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" simply being a man doesn't guarantee a woman's interest anymore" It never did Lesbians have always existed Asexuals have always existed Women being sentient adults with a complex myriad of unique individual preferences/tases/etc that results in them disliking or liking individuals has always been a thing. Not to mention myself (I'm old) and many other men I know (from 20 somethings to old farts like me) routinely state that they've never in their entire life had a woman instigate/etc. be it se…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:29 PM
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"Just because a woman likes being flirted with in the workplace. Still doesn't change the fact that's it's bad to flirt in the workplace." I've worked in management, I've been in HR director, and even a CPO. TLDR: Yes, workplaces do consider such things to be bad regardless of who's doing them, and if both people consent or not. The majority of companies large and small have rules against public displays of affection, sexual activity, sexualization, workplace flirting, etc. If a company has such…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:17 PM
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No, in fact most FGM mutilations are performed on during various landmarks of puberty. It depends on the culture. For some it's pre-estras for some it's at estris for some it's a certain amount of time after estrus. Other cultures focus on a specific age. Some even use the amount of pubic hair as an indicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:49 PM
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Fgm removes the clitoris and prevents them from having an orgasm entirely. As an old bi man who has been with circumcised and uncircumcised men. I assure you none of them had an issue with orgasming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:48 PM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:04 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that you've observed the same thing yourself. All right it is sad. But thank you for making this comment. It's some nice to have validation. I've also noticed that certain more militant members of the community have started perpetuating the old '80s '90s era (bi people are just confused/faking/etc) tropes. The factionalism and unwelcomingness in the community for the last 5-10 years has been very disheartening.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 10:45 PM
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As a bi man, I agree. Most self-described "straight" women, even ones who claim to be "allies" seem to have vast oceans of disgust boiling just under the surface towards gay/bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:34 PM
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I mean it becomes way harder but there are never " no options". I am a physically unattractive, legally blind guy, and I eventually found someone who loved me, am now married, have kids etc., and now can add old to the list of repulsive things about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:19 AM
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So a person engaging in massive cognitive dissonance because of a fragile ego is not something that specific phrasing is going to fix. And that's the sort of person you're describing. That sort of person is only going to be able to be helped by therapist. But a more typical person would be able to notice their own failings and seek to improve them or seek the council of trusted friends/family to help them in these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:40 AM
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Yeah no crap but it's the same thing. A person gains your trust and violates it. It doesn't matter if they scammed you out of a gift card or did emotional damage. The point is you fell for the crap and then they were able to hurt you because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 09:17 PM
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There's a difference between texting with someone a few times and going on 1 or 2 dates. You know this, but what should I expect from someone who previously pretend to think that OP literally meant people had tags on them. 99% of adults can tell if someone is dangerous/a con/etc. with just a few IRL dates. No one is making absurd assertions that people are psychic. It's just that the majority of people don't get taken in by scammers and cultists and whatnot. If you are the sort of person that ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:54 PM
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As I said my eyes are a dumpster fire, and multiple people were replying to me all at the same time. I'm sorry if I mistook one chain/commenter for another Thanks you Things will be better eventually, and I've been through worse. Nothing compares to how bad it was when I was blind as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:08 PM
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They state Married = must be happy at all times Not happy at all times = not actually married or shit marriage And again I simply stated that's incel logic not reality. Only an incel would think having a spouse magically makes you immune to misery. A marriage is nice but you can still be miserable because you're disabled, lost your house, etc That's what I mean by them " projecting some sort of emotional state" on me But again it doesn't matter. It's just idiots, trolling or botz
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:58 PM
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You're just grasping at straws I'm not a grifter with a YouTube channel I am not a red pill or blue pill or a cult leader I am a person who made no initial statement other than to tell a person who is obviously raging online that I hope they have a better day and are happier But that person and a bunch of other people in this comment section are so insecure and so obviously unhappy that they've decided to waste their time putting words in my mouth and writing narratives to justify their perspect…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:43 PM
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Me being miserable because I lost my house and fair share of my company and him blind has nothing to do with Whether or not people on this subreddit are grooming people What the f*** are you talking about? Again, you're a bot or a troll I'm done
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:38 PM
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And again just like op. All I'm saying is if you recognize that you're deficient in such things instead of externalizing and saying "nobody can possibly do it", Be honest with yourself and admit that you have an issue with doing such things Then lean on the people that you trust in your life to help you learn how to do such things. Or if you can never learn how to do such things, lean on them to help you make those decisions And again It's not most people Most people can do it There's no shame i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:33 PM
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I assure you that if you were blind, had lost your house, and lost your fair share of your business, you would be miserable for a while too. Any assertion to the contrary is just infantile bluster. I'm guessing you're used to talking/ arguing with insoles and terminally single people, where they're impressed by your " you can't conceive of how my marriage is a rock upon which I stand and nothing can harm me" nonsense is impressive I find it to be insecure. A person who's secure in themselves or …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:31 PM
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Yes and a person with a reasonable amount of experience and or a decent IQ and or a decent IQ can read a new person in short order You're being intentionally up to is about this because you disagree with the point That or you're literally 12 and don't understand metaphors and similes and analogies Or you're a bot Either way it's like arguing with the troll done talking to you Bud. Hope you have a better day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:02 PM
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Yeah, you're fronting quite a bit. Romantic partners spouses family are not magic totems that once possessed make pain and suffering something your immune to Life is not that simple People aren't objects Life isn't a video game You're full of s*** if you claim that your dog gets hit by a car, but because you have a wife at home, you don't feel any despair You're obviously a liar or have no commitment to being sincere. I'm done talking to you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:00 PM
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A person can have things and be miserable It doesn't matter if you have a wife and children. It's s*** being blind The fact that I have a wife and children doesn't mean that I'm not going to be miserable about the fact that I lost my house and my fair share of my company Jesus, you must be deep in the pill space if you literally think life is as simple as... Spouse plus kids = permanent unconditional happiness Jesus Christ tell me you've never been married without telling me you've never been ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:38 PM
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I am sure that someone in 4chan or a million other sites commented on dead internet theory But dead internet theory was not invented by those random sites Random neck periods on random sites don't invent things. They quote things out of context and make memes I think we've hit the end of our dialogue
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:30 PM
