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Pragalbhv/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 03:01 PM
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I honestly don’t really like any of the other girls I’ve talked to. I only want something serious with her. I’m tempted to just say “don’t care what you do but I’m not going to sleep with anyone else”. Bad move? Kinda needy, but the right heart. Tell her that you vibe with her a lot, and want to explore making this mutually exclusive.
/r/seduction17/07/25 06:40 PM
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Aren't we all.
/r/seduction13/06/25 04:35 AM
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but can a loyal girl still cheat even if you're doing everything "right"? A loyal girl will not cheat on you. that is literally the definition of loyal. Maintaining 'frame' helps weed out the women that play games. Selection is the best way to find women who are loyal. Choose those that display those traits.
/r/seduction13/06/25 03:59 AM
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Active listening is an OP skill. Other tricks I use to demonstrate presence, Verbal feedback like hmm, ooh, etc. Relevant questions Nodding the head, Helps to hook them in!
/r/seduction29/01/24 05:02 PM
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That's sad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:12 AM
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It seems like a lot of male subs take what your typical female subs ask for and dial it up to 11. There is a difference between "naughty slut" and "you are a complete waste of oxygen and if I were your mother I'd regret giving birth to you." I see that, too. I think they feel undesirable and eroticize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:00 PM
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Well, I agree that dominant women receive stigma, but it's much less than submissive men. A dominant woman's dominance is, at worst, dismissed, but a submissive man is stripped of his masculinity and ridiculed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:56 PM
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Very fair, my guy/gal! This post is a year old, but your comment makes complete sense. I've been out of the manosphere for a while, but I hope your comment stops others from falling down the rabbit hole or maybe even me regressing. Cheers mate, you're a G, and the outstanding kind!
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 08:02 PM
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David Goggins has infact explicitly stated he likes Andrew because he has the "guts to take a stand" \href{Source}{https://www.youtube.com/shorts/I6t-PyTCb-8} I disagree strongly with Goggins here, but I think over-all he's a good influence.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 01:46 PM
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This does make sense. The RP does make men without engaging with the woman as an individual, and that keads them to "never actually being present". None of this is meant to shame or denigrate sexual submissives. Like I said, conscious and intentional submission is brave and ethical as hell. Thank you for this.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 04:55 AM
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As a submissive man, I disagree. RP is the fear of losing dominance, they do not have any inclination towards submission more than the general crowd. Unlike subs, RPers dispise the fact that women have all the sexual power, atleast according to them. Men with inclination towards dominance (BDSM) can and do turn RP, so the idea that it's an escape from accepting their submission is faulty.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 03:52 AM
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This is pretty accurate. Both men and women expect unconditional love that they've received from their parents (hopefully) from their partner. I think you could get there with the right person, but to get to such a level will take time, trust and deliberate action. With the trust in LTRs fallling, I think this is going to be harder to achieve
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:05 PM
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Aww that sucks. Hope you're doing better now
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 12:39 PM
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Neoliberal feminism being anti-male is expected, but they also exclude a vast amount of women! Nice article. And thank you for your comment!
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 12:38 PM
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As you are ace, do you let it go and become friends again or do you break off your friendship?
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 06:42 AM
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I think they mean would you let the relationship continue if you found out your SO cheated a long time ago..
