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You got to ask yourself some important questions, why are you being uptight/rude? Is it because you're having withdrawals? Is it because you are uncomfortable connecting with people? Why can't you be "loose" are you afraid you will get insulted, hurt, or say something people don't agree with? I could go on, point is you need to do some self reflection, recognize when you are being and uptight ahole and correct as necessary. It will happen over time if you want it and it will take some trial and …
/r/askTRP30/12/16 05:16 PM
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It's none of your place, only if he asks you your opinion tell him. Now if you have undeniable proof that she is fucking around and you know he is not cool with it then yeah you owe it to him to show him the proof.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 05:10 PM
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You are way to hung up on the aesthetic aspect of SMV. One of the biggest reasons women divorce men is because they feel like the men are not earning enough. I am not telling you this because you should get married or be monogamous but because it is rather telling, and that looks quite simply do not mean as much to women. Get in natural shape, dress decent, and don't give a fuck if you bald or not but maintain whatever hair you do keep. The hard part and more important part if you want to get la…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 04:11 AM
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I didn't intend to be nice or polite. Do you think it's nice or polite when you intentionally antagonize your own family? How does this petty shit even relate to TRP, what are you even asking advice for, are you trying to fuck your cousin? TRP is amoral but incest is still a bad idea physiologically, psychologically, and say good bye to any SMV you might of had.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:57 AM
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First of all you should always be looking for new work especially if you don't care for the job you are in. As for the other shit, set personal boundaries and if people over step that let them know, you don't have to be an asshole about it. For dealing with bosses and the politics of work relations you might want to read the 48 laws of power but one quick tip I can give is never be the one to present bad news but if you have too accept the responsibility for it.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:48 AM
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What's the best thing to do? Is there advice that you can give to understand the situation, that I may not have noticed or taken into consideration? You're a shit person with too much time on your hands.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:42 AM
1

That's utter bullshit. Some people get lucked into fame and like assholes winning the lottery they usually lose it or destroy themselves.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:37 AM
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It doesn't help your post history also has you asking for the best date rape drug. You must be a troll or just an absolute living pile of shit, jump off a bridge.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:18 AM
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You don't need to apologize for shit. Personally I don't waste time meeting family, there is to much potential baggage, and it shows a high level of commitment. You seem to be in a case of complacency, you don't want commitment but you are not actively searching for new poon and are slowly being pushed into things you don't want to do. Being that you're young I would just phase this chick out and forget about the whole thing but if you insist on having these talks(there will be more, and more de…
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:12 AM
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Congrats but no one cares about your humble braggin shit.
/r/askTRP24/12/16 06:22 AM
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If you have to ask, no.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 01:48 AM
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One indian guy i knew years ago was at a party talking to a chick. I knew the guys who were his friends and they were celebrating about the fact he was talking to an attractive chick. I later on found out he was talking to her about anime. What a fucking dweeb. Why do you look down upon any of that? Friends celebrating there friend is leaving his comfort zone is something to be ashamed of? Why do you care what he talked about and how does being about anime matter, maybe she brought it up? Stop s…
/r/askTRP30/11/16 02:50 AM
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Maybe but being reliant on alcohol for anything is generally a bad idea.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 03:54 AM
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The drinking question was a yes or no. If you still are, I wouldn't touch it until you get over this issue. If it is just performance anxiety, then hold your load until your next performance and stop beating yourself up every time it doesn't happen, Practice your oral skills or some shit. If it keeps refusing to improve I would seek therapy, it could be some weird child hood shit manifesting and I am not a therapist able to deal with that kinda crap. Good luck brother.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 10:49 PM
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Let me get this straight, you are blaming your self induced flaccid dick for why you are not spinning plates? You are 21 now, are you still drinking? What is your life style like? What is causing you to feel so inadequate that you can't get a damn erection?
/r/askTRP28/11/16 10:37 PM
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Yeah sounds like you are giving up to much. Make information about you and time with you currency, and use it to trade for sex. Sounds crude but everything in life consists of transactions and you are giving up your profits easily so why shouldn't they hold out?
/r/askTRP27/11/16 05:26 AM
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What ever you want.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 05:19 AM
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Yeah maybe I am just being cynical.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:42 PM
1

