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I'll assume im right since you have no rebuttal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:24 AM
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Im average. And us men are raised thinking the bar is the best place to meet women. I have NEVER taken home a woman from a bar. Women simply arent receptive at the bar i guess unless youre a Chad. And I hit on plenty. Thats pretty devastating when you work 80 hours a week like i did at the time and you only had one or two evenings a month to meet women (I was on a submarine, all dudes) Online, I was way more successful, my body count was 13 before I found my lobster. but I dated for 7 years so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:18 AM
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way to miss the point. this isnt 20 years ago. i guess we're never going to socially evolve, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:59 AM
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kids still hang out where im at in the suburbs. but my point is, hobbys have to take the place of these third places. most musicians play in a band or with others, no ones golfing or playing tennis by themselves,and sorry to say the amount of women that want to play an instrument is way less. I mean i guess youre right about third spaces but the fact that men and women dont have the same hobbys makes it worse. And god forbid you approach a woman at the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:52 AM
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the lack of 3rd spaces is easily explained. men and women simply dont have the same hobbys. Thats kind of why i took up cooking because most women like to cook, and almost everyone enjoys someone cooking for them. It helped me find an SO. For instance, youre not going to find a lot women hardcore into guitar, gaming, golf, fishing....i mean the list goes on with what men might enjoy and what women probably dont. Hell, men and women have a hard time liking the same music too sometimes. Not many K…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:37 AM
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eh. idk man women are needless terrified of men when they date online. my now SO had backups in the vicinity when we first met just in case i did something wrong.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 08:10 PM
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just looked up what this is. holy shit is this petty
/r/MensRights25/07/25 08:09 PM
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well no. I mean thats why theres a scale. You may find someone less fuckable but really hit it off and shes more fuckable and you wind up in a LTR. Dont ask me how i know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:03 PM
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if youre getting ghosted it was probably a Chad that saw someone else he was more interested inor he was just using you for validation. Also, if youre using Tinder, youre doing it wrong. That site is just for hookups, usually. Anyway. had plenty of women respond to my DMs just bc they wanted validation. we text a while, they either ghost me or refuse to give me their number. its rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:00 PM
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you really should check out cases of women posing as men on OLD and see how hard it is for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:41 PM
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we do look when we swipe. its just we lower the threshold of the standards we swipe at, bc getting ANYTHING is difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:40 PM
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no. thats not the same. Any criticism of Palestine is automatically "genocide". any criticism of any Arab is "genocide". You can thank Hasan Piker for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:33 PM
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well my mom was a whore, and my SOs mom just found out her aunt is from when her grandma cheated. so. yall suck too, women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:25 PM
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The moment I hear a bitch use the word "predator" or "abuse" it invalidates their comment. Its like fuckin talking about how Islam is a hateful religion but the counter arguement is " but muh genocide"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:23 PM
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thats not the issue. i disassociate because i have to. the performance burden is on the man. no one likes a cum mess, no one likes the risk of pregnancy, no one likes sex to end quickly when i cum and lose my hard on. all you have to do is sit there and get fucked. you dont have to go into a mental headspace like i do. so many of yall dont do shit you;re just a starfish. also imo a lot of women complain about bjs and expect men to go down on them without reciprocating. and yikes. if you;re equat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:20 AM
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we men dont give a fuck about your superficial efforts to hide how mid you look. we care about how you actually look
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:04 AM
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cry more. still doesnt change the fact you have the upper hand in dating. youre totally free to setup a date where your family or friends accompany you. if youre that scared, thats on you. has nothing to do with how hard it is to find a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:04 AM
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its always abuse with you guys to avoid any acknowlegement of privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:42 AM
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its reddit. youre likely arguing with a fat feminist. theyre here bc theyre pissed off that they dont get the dates like average women do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:41 AM
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"safe" jesus yall always the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:38 AM
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im not sure about this predatory statement. at least half the women OLD are just looking to get laid as well in my experience. However, no one is up front about their intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:57 PM