/r/ExRedPill08/10/22 09:19 PM
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This honestly happens a lot too. It's so unfair to the girl giving you all her love.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/22 07:49 AM
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I have been disregarding a ton of it now. Evopsychology is very scary, but it's also very reductionary and treats everyone as a monoloth
/r/ExRedPill07/10/22 07:47 AM
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Am not going to. Thanks
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 05:30 PM
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Now, I'm sorry if I'm being pedantic and annoying, but how do I tell the difference in a partner? I would love to settle down with someone, but would be broken if I'm settled for
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 05:27 PM
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Thank you! I know that TRP has probably given you bad experiences, but thanks for helping us come out of it, even at the risk of being harrassed yourself
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 05:24 PM
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No, I don't mind if a woman has had partners before me, regardless of the number, if she genuinely is as attracted to me as her previous partners and isn't settling for me just because I am successful in life. I would want to loose my virginity to someone after an emotional connection though, but I don't think waiting for marriage actually works as there could be sexual issues down the road, and hence I wouldn't put the se absurd expectations on my SO
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 05:19 PM
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I do understand the general sentiment of your comment, but if you don't mind could you explain a bit more?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 04:56 PM
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That's awful as well. It's the same thing and it sucks just as much. The "having an appreciation for the one you choose to in the end" does make sense, but I still having trouble accepting "have wild fun when you are young and then settle with someone less fun", regardless of gender
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 04:53 PM
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I have always believed that men and women are very similar in attitudes. Rather, what worries me is the idea that maybe everyone is awful, atleast in relationships. I've had amazing friends both guys and girls who are not relationship material, but are nice people. I do see awful trends in men as well(moreso, infact) and awful trends in women too. I sometimes doubt that maybe deep inside I'm bad too, and I just haven't discovered it
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 04:48 PM
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Yeah I agree
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 04:46 AM
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That makes sense. I remember a quote(a good one this time) "The Morpheus of relationships offers you two pill, one blue and one red. What should you choose? Nothing, punch him in the face instead "
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 09:12 PM
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You are right. I am focusing too much on what to avoid instead of what I want. I noticed that with a lot of TRP people, they always hurt others to not get hurt themselves. I don't want to hurt my partner, but I never want yo get hurt at all, and hence close all avenues for an actual relationship.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 08:03 PM
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Thank you, will check it out. My self esteem took a great hit during the pandemic as well and hence I noticed that I have become susceptible to a lot of bs. Am hoping to start therapy soon as well.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 07:59 PM
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I do have this problem. Thanks for your comment
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 07:58 PM
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I guess it was confirmation bias. I guess I assumed she meant don't date the good guys, but that wasn't said, atleast not explicitly. Anyways even if she said something TRP approves, there are atleast a few women aren't like this
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 07:22 PM
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Do men also have a dual mating strategy? If so how do I make sure to override it so that I don't hurt my partner. Also, how do I find a partner who won't practice the dual strategy with
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 06:56 PM
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I know you are right. I have serious anxiety, and have this habit of "checking" with various things in my life. I honestly never got into TRP myself, because I was able to see this, and had noticed a change in my attitude towards the amazing women in my life for the worse. Also even if TRP was psychologically factual, it's still reductive as hell, and people are not c++ programs. I guess I have to work on myself, thank you u/meghan518
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 06:53 PM
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Do agree with you there.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 06:44 PM
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Thanks for your comment. I think confirmation bias is pretty much the reason for TRP being so convincing, but there is also a general trend that people minimize the dangers men face in dating( obviously less than the risk women face), and there are no other (well known) male-friendly communities that provide men support. Also coming back to me, thank you for all you did. Making a good subreddit like this and providing resources to detox. Also I noticed that you always posted your detox posts in …
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 06:42 PM
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I think he wants to say that criminals get multiple girlfriends while good men have trouble finding one.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 06:35 PM
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I do agree that TRP is hypocritical. I was never a TRP guy, but I do get anxious whenever I read/remember about the TRP arguments. If what TRP said is true, all humans, men and women would suck and that scares the hell out of me
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 06:34 PM
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You do have a fair point. But I guess the word settle down kinda made me feel as if the good man was a back-up. I do think there is a bit of a sentiment that good men are not interesting
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 06:31 PM
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You are right I have a obsessive personality, and have Pure-O OCD as well. I know I needlessly worry about a lot of things, and the evo-psychology of TRP is one new obstacle.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 06:26 PM
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Fair point, however it's a bit of a copout. This should generalize about well enough for the general population. However, a counterpoint to myself, there were a decent bit of comments on a few threads calling this quote "dogshit '
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 04:12 PM
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That is clearly not what she said "The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands" Again, this comment captures my sentiment:- If she was merely describing the arc of life, she'd say, "if you want to date the bad boys, go ahead and do that, but you'll come around and (if you're smart) you'll realize that you should only marry the good ones". No, she encourages women to go out at get with the bad boys. The "arc of life" interpretation is wrong
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 03:57 PM
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You are right, I actually saw another thread on r/marriage or smth that was agreeing with it. But looking at the r/AskWomen thread, it seems most women agree it's dogshit advice. I guess it was my confirmation bias. Also say if I want to prevent getting into a relationship with a woman who only sees me as a safe bet, what can I do to vet them out?
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 03:53 PM
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u/Redpilldetox pls share your views.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 03:31 PM
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I honestly find lifting really fun. Sure it's not football levels of fun, but it's really great when you see actual changes on your body
/r/ExRedPill10/09/22 01:17 PM
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