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I just don't think you realize how resilient and Independent people are. I'm f** blind and ugly. I've had a s*** life filled with failures. I still found a woman that loves me, got married and had kids. I just got f***** out of my fair share of a company I helped build from nothing, I lost my house, and my wife and I and our kids are now having to crash with family. Things are pretty s, and my life has always been pretty s. I know a lot of other people in the blind and the broader disabled commu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:28 PM
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It's not women. It's all people. There is a small vocal minority of humans who do not have the EQ/ IQ/experience to accurately suss out whether someone is a s***** person or a con man or not. This vocal minority are the same type of people who get sucked into cults/pyramid, schemes/gangs, /scams/ etc. The majority of people don't fall for such things and the majority of people who have this sort of inability to judge things correctly learn to rely on trustworthy people in their life to help them…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:23 PM
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OP is not literally stating that people have information printed on their faces, and you know that, please stop pretending that you don't. What's being stated is that most people have the experience/iq/eq/ etc to be able to in fairly short order, determine such things about a person. Again, if you don't have that ability that's fine. You need to try to learn how to do that and if you're unable to then you should accept that about yourself and learn to lean on people you trust to help you navigat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:17 PM
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Okay in all sincerity, thank you for those links. I get it now. You unironically think that the majority of people can be taken in by those manosphere self-help gurus. I see where our disagreement is. I believe that the overwhelming majority of people be them young or old, have enough IQ, EQ, etc. to not be taken in by scams. The overwhelming majority of people never get tricked by a "Nigerian Prince", or become part of a cult/pyramid scheme/gang/etc. I do not think that the sort of people that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:14 PM
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You're angry enough that you didn't even type the words correctly. Not spelling errors, literally the wrong words. Anyway, I don't understand the 4chan references and much of what else you said, but it seems like you're trying to backpedal away from there being predators on here and into something about you thinking you're going to change people, mines or something. Like you unironically sincerely think that arguing on here is going to change someone's perspective about something, and then that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:09 PM
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Again, I don't see how you're saving people. If you legitimately think you've found these predatory older reditors who are scamming/abusing/ etc. emotionally vulnerable young redditors, why are you arguing in the comments and not reporting it. Or why aren't you posting the screenshots of it and what not? Like if you legitly think that adults can groom one another show me the evidence of it. If you legitly think that they're adults in this subreddit grooming minors, why aren't you reporting that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:02 PM
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Yeah, you're obviously not reading this thread. Stated already and already answered. Yes, I am miserable, it takes one to know no one. Again like the weird projection about me having disagreed with his statement which I in fact didn't, you're now projecting some sort of ego and emotional state on me that I have not expressed and do not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:59 PM
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Like OP said Most people can read the labels, if you discover you don't know how to read the labels, have someone in your life that you trust. Read them to you. In short, most people have enough experience and or a high enough EQ to be able to fairly quickly suss out if someone is a dangerous sociopath or a con person or a habitual cheater or a bigamist or a spouse abuser or so on and so forth. And most people are self-aware enough to observe if they're unable to make such distinctions. It's lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:57 PM
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Yeah as stated above I'm not arguing with the assertion. I simply stated that I can tell he (and now you) are profoundly unhappy angry people. I haven't said I disagree at all. In fact, I do agree, I think a lot of dating apps are pointless and low effort. In general, most things in life that are low effort are pointless. You get out of life what you put into it. But again it's really f****** telling how tilted and salty all of you are after I said functionally. little more than " sorry you're n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:50 PM
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Shouting "OLD", "unfuckable", etc. your general vitriol, which by your own admission you're well aware of. But like what sort of straw man argument is this. You can't have it both ways. You can't have a " I just calls it like I like I see it" unapologetic trash talking attitude one minute, then be like " I don't understand where you're getting any of this negativity from. I've been nothing but positive and engaged in sincere meetings of the minds" the next minute. "Pull young men" That's the mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:43 PM
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I mean it's the completely unironic and unapologetic name calling for one. But yes, I am miserable. It takes one to know one. I'm just self-aware enough to realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:18 PM
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No, people with experience and/or a decent EQ can accurately suss out the good from the bad, be it in relationships (with any gender) or in business or in platonic social interactions. If you're unable to do so, the first step is acknowledging that you don't have that skill. The second step is finding someone who does and having them help you. What isn't constructive is projecting your own failings on the rest of the world. Projecting like that is like when a drug addict doesn't want to admit th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:14 PM
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I didn't say I disagreed; I didn't say anything that implied I was arguing with you at all. It's just obvious to me that you're hurting. Life is too short to be too angry, especially about people online who because of their distance and anonymity functionally aren't even real at all. Not to mention that probably most of them literally aren't real at all because the internet died in 2016. Anyway, I hope you become happier soon. Because a happy fulfilled person doesn't spend their time doing this.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:10 PM
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You're obviously hurting and I'm sorry for that. I hope things get better and you're able to be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:04 PM
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I think op and the people they're dating are too young or too old. People who are too young often have shitloads of really short melodramatic immature relationships that they're having trouble dealing with because they're immature. And because they're immature they don't know that trauma dumping on everyone they meet is not cool. In contrast, people who are too old do the same thing for slightly different reasons. So you have someone in their forties who had a long-term relationship or marriage …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:04 PM
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Sold
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:34 PM
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I mean people really push back hard against Flat Earthers. Flat Earth is obviously stupid b*******, but that's exactly why it pisses them off so much, and why people loudly push back against it so hard. I've literally seen those people get ridiculed beers dumped on them and beat up IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:10 AM
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Selective service exists and the government can vote to institute a draft at any moment. Just because there isn't actively a draft in effect doesn't mean that having a draft was outlawed or that the government doesn't still have that power. You're phrasing and verbiage implies that you think that it was a monolithic thing. There were separate drafts, across separate wars/conflicts. Not just something monolithic called "The Draft" that was always on until people outlawed it or something. Are you …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:46 PM
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So first off that's a far cry from op claiming 30% and what not. Secondly, I wasn't claiming that women orgasmed as easily as men were as easily in a casual encounter as they did with a long-term partner. I was disputing op's claim which pointed to an absurdly low incidence of orgasm, that was so low that it would actually have been indicative of widespread sexual dysfunction. Third, you cannot use AI to reference a research paper like this. Have you not seen the millions of examples of experts …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:27 PM
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What is your supposed percentage and other claims about orgasms/sexual satisfaction even based on. Every person I've ever dated and the overwhelming majority of my friends/coworkers/etc. male/female/etc. (including the self reporting we did in psych class) have had way more casual and serious sexual partners than that. Similarly the things I've read/seen over the years from psych class, to articles and documentaries don't begin to reflect what you're talking about. Heck Kinsey did those studies …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:47 AM
