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| 0 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare.How about work hard and earn the money to get it yourself instead. Like every other person who wants to add an upgrade to their life. I just had a consultation for adding minimal Botox to my face and designed a payment plan into my budget to see the cost-benefit analysis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Women objectify and reduce men to metrics but in a different way.GIRL SAME 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 02:50 AM |
| 1 | The cock sharing pact between alphas and mid-tier carousel casualties is fucking dead.What about the 7.5 women? 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 10:24 PM |
| 1 | The cock sharing pact between alphas and mid-tier carousel casualties is fucking dead.😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 10:11 PM |
| 2 | If not being in a relashionship causes women to go mad later in life, it would still make sense for at least some to not get in relationships😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 07:17 AM |
| 2 | The way those who hate age gaps talk about them is actually reinforcing tropes about younger women being more desirableIn my experience plenty of men date, have relationships, and explore/have fun (alongside their women peers) with younger, older, and same age women. By a landslide the MAJORITY of my friends and family have ended up marrying someone their same age. The only part I can see is women in their 30’s becoming more “serious” in establishing a committed relationship, mainly because of the societal pressure to marry and biological clock. Otherwise it sounds like you’re giving up your agency and projectin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 02:10 AM |
| 3 | The way those who hate age gaps talk about them is actually reinforcing tropes about younger women being more desirableActually, I have found personally that my sexuality has peaked in my 30’s. And I also have a 25 year old man who is madly in love with me (34F). It’s a nice dynamic 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Men are lonely because women are changed.Preach!!! 📣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Men are lonely because women are changed.Shout out the real ones still out there 👊🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.That’s funny I actually had the opposite experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesSo true about the living with parents vs. living with roommates thing. I can’t imagine living with my parents after 18. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 01:34 AM |
| 7 | CMV: If you need to denigrate someone else to feel valuable, then you are probably not valuable.Yeah still not understanding due to lack of details | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 04:48 AM |
| 6 | CMV: If you need to denigrate someone else to feel valuable, then you are probably not valuable.How do women behave? I’m trying to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 04:32 AM |
| 7 | CMV: If you need to denigrate someone else to feel valuable, then you are probably not valuable.lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 04:12 AM |
| 10 | CMV: If you need to denigrate someone else to feel valuable, then you are probably not valuable.In a world w/ more positive male sentiment online, how would you imagine or predict men would act differently? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 04:09 AM |
| 12 | CMV: If you need to denigrate someone else to feel valuable, then you are probably not valuable.How would you predict men would behave differently if there was more positive male sentiment online? What is male sentiment to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 03:55 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?Totally agree. I imagine that feeling would escalate immensely after becoming a mother. I can’t imagine how degrading and humiliating it would be to be a wife and mother of a man’s children who is lusting after other women online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 03:39 AM |
| – | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?“It’s about compatibility and comfort level.” Same could be said about women not wanting to have sex with virgin men. It’s not about judgement or “morality” just preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Let's say something nice about the opposite sex.I love hanging out with my guy friends! 🫶🏼 Affinity for sports/competition, humor on point, a touch of recklessness and always on a mission or journey. Not to mention less gossip and overanalyzing, which eases my mind. Always had an equal number of close male and female friendships — I NEED both to feed my soul! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Would you prefer if men put as much effort into their looks as women, or if women put as little as men?“2 mah lord! pick #2!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 06:41 AM |
| – | Too many men make normal bad experiences their whole personality, and allows it to stunt their growth.Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 06:37 AM |
| 0 | Women are more attracted to social status than social skills.Not gunna lie that’s an interesting question. I would believe it’s probably the man with the best social skills who has achieved or on track to achieve the highest social status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 06:33 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys?Not my type at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 01:52 AM |
