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Thanks, that's very kind of you. Just a shame being nice doesn't count for much when it comes to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:26 AM
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Damn that just makes this whole thing worse. This happened some time ago and you're still whining about it? Get a life, lady, move on already
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 09:27 AM
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Ah. Well, you are somehow mistaken. Very impressive!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:14 PM
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Oh. Still very weird to advocate for women to be friends with men if your stance is "there is also a general fear for your safety around male friends." Are you trying to get women hurt or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:05 PM
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You mean OP, surely? Ya know, the person who posted this fantasy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:02 PM
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"There is also a general fear for your safety around male friends." Why on earth do you have male friends if they make you feat for your safety?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:22 PM
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That's, like, exactly what someone who is extremely paranoid would say...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:40 AM
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Jesus christ, just fuck him already. You clearly want to, based on him being so on your mind you have to come fawn about him on the internet because your friends are tired of hearing about how bad you want his dick up in your guts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:37 AM
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You sound extremely paranoid. He might just be stupid and hurting, and so even stupider than normal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:32 AM
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If this is rage bait, it's a pretty poor effort. But it's great "women sure are stupid and severely lacking in self-awareness" bait
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:00 AM
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Too late, already am! Sick response, by the way, really proving me right that you're a psycho incapable of understanding normal human feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:41 AM
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Right, because a general, catch all lack of confidence is the issue. Again, nobody thinks of it that specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:36 PM
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No I'm saying a man lacking confidence makes it so women will never care enough about him to ask him those things. I'm saying the situation is reversed. I'm saying women do the same thing - no take any actual interest in the man - that men do to women Does that make more sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:28 PM
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I'm saying the same thing happens to men, because of lack of confidence, which seems to guarantee a lack of curiosity from women I'm saying if you aren't confident enough as a man, it means there will be a lack of care from women to understand them as people, no matter how many other great qualities you may have
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:19 PM
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"I think women not liking some guy due to his confidence are not thinking of it in general terms, but in context" I highly doubt it. I don't think women think "well this guy is great in every way except the way he asked that waitress for water wasn't confident enough, therefore i do not like him."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:16 PM
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Just goes to show most people are idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:51 PM
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Nothing specific, it just means women won't like you, for some reason I mean it makes you worse in all the ways you listed, of course, but it's more general than that, too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:50 PM
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If you don't have enough, it doesn't matter what else you do or how many other great qualities you have, women will never be attracted to you. It's extremely dehumanizing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:12 PM
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As long as both parties are aware of what's happening, I don't see the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:39 AM
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No they aren't. Flying ponies are fake, but not false. "Ponies can fly" is false, but not fake
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:10 AM
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It's nearly intolerably frustrating reading posts like this as a man who has wanted nothing more than do all the things you just listed, but not being able to due to no other reason than....not being confident enough "It's heartbreaking to want to be close to someone who can't/won't register your full range" It really is, especially when the only thing stopping it from happening is something as relatively minor as not being confident enough. It's so dehumanizing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:53 AM
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I think you might be some kind of psycho/sociopath since you are unable to grasp the very simple concept that there are reasons besides sex to want to be in a relationship I highly recommend you see a psychiatrist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:46 AM
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And yet, friendship exists
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:41 AM
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Because not wanting to fuck doesn't mean you don't want companionship? For example, I still really enjoy spending time with my friends, even though I don't want to fuck them. For the vast majority of people, sex is far from the sole, or even primary, reason people want to be in relationships How old are you that you don't know this already?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:39 AM
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In order for this to be an actual question, gold digging would have to be immoral, which it isn't. So, mods, please delete this drivel
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 08:16 AM
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You sound rather unintelligent, OP. I'm sorry for your poor genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:57 PM
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Okay. Just letting OP know women's obsession with confidence is shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:15 AM
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"For women no amount of confidence will make up for looks" Correct! Because for men things like sense of humor and kindness rank much higher in importance than confidence, unlike women who only care about one thing and are, therefore, shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:12 AM
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Okay. Just letting you know women's obsession with confidence is very shallow. Not going to argue against the obviously insane claims you made
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:05 AM
