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Nah man you read it wrong or with the wrong attitude. I mentioned survival of the fittest and in this case.. mentally fit. Its a reminder that your mindset and who you are mentally is more important than physical. Ie: theres a pickup artist who is in a wheelchair and suffers from some disease whos very successful with women
/r/seduction16/08/17 06:18 PM
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I meant when you're talking to a girl where you've already initiated a conversation. 3 messages as opposed to one big chunk of paragraph. When you're motivated and passionate... often you have alot to say. Just as long as you keep it interesting and know when to end the convo.
/r/seduction16/08/17 06:17 AM
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Haha. That's good. Glad it worked for you.
/r/seduction16/08/17 06:14 AM
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Haha man chill. You sound like you're joking. Rubbing your hard pipe on some random chick is grounds for sexual harassment. You sound more like 14 than 23.
/r/seduction16/08/17 02:08 AM
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Online is not absolutely looks. It is a major clincher but not absolute at all. Theres alot of girls who know they have no chance with attractive men and even more women who think attractive men are diuchebags or sluts same way guys think super attractive women are conceded bitches. If you are superficial in what you are looking for.. then yes.. the type you're going for might be superficial af too. However you do need some decent pics. Look at my other post about beginner tips for online dating…
/r/seduction16/08/17 02:06 AM
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You sound like a pervert. Good luck.
/r/seduction16/08/17 02:00 AM
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My openers are usually always with touch. Don't try if you're not experienced. I usually grab them by the arm and turn them toward me or just get really close to them and say "hey beautiful, <and some creative bullshit based on their appearance>.. always ask their name first thing. Say your name.. Put your arm around her shoulder.. tell her you just wanted to see if you guys had good height exchange.. Tease her/flirt.. capitalize in any way you see fit.. I do always go for tipsy/drunk girls most…
/r/seduction15/08/17 11:59 PM
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I will make this simple as hell without even showing any examples of the text game.. Simply this: The man who seems the most interesting/creative/ready/sexually suggestive but not blatantly about sex aka not begging for sex or asking for sex or overly sexual... will win that girl. This man usually and unintentionally has a personality within his texts that suggests he really doesn't care about the girl and can have the same fun interaction with any other girl.. while being genuinely interested i…
/r/seduction15/08/17 11:22 PM
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Fair enough. I apologize for jumping the gun...
/r/seduction14/08/17 12:44 AM
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For me, some of the best , most caring girls.. who would buy me expensive gifts and do whatever I wanted/told them to.. ended up sadly being the ones I wasn't super crazy about.. And it's because they had no personality. It wasn't even about confidence.. just lack of personality.. and all beauty/body. However I was a bad dude before.. pathetic really.. I broke a few girls hearts and even used to do things like make them delete their social media profiles just to make sure they wouldn't talk to o…
/r/seduction13/08/17 08:20 PM
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Do you feel you are a fun or interesting person? Online Dating as far as mobile apps is not far off from social media. If you are good with social media, have a good instagram profile, or facebook, etc.. you'll probably be able to translate well to online dating.. as most apps these days connect to your Instagram/Facebook. You should try to take more pictures. It's not hard to get good pictures.. It can take one trip/vacation or one night out to a nice club or cool activity/cool setting to have …
/r/seduction13/08/17 08:10 PM
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It's fine man. You may be more interesting than you know. Regardless, she might of been in her head too much.. Maybe the same with you. Does not make or break anything. You still have more chances to develop comfort and open up. THink about what you talk to your friends about.. Women are not too much different then men.. Especially these days. I've had convos with women about ufc and boxing before. of course i don't just stick on those topics but yeah
/r/seduction13/08/17 07:58 PM
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Stop faking shit man. Why would you want to go on a date with her if you don't feel attracted to her? THe date was probably awkward because both of you were probably nervous or something.. Never try to be something you are not. Just hang out with her more often.. maybe you'll become more comfortable with her down the line.. If you can't think of anything to talk about on a date, you are probably a boring perosn. Get some interests/hobbies.. or do some cool activities.. experiences.. travel. Sorr…
/r/seduction13/08/17 07:06 PM
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Stupid video. I purposefully friendzone myself or the girl depending on who she is.. That way I can cook and leave her on the back burner while I work on higher priority women. Albeit, I keep things simmering with her.. so that eventually, an attraction develops.. and she wants to be out of the friendzone, even if she put me in it first.... Now the ball is in my court. What do I do? I set up a situation.. I have all the details ready.. where we're going, what we're doing, and where it's going to…
/r/seduction13/08/17 07:04 PM
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Your post is counter productive. The false sense of security being created is your doing, not the sub-reddit. It's your mind. A quote: don't blame the book.. blame your perspective and interpretation. A person in your place should not be telling others what to do with their time.. Being that, you're the one building fantasies in your head and not moving forward, according to yourself.
