex is monotonous kinda proved my point. You explore and learn with other humans, or talking to other humans. What do you think people did before porn lol? Not heard of the Romans and the ancient Greeks? Filthy bustards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:45 AM
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I k kW what he likes because we were fuck buddies before we met as spoke about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:43 AM
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My partner is all over me like a seagull with a bag of chips. 24/7 pretty much. Pretty sure I'm his type 😆 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:51 PM
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Twerp brain damaged thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:07 PM
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I have said in another comment, I think sex work should be 100% legal so sex workers can have full legal and workers rights. However, let's be honest, most people would not want their daughters or sons to do sex work. It's risky and not good for mental health. I don't think fetishes are problem per sa, but it makes a man unattractive to me. If a bf said he was into something I consider gross, I would not fancy him any more. I also wouldn't be able to satiate that fetish myself so he would get FO…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:26 PM
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Sometimes, yeah. That's the point, isn't it? To shock people and make them feel emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:02 PM
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Explain what you mean by 'denounce'?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:51 AM
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Oh we care, but making it illegal or more difficult causes more problems than it solves. The consensus is to let women do sex work freely and give them as many legal protections as possible. The normalisation of disgusting fetishism is a problem in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:18 AM
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Its more ethical but Jesus christ..its has way more fucked up content on aggregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:58 AM
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Very dodgy industry, there's a very high rate of mental health issues amongst sex workers, which is no coincidence. A lot (not all) the porn lacks female pleasure. A lot of women dislike this becuse and don't understand why men enjoy getting off when the woman clearly isn't. The amount of disgusting fetishes that are so normalised they don't even need to be searched for under a niche category. The examples do not represent tw entirety of porn, but they're very very common place. I would prefer i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:54 AM
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Sooooo many good festivals at the moment. They're my absolute happiest place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:07 PM
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Depends how long your sessions are and what you have taken lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:00 PM
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I'm trying to keep it down to twice a month..but it's hard in this weather.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:45 AM
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A HVM has absolutely nothing to do with money for me. He literally just needs to be employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:12 AM
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Yeah. I know 50 somethings with very good careers who party pretty damn hard. It's about ballance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:35 PM
1

Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 08:19 PM
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Oh man, I don't think I'll ever stop ! Ita festivals for me, 4 days of pure freedom and euphoria.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:49 PM
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One thing I have never regretted is partying. I'm this planet fir a very short time, I'm filling it with memories. No one ever says 'I wish I worked more' on their death bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:16 PM
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As long I find him stunningly attractive, I don't care. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:03 PM
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Looks like a Chad, acts like a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:19 PM
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Gen X and millenials have just failed to socialise a lot of their kids. We didnt have third spaces in the mid naughties, the park and outside macky dees was our 'third space'. I always see people socialise with strangers at clubs, so not sure I agree with you there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:06 AM
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I would happily date a tradey. Only issue, their bodies end up fucked after a couple of decades. Every fisherman, bricky, chippy and scaffolder I know has fucked up knees and hips by the time they're 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:25 PM
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It's probably closer to 90% tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:25 PM
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80% of age gap posts are from males, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:15 AM
2

Yeah, I have heard this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:56 PM
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The only group of people who are ok dating bisexuals are other bisexuals and straight men. Straight men are usually OK with it as the arousal over rides the jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:27 PM
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Good for them, if I was single I would give it a go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:47 PM
2

true, tbh it could be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:19 PM
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Fortunately, that doesn't effect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:39 PM
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Some have kids, some don't. Either way, in my experience it isn't a massive hindrance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:30 PM
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These men dont seem noticeably lower rmv/smv compared to other men. At least, not in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:23 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E9LpqRNznBs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:55 PM
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didnt he pardon a drug lord?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:51 PM
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You should go, I bet the food is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:51 PM
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Sorry, I'm hung over. It's weird but not the weirdest thing I've seen on grindr (or feeld!).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:49 PM
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There is. But plenty of women do have orgasms and enjoy casual sex encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:38 PM
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they said they were bi
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:19 PM
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Sorry, are you male or female ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:12 PM
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The majority of single parents I know eventually got married and partnered. Myself included. I never saw it as a huge hindrance to dating. Mind you, I one have one child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:01 PM
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My gay friend who constantly talks about filth with me didnt know what a 'cuck' was.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:57 PM
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I'm very confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:56 PM
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tik toks and 'social experiments' should be banned from this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:37 PM
2

