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| 3 | Wife told me she wasn’t in love with me and wanted a divorce end of march. I moved out 3 weeks ago. Tonight she cried and asked me to move back inShe started it… you’re going to end it. That’s the best for both of you- especially you. As you opined “how do you out the genie back in the bottle”? You can’t. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/26 02:47 AM |
| 2 | I bought myself flowersYour STBXW is nuts. And a pathological gas lighter. This will pass and you’ll be reunited with your kids- eventually. How long that takes is the unknown, but you will always be their dad and they will always be your kids. Nothing she can do will change that. And kids know the truth… sometimes that truth is buried under her propaganda bull$hit, but eventually they figure things out. They always do. Mine did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/26 12:19 PM |
| 5 | Witnessing your own funeral.Great post. No longer are you somebody else’s dancing monkey in their circus. Your life is going to only get better from here and you’ll get your own self back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/26 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Should I Do It?Lose half of your material possessions or lose your whole life which you only have one chance of… answer is obvious. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/25 05:00 PM |
| 13 | Fighting BackYou’re more f*cked if you don’t divorce her. 2 absolute certainties: - she will only gee worse - the longer you stay, the more you lose | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/25 03:02 AM |
| 5 | A new guyYou are very well grounded, Exactly. Nothing to add to your position and outlook, you are 100% tracking well. Navigating a divorce is hard on all of us and each of our cases are different and unique, you come across as possessing a very healthy perspective on yours. Very nice to see this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/25 12:08 PM |
| 7 | 17 yrs Married 24.5 TogetherYour STBXW is a train wreck. And she’s been one since you met her- it’s just your positivity and goodness as a partner kept it at bay. You contained her symptoms, but only she could treat her disease (dysfunction), which, sounds like she never did. Two things about her stand out to me- and it’s just me so take this for what it’s worth- not much. 1. She’s a nurse. Red flag for me 2. She’s a nurse that became a life coach. Even bigger red flag. The irony is stunning. Her issues have NOTHING to do … | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/25 02:16 AM |
| 5 | 🎉 Success: 50/50 Custody Secured 🎉Congratulations- you did well and persevered… the deck is stacked against all of us and you triumphed… which is ironic because all you captured was equal time with a kid who is half yours. It’s stunning to even read your story and call this a victory when all you got was rightfully yours and she is clearly nuts. Diabolically deranged! Next up for her, in a few years she will attempt to gas light the $hit out of the situation and act like you two were both equally at fault for the court drama and… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/25 09:17 PM |
| 7 | An update for the community, two years after my separation. With a big "Thank You"Outstanding post, thank you for sharing You are now a Man in Full I will never forget my moment of enlightenment post divorce- you’ll never forget this day. You have a great life ahead | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/25 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Ex wife Kidnapped the kids | She's a fugitiveYou won the lotto, my friend. Congratulations | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/25 01:52 AM |
| 11 | My brother in laws divorce settlementMy take: it’s very painful and unfair upfront, but he is way better off in the long run. And that’s what divorce is about, the long game. Like- the rest of your life… which, at 47, becomes more precious every day. Your BIL will recover, and when he is 57 I guarantee he’ll be better off financially than had he stayed being married. And buying all the crap wives buy, and go on useless vacations and demand cars and kitchen upgrades and all that $hit… because they’re terminally unhappy in life. And … | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/24 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Domestic Violence Happens to Married Men Too100% can relate to this. Thank god you are free from this and won’t deal with a lot of this anymore. Unfortunately she will always be a presence in your world because of the kids, her bullshit will continue… But you’re free and got your identity back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/24 03:44 PM |
| 9 | Wife admitted to not loving meYou’re free. And you dodged a huge bullet not fathering children with her… Unfortunately her daughter is going to suffer immensely from losing you in her life- you are a great person and fantastic role model for her to look up to. That’s gone… Because her mom lives life for one person only and it’s obviously not her daughter and certainly not you. Both you and her daughter are collateral damage to a closet narcissist, difference is you can move on easily in life. Her poor daughter, not so much. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Boy do I feel conned, duped, bamboozled.... the whole gamut.Saw that play out too in my command- wife demanded a divorce + 50% retirement + $5k/mo child support. Then she threatened to ruin him if he said no… he did the unthinkable and retained an attorney… that triggered her to file spousal abuse, child abuse and sexual abuse. Victim legal counsel gets appointed and brought in on the attack against the military member. Zero proof. 22 years of marriage and not a single domestic complaint on record. Complete sh!tshow… general running for cover with MPOs… … | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/24 09:50 AM |
| 14 | Get divorced to be the fun dad you always wanted to beWonderful post, thank you so much for sharing. Full-blown alienation in my case, 7 years divorced and I’m now being the dad I never was allowed to be. And the kids are very good to me and responsive- we have a lot of fun together. While married I was made out to be the clown… and absentee parent because I worked two jobs. If I made $250k she’d make sure we spent $300k… would work harder and never get out of debt. Finally walked out… I have more in my life now than 22 years married… kids are now … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/24 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Does this sound like circumstantial evidence of an affair?Stay the course- proverbial line in the sand and demands for joint custody. Thats the unambiguous neutral zone in most courts. My Ex and her attorney sound just like your opposition team… their bullshit works in lawyer offices but judges see it as a waste of time. Mine was settled within minutes from the bench. Opposing counsel had a near meltdown lol… Ex came running up to me in the courthouse parking lot… priceless. That was seven years ago. Got a great, loving woman by my side. Formerly alien… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 01:17 PM |
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