| 0 | The world needs more Sigma males, men who are completely ultra self-sufficient and don’t rely on validation from anyoneWhy did reading that turn me on lol 😜 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 02:09 AM |
| – | Q4W: Why do you think being a hive mind is a bad thing?Yuck Hahha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather date an NBA player or a nerdy tech geek?BALLA 🏀⛹️♂️❤️🔥 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Most women are too timid to find the right guy they'd actually love and respect~I’m so timid and scared~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Most women are too timid to find the right guy they'd actually love and respectDoesn’t go out*** | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Women have abandoned Natural Selection.Hahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 01:46 PM |
| 7 | Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date?Me too sis! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:06 AM |
| 4 | Dating is insanely inequal and unfair for men, yet no one’s adressing it even though it affects fundamental human😅💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a 35 year old woman who is otherwise your looksmatch?Again, can confirm, that at 34 I am still extremely fertile, including pregnant with a child right now, which happened the first attempt without any assistance. I have conceived 3 times in my 30’s, 2 times of which I took plan b and it did not work. Also two of my cousins conceived (36F and 38F) instantly with their husbands, and side noted “welp didn’t expect that to happen so fast” and both had extremely healthy babies. I don’t buy into the “after 30 infertility” nonsense. I have zero worries … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 03:03 PM |
| 12 | Would you date a 35 year old woman who is otherwise your looksmatch?I’m 34 - can confirm ✅ - still extremely fertile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Women do not like sex (not as men understand sex)That is one random person’s perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 12:50 AM |
| – | Do women who participate in hookup culture crave sexual variety as much as men do?👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Alot of guys are confused about what women want because they’re not honest about what they themselves want (which is just sex).True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Alot of guys are confused about what women want because they’re not honest about what they themselves want (which is just sex).Very well said! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 04:34 PM |
| 0 | Do women who participate in hookup culture crave sexual variety as much as men do?I’ve found men from every racial background/eye color/hair color attractive. I’ve found both younger men (~10 range) and older men (~10 year range) attractive. I’ve found men with different body builds attractive, but I will say I don’t find men attractive who have pot belly’s, overweight or freakishly muscular body builder types. And I’d say men who are 5’10 or taller. P.s. this is NOT ALL men in there “categories” but just saying I’ve found enjoyment and attraction in men with a variety of phy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Do women who participate in hookup culture crave sexual variety as much as men do?BOOM! Read my mind. 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Women do not like sex (not as men understand sex)Totally! We are just as visual creatures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Women do not like sex (not as men understand sex)I’ve never seen anyone claim the male body is ugly, nor do I believe it. The one discrepancy could potentially be related to dick pics, especially if unwarranted. I’d rather see a pic of a man’s chest/arms/physique along with his smile rather than have a rando dick sent to me (esp without it being warranted!!). However, I can def find male sexual organs arousing and attractive during moments of intimacy if clean and well kept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 03:33 PM |
| 7 | Women do not like sex (not as men understand sex)Agreed! I can’t stand when this assumption is presumed lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:17 AM |
| – | Expecting autistic men to mask and upgrade their entire lives, especially dating, while not even giving them a chance or ever trying to approach them is hypocritical and illiberal.As a therapist who works on communication with autistic populations, thank you for sharing this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 12:59 AM |
| 0 | Men should work harder for womenThat’s ridiculous lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:36 AM |
| 10 | Wow, older women really are full of baggage🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 10:17 PM |
| – | Q4W: Paternity tests changes the gameWe’re all on the same page about this. Next question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:37 PM |
| – | How should average men pursue casual sex according to women?Easy peasey 🍋🍸 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 04:50 AM |
| – | How should average men pursue casual sex according to women?I’m mid 30’s and I go to house parties on a regular basis with a variety of different friend groups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 04:47 AM |
| 3 | I think the red pill enables women to take less accountability😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:04 AM |
