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| 2 | What about men appeals to women the way a woman’s body appeals to a man?the capacity for work | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 11:50 AM |
| 1 | What about men appeals to women the way a woman’s body appeals to a man?moving slow, talking to others with confidence, being indifferent/unaffected by your surroundings (keeping your head high using your God given deduction skills to anticipate what comes for the good of those around you), being Playful, unserious, being in control of YOURSELF mentally/spiritually/Generating a vibe, potentially being a provider of safety & challenging them to make you give that up. SAYING NO & disagreeing lol. with 0 animosity being a little gay lol women see the same Biology that … | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 10:55 AM |
| 2 | How To Make Any Boring Conversation Flirtywell said. im out here making jokes laughing into the ether making people wonder lol. Bring your influence out of your head & into the world | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Women do make the first move, approach and quite literally throw themselves at a guy they are interested inThis seldom seem to happen unless the man is UNINTERESTED & above the situation. People can feel where your attention lies and seem to be more forward when they know you aren't paying attention | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 05:45 PM |
| 3 | What do girls find attractive in men? What turns them on?This surprised me too. I developed my posture and chest, tuck my shirt in w nice belt and it blows my mind what I notice. You'll see it in female comments on dumb bulge, humping meme videos on social media | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 12:55 PM |
| 1 | HAVE YOU EVER BEEN DIRECT AND TOLD A WOMAN?: “LET’S FUCK.”The barrier in communication btwn men n women is oceansize. I've had dates tell me I been hiding my abilities from wmen like it was a crime. Then internet dating stopped working n it's been solitary Men aren't raised taught how to confront women they like at all. The resources for doing that is experience trial n error and piecing together info from places like this | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Getting boner while getting around the girlI was around the city feeling myself (beach bum in a target shirt) and the bar waitress wrote on my togo order Douche face. lol Like devil forbid a guy catch a girl's attention they got no idea what to do with it. But when YOU can do that the game is yours. | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 09:09 AM |
| 4 | Getting boner while getting around the girlIts fun to let them see it dude. When it's natural & in good taste ( you're not seeking them) | /r/seduction | 15/06/25 02:09 PM |
| 3 | I tried Tinder in Istanbul and...How do u meet locals on insta? I just be finding them in comments | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 11:52 AM |
| -1 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?maybe the best answer in this thread. Too many got spun up at OPs lingo | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?Raising men to strive for a woman's approval when nature works against this. This develops men to be undesireable inside & out. You have to step away from the social world to let yourself be human & know who you are | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Must see movies and shows to improve rapport building skills with women?Thanks for these I watched both tonight. I went thru the other movie posts, some suggestions better than others and dude Fear was a scary, good example. Wahlberg's character... "you should've let nature take it's course" what the fuck When you walk with your own reality, life is whatever you make it. How he turned the father's family against him by knowing what people like to hear (not that you should manipulate or have canned answers for dates) Understanding how women buy in to the rubber band … | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Blunt Truth: You Might Have Undiagnosed Autism (And That's Okay)i learned this in my mid twenties and it explained a lot. My dating success has been from women i lived or worked with since i tend to look through attractive women. They came to me. Back in 2015, the apps were alive and made it easy to connect w people you want. Growing up w a single mom, like others, i tend to focus on not upsetting women. i was taught not to talk to girls for the reason of them looking good. Up to my late twenties, i've learned so much and feel good on my own, but still searc… | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls give strong, obvious indications of interest and then act rude/make you feel stupid when you approach, and how do you deal with this?How do you direct a convo when you desire someone? This girl seems unexperienced. Her body language is a green flag but she talk black n white like she dont know how to talk to boys | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 03:13 AM |
| 8 | Why do girls give strong, obvious indications of interest and then act rude/make you feel stupid when you approach, and how do you deal with this?This is a good observation. I've had a girl googly eyes at me, be cold fish in conversation & look at me shy weird when i don't small talk her again. It's crazy how the weight is on YOU to make interactions happen, even when they got nothing to talk about | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 10:19 PM |
