| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 13 | What should I do with all this love I have inside of me?You can love other people, not just women. I know what it feels like to be lonely, but don't wait to love until you have a woman. Love your friends, love your family. I know it's not the same as romantic love, but you'd be surprised how good it feels to share platonic love. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Should a man; get himself together, date the women who would never give him a chance, and then settle for a wife who appreciates him? Or should he find someone he adores to marry first? Should a man get all of the dissatisfaction out of his system?Thank you for this! | /r/ExRedPill | 17/11/22 12:09 AM |
| 3 | How to master empathyThis is exactly it. Well said. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/08/22 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Is it really over for women over 25?I’ll be 25 this year and I’m always mistaken for being way younger. I don’t wear heavy makeup and I moisturize daily. I think that helps my skin remain healthy. Also, at 24 my life has never been better. I have more money, a wonderful job, I’m pursuing my education, I travel when I want, etc. Life is what you make of it. Has nothing to do with age. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Does a man with a high body count impresses you?No. It grosses me out and makes me want to stay far away from him. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 04:15 PM |
| 2 | How does female attraction work, or rather how does a man become attractive?Same!! I hate my own voice in recordings, but other people have said my voice is very nice. I’m sure yours is the same. It just sounds weird to our own ears. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | How does female attraction work, or rather how does a man become attractive?I hear you, honey! Just pretend. Fake it till you make it. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/04/22 07:46 PM |
| 26 | How does female attraction work, or rather how does a man become attractive?Speaking as a woman, 24f, I find men with good personalities attractive. Guys who are gentle, have a good sense of humor, and can have a nice conversation are the absolute best. Facial hair is also very attractive to me. And eye contact. And when they use my name…. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/04/22 07:15 PM |
| 47 | Forever Girlfriend finds out her baby daddy isn’t going to marry her. This is why we need FDS.Men know within 6 months if they want a future with you. And here she is 7 years later. Men are actually pretty transparent and honest. We need to walk in the light of the truth and see these signs for what they are, not what we want them to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 11:40 PM |
| 157 | How to prevent hornyness related pickmeness on datesSame. Men I wouldn’t normally find attractive are suddenly very attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 04:11 AM |
| 17 | Dump him firstSpeaking as her— hell yes. He’s pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:30 AM |
| 172 | Dump him firstSheesh, girl. That was some bullshit. So glad you're past that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 11:17 PM |
| -2 | He wants to move in togetherI didn’t, that’s why I’m seeking advice here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | He wants to move in togetherI have it downloaded on my phone and have read it twice. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 02:24 PM |
| 36 | He wants to move in togetherHe wants to get married, and I would like to marry also, but I’m not sure if I’d like to marry him. He said he wants to propose within the next two years and I told him please don’t because I’m not near ready for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 12:45 PM |
| 17 | He wants to move in togetherThank you for this insightful comment. We’ve discussed the finances. We’re going to split everything. He’s currently working, but I’ll make more money than him with this job. I know I can save more money if I live by myself. I do eventually want to get married, but he wants to get married within the next couple of years. He’s told me so. He said he plans to propose to me. I told him please don’t yet because I’m not ready. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 12:43 PM |
| 13 | He wants to move in togetherThis is goals right here. The thing is, I eventually do want to get married, but not for many years from now! And he’d like to get married within the next two years or so, he’s told me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 12:41 PM |
| 14 | Giving up sex with men has been the best thing everI’ll never forget when I started dating my now ex boyfriend and we were talking about sex. And he said to me, “we never have to have sex again, if you don’t want. That’s not why I’m with you.” It was shocking because the boyfriend before him was constantly focused on sex. When we’d meet, that’s the first thing that would happen. But with this guy, we’d enjoy each other’s company, we’d cook together, travel somewhere for the day, do a fun activity, etc. and maybe have sex at the end. That was not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 07:18 PM |
| 10 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.I want to vomit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 02:59 PM |
| 114 | Angry right nowYou said it. I have several younger sisters and I’m terrified for them. Statistically something is going to happen to some, if not all, of them. Breaks my heart. All I can do is educate them and encourage them to be strong women of value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 05:53 PM |
| 4 | I was banned from relationship_advice sub for being a member of FDS.I feel very accomplished. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:34 AM |
| 6 | I was banned from relationship_advice sub for being a member of FDS.Yep, the responses were garbage anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:15 AM |
| 11 | I was banned from relationship_advice sub for being a member of FDS.Thank you 😌😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:11 AM |
| 8 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipRight, because they don't disrespect women they truly love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 04:20 AM |
| 10 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipWe get it, I think. Shallon Lester has an amazing quote and it goes something like this, "men lie to us, but not as much as we lie to ourselves." If we took their actions and words for what they were, we would see the writing on the wall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 04:11 AM |
| 15 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipAbsolutely. So let that drive you to make good decisions in the future. You've got this, babe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 03:39 AM |
| 22 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipAnd don't be angry at your past self. She was ignorant. Make peace with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 03:33 AM |