Stop it right now. No more of this defeatism attitude. Burn those negative thoughts about yourself and don't assume an outcome or you are destined to fail. Secondly do not get hung up on having sex, work on just enjoying your time and enjoying her. Sex will happen naturally but you have to be in a natural state of enjoyment first. Just go with your instincts dude don't over think it.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:39 PM
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Is this a humble brag or a search for validation?
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:33 PM
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I just started doing this so I can chime in a bit. I usually get invited to bars/party's where there is a lot of drinking, by now a lot of people know I am not drinking so it doesn't really come up but when I started I simply said "I am taking a break" usually people drop it therebut if they press for a reason I just tell em because I felt like one. I think there is a bit of a stereotype that people get offended by this, and maybe insecure people do but I haven't really seen anyone give a shit y…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:30 PM
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No one cares about you dude. Accept that and move on.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:18 PM
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Great answer. No matter how you phrase it or if it is from an honest place it appears as if your well is drying up.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:16 PM
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This. Also, one T test is not a very good representation. Your T levels shift constantly throughout the day.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:14 PM
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I think the bigger issue is plastering the accused name and information all over the damn country.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 04:13 PM
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It's a balancing act, you don't need to be one or the other all the time.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 01:33 PM
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You have two options: Continue to cry because the world has lied to you and formed you into a sucker or Accept the world's nature is not on your side and begin doing what it takes to fix the damage it has done.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 02:11 PM
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No, you are wrong to think just cold approaching without a social circle when your old is going to work, you will just be an old creepy guy. As you get older you want POWERFUL social circles, not just the ones old people hangout in, or young girls hangout in. Ones that control the world you live in, the media you see, the laws you follow.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 09:13 PM
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Look at it as more of a supplement or a boost. A man being the main man where ever he goes, party's, diners, the store, and is greeted and looked upon by everyone does not need to maintain social media. Social media however can be a tool used in order to become one of those men.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 08:52 PM
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Your inability to see past a man talking about a man and your conclusion that it's in a homosexual nature is what's weird.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 06:00 PM
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Is DDP like a youtube series? If it is I would highly recommend going to an actual yoga class for at least the first few months, one where they take the time to correct your form. It is very easy to think you are doing yoga, or any kind of movement for that matter, correctly when in fact your hips are not in the right position, your footing might be slightly off and so on. I can't recommend a particular style or gym as they differ greatly from place to place.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 06:25 PM
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Let's put values and morals aside. They are old and most likely unwilling to change, there fate is sealed and you should do what you can to remove yourself from their environment and if possible, while maintaining a good relationship with them. Don't sink with the ship my friend.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 05:30 PM
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I know the place you are at, you may need to cut him loose but you also need to let yourself loose. You need to drop these ideas about yourself, the expectations of the future, and just be yourself without concern and when you have down time make goals, accept you're going to make mistakes, and be proud when you do because, you did what you wanted to do and learned something. You will succeed my friend. "When you get what you want in your struggle for pelf, And the world makes you King for a day…
/r/askTRP20/09/16 12:27 AM
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Yeah it's pretty atrocious, and there's not much substance other than "there are no short cuts," which is a good reminder but the post could benefit from some examples.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 01:39 PM
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He may or may not feel haunted about it, depends on him as an individual and his culture. What he needs to know is that he is not responsible, he did not choose the hand he was dealt and should feel no guilt. Understanding this does not mean you have personality disorder.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 07:32 PM
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Then tough it out. Be 100% foucs on YOUR goals. Set boundaries and for the love of your sanity don't feel guilty. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty. Best of luck mate.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 07:25 PM
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I think you answered your own question, if you are truly displaying you are not ready to settle down then they are not going to see you as a beta provider. Furthermore they only begin to run when their personnel market is drying up, if they are still good looking and plenty of dudes are still hitting them up, what's the rush to find mr right?
/r/askTRP05/09/16 02:56 PM
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Thank you for the well thought out response. That's a great mindset to have and I am going to work on adopting it.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 02:43 PM
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How are these replies working out for yeah?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 03:02 AM
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You joke but if they had their way 30 days wouldn't suffice.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 11:00 PM
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A lot of the time women are the only ones who can deescalate the situation and they feel a responsibility to do so because like others have said they get a pussy pass and for the most part men will never hit them besides the extreme rare occassions. It is also usually in there best interest to keep there partner/friends from getting hurt or in trouble.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 10:19 PM
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This is a great straight to the point post.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 10:10 PM
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Your style will never change any ones mind and if someones on the fence they wont be jumping to your side anytime soon. If you're not just looking for a cause to half heartily fight for so you can feel like a good person and actually want to make a difference, you would learn a style that can change peoples minds and learn how to properly debate. But hey, at least you got that net positive karma.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 10:01 PM
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This is something I struggle with, how do you go about making people subtly rely on you?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 09:13 PM
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You need to learn some manners Mr. You're sounding a bit like an angry feminist.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 08:33 PM
1