| 2 | The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke).I agree with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Do women see a male lack of strive as a moral failure?True, you’re right. If they do that and pay taxes and don’t harm anyone, that’s fine. Hate to see it tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Do women see a male lack of strive as a moral failure?No the disgust feeling comes from a place of watching someone wither away and not care enough to do anything about it. Like I said, I don’t think they should be punished or harassed in any way, but the lack of self sufficiency evokes sadness and disgust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Do women see a male lack of strive as a moral failure?I would feel resentful if I knew they were taking advantage of gov benefits for no reason. Otherwise everyone is free to live the life they want. I wouldn’t say viewing it as “moral failure” but I would associate it with a feeling of disgust to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Do women see a male lack of strive as a moral failure?this 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 12:22 AM |
| 3 | A theory on why some men are sexist - because they need womenI second this question and without nefarious intent ^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 06:17 PM |
| 0 | I'd rather be a man finding a girlfriend than a woman finding a boyfriend.As a woman, I’d rather be a man finding a girlfriend too. I’m attractive and very sociable with a successful career, I will both approach and respond with curiosity to being approached by men. I mostly hate feeling “less” agency in being the pursuer, getting attention from disgusting creeps, and also hate doing make up/hair/getting dressed up girlie for things lol. Just my two cents 🤙🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 11:46 PM |
| 10 | Do you actually lower sexual attraction when it comes to a guy you see as relationship material?💯💯💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 07:10 PM |
| 0 | Introverted men are boring to most women (even introverted women)I feel like I need an introverted man. But it’s soooo hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 04:00 AM |
| 6 | Do women even want to meet men?I like meeting new people a lot! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Do you all think dating was easier before COVID or even before the rise of dating apps as the main source of meeting people?Looking forward to strong men again! 💪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Self improvement is the only true antidote to romantic lonelinessWondering why you think this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Men on here don’t understand women’s approach to casual sex. A massive failure to cross sex mind read from the red pill.🐕🦮🐕🦺🐾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 05:40 AM |
| – | Women Absolutely Love Casual Sex..... Just Not With You.Love love loveee 💖 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 05:24 AM |
| – | How do you like to split up chores?I love being cooked for and more than happy to clean the dishes after!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculatedBravo! I love this 👏🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 05:26 PM |
| 2 | The below 80% of men should strive to get dating apps removedWhat is a suicide swiper? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 07:07 AM |
| 2 | The below 80% of men should strive to get dating apps removedI’m seeing your thinking process and logistical thought process. I can’t imagine paying money something like that ever In my mind, the likes —> filtered —> matches in accumulation. The matches multiply and then it’s blahh all done. I shut off my phone and don’t look at it for hours I go play coed volleyball leagues and interact with the world around me. What about this approach? And I’m not trying to knock your ideas at all. I literally don’t even care about seeing who likes me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 06:39 AM |
| 2 | The below 80% of men should strive to get dating apps removedGotcha, I’m not familiar with the tiers and levels, I have not ever paid. If I’m trusting my instinct tho, that seems way too calculated in general. People learning to sift through dating and trust their inherent instincts is important! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 06:18 AM |
| 3 | The below 80% of men should strive to get dating apps removedI feel like that’s what I already do. Just filter out the accumulated likes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 06:08 AM |
| -3 | How likely/unlikely is it to find love as a man?It’s not that deep! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 06:02 AM |
| 12 | The below 80% of men should strive to get dating apps removedYou had me until “women need to pay for the app” lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 06:01 AM |
| 1 | We are looking at the gay man analogy wrong“It’s inside the computer” 🤖 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Looking through the wrong lense: Which issues do men and women get wrong because they assume the other sex thinks like them?Love this and love your handle 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | It's very rare for a man to be with a woman who isn't primarily interested in getting money, resources or free food from him.Free food, so sick 🤪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:01 AM |
| 1 | There is a serious lack of self awareness within guys who actively stereotype a singular ‘women’Dude so many studies are based off “self reports” it’s the exact same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 11:40 PM |
