PreachyGirl Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	"Women can have a man who is either attractive or a good person, but not both. If you want to date a hot guy, expect him to treat you like shit. If you don't want to be abused, you have to put up with having sex with someone you're not attracted to" It's the same principle behind the rich guy/poor guy narrative as well, which claims that all rich men are assholes and treat their significant others like crap, and only poor men treat their significant others like queens. Apparently, you can't date, marry, and mate a rich man who's also nice because they don't exist. So, you will have to settle for a poor man who can't provide for you or your future children because he's 'nice' and will treat you better. When all is said and done, it's all for…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/21 04:22 AM
5	Can we talk about Buffy? I know it's like beating a dead horse at this point, but it applies unfortunately. Considering the fact that it's Joss Whedon, are we surprised that there are some rather troubling aspects to all these characters? There's a strong obsession with grooming and 'romancing' underage teenage girls, non consent/dubious consent, and outright sexual assault/rape, and it all came from the mind of Joss Whedon, a self-proclaimed 'male feminist.' Which is a huge red flag in of itself. If any guy volunteers …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/21 08:10 AM
8	I like comparing Trisha Paytas' lovers to each other I'm glad to see that you point out that Trisha herself is not a bed of roses because that was my original thought. It's less about who the men are and more about who she is. Moses may be a HVM but is Trisha a HVW? She could work on it but she has her own low value tendencies that she needs to work on if that relationship is going to work. Jason is garbage but I don't think he and Trisha were incompatible honestly, at least in the low value/high value sense. Also, her relationship with Anthony Mi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/21 07:09 PM
4	Anyone else have a pickmeisha for a mother, and therefore learned no female dating/life skills at all? Actually, no. My mom was the exact opposite. She was adamant about me not falling into that trap of being a 'slave' to a man, which I completely understand. However, she wanted to control my sexuality and me, so she just didn't teach me anything more substantial about female dating and life skills. She just told me not to be a housewife and left it at that, never going in depth about anything else. That was her way of controlling me - by keeping me ignorant to men and the ways in which they can …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/20 02:34 PM
6	Get commitment or get moving Actions speak louder than words; however, your words still matter. What you say is just as important as what you do. Men just want to have their cake and eat it too. They don't want the responsibility of a full-blown commitment so they can have sex with other people as much as they want but they still want to reap the benefits of a vague understanding of a pseudo-commitment that you're loyal to them and only them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/20 10:33 PM
1	Age that women first noticed men were looking at them sexually in graph form. Comments are full of the usual male denial that this ever happens. Gotta wonder why they feel so personally offended at this graph that they’d issue kneejerk rebuttals🤔 No, I haven't watched it yet.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/20 10:29 PM
3	Age that women first noticed men were looking at them sexually in graph form. Comments are full of the usual male denial that this ever happens. Gotta wonder why they feel so personally offended at this graph that they’d issue kneejerk rebuttals🤔 I was 12 when I started noticing the way fully grown men looked at me. Looking back at pictures of me at that age, I looked 12. People gaslight you and attempt to make it your fault that you're being sexually harassed and catcalled because you 'look older than you actually are.' Which is B.S. because there was no way I would have been mistaken for anything but a child at that age, but that's the lie society perpetuates. Society forces that idea onto us so that we won't hold men responsible for t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/20 11:51 PM
10	Why are women suck pickmeshas sometimes?! Honestly part of me cant feel bad that she feels bad for giving him "what he wanted" due to all the red flags I actually do feel bad for her honestly. She's really young; when I was her age, I definitely didn't know then what I know now. It takes life experiences like this to open your eyes, because that's one thing where you're essentially on your own. Most of us probably didn't have anyone to look out for us like that and to warn us about crap like this. I'm definitely someone who never had anyone to warn me about the games men play to get what they want by more creepy means. I won't lie and say I hav…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/20 11:46 PM
10	"If you don't cook for your husband you might as well NOT get married" My father cooked all of our meals, and my mother refused to cook and never learned how. I'm glad that mother stuck to her guns when it came to that. I'm the exact same way - I can't cook either. I know how to cook small, simple meals for myself but I'm definitely not in a rush to learn how to cook officially and properly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/20 11:34 PM
17	the absolute state of r/sex. what happened to vanilla? It's a sad state of affairs that this is what the world has come to. I hate that women are doubting their own power because they don't enjoy being sexually degraded & abused. This is how I know there is some poor woman out there biting her tongue and engaging in this type of sex because she thinks she has to in order to keep her LVM. You shouldn't have to sacrifice certain things just to keep that LVM who wouldn't budge on who he is and what he wants for you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/20 08:08 PM
3	men always make themselves the victim, sven when their partner is sexually harassed. It's sad to say but I'm never surprised when men seem to be more threatened by the possibility of their ego being bruised because another guy was 'encroaching on their territory' than by the fact that their significant other is being sexually harassed on a daily basis and can't do anything about it because she might lose her job, livelihood, and professional reputation. You have to love the fact this guy is so aware of his feelings and how this affects him? Not! He is disgusting and I hope she r…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/20 06:48 AM
49	Typical 1 3/4 hours of on-line dating I've had a LVM accuse me of hating men in the past because I wouldn't have sex with him. This guy sounds a LOT like that one. They definitely read from the same script, don't they?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/20 06:38 AM
82	Keep that in mind when you're getting to know him and pay attention to how he treats others. I needed to hear this multiple times 💟 Pretty much. They're nice and respectful in the beginning. And none of it is genuine; it's all a farce. That's only to get what they want, which is why you have to stay a few steps ahead of them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/20 07:18 AM
11	If using people for momentary sex or emotional labor or an ego booste was not allowed, there would be waaaaay more single people and waaaaay fewer terrible relationships. The sad part about it is that most women are often seen as less than if they can't 'keep' a man. Nothing else that she's accomplished in her life matters; her ability to 'keep' a man is the only thing that matters. It's such B.S. It's this whole idea that having a poor excuse of a man is better than having no man at all, and I'm irritated that this is a thing that's pushed by society. What's even sadder is that some of us do internalize it; hence the need for resources like this group. I think w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/20 08:28 AM
3	An argument against Fuck Buddies It's all apart of this weird idea that you're also getting something out of the 'relationship' like the men are, but you're absolutely not. You're not getting anything out of it. Maybe you might get a few orgasms here or there, and that's a strong maybe because we all know men rarely prioritize your pleasure in most casual sex dynamics anyway. You may feel those warm, fuzzy feelings in the moment, but you're going to feel empty afterwards. Why? Because you're going to realize that you're not get…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 08:25 AM
10	Poor him. It must’ve been so hard for him. She should have been more understanding... It's just so amazing how this whole thing became about HIM. Not how his poor girlfriend must have felt learning her boyfriend fathered a child with another woman that wasn't her. No, his feelings are the most important part of this situation. That is rich.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/20 07:33 AM