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/r/becomeaman02/09/16 12:27 AM
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"k"
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:09 PM
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You should proceed by not being her emotional tampon...
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:08 PM
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That's not projecting. Both of you are arguing over something completely dependent on the situation, culture, and individuals involved and has more than one correct answer.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 08:52 PM
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I would not care in the least bit.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 10:53 PM
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If you wait until you want to do something you are never going to complete your goals.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:01 PM
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Right... Ignore everyone's advice here and continue being a pathetic anti-social virgin. You clearly just want validation for your shitty behavior and don't want help.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:47 PM
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Sure, but if they provide nothing and only bring you down you have to be capable of letting them go.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:37 AM
2

I also do not feel an erection for casual relationship sex nor one night stands. I never had sex. I never dated. You see what I am seeing? How the hell could you know? Dude all this "what about STDS, I need to know her," shit is a way for you to keep staying in your comfort zone and validate your fear of rejection. You need to get out, you need to take risk. You avoid STD's by finding quality women, you find quality women by judging their character, you can't judge their character if you have no…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:34 AM
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Worst. Response. Ever.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:26 AM
3

Holy hell was that text cringe worthy, this is his only hope of getting laid and redeeming his man card. My god man.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:25 AM
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You shoulda answered the phone.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 04:59 AM
2

women do it So? We are not women, stop acting like it.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:52 AM
0

Let's pretend that's is true, why do you care? You shouldn't be doing things based on whether or not women approve it.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:45 AM
2

You are over thinking tinder if you need help with responses dude.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:38 AM
3

No, it's something timid people over exaggerate happening. If it does occur just shrug it off or move out of the way let them have there little win because clearly they have some insecurities that aren't worth the time.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:36 AM
1

Use the fight club approach. Get hit until you hit back. Start boxing, or kick boxing something where you are challenging yourself and have a clear opponent and do not stop until you win. Doesn't matter if it is against half retarded kid who knows how to box, just get some victories under your belt. To supplement that, if you know you are good at something, even things like math, start doing them. The point here is to build enough confidence where you can correct and challenge people in a field …
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:32 AM
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It was time, money, and effort wasted because you clearly still suck.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 01:25 AM
1

Obviously there is going to be somebody better than you somewhere. What you said was pointless and a way for you to feel better about yourself without actually doing anything.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 12:20 AM
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It's not a bad idea, letting her change the location is a bad idea. Should of told her more steak for me.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 12:14 AM
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You haven't read anything have you? Hit theredpill sidebar. how can you know you don't enjoy being around people if you have never had a social life? More than likely it's you don't enjoy the idea of people judging you negatively and are uncomfortable being yourself around other people. As for your actually question the answer is no, not even close to being to late.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 12:10 AM
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I knew the second I started reading this it was going to be, "Not my fault women don't want me it's genetics." You're not "redpilled" until you stop being a victim.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 12:02 AM
3

Haha cute, you're independent, have fun living up to your user name.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 09:28 PM
1

Yup, stop giving her easy access to you. Flirt with other women, make her want to please you.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 09:11 PM
4