I mean its factually correct. The pleasure and sensation of sex and orgasms is a benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:34 PM
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I might be out the loop, but I've always known speed dating to be viewed as 'lame' so I dont think they're getting the best candidates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:38 PM
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My pussy definitely benefits from orgasms, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:36 PM
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hornyness, availability, chemistry and attraction. I thought this was universally understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:44 AM
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hon If you're using the condescending tone, I'm not even going to bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:17 AM
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I have no idea what you're talking about, but you seem unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:23 PM
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Yeah, it's definitely about how you maintain your social circles. They work in the public sector with a strong community. They have very active social lives and some have kids from precious failed relationships. One I know is quite introverted, and she is fulfilled with her art work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:19 PM
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At the top of my head, feminism is hard to define and contested over how it should be applied. Some don't agree with it at all. Women view sex differently. Some think a person in the sky has devine control over ones body and sex life. Some think it's a special bond, others just see it as a fun activity. Some think its something done predominantly for the pleasure of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:06 AM
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Selective bias. Women are on there because they are unsuccessful and need advice or want to rant. Women who have no issue dating, have no need need post on there?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:21 AM
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God, look what twitter has become. AI slop, adverts and porn. Generally it goes: Bad relationship > single > good relationship. Though the second two might be equal depending on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:19 AM
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I work with some genuinely happy single 60 somethings, it very much differs from person to person. Even in the case of your aunt, she would be even more unhappy in a bad relationship. Bad relationship < single < good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:15 AM
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> Don't approach women at X place, she is there to do Y thing This isnt some new age thing. Women have complained since forever about being hasstled when they are not in the place to socialise. I remember it cropping up regularly in conversations in the early 00s. The only thing that has changed is you are hearing about it more as there's a large platform for people to voice their opinions on it. As an analogy - You probably like cheese. You consume cheese and you usually have it in your fridge.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:49 PM
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How drunk/ high are you both? Sometimes you're into someone and then you sober up and it's not such a good idea. It snot necessarily personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:56 PM
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God no, what planet do you all live on 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:26 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:05 AM
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Its about appropriate escalation. Once you flirt with someone and they flirt back, you give more eye contact, if they react well you lean in and compliment them, if they react well you kiss...and so on. If women are really horny and up for sex its pretty obvious. When it comes down to it, again, you do a little of something, gage the reaction and escalate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:22 AM
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How How you define 'common?' Do you think most people cheat? 50%? 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:46 PM
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That's what I said. The angle and the shorts make him look taller and broader. The right also looks..pink?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:32 PM
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On the right his face looks slimmer and I think his hair looks thinner (I doubt it thinned in 12 weeks, though). Also on the left, the shorts and the camera angle make him looks taller and broader (ai can't explain why?) But honestly I love toned and shredded bodies. Footballers, climbers, swimmers and weight lifters (accept upside down Toblerone bros) Cum gutters and pecks drive me crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:30 PM
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Why is the first one so unpopular?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:26 PM
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How did you know she would go away for ever? The thought of anyone I like kissing someone else just makes me viscerally upset and angry, it's standard monogamous jealously, I suppose. Even if I got past the upset, I don't think I could be aroused and the sex wouldn't be enjoyable for me. People are in to all sorts of things though!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:58 PM
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If I agreed to do a FFM, I would probably spend the whole time trying not to cry as I watched my partner with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:42 PM
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Lesbians, straight women and gay men don't like dating bisexual people. Distrust and heteroromantism seem to be the reasons that are usually cited. Either they're worried they will cheat, or they're worried the person will dump them for a heterosexual relationship. You can go to their spaces on reddit type up 'dating a bisexual' and see for your self.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:37 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:24 PM
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that leads to the other person either breaking up with you, or cheating on you themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:22 PM
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