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You said I care a lot because I put in a lot of effort. That isn’t some secret shameful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:08 AM
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What a strange answer. There is nothing wrong with caring about someone who also cares about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:03 PM
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I see what is being said honey. The man who puts in less effort cares less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:56 PM
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Nothing here is dishonest. Men want us to pick good men, then get mad when we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:25 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/s/le9TAKcuyl This is impoverished dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:02 PM
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So go for a not hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:47 PM
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Men: pick better men! Stop dating men who treat you poorly!!! Women just want assholes! 😡 Also men: no not like that!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:07 PM
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So why do you focus on women who are very hot and not women who are 34 and who may also be unattractive and struggling?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:43 PM
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Are you a very hot man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:38 PM
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Are you a very hot man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:38 PM
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Don’t make personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:24 AM
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This is a bizarre way to try to advocate for the men who bully the plus sized park hoppers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:10 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/DKVMC2uxq6N/ Men insult stepfathers like no tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:46 AM
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Plus sized park hoppers social media page is the fountain of proof of male cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:45 AM
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As I said. And I said it again. Men bully more. Men are meaner. This is due to testosterone. Proof: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DDivKmLTKmX/ His pinned comment is that he wants to “cook shorties” aka humiliate them and put them down And he does And tens of thousands of men like his comments. One lady being sarcastic about height vs tens of thousands of men who find it alpha to “cook” shorties for defending Sephora models.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:39 AM
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SOCIETY VALUES CONSTRUCTION WORKERS MORE THAN THEY VALUE PROSTITUTES
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 05:37 AM
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Why are you asking for special treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:55 AM
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These are the attacks you made: I hate you You are a weasel You are a femcel All these violate the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:41 AM
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KHHV is from 4chan. You made like 5 personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:22 AM
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It isn’t an incel term. It’s a term from 4chan that originated before you were born. And that is life. It’s not hopeless to wait until you get older. Things happen on different timelines. I would understand your anxiety if you were over 30 but at 19 it’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:21 AM
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So why point out the sacrifice construction workers make, but not the sacrifice prostitutes make?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:20 AM
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Sir you just said that I am a “femcel” because I said it’s normal to not have any sexual experience at 21 then you said I am 19. Having a complex about being sexually inexperienced at a young age is not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:55 AM
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What kind of answer is that? You also admit that it isn’t socially stigmatized. In fact, you admit that construction work is socially respected. Meanwhile, you clearly view the prostitutes as less valuable because they aren’t construction workers. As does society. So construction workers aren’t just not having sex on the job. They are also more respected than prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:54 AM
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Sounds like you don’t like the accountability. It is warped to be having sex with someone and think “this is no different from working in a factory”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:52 AM
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I hate you Personal attacks violate the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:51 AM
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gets offended that I called him young. reacts by making a personal attack by calling me a “femcel” Personal attacks violate the rules. I tried giving you a message of hope (that you’re young) and you chose to retaliate and attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:51 AM
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The equal is that I wouldn’t respect a woman who sees a male prostitute. Plus it’s interesting that you appear to dislike high n count women (as evidenced by the phrase “fucking the whole NBA team”) yet want us to celebrate you paying to fuck them. You don’t seem to respect the exact women you pay for. You seem to understand that something is wrong with them and that they are damaged in some way and yet you want to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:29 AM
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There is no virtue to signal. Would you marry a former prostitute who had 2,000 partners before you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:27 AM
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Yes most are my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:25 AM
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All sex work is exploitative by nature my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:24 AM
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As I explained in my original comment, men who see prostitutes see it as no different from buying something at the store. They have a warped view of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:21 AM
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Construction workers aren’t having sex with their clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:20 AM
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Why do you think exploitation involves a lack of agency? It’s a horrible argument. https://www.unhcr.org/what-we-do/protect-human-rights/tackling-sexual-exploitation-abuse-and-harassment/defining-sexual This is from the UNITED NATIONS. Sexual exploitation means any actual or attempted abuse of a position of vulnerability, differential power, or trust, for sexual purposes, including, but not limited to, profiting monetarily, socially, or politically from the sexual exploitation of another. It inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:36 PM
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Worse is that he is a degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:28 PM
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That still is an attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:28 PM
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Most OF creators do not make enough money to live off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:25 PM
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Lack of civility. Violates the rules to compare me to a barking chihuahua. You did nothing but make an attack. You gave no explanation of how it’s a “gotcha”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:19 PM
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It signifies that the guy is a degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:15 PM
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Would you marry a prostitute who has been with 2,000 other men before you? Also you’re 21. That’s extremely young. At 21 I was a KHHV. I didn’t even HUG a guy outside of platonic contexts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:15 PM
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Men demonize sex work because they view sex workers as degenerates. Women demonize sex work because they view the men as exploitative degenerates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:13 PM
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Sex worker = victim John = predator and degenerate It’s that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:12 PM
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“It’s a grand conspiracy”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:12 PM
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Ah yes it’s a grand conspiracy and all the women are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:12 PM
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Would you marry a woman who has been with 2,000 men before you as a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:08 PM
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Most of them are pretty miserable. And most OF models are also being exploited. This isn’t the “gotcha” that you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:02 PM
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I also think the men who view prostitutes should be publicly ridiculed and humiliated as sexual predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:46 PM
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Warped view of sex: Viewing sex as the same thing as construction or factory work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:40 PM
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Would you marry a prostitute who has slept with over 2,000 men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:35 PM
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As I said in my original comment Men who see prostitutes view sex as the same thing as going to the store and buying a shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:35 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_trafficking_in_the_Netherlands Just because it’s legal doesn’t mean they don’t have a trafficking problem in the Netherlands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:33 PM
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Those men are sexual predators and sexual abusers. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:27 PM
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Why are you comparing sex with a bunch of people who enthusiastically consent to having sex with someone who doesn’t enthusiastically consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:03 PM
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The sex workers are regular girls/ civies. Them having shit life doesn’t make them less human.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:02 PM
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Why do you compare paying prostitutes to having a high body count? Having a bunch of casual sex implies that the partners consented to be there. Using a prostitute usually means the prostitute wouldn’t be there for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:58 PM
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This is a warped view of sex and sex work. Imagine thinking that clocking in at wal mart or being a construction worker is the same thing as walking around Figueroa street and endangering yourself for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:56 PM
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I am very vocal about not dating men who have used prostitutes. Men tell us we need to leave at the first red flag and mock us if we make a dating mistake that leads to hurt. However, with a red flag as massive and obvious as having used prostitutes, for some reason, this always inspires a number of men to get extremely defensive. Here are some main reasons I don’t date men who use prostitutes: Warped, bitter views of women and dating This is the biggest reason. A guy DM’ed me to try to change m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:55 PM
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A lot of men here blame feminism for their inability to provide for a woman who needs him for survival and resent that women may be more picky as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:25 AM
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Spot on. This is a PPD man in the wild. I know agreeing with people gets me labeled as “circlejerking” here so I will leave it at that. I’ll be saving this post as an example of male nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:21 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKpI5foRhQ7/ The guy at the beginning of the video reminds me of a lot of men here. “A lot of you single moms are going to be cut off food stamps and you’re going to be a lot nicer. 😏”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:10 AM
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That absolutely is not a rage filled tirade. Here is an example of one. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:14 PM
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The men who wanted royal women historically weren’t saints who deeply loved the women. They were opportunistic and wanted an in on the royal family. This is why Queen Elizabeth I never married. She knew that if she married, she would be making her husband the King of England and losing all her power. And becoming vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:43 PM
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Notice how you whistle a different tune and agree with the image I posted? As I say: Men believe they are deserving of much younger and more attractive women due to their hypergamous nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:17 PM
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Considering that they thought the Wizard Liz was looksmatched with Landon they tend to grossly overestimate what men’s equals are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 01:04 AM
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It’s an exaggeration. A lot of 45 year old men believe that 25 year old conventionally attractive women are in their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 01:04 AM
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<image> I try telling men this and they get so mad but here is a man saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:54 PM
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It doesn’t matter if it’s “privileged” or not. Under privileged women have even more of a duty to marry someone financially capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:09 AM
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It isn’t my job to rescue and date them because I feel sorry for them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:09 AM
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Lmfao now I am being called “right wing” after ages of men calling me leftist. 🤣 It doesn’t matter if the guy has had a bunch of challenges in life. I am not obligated to date him so that he can feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:39 AM
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I know people who grew up in poverty. They did these things: Joined the military Studied engineering, law, nursing, etc Now they are no longer in poverty Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:28 AM
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Bro I started working at 16 too. The men I date are over 30. If they haven’t picked a useful middle class degree by the time they are 30 or aren’t actively working towards one then they are not likely to achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:14 AM
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My parents absolutely did those things because they were highly educated and worked incredibly hard. My mom became a SAHM at some point but she had a high earning career. Step 1: Pick a career: medicine, nursing, engineering, law, tech, accounting, or the higher paying blue collar jobs. Step 2: Work. 2 jobs if needed. Step 3: Profit. With 2 incomes you will easily surpass $200k a year. Don’t study a useless or low paying degree. Pick something that has a high income potential. Stick to it. Perse…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:00 AM
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Interesting that men view providing a good life for their wife and kids as a frivolous and unnecessary luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:43 AM
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If a $1-3k purse every 2-3 years is impossible to afford, then you are struggling. Why do you compare a YSL or LV ($1-3k) bag to a Birkin ($13k ish new and like $30k used)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:07 AM
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Vitriol as evidenced by your sarcastic remark about designer bags and claiming a good school has to be private. A lot of families are one paycheck from homelessness and that is not a model to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:06 AM
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Because most men don’t have the biology to be good stay at home parents. They half ass it. The only times men talk about stay at home parenting is to moan about how easy it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:43 AM
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Nothing I described is sugar babying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:42 AM
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Interesting view of stay at home moms. I don’t view stay at home moms as useless financial drains. I actually view them as an asset and a value to the family, and the only reason I don’t want to be one is that I think men are ungrateful and greedy with their money by nature and don’t view money as shared and don’t appreciate the work a stay at home mom puts in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:24 AM
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Oh I agree that being a stay at home mom is dangerous and risky. That said, if a woman is a stay at home mom, she isn’t providing less than a husband who works.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:14 AM
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I make good money and I have contempt for men who don’t bother trying to do the same. I am no genius and I am not claiming to make like $300k a year. But I can afford these things without children and with double my income we would be able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:11 AM
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Should a stay at home mom accept a man who is in poverty because she doesn’t make money?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:10 AM
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Can you elaborate? Do you think that what I described is the same thing as marrying an 8/10 21 year old virgin? If so, I have news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:09 AM
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Interesting how men think this is a $1 TRILLION ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:08 AM
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Even if a woman isn’t from money, why should she marry someone who can’t afford a good life if she wants to be a stay at home mom? Why does providing a good life for your family inspire such outrage from men? It’s one thing if the guy becomes disabled or horrible life events happen and our quality of life goes down. But that is different from a guy who isn’t working hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:08 AM
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Why does this upset you? I think a family is struggling if spending $1000-3000 every 2-3 years is an impossible, out of the question expense that would put the family into unnecessary difficulty. I also didn’t mention private school, because there are good public schools for free but they happen to be in wealthy areas that are more expensive to live in. Why does providing a good life for your family inspire such vitriol?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:06 AM
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Why do men expect women to marry into a life of financial struggle? I want to be able to afford: A house A new car every 8-10 years A vacation to a nice place once a year A good emergency fund Occasional luxuries like a designer bag every couple years Good quality makeup, skincare, and clothes Decent furniture A sizable emergency fund A good school for any kids I have Be able to help my kids pay for college in some way Send my kids to things like sports, music, arts, etc Help my kids buy their f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:42 AM
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Extremely rarely. Me not being attracted to someone doesn’t mean I am viscerally disgusted by them. They have to look uniquely bad for me to be viscerally disgusted, and I would feel sorry for them for whatever problem they have that makes them look this way. I am keeping this separate from hygiene but am talking about looks only.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:52 AM
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https://archive.is/ZJymw It’s here. The women in the lowest ranks got less responses than the men in the lowest ranks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:58 PM
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Not per the OKCupid study which indicated that ugly men responded to women less than ugly women responded to ugly men. Furthermore, swiping right doesn’t mean you want to actually be in a relationship with that person. Men happily use women they find unattractive for casual sex. That isn’t virtuous or less picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:30 PM
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Where is the lie though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:04 AM
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Me: men who use prostitutes have a messed up view of women Man: DM’s me about how I am wrong and proceeds to talk about how prostitutes are the only way men can ever experience 10’s and how he should have the right to sleep with 10’s the same way women get to experience Chads. Claims all women get to fuck chads. Me: point proven
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:59 PM
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These men don’t take them seriously and don’t want marriage. <image> Here are men talking about 28 year old women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:39 PM
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Because you share the sentiment and don’t want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:24 PM
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These aren’t opinions that make me miserable, this is just male nature based on what men say about their desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:05 PM
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Multiple men. Multiple men have been saying it. If you would like me to make a collage of multiple men across multiple platforms talking about the wall and how women expire after 25 or 30, I can gladly do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:59 PM
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Except for the cats and sun comment is completely unrelated to anything at all, but the post I posted a screenshot of directly says women over 28 are “one day before expiration”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:59 PM
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Per men, women who are single at 30 are undesirable and will have a hard time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:10 AM
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Notice how you don’t disagree that women expire at 28?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:58 AM
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<image> Men believe women are repulsive after 28
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:08 AM
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Men call me a misandrist for saying men hate women, but this is literally what goes viral on Instagram right now. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:02 AM
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Interesting that you told me to dismiss “incel talk” yet literally participate in “incel talk” and claim that you cannot be black pilled because black pill is banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:01 PM
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I repeat what men say. For example, I didn’t say all men are rapists. But I do see numerous men saying that women should be open to dating a man who has been accused of rape as long as he says that he was falsely accused. Notice how you didn’t deny anything on my list? And any time I define “incel talk” as “incel talk”, men get offended and say that I am misrepresenting incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:00 PM
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And none of them looks at a guy who whines about how worthless and fat western women are and says “wow! What a great catch!”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:29 PM
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Calling out men for what they say about women and themselves isn’t “misandry”. I don’t call them rapists and creeps. I call out the things men say about themselves: Wanting a woman more attractive, slimmer, and younger than they are (hypergamy) Resenting their wives for aging Belief that seeing a prostitute is not a red flag Belief that being accused of rape is not a red flag as long as the guy says “I was falsely accused”. Resenting left swipes on tinder to the point that they want revenge Rese…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:28 PM
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I don’t identify as progressive. I am conservative. Bold of you to think conservative women are willing to put up with men who hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:21 PM
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<image> Here’s another perfectly normal man who thought my Chat GPT generated image of the average woman was me, and he was angry that I didn’t message him back. What a kind spirited normal person. Women sure don’t appreciate a kind man like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:58 PM
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If young perfectly normal men, you mean the men here, then they aren’t exactly nice people. This is how the men here view their wives as their wives get old. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:51 PM
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First of all, a lot of women view Donald Trump as a hero who is saving the economy and the United States. Second of all, Gypsy Rose Lee had zero issues finding a husband and a baby daddy and a multitude of suitors even though she literally duped a guy into killing her mom. Men know this and STILL WANT HER. SHE CHEATED ON HER EX HUSBAND AND HE STILL LOVES HER AND WANTS HER BACK. Same with Kasey Anthony. Kasey has ZERO issues finding men even though she killed her own daughter and has a bizarre an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:51 PM
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What a disgusting way to speak about your wife, and a disgusting view of motherhood. Men don’t value motherhood. They view it as, and your exact words are doing “nothing with your life”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:48 PM
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Men humiliate the fuck out of women for “ignoring red flags” and staying with a guy who is toxic or misogynistic. Abusers constantly promise to change and apologize and when women believe them, men ridicule them for believing them. It’s best to just leave if a guy is toxic or misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:55 AM
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A lot of men claim to be victims when they don’t get sex on the first date. Also, sex can happen at any time in a relationship and a woman could become a single mom at any time. Paying for the first few dates is a token of appreciation. Furthermore, birth control is not very pleasant to take. Condoms are the male burden and are the easiest method yet numerous men throw tantrums about using condoms. Hormonal birth control has a lot of side effects and things like the diaphragm and female condom a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:52 AM
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Imagine thinking wanting followers and a card is gold digging Male nature in a nutshell 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:38 AM
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This isn’t gold digging. If he doesn’t give you what you want, you leave. That literally isn’t gold digging at all. And if you have to beg for a gift that you want that is degrading and humiliating. If he doesn’t give gifts at the level you consider appropriate, leave. Imagine taking offense to this. It’s common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:37 AM
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Because when an American woman gets pregnant, she gets shit maternity leave and shit benefits in the event of becoming a single mother. In Scandinavia it’s hardly a horrible sentence to be a single mom. Hence, when a woman risks single motherhood by going on a date in the USA, she’s risking her and her potential kid’s well being. Not in Scandinavia though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:36 AM
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Women literally ask men not to be degenerates, not be absentee fathers, and not cheat and men throw a tantrum about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:34 AM
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Notice how you don’t disagree with me? Imagine being a 55 year old woman with 3 kids that still need support and your husband having an affair and doing everything in his power to make you impoverished because you left him, and then him mocking you and saying “just go to college” after you devoted a huge portion of your entire life to him and your kids. This is male nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:32 AM
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Do you not realize that nurses get assaulted all the time? Especially in the ER and psych units? https://www.asrn.org/journal-advanced-practice-nursing/2828-violence-against-nurses-worse-than-ever-analysis-finds.html Two nurses are assaulted every hour, or 57 per day (57 divided by 24 is 2.4 an hour). Per this article: Indeed, the "leading occupations" for workplace violence in 2019, according to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, were nursing assistants, orderlies, psychiatric aides, and home…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:29 AM
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FDS is literally self preservation and not about gold digging at all. They literally say what the red pill says and repeat what men say about themselves and men get angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:24 AM
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Interesting how men just want the lower earner to become homeless after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:23 AM
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In Northern Europe, women get a year of maternity leave and a bunch of social benefits that we don’t get in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:23 AM
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You don’t have to comply with tradition if you don’t want to. You can date someone who is cool with splitting the bill. Many women are. But they will tend to be left leaning feminist and not appreciate your comment that women have personal freedom at the expense of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:21 AM
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Men are mocking the wizard Liz for leaving her fiancée and calling her a single mom who deserved to get cheated on. This is all over Instagram and tiktok. Male nature in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:22 PM
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I mean most men as evidenced by what men say here. I don’t pretend to be only talking about a small subset of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:15 AM
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Because he didn’t say “a small subset of women are gold digging whores”. He said “women are gold digging whores”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:10 AM
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He didn’t say “some women are gold diggers”. He very clearly says “women”. As in women’s a generalization. As in most women, if not all women are gold diggers to him. https://linguaholic.com/linguablog/a-hit-dog-will-holler/ Also nice subtle personal attack. It still is a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:52 PM
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It is absolutely hate to say women are gold digging whores and anyone who says otherwise is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:15 PM
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<image> “How dare you say I hate women I just think women don’t put any effort into relationships and are lazy. I didn’t use the world ‘all’ so it’s ok!!!! I just am making a huge sweeping generalization and then I get mad when women make sweeping generalizations about men”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:44 PM