That is up to you, your morals and the situation.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 09:08 PM
3

Yes, and no. Don't wait until you are fit to start meeting people because then you might unknowingly hold yourself back by having the excuse you are not fit enough even though you are. Instead make your current goal getting fit with a defined end date but also continue interacting with people everywhere, in line, the bank, where ever people are. Once you have reached your fitness goal make meeting new people your goal, also with a clear end point, makes notes on areas to improve and what have yo…
/r/askTRP14/08/16 09:07 PM
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Yes it is bad, something is missing from your understanding of human nature and instead of finding it you rather chalk it up to much work. "It's not worth my time", "I don't need them anyways", "Women aren't worth the effort", this shit is a constant thing here and it comes down to being lazy and not wanting to face reality. Get off your ass and stop moaning and groaning like a spoiled brat and do some work. This shit doesn't just apply to women either, it shows a major character flaw and how yo…
/r/askTRP14/08/16 09:00 PM
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Ok? So do you want advice or just permission to bitch? Ultimately, you need to change something about you, whether it is where you live, your social circles, or your attitude, you still need to do work. Or you know, just continue being miserable and bitch, I don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 08:54 PM
3

Of course a good father helps, he is the model of what she will be looking for in a partner. This is a well known fact and is in several development and psychology books. Sometimes though, no matter how good of a father the daughter is just a shitty daughter/person.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 08:49 PM
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I uhm, I think you might need to take a break from this place. You got some sick days saved up, it's ok I will let the boss know.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 07:52 AM
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It helps people fall asleep but what they don't realize is that it actually reduces REM sleep.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 07:37 AM
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This is a great point and should be said more.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 12:21 AM
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Do not assume she doesn't want to have a threesome that's just silly. If she wants to try getting you laid then let her, you don't need to over think it. She is already going to talk you up, just apply what you have learned but don't overdo it where you're not being authentic.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 11:39 PM
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That makes it complicated, I think you may have to play the long con. Essentially become omega make her resent being with you and find herself another mate. Let her leave on her terms that way she doesn't have a reason to hate you and keep you away from your daughter.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 11:36 PM
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It shouldn't be exhausting. Stop being a shoulder to cry on and a driver. If any relationship is taking more than it is giving than that is not a relationship worth it, set some boundaries.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 11:33 PM
1

I second the sidebar. Everything about your post OP indicates you are doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 11:28 PM
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This, she brings it up again just remind her your not looking to be exclusive and if she keeps wanting to bang, then bang you have no reason to feel guilty.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 11:26 PM
2

Yes, we are not doctors and self diagnosing is a very slippery slope.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 11:21 PM
1

There is nothing wrong with objectifying and this post borderlines conspiracy theory. You are generalizing and last I checked TRP advocates to improve yourself in more ways than just working out.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 11:20 PM
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You are right love wasn't apart of marriage besides that last 200 years or so. I think there is still a need for marriage, not in the way we do it today but in the past too establish family ties and fortify communities. We don't have nee it to satisfy any needs 3, 4, 5 and it is a mistake to think marriage will do so.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:02 PM
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Solid post you bring up some good points but, It is about attempting to thrive. I'm not buying it, you're on to something but thrive isn't right. I mean most relationships hinder a person ability to thrive, in fact i would argue there is no exact purpose, thoughts?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 05:56 PM
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I appreciate your effort of doing this, it is always interesting reading another process. I will recommend that you break the topics down more and do one at a time. For example, you could do a post on social, quote your sources, explain why it is important to socialize and be social, use examples other than your own and so on. I am not a writer but as a reader and your audience I felt overwhelmed and a lack of direction. This seems like a good start for a series but more like a rough draft, does…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 05:04 PM
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That is different than the OP question, and in that case it could be a topic brought up more. I would suggest, you make a post yourself with a better framed question than the OP an open up the dialog.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 04:45 PM
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Follows the rules and remain sexless. Traditional society was not sexually abusive because of marriage. You attract what you are worth just like men have SMV so do women.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 02:06 PM
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What's your point?
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:51 PM
1

