Predy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	An observation: women who are checking out of the relationship suddenly buying me stuff It also has to do with the story she tells herself and her friends. She's constructing it all along. "I did everything for him. I even bought the groceries and made sure he had toilet paper. He never appreciated me." Just looking for the sympathy "You go girl. You deserve better than that."	/r/TheRedPill	04/08/14 10:49 PM
6	Looking for a deeper understanding as to why this bothered me. This question is what's known as a double bind. The only way out is not to play. That's why the standard advice is: Never give a direct answer to a question, unless the answer is "No". It's pretty clear that you're approaching this from logical view - she wants to talk to you, must have some information to convey. She is approaching it from emotional view - is he thinking of me? The other common pattern would have been: "Do you want to ring me sometime when you're free?" "What's up" --- This is …	/r/TheRedPill	29/07/14 03:39 PM
3	Went nuclear on my plate, could I have handle it differently? I think the opposite. The response was a textbook agree and amplify. Any kind of "I am following my dream" or "actually,..." would have come off as qualifying himself. Followup should have been something like "I'm going to have to rethink whether it's ok to take you out in public." Re-assert her plate status and show that you disapprove of her behavior.	/r/askTRP	28/07/14 02:04 PM
2	So I have a problem with getting laid more than Once with the same girl.... Need more details: What's hard about it? Are they flaking on you? Resisting your advances? Not answering your calls? What are you doing differently the second time? Maybe you are at a club and drunk the first time and then you think it will be a good idea to go on a date? That would explain it.	/r/askTRP	28/07/14 10:09 AM
3	Vent/Advice: I hate my girlfriend's family and one "friend", what's the appropriate way to "maintain frame" about this? I don't think I could find someone better than my girlfriend Scarcity mentality Besides that she's the sweetest, most loving, thoughtful, and caring girlfriend I've ever had. She's the one! You're getting good advice here. The family environment is indicative of the quality of the future relationship you will have with this girl. You would get the exact same advice if the girl had a child, or was already divorced, or had any host of red flags. And these ARE red flags. It's your life but you are …	/r/askTRP	12/07/14 04:43 PM
2	"Sex should come second in a relationship not first" The wheel just keeps on spinning... http://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/	/r/TheRedPill	04/07/14 09:18 AM
14	What do I reply, if at all? Date cancelled in most unnecessary way. Watch what girls do, not what they say. She's not interested, next.	/r/askTRP	30/06/14 10:57 PM
3	Can I protect my assets (from divorce rape) through my mother? Except for places with common-law.	/r/TheRedPill	30/06/14 05:53 PM