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This is the most lack of self awareness sexist rant I've seen in a while. It's so bad it could be satire. Tell me you're a, teenage girl who's parents got divorced and blindly sided with Mommy, and let your immature reaction to that life event metastasize without telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:04 AM
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That's because equity made up its own terms for everything to create a circular logic loop to justify its own conclusions. The equity movement is the product of a small group, who built it and marketed it. It was a product that was manufactured and sold so that entire majors and entire positions like like Chief Equity Officer (CEqO), Equity & Compliance Investigator, Compliance Officer, Chief Compliance Officer, etc. It's like arguing with a person who sells essential oils and insists on using a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:40 PM
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Sport ball is not a fight to the death, but I don't expect edge lords who "study martial arts" to understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:45 AM
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Yeah you're totally right. I am just some tin foil hat lunatic who is not poking holes in your internalized sexist paradigm. I am just making everything up, you can totally just discount me like everyone else you run into as being a troll or someone with an agenda. Don't consider any other perspectives, just keep your head down and keep repeating all the same s*** you've always told yourself your whole f****** life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 02:06 AM
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Sportball is different than a life or death struggle. I assure you there are way more stories of women lifting cars off of babies, etc. than men. Men get raped by women, men get sexually assaulted by women, men get murdered by women (not just poisoning which is a sexist stereotype) then get mugged by women but it isn't reported and when it is it isn't properly prosecuted for a variety of systemic sexist reasons. I assure you, a grown ass woman could beat your average teenage boy to a bloody f***…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:38 AM
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That is complete and utter b*******. I can't think of a single woman that I've known (with the exception of ones who were disabled) who couldn't easily beat a 15 or 16-year-old to death with her bare hands. Are all your female friends terminally ill or like 90? Or are you some sort of self-hating woman with internalized misogyny or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:26 PM
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You have a huge f****** addiction to copium my friend. Maybe just stop being a f****** racist and a bigot and a sexist. Maybe judge people based on the person and not their f****** jeans, calling for specific bits and specific colors. And maybe plugging your ears and looking at fudge numbers and cherry picking statistics. But that's cool. Someone hurt you once so you can do whatever you want to anyone you want for the rest of your life. That's totally not the EQ of a 5-year-old or a f****** seri…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:24 PM
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So you're saying it's okay if some f***** in Nazi is terrified of certain minorities because statistics show that they're more likely to commit violent crimes? See how it doesn't f****** work. You can do all the mental f****** gymnastics and cognitive dissonance that you want, but you're still using b******* to be a bigot to individuals. Be suspicious of everyone to the same degree regardless of their skin color or their genitals or their other arbitrary genetics. Judge individuals and be fearfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:02 PM
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Cool. And because I don't have flair you know my race ROFL It's not a gas light. It's logic. I'm sorry you have difficulty with logic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:31 PM
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"What's good for the goose is good for the gander" test. Swap all the statements about women or females or your girlfriend in your statement to white male, and swap all the statements about men to African American. The person you described would be a flaming bigot. So the same is true of any woman that has this perspective. You judge individuals based on their individual actions. It does not matter how many people that have a certain set of genitals or a certain skin tone or a certain facial sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:19 PM
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" having sex is a huge health risk" You literally sound like a frothing Bible. Thumping prude. You're a second away from screaming about the evils of sodomy. I'm done talking to you, you're obviously a troll, or a bot, or so filled with cognitive dissonance that you have literally no perspective or objectivity left in your skull.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 09:15 PM
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"Self-preservation" Your melodrama is absurd What another woman decides to do in her bedroom does not impact your survival or the survival of said woman. You have no business telling consenting adults what they can and can't do. You've heard the expression. If you don't want a gay marriage then don't have a gay marriage If you don't want to date someone for their political or religious views, that's great don't But you're not doing that. You're some toxic woman hating women who wants to regulate…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:11 PM
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Your post is about hating women because you are ordering women about what to do sexually and calling them a moral if what they do sexually does not conform to your opinion. You're literally a woman hating on other women for their sexual choices. You can make as many nonsensical straw man arguments as you want, but it doesn't change that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:47 PM
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You don't " just have them " You're a judgemental moralizing woman who judges other women for their sexual choices and tries to regulate their behavior through the bullying them. You're exactly like a 1950s "slut shamer" you just have different talking points/insults, and are in denial of it. Just like all the other women hating women out there, take a long hard look at your internalized misogyny, and fix yourself. If you really cared about "helping make the world a better place" you wouldn't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:34 AM
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What an incredibly weak comeback. You wouldn't have made the post if you weren't trying to stand up on the pulpit and moralistically finger waggle at the people you perceive as your ethical inferiors. You're judging people and condemning them for what they do with their genitals because of your moralism. It's not a gray area issue; that's what you're doing, so again, enjoy walking amongst the same ranks of the toxic misogynistic pastors in priests in Bible thumping politicians that you supposedl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:55 AM
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It's amazing that you think that you can dictate and control women's sexual freedom with a random post on the internet. It's even more amazing that you don't realize that making statements of command and moralizing about people's sexual activities literally makes you the sort of authoritarian prude that you're railing against. Seriously think about how f***** it is that you unironically think that it is your place to tell other human beings what they can and can't do with their genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:28 PM
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Yeah it's bizarre. When you meet older couples 10 to 11-year age gaps are common, and it's about 50/50 as far as which partner is older. None of them are pedos. Almost all of them are something akin to a 30-year-old dating a 20-year-old, or even more common s*** like a 50-year-old dating, a 40-year-old or a 60-year-old dating a 50-year-old and so on and so forth. Lastly, the whole idea that you can f****** groom an adult is insanely demeaning and infantilizing. It also trivializes the actual vic…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:07 PM
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There's a typo in your title. Here let me fix it, "People don't love you, they love what you can do for them."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:08 PM
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Yeah totally, and they also don't fart or masturbate, you're absolutely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:32 PM
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Tell me you're a person with massive psychosexual hang-ups that you're externalizing without telling me that you're a...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:11 PM
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Yawn Sure sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:42 AM
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Yeah, it's almost as if you need to be with someone who is trustworthy and that that's the most important thing in a relationship above everything else including sense of humor, income, sex appeal, etc. because none of those mean anything if that partner is just going to f you over and leave you or be the s out of you or steal your kidney or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:28 AM