No one is ignoring it, yes it may be the purpose but it is up to you too decide if you want them not this community.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:51 PM
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You're not tying yourself off to an individual, you are tying yourself to another family. That in itself can open many doors politically and financially. You also are still generalizing. Not all women make 100% of their decisions based on emotion just like not all men use logic. A lot of guys do want a healthy marriage and a family and it isn't impossible especially if you apply the concepts taught here.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 05:33 AM
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On any given day at any given time you can die, should we just call it quits now? Look, I am not even a supporter of monogamous relationships but I do believe it is still possible to get married and that not all women lack values. This "we're fucked anyways so why bother" attitude is not constructive. If you don't want to get married then so be it, it's not my thing either, but to discourage other men from achieving what they desire and painting women as if they all lack empathy and are out to g…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 01:09 AM
4

They shouldn't hire you.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 12:50 AM
1

Yes, I never said it was fair. I understand the courts favor the women but can we stop using that as an excuse? Most men simply do not put enough time into preparing themselves for marriage, picking out a worthy spouse, and setting up a safety net. Most men are not being men, and that is their real issue.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 12:44 AM
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TRP is not overlooking anything. TRP is the discussion of SEXUAL strategy not whether or not you should have a kid. Children are a huge responsibility but as a man you handle your responsibilities and that can increase your SMV, if you don't handle it, it lowers your SMV. As for the OP, TRP is not here to make decisions for you, it is not an ideology you live by, and you certainly can't be TRP. However, you can be a man who uses advice from TRP to improve his SMV and score a woman who you believ…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 12:34 AM
2

I'm not sure why you felt the need to share that or how one is a greater faggot for using the term considering most people are more familiar with it than cultural marxism nowadays. People also identify as politically correct or being part of a politically correct movement, no one however advocates for cultural marxism. Not too mention cultural marxism is associated with conspiracy theory and red-baiting and often used against any progressive idea. However, it does appear to be more of a reality …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 08:45 PM
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Yup PC culture has infiltrated the military, more wasted tax dollars on a less effective military great isn't it? Saying the wrong thing around women in the military can end your career faster than smoking weed it can also end your ass in military prison.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 07:12 PM
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Well yeah but men do the same shit. How many times have you seen a man get married, stop going to the gym, stop enjoying his hobbies, stop improving himself, watch ESPN, get fat, and drink beer?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 06:57 PM
2

This isn't some episodic shit with a study guide and course layout. What is next for you is different from me and everyone else here. It definitely sounds like you need to do what njohnson said and start applying shit.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 06:53 PM
3

Stop wasting your time arguing about whether or not he is beta or alpha this place is not for labeling people what we think they are. The truth is, we couldn't tell you even if we wanted too, we have no idea how he is in his personal life.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 06:50 PM
1

Non-commissioner officers mold soldiers, they do so by disciplining, hazing, and training. They were not your friends, at least not until you earned it, now they have to be and now they are not trusted to discipline and can't even think about doing anything remotely close to hazing. They have to be friends and open so soldiers feel safe, and have someone to talk to. This isn't necessarily a bad thing but it should not be your NCO, your NCO is their to ensure you learn how to kill, survive and ge…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 06:34 PM
2

I think you may have tunnel vision my friend and need to stop focusing on what to do and how to improve your social interactions. Tone down the analyzing and just make a note of what works and doesn't work and go about your day. While you make these mental notes you should be enjoying your social interactions, not pleasing, not trying to gain anything, just enjoying you and the people you are with. With time you will get better and pick up on the cues like maybe shes into me or this isn't the pl…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 06:48 AM
3

