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Congrats!
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/26 03:04 PM
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Wow yea thats sounds about right with the actuary i paid mine 5k still waiting on valuations. Waiting to go to court soon. Did you guys get anywhere close to having to do depositions or anything?
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/26 08:47 PM
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How much are actuaries?!! I wish i had a change of judge like how you did! Did you have to end up paying alimony or she to you? 13 years is a long term marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/26 04:36 AM
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Wow omgoodness how long were you guys married for and any kids? 10 years is insane!!
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/26 04:57 PM
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I wish i could switch judges how were you guys able to switch judges?
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/26 06:09 AM
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Agree judges are the worst here and bias af. They need to doge it and clean up shop
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/26 06:08 AM
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Damm so its a waste of time. Doesnt make sense if you catch them lying wouldnt it affect their creditability? And perjury charges?
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 06:38 PM
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File a pendente lite for support and attorney fees
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/26 06:07 PM
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Thank you! Yea we did mediation without doing deposition just discovery and they withheld certain things in discovery and we recently found out a day before depositions why. Hiding assets and a new born child! 😬
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/26 07:18 AM
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The best way to disprove them would be interogs or depositions no? With evidence of course in the exhibits?
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/26 05:14 AM
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Dam how come so long 3 years?! Kids involved?
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/26 05:13 AM
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Ty I wish it was that easy for me. Going in 2.5 years for mine. If you dont mind may I pick your brain on this: does it matter if youre going into mediation and a full set of discovery wasnt disclosed yet? Wouldn’t it be unfair to the side that is negotiating in the dark? Thank you in advance! 🙏🏼
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/26 05:12 AM
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What state are you in?
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/26 05:45 AM
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Cant they impute her income? Or get an employment expert
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/26 05:43 AM
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Dammm what do they protect then?
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 05:32 AM
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If the judge didnt like her wouldnt that be bias? Did she have a good reason whybshe wasnt entitled to alimony. Did your ex try to prove she was too “sick” to work
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/25 10:13 PM
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You cant unless u have a prenup, dont get married or that the other spouse passes away Did you have to end up paying for her legal fees since she wasnt working?
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/25 10:12 PM
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Wow shes sounds bat shit crazy. Cant rake any ownership. Thank god you are free from it!! Shes someone elses problem now
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/25 02:51 AM
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What she sounds delusional and must har felt so stupid for accusing you of those things after realizing she was wrong lol. 😆 must have been so satisfying to see
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 02:11 PM
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What is she doing for work? Does she work full time herself at all ? Or is she a SAHM you dont deserve to be treated like that. If your intuition is already telling you its a red flag and to run. Do that!!
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 01:18 PM
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How did he convince her? Was she emotional and crying through the mediation
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 10:57 PM
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You can try meditation to get an idea for both sides what would be reasonable. Hire a former judge (retired) to mediate on it
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 03:40 PM
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Theres no point in getting married honestly. You can still stay together and have kids . Marriage is an old tradition and i dont think its beneficial and worth the risk especially for those that have lazy spouses
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 02:26 PM
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Agree
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/25 11:04 PM
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Same my first lawyer was just draining me ended up getting a trial lawyer who take cases seriously. Alot of matrimonial lawyers that prefer not to do trial just want each side to settle and it feels like theyre playing both sides. Go with trial lawyers that are not afraid to fight Alot of them ate afraid of getting sued for malpractice and dont be afraid to pursue that as well if you are paying them and their laziness hurts your case
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/25 11:03 PM
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Financial struggles hurting everyone not realizing how its affecting their marriages too more unconscious projection etc
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 04:47 PM
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The sooner the better File tax return separate too The more u drag the more claim $$ the other may have to assets
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/25 04:58 AM
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Im in the us in a hcol. East coast retainers range from $18k-$40k $600 an hour. Seems like judges here wants everyone to pay for their own lawyers. Same thing I heard appeals are hard to get passed unless they can prove the judge was bias and wasnt using proper law
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/25 04:34 PM
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Congrats! Did she have to pay you alimony? Who paid for the legal fees?
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/25 06:23 AM
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Eek 😬 Are you in debt from the legal fees? Or had to give money to her… Glad you got 50/50 of the kids
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 12:30 AM
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Depends on what state. Also why didnt they sign a legal separation agreement? Or divorce sooner? Assets usually get split when filed (date of commencement)
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/25 02:13 PM
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Did you have a legal separation document? If not thats tough. Judge can deviate and use date of separation. Usually assets get split based on Date of Commencement (filing) Why did you not file sooner? What kind of retirement acct? Police pension or like 401k etc Des she have any assets? What kind of disability did she claim?! Like she cant walk?
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/25 08:01 PM
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Dam for how long? Couldnt have offset that with other assets in exchange of that? Was she a stay at home mom ?
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/25 01:48 AM
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You can but will need to provide proof he is cohabitating with her like a lease, utility bills etc
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/25 01:45 AM
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Does lump sum come with discount?
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/25 12:58 AM
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Why is she homeless frivolous spending? How long were you married for did she not have some kind of financial support?
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/25 12:46 PM
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If there is no common law marriage in the state you were NOT married even if she tries to claim that you guys gotta married in any kind of impromptu marriage. No signed marriage license NOT valid usually https://www.youtube.com/live/eYi0AOjtQpE?si=skAi7Xqha-W6FcaA 1:10:26 - heres an example of a case argued about if a marriage was legit or not, no official paper, no common law in NYC Excellent counsel arguing this exact scenario of a gf thinking shes married based on impromtu wedding during thei…
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/25 12:15 PM
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Take it out asap! Commingling is no good!
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 10:01 PM
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How can you prove it or does the other side need to admit it
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 12:22 PM
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