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They have agency. But it’s clear that being a sex worker is work for the desperate. Also, it most likely is a credit card scam and not even an actual woman. I get “sugar daddies” on social media when I don’t even have my picture up. They aren’t actual sugar daddies, but scammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:36 PM
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No. I didn’t dig through your post history. I made a 10 second search for certain terms and found it within seconds. It is absolutely women bashing. Introspection is crucial. We women see how men hate us and respond like OP does. Then the exact same men who bash us gaslight us and claim that these men aren’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:13 PM
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Yes there are a handful of celebrity men who aren’t 8/10 in looks but most are. It’s celebrity tier and you are accusing women of just wanting celebrities. It’s hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:12 PM
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If a 20 yo is sliding into your DM’s asking you to be her sugar baby, she is either a) desperate and willing to go after predators for money or b) a bot account run by men trying to lure other men on social media into paying fake women money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:11 PM
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You can't read for shit, wow. I said "dumbass comments". Are you a comment or are you a human? Choose one. It is still a personal attack. Take accountability. Calling my comments “dumbass” is an attack against me. It's easy to find many comments where you have broken the rules but most of us aren't whiny kids who run to their parents every 5 seconds. If you think it's against the rule, then report me instead of being a brat about it. You are a grown adult, at least act like it for one day. Excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:08 PM
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8/10 is CELEBRITY TIER it’s absolutely hateful to claim that women only want celebrity tier men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:53 PM
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You’re claiming that women only want celebrity tier men. Thats hate my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:50 PM
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First of all, incivility breaks the rules. Calling me a “dumbass” and saying you want to “shut me up” is uncivil. Second of all, you absolutely do hate women. Here is proof number 1. <image> The fact is that the reverse is true. You have a whole post complaining about how women don’t want you for not being attractive enough, then you whine that the women who want you aren’t attractive enough to you because they are “morbidly obese”. Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:48 PM
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Oh you didn’t say all women, you just said “WOMEN” so it’s totally justified and okay and not hateful at all! And no, I don’t think it’s on the rise. I think men who pay sugar babies are predators and sugar babies are diet prostitutes. Paying for the first few dates, however, is NOT PAYING A SUGAR BABY. Expecting a man to have a reasonably good job is NOT GOLD DIGGING. Men and accountability are like oil and water.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:45 PM
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<image> It’s amazing. The men here simply hate women. And that absolutely is hate and so is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:43 PM
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<image> sigh Even you’re guilty of bashing women. How can you claim that all men don’t do it when you are doing it here???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:42 PM
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She worked hard and supported him throughout Amazon. She wasn’t sitting around as a housewife while he built Amazon. She was a crucial part of helping the business grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:39 PM
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This is not a justification for the disgusting things that men say constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:29 PM
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Ok then say it since it is so blue collar hands in the dirt traditionally masculine job
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:23 PM
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<image> This doesn’t sound very loving to me. This is women hate. It’s hateful. No amount of loneliness and sadness will justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:22 PM
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<image> You can be a wonderful partner and still hate women my friend. People are complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:19 PM
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<image> This is hate my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:19 PM
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Not once have I told men to ignore them. 🤷‍♀️ sounds like you’re responding to the wrong person. However, I can post screenshots where you show a scathing hatred of women. Which reflects hypocrisy, because you claim that you’re a victim of women hating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:18 PM
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It absolutely is not. A lot of men go online and say disgusting things about women. OP is calling it out, and yet instead of introspection and critiquing the women hating festival that is the manosphere, you believe that it’s men’s god given right to bash women and that anyone who disagrees just hates men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:12 PM
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I agree but for the sake of debate, a lot of these men have a massive victim mentality and believe that they need justice for real and perceived rejections IRL and on dating apps. They believe they are getting justice and spreading a message of vengeful truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:11 PM
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It was saying that the 1% of scary and dangerous men are scary and dangerous enough that seeing a bear is less scary than the potential of being tortured
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:51 AM
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If it’s the guy who I think it is, he had a sex shirt on in one of his photos
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:09 PM
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Yes being unmarried makes a woman more desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:09 PM
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Most men aim for the top percentage of women. Young and slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:58 PM
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No they don’t. Women are way more open minded to dating a guy who is unattractive but treats them well. I said that the looksmatch of a short man is a chubby woman and men got very very very angry here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:35 PM
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The implication is that she gets scared when she sees a man. Meanwhile we have a guy here advocating for the Iranian regime which opposes women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:52 PM
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I don’t think there is any basis in reality in calling the man versus bear issue one of “the most heinous things imaginable”. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:46 PM
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<image> Since you claim women play victim over trivial issues here is a fresh response from your fellow man calling the man versus beating one of “the most heinous things imaginable” lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:44 PM
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Original comment; But many women are still playing victim to this day over trivial issues. Me: like the man versus bear issue? You: heh, next time I say the most heinous things imaginable about women I'll just gaslight you and brush it off as trivial Imagine thinking that the man versus bear thing is one of the most heinous things imaginable It’s not violent It’s not cruel It’s not nasty It was a simple thought exercise where women admitted that they were scared of men’s capacity for great viole…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:43 PM
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False. Men tend to be hypergamous in nature and resent that their looksmatch isn’t a hot 21 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:40 PM
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I wonder why ugly men don’t want ugly women. Men constantly rant about hypergamy amongst women, yet the reality is that men are extremely hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:37 PM
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Kind of like when you blame women for your problems due to their “special advantages”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:36 PM
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Fighting to improve your situation is not “blaming men for all your problems”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:07 PM
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It sounds very right. The average age is 37 for women. Most women are just too old for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:07 PM
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So don’t say “are you kidding me” when I say men prioritize looks way more than women. The average age for the average woman is 37. Most women are too old for men’s standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:02 PM
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No siree most women aren’t 18-25 with a BMI under 25
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:23 AM
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Respectfully India has a big rape problem from what I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:03 AM
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Then you find a husky female doctor who also makes like $300k+
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:34 AM
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What country is this and there is no excuse for hiring a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:34 AM
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No there was a guy here insisting that the guy was dating down in my example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:38 AM
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https://keeper.ai/calc Tell me what percentage of women are thin, young (18-25) and conventionally attractive. And unmarried and childless. Not that many. Men want the top women. Men are hypergamous by nature. Those nice guys? Usually either: A) they aren’t actually nice and are like the guy here who believes Trump is going to punish women for their wrongdoing and that the Iranian government is right in the way they subjugate women yet he calls himself nice B) are the “guy who makes $50k a year …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:21 AM
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A shit ton of women supported Trump too. Also, Trump wants to get rid of porn and pay women $5,000 per baby. This is anti red pill men. The “big beautiful bill” he wrote is supposed to help women and families. He also is a beacon of hope to the Iranian people who want him to overthrow their current anti women regime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:45 AM
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Most of them would leave unless they get paid or extorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:30 AM
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Sounds like hypergamy to me. Men always tend to overestimate their value and underestimate women’s value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:15 AM
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One point I want to argue is that a lot of men do not give a shit about red flags and in fact encourage women to date men with red flags. Examples include: 🚩 if a man has seen a prostitute This is a major red flag but men get so triggered whenever I say this. 🚩 if a man pays for only fans Men who pay for OF are walking red flags. It isn’t as bad as paying a prostitute but it’s still bad 🚩 if he says no to dates A guy said no to the woman he was dating for a 5th date. She asked him multiple times…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:53 PM
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First of all, Gypsy rose managed to get a husband who still simps for her even though she dumped him and a loving baby daddy, manipulated a guy into killing her mom, AND got a bunch of letters from men in person asking her out. Second of all, Jeremey Meeks has become a Christian and is a stepfather and has focused his energy on helping low income children of color not go to prison and live good lives and performing for the African American community on BET. He actively is trying to do good. His …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:48 PM
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Gypsy rose has a husband who simped for her and continues to simp for her, a baby daddy who takes her seriously as a life partner, got a guy to kill her abusive mom for her, and got a bunch of men writing her letters while she was in prison. Come on man, men don’t see immoral women as a red flag at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:41 PM
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The 5’8” State Farm Adjustor who makes $50k a year’s equal is the fat chick making $40k a year as a daycare teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:40 PM
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Diddy literally had to trap and extort all those women to stay with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:38 PM
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Kind of like how men, including you in your post history, played victim over the trivial man vs bear thought exercise?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:36 PM
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<image> How men feel after saying “enjoy your cats” to some random lady on Facebook who says that women don’t expire after 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:24 PM
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The manosphere is literally men crying that they are the victim of women 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:18 PM
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Women were in a lot of shitty situations decades ago and needed to be liberated. Getting rights is not playing victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:14 PM
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Don’t ask out coworkers unless you’re 1000% sure that A) they will keep the dating secret until you’re married or engaged. Check what your HR rules are on dating a coworker. You don’t need to call HR and ask (I wouldn’t as it could flag you), but read the work manual. Some places don’t allow coworkers to date. B) they will not let feelings interfere with work and you won’t either. Let’s say she cheats on you and you have a messy breakup. 6 months later, she becomes your supervisor. Are you both …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:22 PM
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This instantly dismisses a whole group of people’s lived experiences. That’s not a counterargument, that’s just denial. I've personally seen and heard plenty of stories, some from friends, some from firsthand experience, where guys approached politely and still got hit with sarcasm, eye-rolls, or straight-up hostility. Sounds like they get to experience what the bottom 97% of women experience. Acting like it’s just men going after “Giga Stacys” and then crying about it? That’s such a lazy genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:14 PM
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This did not happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:00 PM
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Men have numerous stories of women getting hostile when they say "hi" or "hey". To this point this was actually a meme on Facebook. No they don’t. Most likely they went after a hot Giga Stacy then got shocked that she was rude and applied it to the bottom 97% of women. Women are always saying every woman they know has a SA story. Women are always saying they are wary of men. Women say they can't tell the difference between good men and bad men. So it's better for them to be cautious and assume a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:59 PM
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Meh. A) most women aren’t going to break down because a guy said “hi” B) so you agree it’s fear
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:32 PM
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Men and accountability are like oil and water
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:11 PM
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He’s literally blaming “western women” for men playing victim. He’s claiming men find victimhood inspiring and it’s women’s fault that men go online and right foul and bitter rants about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:10 PM
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It sounds like you described fear as evidenced by your elaborate rejection fantasy where the guy gets humiliated for respectfully saying “hi” or gets laughed at, ghosted, and called creepy just for showing interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:05 PM
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This reads as a total lack of accountability for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:12 AM
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First of all, a guy paying for your dates doesn’t mean you financially depend on him. It just means he is paying for dates. Financially dependent and paying for dates are completely different things. Second of all, most women expect most men to pay for the first few dates. This is why it’s a massive point of contention and outrage for men on this forum. If you’re a dating woman, most men, especially the men who take you seriously and are interested in you, will pay for dinner the first few times…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:08 PM
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No it isn’t. It is to you because you believe most men are Johns.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:14 PM
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It isn’t hatred of men to say that men who use sex workers are bad people. It seems to me that you seem to think that all or most men are Johns.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:11 PM
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“How dare she want a man to support her and not ignore her or be dismissive? Women should be seen and not heard!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:02 PM
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Imagine seeing sex as a service like going to McDonald’s and expecting women to have compassion over that lmfao. Being a John is exploitative by nature. Most sex workers are victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:47 PM
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It’s ok if a John is uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:22 AM
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So you’ve moved the goalposts from “these don’t have many views or likes” to “sure they do but it’s ragebait”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:36 AM
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Men hating women https://www.instagram.com/reel/DH6XVqPOPtT/ Thousands of comments agreeing including a guy with over 10,000 likes complaining that his girlfriend is boring and has nothing to offer but sex. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DFwYmddxJS-/ “How dare my girlfriend not be a virgin” https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKCk6tLRbvP/ Tens of thousands of likes on comments complaining about how shitty western and modern women are https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJ9oEDWpt8_/ “Older women hate young…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:40 AM
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Men hating women https://www.instagram.com/reel/DH6XVqPOPtT/ Thousands of comments agreeing including a guy with over 10,000 likes complaining that his girlfriend is boring and has nothing to offer but sex. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DFwYmddxJS-/ “How dare my girlfriend not be a virgin” https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKCk6tLRbvP/ Tens of thousands of likes on comments complaining about how shitty western and modern women are https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJ9oEDWpt8_/ “Older women hate young…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:40 AM
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Oh that’s cute, most men don’t care about women being exploited so I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:28 AM
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You talk about John comfort as if he isn’t being a John
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:27 AM
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Sounds like these women should choose better fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:16 AM
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I got this too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:47 AM
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This is the wrong reason to not have respect. I don’t have respect because these men are slimy and trashy and exploitative by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:46 AM
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“How dare these diet prostitutes try to make as much money as possible! They must be after our hearts and not our wallets! Old men deserve hot young women to sleep with them for free!”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:45 AM
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This woman already has a lid. I am not sure why she’s panic reproducing. She should focus her re why and resources on her kid who is already born and alive instead of trying to bring a new kid into the world at age 47.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:57 AM
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Fat women, women over 30, women who have strange faces: None of these women get to be conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:49 PM
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I can make a collection for you too if you want of men saying even more degrading and hostile things rather than just making fun of height.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:05 PM
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a single ragebait post over me with like 5 comments from one serious post your post has a vague attack while mine has multiple personal attacks against women I can make another collage with more examples
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:36 PM
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Women care for men. We just aren’t going to care about lack of sex. We prioritize things like men being safe and fed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:04 PM
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You’re claiming all or most women shame men for their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:03 PM
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Women don’t attack or put down men to the level and severity that men put down women. <image> This is an example of typical male behavior online.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:02 PM
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Yep this is how men treat the bottom 97% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:56 PM
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I thought you said you don’t shame women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:51 PM
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Sir you said you don’t shame women yet here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:50 PM
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Men constantly talk about how women hit the wall after a certain age and how women their age are unattractive. Women respond accordingly and then men feel victimized.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:42 PM
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Men have zero empathy and often resent their agematch and looksmatch. 24 year old men find 24 year old women unattractive and old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:41 PM
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If you shame women, don’t whine about getting revenge on them for not caring about male sexlessness. It’s not “demonizing men” to say “well men ridicule us for not being virgins so I am not going to have sex with you”. Also, Trump wants to give moms $5,000 per child. That isn’t exactly revenge on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:29 PM
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So when men put down women for having had sex because it’s a “stupid decision”, don’t whine when we don’t have sex and males are sexless as a result. Your rebuttal doesn’t work because there is nothing for men to avenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:20 PM
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So what you talk about IRL doesn’t reflect what you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:53 AM
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I don’t talk about my pooping habits IRL (except maybe with my mom if I am sick or doctor) and yet everyone poops.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:42 AM
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I constantly say men think like this and get called a misandrist. Most men hate most women. You can be a man’s wife and he hates you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:40 AM
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Yes men have always been awake though that’s the thing. They have always resented women and have always believed most of us are old and expired and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:20 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKAxBuItiBf/ Men argue it. Men like to think bashing women is a niche thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:58 PM
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Me: “most men hate most women” Men: 😡 how dare you say such a thing! This is misandry! Men when they talk to women online: say the most vile things. <image> We all have internet connection. We know you think we expire at 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:56 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/DJ4LAHfTjo7/ Men insist that the red pill isn’t mainstream then shit like this goes viral regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:24 PM
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It’s a trend. It’s a little sexy without being overly revealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:49 PM
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I didn’t say this is every single man on the planet. I simply say that men have a hypergamous nature. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:45 PM
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So you agree men are hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:44 PM
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<image> Because men are hypergamous by nature. Talk of hypergamy is male nature projected onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:58 PM
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But a guy in his 20’s will look better than a man in his 60’s almost all of the time. Furthermore, even if the average age gap isn’t large it doesn’t change what men wish they were doing. Being with young hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:47 PM
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Because the average woman is 39. The average man is like 37. By default, being young makes you ABOVE AVERAGE. Especially the women. Even elderly men want young women. They are the most desirable and sought after women. Even if they have a plain face, they are the top in looks in the general population. Men need to understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:20 PM
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Interesting that men don’t go on about body proportions and body fat percentage when it comes to talking about women with a high BMI. His looksmatch in that case would be an overweight, nearly obese woman who has nice proportions. Not a slim woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:12 PM
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I PM’ed it to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:11 PM
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<image> Only 8.8% of women are 26 or younger, single, and not obese. If you get rid of overweight it becomes even less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:10 PM
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<image> https://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/educational/lose_wt/BMI/bmicalc.htm His BMI is 29 30 is obese Male hypergamous nature in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:55 PM
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Sounds hypergamous to me. All men just want Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:47 PM
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So they have some casual sex with conventionally attractive men, and it makes you angry and you assume that because these men are conventionally attractive they are toxic and violent abusers unlike average men who are all supreme gentlemen saints.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:46 PM
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How do you know they are over 6feet?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:45 PM
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Lmfao 🤣 you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:45 PM
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Did I say that? NO. But he’s sitting there whining about how women just want Chad. Men just want Stacy. “Average woman” is code for “slim woman in her early 20’s”. This indicates that it’s only 8.8% of the female population. And that includes overweight women. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:43 PM
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Approach them IRL. The men here need to stop basing their views on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:40 PM
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What makes these men Chadly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:41 AM
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Would you date an obese elderly woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:40 AM
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The women who men get mad at are the men who call single moms ran through damaged goods who nobody wants and then shit on the stepfathers by calling them cucks. Furthermore, she lost several dates of time worth of her fleeting SMV. Her youth, beauty, and fertility. This is more precious than a date and the more it is lost the more angry and mean men get. Lastly, the woman shows that she is serious by giving him her SMV. Her youth, beauty, and fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:32 AM
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It goes beyond a casual view of sex because they aren’t getting true consent. It is a degrading, humiliating, hateful view of sex and of women. Casual sex is not the same as getting a prostitute. Casual sex means both people are trying to enjoy themselves. Prostitution means only one person is trying to enjoy themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:31 PM
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You’re trying to bring in a completely different argument because you know I am right. You’re trying to change the topic to “is sex work work?” Because you know it is very different from any conventional job. I say it’s work, but it isn’t a regular job. It is generally abusive and humiliating and most sex workers are victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:30 PM
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This is what i was talking about, i said some men have negative attitude towards women with multiple partners and prostitutes but women extrapolate that to all men who simply just dont want to date such women. Yes, there are men who are super critical about or outright bully single mom, prostitutes etc but that is not most of the male population. How is this any different than a man believing all women only want to date tall and rich guys by looking at videos they found online of women talking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:28 PM
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Your situation is not your fault. I feel bad for you and for your situation. That said, dating someone who doesn’t drive in an area without efficient public transportation can be a big job, and people are not obligated to take on this job. Also, people are not obligated to date someone with severe mental health issues, even if those mental health issues aren’t their fault. You aren’t less of a man, and you shouldn’t feel shame. But you also have to understand that people may not want to date you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:22 PM
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<image> Here is proof of verbal abuse and violating the rules of the forum which is to be civil. Also it doesn’t exactly support what you’re trying to say. It’s just proving hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:11 PM
