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| 6 | My friend dates the girl I approachedLesson learned. OGs we used to put phone number on napkins, or wrote it on our hands. Always bring a pen with you, if not your phone. Or get your friend to get the pen for you. If nothing else, you should've gotten the phone number from your friend right away and have been responsible for getting the date. Chin up, we learn these lessons the hard way | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone flirt based on Menstrual cycle?That's not conducive to high volume which beats the whole notion of needing to think about ovulation cycles. 9 million percent disagree. People think it's just a numbers game in terms of attraction but if you do it enough AND if you learn the IOIs it makes any cold approach warmer. Go ahead and knock on closed doors but if the doors are open I'll walk through it | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone flirt based on Menstrual cycle?Again, it still applies: "They hide this a bit more when single but subtle signs are there once you know how to read it" | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 04:31 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone flirt based on Menstrual cycle?Lots of haters in this sub my friend, just ignore the trolls | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone flirt based on Menstrual cycle?Lmao I was skeptical too, then my past girlfriends always wanted to jump my bones right during ovulation. They would behave much differently. They hide this a bit more when single but subtle signs are there once you know how to read it | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 04:19 AM |
| 1 | best city in America for finding women to date as a guyRight? It really sounds like he's drawn to Miami to live not just to find women. Living in Seattle, seems like he deserves some more sun these days | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 05:10 PM |
| -3 | best city in America for finding women to date as a guyRe-posting my response since I added a lot more to it: Dude if you're a Hapa you're either good looking or not. There's no in between lol Chances are the former so you don't have to worry about geography, heck you can be in Alabama. Just work on your game, stay in relative shape, and self confidence. And I'm emphasizing self confidence. Getting out of Seattle during the winter and getting some sun will probably help a lot there. I don't listen to ANYONE about ratio. I've attended events with a h… | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Need tips for pursuing this girl from sports classHey, I’m gonna grab a coffee/drink or eat lunch, wanna join me, i’d like to chat a bit with you” Simple as that, OP | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | The one belief that turned me from “nice guy with female friends” into the guy actually fucking themBecause it's well summarized, ironically enough (if actually written by AI) lol | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Dark brown guy in getting ladies in clubsMy friend was suggesting me to change my style of dressing, but I prefer to dress simple and dancing seems to not my thing as well. Well then, what are you doing in a Club? You can go to pubs to achieve the same thing if you want to be much more casual, and not dance | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Went to a rave partyThe fridge here is the friend that tries to always block out advancements Ah yes I call those the mother hens if they're the protective mamas of the group. Just curious: What made you decide to walk away (brilliant move) instead of engaging the friend and getting her (or his) buy-in of you? Is it because the friend tried to pull her away, tried to aggressively block you, or is it just the music? I know when I'm in a bar or somewhere public and I want to get to know a woman in the group, I would … | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Where do lone gym rats like me (M29) go out to meet girls? I need day-game ideas.Keep your headphones off In between sets when you're really focusing, make sure you smile and lose any "resting bitch face" you may have. Keep that up each time you go to the gym, makes you look like you're having a good time, it'll pique the interest of people around you. When you pass by them, make a quick connection by commenting on little things, crack a joke etc If no one usually looks up, keep #2 and #3 up. I mean you're doing what you love- so might as well be excited by it! Just genuinel… | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Where do lone gym rats like me (M29) go out to meet girls? I need day-game ideas.CrossFit gym, weight lifting team, and/or Hyrox gym That's a great point! I like working out with other people and I haven't done that much since I have my own gym routine. I totally forgot about it, and it's a great way to make friends and also have the same common interests and more of there's mutual interest | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Where do lone gym rats like me (M29) go out to meet girls? I need day-game ideas.OP I usually don't approach at the gym, but since you're there all the time, you might see other fellow gym rats around you. I would just be friendly and start saying hi to your other gym rats regulars - neighbors really - both men and women so to be friendly. See what comes out of that, as long as you're not aggressively flirting, just being friendly, to l you might make a friend or more. | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Went to a rave partySuddenly, the fridge protects the snack, Wait...I thought I was understanding your figure of speech/euphemism Until... The fridge was gone, and I gave her the drink. Kinda confused, can you explain? Also I'm appreciating your share! I love to dance myself and haven't been to enough raves lately, I'm appreciating you highlighting the things (exaggerating smiles, positive vibes, etc) needed to communicate in this environment. | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 04:59 PM |
| 3 | How do you react when another guy uses you to score pointsBonus points with the women if it's funny and slightly clever | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Learning seduction improved overall quality of life.Read the book No More Mr Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover | /r/seduction | 05/12/25 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Dilemma of SeductionIf you're faking it until you make it - it's artificial and it feels like you're pulling strings. If you're naturally attracted to the person and relaxed and confident in yourself, it's like you're naturally engaging with them without even thinking about it | /r/seduction | 05/12/25 09:35 PM |
| 30 | I'm devastated and hopelessI'm absolutely not fully over it Thank you for your honesty. I had a super strong feeling you aren't given the results lol, but wasn't sure if you were going to be defensive. Kudos for being not and being honest. If you've given advise here before, you know women can intuitively sense when you're still not over a breakup. Just like when they can sense when you're in a happy relationship and want to jump your bones lol. Aside from being really rusty in your approach, you have this mental block wh… | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 02:43 AM |
