PracticeOne5941 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
48	Average guys are expected to abide different rules when it comes to dating Pretty privilege exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 06:07 PM
–	What are the signs a woman is only into a guy for his looks? Yup I’ve learned what seems to work now and I don’t really have serious conversations with ladies anymore I just keep it surface level and bantery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 06:06 PM
3	Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time? Ahhh but that’s the issue. At some point people started pathologizing all this normal stuff. So while I agree with you it’s not that weird. I feel the need to share my perspective that if a guy said this exact same thing to his group of female friends I have a feeling they would be advising him not to do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 04:15 PM
4	Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time? And I’ve heard people compare that to stalking. Look if you think it’s okay that’s cool maybe it shouldn’t be so socially unacceptable, but I think currently the prevailing narrative is that this is a strange thing to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 04:06 PM
1	Have you ever benefited from gender-specific privileges? I mean I’m relatively physically formidable. Other than that I work in a female dominated industry I’ve had mostly female managers. I was raised by women to not be the kind of guy who has no emotional intelligence and doesn’t know how to cook or do laundry. So I honestly cannot really relate to all the narratives about typical male privilege. I’m handsome and white, that’s where I feel like I’ve had some unfair advantages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 04:01 PM
2	Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportive It’s not helpful that any ally ship towards a guy automatically lumps you in with right wing red pill psychos. Like if I back some unfortunate guy who’s having trouble getting laid I get a lot of pushback. Pushback is a very gentle word. Vitriol might be better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 03:29 PM
1	Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportive I do back my bros. Til the wheels fall off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 03:25 PM
1	Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time? Disregard the argument, attack virility. The old PPD bad faith 1-2 combination.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 03:22 PM
5	Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time? I guess you’re right, it’s just learning a persons habits and then placing yourself opportunistically in the path of a persons habits so that you can interact with them….	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 03:15 PM
1	Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time? I think you need to always be interacting with them in a certain way. From the start there needs to be a little banter and flirtation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 02:55 PM
3	Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time? Completely disagree that stalking your neighbor is an effective strategy for courtship. I agree that you can use familiarity to help you though. Creating opportunities through pub league sports or acquaintances met through friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 02:54 PM
6	What are the signs a woman is only into a guy for his looks? As a handsome guy who is also a total nerd I can tell because as soon as I start talking about my job and hobbies I can see the fantasy draining out of their minds. Ohhhhhh fuck this guys personality does not match his appearance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 09:12 PM
3	Some guys really need to sexualize interactions with women more That’s the thing though. My whole life nobody ever counseled balance like you’re saying. Maybe some women do like passive polite dudes but having used both strategies it works better IMO to be a bold, rakish, cad. With all kinds, not just dockside harlots.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 08:07 PM
–	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 Brother you are so seen. I feel you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 07:09 PM
2	Some men should become better if they want to date women. They should do the same thing as them I agree self improvement is a perennial goal we should all strive for. My pushback is that you can turn yourself into a very impressive, successful, loner this way. I know that being handsome and successful helped me get laid when I had no game, but having those things AND learning to be a little more proactive in flirting and dating really increased my success rate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 06:38 PM
1	What alternatives to therapy would you like society to provide? I think there’s a misconception that all therapists are left wing psychos who will push you down that path of thinking. I’ve had a few different therapists at this point and have had a couple who you would think are not going to give a shit about men’s problems but they were very fair and understanding and in no way made me feel like I’m a jerk for complaining about the things we complain about here. In some cases they were 100% supportive and I was very surprised that a lady therapist would be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 05:28 PM
3	The “Nice guy” is a loser to most men. I don’t think like that at all. I see a guy who’s bigger than me it makes me want to work out. I see a guy who’s smaller than me I want to remind him that there’s different kinds of fitness and that I couldn’t run a marathon like he does. Furthermore I think nice guy is a BS term. If you mean meek ,duplicitous, and opportunistic. Then say that. As it stands I think a lot of nice guys are not duplicitous, meek, or opportunistic. I think they just need to learn some nuance around “rules” they were…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 05:20 PM
3	CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining dating This is nonsense. We gotta be more fair about this stuff. I’m perfectly willing to admit that dating for women must be scary. So why is it so hard to admit the complicated situation that puts modern men in. You really cannot know if a little playful flirting is going to make someone feel in danger for their life or maybe they fancy you. That’s a huge hurdle for guys who actually care about being a good person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 05:07 PM
5	Some guys really need to sexualize interactions with women more What do you consider normal flirting? Because I think there’s a little cognitive dissonance among ladies about what’s normal or not. For instance one time I told a group of female friends a pick up line that worked for me and they all said how wrong it was to use that pickup line… but the whole point was that it worked well… so like are the women who respond to me always dirt monsters who are no good? Or could it be that sometimes women give confusing and contradictory dating advice? I’m not wil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 04:55 PM
1	Some guys really need to sexualize interactions with women more I think the issue is this was never communicated with any form of balance. It was a hard “do not do that” look at this comment section. OP said “I’ve been having more luck since I stopped feeling so ashamed and just started slanging it” and all these people in here are like “that’s wrong”, “you ARE a creep” etc. except he states that he’s been experiencing more luck so… we don’t believe the women who actually appreciated the approach? Are they not people who’s perspectives count for something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 04:42 PM
4	Some guys really need to sexualize interactions with women more I think he was saying that it has worked for him, no? That it was kinda hit or miss but having more success than being super gentlemanly all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/25 04:36 PM
2	Therapy is harmful and doesn't actually help women. Men should not go to therapy. Well consider someone with the opposite problem. If you prioritize being a conciliator for your whole life that’s not brave or noble. That’s called being a doormat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 11:07 PM
4	Therapy is harmful and doesn't actually help women. Men should not go to therapy. Therapy has been good for me. Literally the only person in my entire life who ever said “maybe you should get mad and show it even if it scares people that’s not your responsibility to make them feel comfortable” rather than “whoaaaaaa chill out it’s not that big of a deal, you need to (banal stoic platitude)” he’s helped me become a more assertive man and stand against some of the issues we talk about here	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 09:31 PM
4	Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other away True we need to listen to each others perspectives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 09:07 PM
13	Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other away We should all be kinder to one another.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/25 05:59 PM