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Because it overshadows every other personality trait to such a degree that confidence is really the only one that matters when it comes to women's attraction. It doesn't matter how great you are in every other way, if you aren't confident enough, all of that means nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:51 AM
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I'd say women are shallow when it comes to their obsession with, and addiction to, confidence And just a heads up, choosing a partner based on security is also shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:38 AM
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trying to be alpha =/= being a leader In fact it's the opposite, so what you're telling me is being the opposite of a leader turns you off How old are you that you don't know these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:27 AM
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Did....you really not know that already?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:16 AM
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They do, yes. You are very much in the minority finding it a turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:13 AM
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Problem is men interpret them that way because of how rare compliments are. "Wow someone is actually saying something nice about me, that hasn't happened in years, they must really like me" is the thought process
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:56 AM
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I've never met a man who thinks being confident or charismatic is fruity Not to mention you're ignoring the leadership part. Women fucking love that shit, and it's the most traditionally hegemonically masculine thing there is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:38 AM
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I think you're right when it comes to looks, but wrong in that women do very much prefer traits we think of as being traditionally masculine: confidence, charisma, leadership, generally showing strength of self in some way. Feels a little unfair to say it's only men trying to impress other men when women talk non-stop about how much they love confidence and charisma and leadership, which are all hegemonically masculine traits. Why can't it be some of both? Why does it have to just be one or the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:33 AM
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You didn't used to be an introvert, you were a cowardly extrovert. Now you're just an extrovert. An extrovert who is too afraid to embrace their extroversion =/= an introvert. An extrovert who is too anxious to be social and so mistakenly thinks the relief of being alone due to no anxiety is what an introvert means by recharging =/= an introvert
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:16 AM
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Hey as long as you call the women who do it jerks too, that's cool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:33 AM
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Same here....just wish it wasn't so hard to find. Wish the superficial part wasn't so damn important to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:09 PM
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See this is a very reasonable take, that the "how" is a more important factor than the contextless facts Not wanting to date someone with lots of previous partners = misogynistic prick judging a woman's humanity, however, is not a reasonable take
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:49 PM
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I see. So would you call a woman who doesn't want to date a man with a lot of partners a misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:44 PM
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Are the women who don't want to date a man who has been with a lot of people also misogynists?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:40 PM
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Are you really asking if a man using a woman's mental health against her to manipulate her and lead her on for years would get hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:34 AM
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As a man who has had a woman tell other people I was creepy instead of just admitting I was too ugly for her, I would have much preferred she tell people she thought I was ugly instead of lying about me being a creep and having other people then think that and not want to be associated with me because of it As you wisely pointed out, either way I'm still single, but one way my reputation remains intact, and the other it is disparaged. I'd rather come away single with my reputation intact instead…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:33 PM
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Sure it does! The role he is referring to is lying about the reasons for rejecting someone and putting it down to moral failure when really the guy is just ugly or awkward or whatever "Omitting the obvious is not a lie" Of course! but saying "well he was a bad person and creepy" when really he's just ugly...is lying!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:00 PM
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In the scenario where they are lying about why they reject a man, as OP presented, the role they are playing in lying about why they are rejecting someone is lying about why they are rejecting someone...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:37 PM
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Because...that's the scenario OP presented. A woman lying about rejecting a man for being ugly and saying it was because he was a murderer. That's why I think that, because that was the scenario OP gave us. Not sure how you missed that as well, but perhaps reading a bit more carefully would help you not get so confused?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:36 PM
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They shouldn't! But they also should just say that instead of "well I could just tell he hated women and would murder me the first chance he got, so I had to reject him" Not sure how you missed that since I already said it, but hopefully reading it a second time will help it sink in!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:15 PM
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Not sure what that has to do with anything I said, but no, I would not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:00 PM
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It does. Your brain hasn't fully developed. You, as literal as it is possible to be, are not capable of thinking critically
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:35 AM
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he's clearly not a teenager yet, still thinking that idealistic kind of love is real
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:31 AM
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They reject men for being ugly and pretend it was because they could just sense something was wrong with him and that he hates women. It's okay to be attracted to looks, some women just have to get better at admitting it and stop pretending their attraction is entirely based on behavior, when we all know that's some serious bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:29 AM
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Poor OP, still stuck thinking personality matters if you aren't hot/confident enough. Eventually he'll learn personality means less than nothing until you reach the hot/confidence bar women require before it's possible for them to care about a man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:20 AM