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I think it's incredibly obvious given the context that it wasn't a personal attack. Again grammar the "royal you". Especially within the context of the full conversation. I'm talking about a person. If a person wants to... If you want to... I guess do whatever you think you need to do as far as voting on it with your other mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:31 PM
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There wasn't a personal attack. I am talking about people and perspectives in general. I'm talking about people having pathologies a person having pathologies. I was using the "royal you", etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:22 PM
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Prove to who? To yourself because you're insecure and have a pathology? To someone else. Because again you're insecure and have a pathology? There just isn't a scenario where what you're describing is true unless the person has a problem. Lastly, I'm really f** tired of people bitching about it being impossible to get casual sex. What they mean is it's impossible for them to get casual sex with people that they think are perfect. If you want casual sex, make a Fet Life account, or start going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:32 PM
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You're just so wrong. I'm sure there's a man or two out there that feels like this, but I'm also sure they're human pieces of s***, who are insecure narcissists. Normal people eat because they're hungry and they enjoy eating, not because they think eating will make them look cool. Normal people have sex because they're horny and it feels good, not because they think it will make them look cool. It's like you're stuck in the perspective of a middle schooler or something and think that everyone el…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:14 AM
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Yeah, it has always shocked me that some people will point to the fact that in certain countries the prisons are filled with an overwhelming percentage of one ethnicity... But then they look at basically every country in the world and see that the prisons are always overwhelmingly filled with men and they don't find that the slightest bit concerning. No gender has the monopoly on evil/violence/crime /etc. I assure you that there is a tremendously large number of women out there who get away with…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:30 PM
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What if she's the one who insists on having kids? Why should that decision be subsidized? Would you insist a partner subsidize an equally costly and impractical dream like a sports car/boat/etc.? This is a common thing I only ever see online. "He forced me to have kids, I never wanted them, and being pregnant is super gross, I would never have done it if he didn't insist." IRL Most people who want kids are both excited to have kids, it's a huge part of why they're in a relationship. It was discu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:05 PM
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So there's a bit of something like survivorship bias here. Yes of course anyone (regardless of sex/gender) who is a spouse beater/abuser has to be in relationships because if they weren't you wouldn't notice that they were one. If they don't have a partner to punch, then they don't have a partner to punch. So you're only seeing/noticing/perceiving the abusers who are successful in relationships. You're not seeing any of the abusers who only had one partner and then we're perpetually single or ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:55 PM
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Yep it's not all men and it's not all women. But those men/women insist that it is "all"/"most" and deny that their "side" does it or is anything other than the victim. It's really similar to the political polarization that's so rampant now a days. It's always only the other party that does bad things our side is blameless or is only fighting dirty because they've been so victimized that it's their only choice. Even saying, there're shit people doing shit things on all sides, and the obvious sol…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:48 AM
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https://youtu.be/c_vKrQghd2c?si=kbvV1oeRqTzEu7Ko
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:23 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:31 PM
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Never thought of this but my only happy and successful opposite sex relationships have been with women who had already at least dated one or two women seriously. This includes my current (and only marriage) which is coming up on 15 years. Not sure if this has anything to do with the fact that I am bi as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:49 PM
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LOL you've clearly never been stuck sitting in the lunchroom next to the 20 to 40 something white lady office click at a state job in Portland or Salem Oregon. They do exist. The thing I disagree with most people about is how many there are because most assholes (regardless of their belief system, gender, etc.) are just vocal minorities which are statistical outliers hence ultimately inconsequential.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 07:09 AM
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I didn't argue with you about anything. You made a statement. I made a statement about my personal IRL experience, which is a statement of fact, not an argument. I didn't make any value statements. I didn't say you were wrong. Again, I don't understand why you're straw manning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:15 PM
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Did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:04 PM
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Again I never said anything about randoms posting online. Read what I wrote, stop straw manning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:59 PM
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What does a random comment I hadn't seen until now have to do with my statement? I said "no one I know". I don't know some random poster. I also, no one I know believes in "crisis actors" but yes I'm certain you can easily find a random poster on reddit posting about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:51 PM
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Man here I don't know anyone regardless of gender who defines it that way, and I don't know anyone who blames women for it. Gender specific issues aren't necessarily caused by another gender or group.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:05 PM
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I have never dated someone who I didn't meet at work or at school or at a hobby or through a friend group. I have never successfully just hit on a stranger and had it work out well. The most successful of those scenarios only ever garnered me one or two dates that went nowhere. I literally met my wife through a friend group and we connected through tabletop rpgs and similar movie and music tastes. I am not attractive and I am not desirable. I'm legally blind (imagine never picking your date up, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:15 PM
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FetLife/AdultFriendFinder/etc. Or The hookup/BDSM/swinging/sex positive/ethical non- monogamy/etc. Reddit/Facebook group/discord/etc. for your City Those are all easily accessible places that are literally just for people to honestly hook up/for friends with benefits, or one night stands or group stuff or whatever. It's not that hard. It's just that most people that complain about these sort of things are actually giant prudes who are insanely picky and want everything to be super romantic or su…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:25 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:21 PM
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They do if they're on a hookup site.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:14 PM
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Sure, sure. Have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:25 PM
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That you're wasting your life arguing with a troll on the Internet and probably a lot of other things like you're supposedly awesome "modest life" that's "free from compromise" with the supermodel from Canada that I wouldn't have heard of. I don't know man the fact that you're trying to debate people on the internet to begin with and you spend your time on Reddit suggest to me that you aren't happy for a variety of reasons For the love of God you unironically post on purple pill debate you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:13 PM
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Wow God that's incredible. Why didn't you say "I'm rubber your glue"? God you're so salty, it's hilarious and you can't stop replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:08 PM
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ROFL yeah you kept arguing with me for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:05 PM
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Yeah, it's just like shoplifters/etc. They say s*** to rationalize like "everybody steals". You're just salty because you don't like being confronted with the fact that the overwhelming majority of people aren't phonies like you. Me and probably countless others pointing out that most people aren't lying, b***, faking, etc makes you feel icky so instead of processing those those emotions you're feeling. Good luck with your supermodel wife from Canada and all that epic s***. Go back to California…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:02 PM
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Yeah you shouldn't care about my morality but you should care about your own. Saying lying is bad or stealing is bad, ect. and then building a framework that is objective and consistent regardless of the circumstance means you're an ethanical person.. It means you're an adult with at least an average EQ, that you have some capacity for empathy and for reasoning. You on the other hand have basically said I do what I feel like doing when I feel like doing it, so I'm going to be honest and civil to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:43 PM