| 2 | How to Build a Social Circle in a New City (Even If You’re Starting from Zero)Thanks for this post. Relocating post military has led me to this sub and moreso topic of this post. Didnt realize how crucial & challenging it was to build social circles. It's difficult to build friendships beyond grabbing someone's insta. A lot of bartenders/cashiers are too busy to conversate and each joint costs money to sit down at. Been going to a climbing gym, conversation is better | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Girl looked at me funny for saying i was alonei would mirror her face, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Side_Eyeing_Chloe#/media/File:Side_Eyeing_Chloe.jpg smirk warmly then look away singing 'All Alooone' (gorillaz) bars exist for single people to sit and drink. the girl is inflated | /r/seduction | 08/03/25 08:14 AM |
| 1 | “Women don’t need seduction” myth needs to stopMen n women are too different for many of the sub discussions to easily apply for ladies' pursuit. I respect the search for answers & experience here. From guy's perspective, we HAVE to communicate/initiate while speaking playful half truths that make her guess if we are invested in her as a being. Usually this decision is made with our eyes, & we approach because she is attractive. Idea is that women dislike men who pursue girls, but desire men who succeed w them. Direct our interactions and fo… | /r/seduction | 08/03/25 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps are still hard even for someone with hundreds of matches100%. Build an interest for the experience of others and it opens you up to chatting w strangers | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps are still hard even for someone with hundreds of matchesThis is smart. Keep the dialer easy access on your lockscreen so you can present it in the moment. segue small talk into a sly ask for her to type in her number | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How to answer girl who just like your respone on hinge?Dating apps are so dead but Following for others' advice. i wish they worked like in the 2010s. I would wait a day and send one more msg. You have to make her laugh or get under her skin a little. Her Liking is just her being nice it doesnt lead anywhere. ik you can meet more ppl on insta & fb but there are different barriers to entry | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Shit-test She gets madi got good at piecing together words from things i see (neurodivergent) so i exaggerate and correlate things in the moment to the nonsense in my head. Making yourself laugh can look insane but it does a good job at building confidence, making people wonder who you are. Talk about her & yourself in the third person. (am i the "she" he talking about?) Lead the interaction's energy (in your head) toward her safety and your betterment. Being ready to make silly noises, fun of yourself without truly … | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 05:45 PM |
| 2 | How to Make Her Choose You Over 4 Billion Other Guys100%. For tits & giggles i showed my bartender a fb dating chat i had. Her advice was to greet them normally & invite them to a place i might go 😆 easier said than done expecting a reply. I learned it makes good conversation to dig into a woman's responses n ask why she feels what she does. Be receptive but don't take an answer and let the convo die she also said unasked that she doesn't know what she wants.. i probably dropped the ball. Was getting free drinks | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 01:28 PM |
| 45 | Her Story Made Me Rethink Everything About DatingThis 100%. Turned me off this post man, i can't appreciate the positivity Op is gleaning with his lousy avoidance of the woman's choices | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 12:42 PM |
| 5 | How to navigate going over to the girl’s place instead of yours?it's insane how this works lol. Guys could live their whole lives without understanding this rizz, it's so helpful in communicating w women | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 04:23 PM |
| 7 | Holding Frame is Scaryit's the guys that play games in conversation that are good with women, because they cant be predicted. Women look for reasons to write you off and keep searching for the best guy. They have very many opportunities for this. So you have to make this hard for them Knowing everything about you, especially when you communicate with logic - black & white, makes this easy for them They don't make lovers through logic or their eyes like men do Frame is a thing that takes time & experience to develop. … | /r/seduction | 29/01/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Responding to the “I hate youu” text from a womanmaking her feel things AT ALL is good bro. good or bad. just dont speak from a mean place. i used to get turnt at womens' words too. U can tease her back, learn to do this in a shallow way that just pokes at her letting her react emotionally and watch you NOT react, just being ur chill self is good. I sent my lady friend a saucy text i regretted, but instead of saying sorry or backpedaling i gave her space and the next call we had she was more receptive to the idea i laid out | /r/seduction | 29/01/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Stop listening to women for dating/relationship adviceThere's truth here. It can be hard to lend an ear and vibe without nodding to everything a girl says. Everyone has an experience to learn from, BUT it's real that women have totally different mentality, subconscious going on that typically dont align with a man's. Most people don't put themselves in the other's shoes. Gender difference makes this God lvl confusing Youre right MANY MANY guys change their shit up based on a woman's advice and it can sabotage them, whether from a good woman or not.… | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | A small tip from a girlidk why u were downvoted those takes make sense. That seems strong as hell for keeping conversation going. i know there's some code or phrase blueprint but this is a good start. You hear girls sing about being desired or being "his world" but it's sung TO the ONE man who doesnt care either way. He just talks to her. If a guy plays the game like she SAYS she wants, he folds his hand, she take what she wants and he is wasting time searching for answers. Resources secured, throw the man away I am c… | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 11:03 AM |
