Powerful_Physics1780 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Blaming social media and AI My ex would lock my very young son behind a gate and doom scroll Instagram for hours while he sat there alone (she set up a ring camera, I saw this after the fact.) It wasn't the content so much as the fact that she was addicted to scrolling. Towards the end she was obsessed with the idea that I'd cheat on her with AI (Probably because she was cheating). The argument always devolved into me dismissing her because she was under the impression that AI was like Data from star trek when it's in real…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/26 04:00 PM
1	Should I take my ex wife back Based on your previous post, it seems like your dreams are the product of witchcraft. Get out. It sounds like you ex doesn't have healthy boundaries with her family. And having a kid probably did a number on her. She put hands on you. Do you think that was a one off? I've been there. They get violent once, and next time is that much easier. Soon every fight get violent, and that can be life altering. Don't subject your kid to that. Focus on getting out and take care of yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/26 03:57 AM
2	Do people ask you when you tell them you are getting a divorce… I didn't talk about it with many people until a year after it went down. I needed some schedule accommodation at work, so my direct manager knew, but didn't ask questions because HR. Other than the women that get close only a few friends really know much and they're divorced. They get it.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/26 03:32 PM
3	What are positive aspects of being divorced? The peace and quiet. Also the house doesn't smell like hippie.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/26 12:35 AM
6	May I ask what led to your divorce? Her poor conflict resolution skills evolved into domestic violence.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/05/26 01:59 PM
3	How much responsibility do you bear for your divorce? We fought about normal shit. Sometimes I would stir the pot. She got physical though. My worst sin in my marriage was staying as long as I did. I did a great disservice to my kid by letting his mom treat me like that for so long.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/26 07:12 PM
6	Are female couple counselors biased towards wives? My ex quit after one counciling session, but my therepist at the time was a woman. Towards the end she apologized and told me that she should have urged me to leave a long time ago and if I had been a woman she would have. She was biased, but I don't feel like it was a conscious bias. We're men. We aren't allowed to be victims. It's our fault and the best thing we can do for a women is to go out for cigarettes and never come back. This is what society expects of us.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/04/26 06:27 AM
2	Was the divorce your fault? It was both of us to a point. We fought about normal shit like money, me working too much, her smoking an ounce of weed a week, etc. I am not perfect, I can be an asshole, but I really want to work out conflict like a normal person. Problem was she went 0-100 and got violent. I didn't hit her back and kept trying to get her to go to therepy, cause I didn't want to break up the family. When she pulled the knife on me I gave up and filed and moved to the other room. I wouldn't sleep with her, beca…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/26 08:24 PM
1	My brother cheated on his wife Cheating is bad. So would your brother staying with this woman. Why are you trying to manipulate him into staying in a bad marriage?	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/26 02:37 AM
8	Want a divorce but want to keep the last name of the husband Friend of mine's ex wife kept his name because it was less syllables. Unless your name comes with like... nobility or some shit.. it frankly doesn't matter. This isn't the olden days.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/03/26 08:06 PM
2	Is there a union for divorced men? Well, cops tend to get divorced, so a police union would be good. My local IBEW had lots of family guys, not a ton of divorced ones though. They also let girls into unions now too, so there's that. Seriously though, outside of fraternal organizations, you might find support groups in your area. If you have kids, probably dad groups. You could try one of the meetup apps and see what's around.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/26 03:41 PM
2	Is there a union for divorced men? There's the Clampers, they just get drunk and bullshit about history. Knew a younger dude that ran with em.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/26 03:35 PM
2	Thinking about taking the plunge - financial considerations Also in AZ, and somewhat similar experience. As far as alimony goes,.my divorce lawyer told me that unless it was a long marriage where only one partner works, or is somehow unable to work, the judge isn't likely to grant alimony. Custody is going to be 50/50 unless there's abuse. In my case, my wife would get physical, we had cop visits and she broke some ribs a few days before she got served. I never hit back, so I got custody. Child support is calculated according to state guidelines. I made …	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/26 05:25 AM
1	Any other dads... [Light-hearted] Nah, if anything it's the opposite for me. I've been teaching the boy to pick up his own stuff, and I do chores while he's playing, watching TV or whatever. When he's gone, I am feral.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/26 04:09 PM
1	I think my stbxw is in AI Psychosis, and I don’t know what to do "AI psychosis" sounds made up. Sounds like she was lonely or depressed and she got caught up in the LLM's tendency to be a "yes man." The AI is telling her what she wants to hear and she's probably caught up in the endorphins and shit. Using marital finances for fancy dildos totally sucks too, but most of us on the sub probably have exes that spent too much money on dumb shit. Forget it, not your job to fix her. The sex offender though... if that were my kid I would be talking to my lawyer about…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/25 03:55 PM