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By this logic one of the foundations of leftism is to hate and want to tear down white society and kill all white people because a couple of people said that? This isn’t a couple of people. This is a mass movement. Can you show me where on Wikipedia or encyclopedia Brittanica or another popular source wheee it says that leftism is about killing white people? Because you can’t. Your definition of incel is just the easily changeable website. https://www.britannica.com/topic/incel Encyclopedia Brit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:58 PM
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Except for you are not having sex at your job. This is why I also say to avoid men who see prostitutes. They tend to have a hard time differentiating between a regular job and a job where people have to have sex for money. They see sex as the same thing as another day at the office/ construction site/ restaurant/ insert regular job here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:51 PM
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I am not having intercourse with those people. I am not inserting or rubbing my genitals on them or expecting someone to suck on them. But as I said, men who see prostitutes tend to have this view of sex and women and are best avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:47 PM
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No, most men would only say "i wouldnt date her" but women will take it as calling her a whore and worthless and all that. Sure, there are some men who are gonna be very negative towards such professions but alot of women extrapolate that to every men who just wouldnt be comfortable dating a women who dont match their values. Lmfao. Men are notorious for bullying the fuck out of women who are single moms or who have had multiple partners. Exhibit A: https://youtu.be/8LV9oYFJ2YI This guy has an E…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:45 PM
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For every one prostitute who has a job she enjoys there are 10,000 who don’t. For every one prostitute who wouldn’t do anything else that pays enough if she could there are 10,000 who don’t feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:03 AM
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Sure, but when men say they wouldnt date a former sex worker or someone who has had a lot of casual sex, all hell breaks lose and all of a sudden past dont matter. First of all, men don’t say “I wouldn’t date her” and move on with their lives. They say she’s a ran through used up whore who is worthless. If they just say “her values are too different from mine” no one would care. Second of all, none of these are in situations where consent is murky. Using a prostitute has murky consent. Why? Does…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:25 PM
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Even if she wasn’t attractive he likely picked the most attractive he could get and chose her over someone nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:50 PM
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They demand rights from men they are not attracted to. LMFAO 🤣 Human rights are not sexual attraction based!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:02 PM
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Men who are angry and resentful about paying for the first couple dates tend to have warped views of women and don’t like their date very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:57 PM
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I would divorce over that but I also know some people who let their house get like that. They aren’t super close friends or anything but I know about them (eg friends sister, someone’s ex roommate, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:56 PM
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Sounds like he picked a mean Stacy over a nice Beth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:55 PM
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There are guys who will let the dishes build up so bad that insects come into the house and mold grows. They aren’t bothered by this either. They don’t care. Interesting that you would think that not doing the dishes would work. Also, a nagging wife is a common trope that men constantly admonish women over. Men complain constantly about nagging and find it annoying. Yet you propose nagging as a solution to washing the dishes. A lot of men just dismiss the nagging as the woman being a bitch and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:56 AM
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Look. I appreciate that your heart is there and you are coming from a place of kindness but this will not shut down men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:47 AM
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Women who do are still ridiculed. Even more so. How would you put them in their place?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:41 AM
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Why was that the only thing you fixated on? I listed multiple examples where the woman may not be hurt, and men still insult and degrade us even if we don’t feel bad after it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:23 AM
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We have a freaking weekly n count thread. Men ridicule us if we become a single mom. Men ridicule us and call us ran through if we have had too many partners. Men ridicule us and call us “chads leftovers” if we have sex with someone and get hurt. Men shame the fuck out of women who sleep with multiple men. So of course we refrain from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:47 AM
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Copied and pasted from my other comment: They also are in major red flags like: Don’t date men who use prostitutes: usually men who use prostitutes have an underlying hatred of women and have messed up views on sex and dating. Many men have insisted and insisted to me that I should ignore this red flag and that I am being superficial and judgmental for not wanting it. Don’t date men who refuse to pay for the first few dates: men insist and insist and get into huge debates about how women shouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:45 AM
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They also are in major red flags like: Don’t date men who use prostitutes: usually men who use prostitutes have an underlying hatred of women and have messed up views on sex and dating. Many men have insisted and insisted to me that I should ignore this red flag and that I am being superficial and judgmental for not wanting it. Don’t date men who refuse to pay for the first few dates: men insist and insist and get into huge debates about how women shouldn’t want a man to pay for the first few da…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:44 AM
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WooPlus From a PLUS SIZE DATING APP SO YOU HAVE THE NICHE POPULATION AND YOU INSIST THIS IS THE NORM FOR MEN And a NEURODIVERGENT DATING APP THESE ARE NICHE POPULATIONS
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:28 AM
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What website is this? Is it fetlife? It isn’t Instagram It isn’t hinge It isn’t tinder It very clearly is fetlife and I never have been on fetlife before. But you clearly seem to think that gooners on fetlife truly are going to want eternal commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:49 AM
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I didn’t socially shame you at all. I said that men who view going on a date as the same thing as going down Figueroa street to pick up a hooker are hopeless cases. Even you admit that the entire reason men have a marriage, relationship, courting, or having a family is because men want sex and everything else is what they reluctantly do to get sex because they feel that they have no choice. Also, interesting that you accuse me of social shaming when you use derogatory language here. <image> Sarc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:47 AM
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And then whenever I say the men here are verbally abusive I get told I am wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:45 AM
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So you’re saying that the only value that men see in dating, relationships, marriage, and potentially starting a family is sex. Which is why they go to prostitutes over actual dating. Interesting because I have been saying this about men for a long time yet whenever I say men view their wives as an avenue to sex and that having a family is something men reluctantly settle for just to get laid, but not something they actually want, I get called a misandrist. But you’re saying it right here. I sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:41 AM
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As I said: You believe taking a woman on a date is the same as going down Figueroa street to pick up a hooker. Filtering out people with this mindset by only dating men who pay for the first date is a wise decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:39 AM
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<image> I have high functioning autism too. Funny that you claim to be immune to social shaming yet enjoy using it as a “debate” tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:38 AM
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Yoooooo Here is your answer: She is not having sex with you You are getting to know her as a potential partner You are proving that you will be able and willing to support a family, even if it’s just for a short period of time It reflects a healthy view of women. Men who resent paying for dates view dating as prostitution, and are massive red flags. Again, as I said, IF YOU CANT DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN PAYING FOR APPLEBEES AND GOING TO FIGUEROA STREET TO PICK UP A HOOKER, THEN YOU ARE ALREADY A HO…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:37 AM
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<image> These are both exactly average per Chat GPT. She would be happy with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:46 PM
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Men say this all the time. However, I am pointing out that men have this issue and even more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:45 PM
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<image> Can you explain how this shows integrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:13 PM
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<image> Can you also explain how this isn’t concentrated delusional bitterness?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:12 PM
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<image> Can you explain how this isn’t concentrated, delusional bitterness?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:12 PM
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the average age for the average man is 37. The average BMI for men is overweight. Furthermore if a man is 25, his age match is like 20 to 28. Not just younger women exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:00 PM
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You don’t have an alleged personal attack. These are ACTUAL personal attacks. You are being verbally abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:56 PM
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This is chock full of rule violations and personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:55 PM
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<image> And this isn’t bitter? Your entire post was extremely bitter. I merely mirrored your verbiage and tone. Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:02 PM
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Nothing here is personal. You’re projecting personal onto me. You said men would love if women had an ounce of the character, individualism, or integrity that men have. You started this discussion. I simply said NONE of this matters if the woman is not attractive. <image> Furthermore, the rules say no personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:01 PM
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If women were to pursue bad men on accident then men would continue smugly sitting on their asses and insulting these women over and over again and even more harshly because they would resent that these women PURSUED these men. Men have been nonstop smugly sitting on their asses and insulting women for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:41 PM
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They only want hot young woman with an ounce of character and integrity. But if she isn’t a hot young woman, no amount of character or integrity is going to make her appealing to men. A hot young bitchy woman will always be more pleasing to men than an ugly old kind woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:30 PM
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Stringing a woman along and using her for sex is cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:08 PM
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If a woman falls for them, men accuse her of wanting a bad boy Chad. If men don’t extend sympathy to women I am not going to extend sympathy to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:56 PM
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If you think that going to Applebees with a woman you like is the same thing as going down a shady street and picking up a hooker then there is no way to change your mind. What I do know is that I want to avoid men who think this way. Men who are weird about paying for dates tend to view dating as a form of prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:56 PM
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It doesn’t have to represent all men. It’s a sizeable portion that we have to worry about and that aren’t publicly announcing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:53 PM
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Why tf would anyone want anything but GOOD treatment???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:04 PM
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Even single dads shit on single moms because they see their ex in the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:02 PM
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Neither are single mothers. The difference is that women don’t boldly and loudly insult single fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:57 PM
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So men like expert manipulators
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:56 PM
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Usually he isn’t thinking that way. Usually it’s more of a “well if she wants equality, then I am going to give that bitch equality 😡” type thing. If he was invested in equality he would be willing to cook and clean daily
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:54 PM
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But that was the comparison you made. Interesting that the things that men are cautious about are wildly less horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:33 PM
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So you asked me what good treatment means, then when I explain it to you, you change the topic to “well women should do these things”. Interesting reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:33 PM
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The suspicion part is accusing her of not being interested when one pays for the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:32 PM
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So you compare paying for Applebees or Chipotle to date rape lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:42 PM
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Ad homenim personal attack. I don’t identify as a feminist. Ironically enough, it’s delusional to hate feminists but then resent paying for dates. Feminists, especially LIBfeminists, are the ones who don’t want dates paid for. Conservative non feminist women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:41 PM
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Exactly. Suspicion that women are using you for dates is a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:40 PM
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Being a gentleman Being kind Apologizing if one makes a mistake Regularly conversing with her Taking her on nice dates Getting to know her family Discussing marriage and moving towards marriage in an appropriate timeline Helping with things as needed, like driving her to and from the airport or offering to fix something that needs to be fixed or stopping by with soup and tissues if she’s sick. Things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:40 PM
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<image> 440k likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:28 PM
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The guy was in his mid to late 40’s. He was not a young man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:20 PM
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Women tend to expect good treatment. For example, paying for the first few dates. Men throw a tantrum about this, but it reflects that he takes her more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:19 PM
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Red pill talking points are mainstream. They aren’t just on corners of YouTube. They are all over social media, and regularly go viral. There’s a reason why Andrew Tate is a household name. Don’t immediately dismiss what men say about men because it makes them look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:07 PM
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Most men are though, and these same men admonish women for picking bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:05 PM
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Usually the women complaining about patriarchy are the same women who don’t mind splitting the bill. Delusional that you think that women who aren’t libfem and who lean conservative are more open to splitting the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:00 PM
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Why do you think a first date or two is “everything”? If a man doesn’t pay for first dates and is stingy about it, it reflects 2 things: Suspicion that women are using him for dates. This is a red flag and reflects a negative outlook of women He doesn’t like you very much: men pay for women they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:59 PM
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The implication is that the guy who pays likes you more. The guy who is stingy about a date is going to act like that throughout the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:56 PM
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What do men actually like? I know: Be young Be slim Be beautiful Anything and everything else comes second. I remember a guy here who used to consistently complain that women are all fat and disgusting and he uses then for casual sex and he even led one woman on to get a free vacation. Later, he met a slim woman on Facebook dating. He was willing to drive 3 hours to see her. Interestingly though, she continued to use facebook dating and chat with other men. When he confronted her, she said that …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:54 PM
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For every man who is blamed for picking a bad partner, there are 100 women who are ridiculed and berated by men for being a single mom (no one wants you! You are used goods!), victim of DV (Chad’s leftovers! Women find abuse alpha!), or not being able to find a husband by a certain age (expired! No one wants you anymore!)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:34 PM
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<image> not wanting to make stupid decisions neglect Male nature in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:08 AM
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So don’t complain about how women are indifferent to sexlessness. Don’t play victim and whine when women say “so? Why do I care? Keep on living without getting laid”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:05 AM
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shames women for having had sex in stupid situations expects women to have sex on the first date if she ever did it in the past women refrain from having sex How dare women not care about male sexlessness!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:19 AM
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Maybe the woman thought she liked it and realized she doesn’t. Now the new man is whining about sexlessness and rejecting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:18 AM
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It isn’t a Pandora’s box or a gauge of how much she likes you. It’s a stupid decision to sleep with a guy on the first date and choosing to not make any more stupid decisions is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:35 AM
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My friend you said that the moment a woman has had sex in the first date, if she makes any other guy wait, she isn’t attracted to him. This is the reason why women fear having casual sex and don’t care if men struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:13 AM
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It isn’t cap. <image> Here is his post. I have receipts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:29 AM
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OP. You have a post saying that if a woman has slept with someone on the first date before, you will only consider committing to her if she sleeps with you on the first date as well. This kind of comment is why women don’t care if men can’t get sex. If we ever have sex too soon or with the wrong person, men ridicule us, get bitter and jealous, and expect that Pandora’s box to be open for the rest of our lives. So tell me why we shouldn’t be stingy with sex and extremely careful and fearful about…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:25 AM
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I understand but it doesn’t change male hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:03 PM
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ChatGPT
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:54 AM
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She’s 5’4” and 170 per AI. although my body gallery and life experience indicates that 5’4” and 170 doesn’t look like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:16 AM
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No but I want a relationship with a man. And even you admit the only thing controlling “most men” is a lack of options, not virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:14 AM
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It isn’t effective at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:11 AM
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Except for he literally says “more attractive” is what a qualifies a woman to have a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:48 PM
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That’s dumb most of us here are used to gooners and don’t feel unease at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:47 PM
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This forum is a “men bashing women forum” and any time you call them out they get angry and accuse you of misandry or radical feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:44 PM
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Why would you publicly want to announce your gooner habits on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:35 PM
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Most. Most means you avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:06 PM
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I didn’t say “all men”. But I do mean men in general. Enough to make me weary of casual sex and short term involvements and to avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:38 PM
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This is how a lot of men think and we have no way of knowing who does and doesn’t think this way because they won’t say it out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:33 PM
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Why do you make a personal attack? And what exactly is there to cherry pick? I spend 2 seconds on this forum and find posts and comments like this constantly. Men don’t respect the women they hook up with. Men view them as unattractive and inferior. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:51 PM
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So that’s a complete change of topic from your original post. Why didn’t you say “save sex for marriage” instead of saying “be upfront and have solid boundaries”???? Those are completely different scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:46 PM
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So you agree that your post is wrong. That it takes more than just being up front.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:45 PM
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None. <image> This is how men think of women who they hookup with. They find them too unattractive for a relationship and hold them to contempt. They don’t view these women as human. This is just a single example of what I hear men say about women. If he wants hookups or casual from me, then I know, based on what men say, that he doesn’t find me very attractive. It is a massive turn off and even offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:43 PM
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She said that she wants oral for a long time and you said the juice isn’t worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:30 PM
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“Please do x y z to make me pleased” “OK PILLOW PRINCESS YOURE JUST LAYING THERE YOU LAZY WOMAN. THE JUICE ISNT WORTH THE SQUEEZE” “Why don’t women tell us instructions on how to please them 😞?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:29 PM
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“Why do women ignore red flags and not be accountable for picking bad men?” “Omg you’re so dramatic it’s just an offensive t shirt how can you say this is a red flag?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:27 PM
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A man who claims that he was falsely accused of rape - What if it really was false? Here’s the thing I said over and over again when I last posted this thread: We don’t know if it really was false or not. All we know is that he was accused and he claims it was a false accusation. Almost every guy who gets accused of rape will say it was a false accusation. A man who frequents prostitutes - He could have a high sex drive and not enough access to normal intimacy. How is this bad? Can we similarly …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:26 PM
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If he is willing to pay for a woman he finds to be above an 8, then why would I want to be with him if he finds me to be a 7 or less? Men pay for the first few dates with women they actually really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:09 PM
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No, I like men who are serious about me and take me seriously and view me as an 8 or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:08 PM
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How is that an alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:13 AM
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No she described how it is not always logistically possible and it can cause discomfort and pain and you’re sitting here dismissing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:50 AM
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So she should only have a history of dating ugly losers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:48 AM
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Matters of fact aren't beliefs. If a guy is being abusive yet still getting laid then he's clearly an alpha. To men he is. Also Diddy didn’t have enthusiastic consent. He manipulated, bullied, and coerced What you're not getting is that being alpha is not the same thing as being good. Being alpha is simply being desirable to women. If I think women on average are fucking stupid in dating then me calling a guy an alpha is not a compliment. He wasn’t desirable. He has to use coercion and force. Pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:39 AM
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😤 This emoji summarized
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:37 AM
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I get accused of circlejerking any time I agree with someone but I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:57 AM
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Me: I only continue to date men who pay for the first few dates because it reflects that they take me seriously and are invested Men: 😡”how dare you say such a thing. You are an escort. You are a gold digger and just want to use men for Applebees and Starbucks! Misandrist!” Also men: <image> This post got over a thousand likes on Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:45 AM
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<image> This is viral on Instagram. I get called “misandrist” when I say many men envy abusers and believe the abuser is an alpha. But here is a MAN saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:37 AM
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Interesting that you last commented that I am not worth responding to then immediately made a second response. Be accountable for what you say. And the bottom line is that he has a sexually charged shirt on and was soliciting women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:01 AM
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You deleted it because you realized you were wrong. If I am “not worth responding to” then why don’t you hold yourself accountable to your word and not respond? Immediately after responding to this comment, you made another comment response. If you don’t wish to discuss things with me, you are free to not respond. Now you’re admitting that you said it isn’t a big deal. Well dating someone who wears a shirt like that is a bad decision. Very interesting that you dismiss what is a bad decision then…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:00 AM
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Yes I called him fat and old looking and deducted that he didn’t want a fat old looking woman since that is no man’s type. I am saying “I told you so” to the men who assumed he was being rejected because women didn’t want to give a nice guy a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:47 AM
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You deleted the comment. But you said the sweatshirt isn’t a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:47 AM
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Interesting that you admonish women who make bad decisions yet heavily imply that dating a guy wearing a “sit on my face” shirt is making a good decision and he’s just a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:58 AM
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So TikTok came through and the reddit viral 2 million swipes guy was wearing a “sit on my face” shirt and asking women to sit on his face. <image> He was not a supreme gentleman. He had problems and was likely soliciting sex very rudely. Men never are accountable. Constantly playing victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:51 AM
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Yeah the motive is that they find women repulsive after a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 12:29 AM
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Just because “Chad” may want to pump and dump her and compliment her in the process doesn’t mean he wants to marry her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:37 PM
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Men think women expire in their 30’s and at best are indifferent to them, at worst use them as placeholders. This is what men say about women. Men especially resent going for their looksmatch/ agematch after a certain age and would rather do sugar dating or passport bro to satisfy their hypergamous nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:33 PM
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False. No one fixates on women in their prime the way men fixate on women in their prime and all other women are either invisible or despised by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:31 PM
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Because women don’t post this sort of stuff with the magnitude and frequency that men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:33 PM
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I don’t answer disrespectful questions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 05:39 PM
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<image> Male nature in a nutshell. Whenever I say men think this way, I get accused of bashing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 05:06 PM
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Misogyny with a heavy emphasis on dating and sex. And it is my primary concern on a forum about dating and sex. A lot of the men here don’t identify themselves as misogynists and don’t claim to hate women, but then turn around and rant about 666 and hypergamy and how women’s liberation ruined dating for men. Furthermore, while it’s not an academic paper, Wikipedia is a reliable source to get a broad overview on a topic. <image> Lastly, I am not sure why you continue commenting after you told me …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:50 PM
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Sounds degenerate to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:48 PM
