PracticalKoala Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
56	I [28M] am trying to leave nine years of RP beliefs behind		PracticalKoala	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/18 12:08 PM

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5	Painting a picture of my LTRs past ¨So I think it’s more of getting to a place of letting this go.¨ I think you have your answer right there.	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/19 09:32 PM
13	Painting a picture of my LTRs past Here´s the thing: You can either decide to trust her or not to trust her. You can ask her about it sure, but if you distrust her answer not matter what she says it does not matter. Either trust her and stay in the relationship, or hold on to your doubts and run away from it. Your choice.	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/19 04:26 PM
2	Can someone explain why this is wrong Why is it wrong? Well first of all welfare isn´t everything. So assuming everything else is true, whatever a man can provide can still be very helpful. The income of the man would gather some extra income for the child´s upbringing, and they would certainly value that. Second: You can try it. Test it out. Say that you are not gonna split every exspense that is made for the sake of the relationship. Say it on first dates. I have done so and my experience from this is that women generally do car…	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/19 08:24 PM
1	TRP has ruined my opinions of men since age 17. I've tried detoxing, but nothing works. There are things that help IMO: Time: At some point the memories of the people who hurt you, as well as the memories of these hateful views can be forgotten. You have to see everything in perspective, and not dating for a long time was huge for me. A good experience with the opposite sex: This involves actually opening yourself up again and then having a relationship with a man that you find valuable. You say you have good male friends. They are no exceptions to the rule, the basically prove tha…	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/19 10:05 AM
2	I hope this is the right place to ask, but, can I have some advice? Basically it means not changing your thoughts or behavior at all despite how she responds. It is essentially a way to be dominant/masculine yes. I do check for things like emotional instability, dishonesty/playing games, pushing commitment, pushing financial investment, pushing pregnancy/unsafe sex.	/r/ExRedPill	17/12/18 05:35 PM
2	I hope this is the right place to ask, but, can I have some advice? Some of the things that stood out to me: - Women can like me for who I am, or at least put up with it: I have been dating and tried to be really vulnerable and real about it. Anytime I thought ¨should I say this?¨ I said it. So I told them some of my baggage and this should have made them run for the hills from a red pill/pua point of view, but they did not. I have the same (or even better) results with women. Nothing changed in that regard. - ¨Female nature¨ can actually be up for debate (to …	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/18 05:06 PM
3	I hope this is the right place to ask, but, can I have some advice? Well if you assume anything, at least attempt to verify it with your own observations. I was in the MGTOW community for a long time and it definitely messed with my perception of women, once I started to really verify it on my own quite a bit of it was just plain wrong.	/r/ExRedPill	14/12/18 08:39 PM
2	Having problems keeping a neutral perspective on women and marriage. I would say that this definitely can happen, and is happening in a lot of marriages today. The MGTOW perspective does not come out of nowhere. It is founded in many anecdotes and real experiences of men. However, there is no reason to be dogmatic about it. Just because you marry a woman does not mean she will turn your life into a nightmare. It is just not that simple. It depends on the woman, you, the relationship, the cultural and social environment, etc. etc. A lot of factors play into this…	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/18 07:42 PM
7	I [28M] am trying to leave nine years of RP beliefs behind Thank you for putting so much time in that lengthy response. I met the girl on a dating site which let´s you write a long bio. That gives at least a little more insight. Some girls do it, and I don´t message girls who don´t write one, precisely for the reasons you cited. If you just go by looks it becomes a choice problem indeed. I don´t go to clubs/bars to meet someone as some girls there are drunk/tipsy, and most girls there are also partygirls I have had experience with them over the years …	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/18 03:35 PM
3	I [28M] am trying to leave nine years of RP beliefs behind Thanks, I´ll take a look at it.	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/18 01:51 PM
0	When you take a concept that involves people with narcissistic/personality disorders and spin it in your own fashion to fit your idea of most women..... Did I miss something? Did he actually say that most women do this? He was very nuanced in this explanation. He mentioned this is a rare type of behavior. He said he was theory crafting. He said men do it too, he said this is particularly something women with personality disorders do, he said other women can do it too. He said to be cautious, because it is possible this can happen. There are many videos out there it the red pill community which are way too simplistic and dogmatic about women, but…	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/18 10:42 AM