/r/seduction13/08/17 06:59 PM
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It depends on many variables however. Some girls in NYC, Chicago, LA, Miami are tired of guys approaching them endlessly... They won't hesitate to turn 90% of guys down without any consideration. But many other girls who haven't been approached as much do indeed feel the same way as the girl who gave you this advice. Regardless, in life, you should go after what you want.. Missed opportunities indeed suck.. Because opportunities aren't flying in everyones laps like confetti... Good opportunities…
/r/seduction13/08/17 06:56 PM
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First off, if you can't accept where you're at.. You can never progress. Don't be so harsh on yourself. You are only 17. Some people have more progress with women than others at certain ages... Put it this way, if you think you won't be able to talk to these girls.. You are probably right. So start smaller.. Just go and compliment them as you pass by. Next time you might see the same girl, say more than a compliment. Maybe ask a question, then follow up and turn it into a small convo. Then just …
/r/seduction13/08/17 06:50 PM
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I hope you realize I stopped reading half the shit you tell me a couple comments ago. and why would I worry about what you think? YOu're weird. The fact that you scour men dominated subreddits is weird enough. Get yourself together... and stop responding to me. its annoying. Infact, I'm just blocking you.
/r/seduction09/08/17 07:34 PM
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To have many girls to talk to , hang out with and have sex with is what makes a person a complete asshole? WOw, I did not know that. So you rather judge someone by how many girls they know rather than other characteristics? Interesting...
/r/seduction09/08/17 02:29 PM
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Thanks for your feedback. I personally believed he just wouldn't be himself. He had to put on a forced persona that wasn't himself around not only women but other dudes.. And the irony of it was, when he drank enough, he would forget to keep it going and his true personality would come out.. and it seemed that he had better flow/better success with women and was more tolerable to be around himself when he let that bullshit personality go. As far as the two RSD guys you mentioned.. I've had the p…
/r/seduction09/08/17 01:51 PM
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Yeah, I'm pretty sure that alot of these PUA's such as the one I was talking about learned and as you mentioned, adopted their persona based on whoever they learned from.. I feel like these persona's and personality traits get copied as well as their style of game.. but while they put a spin on the style of game, their personalities still kinda base off of this delusional idea of what a person should be.. like a false persona
/r/seduction09/08/17 12:50 AM
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Great. :)
/r/seduction09/08/17 12:49 AM
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Haha. I will neither confirm nor deny anything you said except that the first part sounds spot on but the irony of it was they would always tell others to perfect their inner game , while being the way that they are/were.
/r/seduction09/08/17 12:48 AM
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Thanks. I kinda posted this in the spur of the moment but I'll definitely share some more maybe next week or down the line. Feel free to add me as a friend or something to keep posted
/r/seduction08/08/17 07:35 PM
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Right on man! Definitely should have mentioned this.. though I was writing my post between breaks at work.
/r/seduction08/08/17 07:32 PM
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definitely. i did leave out some parts about drug use. but this wasn't the only instance where i hung out with PUAs. I have a few different times .. and yes, ive seen stuff like viagra, and coke.. and other shit.. these guys are not ideal role-models for anyone... but generally not terrible dudes either. just alot of different personality/psychological issues. weird unbalanced lifestyles.. etc again though, i do want to mention, there are some decent PUAs out there. i have a friend who no longer…
/r/seduction08/08/17 07:28 PM
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To be fair, I do know a PUA who's much more normal and modest.. But they slowly change after they start talking to and sleeping with more and more women they met from pickup.
/r/seduction08/08/17 07:27 PM
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haha that was cool. and by frame do you mean you frame yourself a certain way when approaching women?
/r/seduction08/08/17 06:47 PM
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No he's not.. you said you guys met on tinder. -.- stop kidding yourself.. lmao. This kind of stuff is for dudes who are talking to girls everywhere they go.. This is not simply a topic for "i talk to women.. i picked up a few girls in my time".. no this is for guys who collect numbers... who put effort in to meet women all the time.. and want to perfect their social game.. i am literally trying to master social dynamics .. im not here on a subreddit called seduction for no reason. I'm really ab…
/r/seduction08/08/17 06:19 PM
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This relates extremely to a post I just made about hanging out with some of the top PUA guys back when I used to be apart of those communities. I made a post sharing one of the times we spent half a week gaming together as a group. Check it out man. Its more specifically about one of them.. but there were actually 3 of the most popular PUAs at one time in that group with us. however i didnt get to interact with the other 2 much.. because we all kinda split into different activities throughout th…
/r/seduction08/08/17 06:00 PM
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Definitely man. THanks for sharing though... The lifestyle is always fun but..the consequences usually aren't.
/r/seduction08/08/17 05:58 PM
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Did your bf understand?
/r/seduction08/08/17 05:09 PM
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I totally feel what you're saying. I never liked the PUA community, despite even getting to know and hang out with some of the guys you see on youtube talking to a buncha newbies about pickup. The reality is alot of these PUA guys are alcoholics and not very happy with life. It seems like what validates them the most is this whole PUA life.. so if they're not preaching some bullshit, doing seminars and making money off of this whole lifestyle, they're usually depressed. Not all of them by any me…
/r/seduction08/08/17 04:48 PM
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It's because you're annoying. That's all. If you do not understand something, why bother badgering someone. Why even go to a subreddit to give advice or whatever it is you're trying to accomplish when you do not understand a guys perspective? Either way, I'm done talking to you. Goodbye.