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<image> First of all, the rules of the forum say “be civil, no personal attacks”. You telling me “fuck offffff” is uncivil, and accusing me of being a “misandrist” is a personal attack. Second of all, the original post of this comment thread, in case you forgot (because it seems that you are deliberately changing the topic) is the term “incel” Source: https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/KhZ7ZVLOoV As a quick recap, because it seems that you are deliberately ignoring it, a guy got offe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:45 PM
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Wikipedia is pretty reliable for a BROAD OVERVIEW of pop culture subjects. Each page has sources and you can read through the sources to determine if you find them acceptable or not. Here are some pages saying Wikipedia is more or less reliable: https://opentext.ku.edu/becredible/chapter/wikipedia/ https://theconversation.com/students-are-told-not-to-use-wikipedia-for-research-but-its-a-trustworthy-source-168834 Unreliable information is removed pretty quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:38 PM
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<image> I highlighted it for someone else. However, as you can see, their ideology is heavily focused on dating, looks, and women and “black pill” and “red pill” beliefs. This is why the term used is “inCEL” and not “misogynist”. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:35 PM
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That is the foundation of the incel belief system. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:34 PM
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Because their rage filled opinions on women are based on sex and dating and getting laid. They started it. They believe that men aren’t getting the sex they deserve because women are too feminist, spoiled, or bad. That is the foundation of the incel philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:31 PM
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It isn’t criticizing them. Men tell us we are repulsive after 25 or 30. They tell us that western women are all gross and fat They call us “mid”’and say makeup is deception and tricking them into finding us more beautiful than we actually are. They tear apart how we look, and I simply repeat what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:22 AM
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Sure like diddy did with Cassie. He expected her to be a sex slave in exchange and do all sorts of terrible stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:06 AM
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How is it shitting on men to say that women in their 20’s are the hottest???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:05 AM
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We literally had a guy posting here that he wants America to be like Iran. They aren’t peaceful people. If you want your movement to be looked at as a movement of peace: Stop blaming and accusing women of your problems by saying they have evaporated your motivation through “women’s liberation”. It very clearly displays a deep hatred for women. Speak out against the men who say hateful shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:34 AM
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The average age for women is 39 and men is 37. This means that if you’re only going after women in their 20’s, you’re going after the hottest women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:31 AM
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I am not trying to make you feel bad. I am trying to see how a chance is worth risking pregnancy and STD’s with a stranger who cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:12 AM
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But you aren’t giving anything to them so what are they getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:55 AM
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No it doesn’t. It literally means men who hate women and follow the blackpill. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel A lot of men enjoy ridiculing women, especially for their age and appearance. When women call them out, men get butthurt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:50 AM
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Can you list 5 high value benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:46 AM
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So you’re saying it’s high value to be a degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:06 AM
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Bro they aren’t loyal if they are cheating and throwing diddy parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:03 AM
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They don’t get you at all. You talk about how you want to rotate through them and not commit to them. And you don’t specify what you offer. So what exactly are they getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:03 AM
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When I say “incel” is not dependent on sexual experience, but on a hatred of women, I get incel men getting offended and saying it’s all about virginity. Then you come in and say women who have had sex and children are “femcels”. Very interesting. First of all, 18 and no sexual experience is extremely normal for both boys and girls. I remember saying this before about an age like 21 or 22 and a BUNCH of men getting incredibly angry and even sending me threats. But being inexperienced at a young …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:25 AM
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Notice how when men become rich they have affairs at best and at worst throw Diddy parties? Male nature in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:06 AM
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Can you list 5 benefits they get from having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:04 AM
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But he’s exceptional. Not the rule. Most of the time men don’t like older women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:04 PM
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Would you be with a woman who is 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:03 PM
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<image> Average American man and woman per ChatGPT I don’t know why they put random numbers on the bottom. That said, this is what the average American looks like and these are looks matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:00 PM
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Men call us ran through and worthless if we have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:59 PM
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Would your dad choose your mom if she was the one who was 20 years older? What if they were the same age?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:56 PM
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Eh, if we were to make a case of who generally dates much older people it would overwhelmingly be women. Eh, this is because men are hypergamous by nature and aren’t attracted to their looksmatch. Men pursue much younger women. As i am referring to the original comment that states that wrinkles are gross to a vast majority of younger women when in reality women value experience much more than men. Women value a man who is experienced and like 5 years older than them. Not a man who is 10+ years o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:05 PM
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When women date older, they mean a 25 year old woman with a 30 year old man. They don’t mean an 18 year old with a guy in his 30’s. Unless they are a rare exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:42 PM
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Countless men have porn brain rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:40 PM
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It doesn’t matter if they aren’t seeking that attention. It still provokes attention. But if they are wearing culturally common , climate appropriate clothes, isn’t going to provoke people to lust to wear most things And it reflects a porn brain because it is not natural to have elaborate detailed sexual fantasies (yes, imagining what someone looks like naked and getting horny is elaborate and detailed) over a complete stranger who has not provoked that attention. Usually this happens due to por…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:40 PM
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They were visualizing your ass, your thighs, your shoulders, your chest, and your face. They were getting turned on from imagining doing sexual things with you. And yes, this is highly detailed and elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:38 PM
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THAT DOESNT MEAN ITS ABOUT CONSENT. IT IS ABOUT HOW ONE IS RANDOMLY LOOKING AT STRANGERS WHO ARENT DOING ANYTHING SEXUAL AND LUSTING AFTER THEM IN GREAT DETAIL. ITS WEIRD BECAUSE THOSE STRANGERS ARENT SEEKING THAT ATTENTION. NOT BECAUSE THEY DONT CONSENT, BUT BECAUSE THEY HAVE DONE NOTHING TO PROVOKE THOSE THOUGHTS BUT EXIST If they were wearing booty shorts, thinking about sex with them would make sense. If they were posting thirst traps, thinking about sex with them would make sense. If they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:33 PM
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You’re doing a bunch of mental gymnastics. This isn’t about consent. I said that repeatedly. And mutual sexual attraction isn’t based on having elaborate detailed sexual fantasies about each other. You can think “she’s pretty with a nice smile”’without imagining the Kama Sutra.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:14 PM
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But what does whether they are a stranger have anything to do with whether it's creepy or not? Having sexual fantasies about other people you just met is normal behavior; it's what drives people to flirt with each other at the bar or have casual flings. Men have them. Women have them. Many people report being sexually attracted to celebrities for example. Usually people have casual flings AFTER mutual sexual attraction has been established. And mutual sexual attraction isn’t standing there and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:53 PM
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Women are not hypergamous about looks. Women are capable of finding all sorts of men attractive. Men on the other hand are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:38 AM
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Because it isn’t your business. It is a rude question. I have every right to not answer a question asked in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:33 AM
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Exactly. So stop trying to insinuate that I am wrong. Men are hypergamous by nature and don’t want their age or looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:26 AM
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What provoked you to ask this question? I asked you to elaborate and you don’t answer. It sounds like you don’t like being held accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:26 AM
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Notice how you don’t disagree? Most single 37 year old men don’t want 39 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:10 AM
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According to Chat GPT, the average male is 37. 37 year old men don’t want 39 year old women. 39 year old men don’t want 39 year old women. 45 year old men don’t want 39 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:07 AM
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Do you know why it’s creepy to have intense sexual fantasies about complete strangers? Well here’s your answer: They are a complete stranger and have done nothing to indicate having a sexual interest in you. Not even a smile or something. You describe them as a complete stranger that ignores you or just briefly looks at you. They don’t seem to be seeking sexual attention. You don’t describe them as wearing super revealing clothes, or booty leggings or something. You don’t describe their clothes …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:59 AM
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According to ChatGPT, the median age for women is 39.8. This means that all these men claiming that they want “average” women who are 21 just want the top women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:40 AM
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How old are you? Things don’t always go according to plan when it comes to dating. You have a much higher level of control over your career: If you go to college or not What you study or choose to pursue How hard you study or work Graduate school Etc. But even then with a career, things sometimes don’t work out. You can spend years on a career to find out that you hate it or get burnt out. Volunteering and shadowing people only tells you so much about a career path and not everyone will let you …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:38 AM
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It’s a personal attack. Which violates the rules of this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:30 AM
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It sounds to me like you just wanted to target a woman. It was like 5 comments down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:30 AM
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So now men believe that makeup is deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:04 AM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:04 AM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/FBScnfCZ7G I’m curious why you didn’t come to complain on this one. Is it because the original commenter was male?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:03 AM
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<image> Daily reminder that multiple men from the comment below said they are looks matched and the woman is clearly better looking than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:08 AM
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Scathing rants about how women just want 666 women Gleefully telling women they expire at 25 or 30 and hit the wall at a certain age when no one will want them Rants about how fat and disgusting western women are Embittered explosions about hypergamy Commenting on women’s posts about how fat and old and unattractive they are Weekly n count threads Rants about how women are “ran through” and “used pussy” Angry berating testimonies about single moms. This is what men do when they want to opt out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:20 AM
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Supreme gentleman comment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:46 PM
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Men will insist they are looks matched but she looks better than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:44 PM
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Men don’t passively drop out of the dating market. They do so with rage and bitterness and want to say the most hurtful and offensive shit possible. They call us old, fat, ugly, and gross and then expect us to feel sorry for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:34 PM
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https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/2021-04/full-report-2018-national-study-on-sexual-harassment-and-assault.pdf 81% of women and 43% of men have been raped or sexually assaulted
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:51 PM
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Why do men pretend they really really want a baby then flake out when their girlfriend is pregnant? And yeah I would financially abort them before the kid is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:46 PM
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No I would want to kind of trick him into it. I would beg for a kid then when I have one, I would just financially abort it and say I want nothing to with it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:28 AM
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Men downvote me all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:15 AM
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No I would find a guy who wants kids. I just wouldn’t tell him that I plan to financially abort them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:13 AM
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Men can do it too. I would beg and beg for a baby then when the time comes back out and get a financial abortion and claim I never actually wanted one. I would also make sure he’s a good dad first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:13 AM
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<image> Why I this the first thing he shows? Isn’t this a fresh and fit adjacent podcast? Are we supposed to take this seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:11 AM
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I want two legitimate children and 3 financially aborted children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:08 AM
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Also since married women can get abortions, I want to get a financial abortion when I am married. I want a mixed family with both financially aborted kids and non financially aborted kids with my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:00 AM
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I want to select the father and kind of trick him into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:59 AM
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I don’t want to surrender my baby to chance. I want to surrender my baby to a good baby daddy who I know won’t mess up their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:58 AM
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I make enough that if I marry the wrong man, I could have to pay alimony. In this hypothetical, maybe I could marry 3 men who are in poverty and who I would need to pay alimony to. Then I could divorce them all and pay alimony. If I time it correctly, during that period of time, maybe I could make them all sleep with me at once!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:48 AM
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Women often get assaulted, coerced. or raped and get stuck with the kid. It happens a lot. Also women can get financial abortions too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:43 AM
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Women can get financial abortions too. Getting a financial abortion would be great for me because then my baby daddy can be responsible for the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:42 AM
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Women can get financial abortions too. I would love to have one and make the father of my kids be fully responsible for everything while I get to continue my legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:41 AM
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As a woman, I want to have a child AND not be financially responsible for it ma financial abortion would be a great option for me because I can dump all financial and caregiving responsibility onto my baby daddy while continuing my legacy and spreading my genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:39 AM
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Except for A) these are completely different women And B) the women you were attracted to had these problems. Not most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:35 AM
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So if she has been raped and wants justice to be served but there wasn’t enough evidence, you would be pissed?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:11 AM
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Not getting matches is not at the level of cruelty as busting a nut in like 6 women a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:04 AM
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No it’s not. That’s how you feel because you are basing your views on women on tinder and the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:01 AM
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Can you quote where I said she is to never make you a sandwich? Can you quote where I said she is to never make you the food you prefer and want? Can you quote where I said she isn’t to do these things in general on a regular basis? You can’t. You purposefully misconstrue what I say because you want an excuse to bully, berate, belittle, and put down whoever you marry by insinuating that she is beholden to you and supposed to obey your every last whim and desire because you financially support he…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:58 AM
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No you aren’t. You’re being aggressive and hostile in the name of feeling “alpha”. There is no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:51 AM
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What men here believe they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:44 PM
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Male nature in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:42 PM
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What a disgusting way to speak about having a homemaker wife. If you have some kind of agreement where your wife stays home and is a homemaker and you are the breadwinner, then she isn’t your slave at your beck and call. She’s agreeing to be a homemaker and to provide childcare if kids are in the picture. That doesn’t mean you snap your fingers and are entitled to sex and a sandwich. She would be agreeing to do the vast majority of the housework and childcare. Sex would be when you both want it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:23 PM
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I’m sure he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:15 PM
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<image> You drew that comic yet you post stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:38 PM
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And you wanted to ruin it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:35 PM
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But she wasn’t so you wanted to make her a single mom and ruin her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:20 PM
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<image> Ok so you changed your mind between yesterday and today
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:11 PM
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You also said you wanted to impregnate her but not marry her. Making her a single mom isn’t exactly a kind thing to do either. It sounds like it’s a good idea that she left because having her intimate videos circling the internet forever and becoming a single mom are both nightmares.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:01 PM
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You were literally planning to have anal sex with her, on camera, and send it to random people on PPD with your username somewhere in the video. That is not exactly sane nor stable and sane, stable women would be mortified to hear that their intimate videos would be sent to random people from Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:54 PM
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I know one and he's sleeping with a few unattractive women which made me realize that if you're a guy and you're having casual sex on your terms, it's most likely going to be with a woman who's less attractive than you. Having an attractive girl for sex on your terms requires a relationship for the most part. Having casual sex with women who are less attractive than you must be cool and all but I think that's where conservative men differ from liberal men. We'd rather go through long, long, stre…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:42 PM
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I didn’t say you were. But you used this rationale to say that this is why men are voting for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:17 AM
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https://www.moneyjojo.com/blog-and-news/how-long-does-it-take-to-count-to-a-trillion/ Something isn’t adding up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:00 AM
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You are doing mental gymnastics and dodging the point. Conservative men aren’t sitting around sniveling and whining like this. They are out and about socializing, meeting women, talking to them, and asking them out on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:59 AM
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Regardless men would say his girlfriend is mid and she deserves a mid man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:58 AM
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**I didn’t say that she looks matched the guy sitting next to her. I said that men here would say she is the looksmatch of the husky guy’s tinder profile*
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:57 AM
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Did I say the guy in the picture was her looksmatch? No. I said the lady in the picture would be considered the looksmatch of the guy whose tinder stats are posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:57 AM
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A guy here literally said she’s a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:42 AM
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This is who the men here would consider his actual looksmatch <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:32 AM
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That is a disgusting and awful way to speak to a woman you’re on a date with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:32 AM
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CONSERVATIVE MEN APPROACH WOMEN. THEY DONT SIT AROUND AND WHINE THAT WOMEN ARENT APPROACHING THEM ON REDDIT
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:25 AM
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He’s fat and looks much older than his age. He probably believes his looksmatch is a young and slim and beautiful “average” woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:13 AM
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Literally Zelenskyy is who you should blame. Not the women and children fleeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:02 AM
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The burden of proof falls on you. Not on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:41 PM
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Also there are things that are legal, like sexual coercion, that are still wrong. From ChatGPT: Scenario: Two people have been dating for a few weeks. One partner expresses that they’re not ready to have sex yet — they want to get to know the other person better and feel more emotionally secure. The other partner responds with things like: • “Come on, we’re adults — it’s not a big deal.” • “I took you out tonight, and now you’re just going to leave me hanging?” • “Most people would have had sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:28 PM
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It’s heavily biased against women here unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:24 PM
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So you don’t really have any proof
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:10 PM
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I can’t believe how so many men here believe women should be open to dating a man who was accused of rape because he claims he didn’t do it and it’s a false accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:17 PM
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Sounds like she was super attractive and you messaged one of the top 30% women. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:16 PM
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Can you link it? I have yet to see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:14 PM
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People view him as a hero that fought against corrupt health insurance practices. The insurance guy killed a potential hundreds of thousands of people by denying crucial healthcare needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:21 PM
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Men say here that they never get matches online and that each match is their only hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:20 PM
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<image> Literally go on 4chan. This is how they speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:58 AM
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literally I am quoting the men from this thread. Stop being condescending.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:38 AM
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And he is doing a kind gesture. If it makes him outraged, then it’s a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:36 PM
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No it isn’t. First of all, he isn’t required to buy me dinner. However, it very clearly communicates that he takes me seriously and is interested in me if he buys me dinner. Second of all, he isn’t giving me money to go on a date. He is buying me a meal. Third of all, I am not having sex with him. Fourth of all, if he feels that paying for dinner is the same thing as hiring an escort, it shows a warped, bitter, hostile attitude about sex and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:40 PM
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<image> No this is how you described going on a date. You claim buying dinner is “buying things” and you compare it to paying prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:27 PM
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It's not poverty in the Federal database but practically speaking, it is poverty in a lot of urban areas. This country's working class is struggling hard overall. This is you waving a red flag right here. So finally you agree with me when I say $100k a year is not that much money. And men who go Dutch have no problem finding dates anymore. I was a fucking average rando when I was single and I had no problems with that at all. Imagine how easy it is for actual single HVM. You're displaying a huge…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:25 PM
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The outrage over paying for dates is precisely why women should avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:17 PM
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And this mindset is why. Women should avoid men who view going to Applebees with a woman they like as the same thing as going on the back pages of some weird website to look for an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:15 PM
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What is this evidence???? Onision from YouTube claims to have undeniable evidence and he technically didn’t rape anyone. But he is shady as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:14 PM
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Since you don’t want to date a woman who claims to have been raped, stop trying to convince women to date men who have been accused of rape. Furthermore, I wouldn’t date a man who has been accused of physical abuse. Even if he says “I just pushed her off of me” and “I didn’t do it”. I simply won’t date him. Also, I don’t want a guy who is taking multiple women out on multiple first dates to the point that it is unsustainable. After 2-3 dates, I expect some sort of exclusivity talk. And a guy goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:13 PM
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Now you’re moving the goalposts. First of all, almost every guy who is accused of rape is going to claim he didn’t do it. Second of all, I am not talking about a situation where the accuser literally admits “I lied” and she goes to prison. Nope. I am talking about situations where you’re on a date or hanging out and the guy says he was falsely accused of rape. I am not going to investigate it. I am not going to sit around to hear his side of the story. I am not going to read the court records. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:10 PM
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First of all, that is the point of this post: men on PPD encourage women to ignore red flags. So when a man says “I was falsely accused of rape” that is a red flag. Men on PPD will tell women to ignore it and that they are being callous, unfair, or emotional for rejecting this guy on that basis. Many of these men will later complain that women only want to date bad boys and criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:03 PM
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It isn’t a rant. The men here are literally spending like 50 comments debating with me that women should date men who claim to be falsely accused of rape or who are weird about paying for dates. And yes! Look at male dominated spaces and how they speak about women when they are semi anonymous. This is male nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:00 PM
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It was a roundabout way of saying it’s a personal attack and a roundabout way of agreeing that any dude who breathes is going to do the stuff I listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:56 PM
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He isn’t simply watching porn. He is watching it in front of me and with me and cucking me in front of me. It’s humiliating. Would you want your wife to sit next to you and watch other men and get off to them in front of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:36 PM
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Care to elaborate what this means?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:12 PM
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This is the exact mentality women should avoid. Imagine believing that women, en masse, want to use you for burgers and sushi. That is portraying women as incredibly low and trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:06 PM