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Right? OP is so fucking dumb, women have zero incentive to ever approach. Asking them to risk rejection for literally no reason is truly insane
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:17 AM
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lol I don't have scientific proof women don't like being rejected. It's just common sense, especially when you look at how passive they are with dating. Surely, if they didn't care about possible rejection, they'd be less passive. But they aren't. So clearly they don't want to be rejected. Because they don't want to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:14 AM
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lol so it was people who were being unfair to the dinosaurs when that meteor hit and fucked them all up? That was people's fault, not life's?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:12 AM
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Brother if your plan is to sit there and hope women start approaching more when they have zero incentive to do so outside of the goodness of their hearts (lol), you are going to be alone your entire life. Why on earth would women ever approach in real life when they can get a date from their pocket without having to risk rejection? They're no braver than men are, despite the act, they hate rejection just as much as men do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:10 AM
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lol how old are you, 12? The longer you stay in denial that women only respond to looks and confidence, the longer you will stay single. All this "pErSoNaLiTy MaTtErS" stuff is 99% total bullshit because your personality only matters if you are - say it with me now - hot or confident enough for her liking. Only then will your personality become a factor So yes, it is good advice, and the only advice: if you want to get better at dating, get hotter and more confident edit: dawg you gotta let go o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:01 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:44 AM
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There is no good advice besides get prettier and/or be more confident. That's what women want first and foremost: looks and confidence. So work on those. But you knew that already. You want another answer, but there isn't one: women respond to looks and confidence, so get better at those if you want to get better at dating. There is nothing else you can do that will help you without looks or confidence. See how even the best advice isn't that helpful?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:43 AM
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" I want women to not despise me for how brutal I perceive them " What...does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:33 AM
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Unless you also call men shallow for caring about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:07 PM
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"therefore women are shallow," But....they are? Doesn't the science say that, for both men and women, looks are the most important factor in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:47 PM
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If you're struggling this hard to find decent men, it's clearly a you problem. Maybe you're a really shitty person and don't realize it (very common among shitty people, so the most likely option here), which is why you attract equally shitty men? If you haven't considered this possibility, that's also a very common quality among shitty people, so it's more evidence you're...really shitty!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:27 AM
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Acting like you're some kind of actual study expert who does science and stuff for a study as heinously hole-filled as this one is hilarious. How old are you, 14?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:34 AM
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Huh? How is telling a girl she's pretty when you think she's pretty when she wants to be told she's pretty lying/deceit?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:29 AM
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Or....it's both! Or....for some female validation, and for others male validation! See how more than one option can be a possibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:44 PM
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"Scapegoating women for the problems men run into is no solution" "I'd argue that the majority of men who struggle with dating these days are the victims of other boys/men" ....where does OP say that it's women's fault men are bullied as kids? In fact, he explicit says the opposite. Wild, the way, even when a man is explicitly blaming other men, and not women, for an issue, women still find a way to play the victim and say men are being "cruel" to them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:41 PM
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Yes, both extremely creepy people who shouldn't be allowed around children unsupervised Other people being creepy doesn't somehow mean Lillith is not a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:06 AM
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I haven't been on reddit in months so I refreshed the page like ten times thinking there must be some error and this must be a post from a long time ago and reddit was just being weird, but....nope....Lillith is still making the same exact post, with the same exact clip, as the last time I was here....in December tbh it's comforting to know some things really never change
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:31 AM
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"projection on those guys behalf for same reasons that they are convinced all attractive guys are self centred?" *sigh* please at least learn to read properly if you're going to personally attack people If women are complaining about attractive men - which we know they are - then men cannot be projecting by repeating these complaints...they're just repeating women's complaints
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:50 AM
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The person disagreeing with the person pointing out men and women both do this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:54 AM
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Of course. My point is, saying it's only men doing this when women cannot stop complaining about the men they refuse to stop dating, is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:12 AM
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"If you’re saying that most men will do it if they have the chance to, then I agree with that." No, I'm saying the opposite "No, that’s info that I have only shared with men I have been in a relationship with" That seems kind of rude? Well, how often do you get tested for std's?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:04 AM
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"By 'like that' I mean that they are no more likely to commit than any other man" Right...that's part of what makes them undesirable, isn't it? And all I said, or at least meat to say, was that the only reason not all men are pump and dumping women is because they can't, isn't true "I’m hypersexual which means that it’s compulsive for me to have sex. I take whatever I can get" Do the men you're talking about know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:51 AM
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Exactly, that's part of what makes them undesirable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:35 AM
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"doesn't mean that the argument didn't come from and isn't most commonly coming from men" *he says, in response to an argument....made by a woman*