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A liar to one is a liar to all even one's self. Morality isn't relative. Go back to California hippie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:02 PM
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That's like saying I never raped a kid. I only robbed Banks. That's all that matters. I'm not a pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:28 PM
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Cool then don't go online and whine about not getting laid. If you choose not to have sex, that's on you. The world doesn't owe you anything. It doesn't f** owe you money. It doesn't f** owe you love and it certainly doesn't f** owe you p****.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:43 AM
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ROFL yep you typed that on your private jet getting h*** from your supermodel wife. You'd tell me her name but I wouldn't know her she's from Canada. You lead a perfect life of zero compromise and it's all worked out perfectly. You're surrounded by loved ones, loyal friends, & you're respected by your peers in your industry. Boy you sure did prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:01 AM
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Cowards lie. Be honest with yourself. Be honest with the people you bang. Everything's easier when you're honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:52 AM
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Over 40
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:50 AM
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That's the reason why you're not getting laid. Because it has to be perfect or it doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:49 AM
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I'm bald and ugly and leglly blind, but when I was single I still made out fine. If you fail on those apps it's because you're a prude or you're too picky or you live in the middle of nowhere and there just aren't enough people to support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:36 PM
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You don't have to be hot/rich/etc. just honest. Make a hookup site account.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:38 PM
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If you just want to bang be honest make a hookup site profile (FetLife/adult friend finder/etc.) you'll get more with way less effort and everything is honest and out on the open.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:37 PM
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People need to just go to hookup sites if all they want is to bang or to make a friend with benefits. Be open and honest with yourself and others and in a week to a month you'll have had a one night stand or have made a new FWB. Save dating sites for honest attempts at relationships not flings/experimentation/standas/FWB/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:35 PM
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Same. I learned that if I was ever going to have anything social I had to be the first one to initiate, and the second one and the third one, etc. You have to get desensitized to rejection and mockery. It's the price of finding connections unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:22 PM
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See my other examples of things they refused to cover but have been forced to buy law. They've wasted absurd amounts of money lobbying against it but those laws were passed and have not been repealed. Also clearly you didn't read or refused to acknowledge the rest of what I wrote, because I listed multiple reasons why from a medical/bio ethics perspective it would be a warranted & necessity. Clearly you have no interest in having a sincere meeting of the minds, so I won't be replying further.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:14 AM
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It's a medical necessity if we legislate it as a right. Once it's the law it's not up for debate. They have to comply regardless of how counterintuitive they might think it is. As far as the medical necessity, it is absolutely necessary due to the large number of genetic disorders that the identity of both parents be firmly established. Not to mention that most people would consider it the child's right to know the truth of their origins, and the genetic baggage, social baggage, etc. associated …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:14 PM
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If something is mandated by law, they have to cover it. OP is talking about making this a right. They didn't used to have to cover pre-existing conditions, the law changed now they have to. Birth control (when not medically necessary to correct a hormonal imbalance like PCOS/etc.) is not mandatory. It is elective but it's covered under general reproductive health and the overwhelming majority of insurance plans that have prescription coverage allow you to apply it to your prescription coverage d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 09:08 PM
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The health insurance provider. It's the same people that pay for the delivery.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:25 PM
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50% of Boomer marriages and to a lesser extent Gen X, end in divorce and that's just because it was a novel new thing to them. All the generations after the boomers have a much lower divorce rate because they didn't feel as much cultural pressure to get married (so people who never wanted that sort of commitment just never got into) and they always knew divorce was an option so there was no point at which it became novel and trendy for them. All that said, yes paternity tests are a right. There'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:31 AM
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ROFL How is writing showing off? If you honestly think writing is showing off that says a lot about you. It's some sentences, not someone doing a a wheelie. Joking aside you have my sympathies if you struggle with literacy. To your other point yes I know a tremendous amount about cults that advocate polygamy not just LDS/Mormon s***. First off a good friend that went to my high school moved to SLC after graduation and while he lived in Utah he volunteered for a non-profit that helps young people…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:44 PM
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The only way polygamy will become socially accepted and legal in the United States of America is if women start having multiple husbands/wives on the regular. Then they'll make it legal for everybody. This is because the male dominated version of a polygamist household has so many well-earned toxic associations with human trafficking, incest, pedo stuff, and whatnot because almost every cult leader ever has started to advocating that they should have a ton of wives and then before you know it al…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:03 AM
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Impoverished nations are still dealing with populations that are spiraling out of control. I assure you there will still be a surplus of people as long as you allow immigration. Not to mention this whole quote unquote crisis doesn't account for the fact that supposedly we're all going to lose our jobs to robots so there will be a surplus population from that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:47 PM
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The number one most important thing for any relationship to be successful is that the partner you pick is trustworthy. It does not matter how hot or rich or funny or like-minded a person is if they're not trustworthy none of that s matters because if they're an untrustworthy piece of s on a long enough timeline your relationship is going to be a dumpster fire that you burn and suffocate inside of. The next most important thing is having multiple hobbies/interests/passions in common. If you don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:59 PM
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Yeah, I think a lot of people don't realize (or for whatever reason refuse to accept), that much of the crap that people pull in relationships isn't some elaborate sociopathic plan or the result of crazy societal pressures it's a lot more crude and petty than that, most of the time it's just laziness. People know what they need to do differently and/or people know what they need to work on but they're just like "f*** it" and find some sort of lazy stopgap half-assed way around it. Of course a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:05 PM
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Yes this is a likely scenario. That said, there are also other scenarios that are more likely than "withholding/punishment/spite". For example if someone's libido radically decreases over a period of only a couple years that can be a sign of a medical or psychological issue, it's just that we as a society have some sexist attitudes that make us think it is normal for that to happen to a woman. Everyone would be concerned if a man for the most part lost his ability to become erect over a period o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:22 PM
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Also just go on FetLife or go on pure or on a billion other apps and sites that are just for people to f****** hook up. Find some couple looking for a unicorn or some couple looking for a bull. If you're open-minded and not a giant f****** prude and you practice proper hygiene, you can get laid consistently no matter how f****** ugly you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:53 AM
