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Guidelines, not rules. I'd rephrase it too as "how many dates does it take for you to want to have sex?" I don't think women should "have to wait" or not. Earliest would be date 2. If we've been dating for a month and haven't done anything sexual then that is a bad sign and probably means I won't want to date her any more. Maybe she doesn't feel comfortable with me, or not into me, or into sex in general. Whatever the reason, barring a good reason in the situation, it's a sign that the best thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:58 AM
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What hobbies do you have that are just as good as fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:28 AM
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For the man, it's no different than having a gay male friend try to date you. That's the situation you're describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 08:36 PM
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I mean, it depends on the person. Sometimes they really won't be able to get someone better in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:38 PM
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average and below average attractive women do this all the time on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:20 PM
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also paradox of choice. I don't think it helps anyone, but I can understand how average to highly physically attractive women who use OLD can get the impression that they really can hold out for someone better ... when they really can't. ... and I think most people who are mentally healthy don't engage in either of these. Right, but that gets into "dangerous" territory: yup, a lot of women who use OLD are not mentally healthy by that standard, but a lot of people will just think you hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:19 PM
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but he/she wants to search for someone more attractive than you. I soft disagree with that point, but your overall point is valid. Sometimes it isn't done consciously, the paradox of choice. The person might not even realize they've rejected someone they could be happy with. People over simplify standards, attractiveness, etc. There's really a window, a range, a space ... and over different dimensions and criteria. Even more complicated: people can want more than one thing at a time, e.g., "I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:13 PM
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less slut shaming won't make women want to fuck fat/ugly/short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:02 PM
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yikes, and the person saying her bf attempted murder based on--let's be real--a rumor that he raped someone. ... and this woman is in a relationship with this clearly violent and unstable individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:05 AM
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ok, no one said it couldn't? Are you saying it is anyone's responsibility to do something in particular? Women choosing to not fuck certain men is also cultural. Should women change their culture so that they choose to fuck fat/ugly/short men too? How do you decide who should change and why do you decide that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:55 PM
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ok, then let's make everyone go without sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:16 PM
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I think there is a level of closeness and vulnerability a man can have with a woman he trusts who he is also fucking that simply can’t be replicated with other relationships. Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:32 PM
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thanks for being reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:27 PM
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sex is a need. if you don't believe me then by all means: show us how unnecessary it is by going without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 10:17 PM
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some, not all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:42 PM
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yeah, something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:03 PM
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Nope, you can have sex without intimacy, but some intimacy can't be separated from sex. It isn't hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:02 PM
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Nope, there's a kind of emotional intimacy that can't be separated from sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:00 PM
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wanting what you want is not toxic. What is toxic is labeling it as toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:00 PM
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I never said men don't seek any emotional intimacy from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:57 PM
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I do not believe that this inability to have emotional intimacy with other men without sexual desire is innate in men. I never said all emotional intimacy. I never said only a female partner can provide emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:57 PM
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not all of it has to be, but some can exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:09 PM
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So does this mean men in North Africa and Japan, where emotionally intimate friendships between men are common and expected, are all gay? You're talking about something completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:01 PM
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If you want an emotional dumpster to empty the majority of your issues in, go to a therapist who's paid to do this. Therapists say that that isn't their job either, and that a person should talk to their friends. Have you actually seen what therapists say about this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:59 PM
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You don't see the emotional needs that are already filled, that you don't fill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:57 PM
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What it has to do with being gay: that would hypothetically solve the issue of sexual attraction. So, other men are not suitable partners for the kind of emotional intimacy I'm talking about. At least, for most men, because most men are not gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:55 PM
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Men don't want to do a certain thing with other men because it feels sexually wrong. That's you saying straight men should be gay "just change your culture, bro." You are confusing several ideas. I never said anything about "burden." It seems to be causing a lot of men to suffer, It isn't, you're trying to blame the want for the problem. "but it would feel weird to You word it to sound trivial when it is not. But, hey, if we don't care about anyone feeling weird, then women should just have sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:51 PM
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men already do it, just look at male friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:47 PM
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You can have one without the other, it's not a difficult concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:47 PM
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Obviously, the context was about what they / the relationship does for you. Maybe you're a psychopath, I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:45 PM
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The logic is that emotional fulfillment comes from a strong social circle. I'm just describing a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:44 PM
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You're telling straight men to be gay, and that's just not going to happen. "Blah blah, just change your culture, bro." No, if you want to call it "culture" their culture is not the problem. You can't just reprogram people, and it is not a problem for a kind of emotional intimacy to be linked to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:44 PM
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What can your romantic partner do for you that your regular friends can't? That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:41 PM
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I just did. How do you define the color "yellow"? It just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:40 PM
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If you can't imagine that there is a kind of intimacy inextricably linked to sex, then you have a poor imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:39 PM
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Culture isn't trivial to erase and replace with something else. You would never tell someone that their Asian/Latino/African culture is a problem, and they should get rid of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:38 PM
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You know I'm not talking about trivial things. Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:34 PM
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OK, then let's make up a new term, there's something like emotional intimacy that can not be separated from sex, and that's where emotional intimacy with a sexual partner comes in. There is no substitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:33 PM
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You know very well that's not what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:32 PM
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I never said "completely." I'd say to my son or nephew that they need therapy. What do you think therapists would say about that "problem"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:24 PM
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if you think emotional intimacy is a burden then maybe relationships aren't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:23 PM
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I never said "all"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:18 PM
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I never said "only." The point is: other relationships aren't substitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:16 PM
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Emotional intimacy and sex are connected. That's just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:15 PM
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I never said "all"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:13 PM
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then don't be in relationships with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:12 PM
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Incest is generally frowned upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:12 PM
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I don't think you have the facts straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:01 PM
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Expecting a partner to be an all encompassing package to fullfill all of your needs is a sure way to end up disappointed at best or even feel conned at worst. I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:59 PM
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I never said "all emotional intimacy."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:59 PM
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OK, I'll qualify it as "in our current culture." The conclusion still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:58 PM
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It’s bad because all of your emotional intimacy comes from one person. No, just that a certain kind, perhaps a "deep" level of emotional intimacy can not be untangled from sexual desires. So, whoever that person is, it needs to be someone you want to fuck, and telling straight men to get the same thing from their male friends, their dog, etc. is just a non-starter. It's never going to happen. I never said anything about depending on one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:56 PM
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Do you have a son or nephew?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:52 PM
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Would you like to write something relevant to the post now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:51 PM
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Improving your looks, fitness, mental health, status, money, etc WILL ALWAYS HELP YOU AND NEVER HURT YOU. and buying more lottery tickets WILL ALWAYS INCREASE YOUR CHANCE OF WINNING THE LOTTERY. Can you see the problem with your logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:26 PM
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most men aren't gay, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:55 PM
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