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:36 PM
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"Yep one funny thing about women is that many are attracted to the assertive, confident, self-interested ones" Yeah this is the part I don't understand the most. They place a huge amount of over importance on traits that are likely to be held by a person who is not a particularly caring partner...then are shocked and confused that they keep dating men who are not particularly caring Like I get not being able to help who you're attracted to, but...at least figure out the extremely obvious pattern…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:30 PM
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"projection on those guys behalf for same reasons that they are convinced all attractive guys are self centred?" Aren't women the ones complaining about how men are trash
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:25 PM
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"Men really shift their opinions depending on whatever is advantageous right now." Well that's what happens when you ignore and block out anyone who doesn't agree with what you're saying. When you finally listen and accept they exist, it seems like opinions are shifting. They aren't. You were either pretending, or genuinely didn't know, that the ones you perceive as shifting were always there, so now that you're paying attention, it seems like this big change And now we're stuck in this endless …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:20 PM
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Definitely not as a species, no, since not all of them do this. Just some very loud ones
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:59 PM
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idk if it's innocence, maybe more just a lack of intelligence? At least judging by the way the pies are the ones complaining the most about the pie-eaters they choose to be eaten by....while continuing to be eaten by these pie-eaters over and over and over again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:51 PM
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"The thing is it implies that any man with options will do that." You did not say "some." But to answer your question: the reason women should like men is because not all men are like this, only some, so the ones who are not like this are perfectly likable I'll say it for a third time: The only people who believe your version of the "narrative" are people who hate men and are looking for more reasons to hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:00 PM
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Yes, just as them making their comments doesn't erase mine. Like I said: we're all different, you see, which is why trying to make some kind of definitive statement then tell me that's what I think because I'm a man, even though I'm telling you that's not what I think despite being a man, is ridiculous The only people who believe your version of the "narrative" are people who hate men and are looking for more reasons to hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:48 PM
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"Someone else having a piece of pie causing anxiety one doesn’t have pie themselves and trying to convince the pies the pie-eaters are bad hoping the pie will come to them instead" This argument would work a lot better if the pies weren't complaining about the pie-eaters they are choosing to be eaten by
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:44 PM
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And I'm a man here telling you that you're wrong...we're not all the same, you see It's only people who hate men are and are looking for more reasons to hate them who sincerely believe your version of the "narrative"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:33 PM
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"The narrative is that men who can - pump and dump, and men who can't - don't do it simply because they can't" No, it's not. The narrative is that the reason more attractive men behave this way is because of how used to and conditioned they've been to expect attention from women, so men who have not had this experience would not behave, and wouldn't even want to behave, that way, since they aren't as used to attention from women and so would not take it for granted in the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:28 PM
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"So you think its alright to lie and manipulate." hahahahahahha oh my lord, this is hilarious, one of your best bits yet, Lillith
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:04 PM
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"The fun thing about this argument is that there are no metrics that one could reliable used to gauge the actual percentage one way or another. " Yes, which is exactly why you talking as if it's the vast majority and it's very difficult to find men who just...aren't like this, is nonsense "Bro pls." ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:14 AM
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Being kind to people. It is very, very rare to find someone who shares this value
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:14 AM
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Okay...that's not what I asked, but...thanks for letting me know, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:07 AM
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"Because more men are shitty in more ways than men would like to admit." Sure, but there are also more who aren't "Hahahahahaha" ? Oh, jumping right to cruelty I see...wow, crazy, never could have seen that coming *eyeroll*
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:01 AM
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"Dying alone isn’t a bad thing" Have you died alone before? If not...how do you know it's not a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:51 AM
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Where/how the hell do you women find such shitty men over and over and over again? As someone who is the complete opposite of the guy you're describing and has faced nothing but rejection and cruelty from women, it blows my mind seeing the dudes y'all put up with and go crawling back to for more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:48 AM
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lol still condescending, I see I hope you, too, someday find enough peace to no longer feel the need to talk down to others to feel good about yourself. Acknowledging your deep seated fears of not being good enough will ultimately free you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:02 AM
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No, telling me something as obvious as "rejecting yourself is bad" is absolutely condescending. The entire post is incredibly holier-than-thou "It's an affront to your belief system which is why you took it as condescension." This is also very condescending, seeing as you know nothing about my "belief system" Also telling me you're not being condescending instead of just apologizing is incredibly condescending
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:42 AM
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I mean I agree the term needs to die, but...goddamn that's a whole lot of projection you're doing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:59 PM
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No, people just don't appreciate condescension
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:35 PM
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"So, then you reject yourself?" Of course. If being yourself isn't getting you the result you want, you try to change it, that's how being alive works "That is a recipe for inner turmoil." Thanks, captain obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:02 PM