" I said fuck you, she said thanks for nothing and I said you're welcome." Hilarious, did you snap your fingers too when you thought that up? PS this post is shit.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 06:24 AM
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Because most of them aren't alpha by any means. A lot of enlisted are boys looking for adventure, or men who fell on hard times, and with the PC culture infecting the military it is only getting worse. We are not allowed to mold the boys into men anymore, let alone soldiers. The power structure is fucked and don't get me started on the affects women have on a unit. Our military is beginning to forget its purpose and turning more into a job core than an actual military.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 06:10 AM
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Everyone wants to go from 0 to 100 around here. Everyone needs to stop focusing on just the women and getting laid aspect, if that is all you are taking away from here, you are seriously missing out. I get it, it's what brings most men here and what most men want but just try observing the world through your TRP glasses first. Then start applying some of the concept on everyone, not just women. Once you start having those ah shit moments and start understanding why people act the way they do, yo…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 01:05 AM
1

I think every one is over thinking this, she's a women they get emotional and it's probably also a social thing. Becky and Lauren are telling her it's so sad, and remember that time in highschool. Women love funerals when its not someone that significant and they love the attention they can get from them. Now if its not going to disturb your plans/situation why not just go? It shows you're not insecure and can be there when people pass on.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 12:55 AM
1

While I understand your good intentions the second TRP starts to censor the raw emotions men feel is the second this place failed. Most men are confused and have been lied to most of their life, by their mothers, sisters, friends, the media, and culture and when they end up here and realize this, they vent. They need to let out their anger and they need other men to help guide that anger, the real world is not a safe place to do that anymore. You can destroy your life by saying a few mean words,…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 12:24 AM
2

Everything with moderation, what is moderation? Well that is really for you too decide like you said there is not really much supported evidence for their claims. Nofap is good for self discipline and you should be able to tell yourself not tonight, and I do agree that porn can have a negative impact but jerkin it every other day and watching a video here and there is not going to cause you to have a shitty life. Edit: rephrased
/r/askTRP11/08/16 12:11 AM
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Life isn't black and white. If women and commitment are that 2 dimensional for you, you are going to have a bad time. People are complex and at different stages in life. If I am not looking for an LTR obviously I am not going to wait long, same goes for her. As many people have mentioned when some one gives it up fast, it is a red flag and honestly its not just a red flag for women but men as well. With that said anyone can run into that certain someone who they spark with instantly and spontane…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 12:02 AM
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Just what the hell? It's like when a kid gets upset for unknown reasons and takes its clothes off. They can't even say what they are protesting for, "I don't like trump" is all they can muster up? How does taking your clothes off for him show that? The so called art part of it doesn't have a meaning either, besides what, 100 naked women, ok so what?
/r/TRPOffTopic10/08/16 08:59 PM
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LTR's existed long before texting and it is really not necessary or conducive to an LTR. That doesn't mean you have to be a tight ass about it and literally never respond to anything but logistics but you shouldn't be a arguing or making corrections over text that is just childish. Oh and two weeks is nothing.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 01:59 PM
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Pick yourself up, dust your shoulders off and do what it takes too finish. Engineering school might not be for you but work tends to be entirely different than school. You can always transfer credits to a cheaper university and finish somewhere else if necessary.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 07:02 AM
2

Wear a thicker condom, and practice makes perfect my man. Try not to think about it and never apologize, she will be satisfied if you are satisfied, if not what ever move on to the next. You are not going to last longer by not fucking and definitely do not drink with the purpose of performing longer/better. That is just a recipe for disaster in more ways than one and can lead to ED itself.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 06:52 AM
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Then don't. You already know you can get laid, so get laid when you feel like it, it doesn't take much effort. Pursue other things, and improve yourself in other areas while you lack interest. You might even notice women finding you more attractive as your attention is on something other than them.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 05:29 AM
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Was a good read, well played!
/r/askTRP10/08/16 05:22 AM
3

No response is a valid response. Without the entire context it is hard say, but you seem to be somewhat butt hurt about a situation you shouldn't even be in. You should only text to make dates/plans. If she is taking here sweet ass time to respond then all you say is, "Already made other plans." Nothing else is necessary, she will get the picture that your time is valuable.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:14 AM
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This. Nothing changes, don't let it affect you.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:17 AM
2

She found someone better than you, she got bored, who the fuck cares? You should have more than one piece of pussy where this doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:16 AM
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People wont change because you want them too. They will only change if they want too change and sometimes not even then. The best thing you can do is set an example, be the person you think he and yourself should be. He may follow if not, distance yourself, beta's are toxic. When he comes around when the shit hits the fan because it will, explain it then and don't hold back. Don't let a sinking ship pull you down.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:16 PM
2