| 12 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipAmen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 03:28 AM |
| 26 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipRight. HVM will quickly make it known they want you, lest someone else gets you first. They wouldn't leave you guessing. A LVM like this really doesn't give a shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 03:05 AM |
| 34 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipHappened to me and I am still recovering. He was perfectly fine. But I was left with deep trauma that I am still working through. I’m dating again and I am extremely cautious. My well meaning mother said I will scare men off because I’m not very nice. I don’t give a shit about being nice. I have to protect myself. It is my duty to my inner woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 02:59 AM |
| 38 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipExactly!!! For us women, it’s a heart thing. For them, it’s their dick. They will do and say whatever they need to in order to get sex. It’s disgusting and depraved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 02:47 AM |
| 49 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipShe knows something isn’t right. That’s why she’s on the sub. Deep down, women know. I wish we would listen to our intuitions more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 02:32 AM |
| 29 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipShe’ll be posting on the same sub in a few years, “husband won’t help with children, has cheated but we worked through it” the usual | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 02:30 AM |
| 3 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipWell said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 02:29 AM |
| 25 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipExactly. Foolish woman. Just why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 02:22 AM |
| 45 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipYou said it. To her, that’s her boyfriend. To him, she’s just the placeholder, the source of sex until something better comes along. Hurts my heart to know so many women experience this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Wow...Right. And he clearly doesn’t give a shit about her anyway. Why does she think he’d even care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 05:37 AM |
| 5 | Wow...True. But yet another case of how the FWB thing only benefits the man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 02:46 AM |
| 11 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.In other words, how dare women have standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 11:24 PM |
| 2 | ANYONE who weaponizes your self improvement efforts against you is low value and should be immediately blocked and deleted.Yep. He’s in the past and he will stay there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Age gapsYes, I see those types of posts and they're terrifying. Makes me want to never get married. People (men) change so fast. I have known several bad ones and I really just want to find a good one. But how can you know what will happen in the future with him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Age gapsThank you for this comment. I asked him on one of our first dates if he would prefer dating a woman closer to his age and he said that he would if he was interested in someone closer to his age, but he was only interested in me. I notice that I haven't let my guard down fully with him and I am trying to listen to that. There's a reason for that resistance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Age gapsThis is a great point. He works and is pursuing his PhD. We do have some things in common, but he will be 30 soon. And that seems incredibly old to me. I'm a fresh 23! He's at the stage where he wants to settle down and start a family soon. I am not ready for that. I want to travel more and establish my career before committing to a family and children. This is definitely a potential problem, I think. I want a family eventually, but not in the next 5 years like he does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Age gapsOh I see. That makes sense. I appreciate the restrictions that go into posting/commenting on this sub. So not just anyone can post. I joined over a year ago and I still have a throwaway flair. It's truly a safe space for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Age gapsI am not able to see all the comments on this post. Is there a reason for that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Age gapsI see. Thank you. Maybe I will ask on askfds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:45 AM |
| 0 | Age gapsYes, I did. But it never specifically gave an age gap number recommendation, does it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Age gapsWould you mind explaining why this is a red flag? I want to be aware of any potential dangers here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:26 AM |
| 5 | ANYONE who weaponizes your self improvement efforts against you is low value and should be immediately blocked and deleted.Absolutely! Love this post. I’ll never forget when I took up running and proudly told my now ex boyfriend that I could run 3 miles in an hour. I felt so accomplished to do this as a beginner! He coldly said, “yeah, I doubt that.” Disgusting LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Need advice please :(Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 05:08 PM |
| 13 | This is what I mean when I say we need to call a spade a spade with our girlfriendsThis is fucking terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:04 PM |
| 77 | If only more men stepped up for what is right...In this house we stan Benjamin Cucumber. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 07:17 AM |
| 11 | I just came to the realization that maybe I fall for LVM because all the men in my family (dad, brother, most of my uncles) are LVM 🤯Yeah, I struggle with the same thing. I’ve started asking myself, “do you really like this, or is this just attention your dad never gave you?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 07:15 AM |
| 3 | Need advice please :(Thank you for this. It’s kind of hard when you’re inexperienced like myself and also inside of the situation, you know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Need advice please :(Thank you for your reply. I am currently reading the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Need advice please :(Thank you for your reply. I didn’t want any sort of longterm thing. I told him I simply wanted to date him monogamously and consider him my boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Need advice please :(So he’s been practicing on me. I hate that because he’s such a good actor. It seems really genuine sometimes. I feel so sickened by this..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 09:39 PM |
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