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you make no goddamn sense. why does it always go back to abuse with women? its a ridiculous cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:36 PM
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lady, i can assure you no man gives a fuck about makeup and clothing. and women on the whole are fatter than men, so the standards for womens BMI are lower from a mans attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:36 PM
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considering that women initiate 70% of divorce, your last sentence doesnt jive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:34 PM
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the only person looking bad is your illogical self
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:09 PM
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then why are you responding
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:01 PM
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whos planning on having children? this is just dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:13 PM
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lol yall have no damn logic. if you actually wanted to be equitable, youd say women do the same shit. but ya didnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:11 PM
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it implies that women dont do the same horrible shit as men do. and arguably thats worse when they do it bc they have the upper hand while dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:04 PM
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jesus dude. i couldnt read all of that. but i hope you feel better letting that off your chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:51 PM
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im sorry, but i know of and have had relationships with women who are overbearing and dominant. This isnt it. Most men just STFU. Ever hear of the phrase "happy wife happy life"? women are extremely aggressive these days. my mom is one Also been with plenty of women OLD that just wanted to get laid and leave without telling me that first. So im heartbroken when i get ghosted. Women are definitely not angels like youre making them out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:24 PM
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i mean how would you feel if you had to not cum everytime you have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:00 AM
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In OLD for me, at least half the women just wanted to get laid with no committment. this is not unique to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:46 PM
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except now the risk for procreation is now mitigated. birth control, condoms, and even pulling out works. Guess who suffers in the experience of sex? The man has to pull out or wear condoms. Granted, some women dont like birth control but some like it bc they only have periods every three months.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:40 PM
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what it really boils down to is that women are too lazy to read through DMs. That's it. Oh woe is me I have so many DMs. men have the opposite problem, no DMs and have to approach first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:33 PM
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no ones on reddit trying to get a woman. we all know complaining IRL equals no pussy. you're equating apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:22 PM
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no one knows who wants to just get laid and who wants a real realtionship. in OLD its usually fuck first ask questions later. well, if you dont get ghosted. People arent open about their intentions and some women are just seeking validation online and have no intention of meeting you IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:17 PM
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yes. as i should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:11 PM
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sex is not the goal for women huh? well half the dates i have had IRL and OLD the woman just wanted to get laid and left. Your gender is as evil as mine, trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:00 PM
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you do have it easy. you're just too lazy to proactively sift through your DMs bc you have so many lol. wow first world problems. the sense of entitlement is astounding, you dont want to put any effort into finding the right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:57 PM
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thats exactly what he meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:53 PM
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then why are people trying to push porn addiction as a thing? its not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:43 AM
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he's right though there are more women who have easier jobs then men. men frequently have to deal with laborious jobs that can kill you or give you health issues later on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:41 AM
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i just do it bc wife wont do anal and isnt always in the mood
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:15 AM
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"consent is sexy" is a hot take. it disallows natural progression of the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:12 PM
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why is that a problem? they both looked great together i think she was genuinely attracted to him. lots of teenage girls were.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:25 AM
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or go into debt for college?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:15 AM
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expected to be wise. wow. so we should just respect our elders bc theyre older. met plenty of older ppl than me and theyre dumb as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:12 AM
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elvis eloped with Priscilla when she was late teens he was late 20s. i cant remeber the ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:11 AM