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It's almost like some people are promiscuous and some people aren't promiscuous. It's almost like all women aren't the same woman and all men aren't the same man and you can't stereotype people and put them in monolithic boxes. Since everyone is an individual and individuals can have their own unique perspectives and opinions... ...if you want to be promiscuous maybe you should go date people that are down for that and if you don't want that to be a part of your life maybe you should date people…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:22 PM
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It's almost like people don't fit into the little stereotype boxes they make for themselves and each other. One random group of one demographic cannot possibly speak for that entire demographic. Like anything; some women do like hookup culture and some don't, and some women do or don't depending on where they are in life or where they are emotionally. The same is true for men. It's not magical it's just like food preferences. Sometimes you crave something, sometimes you don't. Sometimes you love…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:42 PM
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First thing that pops into my head is hemorrhoids and anal sex. Don't get me wrong I'm well aware of that normal healthily practiced anal sex does not cause hemorrhoids. But I think it's like 1/3 of Americans will have hemorrhoids by the time they're 50 even if they have healthy diets it's just your body wearing out. And I'm sure some people can have anal sex with hemorrhoids but for the majority of people this is just not worth it. The second thing I can think of is getting burnt out on somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:01 PM
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Yes It's less common with straight couples but it's not rare at all. Super common with gay/bi. About half of the successful gay marriages/long term couples I know both of partners are almost the same level of masculinity/femininity and have almost the same manifestations of those traits. As an aside all the successful couples I know regardless of demographics have tons of interests and hobbies in common. I can't think of a single couple I've known where he was obsessed with the violin and she wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:08 PM
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Oh my God you literally can't tell the difference between p*** and reality. The girls on the internet want you to look and touch yourself. If the girls in real life want you to look and touch yourself they will come up to you and start grinding on you; otherwise they're not dressing that way for you they're dressing that way for themselves or their partner. If you have a hard time with your libido invading your thoughts, try making sure you masturbate every morning if that doesn't work masturbat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:42 AM
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I am legally blind and due to this a touch screen keyboard is very time-consuming and difficult to use. So instead I use voice to text. Yes I'm aware that you can turn the auto sensorship off on voice to text. Turning it off and on is time consuming and annoying. Due to my financial circumstances I have to use this phone for both personal and work activities. I never want there to be a situation where voice to text misunderstands me and includes a profanity instead of my intended word on a work …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:02 AM
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When in doubt drugs are not the answer. Go to therapy get on that couch and do the actual f****** work. More often than not in life there are no shortcuts or magic pills or silver bullets that will fix things you have to f****** do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:04 AM
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Sure thing. Tell yourself that. I hope you find a way to enjoy all the fake smiling faces. I hope you find a way to cope with that nagging little piece of you deep down inside that constantly points out to you all your flaws and whispers "phony" in when you're alone. I hope you get to the point where you don't feel scared of them finding out that you're an imposter. Actually I don't: I don't hope anything for you, because you're just a random thing that it was entertaining to poke at for a littl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:13 AM
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"apt to assume" God you really are some Fedora tipping neck bearded piece of s*** aren't you. Jesus f****** Christ you probably are the sort of moron that quotes f****** Tesla and thinks he was a philosopher. Yeah so you've just completely proven every f****** point I've made; well adjusted people don't go on tinder/etc and make embellished and superficial profiles and then lie to one another and then cry about it after. The majority of people are well adjusted and they date real people that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:06 AM
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Cuz you date lunatics from dating sites I explained it above. Not to mention people that are being exploited and conned often don't know they're being exploited in conned because they're being exploited in cond at the time do you f****** get it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:48 AM
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"I've pulled..." They're human beings not collectible cards or whatever sort of dehumanizing s*** you decided to do that phrasing alone is enough for me to know that you're a scumbag sociopath misogynist have a good night loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:43 AM
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I agree with 90% of the above. You're hitting upon a lot of things even a freshman psychology class would tell you about why people become codependent or stay in/seek out abusive relationships regardless of gender. I've had plenty of friends and acquaintances of both genders that were in physically or emotionally abusive relationships or in codependent relationships or just in relationships with losers where they obviously could have done better and even had better options but kind of ended up i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:57 PM
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Yeah I think part of the point is normal/average/etc. women aren't on dating apps only desperate/dysfunctional/etc. women are on dating apps. It's just like the people you argue with on Reddit or interact with on other parts of social media are typically nothing like the people you encounter in your normal social life or at work or so on and so forth. They're a very specific statistically and significant self-selected sample and the same is true for the dating app crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:14 PM
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You literally must not have read my comments I have paragraphs about how if there is going to be an arbitrary number it must at least be consistent. That said, it is just an arbitrary number and the entire concept is inherently both ageist and cultural centric.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:42 PM
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Yeah that's not really proof because the amount of drunk driving collisions and other traffic accidents stayed about the same and there were also massive improvements in car design and that resulted in increased survivability of passengers moreover many states past mandatory seat belt laws which further increase the survivability of such accidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:05 AM
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You're either old enough to have sex or you're not. A sex act is a sex act, you can't make a special caveat for sex workers/performers that would be hypocritical. The fact is 18 is the age at which you can be forced (via the draft) to go fight and die in a war without your own consent it's absurd the people have to wait till 21 to drink and often wait till their mid-twenties early thirties for rental cars and other types of things that involve liability insurance (varies with company but super c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:56 AM
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I agree, bigotry is bigotry. They used to literally teach in school the "what's good for the goose is good for the gander" test, to see if something was bigoted. The TLDR version is, You're making a generalization or statement about a group and instead of being a group that has an ideology that people join willingly so that everyone in general knows what their bad or what they're into it's a thing like skin color or ethnicity or whatnot where people don't get to choose whether they belong to it …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:47 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:05 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:04 PM
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I think they also misinterpret causes for their own parents or family friends or peers divorces. A ton of couples that breed too young or haven't properly demystified what child rearing and parenting is actually like end up having resentment filled stressed out lives and get divorced. Both partners in these sort of situations have high instances of infidelity and I think many red pill people focus on the infidelity and not the other extenuating factors so then they write this fantasy about it al…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:04 PM
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I'm sorry I'm struggling to think of a time looking at their post history would make sense. The only thing I could think of is if you were trying to determine if they were just scamming or just trolling (they post contradictory reviews on multiple threads because they just like stirring the pot) but is there any other reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:47 PM