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Exactly. It’s harassment. The first time a guy says NO, you accept that no and move on. He was busy with work but did not want to offer an alternative date or time. Going on tinder after a rejection to find someone else is appropriate. She doesn’t need to have a grieving period or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:01 PM
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To a lot of men but not to most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:00 PM
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Nothing is “full schizo” (personal attack) over here and nothing is made up. Your username is right there. Do you or do you not believe that i listed every guy that breathes? If not, why did you say “yeah…her…”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:00 PM
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And he’s insinuating that women should share the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:40 PM
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If it was so genuine and valid, then why did it get deleted? And that is the point of a debate forum. To debate people you disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:39 PM
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He’s not paying because he thinks you deserve free meals. That isn’t the point at all. He’s paying to be courteous and show that he cares about me and takes me seriously. The moment you stop dating, he stops paying. It’s him trying, in desperation, to secure your interest. No shit Sherlock. If we aren’t dating then he isn’t going to see me. It’s the same with friends. If my friend ghosts me, I won’t be able to spend time with them or do fun activities with them and treat them to lunch or dinner …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:39 PM
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But that is irrelevant, when your argument is based on: OFTEN THE SAME MEN. If it was different men, the whole topic is irrelevant, because men are not a monolith and what some regard as red flags, is what other recommend. Just like with women. You cannot get out of this detail. If you cannot show how it's the same men contradicting themselves, you have no point. I am sorry, but this is mental gymnastics. Often the same guys who have “nice guy syndrome” and complain that women pick bad guys acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:02 PM
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First of all, a gang tattoo and bullet scar are blatantly obvious red flags. I am not talking about that. I am talking about things that men insist are somehow okay or should be overlooked (not all men). Second of all, just as the guy can say he was falsely accused of rape, the guy with a gang tattoo can say he was forced to join a gang to escape poverty or abuse when he was 12. Or that he got shot because he was mistaken for the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:51 PM
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It isn’t “entitled” to have a guy pay for your first couple dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:56 PM
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He never said that. He simply says he has “camera footage” with no other explanation, and no clarification, which heavily insinuates that the sex was recorded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:56 PM
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So all you can do is insult the guy who pays by calling him desperate. Interesting. Also, you throw around the buzzword “egalitarian”. But nothing is truly equal. Is he carrying a baby for 40 weeks? Risking his safety and reputation by dating a new woman? Will she lose income if she has a kid? Is he willing to have a long distance marriage if she gets a high paying job in another state?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:49 PM
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You should see what red/ purple pill men say on this sub. And even self proclaimed blue pilled men. They say absolutely disgusting stuff about women and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:36 PM
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Glad you agree that insisting on seeing a guy who rejected you is harassment. Therefore, as I said in my original post, SHE SHOULDN’T DATE HIM. SHE SHOULD JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE AND DATE A MAN WHO IS INTERESTED Common sense prevails.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:36 PM
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It isn’t a “requirement”. No one is forcing him to do anything. But it reflects that he is more interested than the guy who doesn’t pay. I have yet to see any man make a compelling argument proving that the guy who doesn’t pay is more interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:34 PM
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Accusing me of not having hobbies and hating men is a personal attack, which violates the rules of this forum. And you accuse me of cherry picking, yet offer zero examples of “man hate” from my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:33 PM
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Nowhere do I say it’s my god given right though. I simply say the guy who pays is more interested than the guy who doesn’t. No man here has made a compelling argument proving me wrong. They don’t have any evidence that this is wrong. In fact, all they do is put down women who want the guy to pay for a couple dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:32 PM
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I am not obligated to announce that I am conservative on every post. It’s amazing that the guys here think conservative women are doormats.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:31 PM
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So what exactly is the trap you were trying to set up?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:29 PM
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It isn’t pointless. I proved you wrong, and you don’t have any arguments left. The men on this forum notoriously do not like women and do not fight for a woman’s best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:29 PM
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Any guy who sees paying for a couple dates as a meal ticket should be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:28 PM
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Well there you go. If you think paying for a couple dinners is “similar” to seeing a prostitute, then filtering out the guy with this mindset is wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:27 PM
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It’s also paying for your own expenses like rent and college tuition. That isn’t what the woman is asking for when she has a meal paid for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:24 PM
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So he’s being accused of having raped someone in public? And I’m supposed to date him in case the accusation is false?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:23 PM
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Key word: SEEM It doesn’t require a citation because I never said it is an objective fact. I said that is the message he sends. Whether he intends to or not. And you’ve commented like 6 outraged comments about paying for dates to me. Not once did you provide even a tiny modicum of evidence that the guy who splits the bill is more interested. In fact, all you did was berate and put down women who have dinner paid for during a couple dates. But you have provided nothing to prove the guy is super i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:22 PM
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And what "polite and kind gestures" are you returning? Spending my youth, beauty, fertility, and time with him. Which is essentially giving him my SMV/ RMV. Possibly having a kiss or something with him which affects how men will perceive me and my value, which also is giving him my SMV/ RMV. A woman that has dated 20 guys is less valuable to men than a woman that has dated 5, even if both women are virgins. Being stingy, resentful, weird, etc about something as simple as getting pizza or sushi o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:20 PM
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You have done nothing to indicate that the guy who splits the bill is more interested in his date. All you have done is prove that he resents the times he does pay. You also proceed to compare paying $40 for pizza and sushi to driving around the red light district and paying a prostitute for sex. Remind me why I should be with someone who has this mentality?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:18 PM
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So what? He can date other leftists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:16 PM
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It isn’t “non reciprocally spending money”. You’re this angry over a combined total of under $100. Imagine if we get married and you need to be the breadwinner for a couple years while I take care of the kids. That is going to be a lot more than $100.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:15 PM
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Almost every guy I have ever dated has paid. The times I split the bill, the guy was clearly not interested. The times he paid, they were all very interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:14 PM
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context: he was working He can plan to meet when he isn’t working. He can say “I have Saturday off, let’s meet on Saturday” but he didn’t. Also, yes treating a woman poorly reflects being a bad person. And being nearly or fully homeless doesn’t mean you’re a bad person but it indicates that you are not ready for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:12 PM
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This mindset is best avoided. Which is why if the guy is weird about paying for dates, he likely has this mindset. A good way to filter him out is to not continue the dynamic if he doesn’t pay the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:11 PM
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Exactly. Also I am not circle jerking, I am saying I agree. They make it clear that if they like the woman enough, they will pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:10 PM
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No I am not. First of all, calling me a red flag is a personal attack and violates the rules. Second of all, unless we have a camera in the bedroom, which is a massive invasion of privacy, we have no way of knowing what happened during sex. I am not obligated to date a guy who was accused of rape. Every guy who was accused is going to claim it is a false accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:09 PM
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I hate to break it to you, but having this kind of mindset is not healthy and it’s a good idea for women to avoid men with this mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:08 PM
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Tbh, you sound boring to me. Personal attacks violate the rules You sound like someone who would just nit pick every little thing someone like me does. Personal attacks violate the rules. None of this is nit picking. A guy who has been accused of rape is NOT A LITTLE THING. ITS A MAJOR THING. Cucking your girlfriend is also a MAJOR THING. Also paying prostitutes is a MAJOR THING. My wife and I /enjoy/ being sexually explorative together. My wife and I enjoy supporting each other. Well there you …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:07 PM
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Me: don’t date a man who has been accused, even if he says the accusation is false You: 😡 THIS WOMAN IS SAYING MEN ARE EVIL!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:03 PM
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It isn’t justifiable. But you have to be dating women in extreme poverty who are willing to date men who they have zero interest in for something like pizza or a burger. Go for someone who has a decent job and isn’t on the verge of starvation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:02 PM
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<image> And here is the guy saying women should date a guy who makes $12 k a year. I know I said $14 k but I remembered incorrectly. He said $12 k which is even lower. He said the guy can sleep on the couch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:01 PM
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If you think pizza or coffee or sushi is “my money” then it reflects stinginess and bitterness about women and money. No sane stable woman is going to use a man for 2-3 meals or a coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:00 PM
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Yes, but you don’t have to figure that out right off by making the first date a paid experience. If he’s resentful about paying for the first date, it’s clear that he has this point of view and should be avoided. First dates are for figuring out if you like the person enough for a second date so there’s no need to invest heavily in it. Paying for coffee or pizza is not “investing heavily”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:57 PM
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<image> MEN ARE NOT A MONOLITH SEE ATTACHED IMAGE. I CLEARLY MAKE A “NOT ALL MEN” DISCLAIMER. ALSO, EVEN IN YOUR OWN QUOTE, I USE THE WORD “OFTEN” AND NOT “ALL” However, if you want me to come up with 5 examples of guys with nice guy syndrome who encourage women to date men with red flags, I can. Furthermore, you proceed to tell women to ignore major red flags. I don't see how a man who claims he is falsely accused of something is a red flag. Almost every man who has been accused of rape is goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:56 PM
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I am not a liberal/ progressive woman… Ad homenim personal attack Also, why do men assume conservative women enjoy being treated like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:35 PM
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Men who are this bitter about paying for a pizza or sushi or whatever are not a good idea to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:34 PM
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I wouldn’t leave him, but I would stay away from him and keep the kids away from him until there is undeniable proof that it didn’t happen. Furthermore, a random guy who I am saying no to a date with who I maybe went out with 2-3 times is not my husband. Lastly; btw if you are talking about healthy behavior a "liberal/progressive" woman should refuse that he pays on the first date and insist to split else a "liberal/progressive" man will expect sex on the first date as equal unhealthy behavior..…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:34 PM
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Lmfao. I would stay away from him and keep the kids away from him until I have absolute undeniable proof that it’s not true. And without it, everything would be supervised. It’s a serious allegation. I’m not obligated to put my kids or myself in danger for my husband’s sake. Furthermore, a random stranger who I have not yet dated or only have gone on a couple dates with is NOT MY HUSBAND.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:29 PM
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A rape accusation is an ENORMOUS red flag. It’s best to avoid dating the guy. Every guy who is accused (almost every guy who is accused) will say that it’s a false accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:27 PM
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After his release from prison and nearly a decade after the alleged crime, Banks’ accuser reached out to him on social media. She confessed to Brian and his legal team that she had lied. With the help of the California Innocence Project – and his accuser’s recanted testimony – Banks was able to have his conviction overturned in 2012. UNLESS THE ACCUSER COMES OUT AND SAYS “I LIED” YOU HAVE NO WAY OF KNOWING THAT THE PERSON LIED. Almost every rapist in the world will say they are falsely accused. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:26 PM
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I asked where rapes happen. Where does sex happen? It should be a simple answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:24 PM
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Because it’s not my job to investigate. He isn’t screwed because some women don’t want to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:24 PM
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I was accused. I was provably in ANOTHER CONTINENT at the time of the alleged incident. Under your definition i'm still screwed right? I was undoubtedly the victim in that scenario, but you have no issue cutting me out because of it. You are not screwed. A woman not wanting to date you doesn’t mean that you are screwed. Almost every man who has been accused claims that it is a false accusation. Women aren’t obliged to date you to investigate. Meh, you do you, but it's not a red flag that you wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:23 PM
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It isn’t my job to investigate. Not wanting to date someone isn’t claiming they are guilty. As I said, men tell women to ignore red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:22 PM
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I already had this argument about false accusations so you can find it in my comment history. The gist is this: someone being defamed (falsely accused) is a crime. Lying in a witness testimony is a felony but prosecutors rarely go after false accusers due to precedent. So you’re wrong on that front. A woman could be lying to a man about being raped being raped when in fact she’s a false accuser/pathological liar. The same can be said in the reverse as you see. I have already had this argument to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:10 PM
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But it sounds like you only pay when you truly like the woman. Well I want a guy who truly likes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:06 PM
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If they split the bill it's still dating and wouldn't fit into what he said..... Ok so you believe that paying for your date’s pizza slice and soda is the same thing as going to the red light district and finding a whore. The only way to avoid this is to split the bill. again, the feeling that a man has to pay to date you is what's being compared to prostitution, And I explained that it is a stupid comparison to make because paying for your date’s sandwich, pizza, sushi, etc is not the same thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:05 PM
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He can tell her “I will see you in two weeks” if he’s that busy instead of being standoffish and vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:47 AM
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So it sounds like you only pay for women you truly like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:44 AM
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It isn’t shaming the guy to say “ok he isn’t interested”. It’s saying “he isn’t interested”. You’re continuing to do a lot of mental gymnastics and get all upset about a polite and kind gesture: paying for a couple dates. You continue to insist and argue that women don’t consider this as a red flag when it is. Being stingy, resentful, weird, etc about something as simple as getting pizza or sushi or burgers is something that will resonate through the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:43 AM
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Paying for a couple dates is not “paying your own way”. And most men are willing to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:40 AM
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Because there are huge numbers of women in poverty and unable to cover basic expenses who think they're better than men in the same shoes. The average salary in the USA is like $60k a year. And while this isn’t that much money, it also isn’t poverty. So no, the average woman is not living in poverty. Dead horse. There are PLENTY of women who pay their own way on dates now. Women who don't can be ignored and passed over. Dead horse. Because PLENTY of men pay and these men are more than happy to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:40 AM
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He did compare dating to prostitution he is the one comparing taking a girl to get pizza or sushi to driving down the road of the red light district and picking up a hooker or going on the dark web to meet a sex worker. Which is why in my original post I say it’s a red flag for a man to be weird and stingy about paying for the first couple dates. Because he has this mindset that it’s just the same old thing as paying a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:35 AM
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You can have any red flags you want as long as you’re not a hypocrite about it. If you’re okay with men thinking a woman saying she was raped is a red flag then you can feel that way about a man saying he was falsely accused. Not the same thing because in one situation the woman is a victim. In the other, the man is a potential criminal. A parallel would be a woman who says she was falsely accused of rape or a woman who says she was falsely accused of falsely accusing a guy. The paying for dates…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:32 AM
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<image> You’re acting as though criminals and bad people always do at least one of the red flags you mentioned. No I am not. I never said these are the only red flags in the universe that exist. Sure, some men advise you to dismiss those red flags, but there are other red flags that women ignore because they’re turned on by the men who happen to display them. This is an interesting response. Because when women said that they wouldn’t want to date a man who says he was falsely accused, your respo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:27 AM
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My friend i am not devoting a month or two of my time to a guy who doesn’t understand the value of not being homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:17 AM
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<image> Here you are. You literally are agreeing with this guy that men who use prostitutes, have been accused of rape, reject us, are in poverty, feel a type of way about paying for the first couple dates, or want to watch porn with us is “every guy that breathes” because when a guy says this, your response is to chuckle in agreement. Which essentially means you believe women have no choice but to date men with these massive and horrible red flags or else they will be alone (since all men breat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:17 AM
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Since when is “I don’t want to date a guy who has been accused of rape or slept with a prostitute” every guy that breathes?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:14 AM
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It isn’t saying he did anything. It is me avoiding dating him. As I said in the original post, why do men complain that women date bad guys then actively encourage us to ignore red flags like a rape accusation?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:13 AM
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Where do you think rapes happen? During sex. They don’t happen at the grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:12 AM
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It shouldn’t make you sick. It isn’t saying the woman is a prize. It’s saying that all things equal on a date, the guy who doesn’t pay is going to seem less interested and less serious than the guy who does pay. The guy who doesn’t pay is indicating that he cares about the woman less and finds her less attractive and that he’s going to be stingy and resentful about doing things like supporting a family in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:11 AM
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A guy who is resentful and stingy about paying for a coffee or a dinner date is going to be resentful and stingy throughout the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:10 AM
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All things equal, the guy who pays for the first date is going to seem nicer, more serious, and more kind than the guy who doesn’t. No matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:09 AM
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You are the one equating dating to prostitution, lol. FALSE You are, right here. Highlighted in orange. <image> If you have an expectation that the man has to pay on the first date "just because he is a man and you are a woman", you are enforcing traditional gender roles and implying that your time costs more than his time. You, especially as a MGTOW men who presumably frequents MGTOW communities, should know that men constantly remind women that their time is more valuable. That if they age, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:06 AM
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You aren’t at an impasse. Usually women will agree to split when asked, or offer to be polite. But they privately do not prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:03 AM
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Not wanting to date a man isn’t ruining his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:02 AM
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It still is way too much baggage to deal with. Furthermore, why is he recording his sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:07 AM
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It isn’t a bold claim. And it’s not based on how much money he spends because none of these dates were extremely expensive. It is just him indicating that he’s more interested. If Bella Hadid went on a date with most men, they wouldn’t hesitate to pay. I am no Bella hadid. But if a man likes me enough, he isn’t going to be all angry and stingy about paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:06 AM
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There’s another guy here on this thread insisting that women should be happy with a guy who is working a part time minimum wage job and use their feminine charm to encourage him to work full time or get another career.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:05 AM
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proceeds to prove me right and insist that the red flags should be ignored compares dating to prostitution Literally women should avoid men who view dating as prostitution. I should have added that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:04 AM
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My friend. I am not going to use my feminine charm to charm a guy who is over 30 into not working part time at a minimum wage job. If the motivation to not be homeless or in severe poverty is not enough for him, then it is a total mismatch of life values and views. And it isn’t about the 1950’s. It’s about how serious the man is. Any time a guy paid for dates, he took me seriously. The ones who didn’t weren’t serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:02 AM
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I think so too 🧐 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:59 AM
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What is “undeniable proof”? Onision from YouTube claims he has undeniable proof but he is still sketchy and was engaging in sketchy behavior. There’s a “polyamorous BDSM” influencer who claims to have “undeniable proof” that he is not sketchy and engaging in sketchy behavior yet he does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:59 AM
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You get downvoted because 99.9999% of the time, when a guy pays the first couple dates, he’s more serious and interested. And when the guy splits the bill, usually he isn’t as interested or as serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:58 AM
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Good answer. They want women to date them. Or they don’t want to be rejected if they get accused of something. I know if I was accused of having STD’s, it would suck, but I also wouldn’t resent men who are scared of dating me as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:32 AM
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Well written answer. I suspect this will be one of the only logical ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:29 AM
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It’s rude. You claim to study psychology and all that yet struggle to understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:11 AM
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I am not dismissing them or claiming they are guilty. They have very serious allegations against them and I am not obligated to date them because of a man’s fear of being stigmatized or accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:10 AM
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That’s a him problem. Not her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:35 PM
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He can just not be her friend if he doesn’t enjoy talking about feelings with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:34 PM
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He announced it on the way out though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:33 PM
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He could simply not be friends id be considers her a worthless friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:07 PM
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If you consider talking with your friends being an emotional tampon and resent talking about your feelings with each other then you aren’t a very good friend. You don’t have to talk to someone who you don’t like talking to or be their friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:07 PM
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Men are the ones who feel that it’s exploitation. 6.6k men felt that she was exploiting her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:06 PM
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<image> Male nature is feeling exploited because your friend is overly sexy and doesn’t want to show you her tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:26 PM
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Then don’t complain about women commenting back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:48 PM
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If you don’t consider this forum real, and reality matters to you, then why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:16 PM
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If reality matters to you, and you don’t consider this forum to be a reflection of reality, then I suggest a forum that is more realistic to you, like askmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:16 PM
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<image> Right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:52 PM
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So then men should stop complaining and be silent that women may categorize men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:26 PM
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Despite the guy being proven innocent in court? Being proven innocent in court doesn’t mean he actually is innocent. It could mean he still did it, but there isn’t enough evidence to prove it. It also could mean that he did some sketchy behaviors that, while not illegal, still are wrong. This means stuff like coercion or grooming. Look at Onision from YouTube. He is innocent in court. But he did groom girls and would sleep with them as soon as he was legally able to. Not illegal, but sketchy af.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:24 PM
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Reddit is not Quora. And if you believe that this forum is filled with conspiracies and falsehoods, why do you post a post with the conspiracy that a woman is going to accuse you of toxic masculinity for holding a door open for someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:17 PM
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<image> This is an example of the solutions men come up with that are labeled as misogyny. Surprise, it is actually misogyny. Men constantly remind women of how worthless, old, fat, and unattractive they are. They only want us when we are young and hot. They literally only want a small percentage of women and then play victim when this small percentage of women only wants a small percentage of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:18 AM
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Nothing is strange about it at all. Almost every guy who is accused of rape is going to claim that it is a false accusation. I am not going to be the detective to determine if it’s true or not, at the risk of my own safety. A middle school experience is not the same thing as something that happened as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:06 AM
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Regardless. Women are not obligated to date a man who was falsely accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:49 AM
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Surely you can differentiate between something that happened in middle school and something that happened with an adult. Furthermore, while it sucked that it happened to you, no girl is obligated to date you just as you aren’t obligated to date a fat woman or a woman who has accused men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:40 AM