As a premed student you should know better. 21 is not too young for pain meds however it is not a solution to your problem and 21 is young enough to make a full recovery. You wont and shouldn't be prescribe pain meds especially if you haven't even had surgery. Degenerative Disc disease is nothing but a fancy term for arthritis, I myself got in the military at an early age and any one who does a lot of high impact activities or even just sits too damn long can get it. It sucks, it doesn't get bet…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 09:57 PM
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It is ok to have emotions that doesn't make you less of a man. What makes you less of a man is not being able to control them. You can not blame your mom or anyone. That is life, things die nothing is certain. Go to the gym and hit the punching bag until this emotion doesn't bother you anymore but don't bottle it up.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 07:25 PM
3

Stop looking for validation. You want us to condemn the doctors and you want us to agree with you that you need medication. We are not your doctor, we do not know your full situation. You very well may have a drug problem and not even realize it, your post definitely indicates it. If they are not doing surgery or giving you medication then it is for a reason. I am in the medical field and there is no way I can be certain from the little information you have revealed but it does appear your pain …
/r/askTRP09/08/16 07:18 PM
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Well for one, work is not for socializing it's for networking, and well work. It sounds as if you need to develop a social circle outside of work but understand that most people are losers, most will hold you back, and ultimately most don't give a shit about you at the end of the day. It also sounds as if you lack any real direction. You don't need anything to get what you want but you need to want something. When you want something bad enough you will cross the world to get it and trust me that…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 07:03 PM
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What are you even asking? You have plenty of solutions you even mention a few. Do you want us to validate your cheap ass? Pay for your taxi? How are you going to get anywhere in life if you can't even be bothered to figure out the logistics of getting a damn drink.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 06:51 PM
1

Yes to all of your questions, it is also a way for a woman to identify herself. Usually this is a red flag if it is that common.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 06:45 PM
2

Porn is definitely the bigger issue. Best to stay away from it all together an especially if you find yourself looking at harder/weirder shit.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:30 PM
1

They just do, stop looking for reasons and just accept it as reality.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:18 PM
1

Maybe you were the best you but you sure as hell are not it now. The best you would not care about this petty shit.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:17 PM
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Normally I would say yes, but you're already getting too caught up on this one. Tinder some more, get some more experience and don't worry so much about sealing the deal just enjoy your time being with women and people in general and let shit happen naturally.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 10:49 PM
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This. Forget her for a bit find another, then maybe come back later.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 10:47 PM
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Yup, Patrice O'neal use to vocalize this a lot. A woman is a reflection of you, like a dog don't let them piss on the floor.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 10:39 PM
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Who cares? Don't reply, stop using snapchat.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 10:34 PM
1

They displayed more value because they value themselves more than you do. They most likely don't let their career, wealth, or women define their values but rather compliment it. It's not just about being better than its about being the best you, knowing you are and not letting other people compromise that.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 10:28 PM
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This here. It also sounds like you are trying to rationalize why you are with her and I hope you know you haven't given any reasons besides vagina and makes me feel good.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 10:18 PM
2

