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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Worst year ever. Do I just keep up the charade?You said okay while in shock, that's not consent you actually gave freely, and you're allowed to revoke it now that you've had time to think. This isn't a phase you wait out, she's told you plainly she doesn't want you anymore and is acting on it. Staying quiet to protect the kids just teaches them this is normal. Talk to a lawyer this week, not for the marriage, for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/26 10:11 AM |
| 1 | How to break it to the kids?Told mine together, both parents in the room, kept it simple: we love you, this isn't your fault, nothing about how we feel about you is changing. Kids that age don't need details, they need consistency. Same bedtime routines at both houses, same expectations, don't badmouth the other parent even when you want to. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/26 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Three years after divorce - alternative pointThis is a solid list but I'd push back a bit on point 1. Some people genuinely do stop caring, sure, but plenty of us have friends who showed up exactly when it counted, the issue is usually who you're telling, not whether you tell anyone at all. Isolating through something this hard just because a few people were dismissive risks losing the support that actually helps you get through it faster | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 12:25 PM |
| 1 | I would rather not be alive at this point.I hear how much pain you're in right now, and none of what you're feeling makes you weak, it makes you human. What you went through, feeling rejected and unwanted for years by the person who was supposed to choose you, that's genuinely one of the harder things to carry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/26 01:07 PM |
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