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How am I supposed to know it’s actually a false allegation? Almost every man who has been accused of rape will say it’s a false allegation. And out of those men, even if they didn’t actually rape someone, most of them were doing something shady. Look at Onision as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:07 PM
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According to the men of PPD, it isn’t sensible. In fact, I have been told it isn’t nice or I am a bad person or that I am being callous for not wanting to date a guy who was accused of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:42 PM
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It isn’t “paranoid” when someone has already been accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:38 PM
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Safety and common sense aren’t about niceties.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:30 PM
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That doesn’t obligate women to date men who say they were falsely accused
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:12 PM
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A man can act respectful and still just want to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:08 PM
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Men constantly toss women into categories: Undateable Attractive enough for casual sex only (most women) Attractive enough for a relationship (top women) <image> See attached evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:55 PM
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A stranger should pick whatever the safest decision is for them. And it generally isn’t safe to date someone who has been accused of rape. Even if they are not guilty in court. It isn’t wise to investigate for yourself what happened. It’s a major red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:26 PM
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That doesn’t mean the woman is obligated to date the man who says he was falsely accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:03 PM
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What he did was incredibly hateful and violent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:02 PM
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Do you think the majority of men who rape will admit to rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:02 PM
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Perfect. I get tired of my husband. I want a divorce. I want more money and assets in the divorce. I tell him I want a one sided open relationship because I think he is so alpha and hot that he needs multiple women to satisfy him and that I don’t care if he sleeps with them. I don’t get this in writing. He makes a dating profile and begins soliciting other women. I save and document his dating profile. I even make a fake dating profile pretending to be a different young attractive woman and set …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:26 PM
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You literally said that violent hate crimes are the perfect match for cheating. Meaning you view them on equal levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:04 PM
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Imagine thinking cheating is at the level of committing violent hate crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:55 PM
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No she isn’t. Beating up random men for being gay is a hate crime and not the same thing as cheating which causes no physical harm and is not a hate crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:54 PM
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Not wanting to date a guy isn’t defamation. The court system isn’t perfect. Things like coercive behavior and manipulation are not rape and not illegal, but still are sketchy and abusive. Avoiding a guy who says he was falsely accused of rape is common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:43 PM
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It isn’t a straw man. Literally men were shaming women who didn’t want to date a guy who says he was accused of rape. See attached. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:42 PM
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I didn’t say I need a man to defend me on Reddit. I was saying that men don’t believe it’s common sense to reject a guy who claims he was falsely accused of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:41 PM
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<image> Proof 6
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:40 PM
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<image> Proof 5
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:40 PM
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<image> Proof 4
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:40 PM
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<image> Proof 3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:40 PM
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<image> Proof 2
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:39 PM
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Proof number 1 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:31 PM
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It is an equivalent situation because a lot of the guys here don’t care if they were to get raped. Or at least they don’t care as much. I can link you to comments from men saying it isn’t as big of a deal if you want evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:29 PM
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Why are so many men so angry in the other thread that women don’t want to date a man who says he was falsely accused of rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:28 PM
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Why is it that in the parallel thread men are outraged that women don’t want to date a man who says he was falsely accused of rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:27 PM
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It is hard to get REAL rapists to prison, never mind falsely accused ones. A lot of rape cases are “he said she said” arguments and don’t have sufficient evidence. Furthermore, sexual coercion, manipulation, etc. is still unethical behavior but will not land someone in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:27 PM
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In the real world My friend. This is about Reddit. We have a thread full of male Redditors getting angry and upset at women who don’t want to date a man who says he was falsely accused. Any time I post that women shouldn’t date men who have been with prostitutes, it’s like a siren’s call and at least a couple men come in and answer and tell me that rejecting men who see prostitutes is unfair and unjust. And I have been told by men on Reddit that I would struggle to find a good man because I find…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:25 PM
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Nothing here was personally taken. I saw the post and it was chock full of men insisting very hard that women should date men who claim that they have been falsely accused. And nowhere in my comment do I claim that every man in that comment section was falsely accused. I didn’t even claim that anyone claimed to be falsely accused. WE HAVE NO WAY OF KNOWING IF A GUY WHO SAYS HE WAS FALSELY ACCUSED WAS ACTUALLY FALSELY ACCUSED OR NOT. WE ALSO HAVE NO WAY OF KNOWING IF EVEN IF HE DIDNT RAPE SOMEONE…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 02:21 PM
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Men: “YOU ARE SO SELFISH FOR NOT WANTING TO DATE A GUY WHO SAYS HE WAS FALSELY ACCUSED OF RAPE!!!! ALSO YOU SHOULD BE OPEN TO DATING MEN WHO SEE PROSTITUTES!!! ALSO GOOD LUCK FINDING A GOOD MAN IF YOU DONT WANT TO WATCH PORN WITH HIM!!!!” Also men: “why do women pick these evil criminal losers!!!!???”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:20 AM
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The PPD man is angry that women choose criminals over good honest men like him. Later, he has lunch with a friend. She talks about how she dated a guy then found out he claims he was falsely accused of rape. She doesn’t know the situation, but didn’t feel comfortable with continuing the budding relationship. She texted him later that she wasn’t interested anymore before blocking him on everything. The PPD man is outraged. He believes that this woman is selfish and superficial and callous. He bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:18 AM
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Being raped is a pretty shitty and traumatic situation to be in. Associating with a guy who has been accused of rape may mean that he has engaged in shady behaviors in the past, even if he didn’t exactly rape someone. This can make a long term relationship or marriage highly toxic. It also may mean that having a kid around them isn’t safe. Furthermore, this isn’t a competition to see what shitty situation is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:15 AM
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It isn’t “bad faith” at all. Men here go on rants about how women date murderers and criminals and pick bad men and ignore red flags. A guy who claims he was falsely accused of rape is a pretty simple and straightforward red flag to avoid. It isn’t bad faith to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:12 AM
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You aren’t proven innocent in court. You are proven not guilty. That means there may not be enough evidence or something. It doesn’t mean it’s a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:10 AM
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“Not guilty” doesn’t mean the woman was lying. It just means the guy was “not guilty”. Usually because there is not enough evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:09 AM
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Not wanting to date someone because they were accused of something serious is sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:27 AM
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A lot of men are very upset in the parallel thread
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:25 AM
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Not dating someone is not irreversibly harming them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:24 AM
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It does matter. He isn’t in prison. It isn’t my responsibility to date him and try to investigate for myself if the reason why he isn’t in prison is due to insufficient evidence or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:23 AM
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Did you see the other thread? Do you want me to DM it to you? Any time a woman said she wouldn’t date a guy who says that he was falsely accused men would accuse her of being harsh and judgmental.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:40 PM
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No it happens to women below a 6/10 all the time. This is a typical male thinking pattern posted by a man. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:39 PM
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Men accuse women over 30 of being used up old haha and tell other men not to talk to these women. Furthermore, a rape accusation is very serious and avoiding someone who potentially committed a crime is common sense. I wouldn’t invite a guy accused of being a pedo to babysit either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:38 PM
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Well yes. If he went to court for rape, that’s a massive red flag. Regardless of if he was found guilty or not. That is something you can see in a public record.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:33 PM
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Why do men get upset when women don’t want to date a man who says he was falsely accused of rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:32 PM
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Women aren’t obligated to date a man to save him from his social isolation. Especially if he has been accused of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:32 PM
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Being romantically rejected isn’t great suffering though. Women who are below a 6/10 or over age 30 deal with it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:01 PM
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We aren’t there to save him from his social isolation. There are places like church or support groups or whatever where he can find social support.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:01 PM
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Yes but she maintains it wasn’t a false accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:00 PM
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I didn’t see a single man defending the women in that post. It was all men getting butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:59 PM
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But you appear to believe the man who says he was falsely accused in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:59 PM
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Sounds pretty sensible to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:59 PM
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What does this have to do with “decenter”ing women? How is it decentering them if they just are using common sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:56 PM
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Regardless of how scary the possibility of a false accusation is, it’s common sense to not want to date a guy who has been accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:55 PM
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So why do men get butthurt and upset when women don’t want to date a man who claims he was falsely accused of rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:52 PM
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Why do men get upset when women don’t want to date a guy who says he was falsely accused of rape then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:49 PM
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So why do men get upset when women don’t want to date a man who says he was falsely accused?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:48 PM
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So why do men get all butthurt when women don’t want to date a man who claims he was falsely accused of rape? It’s a very serious allegation and risk to safety. Why is it okay for men to not want to date a woman who has accused someone but not for women to not want to date a man who has been accused?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:47 PM
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There is no way to super snoop to find out if it’s true or not. We weren’t there in the bedroom. I can check the sex offender registry and Google if a guy has any court records and pay for said court records if I am curious or not, but I have no way of determining if it actually happened. I can, however, avoid dating the guy for my safety and politely turn him away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:46 PM
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Why do men get angry when women don’t want to date a man who was falsely accused?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:44 PM
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So why do men get so upset when women don’t want to deal with the baggage of a man who claims to be falsely accused?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:41 PM
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I asked because men are more afraid of a false accusation than being raped. In general. So would you date a woman who claims that she was falsely accused of falsely accusing someone or not? It’s a simple yes or no question. Especially since, if I recall correctly, you were adamant that women be okay with dating a man who claims he was falsely accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:36 PM
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So it just depends on how she says it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:35 PM
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Interesting answer as I thought women expire after 25 to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:35 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:32 PM
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That isn’t the clapback you think it is. Most of us know that if someone accuses us of something very serious, it will have repercussions on our lives. However, romantic rejection is not persecution. Just like women over 30 are rejected or classified as “casual sex only” by men, a man being rejected for dating is not being persecuted. Also, we aren’t detectives. We cannot investigate what happened to warrant such a serious and dangerous accusation. We just know that avoiding the guy is the easie…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:30 PM
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Because your question was odd in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:26 PM
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Men do speak like that about women all the time. This isn’t the gotcha you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:16 PM
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No she believes victims of sexual assault, not men who claim to be falsely accused. It’s easy to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:16 PM
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I’m not the one you were asking. It’s a very odd question for you to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:14 PM
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It isn’t “ruining his life”. It’s “avoiding red flags and potential abuse”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:14 PM
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Immediately so she can leave without wasting much of her fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:13 PM
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No it’s to accept that women may not want to be with you and move on. It’s the same for women over 30 or 35. Men may not want to be with them so they accept it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:10 PM
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Sorry he’s going through that but we also aren’t obligated to ignore a potentially dangerous red flag over feeling bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:09 PM
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You can use your judgement. If you believe she’s a false accuser you can just tell her you’re not feeling it anymore and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:05 PM
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She means she believes sexual abuse victims not the men who claim to be falsely accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:04 PM
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Women get strung along for being fat or older than 30. Men brag about classifying women they deem less attractive for casual sex and situationships only. <image> See attached image. Women deal with this all the time. So men can too. She may not consent to being with you anymore after learning a serious allegation is tied to your name. Respect her lack of consent and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:03 PM
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He just needs to respect that she may not consent to being with him anymore because of having serious allegations attached to his name.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:02 PM
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He needs to respect that the false allegation will make her no longer consent to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:01 PM
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No he should bring it up. But he should also be aware that women will leave as a result because it’s a very serious and dangerous allegation to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:00 PM
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Not dating a guy who claims to be falsely accused of rape is not victimizing him. It just isn’t dating him. I’m not putting him in prison by not wanting to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:57 PM
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Avoiding a guy who has been accused of a serious and hurtful crime is common sense. It isn’t victimizing the guy. He is potentially dangerous and could potentially hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:57 PM
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How are we supposed to 100% know for sure the guy didn’t do anything? We aren’t a court of law, and being innocent in court doesn’t mean you actually are innocent. Also shady behavior and coercion are not illegal and maybe he did that instead of full on rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:55 PM
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No when you tell women that you were falsely accused of something horrific, that woman will rightly be uncomfortable and wonder if you were actually falsely accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:54 PM
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Men tell women to pick better men. Avoiding men who have been even accused of rape is an easy way to pick better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:54 PM
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It is not stupid or vapid to avoid a man who has been accused of a serious crime, even if he didn’t get convicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:53 PM
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I google this stuff and check the sex offender registry before I even meet the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:52 PM
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What an odd question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:51 PM
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Just because he is innocent in court doesn’t mean we are obligated to believe he is innocent in our personal lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:50 PM
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Once, a guy here claimed to be falsely accused. He said he went to court and was found innocent, therefore he was falsely accused. I asked him for details about the situation. What exactly happened? Coercion is not illegal the way rape is. He never answered. Another time, I talked with a guy a woman wanted to set me up with. I looked him up and found out that he was on the news for being with two 16 year olds when he was 27. He wasn’t a registered sex offender so I am sure they came to some kind…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:49 PM
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If a woman doesn’t want you to say yes quickly, then she is rejecting you in her own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:26 PM
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Just like the guy in the post is rejecting her, a woman who resents you for being “too available” is rejecting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:45 AM
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As if men don’t write stuff like this here on a daily basis and the other men are silent. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:58 PM
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Why can’t he come up with an alternative day and plan?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:59 PM
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So why are so many men in this comments section insisting that this wasn’t a rejection and she shouldn’t have accepted it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:58 PM
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If the guy offered alternative dates, OOP would have made it abundantly clear because it would support his narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:44 AM
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busy sometimes rejects her at least 2-3 times and doesn’t offer any alternatives Also they weren’t in a relationship. No one got dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:43 AM
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You’re socially conditioned to believe that I was targeting that random guy with my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:33 AM
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Straw man. Intentionally distorting my argument. He could have proposed a time when he wasn’t burning the midnight oil.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:23 PM
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The men repeatedly were arguing with me that she was being petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:07 PM
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It isn’t immature. He rejected her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:07 PM
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She didn’t turn him down because he was working on improving himself. She turned him down because he declined at least 3 dates with her without proposing an alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:55 PM
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If you are so busy with work that you cannot come up with a single day you will be available within the next 2-4 weeks and be able to communicate that within a few days, then perhaps you aren’t ready for a relationship until work calms down. And a man was saying this offensive thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:04 PM
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Why is this so upsetting to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:02 PM
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She didn’t post the revenge fantasy. Her angry friend did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:02 PM
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If he wasn’t clearly interested then it’s a reasonable thing to replace him with someone who is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:01 PM
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There is nothing to extrapolate. He said no. He didn’t offer any alternative times. That is a rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:00 PM
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<image> Sounds like you believe social conditioning over facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:59 PM
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This is such gaslighting. If a woman rejected a man in this fashion, everyone would understand that it’s a rejection. But when a man does it, you expect the woman to question and second guess the message he is sending and try to convince him to change his mind or ask him repeatedly and harass him into saying yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:58 PM
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How is it a “nice guy” if she said “oh ok I am not interested anymore” and then moved on? She didn’t announce to him that she was going on tinder. She simply ended the dynamic and moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:19 PM
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I did. Would you like me to screenshot proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:18 PM
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It’s autistic af to say “I’m busy” repeatedly to someone then get upset when they say “ok looks like they aren’t interested” and then they move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:17 PM
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The guy who was upset was random Redditors, not the guy she cut off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:16 PM
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Bro the foundation of relationships is dating. If he doesn’t want to date then forming a relationship is nearly impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:16 PM
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Saying “I’m busy” with no other options for day and time is rejection. I am glad you agree with me and that the men here are being overly dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:15 PM
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Because look how angry the men are here in this thread and in the one I am referencing. They are insisting that she should have waited around for him to call her or try again later after he rejected her a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:14 PM
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She didn’t tell him she was going on tinder. She told him she wasn’t interested. Then she went on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:12 PM
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It would be nice but no one owes it. He rejected her multiple times. She moved on. And why are you trying to turn this into a personal attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:11 PM
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No one stopping you from picking someone more enthusiastic to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:07 PM
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It isn’t hating men to accept someone’s rejection and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:07 PM
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Even if she’s an unattractive loser that doesn’t mean she should let herself get into a hurtful and crappy relationship where she is mistreated and strung along.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:06 PM
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One guy? This was multiple guys complaining about her response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:06 PM
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Actions speak louder than words. He didn’t do the action of trying to suggest another date and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:05 PM
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He rejected her, whether he intended to or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:04 PM
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Passport bros are not claiming to be dealing with rejection in the USA/ west and then moving abroad to find love. Most of the passport bros subreddit is men who find American or western women so fat and disgusting and ugly that they would rather move to a third world country than tolerate these women (who are usually their age and looksmatch).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:03 PM
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If he’s so incredibly busy that he has no idea what his schedule will be for the next month, then is he really ready for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:00 PM
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48 hours max a few days Just as he doesn’t owe her anything, she doesn’t owe him anything. If he is seeming to reject her, she isn’t obligated to hold off and give him a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:52 PM
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That’s how I interpreted it and I am not sure why men are I skating so hard that she should have insisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:40 PM
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Why should she ask him out again after he rejected her “a few” times? Thats HARASSMENT. She shouldn’t harass the man on the off chance that he secretly wants to be harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:41 PM
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You don’t need to announce that someone rejected you to them. He doesn’t owe her an explanation or “closure”. She accepted his rejection and moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:40 PM
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Ok well then you like a g rated version of consensual non consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:38 PM
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He can easily suggest a date and time when he isn’t busy. But he didn’t. Why? He was rejecting her. And 99% of people with jobs know when their days off are or when they will be out of work. He could have suggested one of those days and made it abundantly clear that it’s subject to change if he truly doesn’t know his work schedule. But he didn’t. Because he was rejecting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:37 PM
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He didn’t say “I’ll see you in a week”. He said “no I am busy” and that’s it. He she accepted his no and she moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:36 PM
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You don’t know who those 7 or 8 men were though because I had like 20 comment answers. You chose to take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:35 PM
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Second comment out of like 20 to agree with me. The rest are arguing that she should have begged him or waited around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:34 PM
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No answer is an answer. And his answer was he didn’t offer anything else. She isn’t supposed to try to coerce him or change his mind. He said no. She accepted his no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:34 PM
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You are the first comment so far to agree. The rest are arguing that she should not have respected his rejection and boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:32 PM
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The guy could easily have suggested another date and time. He didn’t. She respected his boundaries and his rejection and moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:31 PM
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He wasn’t lying by rejecting her. He could have set up another day and time but he didn’t want to. She accepted his rejection and moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:30 PM