| 45 | I'm devastated and hopelessI recently came out of a 4 year relationship with an stunning gf Are you FULLY over your relationship? If you've given advise before you may still need to fully complete the separation from that relationship to be fully back in the game. | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 02:35 AM |
| 1 | How I turned Instagram story replies into 4 dates this month"Cute dog. A shame the owner's doesn't look so behaved." Oh this is good, this is really good! 🏆 Take it from someone who hasn't met anyone who has better DM / text /email game than himself (I was really shy and it was easy for me to hide behind the keyboard before I learned actual in person game, which honed my text/dm game first) give that trophy to you | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Concept of bringing value instead of taking value.Is this strictly a cold approach sub? Maybe warm approach might work better. Because the initial cold approach is simply catching an and keeping her attention. After that that's when you demonstrate value (although by simply approaching a woman there's already a little bit of value there). Without seeing what you look like AND your game, I can't comment too much specific to you. But once you have her attention then you have a couple minutes to build value. It looks like you're not getting to tha… | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are 'mode1' super direct on your approach?This is incorrect and this lacks basic knowledge of basic animal attraction. They don't THINK about it (like men do because men operate more on logic), but innately, intuitively it's there even if they don't acknowledge it verbally. | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are 'mode1' super direct on your approach?The moment you show patience and (even if fake) some curiosity about them as a human they will make the process much more easier for you 100% agree. However you gotta flirt in some way or else it's a fast way to get to their friend zone. So yes, Express interest into them as a human being 100%, listen and have a conversation, but also flirt and express interest. Because that's being more honest on yourself (unless you genuinely only want to be friends with the woman you're talking to) and once y… | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 06:23 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are 'mode1' super direct on your approach?Women cannot decide the moment they see you How do you know this? This is completely counter to every single biology response out there on feminine attraction. They KNOW within the first minute of meeting you if they want you in their bed, in their friend zone, or nothing to do with you. Learning game is getting rid of your own behavior that puts you in the friend zone and tilting the odds to you favor and (possibly) changing her assumptions about you. | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or is Chicago not that great for day/night game?Without knowing more details I really wouldn't generalize. Timing, tactics, location, level of directness, etc LA tends to attract more creative energy by it's nature- but you go to parts of the valley, or place where there's a lot of locals, and it feels more like Chicago. So I really wouldn't generalize. I've lived in both places. It seems like you might need to make some adjustments based on geography. I guess that's my long way of saying "No, I don't agree" | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me or is Chicago not that great for day/night game?however I felt like I had more luck with women in LA then I did in Chicago, when I thought Chicago would be an improvement over LA We're going to need more details. How is it different for you? What kind of game are you going to pull? You mentioned day and night game, what and where are you trying to pull? Chicago is huge and each neighborhood is different (like LA) but it's definitely more Midwestern | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 08:47 AM |
| 4 | Women full of themselves?Thanks for understanding man! The best way to find out is to keep dating! It's easy to generalize, but there are great options out there, you just gotta keep dating to get experience, and get confidence in who you are, what you want to offer to the women out there that's unique to you, and your tastes. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 08:28 PM |
| 33 | Women full of themselves?You can't generalize like that. What you got there my friend was a bad first date. Some people are more into themselves, others are more into others, most people are in the middle. We went out and instead posting about how nice the date was she said something about “loving her fur jacket” Plus if you're at the stage where you're still seeking validation (assuming this is a first or second date), you need more self esteem work first. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 08:24 PM |
| 1 | What’s the Best Way to Avoid Relationship Energy When You Only Want Casual?Without knowing who you are, if you say you've never needed confidence then you probably have the confidence already. Also it might depend to graphically - I've only sarged and big cities where women have lots of options. That said, I had a friend who's like a 7 but his confidence pushed him to a 9, and he had women lining up for him | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 08:21 PM |
| 1 | What’s the Best Way to Avoid Relationship Energy When You Only Want Casual?You would be absolutely surprised my friend. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 08:08 PM |
| 1 | What’s the Best Way to Avoid Relationship Energy When You Only Want Casual?If you truly have options, then there's nothing wrong with letting them know you're not looking for anything serious at the moment when they ask. Sure, you will lose a few women that truly are only looking for LTR but trust me if the rest of the women are truly attracted to you they will move other things aside to be with you. Even if they have a boyfriend (not all of them, but a good amount). | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | What’s the Best Way to Avoid Relationship Energy When You Only Want Casual?Not true. I sarged with s couple of guys, one looked like that muscular Asian bad guy from the first Fast and Furious (the one that got Narc'd on), and another one that could attract work easily based on Both of them still needed confidence at various phases. Anyone can look good, but women can smell confidence. This works that other way too: you can be blatantly average but confidence goes a very long way for women. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 08:01 PM |
| 4 | Older woman glazing me at workcuz ya boy been in the dungeon Got married? | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 05:35 AM |
| 11 | Situational openers are the best way to start convos with women. Change my mindWhat's the difference between situational vs observation? Or is it same? | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Had an Odd Interaction Last NightYou goofed up by forgetting you already approached her previously. Even if this was true, it's totally saveable. I found that the best way to defuse the situation as by calling it out. In this case I would have said "I KNEW you looked familiar!! Where are my manners?" with a big smile while making welcoming eye contact with both her and her friend, to take quick ownership of the situation and stay in frame. Obviously if that woman still thinks you're an asshole after that, and like the comment a… | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 01:08 AM |
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