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I'm in my 40s the majority of my peer group are also in their 40s or 50s and the majority of all of us are married or in relationships that have been ongoing for 7 years or more. My peer group is a mix of straight bi and gay with a couple trifecta's that are exclusive. None of us have dead bedrooms. There is less sex than when we were younger but life gets busier and your body isn't wine it turns to vinegar when it ages so in the same way that we're not all up to 3:00 in the morning all weekend …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:48 AM
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I would never date anyone regardless of gender who is unemployed. I would caution anyone I know regardless of gender against dating anyone regardless of gender who is unemployed. Even the majority of disabled people can and should have a job. Source I'm f****** blind and I pay my own way. Be very suspicious of the habitually unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:20 AM
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You're not compelled to help anyone regardless of their circumstances and regardless of your circumstances. You're only morally compelled and legally compelled to not harm people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:36 AM
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The point is you shouldn't think that it's acceptable to just subject someone to your worst all the time and then expect them to still be in love with you. It's the sort of s*** entitled narcissistic pricks think to justify treating their partner like a f****** doormat. It's the sort of thing that the partner who's always a deadbeat and out of work and never f****** does the dishes and always f****** breaks the computer and is always getting huge speeding tickets or getting in a fight with the n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:14 AM
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If they don't love you at your worst they don't deserve you at your best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:12 AM
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Once again we'll have to disagree, because I think that they're just farting out albums at this point because what else are they going to do because their entire personality identity and self-image is probably inexorably wrapped up with the band and also money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:16 PM
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I don't think "it's on me". Taste is subjective. I stand by my opinion they went full DeNiro. Agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:22 PM
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You are a scholar!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:32 PM
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No I keep listing to their catalog because I'm a masochist and I keep hoping that I'm going to find something I like but I stick with my original opinion Bridges to Babylon was the last thing they did that was passable and everything else is just a caricature of themselves. They've gone full blown Robert de Niro mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:26 PM
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Couldn't disagree more on all the fronts especially the final one about their career. The stones have become a caricature of themselves, in the same way that now instead of acting Robert de Niro is always a caricature of Robert de Niro in all of his roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:51 PM
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Well according to a quick search... Mick Jagger. 79 (turning 80 before the end of 2023) Keith Richards. 79 (turning 80 before the end of 2023) Ron Wood. 75 Charlie Watts. Dead
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:26 PM
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Yeah I don't think it's about her actually being mad I think it's about him feeling like he has failed sexually, romantically, and in general as a spouse possibly due to an aptitude or just the ravages of age. I think him accusing her of being mad is meant to be taken ironically and to be a self-deprecating acknowledgment of how people often project their own inadequacies on their partners and blame their partners for things that are ultimately their own fault. But everyone has their own interpr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:04 PM
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Yes I did and although no relationship is perfect the clear communication and honesty makes all the difference in the world. The other thing that is a pretty good cheat code is the fact that we have a large amount of hobbies and opinions in common. We were really good friends for a couple years then we were friends with benefits for a couple years then we dated for a couple years and now we've been married for over 10 years and have two children. I still feel like I married my best friend and ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:11 AM
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The disgust for those is derived from the disgust for the rest of it. If a person doesn't like pickles do they like pickle flavored potato chips would they like a pickle scented body lotion? Also to the plastic toy thing they don't have hair on their legs and so on and so forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:44 AM
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So when I'm licking you to get you off I don't like f****** hair stuck in my throat it's as simple as that. I think most people's disgust for male or female body hair in particular around the genitalia comes from this. For the record I hate hairy men and hairy women. It doesn't matter what I'm sucking on or what gender is sitting on my face there better not be any f****** hair getting stuck in my throat or on my tongue. I am 100% convinced that 90% of the population's disgust for body hair is de…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:18 AM
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It was infuriating. I didn't want a passive aggressive partner, I wanted an equal who communicated honestly, so finding a successful partner took forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:14 AM
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Funny I'm also in that age bracket. I have also known men and women over my life even one now who pursued sugar daddies and sugar mamas, but both parties were always open and honest about the nature of the relationship there was no deception they'd even both make jokes about it in public. Most of the people I knew who had very little or no sexual chemistry but still ended up in a long term relationship eventually developed sexual chemistry four or five years in. Love is a powerful thing and once…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:42 AM
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I couldn't agree more. Much of the youth of any generation fall into the "r/I am the main character" or "r/I am so badass" infantile mindsets but this current crop doesn't even seem to have the flimsy justifications previous generations had as to why they're so self-centered and their egos are so inflated or why they're so angry. It's like there aren't even subcultures and countercultures anymore amongst the youth. There used to be multiple stripes of preppy and normie and nerd and music enthusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:16 AM
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I've done things with people who I had functionally no lust towards but was romantically enthralled with. The mind is ultimately the most powerful sexual organ any of us have. So I've had to say this in this forum a million times but here we are again. Lust does not equal love, they often overlap but they can also be separate things and the things that go into love like trust respect and so on and so forth are much rarer than lust. I have never met a person IRL who did not understand this and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:59 AM
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Most people in the world are mature enough to realize that sexual attraction and libido are ephemeral things that are not incredibly important. Love and respect and trust and lust are all separate traits and the most common amongst them and the most ephemeral amongst them is lust. People aren't wine they don't get better with age; we're all one car accident or just 10-15 years away from being in a wheelchair or looking like absolute garbage. Of course you can lose the lust you feel for your part…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:34 PM
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I don't understand your point women do exactly the same thing. I was in Cub Scouts serving tables at charity events getting my ass and crotch grabbed by women in their twenties to women in their 80s. In fact women (typically complete strangers or people only tangentially related to my familial or academic life) getting handsy with me in wildly inappropriate ways didn't stop until I was about 15 from then on it ended entirely, but from the age of about 10 until 15 it was constant. I had a very un…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:33 PM
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Absolutely People put way too much emphasis on sex, it's not important it's just a thing just a physical act As you said this isn't a regular occurrence so I would put it in the same camp as a partner asking for a back rub when they know I don't really like giving back rubs but they're back legit hurts so they need help Partners that love each other help each other it's as simple as that Once again there's an obvious caveat for if someone is being abusive exploitative etc but that's not what was…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:25 PM