/r/seduction08/08/17 04:39 PM
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Side note: if any of you are using craigslist, you are literally in STD city. Its something about Clist that attracts a more reckless type of people. Tinder is a give or take but alot of stds on there too. Its usually always the easy chicks, the fat chicks, girls that are 420 friendly or do lots of drugs.. Im not knocking 420 culture.. but its the unfortunate truth.. I used to be a pothead.. But i left that scene.. was a waste. people in 420 culture often abuse weed instead of use it recreationa…
/r/seduction08/08/17 04:33 PM
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Spot on. I mean this is what I'm realizing .. I've always held the notion in the back of my head.. but started changing years earlier. I never slept around super crazy like some dudes are but have slept with my fair share of women. The scariest part is sometimes its not the women you meet that cause you to contract something.. its the women that are already around you. (Ie: friends sleeping with friends.. in a big group of mutual friends, this stuff is so common.. and its always one bad mouse th…
/r/seduction08/08/17 04:29 PM
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Wow, you are still not understanding at all. "trying a hello or with a compliment".. Girl are you nuts? I am literally talking about the girls who keep walking when you say hello or a compliment, or something nice to try to engage them. and then you say.. "some girls you cant change".. Of course captain obvious.. But a lot of girls you can! That's the whole point of me making my post.. I've gotten so many girls to talk to me who originally would keep walking or say "sorry" or simply act like the…
/r/seduction08/08/17 03:07 PM
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You're just not getting it at all. Most girls completely regret not engaging some of the guys they meet. They talk about in blogs, on missed connections sections of websites...in magazines.. etc. Alot of these girls are the same girls who end up being single and want a relationship and don't know where to find guys... its just that they get scared to talk to guys in public settings whom they don't know.. alot of girls are simply inexperienced when it comes to talking to people whom they don't kn…
/r/seduction08/08/17 02:15 AM
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I don't. I haven't said anything about how I pick up an average girl. I'm talking about girls who have super protective shields up. and that is not my pickup line -.-.. Geez. You are a harsh critic. My way of telling ag irl don't be scared is saying "i don't bite".. its just something that I've been saying for years for the girls who put their heads down scared and walk away instead of even acknowledging a hi or "Hello, do you mind if i ask you something?"
/r/seduction07/08/17 10:30 PM
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Honestly man. This is the shit I do if im on vacay.. I get there, I get online.. initiate a few tactics there.. through apps/craigslist. do whatever im doing in the daytime.. and by evening time, scour the areas around my hotel/not far from my hotel location... and just talk to women. first thing i mention is that i'm on vacation and where im from... women are ready to give it up alot easier to guys they know they won't have to ever deal with again (ie: vacation) edit: overlooked the fact that y…
/r/seduction07/08/17 10:25 PM
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Cool little trick to fight our own brains.. Anxiety only works subconciously. We do not control it popping up. However, if we focus on the feeling of anxiety, and will ourselves to increase this feeling, .. we force it into a concious action.. By doing that, it naturally dissolves and fades away. The more you start doing this, eventually you learn to control the triggers of your anxiety. Try it. Next time you're anxious, don't fight the feeling.. Tell yourself you want more of that feeling. Try …
/r/seduction07/08/17 10:17 PM
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Solid man. Thanks. and yeah, I remember ya. Can't agree on everything haha
/r/seduction07/08/17 10:10 PM
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Oh, I'm the one who's rude? lol funny. and no it's not about "falling for" game.. It's called social interaction. Us men can't help but have to use tactics when some women are afraid to talk to us because of "stranger danger" programmed mindsets.
/r/seduction07/08/17 10:02 PM
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Hey man, whatever works for you!
/r/seduction07/08/17 10:01 PM
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It's all good man.. go out and do it yourself.. I have tons of friends who never used pickup and have banged plenty of hot chicks and get laid regularly. Some guys are just not about that man!
/r/seduction07/08/17 09:59 PM
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Hell nah man. I don't think you been out in the field nearly enough.. What you say doesn't matter. IT's who's saying it (your personality, appearance) and how you say it.. Then again I'm the fool for asking an internet subreddit instead of people I know who game . Only reaso I don't ask them is because they too understand its not what you say. its how you say it... no one gives each other advice because its impractical. what works for someone else is not whats going to work for you.
/r/seduction07/08/17 09:54 PM
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Saying I don't bite? nah.. its common for me and some of my old friends.. its so damn common we did it back when we were 17-18.. "hey can i talk to you? id ont bite"..
/r/seduction07/08/17 09:51 PM
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Will do and probably have said somethng similar a few times lol. I always say whatevers on my mind at the time. However I'm always trying to figure out better ways to get over some girls' defensive shield they put up. Chicago has alot of that.
/r/seduction07/08/17 01:43 AM
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Hey man its nothing to feel bad about. Just my opinion
/r/seduction07/08/17 01:35 AM
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Haha ok fair enough
/r/seduction07/08/17 01:34 AM
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I don't usually. My post was about dealing with girls who get intimidated easily.