| 9 | Women don't know themselves or what they wantWhy do I picture this being read aloud by a sock puppet with a squeaky voice in complete mockery 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Women don't know themselves or what they want😂🍿 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Is Everything Is Being Needlessly Overcomplicated?Si 🤫💃🕺🪩 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 09:32 AM |
| – | Pitiying the complainers is a new form of conviction. It's litteraly cursing their lifeHave you ever been hated or discriminated against? I have, I been protested and demonstrated against Picket signs for my wicked rhymes, look at the times Sick is the mind of the motherfuckin' kid that's behind All this commotion, emotions run deep as oceans, explodin' Tempers flarin' from parents, just blow 'em off and keep goin' Not takin' nothin' from no one, give 'em hell long as I'm breathin' Keep kickin' ass in the morning and takin' names in the evenin' Leave 'em with a taste as sour as vi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 09:29 AM |
| -2 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35Okay I’ll check out some videos to try to understand further. I’m wondering what’s your plan since you’d rather not be positive and improve? | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 04:56 PM |
| -13 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35Society doesn’t hate men. Online forums will mislead what’s out in the real world. I’m paying taxes and not receiving any government benefits. It sucks. There’s more to life tho! | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 01:13 PM |
| 0 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35Why | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 01:04 PM |
| -5 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35I am a therapist who works with autistic people, mostly children. But I’m sorry you feel you’re not receiving help you need. I also run a support group for autistic college students on campus as a way to seek connection and guidance. I think in general a ton of people in their 20’s/30’s feel they are falling behind and barely making it financially and executive functionally- the world is changing at such a rapid pace. I hear you. Don’t give up! 🧡 | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 01:02 PM |
| -16 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35I don’t hate men at all I just what to see them improving rather than isolating | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 12:57 PM |
| 0 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35Do what | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 12:55 PM |
| -59 | Men at all ages under 35 are more likely to be unemployed than women at all ages under 35Do something boys 🥴🥴🥴 | /r/MensRights | 24/07/25 08:00 AM |
| 1 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.Doesn’t feel like it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Explain so many involuntarily single men at a roughly 50/50 gender ratioDefinition of “competition” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 03:18 AM |
| 3 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.Ok this has been happening in reverse for men fantasizing unrealistic women for centuries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever benefited from gender-specific privileges?Jealous about night running 😔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 07:10 AM |
| 4 | For most men, sex is better outside of a relationshipI feel the same way and I’m female. Bell curve bruv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Why are you still single?I’m not trying to challenge or deny your perspective. I’m listening. But what about caring for a grandparent or parent in need of medical or physical help? Showing a friend who has suffered a loss of a loved one genuine support and love by checking in? Caring for a puppy and making sure it develops, eats right, healthy, etc.? Building a sweet unique “uncle type” playful fun kinship with a friend or family members kid? Even driving a good friend to the airport as a nice favor when they’re in a pi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Why are you still single?Can you explain the instinct that atrophies? And at what age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Why are you still single?😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Why are you still single?Love the specificity 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Why are you still single?Lmao yes the correct phrase was “socially adept” thanks homie 🤟 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 12:16 AM |
| 9 | Why are you still single?34F 🙋🏼♀️ 1.) I am very open to being partnered, but I am not “actively seeking” a partner for a long term relationship. Feels too forced and I have a full life as is — that said, I would love to have a family of my own someday. 2.) Red flags in potential partners that have driven me away were lack of initiative, unstable financial positions/career paths, and straight up not physically attractive. Also, “mommy’s boys” are a massive red flags as well as men who I observe treat their own family me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameMe too 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 08:46 AM |
| – | Men are drastically overestimating how badly the average young woman wants commitment.Preach sister. It’s not always that serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones toothe wizard of oz? 🛣️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 08:37 AM |