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ah yes. the old standby. SA and r*pe. women are always the victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:43 PM
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from a lot of feminists perspectives, no feminism is not about just women. thats why some of them reject the term egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:35 PM
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the problem with this is when real life corroborates what you read online.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:01 PM
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you're definitely an outlier, but there are definitely women out there like you because my SO is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:50 PM
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not me man, i pumped em and dumped em
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:53 PM
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the club or bar is the worst. literally no women want to be hit on by anyone under a 10 in that setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:07 PM
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a lot of people on TwoX would ostensibly disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:49 PM
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politics sure. feminism, no. Way to make it all about your gender. this is why feminists are not taken seriously. they claim to be egalitarian. Then they go and shove the word into anything that has to do with politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:55 PM
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your first paragraph has nothing to do with feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:59 AM
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Yep. and I'll go so far as to say about 1/3 of them initiated it. One girl after a dinner date, I went to go pick up a bottle of bourbon for myself after with her in the truck with me. I started driving towards her house to drop her off after buying it, and she's like "you want some help drinking that?" Needless to say, she did not go back to her house, but back to mine, which was closer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:10 AM
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"Women really don’t want that much casual sex dude " My lived in experience would differ. Most dates were fuck first, ask questions later with online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:46 AM
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along with that, Im not (well I did not, as I am committed now) waiting in my sexual prime to get laid from super hot women. average and even slightly below is good enough for a lay, and even possibly more if the chemistry is right. Mostly because more homely women appreciate men more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:45 AM
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"If you're under 6ft" c'mon man. you're using hyperbole and its making all of us look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:22 PM
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thats not what he said. thats a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:48 PM
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do you always stalk people's profiles, twat?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:37 PM
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Um, i beg to differ that women have that much self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:57 PM
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flair checks out. do you eat paint chips too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:55 PM
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i mean this is why I meet way more women in life with inflated egos than I do men. Including my mom and step mom. Along with that comes a degree of lack of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:37 PM
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r/stupidquestions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:34 PM
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yes. outside of huge ass cities its extremely uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:47 AM
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its fuckin stupid, Karen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:35 AM
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"It's not adding up. how come there's gay men and women that still can get laid or get relationships even if they're not good looking nor have lots of money?" because people like to fuck. its that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:26 AM
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im calling bullshit on OP. no way she knows 20 lesbian couples. it just statistically doesnt make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:23 AM
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you came here to argue about stupid shit like chores. typical fuckin woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:22 AM
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"I don’t think men can complain about hoeflation but then settle." kind of a dumb statement its not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:40 PM
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"some". and even the good looking ones probably arent great past 50
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:39 PM
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lolol jesus. yeah reading this thread she has no logic whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:25 PM
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how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:57 PM
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"the extremes of it that women face - from only being valued for ass" hate to break it to ya bud, but women also use men for sex frequently. about half the women I dated just wanted to get laid and some of them I wanted to actually date. Men get used for ass too; or dick. I want to add, Im average, no Chad. Its just that I was very persistently messaging women in OLD and truth be told only got laid single digits in a year. The thing that women take for granted is that they can get laid easily, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:49 PM
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well thats on the decline
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/25 02:54 PM
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but muh wage gap....