/r/seduction07/08/17 01:22 AM
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The article didn't provide any good insight. A buncha obvious shit for anyone who is socially adept. Stick to writing. It's more of your forte then trying to teach about seduction, which your article includes none of.
/r/seduction06/08/17 10:46 PM
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W.
/r/seduction06/08/17 10:10 PM
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I'm the same way. This shit is just a time passer for me.. However terrible way to phrase it.. Because I always want to learn more and more.. However, you don't learn much on here or the net.. Learning is best done by experience. I've gotten approach down pretty well.. BUt even so, I still get nervous at times when my mood is not super up, to talk to specific women in certain situations. HOwever, I don't rely on alcohol to approach like many dudes do.. especially in the PUA world. I've seen some…
/r/seduction06/08/17 10:09 PM
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I've been intimidated by women personally because of financial status. I've met women who work for some FOrtune 500 companies and have done way more cool shit than I have as far as traveling and specific activities... and thought "i'm not in her bracket" .. and I was right in many of those case.. When a woman has status and value beyond just looks.. She is not going for an average joe. Unless there is something wrong with her. Admittedly I have bullshitted some higher value women to sleep with t…
/r/seduction06/08/17 10:02 PM
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Bullshit video from a perspective of one man and his experience. You can't teach game. You need to go out there and see what works for you.. period. There are tips.. But quite a few dudes who start and use internet videos to help them start, don't have their inner game, confidence and self esteem together. SHit, some don't even have a proper career or job. Do you need one? No. But does it help, yeah.. Have some fuckin hobbies, activities, interests, a job.. CONFIDENCE, social value, then go out …
/r/seduction06/08/17 10:00 PM
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"The Game" is all bullshit. The culture created behind it is a buncha internet dudes who once attain some level of success, want to act like know-it-alls. I've been around some of your top PUA dudes in the field.. you know the guys that all these dweebs worship from RSD and others.. Those guys are douchey AF unless you're friends with them.. in which case you are probably douchey AF as well and become cool based on common ground. Admittedly, I was one of those guys who when I first started gaini…
/r/seduction06/08/17 09:55 PM
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Hey man, if you play your cards right.. those same girls could be in bed with you somewhere down the line. I think you don't know them too well right now and you're overdoing it with the touchiness.. If its part of your personality, that's where it can kinda suck for you.. Just be more socially aware. thats all bud. Don't drink too mcuh. Pace yourself so you can be focused enough to see that people are uncomfortable.
/r/seduction06/08/17 09:50 PM
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This is definitely not a good "how to get anything from anyone" article. It's more of an article of "HOw to choose who you hang around with.. for idiots" Litterally the majority of the article goes about letting people "tag along" with your group of friends or being someone who tags along with others.. what the fucc? I'm hating, yes.. But this just doesnt belong in /r/Seduction man..
/r/seduction06/08/17 09:48 PM
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Ofc, but I don't mind friendzoning girls or being put in the friendzone by girls that I"m not putting forth as much interest in.. I mean not every chick is a relationship type and I can care less if im banging some chicks.. because I genuinely like hanging out with some and having fun . We tend to objectify women too much. WOmen are much more than just sex boxes. I've always found it best to have tons of girls, whether they are just friends, fwb or a few girls i have an emotional connection with…
/r/seduction06/08/17 06:26 PM
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Being in a public place and approaching a stranger does not show vulnerability. Especially to women. You're simply over thinking my post. I feel like you read too much about pickup.
/r/seduction06/08/17 05:06 PM
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Great video. However, I Do gotta say, its great w hen you meet girls who show they like you just as much as you like them.. The girls who consistently text you at least once every single day.
/r/seduction06/08/17 02:00 AM
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Yep! I agree with everything you said. One thing I can add however is that consistency is a must when starting out.. To keep motivated and sharpened. Even if it just every weekend. However, its best to keep in the habit of talking to women wherever you go.. because the think about pickup is, alot of guys are comfortable doing pickup in some places and not other places.. for me it was tougher doing it on busses/trains because so many people are watching and listening to you.. but after a while yo…
/r/seduction06/08/17 01:54 AM
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I don't get the example you used. THat just sounds boring and dull. The whole point of taking a jab at yourself is to loosen your anxiety. Remember, this is a guide for people who have AA. These are dudes who haven't started just because their insecurities are holding them back. Starting off, you do what makes you comfortable.. and often time, briefly mentioning that you're nervous for example is WAYY better than trying to fake confidence when a girl see's you're nervous as shit. and to add to t…
/r/seduction06/08/17 01:43 AM
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Your goal is not to do that. But if it helps you start, it's definitely worth it rather than not trying at all. Alot of dudes just let them insecurities hold them back. Alot of the stuff you do in approach through the learning curve won't be stuff you keep when you become comfortable talking to women you don't know.
/r/seduction06/08/17 01:39 AM
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Thanks for the kind words. The badgering part is more or less just a mindset to have when you begin. Most people starting off have approach anxiety so it's something they'll likely not be able to do anyways.. but having that mindset might help them avoid the little brush-away tactics women use because they're so embedded in their brains.