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We're all made of meat and meat rots. The overwhelming majority of humans regardless of gender, nation, or culture are intelligent enough to realize this, so instead of focusing on a youthful appearance/aesthetics/etc. which inevitably will go away they marry people based on other characteristics that don't rot away like compatibility trustworthiness humor intellect and so on and so forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:49 PM
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A bajillion years of "one child policy" + a significant number of parents selecting for only males...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:45 AM
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Yeah of course it's an in and out procedure. I've known multiple guys who had them done in their late twenties early thirties even though they weren't married and didn't have children. No complications one of them even had it reversed without issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:38 AM
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Oh, wow thank you so much; I'm really glad you liked it and that it was informative!!!! I hope you have a super day!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:06 PM
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The no crying thing no weakness thing is really relative. It totally depends on the people involved in the relationship and it's not a man or woman or straight or gay preference thing. In any combination of partners you can have one party that's super disgusted by weakness and vulnerability and if you show those things too soon in front of that person they're going to get a massive renoob/sand dune. That said, in general you have to feel it out if you share too much and are vulnerable too soon i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:28 AM
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Superpowers like the dude and the sunglasses said, but it's just a bunch of people complaining about their Ex-Wives or about how they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:55 AM
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If you look at your partner and say to yourself "man if tomorrow a drunk driver ran over you and it ripped off your legs I'd be out of here" then you don't "really love" them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:44 AM
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I'm totally inclined to agree with you. It's crazy to me how people who talk about independence and self-reliance and personal accountability and point their fingers at the woke mob as being a bunch of babies who externalize their problems instead of taking ownership of them and claim that they're entitled to things that they obviously aren't, in the next breath will basically be like "wahhhhhh the system is out to get me it's not my fault that I don't have the girl I want, sex and romance and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:56 AM
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No. Lust and love are two different things. They can overlap to varying degrees but fundamentally they are completely different things and anyone who has actually been in a healthy and meaningful relationship understands this. What she's functionally saying to you is that she feels no inklings of love for you and or cannot imagine a serenario in which she would fall in love with you so you're not worth her time. Because of hypergamy women have access to as much sex as they could possibly want on…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:09 AM
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No it's not. You and me and everyone else who has ever lived and will ever live is a rotting sack of disgusting meat. That is an absolute unequivocal indisputable fact. Once you accept that fact and really comprehend it the obvious differences between love and sexual attraction becomes much more easy to understand. Sexual attraction is now has always been and will always be ephemeral because eventually our rotting sacks of meat become putrescent and are no longer attractive. Sexual attraction is…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:37 PM
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Love is different than lust. My guess is you haven't learned the difference yet and you're conflating the two when you say you're attracted to those women because they're attractive. She may have wanted to f*** you but she's likely not the sort of person that just f**** everybody she's attracted to. She's probably the sort of person that just f**** people that she feels she could love. I'm not saying she's right I'm just saying she's entitled to her opinion. We need to teach young people of all …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:33 PM
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People will still fall in love and some of those people will be straight and will have a predilection towards monogamy so they will get married have kids etc., etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:17 PM
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ROFL "team sports"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:08 AM
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So first off everyone's different people are individuals and despite what the internet would have you believe men and women can follow trends and can just as easily break them. As far as not marrying a man you have a giant throbbing clitty for yes that can happen. Often mature adults separate lust from Love because love is actually rare whereas lust can be sated just by closing your eyes and daydreaming and flicking the bean/etc. The separation is somewhat more common in women because they have …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:01 PM
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For the record, being a woman is not a disability. Being disabled is obviously a disability. The disabled are more likely to be raped they're more likely to be murdered they're more likely to be victims of muggings or scams or white collar crimes. They're more likely to make a few cents on the dollar not 75 cents on the dollar. They're more likely to commit suicide or end up addicted to substances or to be pushed to the fringes of society. Being disabled is the single most defining metric in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:29 AM
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As a disabled father who wanted children and had previous experience in child care before having children but still felt like the first 5 years of my kids life was literal hell, I highly suggest that anyone who has the slightest bit of doubt about having children, just avoid it entirely. It is far worse than any cringy sitcom cautionary tail can possibly express. That said, once they're five they start becoming objectively awesome with their amazing little personalities and getting to see them g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:19 AM
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Segregation is wrong. Telling people to stick their own kind is wrong. There is also a stereotype about disabled people being less than and only ever being able to be romantically successful with " their own kind", and people remarking things like " It's so cute that they found each other". There is pressure from the able community onto the disabled community for them to do these things. It's super commonplace for supposed friends and allies of the disabled to set them up on blind dates with oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:17 AM
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A lot of people also believe in Santa Claus until they're a certain age and maturity. I assure you that at a certain point, the overwhelming majority of humans do not believe this in the same way that the overwhelming majority of humans do not follow the advice of fortune cookies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:13 PM
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Yeah, nobody thinks you need to be perfectly happy. You just need to not be a needy insecure. dick, who's built up the idea of being in a relationship to the point where it's at the top of your self-defined and self-imposed list of things you think you need in order to let yourself be happy. We all define our own happiness and we all have free will and can impact our own emotional states and values. As soon as you demystify and demphasize the importance of a relationship just a bit, just so that…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:10 PM
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Yeah it would be right next to an article titled, "find out your personality type by taking our quiz about how you hold your cigarette"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:48 PM
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This feels like a weird idea based on pseudoscience from a 1950s magazine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:29 AM
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Dick size and ability to stay erect and postpone ejaculation are much more important. Also bad/crooked/missing/etc. teeth are much more of a deal breaker than height. Lastly don't be disabled, potential partners hate that. (I know I'm blind.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:55 AM
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Well I hate titanic but you make a good point! That said I do hate 99.99% of contemporary romance movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:35 AM
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It's because for most people, sex and lust can be completely compartmentalized from love. Lust can be abated by rubbing one out. In contrast loving someone and being loved can't be so easily taken care of by one's self. Most people are mature enough to realize that whatever they find to be physically beautiful is going to be destroyed by entropy/aging/misfortune because they're mature enough to realize those things come for us all. The attitude you describe sounds very superficial. It sounds lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:32 AM
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