| 3 | Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones tooEven more awesome! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 07:57 PM |
| 6 | Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones tooMeh. That sounds manipulative and exhausting. Not my style. I’d still rather just give them pregnancy, birthing and breastfeeding responsibilities and be done with it 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 04:52 PM |
| 8 | Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones tooMaybe not complaining but advocating for fertility technology to take off into new ways where there are artificial wombs etc etc. I definitely think it would be a funny experiment if men were tasked with pregnancy and breastfeeding taking up 2 years of their life and see how that unfolds 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones tooPlease for the love of god do it 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 02:36 PM |
| 15 | Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones tooLow key would love to complain that I can’t outsource carrying pregnancy and breastfeeding to the man. That shit sucks so bad and ages you, drains you, puts you back in your career and is painful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 02:28 PM |
| 0 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameOr we just enjoy some hot next level sex and then continue on with our lives 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameI can agree with this parallel for sure. That’s why I don’t watch that trash cuz my brain will rot lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameI would disagree cuz playing music and learning hand movements to play instruments, reading music and finding tone pitch and musical melodies takes effort and develops parts of the brain. It’s creative too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameIt’s blatantly so unattractive to me cuz it’s giving middle school vibes lol. Time suck, brain mush, violence in the games. Literally just picturing a guy over 18 years old in the basement zoned out into the video games gives me such an ickkkk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameNah that’s all right you keep playing your video games lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 02:57 PM |
| – | Sexual compatibility isn't a real thing.Omg yes it is. The feelz is realz, or they ain’ttt. Such a difference in my book! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 07:00 AM |
| – | Women of reddit. What is your honest reaction to hearing constantly on social media the dating woes of men?I mostly breeze it over and take note of the discourse. It’s like reading someone’s journal and gaining insight into psychology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Men are angry about the current dating dynamics because they don't want to feel cucked.Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 03:52 AM |
| 7 | Men are angry about the current dating dynamics because they don't want to feel cucked.I agree and also respect for the handle 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 01:49 AM |
| 1 | What are women looking for in terms of dating advice on Reddit?thank you 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 05:12 AM |
| 3 | What are women looking for in terms of dating advice on Reddit?Good question. In short, not really. I find it all fascinating and wild tbh. All with a grain of salt 😇 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 04:51 AM |
| 7 | What are women looking for in terms of dating advice on Reddit?Literally just data entry for me. Understanding what dialogues are being engaged in online.. In my real life (work, home, social, family) I only deal with in-person relationships, connections, interactions. I also like to keep informed on society, have to say I’ve learned a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 04:42 AM |
| 24 | What are women looking for in terms of dating advice on Reddit?We come here for sociological data collection, not advice 😇 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 04:32 AM |
| 1 | To what extent would you want your spouse to emulate conventional/stereotypical traits associated with masculinity or femininity?Touché | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Men are finally being held to the same standards women are, and they can't handle it.P.s. “anything-maxxing” is so fucking lame I’m sorry 🤭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 01:58 AM |
| 5 | Men are finally being held to the same standards women are, and they can't handle it.I’m not crying! 🙋🏼♀️🤨🤔🤭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 01:55 AM |
| 1 | To what extent would you want your spouse to emulate conventional/stereotypical traits associated with masculinity or femininity?Also I would disagree about tomboys “imbibing masculinity” because for me it’s the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | To what extent would you want your spouse to emulate conventional/stereotypical traits associated with masculinity or femininity?What are the masculine traits you’re referring to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 05:26 PM |
| 1 | To what extent would you want your spouse to emulate conventional/stereotypical traits associated with masculinity or femininity?Def grateful to not be delusional about my gender cuz that story was very confusing 😅 but I think I got it. For the record I also have a high sex drive and FWB situations — is that masculine? Would love to hear you further describe perceived differences in tomboys vs masculinity.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 02:40 PM |
