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| 1 | I saw a video of a woman saying she wants a tall, handsome, rich boyfriend. It really touched me.Okay, so find a woman who isn't fit, isn't nice, isn't funny. Those are the women in your league. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/26 06:59 PM |
| 1 | I saw a video of a woman saying she wants a tall, handsome, rich boyfriend. It really touched me.Maybe you've conditioned yourself to only get hard for super hot women because you've spent your life gooning to porn. You seem to care more about what other men think about you then what women think of you. Maybe lay off the porn and you'll start finding normal women attractive. What are your hobbies and interests? Are you a kind person? Like, genuinely kind, not just nice so you can get in their pants. Or continue whining because you can't score with super models. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/26 06:57 PM |
| 1 | A Better ApologyI hope you'll watch this in the spirit of which I'm sending it. Wishing you the best. https://youtu.be/OCvMAeVk4uY?si=BuikiK3M3k_-2yY9 | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/26 12:23 AM |
| 2 | A Better ApologyCan you find anything to do that doesn't involve being online? Take up a cheap hobby you need your hands for. Not masturbation lol. Macrame, crochet, knitting, reading real books at the library, learn an instrument. Something that connects you to the real world? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/01/26 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Could Jordan Petterson be one of the voices of the manosphere? They say he's a very good psychologist. I don't like him at all.That article is one of my favorite things ever. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/26 01:59 AM |
| 6 | How to red pill detox?The Public Offender on YouTube is good. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/26 04:15 AM |
| 47 | How do I get over patriarchal views for women?Women are human beings. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/25 11:04 PM |
| 5 | Found my boyfriend watching red pill this morningFrom a 55 year old woman who has been around the block: please watch these videos, and find others that will help you deal with this. The first video, you should watch alone, then ask him to watch with you. Pay attention to his reaction. The last two videos are just for you. Red-pill is making men even worse than they already were. He's either gonna snap out of it, or be loveless. Don't give him your 20s waiting to see which. https://youtu.be/RdKjWkyLt2o?si=uaQZQZCaHmwlq0_d https://youtu.be/DusU… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/25 06:25 AM |
| 3 | Is it true that the whole “height thing”, especially about men, isn’t really a thing in real life? Or, not as much of a thing as on the internet?In short...no. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | My personality type will never be popular with women, and I have hard time coping with thatFor what it's worth, I call women out for the same stuff. If they're pursuing gym bros who are players, but expecting monogamous relationships, they're barking up the wrong tree. They should give average guys a shot. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/25 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Rich Cooper is dreadful to listen toNobody loves unconditionally. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/25 01:37 AM |
| 13 | People here have said many times that according to OkCupid's research, while women think that the majority of men are less attractive than average, they are still less picky than men with who they message, but according to ChatGPT this isn't true according to the studyWell, you don't know that about any couple you see. I see a lot of men online talking shit about their beautiful girlfriends. They are only with them for their looks, but they actually hate who they are. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/25 03:45 PM |
| 11 | People here have said many times that according to OkCupid's research, while women think that the majority of men are less attractive than average, they are still less picky than men with who they message, but according to ChatGPT this isn't true according to the studyHave you looked around? There are plenty of average/ugly men with wives and girlfriends. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/25 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Advice how I can help un red pill my boyfriendWatch this channel with him. https://youtube.com/@thepublicoffender100?si=0D07ou8LskhKESbz | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/25 07:11 PM |
| 7 | How do you actually NOT do something with intend ?Maybe she wanted to get together for a date/activity sometimes that didn't just involve you going to her place/your place to shag? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/25 02:11 AM |
| 26 | What is the deal with men warning against marrying career women?That's a valid argument, but I don't think that's where red-pill dudes are coming from. They want women who will be subservient to them. They want women who don't have options when they inevitably discover what terrible partners these men are. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/03/25 03:48 PM |
| 7 | I can't stand to even look at attractive women anymore.What about the women in your gym who are on a journey like yours? You'd probably have more in common with them? You might be overlooking a great girl. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/25 05:24 AM |
| 14 | I can't stand to even look at attractive women anymore.Can't you just admire them like pretty flowers, without needing to have them? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/25 05:21 AM |
| 18 | What bothers me the mostStop watching that crap, and if anybody uses red-pill jargon with you, consider it a good filter to weed out the baddies. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/25 12:00 PM |
| 4 | What bothers me the mostBingo! | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/25 11:59 AM |
| 5 | Good evening! Exredpill person here- glad I leftGlad you came into the light. Now go be a good person. If you are struggling to find your place, start by helping people less fortunate than you. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/25 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Message to Struggling Men!I'll start by acknowledging that I haven't read the books mentioned...so I should really do that first. But the way the OP writes the post is to recommend books written by men telling men what women want, in order to be effective with women. I guess my question is: what is the goal? To learn how to fake being a person women want? To attract women in order to have sex with them? Or is it to develop one's character in order to become a good partner for a woman? Because if what you want is to attra… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/25 11:42 PM |
| 2 | How do you help someone out of the redpill cult?Updateme! | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/25 02:44 AM |
