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| 2 | Question for the ladiesI could also agree it isn’t natural & that is a choice(a valid one) just like any other relationship type(CNM, Poly, RA) and I 100% agree regarding the institution of marriage! It was adamantly a weighted coin no doubt! And yeah, our mono-normative society really puts it up on a pedestal and is socialized to such a degree from a young age which definitely needs a lot more nuance💯 I am monogamous yes- but I am glad we can see each other’s side now♥️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Question for the ladiesIt seems like there’s still some misunderstanding here. I’m not arguing that patriarchy hasn’t reinforced or used monogamy as a tool for control—you’re absolutely right that historically, men have used it to assure paternity and inheritance. What I’m saying is that this usage is not the same as the concept of monogamy itself. Monogamy as a relationship choice can and does exist outside of those patriarchal intentions. It was USED not CREATED for that purpose You could certainly it was root of ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Question for the ladiesIt seems like there’s still some misunderstanding here. I’m not arguing that patriarchy hasn’t reinforced or used monogamy as a tool for control—you’re absolutely right that historically, men have used it to assure paternity and inheritance. What I’m saying is that this usage is not the same as the concept of monogamy itself. Monogamy as a relationship choice can and does exist outside of those patriarchal intentions. It was USED not CREATED for that purpose You could certainly it was root of ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Question for the ladiesYou didn’t respond or engage with any of my points. “The culture influences everyone” Exactly, and that’s why it’s so crucial to challenge the culture surrounding monogamy, written by the patriarchy. My argument was about how patriarchy weaponized monogamy, turning it into a tool of control, not about the mere existence of monogamy. Again, you are doing the appeal to nature with sexual attraction. The people & the amount who practice monogamy have absolutely nothing to do with monogamy itself. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Question for the ladiesThis is a huge appeal to nature fallacy, and failure to account for LGBTQ+ people who do monogamy. Kindly speaking, you are conflating how the patriarchy reinforced & capitalized monogamy as the roots of it. Simply not true. Do we still live in a patriarchy today? Of course we do, and it is frustrating people think we don’t! But the evil in the patriarchy held power in the rhetoric. It is the rhetoric we need to go up against as that‘s the reason we live in such a mono-normative society! The ins… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 01:33 AM |
| 1 | The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women areIt’s called Purity Culture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 09:11 AM |
| -2 | CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillmentDear Redditors, not watching porn is not suppressing your’s or anyone else’s sexual desires. You have your fucking imagination Stop acting like you will starve because they shut down the Burger King on 10th avenue🤦♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 03:33 AM |
| 5 | Are We Trading Monogamy for Misery? How Feminism’s Sexual Freedom Is Failing UsBecause women’s problems in today’s world can be derived from centuries of targeted systemic oppression and socially-ingrained misogyny. They are a factor of a much larger, historical problem that we are still navigating or “untangling” in today’s society to say the least. It is not that men’s issues in today’s world are more or less important, but that rather, they are the smoke of a wildfire. The more we put out the fire, the easier it will be to manage the smoke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Porn and feminist critique“I don’t care about porn as long as the people involved in creating it are being treated fairly.” So like…that 10% of the time? Also the main vilification of porn in this day & age that’s on the uprise stems from the objectification, misogyny, and exploitative practices in the industry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 12:18 AM |
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