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Did I specifically call you out? Did I tag your username? And saying “no” to multiple dates without offering any alternative is a boundary of “I don’t want to see you”. She is respecting your boundaries of not wanting to see her. That isn’t being “easily replaceable”. It’s taking your no at face value and moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:29 PM
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He directly communicated that he didn’t want to see her and directly communicated that he didn’t offer any alternative dates and times. That is directly communicating that he is saying “no” and rejecting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:27 PM
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“No I am busy” is still no. Also, without offering alternative dates and times it usually is just trying to politely reject the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:26 PM
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It isn’t about compatibility. He rejected her. He said no. She accepted his no and moved on. That is not compatibility. It’s consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:20 PM
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Gender roles didn’t flip. He said no. No means no. She went on tinder found someone else. The end. Muddying the definition of consent is not “putting more effort in”. And she knows because he didn’t offer any other dates or times that he is available.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:19 PM
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Men definitely do resent women for being above a certain age. They resent that she isn’t dating them in their prime. If you would like me to find examples from here, I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:11 PM
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So what? They weren’t in a relationship. He said no to her multiple times. She went back on the apps. This isn’t a sin or violating his trust. She didn’t even date multiple people at the same time. As soon as one dynamic ended she found a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:09 PM
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Sure but why didn’t the guy who rejected her multiple times offer her another date and time when he is not busy!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:26 PM
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They resent that these women aren’t giving them their “best self” because they aren’t 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:23 PM
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Can you quote where op says this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:48 AM
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How is it a dick move if neither guy knows about it and both of them aren’t her boyfriend? Can you quote where he offered an alternative date and time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:47 AM
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Clearly you don’t have a good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:46 AM
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Can you quote where in the original post he offers an alternate date and time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:46 AM
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I never said you said it with absolute certainty. But it is clear that you think she’s petulant and stupid and that he “could” be a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:45 AM
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So you admit that you don’t actually know if she had ssx or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:44 AM
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Interesting that you have all this compassion and understanding for the man but you don’t cite this lack of details when it comes to having understanding and compassion for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:41 AM
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OP didn’t specify but had he proposed alternative plans OP most likely would have shared it because it would have supported his narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:19 AM
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If he didn’t reject her, then why didn’t he propose an alternative date and time or alternative plans? He said no. No means no. She took no for an answer and moved on. She was hurt and vented to OP. But she didn’t vent to him or harass him or make any rude comments. She just cut him off. Her response was appropriate, but for some reason you guys insist women should repeatedly harass men who made it clear that they aren’t interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:18 AM
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Taking no for an answer and moving on isn’t a “hissy fit”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:14 AM
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<image> This is literally what you just said. He was more into other women. It was a good idea for her to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:13 AM
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Then she was correct to leave and let him go with the other women that he was more interested in. Not sure why this is so controversial to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:12 AM
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She chased hard. He wasn’t reciprocating the energy. She moved on. Men get outraged and play victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:11 AM
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He didn’t propose an alternative date or time for her to wait for. If someone asks someone else out repeatedly and they don’t propose any alternative days or plans, then they are rejecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:10 AM
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Common sense answer that brings men to outrage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:10 AM
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He REJECTED HER AND SHE MOVED ON. IT WOULD BE ABUSIVE FOR HER TO TRY TO FORCE HIM TO STAY WITH HER.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:06 AM
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He said no. He rejected her. Moving on is a common sense reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:05 AM
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He rejected her multiple times and offered no alternatives. That isn’t “vibing”. It’s rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:01 AM
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Since when is it mentally unstable to move on from a guy who rejects you multiple times when you propose dates and doesn’t offer any alternative times or plams? Should she beg? Is that a mentally stable answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:57 AM
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If he offered any alternative dates or times they would still be seeing each other. He didn’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:56 AM
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The guy rejected her multiple times without offering alternative plans. She isn’t mean for cutting it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:56 AM
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Why would it make you feel lonely that if you rejected dates with a woman multiple times without offering any alternatives, she will accept your no and move on?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:55 AM
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The guy rejected her multiple times and didn’t offer an alternative. He communicated that he wasn’t interested. She moved on. This isn’t being replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:54 AM
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If she liked him, she would literally offer an alternative date or time. The guy didn’t. OP makes no mention of the guy offering an alternative date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:52 AM
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Saying “I am not interested” is very direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:51 AM
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She didn’t run anything in his face. She said “I’m not interested” and moved on. He has no idea what she is doing after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:51 AM
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If he says no repeatedly and doesn’t offer any alternative plans then he is expressing disinterest. It isn’t illogical to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:50 AM
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He can literally say “can I see you on Friday night after work?” Or any other alternative date or time but he didn’t. He turned her down at least 2-3 times and OP and you are outraged that no means no and she moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:48 AM
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How do you know she had sex with the guy from tinder? Why do you assume going on a date means sex? And the guy turned her down multiple times. He said no. No means no. She walked away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:47 AM
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Nope. OP isn’t her. OP is pissed that she could go on tinder and find a new guy easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:22 AM
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When someone tells you no, you accept their no and move on. Thats precisely what she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:22 AM
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<image> Facts over feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:20 AM
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Even if he’s in crunch time, he can schedule to meet after crunch time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 11:16 PM
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You literally claimed that this guy was a good guy with no information whatsoever besides the fact that he was flakey.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 11:14 PM
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Telling someone “I’m not interested in you anymore” is not handling something poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 11:14 PM
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Interesting that you condescendingly to preach to me about the virtue of patience, then don’t value the virtue of patience in planning a date for a week from now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:27 PM
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No they don’t. Women just want their agematches while their age matches resent that they aren’t 23 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:19 PM
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Strawman intentionally distorting my argument. He can work and propose to meet on a day when he’s free instead of suggesting nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:18 PM
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A good man would suggest another date and time. By saying “no” and suggesting nothing else he is communicating “I am not interested”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:16 PM
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He can schedule to date on his day off or when he knows he will be off work. He can propose an alternative time. Like most people do. If he just says “no” and suggests nothing else, it communicates “I am not interested”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:15 PM
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Then it’s on him to pick another time and say. If he simply says no, it communicates “I am not interested”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:14 PM
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Why can’t he suggest another day and time? Why does OP make no mention of this? Why can’t he say “let’s meet on Saturday” like an interested person would?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:14 PM
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If he wasn’t rejecting her, he would have suggested alternative dates and times. OP makes no mention of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:11 PM
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You can work and tell someone “Saturday is my day off of work. Let’s meet for dinner on my day off?” Or “I get off work at 5 pm. Let’s meet for dinner at 7 pm?” The vast majority of people with jobs do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:10 PM
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That would be my guess too. Of course, I could be wrong, but it sounds like it’s this situation. And OP makes no mention of the guy suggesting other days or times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:08 PM
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Why can’t he plan something a few days in advance??? He has fingers. He can type. What is the prize here? A guy who can’t say “let’s meet on Saturday”???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:57 PM
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So what if she downloaded tinder out of scorn? If she likes the new guy enough she will forget about the old one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:56 PM
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How tf is guy 1 supposed to know she went out with guy 2??? What isn’t nice? He wouldn’t know about it. They weren’t in a relationship. He rejected her multiple times. How tf is he supposed to know and why should he care if he rejected her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:53 PM
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It only makes you nauseous because you believe women are sleeping with every guy they meet from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:52 PM
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She did. She said “do you want to see me?” He said “no”. He didn’t bother to offer any other times or dates. She understood that it was rejection, or that he wasn’t super into her. She told him “I am not interested in you any more”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:52 PM
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You do ask why women don’t make the first move. She made multiple moves. He said no. He doesn’t seem to have offered any alternative dates. She moved on and made a move on someone else. You complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:15 PM
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Maybe she wasn’t hurt. Maybe she interpreted his repeated rejections as repeated rejections and moved on because he didn’t offer alternative dates or times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:12 PM
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Either way it’s clear he didn’t bother to try to offer any alternative plans. For the gender that tells women to leave at the first red flag, you sure do get bitter when women take this advice and leave at the first red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:11 PM
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She clearly did if she asked him repeatedly and told him she no longer is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:10 PM
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Yes to men she is because men are spiteful and resentful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:09 PM
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It clearly says “SHE APPARENTLY TOLD THE OTHER GUY SHE NO LONGER IS INTERESTED” Nowhere does it say she ghosted him. That is something you made up because you wanted to project your own spiteful narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:09 PM
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Why couldn’t he set up another day? “I can’t today but I am free this weekend. Let’s go on a date on Saturday night.” It isn’t that hard. Rejecting someone with “I’m busy” with no other alternatives reflects disinterest and is usually understood to just be polite rejection. And why are you assuming she tried to set up everything for the same day?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:07 PM
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Why couldn’t he offer an alternative time? Is he incapable of planning a date next week? “Sorry I’m busy” with no alternative suggestions is just polite rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:06 PM
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She was clearly hurt and upset by a guy who rejected her multiple times, replaced him, and for some reason this puts you guys in a sense of righteous indignation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:05 PM
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That is the entire premise of the most recent thread. By a man. With male comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:04 PM
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The PPD man goes out on a few dates with a woman. She asks to see him again 3 times. Each time, he says no. He says he’s busy with work. He doesn’t offer any alternative options. She blocks him and goes on tinder to meet another guy. “What a frivolous bitch!!!!!” He proclaims.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:58 PM
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How is it frivolous to leave a man who rejects you multiple times?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:56 PM
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And somehow men consider her a villain for leaving the guy who rejected her multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:55 PM
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He rejected her multiple times. She can’t sit around and beg him to be with her or see her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:54 PM
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How is it reasonably fulfilling relationship if he rejected her multiple times?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:53 PM
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How is it unreasonable to leave a guy who rejects you multiple times? Is she supposed to sit there and beg?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:53 PM
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He rejected her multiple times. Her moving on is a sensible reaction. You guys are so upset that she didn’t stick around and beg him to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:51 PM
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He rejected her multiple times. That isn’t “oh I have other priorities” it’s “I’m not that into you”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:50 PM
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He turned her down multiple times. She moved on. That’s a common sense reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:49 PM
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What bullet did he dodge? He turned her down multiple times. She took that as a rejection and moved on. That’s a common sense and sensible reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:48 PM
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If you turn down a woman for a date multiple times then don’t complain that she drops you. This isn’t a superficial “women just drop men for whatever reason they want and we are replaceable!” It sounds like she asked him to go on another date at least 2-3 times and he said no. It doesn’t sound like he offered any alternative times to meet. She took that as “well he isn’t that interested” and moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:46 PM
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The woman in the post was turned down multiple times by the guy she was dating. SHE CHASED HIM, and he didn’t seem interested, so she moved on. That isn’t him chasing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:45 PM
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The premise of OP’s post is that men resent and hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:28 PM
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That’s because most men can physically overpower most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:21 PM
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I constantly say most men hate most women and most men find most women unattractive and I get accused of making up stories and being misandrist. But men say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:54 PM
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Men have a very low threshold for what is considered to be “fat”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:53 PM
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Except for multiple men agree with me that it’s code for that. Even you agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:43 PM
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What is your BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:42 PM
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If they take care of themselves is code for “if they are thin and conventionally attractive”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:18 PM
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I get called a misandrist for saying that most men don’t find most women attractive then men post memes like this. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:06 PM
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This is literally based on what a PPD man wrote. He said dating, doing fun activities, and eating at new places is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:29 PM
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This guy literally is self proclaimed autistic. He’s one of the nerdy good guys
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:52 PM
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This is based on what a man here said to describe dating. He says doing fun activities and trying new foods with a girlfriend or wife is USELESS.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:47 PM
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Whenever I say here that men think this way, and date this way, I get called a misandrist. But I literally say what men say about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:28 PM
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The ppd man goes to a local food event with his girlfriend. He and his girlfriend try some new foods and his girlfriend buys a tote bag and stickers from a booth. They take turns paying for each food item. Once they are full, they take a walk at the park and go home. “This was completely useless” he huffs to himself once he’s alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:22 PM
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The average n count is 4 for women and 6 for men. People may have 1-2 hookups in a lifetime but most don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:57 PM
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What a disgusting view to have. Childbirth and knowing that can ruin your life evens the field. Women know that having a kid or going through the trauma of an abortion is a consequence which is why they don’t walk around saying “it’s open”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:29 PM
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“😡 😡 😡” “How dare you say that this sensible thing to reject men over is a sensible thing to reject men over!” Clearly you view taking a woman you like out on dates who you enjoy getting to know and spending time with as a means to getting laid and not as a means to getting to know a potential future spouse. Not just that, you view it as the same thing as prostitution, which is a major red flag and a horrible view of dating to have. It’s not a good idea to date someone who views taking a woman h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:24 PM
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Except for I am not getting dicked down at my day job.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:21 PM
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Gooning and using prostitutes inherently has no honor. It is not “cock police” to say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:32 AM
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Because it’s a disgusting comparison. Expecting a guy to have a reasonably decent job and contribute to living expenses when you’re cohabiting and not be stingy about paying for the first few dates is NOT prostitution. Edit: and avoiding men with this mindset is an easy act of common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:29 AM
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“I think dating is the same as prostitution. I think this is a healthy mindset to have and women should date men with this mindset”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:14 AM
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If she wouldn’t be there for free, it isn’t consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:26 AM
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Because you literally didn’t separate the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:40 AM
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No because the women actually are unattractive and it makes men angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:37 AM
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Sir you are wrong if you think that women’s looksmatch is suddenly going to value them and treat them like queens. <image> Multiple men have said that this woman is a 6/10. So a lot of self proclaimed 6/10 men will think this is what they deserve and treat women who are actually 6’s like trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:34 AM
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Many many many men say this and op keeps insinuating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:32 AM
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I literally described male sexuality in a good way and you turned it around and said “well women don’t do it”. That’s because women aren’t men. Women are nurturing, loving, beautiful, and gentle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:25 AM
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Op literally called using prostitutes and gooning “male sexuality”. He did not describe perky boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:22 AM
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They already are shamed. Men constantly tell them they are worthless. However, at least it’s consensual most of the time whereas using a prostitute isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:21 AM
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Notice how you didn’t deny what I said and used personal attacks? Thats because I was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:20 AM
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Quote where I said mid/ unattractive/ average women don’t like their looksmatch. Quote me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:19 AM
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Men tell women here all the time that less attractive men have better characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:18 AM
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Look at the “where are all the good men” subreddit. Look at the passport bros subreddit. For every woman who does it, there are ten men. Also, that woman is clearly trolling/ rage baiting and you guys took it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:16 AM
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For every woman that does it, ten men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:16 AM
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Being a stay at home mom is NOT THE SAME THING AS BEING A GOLD DIGGER.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:15 AM
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No one has honor because it doesn’t involve cruelty and being a degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:15 AM
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Those already are shamed and are not the same thing as being a stay at home mom to a guy who loves you and adores you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:13 AM
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Mid/ average/ unattractive women LOVE mid/ average/ unattractive men. But these men hate them and resent that their looks matches arent better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:13 AM
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Why do you use a euphemism for male degeneracy and call it “male sexuality”? It’s male degeneracy. Going to prostitutes and being a gooner should be shamed. It is not the same thing as being a stay at home mom to a guy who loves you and wants to provide for and protect his family. One has no honor. The other does. If you want male sexuality to be good, categorize it as leading, loving, and strong. Not goonerism and degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:10 AM
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They do. They get pumped and dumped which is arguably much worse than not getting matches at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:07 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DIXOOVWy6tI/ This is the opposite of the PPD man when he’s hiring people. The PPD man would be angry that the middle aged woman with lots of experience didn’t get married and become a homemaker when she was in her prime. He is angry that she would have rejected him when she was 19. He decides to punish her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:02 AM
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If an 80 year old man can choose between a virgin mia khalifa and a woman his own age who is a widow/ virgin or something, and both love him equally, he will pick Mia Khalifa.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:00 AM
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Look at the premise of OP’s post. https://www.instagram.com/p/DIfM4qQOqPA/ Look what men post online It’s very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:59 AM
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It’s not rubbish at all. If a woman is pumped and dumped, men blame the hell out of her and tell her it’s her fault for picking a man who is too hot for her and who has contempt for her because he doesn’t find her attractive enough to wife up. Men constantly brag about using women they find unattractive for sex. If you would like me to search for examples, I’ll post them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:58 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/DIfM4qQOqPA/ The PPD man goes on tinder. This is his experience. He feels like a victim. He posts random womens faces online to make women feel bad for being unattractive. He feels like one of the boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:57 AM
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<image> Proof. Right here. Even old men prefer women in their 20’s. The only reason they may not pursue them is if they feel that they can’t attract these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:08 AM
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Men tend to abandon if they don’t find the mother attractive enough. It’s male nature to spread one’s seed and not really be present in the kids’ lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 08:23 PM
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This is a very long response that is completely off topic and pointless. You initially said women swipe right on a minority of men. Then you claimed it’a stereotype to say women don’t swipe right on everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:33 PM
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85 year old men will always prefer women under 30 no matter what. They consider women their age to be “post wall”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:13 PM
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Now you’re moving the topic to try to snark on generalizations. But you literally made a generalization by saying that women only swipe right 5-7% of the time. Now you’re contradicting yourself and insisting that women swipe right on everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:41 PM
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Women generally don’t. Women generally swipe right on guys they are interested in talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:34 PM
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Copied and pasted from my other comments Source: https://realitycalc.com Population of women ages 18-85: 129.1 million Number of women ages 18-29 who are not overweight nor obese and who are unmarried with no kids: 4.68 million 4.68 million out of 129.1 million = 3.6% The website got rid of the specific numbers. Probably because women like me held the creators accountable and they resented that we did so. Men are the ones who don’t want 96.4% of women. ATP it’s copypasta but it is what it is htt…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:04 PM
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Swiping right means nothing because men swipe right on everyone then select who they like from their matches. Also men swipe right on women they would pump and dump and find only attractive enough for casual sex and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 01:00 PM
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Being pumped and dumped and left a single mother or being reluctantly settled for doesn’t mean the guy finds you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:58 PM
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It doesn’t matter. I’m not wrong and I am tired of men using this as an excuse to call me a misandrist when I simply repeat what men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:56 PM
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I have always said most men don’t find most women attractive enough for a relationship. Constantly I say this. And any time I say this I have an army of men downvoting me and calling me a MISANDRIST. But this is the second post I have casually seen so far supporting what I say. Most men don’t find most women attractive. Most men find most women too old, fat, or ugly to take seriously. Most women know this. This is why many women opt to be alone. Because we know we aren’t attractive enough to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:39 PM