/r/seduction06/08/17 01:38 AM
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I see where you're coming from. Its no problem. Definitely gained some insight from our convo.
/r/seduction05/08/17 10:00 PM
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You are fully capable of both doing it on your own and also finding someone who's willing to go out there with you
/r/seduction05/08/17 12:34 AM
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Was insanely popular before. I had alot of success with it. Not sure if anyone uses it these days
/r/seduction05/08/17 12:33 AM
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Yeah they are less superficial too so it's not all about looks, or status/financial status, etc. They also know how to let men down easily as they understand that both men and women are emotional.. whereas alot of women in America seem to be a bit more careless and blunt. I know myself.. Ive had a girl I approached outside a bar straight up tell me "i dont like the way you look sorry".. was terrible at the time .. and if it wasnt for me being confident and getting laid regularly.. it would have …
/r/seduction04/08/17 11:45 PM
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That's a major part of it man. Having someone who you're close to with you.. it helps your confidence greatly and makes it easy to rebound from bad experiences because you can easily joke about it with your m8
/r/seduction04/08/17 11:28 PM
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Hey man, being a virgin should be even more incentive to do it! Put it this way man.. approach is kinda like being a novice at basketball and only shooting baskets with your friend or brother.. who you're comfortable with..a nd then being put in a situation where you want to play at a court but theres a buncha strangers and they want to play a pickup game.. the first pickup game you will feel nervous as shit, because you know you're the weak player and everyone else plays there regularly.. but a…
/r/seduction04/08/17 11:09 PM
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Yeah. The only thing is you need to find the proper balance so you don't seem like a creep... or worse, get your ass kicked or thrown out a club or something. But yeah man... I once did a similar thing with some lady a ta furniture store.. She had some massive tits.. was taller than me but didn't bother me.. I started at her pretty obviously.. and she came up to me and asked me if i wanted help ..and i said yeah just because.. so as she was showing me stuff and looking at a catelogue to find wha…
/r/seduction04/08/17 11:07 PM
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That's pretty cool. However, i've had girls tell me the reason they set me apart from other guys is because all other guys they met were through social media.. That's why I think the approach game is the best but I can never knock the social media game or app game because that's actually where I started. Just never did IG, twitter or FB to meet women that I didn't know.. However, I did use various other apps like Tagged, OKC, POF. I may give it a shot in the future :) Thanks for the insight.
/r/seduction04/08/17 10:58 PM
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Just know those countries are not as superficial as America.. there will be less games.. just be clear, open, honest and you'll be fine. Best place to beat approach anxiety is in a foreign country or on vacation! :D
/r/seduction04/08/17 10:50 PM
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The end of that 2nd paragraph is a major key.. Girls like to know that a guy likes them.. It removes the awkwardness of being uncertain what a guys intention is.. Because they see guys being dicks to other guys alot.. they think we do that to women too.. ie: Just joke around with them, or want to pick on them.. However inexperienced girls suck when it comes to letting them know you like them.. once they know, they start playing games because they dont want to be too "vulnerable"....however you c…
/r/seduction04/08/17 10:48 PM
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pretty normal. hes a guy who knows what hew ants.. is framing himself to be fun, playful and open to the fact that he's looking for chicks actively
/r/seduction04/08/17 10:44 PM
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This is such a situational thing that has so many variables.... The only way you can decide is by trying.. Plus, you're approaching guys all the time, so why not approach girls too? My first year of college I was approaching girls, alot of whom were intimidated because they didn't expect to be approached on school grounds. Many of these girls were young.. some still virgins. Other girls, girls in my classes who I seen noticed me, I would approach and get their contact eventually... facebook, sna…
/r/seduction04/08/17 10:42 PM
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Makes sense. However, for myself, I think once I was aware that girls saw me as an asshole, being aware of it made me change the way I was around certain women.. though the asshole-ness would eventually come back out haha. I guess it depends on the girl really.. because with alot of girls you don't give a fucc, especially when the end game is just getting laid.
/r/seduction04/08/17 10:36 PM
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exactly! and no prob. .. just know that there's going to be plenty of times where girls dont respond to specific messages on snapchat. dont be phased by this.. its just natural and there's not even a need to question why it happens because theres too many variables in play.
/r/seduction04/08/17 10:07 PM
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I'll be honest. This subreddit is not really about seduction persay. It's more or less about anything related to picking up women, relationships with women, little tendencies and "What to do" type situations.. from what I've seen... with a hint of escalation stuff.. but not really whereas seduction would be more like.. the way you escalated with a women specifically and physically such as.. grabbing a girl by her hips, pulling them to you.. spinning her around.. taking her hand and leading her t…
/r/seduction04/08/17 10:04 PM
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It helps to actually BE confident...