| 1 | To what extent would you want your spouse to emulate conventional/stereotypical traits associated with masculinity or femininity?As a tomboy girlie, who is also straight as an arrow, I wonder about this a lot. I’ve always had equal guy/girl friends, love playing sports/competition, do not enjoy doing make up/dressing up. Yet I’m an extremely nurturing woman who works with children etc. I feel in my natural element in both spheres. Also LOVE polarity in the bedroom & I’m attracted to masculine men. It’s all very confusing 🥲 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Are there two different groups ?Mos def 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Are there two different groups ?Quick check: I think you’re accurate about grouping these two types of women, but not always by age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 06:24 AM |
| 2 | The Power of Being InterestingI can teach anyone how to be charismatic. “It’s easy, if you try.” 🎶 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 06:20 AM |
| 3 | The Power of Being InterestingDisagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 12:40 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel when men on here treat your sexual autonomy and freedom of choice like an annoying barrier to what they feel entitled to?I simply laugh about it and smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 03:56 PM |
| 3 | How does it feel like to be hit on/approached by a creepy guy?Very context dependent, but in this case scenario, it’s a “creepy guy,” so I’d say I perceive/feel/react in 1 of 2 ways…. 1.) Feel the fight, flight freeze or fawn mode ACTIVATED and adapt to protect myself. Or 2.) Feel annoyed, frustrated, inconvenienced, dismissive and bothered. Happy to share personal examples for both “camps” if interested. Got plenty of em lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Women with messed-up/morally problematic interests are shown more grace than men with nerdy/unusual but not morally problematic interestsZoom out and the thematic arcs are the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Men ages 18-29 should not go after older women to date.Sounds like you answered your own question. Now I venture you to revisit your initial post and reflect on the “shoulds” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Women with messed-up/morally problematic interests are shown more grace than men with nerdy/unusual but not morally problematic interestsSo cartoon or fake scenes versus realistic scenarios? Every story follows an arc pathway that relates to humans on an emotional level/resonates with some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 04:52 AM |
| -1 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?Love all of this! 🫶🏼🌅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?*healing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Women with messed-up/morally problematic interests are shown more grace than men with nerdy/unusual but not morally problematic interestsIt’s capturing human stories and using arcs for storytelling. Gaming and sci-fi use violence, etc all the time? Story telling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Men ages 18-29 should not go after older women to date.And how did that make you feel being judged? Seems reasonable to me. I actually tried to make a post seeing how it might be interesting to intermix dating ages more in 20’s/30’s/40’s cuz it brings interesting diversity and mix of viewpoints. Might balance out the dating market | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Men ages 18-29 should not go after older women to date.Sure! Why not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Women with messed-up/morally problematic interests are shown more grace than men with nerdy/unusual but not morally problematic interestsPeople enjoy all sorts of entertainment for different reasons. It’s not that serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Women with messed-up/morally problematic interests are shown more grace than men with nerdy/unusual but not morally problematic interestsIt’s not that deep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Women, do you think men who work from home are less masculine?Yes. I do think it’s a class/privilege thing as well. But it’s undoubtedly perceived as easier, lazier, more convenient, which can be very frustrating for anyone, let alone a woman working out in the field every day. I have consistently worked in person no stop since the pandemic in what I would call higher stress environments in the medical field, and there is something in my soul that feels I’m working harder than men (or women) who work from home. It’s not even a judgement, just a feeling I c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Is a woman acting "feminine" a prerequisite for you getting turned on by her? And, would you still be able to find someone who didn't act feminine arousing, so long as she looks hot?Haha that’s awesome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 11:23 PM |