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/25 02:52 PM
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you realize beauty is a scale, right? hence so is physical attraction. Its not that I find her unattractive lol. I feel sorry for whoever you marry because she'll eventually get old and unattractive like most women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:27 PM
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Im not 100% happy with anything. Nothing, absolutely NOTHING is perfect in life. And Im not that superficial and I am attracted to her but she's not perfect of course for me physically. But I enjoy being with her and the sex is great so thats enough to compensate for whatever shes lacking physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:06 AM
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no, its because we find your requests unreasonable and too frequent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:47 AM
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Im a guy who lowered his physical standards and am with my forever person for 8 years. Very happy with her because we have mutual interests and she's low maintenance. Hotter women tend to be bitchier and crazier, not to mention less committed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:45 AM
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no homo! just the tip tho..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:53 AM
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me too, but its nothing sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:50 AM
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100%. why do you think other women check other women out? My SO admits she does it. shes even like "my tits are better than hers" when we go to the pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:40 AM
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lol this blue pill man right out the gate with homophobia
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:39 AM
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why do you think the sterotype of nagging women persists? in my experience the stereotype is pretty true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:38 AM
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"She said i should have looked in the mirror before approaching her" Good lord what a bitch. looks like you dodged a bullet, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:59 PM
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thats a problem for men that are in male dominated fields and dont have many women as friends (warm approaching, that is.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:52 PM
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heh. booze helps. between this and the Navy this is why ive had a problem with it in life. men have to deal with hella rejection to get anywhere, which causes insecurity and unhappiness, which the booze numbs so you can be generally happy for a few hours to converse with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:47 PM
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Im not even reading this crap. Physical attraction and sex are arguably the most important part of at least initiating a relationship whether it be casual or not. Show me a relationship with no sex, and i'll show you one thats inevitably going to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:01 AM
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theres lots of reasons to not slut around yeah, but theres A LOT that still are, not through cheating, but just casual sex. Males and females just dont care that much about promiscuity anymore because for most people its a phase until the find someone that fits for a LTR bc both genders like to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:28 PM
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Being a slut on OF hasnt lost its stigma, thats apples to oranges. IRL being a slut has largely lost its stigma
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:25 PM
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i can tell you havent actually slept with that many females. sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:15 PM
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Dude, theres a very thin line between a hookup and a relationship, seeing how most people arent up front with eachother whether theres a LTR in their mind. this goes for both genders as i have wanted more from a woman than the dirty and she just wanted to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:13 PM
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Men dont ask women out largely because of rejection, thats why OLD has thrived. Cold approaching is way harder, especially if you work in a male dominated field so you dont even have a cursory relationship with the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:10 PM
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No, mens main issue is not fidelity. Its simply the burden of dating women in this climate where they have all of this control and high standards. How many dudes do you know in your circle (single) that would fuck a subpar woman? I know from experience in mine its a lot, and they dont take into account how many others shes slept with either. Most men will stick their dick into a woman when the opportunity presents itself, whether shes a slut or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:09 PM
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All Im saying is there isnt as much a stigma on women being sluts anymore, its not that complicated. Most dudes i know would wife one if they stayed with him long enough without cheating. This whole body count thing is kinda bull. when you find the right one, you stop sleeping around, and Im sure women are capable of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:37 AM
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i dont think the double standard is as important anymore, women can largely do what they want without repercussions. the only men that care are these weird conservative tradwife types.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:47 AM
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"Women never say this, but they will never be the fuckER and always the fuckEE." I wouldnt say this either, sometimes my SO gets on top and her sole purpose is to make me cum bc she knows im trying not to and shes the one riding and in control. Its pretty hot tbh. Im not exactly the kind of guy that would say no to pegging either, even though we've never done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:11 PM
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yeah. condoms fucking suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:58 PM
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the onus is on the man to provide a good experience. I'll tell you why. if the man nuts, possible pregnancy if the man nuts, its a mess. and there's less friction if a man nuts too soon, it can ruin the whole experience if he goes flaccid. if you're using a condom, chances are your fun is diminished as a male. Condoms arent fool proof. they can slip off and break so you still have to be diligent about nutting or not. (my brother and me...admittedly arent well endowed, he had a condom slip of and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:50 PM
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i think for me it was the early stages of online dating, and i was too clingy and wanted more usually. when i started fucking bitches for just for temporary fun is when they wanted to stay around. go figure. i just dont get it man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:13 PM
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it actually did happen to me frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:57 AM