/r/seduction04/08/17 10:00 PM
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Basically girls with a tan? lol Maybe they're Italian? Italian women? Is that what we're talking about? :P and lol @ swarthy women. never heard that.. sounds funny
/r/seduction04/08/17 09:58 PM
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Yeah it's definitely a way. However, its a longer process in most cases.. Try snapping her stuff you would normally snap your friends too.. basically include her in stuff you send to people after commenting on her snaps here and there. Because, if she's not looking at your stories, then she doesn't really notice you. Make her notice you by sending her snaps that aren't directed at her. By doing this, you include her in your friend group
/r/seduction04/08/17 09:57 PM
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Good stuff man. Seems like you're progressing in your personal journey. However, as far as plans go.. Be a bit more decisive and assertive. WHen you leave things up in air, you're just leading yourself into that date not going down. This may not always be the case, but from my experience.. it does. I feel like waiting till 2-3 days before is fine. Just make sure that when you do contact her, you know exactly what you're going to be doing and set a time and all.
/r/seduction04/08/17 09:53 PM
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I think everyone does. I often find that it's easier for me to find things to say when I'm not thinking so much about it.. for example, when I'm out and about doing things and making moves.. just dabbling between time segments .... I've never once used a pickup line on an app.. and I've met over 40-50 girls on apps in my time.. Albeit, this was over the course of several years. What I noticed about apps of new as opposed to older apps and websites that originated on PC rather than mobile, is tha…
/r/seduction04/08/17 09:50 PM
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You're absolutely right... but however, I assumed OP meant DMing girls he doesn't know and who haven't had interactions or mutual friends with him.. When I heard Instagram game and what OP said, I assumed basically he meant like the conventional approach game but on Instagram. I personally wouldn't waste my time in that aspect.. But as far as girls who comment on my stuff, or that I may have some connection to or am involved in similar culture (ie: fitness, jeep wrangler culture, edm, etc) maybe…
/r/seduction04/08/17 09:38 PM
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I honestly can't understand your perspective.. or what you're trying to get at. To me, the more attractive women seem more confident and know how to handle situations/flirt better than girls who are average because they seem to lack the experience.. I'm talking about in everyday settings too.. I'm sure average girls who are active in the club scene are just as experienced... just might not have the same confidence level.
/r/seduction04/08/17 09:33 PM
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Hey man, this sounds like you're onto something.. however, you haven't said anything that we don't know! Keep working at it.. What I can say is.. the guys that do best are the ones who aren't looking for an invitation to approach a woman they find attractive. Looking for IOI's is great but also means you're not doing so much at that club/bar/party/ if you're staring at women looking for IOIs.. I like to have fun, and then when I see something that looks good to me.. I go for it . really depends …
/r/seduction04/08/17 09:08 PM
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I think it's just that my perspective is different. I'm superficial in the women I approach.. having dated your typical "Ig model" types.. Just not having pulled them from IG. It's really difficult to get across to alot of the women on IG who think they are stars in their own right. I never thought about IG as a place to cold contact women. Now, if theres chicks who are commenting on my stuff, that makes it alot easier. As far as your last comment.. Not sure where you get that or if you're tryin…
/r/seduction04/08/17 09:04 PM
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Great post. From my experience, when you're an "asshole" , if you dont make serious moves to bang the girl on the first week.. she'll convince herself she doesnt like you.. When you're a nice guy, they'll walk all over you and take advantage of you, unless they are also genuinely nice girls.. Then you can have a john legend/chrissy teigan type relationship. Now being a gentleman, with a sense of humor and knows how to flirt and tease.. and still has that confident edge.. you will win. Its about …
/r/seduction04/08/17 08:54 PM
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That's very odd. To me, the more attractive a woman is, the more incentive I have to talk to her.. FOr me, average girls are intimidating.. Why? because they are the most unpredictable considering they often can be awkward, timid, nervous, inexperienced in dealing with cold approaches, etc
/r/seduction04/08/17 08:51 PM
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This is vague and has no real protocol or substance.. You can be doing risky shit in the day and then go on a date and then accidentally say something that ends up offending the girl based on your personality... or come on way too strong.. Just be yourself and don't change. Don't try to adjust yourself for women.. only pussies and fakes do that. It only gets you so far
/r/seduction04/08/17 08:49 PM
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what the fucc are you talking about? details man.. are they mean mugging you or something?
/r/seduction04/08/17 08:46 PM
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Just dance. when you're dancing and having fun, a girl will gravitate toward you.. especially if shes dancing and having fun.. once you're close enough, whisper to her, do you mind if i dance with you? if shes not already dancing on you... i honestly dont even think about this shit.. go with the flow. dance and have fun alone if thast what you do.. you can dance alone and she can dance on her friend and shit can still be good.. later,tell her she dances better than you, get her a drink, chat up …
/r/seduction04/08/17 08:46 PM
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He wouldn't have had a flakey interaction if she didn't render her incapable with his first comment "You need help with that, looks heavy".. umm its on wheels bud... way to make it obvious that you're trying to pick her up... who would say that honestly lol all those bullshit things he says in his video.. do not matter.. this guy Rav, some fat indian dude from NYC picks up girls saying all this shit without any consideration of little idiosyncrasies that these PUA dudes talk about.. such as "tel…
/r/seduction04/08/17 08:43 PM
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Instagram game? that sounds ridiculous. IG is where girls go to showcase themselves.. they're not looking to engage thirstbuckets.. you either have to be super popular on IG or have hella crazy pics of you doing hella cool shit, or luxury shit for her to be interested Girls have different mindset base don every app they use. snapchat is one mindset, ig is another, tinder is another.. women are weak like that. They adjust to a frame , to context, to situational shit..