| 3 | How do you help someone out of the redpill cult?I just tried to find one. I haven't read his books but I've seen him in multiple interviews on YouTube. He was in a cult and got out and has devoted his life to helping families get their loved ones out. So I would start by searching him on YouTube. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/25 11:20 PM |
| 2 | How do you help someone out of the redpill cult?Google Steven Hassan. He has written several books on the subject. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/25 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you help someone out of the redpill cult?Someone did write a book about it. Google Steven Hassan. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/25 11:03 PM |
| 28 | Message to Struggling Men!Maybe books about what women want are better if written by women. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/24 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Why whenever i have an argument with a woman or a feminist online and she realizes she can’t change my mind about a topic they either block you on social media or blindly and falsely assume stuff about you and insult you?What are some horrible feminist takes? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/24 05:05 AM |
| 6 | I need helpDude, get offline. Learn who you are. Pursue your hobbies, or find some. Online, there's simps and alphas, and nothing in between. That's not real life. You can be kind without being a pushover. You can be confident and take charge without being an asshole. Just be a real person and go out and meet real people. It might take a while to meet the right person, but in the meantime, enjoy your life. Nevermind the divorce stats. Just be the best version of yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/12/24 05:42 AM |
| 3 | My brother is deep into Red Pill. How do I help him get out?Your dad is probably the best person to talk to him. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/24 02:49 PM |
| 11 | If The Red Pill is wrong, why are so many women divorcing men and so many single mothers?Because women get tired of being bangmaids. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/24 04:44 PM |
| 7 | I am a woman and RP makes dating men impossible for me.Why are you miserable being alone? Do you have friends? A hobby? It's not a bad thing to be wary of men. Did you know that single women are statistically the happiest? Next comes married men. Then single men. The least happy people are married women. Men are a lot of work. If I had another chance at life, I would definitely choose to be single and child-free this time. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/24 11:42 AM |
| 28 | What do you think about the phenomenon of "high value" redpillers?Beauty fades, money can't buy love, or dignity, or true friendship. Ugly on the inside. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/11/24 08:24 PM |
| 12 | Why whenever i have an argument with a woman or a feminist online and she realizes she can’t change my mind about a topic they either block you on social media or blindly and falsely assume stuff about you and insult you?Dude, just don't give people you don't know permission to hurt your feelings. You admit that you were incel-like. Why are you hurt when people pick up on that and call you out? Step outside yourself and read what women are saying. Don't argue, or give opinions. Just listen for a while. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/24 02:28 AM |
| 10 | Why whenever i have an argument with a woman or a feminist online and she realizes she can’t change my mind about a topic they either block you on social media or blindly and falsely assume stuff about you and insult you?I know I'm giving you a hard time, but you're SO close to getting it. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/24 02:16 AM |
| 13 | Why whenever i have an argument with a woman or a feminist online and she realizes she can’t change my mind about a topic they either block you on social media or blindly and falsely assume stuff about you and insult you?Then why are you arguing with feminists? Do you ever actually listen to women? Edit to add: you do seem in touch with your hurt feelings though. That's a step in the right direction. Rather than lashing out, maybe look inward? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/24 02:13 AM |
| 10 | Why whenever i have an argument with a woman or a feminist online and she realizes she can’t change my mind about a topic they either block you on social media or blindly and falsely assume stuff about you and insult you?You're being a bit sensitive, aren't you? You should act out of reason, not emotion. If you want equal rights, you deserve equal treatment. *See what I did, here? Feels demeaning, doesn't it? Tell you what. You go first. Be the change you want to see. Argue respectfully, and broaden your scope of argument beyond red-pill talking points. Try to remember that feminists AND women are acting defensively because we have had to defend ourselves. From rape. From abuse. From harassment. From exploitatio… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Redpill is like a drugAnd today we see the results of men's hatred of women. They hate us. They literally don't care if we die from miscarriages. And I see men laughing about it. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/24 04:21 PM |
| 7 | Woman said I’m a loser because of my jobWow...you're really in deep. I'm so sorry for you. I hope your internet goes down so you can get back to reality. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/24 05:47 PM |
| 7 | Woman said I’m a loser because of my jobThat's the opposite of what she said. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/24 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Redpill is like a drugHey, I found a channel that might help. It's an anti-redpill channel. I know it's not exactly what you're asking for...but give it a try. https://youtu.be/boWEP0d7PrI?si=U0_EkKFPBR8HfVQQ | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/24 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Redpill is like a drugOh ya! I see what you mean. The algorithm is brutal. I constantly have to do a purge by deliberately searching for different stuff so I don't just keep getting the same shit. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/24 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Redpill is like a drugWhat do you mean by "practical things"? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/24 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Redpill is like a drugI get that. How about deliberately seeking out anti-redpill content? And not anti-men content....but some feminist forums online where you can see what women actually think and talk about, rather than listening to what redpillers tell each other about what women think. Try seeking out reasonable voices. What most women want/think about isn't insane. Most of us just want men to treat us like human beings, and help with the housework. Good luck to you....the internet is so full of devicive crap th… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/11/24 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Redpill is like a drugHow about therapy? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/10/24 10:20 PM |