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its soul-less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:33 AM
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our dipshit president elect said it was the 51st state lol but thats a whole other discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:22 AM
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gee, it couldnt be that talking about this shit IRL could get a man ostracized. Nope, the fuckin internet is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:18 AM
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"I don't find crying to people solves anything either" I find it does. its called empathy and you're too emotionally stunted to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:25 PM
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i dont find venting by myself solves anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:12 AM
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just do yoga, bro. get mad chicks. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:00 AM
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i mean i dont, but i was raised in the military where they tear you down and nothing is good enough. its just a whole clusterfuck of issues bc thats just how the military is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:58 AM
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no insult to you as a woman, but it is kind of a problem. as evidenced by how many mediocre women get so many messages online. Also, im going to admit something...in the Navy we used to take the fattest woman home as a prize we called it "hogging" and the concept came from how hard it is to get a date as a Sailor. Ngl, I liked these women better because in general they were more grateful to go home with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:55 AM
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"Crying by yourself isn't bottling your feelings." This is literally the dumbest fucking take ive ever heard on the internet. You're crying in a vacuum. Whats a vacuum? well its a void. No ones listening to you or empathizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:48 AM
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fuck yeah found the goddamn electrician. women dont get it. Some do. Some are EMSs. But most sit at a fucking desk job
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:30 AM
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no ones having children anymore, u/ffaancy you think a year of risk is equivalent to a job where its dangerous for idk 30 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:28 AM
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you would have to change pop culture, which is a huge issue. because men and women consume way different things in the entertainment realm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:26 AM
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"we’re more similar than we’re different and so are our issues." not really. not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:34 AM
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sorry to hear that. I can think of one other one thats really male oriented and thats golf. I guess you could get into billiards, but in my experience a bar is one of the places where women are not really receptive either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:53 PM
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what makes this worse though is that men and women generally differ significantly in hobbies that are social, if they have any.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:20 PM
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I dont date anymore, but I chose online dating because communicating through DMs and texts allowed me to formulate thoughtful responses instead of cold approaching IRL and dealing with that anxiety. I never had any luck doing the latter, not even at a bar. and the thing is most men dont want to go out and do yoga just to meet a woman. we may go to the gym, but i dont think women are receptive to being hit on at the gym either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:58 PM
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"but the wife role in a relationship is often servile" anecdotal, but not on either sides of my family. the women have always been more bossy and aggressive in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:19 PM
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"we don't have many 3rd places to go to," theres a couple reasons for this. I'd say the majority of hobbies dont require another person. and also, some hobbies are more male dominated than others, like guitar.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:17 PM
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im not jerking off without it. it gets boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:14 PM
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No. reason being is that jerking off is totally different than sex and sometimes using your imagination is boring. also, im in a committed relationship, theres no complaints about sex from her. however i find her a bit vanilla so i indulge my kinks in porn. also helps me last longer if i regularly jerk off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:10 AM
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you think you're unattractive, but keep in mind us men generally have lower standards. especially for women who cordial and take incentive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:43 PM
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"Why not masturbate to pictures of women instead?" because men are visual creatures. we like to see the pp enter the vajayjay. and you get a better view with porn than IRL. its super simple but I guess you cant even grasp simple concepts judging by this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:48 PM
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and that leads to entitlement imho. because you're not risking anything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:21 AM
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"Not being able to handle rejection is entitlement" this goes both ways. is this why women mostly dont approach men and we're supposed to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:27 AM
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I'm not sure that a high body count is a stigma anymore for women. Most dudes I know will still stick it in. Hell, a lot of dudes are raising another dudes kids
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:31 AM
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I'm so tired of the porn addiction trope. its bullshit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/24 11:58 AM
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towards the end of dating I guess I kind of was because i just set my standards lower just to get laid and then started doing the same thing to women, basically. just using them. you know what they say. hurt people hurt people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:38 PM
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and women lie by omission. cant tell you how many times ive been used for casual sex then ghosted or told they didnt desire a relationship after. at no point did any of these women tell me their true intentions before fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:15 PM
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yeah this is new to me. back in the day rarely had a potential date argue with me over where or when the date will be. and there DEFINITELY weren't arguments about sex, i know as a man to not be pushy on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:06 PM