| 4 | A small tip from a girlI've seen some insta posters approach, then walk away (not as a meme). It can have an interesting affect. I think part of being a guy is showing youre unmoved by those you desire | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 10:52 PM |
| 18 | A small tip from a girlFor real. Some extra mental gymnastics - send one DM, don't follow, snoop without liking pics, leave a comment maybe. You really have to pique her interest with one message | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 10:38 PM |
| 13 | Why Meeting Women in Real Life Makes You UnstoppableFor real come at these interactions with intent to make a friend. the friendzone issue comes later and shouldnt be worried about if you prioritize yourself | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How to talk about sex in a way turns a woman on?I don't get the people being spiteful hoes in seduction forum replies. Yes know when to move on. Don't be pressing n inappropriate. This discussion is about the chase not shaming it Make her work and yearn for your attention. Be playful, make silly observations about her and world around you. Let your sexuality express & radiate in a way that isn't Explicit or dependent on her. Try thinking speaking in 3rd person. Challenge her to step in the way of your vibe | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Looking for dating adviceBest of luck. I like to find a chill bar that's not too loud. I'm more for convo with the tender & other solo people than women specific - but it is good training talking to the bar Characters abt anything & everything | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Looking for dating adviceTrue that. Depending on situation i would mock her voice and play. "ah-ah-ahh-ah-ahlonee? Lol" show your dimples/smile away from her. use her to make yourself smile. call her out on her own game/expectation from me and watch her backpedal. She will work to pull words out of you. There is a power of opportunity being on your own Make my own ass laugh "dat boy at da bar got Ebola or somefn. The dick Bubonic " I think many women like female traits in men like code for safety. How they befriend gay … | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 04:39 PM |
| 4 | Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them?Telling a girl you like her is folding your hand in the game of seduction. You have to express this indirectly so she has something to play with in her head | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them?Fr the internet has these ppl come out the woodwork to correct each other instead of share EXPERIENCE, try to make connections, understand perspective n add to humanity, ive no patience for it "wonderfully wrong example" exemplary, bro | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 12:57 AM |
| 5 | Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them?The challenge can be in knowing which type of girl she is. Especially nowadays. Reading between the lines of what she says and understanding her by her actions | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 12:46 AM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldAnnoying girl i turned down without realizing it. Later turned into my first relationship and a few good memories (i ran out of friends to go night driving with..and texted her). Talking points led to my second relationship at that job months later. She was gossiping, playing shame on you etc, i just smirked kept the convo going. Then she had me sleeping at her house. All from chilling talking in the workplace and viewing em Without the sex drive i developed later Since online dating oversaturat… | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 09:38 PM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldLife does or doesnt happen, but longing for the DECISIONS of others makes these events less likely. Gotta get busy living. Whatev that means for you. This HOPE is dependent on each person's own beliefs.. if this come from a desire on women to choose you, that's the wrong kinda hope. Your hope should be on yourself, only thing on this earth you can control | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 09:11 PM |
| 0 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldwhere's yours | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 08:14 PM |
| 6 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldSpontaneous as in walking around wit dat WEIGHT of your male body like u don't notice the femininity in your presence yes. I think that's part o the meat of masculinity that gets the calico wet Furthermore becoming comfortable with the ONEonONE horny when it strikes in eye contact. Simmering with the mood instead of getting jumpy, making a mental beeline for the pussy (comes in handy lasting longer ) I need to work on it but my relationships have been mostly coworkers and roommates. Women being … | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 02:43 AM |
| 6 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldI get this. I've heard men shouldn't see each other as dating competition and I agree. It's a feedback loop that kills YOUR confidence and comes between friendships. (You can judge him but it's her choice) The weeknd said "she belongs to the world"... It is VERY interesting once you see how Grey the world is and how marriage/relationships are just clout. Not to advocate cheating It's interesting to think of it spiritually (lack of better word) and be happy in omniscient way that two ppl can have… | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 02:25 AM |