| 3 | I fell for the redpill and let it control me again. Story timeAh. Well, if that's your prime motivation, you're not ready for a relationship. But do you want one? Or do you just want to fuck girls? I can tell you that women also struggle with this. I'm an old lady (54). I have learned that there are women...and most of us at least have this phase but grow out of it....where we describe our partners in terms of what they do for us...and how they put us on a pedestal (and yes, I've noticed your handle)...his car, his job, the nice things he does for me, blah… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/24 10:57 PM |
| 11 | I fell for the redpill and let it control me again. Story timeYou got this. Resentment is just poison we take, hoping it will kill the other person. Let it go. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/24 07:56 PM |
| 14 | I fell for the redpill and let it control me again. Story timeYou realize that you've been wrong. Can you try to make amends with your women friends? Like, genuinely apologize and acknowledge that your comments and thinking are damaging to women AND to you? I know social media is filled with toxic women who go on and on about how men need be tall, and good looking, and be rich, blah blah blah. Just like there are men who talk about "females hitting the wall" at 25 and how we should stay in the kitchen, and how we're all golddiggers, blah blah blah. These a… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/24 07:51 PM |
| 3 | My personality type will never be popular with women, and I have hard time coping with thatFor me, it contributes to the qualities that make up a person I'm in love with. It's part of their personality. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/24 01:45 PM |
| 3 | My personality type will never be popular with women, and I have hard time coping with thatI don't know who they are, but I have found that the people I have loved were interesting to me. They have hobbies, opinions, are deep thinkers. That makes for good conversation. Like, if someone was very boring to you, wouldn't you find it difficult? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/24 11:11 PM |
| 3 | My personality type will never be popular with women, and I have hard time coping with thatIn fact, OP, you are probably vastly more interesting than "conventionally attractive" people. What do you want? A woman who doesn't share your interests? A woman who values money and success over depth and a unique personality? Because I suspect that if you ever got with one of those women, you'd be bored out of your skull. Look for nerdy women with similar interests. She might not be a gym babe, but she will be interesting to YOU. And that's what real love is all about. Also, get off social me… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/24 08:02 PM |
| 8 | My personality type will never be popular with women, and I have hard time coping with thatLove this! | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/24 07:56 PM |
| 8 | My personality type will never be popular with women, and I have hard time coping with thatIt doesn't sound like he hates the way he is. He knows that if he tried to become someone else, he wouldn't be happy? Perhaps he needs to seek out the kind of women who are like him. There's lots of nerdy girls out there who also feel like who they are isn't good enough. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/24 07:34 PM |
| 117 | My personality type will never be popular with women, and I have hard time coping with thatThere are so many nerdy shy girls who would like a guy like you. Are you overlooking those girls because you only pursue hotties you are not into what you're into? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/24 07:28 PM |
| 28 | What would you have liked to have been told when you were inside the red pillThere's a youtuber called Shaun. He does great deep dives into various topics. One video he talked about how he used to be an online troll, and was pretty deep into anti-feminist red-pill content. Everything he thought he knew about feminists came from these men talking amongst themselves. He went to feminist forums online, with the intent to troll and abuse. But then he actually read what women were talking amongst themselves about, and realized how wrong he was. He learned about the variety of… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/10/24 02:44 AM |
| 4 | Its so hard to not believe in the RedPillWow. That's sad.what a way to live. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/09/24 12:49 PM |
| 5 | Its so hard to not believe in the RedPillSounds like you have injested so much toxic masculinity that it's poisoning your whole life. You're hanging onto this notion of masculinity so tightly that it's like a weird obsession. Just be yourself, man. Be interesting. Read books, travel, be nice to people. Be funny. Have hobbies. There will always be someone better looking than you. Just be a fucking human being. Do you see women as human beings? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/09/24 12:37 PM |
| 4 | Its so hard to not believe in the RedPillWhy are you so terrified of experiencing life? People fall in love and get their hearts broken all the time. People will let you down. It's part of life. Pain is part of life. You sound like you want to build a suit of armour and walk around in it forever. That's really not living. Try becoming resilient, rather than invincible. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/09/24 12:21 PM |
| 4 | The redpill idea of relationships are so toxic and miserableI wanna give you a mom hug. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/24 12:13 PM |
| 5 | The redpill idea of relationships are so toxic and miserableAw. Well hey, you're heading in the right direction. Don't lose hope. Cheers. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/24 10:46 AM |
| 9 | The redpill idea of relationships are so toxic and miserableI bet they're terrible in the sack. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/24 11:35 PM |
| 4 | The redpill idea of relationships are so toxic and miserableI'm glad you got out! It's so sad that the manosphere is creating a generation of un-lovable men. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/24 11:34 PM |
| 2 | The redpill idea of relationships are so toxic and miserableNow YOU, my friend, are a real man. Very sexy talk. 😊 | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/24 11:32 PM |
| 17 | How to be the “goddess of fun and light” when it’s not your personality?You can't change who you are. If he wants a fun party girl, let him have her. Find a nice, quiet, decent man you're compatible with. You should address your mental health, obviously. But for YOU, not to keep a man that's looking for a party girl. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/24 08:59 PM |
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