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i dated around the same time and almost every woman either made the first move, or it was mutual making moves. and yeah most of these times were the first or second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:53 PM
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"just looking for a fuck (yes women are doing this too)" yep. and they never disclose that they'll just ghost you after theyre done or string you along until theyre done.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:36 AM
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"Most attention women get is from men seeking holes" if you think women dont just use men as vaginal pogo stick you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:16 PM
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i just had someone argue with me on some other sub....i think r/Millennials that anyone can get an Electrical Engineering degree. people are wild man. i mean i admire the bootstraps and the work ethic American mentality but there is a baseline degree of intelligence inherently and some people are lower than others and theres a limit to how much you can improve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:09 PM
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"Men can hire a surrogate" how easy is this? seems like it would be hard to do for an actual living bc then you have to take pregnancy leave and/or are limited physically for what you can do for work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:55 PM
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man you get proved wrong with actual citations and still double down. stfu. youre not arguing in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:53 PM
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and what were the ethnicity of the attackers? just curious...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:51 PM
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"Most people intrinsically know this" idk about that.....it was like a decade ago but some younger folk absolutely think the world is egalitarian
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:47 PM
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a man has just as many risks from getting someone pregnant except for actually bearing the child. child support is a thing. and idk if im rare, but i intentionally dated for just sex and never got off because im terrified of kids. my brother had a kid even though he wore a condom so, it was all about getting the woman off. and from what I can tell, at least 2/3rds of them did. this notion that its so hard for women to get an orgasm needs to stop, and if you're not getting off, you may want to lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:07 PM
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"to masturbate in" the fact that you view sex this way is a mental disorder symptom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:28 PM
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it sucks more for men. its been documented.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:46 PM
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i can tell you anecdotally that women use men for sex the same way in online dating. no ones intentions are clear in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:45 PM
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youre probably not wrong, but at least yall find it easy to get sex. its not that easy for the average guy. and sex can lead to something more, you yall have more potential to find a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:43 PM
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"she could be waiting for years before knowing if he actually wants to marry her" you're acting like women dont use men this way and you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:42 PM
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arguing out of context is also not in good faith. your culture is the outlier in this setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:43 PM
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actually on this website it is. its western dominated whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:08 PM
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its not. it just that you dont take this site into context of what cultures we're talking about. thats a huge deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:44 PM
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youre not aware of how different the cultures are between the west and China? LOL. go there. i have a recommendation on YouTube where an American married a Chinese woman and saw how backwards their society is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:34 PM
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i dont care about the shithole third world countries you're bringing up. end of fucking story.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:33 PM
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"killing massive amounts of babies just because they were born male." sorry i dont fucking care and this post isnt about babies. its about grown adults and the dynamics between genders. specifically you can assume its context is Western. its an American website.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:02 PM
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again. stop conflating the western world with the rest of the world. its not the same dynamic. this is an American website.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:08 PM
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we're talking about the western world here. dont conflate the two. we know other countries dont have the same dynamic, especially Iran and India
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:06 PM
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with all due respect, which is none...you have your head up your ass and cant see the forest for the trees. and i should expect that with a no pill flair
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:03 PM
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no yours is wrong. see what i did there. lol we are absolutely not driven to have children. do you think that the first few humans knew that fucking led to kids? the answer is no. but they kept doing it bc it felt good. its a very simple concept that you cant see because you're conflating it with procreation. the only reason why you think its tied to procreation is because you have been programmed by society to want children. probably it all started when we realized we need to exploit others to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:57 PM
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theres no black and white. just because i feel an attachment for someone and we choose to fuck, doesnt mean i want to have kids. by your logic, men and women wouldnt even get attached platonically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:36 AM
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people are wired to fuck, not procreate. as a man that's my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:56 AM
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i'd say this is common with at least half my generation of Millnnials
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:42 PM
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Maybe just stay in a situationship and see how it goes? These days sex and hanging out comes before commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:43 AM
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" nearly all the women I know have trouble gaining sincere commitment from men. " I can tell you from experience with these sites, this is not exclusive to women. Been used by plenty then ghosted as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:38 AM
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