| 4 | Society did not “lie” to you about what was and wasn’t attractive to women. You are not a “victim”.Luigi 💘💘💘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Society did not “lie” to you about what was and wasn’t attractive to women. You are not a “victim”.1991 babies 👊🏼🫶🏼👏🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Men ages 18-29 should not go after older women to date.Thought experiment: younger men (20’s) dating older women (30’s) + younger women (20’s) dating older men (30’s) = could potentially help balance out the dating market, maturity levels, attractiveness, lifestyle preferences, and expand options to all of those looking? This is so nuanced and obviously I mean consensual safe loving relationships blah blah. Curious on any thoughts or considerations on this general framework. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Men and women who use dating apps - what do you think of new apps designed to skip the "talking stages" and skip straight to a first date, which also penalize ghosters/flaky people?1.) ✅✅✅ 2.) Completely agree! 3.) 💯💯 4.) Great follow up questions on the safety matters. Living in a very safe part of Denver? Meh I wouldn’t necessarily say so, not crazy dangerous either. I do live in a house with a mix of guys and girls (5 total), so that probably helps. Bad experiences in the past? For sure have been in bad/scary experiences and/or dangerous situations several times before. Dont need to dive in necessarily, but maybe it’s because I have, and made it through, that shapes my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Men ages 18-29 should not go after older women to date.Yep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Men ages 18-29 should not go after older women to date.I just turned 34F, and I very much enjoy younger men! living proof | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 12:43 AM |
| 4 | Men ages 18-29 should not go after older women to date.It’s true we do 😁😇👏🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Men and women who use dating apps - what do you think of new apps designed to skip the "talking stages" and skip straight to a first date, which also penalize ghosters/flaky people?Honestly even I (34F) get annoyed AF about the stranger danger and safety talk all the time from other women. Like I get it…. But for god sakes have a little agency over your own self-protection. Take precautions and don’t do anything stupid. Have a gal pal check in on you and bring pepper spray if you need. Understand when to exit yourself from a situation that feels off and listen to your gut. I just think the percentage of men who are actually unsafe and dangerous is minuscule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Men and women who use dating apps - what do you think of new apps designed to skip the "talking stages" and skip straight to a first date, which also penalize ghosters/flaky people?Super interesting diversity of responses! Great topic to bring to the table — happy to elaborate. For context, I am 34F living in Denver, CO for the past 10 years. 1.) First off, I think it would help me hold MYSELF more accountable. Rather than racking up hundreds of matches, getting completely overwhelmed by messages and spiraling into decision paralysis rabbit hole… this leads to me accidentally ghosting everyone cuz it’s so overwhelming… then I typically just delete the app. This isn’t nice … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Men and women who use dating apps - what do you think of new apps designed to skip the "talking stages" and skip straight to a first date, which also penalize ghosters/flaky people?Prefer meeting right away >>>>>> I literally hate messaging with randos I’ve never met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Millennial males (and older) had it easier.Creating experiences and expanding social networks are pathways that you can decide to create for yourself. Taking agency over your life will open opportunities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 06:52 AM |
| 0 | Serious question: what are the downsides of marriage?Go off sis 👏👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceI recently met and been dating a guy for the past few weeks… I’m very attracted to him, we have amazing chemistry and l like him a lot except… He doesn’t have a car, gets paid a low hourly wage and is in debt for medical bills. 😩 Unfortunately, I literally can’t parse out these facts separately to justify pursing more with him, simply because deep down I would not feel safe and secure in a relationship. Believe me, I wish it didn’t have to be this way either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 10:39 AM |
| 1 | How would you feel about your current or future partner asking to have different beds/bedrooms?I’d love it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Beautiful Women are Accustomed to a Certain Dating/Lifestyle and Shouldn’t be Shamed into Dating DownI conquer as a woman 👏👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Dating Discussions will never be fair or honest until we can acknowledge that men are far more promiscuous/sexual than womenHahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 07:25 AM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADCurious what’s the average age of PPD membas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 04:00 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yo straight up brilliant 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers should actually accept the mantra they preach and "embrace the decline"So many question marks lol. Listen to OP and let it beee 🧘♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 07:08 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Motivation to do the right thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Women who want providers: do you see women who split financials as competition? And do you think men who provide for you would enjoy the relationship more if you contributed or is it to enable you to be a SAHM?Not at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:59 AM |
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