Yeah join a book club. Join any club, you can't create social circle without socializing an the only true way to improve that is by socializing. When you start to do that then you can start reading up on how to improve the small things.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 10:14 PM
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I know its one of your weakness, this whole thread screams procrastination. I wasn't speaking figuratively but sense you are, what ever war you are in you need to start acting like you desire victory. When you prepare for battle there is no time for procrastination or leisure, because time is everything, there is no room for pleasure, no there is no reason to smile because you haven't won yet and to lose means death. Find a war worth fighting.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 10:09 PM
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You are talking about smiling, you are spending a considerable amount of your time on the idea that smiling makes you look less attractive. Its not the fact that its an emotional or calculate response its the fact that you don't have better things to work on. You are not a predator your a man with too much time on his hands. You want to not smile anymore? Go to war.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 09:40 PM
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Yes. What you did is fine and do just that. Don't over think what you might say, it doesn't even have to be flirting just say what ever is on your mind. If you have approach anxiety this will definitely help get you in the habit. It is also good too reflect on what you have said and how they reacted so you don't end up like a socially unaware 50 year old but that doesn't mean restrict yourself from trying new approaches.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 09:26 PM
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You are not ready to settle down because you don't have control over yourself. Everything you have said has shown that you don't know how to properly handle your emotions/feelings. That doesn't mean you have to be perfect at it or that you are far off. As for your other question, we may feel attracted to a woman but we decide to talk to them if it is an appropriate time to do so. This is were a lot of men fail, they decide not to talk to a women they feel attracted to because they have uncomfort…
/r/askTRP07/08/16 09:11 PM
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First of all stop prioritizing women, they don't define you, no one gives a shit that you have slept with 61 women. Feelings are just that feelings. You may not be able to control them and it is ok to have them. Recognize them but don't let them decide things for you. Never make a decision because of a feeling. Everyone one gets oneitis there is no preventing it but you can deal with by taking a step back, recognizing your feelings, where you stand in life and what you want. Not all plates have …
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:45 PM
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You are a total loser and your a fraud. You are not being a friend and you don't understand each other. Your time spent with this girl has been nothing but a waste. You are a man acting like a girl in hopes of getting into her pants, she knows it, and some level you probably know it. Partying? Movies? Talking all night? For 3 frigin months? That's what women do not men. Men have goals that include more than just getting pussy, men put themselves and their time above everyone else, men act. You h…
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:38 PM
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You don't debate a feminist. Stop wasting your time.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:27 PM
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You kiss the girl.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:24 PM
2

Listen to these two.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:17 PM
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What you need to do is stop being a faggot. Jesus man, looking at old pictures listening to old songs? This isn't some rom com, no one gives a shit that you identify your self worth through your partner. You need too get your head out of ass and see the world around you for what it really is. No one is more important than yourself, stop letting your emotions control you, they are just emotions and only women have the luxury of not controlling them. Women are only there too supplement your life, …
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:16 PM
1

1 up. Ignore.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:05 PM
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It feels weird because you don't do it often enough.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:04 PM
3

Not see her Friday to Monday. Forget that you might want to start a life with her for right now and do not see her. You are not thinking straight, you are reacting not acting. Stop letting your emotions control you. Take a breath and look at the whole situation. Forget about feelings, what does she offer of value. Remember any girl can send you nudes and lovey texts, all girls looks start to fade. What is her family like? Her goals, passions, where she sees herself in the future. What do you wan…
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:01 PM
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You have been dealt a shit hand no doubt, but not the worse. My advice to you would be to accept it and move on. If a lady finds it disgusting then that is her problem to deal with not yours. It is not your job to help mature them and definitely not your job to be concerned about weather or not they find your medical condition disgusting or not. Once you are able to accept that it is just another part of you, there wont be any obstacle to deal with. If they ask what is, don't tell them. Don't te…
/r/askTRP07/08/16 07:48 PM
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This is pretty bad advice. A lot of fresh college kids suck at selling party drugs unless they have already been doing it before hand. Not too mention he probably has 0 connections and is not social savvy enough. Sell study drugs and then work your way up.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 07:35 PM
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Next.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 07:07 PM
1

You already have all the answers. Meditation and practice. How do you not smile? By being in situations you normally would and consciously deciding not too. You do that until it is second nature. No video or tutorial is going to make that easier for you. More importantly stop giving a damn. The way your post reads strongly indicates you have a lot of other things you should be working on instead of not smiling because you have it in your head that some women might find you less attractive.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 07:05 PM
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You only crave power. Sex, women, and money are only different ways to attain and show power. I imagine the reason you crave power is because you have none, at least you think you don't. That may be why you feel so trapped. I don't know your entire situation, but from what you have shared it does not seem as grim as you may think and you may have a lot more power than you realize. First understand that humans have very little power in the universe We can't control the weather, natural disasters,…
/r/askTRP07/08/16 07:42 AM
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