| 188 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldPlease don't use the shit u see on reddit as an example of what you're missing. The things in our pockets overexpose all of us. consuming is an illness. Real sex should be something you give to a woman who does work to get YOU. It'll happen when you least expect it. From a tomboy coworker etc | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Feeling uncomfortable around women i find prettyGood question! We remind ourselves everyone is human but our desire can elevate people above. You can tell your logical self ANYTHING rational but getting your heart to follow can be hard. Find a way to connect your inner desire to an action (indirect conversation/flirting?) in the moment. It's crazy when you see examples of literature that women find sexy. The way men say things that detach her MIND from her body... you speaking is literally a toy to her. Learn how to play with it and it plays … | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Any tips for women on seducing men?Literally "Let's go out." "I like _____/have to do _____. Come with me tuesday". As a woman asking for help can be a way in but could confuse this guy. I've heard attraction is not a choice. His desire has to come out of time spent with you. Put some pressure on him without making a big proposal out of it in your head. My first gf did this to me and i was in there before i knew it | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 11:30 PM |
| 16 | Any tips for women on seducing men?For guys, it's directly communicating with the girl of interest and being Selective with your attention. The bottom line is keeping in contact, communicating, understanding enhancing the Vibe. If youre only using your outfit and presence to get your guy to interact, you're limited to the kind of men who enjoy the cold approach or behave on impulse... A lot of guys are NOT good at talking to women for the REASON of her looking good... It takes us a lot of confidence or introspection to approach t… | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 08:05 PM |
| 25 | The Mindset That Attracts Women InstantlyThis. i walked into a coffee shop with my big Carhart jacket hood up (bad hair day) and realized i made the barista uncomfortable looking like a shooter. So i laughed out loud a bout it and vocalized what i observed. "where ya CEO at?" Radiated my own amusement. Find that switch in yourself to follow your own will over the distractions around you. Learn to understand your environment and vibe w people | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain why women always overshare with me?Yall must be taking offense instead of Trying to understand women. This girl talked about her EX and a THREESOME while by Your side. She was making intimate connections in her head to YOU that you can use to your advantage. Are you not here to share your experience and learn with the rest of us? "yo it’s 3am can we go upstairs lol" "I'm tired. i hope u got a firm mattress." Boom. Try that | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Can someone explain why women always overshare with me?This is weird bro if a girl is alone with you and calling other people middle of her own monologue. She's looking for some one to solve some dilemma in her head so YOU need to lead this interaction elsewhere. She is searching for a distraction I was at a bar game night and the chick with us stuck her phone in the center of our table & face timed her friend. Because she was getting ignored for making noise talking shit to her co workers. | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain why women always overshare with me?There's a sentiment being made when girls give you their life story or share their L's. Wasn't trying to get with her, but i experienced this last week and got crickets when i shared MY story with her. Trying to relate. Waiting for experienced playas to chime in | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 05:13 PM |
| 1 | How girls actually want you to text them.. (+3 examples that got me laid)This is a Great point i'm talking to a girl who is rude on text but talks on the phone like we're sweet , relying on each other. Refuses to acknowledge it when i Call her out. So i just DONT take texting seriously in general, not AT ALL with girls. I think the differences in men & women make texting look dry n logical which is generally a Turn Off & communication is Jagged. Say what comes to mind, entertain yourself like u got ed edd eddy reruns going in your head | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How girls actually want you to text them.. (+3 examples that got me laid)This is smart. My current girl hit me up based on my snap stories and we're alright a yr later. When i text her serious or rely on her response it falls VERY flat. i let her hit me up and know i can sway her mood, not the other way around. Maybe text her something funny irrelevant when i think about her When you get the urge to talk or share something w a girl, present it to the world instead and dare her to distract you from your business. Get her on speaking terms in the beginning. Not many gi… | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Full texting analysis - Getting laid with a goth chick from TinderYeah i think she just liked him. I texted girls like this in 2016 when american social media was less saturated and it worked MUCH more often. idk what people in the comments are reading into here | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 06:17 PM |
| 4 | 3 flirting principles that consistently get me laid on datesThis was a great read, thank you | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 05:19 PM |