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It isn’t harassing you. I provided you with proof. Notice how you said absolutely nothing about the male age preferences I presented to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:13 AM
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I don’t get offended. I repeatedly say to men over and over and over again on this forum that most men don’t find most women attractive and most women aren’t attractive enough to most men. I even have calculated that about 3.4% of women meet men’s standards. Every time I say this, MEN ACCUSE ME OF MISANDRY. But here we have OP, a man, verifying what I say over and over again and men get outraged at me for saying. Most men find most women too fat or too ugly or too old to be attractive. Most men …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:14 PM
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Also I provided evidence and proved you wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:08 PM
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No, I am returning the energy to you. Interesting how when I comment on other things to prove you wrong you don’t like it. But when you do it you believe you are justified. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:04 PM
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But plus sizes can easily look like this. <image> That is Denise Bidot. Also, if you did date these women, then why are you claiming no one dates you!??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:52 PM
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<image> Women prefer men their own age. Men prefer 20 year olds. OKCupid study.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:49 PM
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<image> This is what men call a 6/10 woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:15 PM
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And how unattractive were these plus sized women? Plenty of plus sized women still look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:05 PM
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Considering that men here call the random influencer’s girlfriend I posted in the other comment a 6/10, then the unattractive women that men here are rejected by are likely just mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:04 PM
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Considering that men call this random influencer’s girlfriend a 6/10 I would like to know what he considers to be his equal. If she’s slightly above average to men, then an unattractive woman is most likely just a mid woman who men rank as ugly. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:03 PM
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It sounds like you inserted yourself in a love triangle and instead of simply leaving, put up with it. I liked a guy on r and he mentioned that he was having a female friend come live with him to help her out. He denied any romance but it felt like something romantic could easily develop, so i ghosted him. Do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:01 PM
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Why can’t he stay in his lane?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:57 PM
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You asked what to do if you’re born unattractive. The answer is GO FOR A WOMAN WHO IS ALSO UNATTRACTIVE For some reason this upsets you. I wonder why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:36 PM
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He simply doesn’t want to go for his looksmatch and is making excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:35 PM
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Why are you dodging this? You asked how to take accountability. I clearly said, go for your looksmatch. If you’re unattractive, go for unattractive women. You dodge accountability by saying “well these women want attractive men so I am only going to go for hotties”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:35 PM
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You date women who are also physically unattractive. Not the blonde woman who looks like a model without makeup on who men call a 6/10. Actually unattractive women. Fat women. Old women. Ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:55 PM
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That isn’t as obvious or easy to spot as a guy who is in prison sitting in a jail cell
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:26 PM
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These girlfriends are women who are strippers, drug addicts, felons or other criminals, homeless, prostitutes, or have other major issues. There are also obese and desperate old women who want a hot young guy who may write to these prisoners and get into a relationship with them in exchange for giving them a place to stay after they get released. Also if the guy is spending years in prison, his girlfriend may not exactly be loyal to him while he’s in there. They are not getting with wholesome wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:24 PM
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Extremely hypocritical of you. You stalked my comments but when I briefly scroll through your comments and find this one, suddenly you become pikachu face shocked. MEN are the ones who laugh at simps because men find basic niceties to women to be simping and enjoy humiliating each other over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:15 PM
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“I don’t hate women. I just think they laugh at men who buy them flowers”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:02 PM
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It is hateful to say women your age are “falling apart”. And if men call women their own age “falling apart” this means that they don’t want their equals and only want the top, most attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:46 PM
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It can also mean some people find waking up early to watch the sunrise wholesome, while other people find sleeping in and breakfast in bed wholesome. But you jump to the most hateful conclusion possible These are universally wholesome things. It doesn’t fall under the category of this original comment that you are responding to. The original comment was a woman saying she wants universally wholesome things like sunsets and breakfast in bed. Master praline said that men do not consider these thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:41 PM
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It isn’t hateful at all to assume that all these taken women are more attractive than the single ones. That is logic and reason. You are trying to grasp at straws here because I held a guy accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:38 PM
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It isn’t hateful at all. He said every woman he likes happens to be taken. He most likely only wants the most attractive women, who happen to also be taken. He isn’t going for the mid and unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:22 PM
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No it isn’t. She said men don’t want to do wholesome things in the context of sex and romance. Then the guy said “well what men say is wholesome may not be wholesome for you”. This can only mean that men find these niche sexual habits to be wholesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:21 PM
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He isn’t a victim, and holding someone accountable isn’t “hate”. Saying that women are “falling apart” after a certain age is rude. Claiming women over 30 cannot have healthy children is both false and rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:09 AM
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You are not a victim. You claim that there are men who speak respectfully about older women but simply don’t find them to be their type. However: A) saying “well I find women over 45 attractive but most of them are fat and out of shape and therefore most of them are unattractive isn’t respectful. B) saying most women over 45 are “falling apart” isn’t respectful either Furthermore, you have a history of saying disrespectful things. You also say that women over 30 may not be able to find a man to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:08 AM
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Nobody cold approaches strangers. It isn’t the norm. It’s been a social taboo since like 1990.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:49 AM
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Wal mart and church are very different environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:49 AM
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I didn’t imply that it was either. I simply said it isn’t 40+ years ago anymore. Most people do not approach strangers at the park or grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:47 AM
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I didn’t say it was. But people generally don’t hit on random women at the park or grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:36 AM
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These men are ignorant. Hitting on a stranger at the park is generally a dumb thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:36 AM
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This isn’t the “gotcha” that you think it is. It is already not socially normal for strangers to cold approach each other. It hasn’t been normal to go “hey hottie!” To a stranger at the park in like 40+ years. Even before dating apps, people would meet each other in social environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:34 AM
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<image> Saying women are falling apart at 46 is quite hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:31 AM
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These women happen to be the most attractive women, and already taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:19 AM
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Yes as a woman I am pro having a body cam on me at all times
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:17 AM
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What they classify as wholesome might not wholesome for you. So you’re saying men find anal wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:14 AM
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So you only like taken women because they are more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:07 PM
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(That starts in the 40’s) Lmfao Men are really something else. And you basically said women your age emasculate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:01 PM
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Regardless most do attack older. And younger men CONSTANTLY tell older women online that all they are good for is casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:59 PM
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I have been on the internet since grade school and there was NEVER a time when men didn’t call women old hags.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:34 PM
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No they aren’t. You just are not getting the matches you believe you deserve and don’t want to approach anyone IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:34 PM
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We 30 something year old women know that our age matches, 30 something year old men consider us “old” and expired and post wall. They only want women ages 18-25 and get angsty when the women they called dried up old hags get provoked after they insult us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:11 PM
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No it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:09 PM
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https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/CFHm2z8rhM Considering that you call this woman a 6 when she objectively is younger and better looking than like 90% of women indicates that you probably are serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:04 PM
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conventionally attractive, thin, and under 30 better looking than like 90% of women 6
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:03 PM
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Male hypergamy in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:03 PM
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I am not delusional. I know it’s an exaggeration. But already the guy is saying she’s not extremely hot and a lot of the self proclaimed average men here find her average too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:02 PM
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Yes also they tend to grossly over estimate now good the man looks and grossly underestimate how good the woman looks!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 07:02 PM
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<image> When men say they want their looksmatch, this is what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:10 PM
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<image> not extremely hot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:08 PM
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LOOKSMATCH! Shrieks the PPD man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:06 PM
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Show me a fact that super liking means the guy wants a serious relationship and not casual sex or a placeholder
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:14 PM
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That’s literally if she doesn’t exercise at all and just sits all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:00 PM
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Oh yes I should go for the homeless men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:36 PM
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<image> 94.2% of men according to this calculator. These are extremely bare minimum standards yet only 5.8% of the male population can fill them. It has men from 4 feet tall to 8 feet tall who make over $50k a year and are unmarried and ages 25 to 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:32 PM
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No but eating 1200-1500 calories a day for an extensive period of time is harder than working 90 hours per week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:25 PM
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Moving the goalposts. You agree now that most men find most women unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:24 PM
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https://keeper.ai/calc Put the “reasonable standards” men have here. Let’s see what percentage of all women meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:50 PM
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However, that is justification for finding them unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:50 PM
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https://keeper.ai/calc Pray tell show me what reasonable preferences men have and what percentage of women meet those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:50 PM
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https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2022-56917-001
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:48 PM
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Shan’t be gaslit. It isn’t an attack to call you out. I didn’t say what you personally find these women unattractive but that men in general personally find these women unattractive. Which is most women. Men gaslight and say “well that’s because it’s a choice”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:36 PM
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<image> Dating preferences and age from the OKCupid study. Men prefer the youngest they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:19 PM
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<image> Part 4 You agree that men virtue signal and are much more superficial than they claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:19 PM
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<image> Even you prove me right here. You are sugar coating men’s superficiality by saying that they give attention and validation to the women they want to pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:17 PM
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<image> If men don’t lie about it or sugar coat it then why am I being accused of “attacking men” by your fellow men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:15 PM
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<image> “It’s an attack against men to say most women are too fat to be attractive to them!!” “I know most women don’t have a BMI under 25 but it’s their choice to be unattractive!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:15 PM
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Copied and pasted from my other comments Source: https://realitycalc.com Population of women ages 18-85: 129.1 million Number of women ages 18-29 who are not overweight nor obese and who are unmarried with no kids: 4.68 million 4.68 million out of 129.1 million = 3.6% The website got rid of the specific numbers. Probably because women like me held the creators accountable and they resented that we did so. Men are the ones who don’t want 96.4% of women. ATP it’s copypasta but it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:13 PM
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<image> Part 3: Even you say being fat is a choice therefore it’s justified to find women unattractive for having a BMI over 25 News flash: Most women do not have a BMI under 25 and most women are older than 30. This isn’t an attack on men. Even you agree that you find most women unattractive because “it’s a choice”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:13 PM
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Part 2: Copied and pasted from my other comments Source: https://realitycalc.com Population of women ages 18-85: 129.1 million Number of women ages 18-29 who are not overweight nor obese and who are unmarried with no kids: 4.68 million 4.68 million out of 129.1 million = 3.6% The website got rid of the specific numbers. Probably because women like me held the creators accountable and they resented that we did so. Men are the ones who don’t want 96.4% of women. ATP it’s copypasta but it is what i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:11 PM
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<image> Part 1: here are your fellow men agreeing with me from this exact thread. Men find most women attractive as long as those women are BMI below 25 and age below 30 News flash; that isn’t most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:09 PM
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Just because you can change it doesn’t mean that most people aren’t overweight. Most women are unattractive to most men because of BMI or age. I keep saying this over and over again and men keep gaslighting me and saying “well that’s true but most men find most women attractive but having a high BMI is a choice so we find most women attractive as long as their BMI is below 25 and they are young”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:06 PM
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So you agree that men virtue signal and lie. That they don’t find most women attractive. 40 year old men don’t want 40 year old women. They want 18-25 or 18-30 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:05 PM
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Oh yes they are. My dad worked 3 jobs, about 90 hours a week, for the majority of my life. If he can do it, most men can too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:04 PM
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It’s a general trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:52 PM
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Most women do not have a bmi below 25
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:11 AM
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Super liking means nothing. Men use women they find unattractive for casual sex and as placeholders all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:31 AM
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“You’re framing a ‘gotcha’ here” Literally the top post <image> It isn’t drivel to repeat what men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:30 AM
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No men act like saying women prioritize looks is a gotcha. Every day on this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:29 AM
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SLIGHTLY is the key word If her BMI is over 25, men find her disgusting. We literally have 19-21 BMI guy posting daily and BMI is a daily point of contention in this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:29 AM
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Poverty is also a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:15 AM
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As long as those body types are under 30 years old and have a BMI below 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:47 AM
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It is based on what men say they find desirable. Young thin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:47 AM
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Old men don’t want their age range. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:13 AM
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Men are not attractive to plump or older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:59 PM
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99% of men claim to find most women attractive when they only find 3% of women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:58 PM
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expects women to completely transform their lifestyle to be attractive won’t do the same to earn a higher income
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:58 PM
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Men claim they find most women attractive. They love to virtue signal. But the reality is that most women are too old or fat for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:57 PM
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most men find most women attractive VIRTUE SIGNALING This is objectively not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:24 PM
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So you discriminate on age and weight lmfao. Most women aren’t young.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:22 PM
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But you agree most women aren’t hot to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:18 PM
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Men here claim that they find 80% of women attractive in the strive when in reality they only find 3% of women attractive. Most women aren’t hot enough for most men, but men virtue signal and insist otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:17 PM
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Why do men virtue signal and claim to find everyone attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:57 PM
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Why do men think it’s a gotcha?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:56 PM
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Rule 1 for women: be attractive Rule 2 for women: don’t be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:05 PM
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They aren’t on their way out. Look how any time a plus size woman posts about her clothes on Instagram men rush to call her disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:49 PM
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So looks above everything for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:49 PM
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Describing being a gooner as “men doing things they love”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:48 PM
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Would you date her though?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:48 PM
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So you wouldn’t appreciate her effort if she had a big belly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:45 PM
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Women are constantly taught that if they don’t cook, clean, or (most importantly) stay thin, attractive, and young looking, men will never want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:45 PM
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Look at how popular cooking with Kaya is. Men love seduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:43 PM
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What if she’s fat and unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:43 PM
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What if she’s fat and unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:43 PM
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Proving my point, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:46 PM
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I am explaining what men tell women. It’s not just red pill men. It’s our fathers, brothers, friends, and the manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:53 AM
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No based on men logic women don’t want variety so bisexual women aren’t tempted to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:56 AM
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Have you seen this subreddit? They needed to allocate n count talks to a weekly thread because men were shaming women for body counts so much. There are Kevin Samuels fan pages and similar all over social media where women are ridiculed for having a high body count by men. <image> Here is an example of how the average man behaves online. Women are called “washed up” “ran through” “used up” and “worthless” by men if they have a high n count. Constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:14 AM
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You are moving the goalposts, changing the subject, and are deflecting. The point is that you consider non virgin women less valuable. You believe male sexuality contaminates women. Therefore, male sexuality, by your logic, is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:55 PM
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Pro life is a completely different topic. You are moving the goal posts. A pro life person isn’t always sitting around saying that they believe virgin women are more valuable than non virgin women. Pro life people believe that aborting a fetus is the same as killing a baby. You also are changing the topic again with the #killallmen stuff. You also don’t see yourself as her first choice because she isn’t a virgin and you aren’t her first partner. Fact: you said non virgin women deserve worse trea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:37 PM
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Men tell us all the time that they are only as loyal as their options. Time and time again, men tell us that if we don’t want to be cheated on, we have to go with a guy who has less options. See attached image for proof of what men say. <image> Bisexual men have more options to cheat because they have an entire extra gender of people to choose from. Since male nature is to cheat, according to men, women get nervous that bisexual men will cheat. Also as a disclaimer I am not saying this is true. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:52 PM
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Moving the goalposts. SOME WOMEN slut shame, but for every woman who slut shames, there are a THOUSAND MEN who compare non virgin women to boogers and trash. You very clearly state that you would give your best self to a virgin. This is because she isn’t contaminated by male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:27 PM
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She isn’t bargaining anything When men tell us “no hymen, no diamond” and “virgin women are higher value” and call women ran through, slut, etc. then we get scared of having sex with them and being degraded by their sexuality. Even you compare dating/ marrying women who aren’t virgins to eating boogers and explicitly say that you would treat a virgin better. <image> It’s clear to me that you believe that male sexuality contaminates women and makes them disgusting. Meaning male sexuality is disgr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:09 PM
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https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/drive-thru-goonicide Literally a group of men came and had a vigil for him at the bikini bar
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:38 PM
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What is your healthy BMI
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:29 PM
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That’s the typical male response
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:15 PM
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She didn’t get sympathy. She is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:14 PM
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No it would be a guy whose girlfriend goes on Facebook dating behind his back and tells him it’s a “social experiment” and he allows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:04 PM
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Just like 19-21 BMI guy fawns over women with a 19-21 BMI who ignore him but turns his nose up at women who have a BMI of 23 who would date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:04 PM
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Women also worked in the 1950’s as well. https://www.2020centennial.org/what-were-womens-rights-in-the-1950s/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:49 PM
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Only rich women were SAHM’s or worked part time my friend. Women have always worked, and often difficult jobs like factory work or being a servant 6 days a week 14 hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:27 PM
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Women were already part of the workforce. Women have always worked. It’s delusional to think that women weren’t a part of the workforce before feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:21 PM
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No matter how much I talk to my child, I would not support him writing bitter and angry rants about how awful women are on the internet. There is no excuse and it isn’t lack of empathy or compassion to say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:06 PM
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Women do go through similar challenges all the time and stay in shitty marriages for the sake of their children. You should have empathy for them considering what you went through.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:23 AM
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Women also work too. Most women aren’t homemakers or housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:16 AM
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O…K? It’s 2025. Most married women who are moms WORK just like their husbands. Not an excuse to not do housework. On the passport bros subreddit a guy was bashing western women as lazy because his single mom worked two jobs yet cooked homemade meals from scratch every day for her kids and kept the home clean. If women can work more than full time and keep a home clean and cook, men can too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:16 AM
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Sorry you went through that. But if the gender was flipped, men would tell the woman it’s her fault because she willingly ignored red flags because the guy was so hot. For example, when you lost your virginity to her and she mocked you for it, you should have left.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:05 AM
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First of all, you’re making a personal attack. Second of all, the police are not the only people who hold others accountable. Source: https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-hold-someone-accountable Third of all, I am conservative. Conservative women don’t take kindly to men who hate women. It isn’t “conservative” to bash women. Fourth of all, you never make any rebuttal. It’s hateful to assume that men who pay prostitutes are victims when they are degenerates and sexual predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:55 AM
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No one is “policing your thoughts”. Did I say that you are not allowed to say what I want? Call for you to go to jail? No. I simply am holding you accountable. If you want to be snarky and sarcastic, prepare to be called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 10:49 PM
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So you agree that it’s not compassionate. You accuse women of rejecting average looking guys who treat them like a queen. That is accusing them of being superficial. There is no compassionate way to say that. It’s hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 10:48 PM
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And they are “post wall”, reflecting hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 10:47 PM
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What specifically is compassionate here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:58 PM
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You said that men’s standards exclude a significant number of women over age 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:56 PM
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