/r/seduction04/08/17 08:33 PM
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Long and repeated stares.. not glances. glances dont mean shit. means they have eyes and eyes look around on any human being or animal. If shes looking at your hands a certain way, staring at your junk, or your muscles /arms/forearms... These are sexual observations shes making about your body Other girls will smile at you... or toward their body towards you if in a small space.. maybe fix their hair up, check their makeup on selfie camera.. etc SIgns dont mean shit though. You know why? Because…
/r/seduction04/08/17 08:30 PM
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The #1 Rule in the game: Only focus on the girls who focus their time and energy on you. The girls who pick up when you call. that respond when you text.. that always say things like "you never call me" "youre always busy" .... the ones that show you that they're thinking about you. the rest are hoes dude or don't care about the same shit you care about.. they don't have the same mindset of male/woman dynamics as you.. and shit wont go anywhere unless you put more effort in than they do..
/r/seduction04/08/17 08:26 PM
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THE ANSWER SIMPLIFIED: Initially she thought of you as a specific archetype of male shes attracted to when she decided to go on a date with you. Upon meeting you she realized you were not that archetype as she initially thought. The friend thing doesn't matter and is not much of a shit test. The shit test IF ANY is in seeing how you would respond to her changing plans as in her past she might have dated someone who freaked out at her for a similar situation. The bigger dilemma here is that she o…
/r/seduction15/07/17 12:25 AM
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Aka be a normal confident person? Gee thanks. Lol.. jp. You missed the real golden rules imo... which are teasing and being teased. Being vulnerable then strong.. pushing then reeling... soft touches.. slighy glances.. getting close.. whispering...wearing the right clothes.. smiling. I think what you are talking about is simply being a friend
/r/seduction22/04/17 05:44 PM
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Pretty much the same allure rhst theyre programmed to thinking is sexual. This is different for different gals. It could be a skater guy with hella tats and piercings for some... it coukd be a tall lightskin black dude for others who looks like he balls alot. It could be an arab dude whos beard eyelashes and complexion makes him have this zayn malik look. It could be an italian, indian or hispanic who has that guido look. Something about thst is very masculine and sexy for women. It could be a g…
/r/seduction05/04/17 02:33 PM
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Oh it seems like you bring her comfort but she wants some1 else
/r/seduction04/04/17 06:36 PM
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Oh okay nice. Don't feel so bad though... this should have no affect on you.
/r/seduction04/04/17 03:46 PM
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I will make this as simple as possible. She's not sure how you feel about her. She's used to feeling confused as she's developed an insecurity from previous experiences.
/r/seduction04/04/17 02:18 PM
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Sorry to break it to you but it seems like she used you for a free dinner. Your reaction was good though. Don't waste energy on bimbos
/r/seduction04/04/17 02:01 PM
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Lmao this is funny to me because usually the girl would pull a move like this. The scenario sounds funny just thinkng about it. Nice try though man...musta been kinda awkward when she dodged it for a quick moment. Next time try putting your hand out first and grab h3r hand and lead her somewhere like hey come.. and then kiss her lol
/r/seduction27/03/17 10:32 PM
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I could respect that. You're def making good observations for your age. Keep doin what you do .. i speak my mind but sometimes impulsively. Pm me if you ever need any advice
/r/seduction26/03/17 03:29 AM
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You are absolutely right with what you are saying. However, you just wouldn't be able to understand it from my perspective. I used ot be around communities that helped others. I had done my fair share of help.. had people donate me money and all that .. while never once selling a single thing.. all free advice. I took time out of my day to have skype sessions with dudes, record shit and send it to them, etc. It's these dudes on the internet that have mislead alot of the people who seek help. So …
/r/seduction26/03/17 02:01 AM
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The way you think... tells me alot about you. You're not really slaying are you? Guys that analyze simple things like texting that much... idk what to say about you dudes... Gets excited because girl tells him to come over... * *runs to reddit to post about it like he's some guru -- The Internet Meanwhile, dudes who actually slay's phones... ~constant "come over daddy.. im wet". get your game up breh
/r/seduction26/03/17 01:18 AM
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Take the time to focus on other areas of yo ur life. Everyone's life is different.. plus you never really get what you chase until you stop chasing it.
/r/seduction23/03/17 11:36 PM
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Focus on your successes, not your failures. It's not you. It's your approach. It's cool because you have something many people want.. this extroverted and outgoing fearlessness. However, it's some of those dudes who creep out girls th emost. the overly extroverted to the point they are unaware of the overall frame. try bars and clubs. sounds like it would work better for you ;).