| 4 | One night stand turned into confusing futureIt really can rock your world when a woman opens herself to you. I was stuck on my roommate for awhile, unresolved tension. I didn't act on it due to her being my buddy's ex. i was soon kicked out anyway. Similar looking girls fuck me up to this day i found i can speak to nearly anyone & care less - be entertaining. Finding the excuse & content to talk to people 𝘉𝘌𝘊𝘈𝘜𝘚𝘌 they're attractive is the learning curve. I've yet to do this Girls active in community & sport are much easier to talk to But … | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 02:40 PM |
| 8 | One night stand turned into confusing futureThis sub fascinates me as someone who's been in a 2 year dry spell. To see other men achieve intimacy and still hang on a woman's word like this | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 02:18 PM |
| 5 | How to text women without being boring?This is a good question. The game has changed so much due to social media you really have to pique their Utmost interest with little observations, assumptions and teasing. Talking shit playfully. Expecting nothing in return. I'm curious what a woman who uses dating apps' day to day looks like Imagine the msg that would stand out to you if you logged on on a Tuesday and saw 27 DMs. What would an interesting man provide what that text? | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Girls who talk about sex in their dating profilesIt's like when you see an ad for a bag of chips. You dont gaf, but when you are in the 7/11 holding a monster or playing that CoD you gonna grab that bag. It makes you feel good when youre at work or in a marathon & can't cook They think showing what they got will inspire the right man to come unlock those feelings she can't generate on her own. But when 80% of men reflect her sexuality thru logic she don't want it Bc she knows it's salty & dangerous for her body I respect the women who can be h… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Any tips for women?I appreciate your honesty. Don't think ive ever read a woman admit to having a 3 wk sex partner this context. 70% of the bios i read include a 'date to marry' / LTR goal which is like a man saying 'date to fuck'. It's a turn off. Not saying you do. Live your life & spend time with other people in person to let what happens happen. Incorporate events in your life that bring you in contact with guys. Gym is a great start The situation sounds too materialistic to me. People like what they like but … | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 07:34 PM |
| 16 | Girls who talk about sex in their dating profilesI see it in fb groups too. You have to learn to ignore the innuendo, pictures, and your logic that says its distasteful haha. They use this to reach the eyes of men who game them & filter out thirsty ppl. Find your own bottom line whether you ignore them or take them less seriously ig. Idk what to make of it either. Forces you to fight your desires. Reflect that desire inward. Sometimes the ones who hate hookups in their profile do have lower barrier to intimacy in person. Text Bios go out the w… | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 08:32 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys keep going?100% I hear run & hiking groups have women looking to mingle. It's refreshing to know that's an option. I'm part of a drinking group for my metro and its 75% clout chasing, older women gossiping. I see plenty of mixer events advertised. Many women advertise them with innuendo and cleavage and i smh they expect to attract men who arent sleazy. Word is singles mixers are loaded with women now but i imagine you will only be fighting the sisterhood walking in there. These groups are taught to find r… | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Online dating openersGood question. Back in the mid 2010s i'd get a few dates a month from apps. Social media has changed people so much i can't get 2 replies out of them now. Matches dont mean a thing. I feel like women view texting as a cheap form of communication and get turned off by paragraphs and serious grammar by guys. If you've got a lengthy way that piques their interest it's worth hearing Hinge seems the best app rn. I have girls matching me after commenting silly playful observations on their pictures. T… | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 05:41 PM |
| 5 | W2: Going out solo & sober tonightBeen bar hopping solo too. It sucks when one drink is 15$ and you'd rather scout new places than chill & drink w someone you know Good to hear your stories. I'm not on the prowl but generally meeting people in a new area is hard when 80% are couples & families. It's good to have an opener to break the ice. Basically need to make social experiments to get people talking | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 04:49 PM |
| 3 | He’s handsome, in shape, has a good job—but women don’t stick around.When you are put on a pedestal you have nothing to gain from who put you there other than their resources. When there's zero emotional need, play, feeling, a woman isnt gonna keep that man around. A man gives a woman some emotional work to figure out, will keep her guessing if she's near that pedestal. That's the game. His actions & purpose can be nice without him being a people pleaser. There is NO game there. Learn to disagree and tease with a calm smile We were sold the idea our whole lives t… | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Thought on Casey Zander?It was wierd af he has no idea what the man relationship went like. Glad to hear Top_Temps personal account & reflection of what the youtuber talks about. Seen friends nasty divorces, bitter ex gfs & other women do evil shit for NO reason and the guy's content helps scratch the surface. Very few in this sub seem to relate this. I find very little content that helps understand women so i watch with grain of salt. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/24 02:33 PM |
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