/r/seduction21/03/17 03:32 AM
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Usually women who are going to malls are going there to window shop or to hang out.. They are more receptive to being approached in malls. Infact, some girls go to malls purposely to get approached.. believe it or not. You have to understand, for many girls who are single, they also want to go out and meet guys. However, not all of them are into bars/clubs and online dating.. the mall is one of the first places that comes to mind for many single women. It's also a place where women feel comforta…
/r/seduction21/03/17 03:13 AM
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That's why you never paproach more than 1 or 2 girls while you're there. NEver make it seem like a pickup. Always gauge receptivity with a simple comment, if the frame is right and the situation makes sense. If you dont have an understanding of when a situation is right to talk to a woman.. you might need some coaching or something idk
/r/seduction21/03/17 02:37 AM
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You need to realize that most people when they are shopping or doing some activity don't care to want to meet new people or be approached period. It makes them feel uncomfortable because they're so used to just shopping and going. At the very most they might have a small few comments exchanged when there's a reason for it or it seems right. When a random guy who doesn't understand subtleness and lacks awareness comes up to them and it seems like he's trying to get rsomething out of them, it trig…
/r/seduction21/03/17 02:34 AM
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Off bat, not a good place to approach women. Try malls. And kudos for trying dude. Experience is what counts. However, There's subtle ways of approaching women in certain places. The fact that you had a security guard come up to you means that you made hella girls feel uncomfortable. There's always a method to the madness.. You can't just approach buncha girls and think that you are being a "pickup artist".. Things have to happen subtly.. Girls are sensitive and don't expect that at the supermar…
/r/seduction21/03/17 02:06 AM
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Is this the first time you noticed this happening to you? Not trying to be rude.. But, you should know better man..than to have to ask reddit... Girls that really like you do more than just stare from a distance.. Often times they will come around you and workout right next to whatever you're doing or purposely workout at an angle to attract attention to themselves.. If you count everytime girls stare at you as something, It says alot about you to other more experienced dudes.. It means you're s…
/r/seduction21/03/17 01:54 AM
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I think that analogy is a bad one for this consideration. and here's why. I actually have experience giving people advice as I may have mentioned earlier. I noticed that guy's who are already insecure and have serious psychological issues are not ready to be trained. You can tell them exactly what to do and how to do it and try to personalize it based on their personality, but ultimately, you cannot be a psychiatrist for them unless you happen to be qualified as a psychiatrist and or psychologis…
/r/seduction20/03/17 01:23 AM
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In my opinion professional help will only benefit those who already have been trying themselves who have already gotten their inner game and confidence in check.. but onlt as much as if they comtinued trying on their own. No one csn tell yoy what will work for yoh but you and your experience. I helped many people for free and came to realize a lot of guys just arent mentally ready to start seducing women. Picking up women should never be hard.. these pickup artists suggest its more complex than …
/r/seduction19/03/17 03:27 PM
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Movies arent intended to teach you what to do but to influence your prowess .. ie: you see a movie where a confident guy is getting hella chicks, and it sparks some motivation.. the younger your influence starts the better.. because you have more time to gain experience you're talking about taking a movie literally as fuck lol plus, i have no idea what movies you're referring to.. try watching some of the 80s movies where the main character or dudes in the movies weren't simps.. you're watching …
/r/seduction19/03/17 12:56 AM
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I agree with alot of what you're saying in this comment, however, your whole post was pretty generalized. Trying to teach people communication with women through text is not going to be effecient compared to guys actually going out there and learning from experience. Infact, I know from how many guys who used to ask me for advice that when they focus too much on what someone told them to do or a guide or instruction, they never end up being themselves. Of course, alot of these guys lack the inne…
/r/seduction18/03/17 09:38 PM
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In my opinion.. This is interesting, but impractical in many situations. Actually, looking back at your post. This is just bullshit. Moving on.. I won't even bother commenting on this guided nonsense. Everyone is different and many girls don't like to have someone chat their heads off .. its not sexy when you're waiting for the bus, or shopping at the mall, or out and about doing things.. The worst part about people who give advice about women on the net is, they think they are on to something b…
/r/seduction18/03/17 09:19 PM
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The term pickup-artist is cringe for me.. There's a large population of men who have been picking up women since their teens, who unlike the self proclaimed "pickup artists" have never needed the internet, seminars and paid programs to learn how to talk to women. Seduction should be a natural progression of learning from experience and the biggest influences you have should not be some weirdos on the net who boast about their talents and charge money, but maybe some movies or music or other prac…
/r/seduction18/03/17 09:17 PM
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Endgame is always girls either liking you for you or for your sexual capabilities. However a girl whos not locked down will always hunt for better suitable men for her needs and preferences. Pussy is nothing... most dudes even well certified playas have caught feelings and been in emotional disarray over women... Ive known guys who held the key to a girls heart just by being best friends and doing fun things with them and being themselves.. ive known guys who fucced a chick and never anything mo…
/r/seduction17/03/17 05:18 AM
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Ignore all these comments. Amateurs dont know that every girl is different, despite alot of them being similar in many ways. If you are experienced and im sure you are enough.. then read her. Whats her persinality like.. then work from there and do you. Never sacrifice being something else for the sake of a gal.. you'll run into more than enough gals everywhere in life
/r/seduction17/03/17 05:03 AM
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