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"They are not saying that you are not good enough for sex " But they are saying "you are not good enough for sex WITH ME" Which is a judgement of worth And it especially feels that way when the woman acts like you finding her attractive is disgusting or insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:33 AM
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"All they're simply saying is, I as one individual person, do not want to date you. Someone else might be interested, but this look does not appeal to me." Right, which is....a value/worth judgment "you might be good enough for someone else...but not ME" "It only becomes a worth issue if you apply outsized gravity to one person's opinion inside your own mind." But what if it's everyone's opinion? If everyone you meet decides you are too physically unattractive for them to date, it's absolutely a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:43 AM
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"I'd also add that rejection is information about compatibility and it's not a value assessment or a determination of someone's worth" How is getting rejected because you're physically unattractive a compatibility issue and not a "worth" judgment/issue? Or are we now saying that being ugly = incompatible for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:09 AM
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"I kinda just tune these posts out at this point." She said, while tuning in to read and comment on one of those posts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:02 AM
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"If you don't like your real self so much you feel the need to perform for people that's something only you yourself can fix" But there's also plenty of cases where it's other people not liking the "real you" that makes people want to perform. If you keep being yourself and keep getting rejected, you're eventually going to try to be less yourself so that maybe you will be less rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:26 PM
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Sure, except for the incredibly obvious part about...you can't know how someone behaves on a date....unless you go on a date with them And the other part about it being increasingly difficult to find women who DON'T behave this way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:22 PM
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"If you need to feel valued as a human being, start doing regular volunteer work helping other people" As someone who helps others for a living, it's wild to me how much people romanticize and overestimate volunteering idk, maybe you become immune to it if you do it too much, but I've never felt valued or validated by it, despite doing more "volunteer" work every week than most people do in their entire lives
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:11 PM
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All good, appreciate you being open-minded and engaging in good faith Hope the migraine goes away....the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:36 PM
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Of course! I'm just explaining what the feeling really is and why it's prevalent. If your entire dating experience is feeling like women merely tolerate you, instead of genuinely being interested, it eventually feels like having to perform
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:01 PM
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"When you make them feel like something you have to get over with, they just lose their appeal." Right, that's where the dancing monkey comes from: women go on dates and act like they don't really want to be there and have to get it over with, so men feel like they have to perform to change that and make the woman actually enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:50 PM
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"If someone feels like they are constantly performing instead of being enjoyed for who they are, the solution is not to resent the other gender. The solution is to walk away and find someone where the energy is mutual" I think that's the entire point, no? How hard it is for men to find women where there is actually mutual interest? Where women aren't sitting there running comparing everything you do and say to the guy who was sitting in front of her yesterday? They feel like they meet someone, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:45 PM
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So confusing, right? They select primarily on looks, confidence, and assertiveness - none of which are traits that have anything to do with what kind of partner you'll be - then are surprised that these men aren't good partners and complain about how awful men are....while continuing to specifically select for traits that not-so-great men are apparently likely to have, and around and around we go
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:00 PM
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It wouldn't be a very good joke if I gave up the bit just when you all start acting like idiots and it gets fun, now would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:31 PM
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I'm making a loljoke. Jesus christ you people need to chill out...and also get a little smarter so you can figure out when someone is clearly joking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:18 PM
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lol she's clearly just trying to justify treating the men around her like shit. If she makes up a story in her head about how men are secretly plotting to take her freedoms and convinces herself it's reality (as seems to be the case), it makes it much easier to treat people like they aren't human, which is obviously OP's end goal, to be able to treat people like shit and feel like shes's a good person for doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:22 PM
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"You are the only one talking about 25 year olds being in high school. Women don't all think the same, but many of us have basic reading comprehension." And yet somehow you have read this person's mind enough to not just be guessing, but you claim to know EXACTLY what she was thinking. Sounds to me like mind reading. Sounds to me like you think all women think exactly the same, and that's why you are able to speak for her. So women ARE a monolith! And we proved it!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:17 PM
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"They were not calling out the entire age range, but just the lower end of it" How do you know? Are you arguing that all women think exactly the same, and that's how you can confidently claim your assumptions as facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:43 AM
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The woman who labeled 18-25 as fresh out of high school
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:27 AM
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You labelled OP's 18-25 age range as "fresh out of high school." Therefore, someone would have to not graduate until 25 in order to be fresh out of high school at 25
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 06:26 AM
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"I think women mistake complaining with pointing out the truth" Nah, they just pretend they're stupid (see: OP) and use it as justification to treat people like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:20 AM
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Okay. Not sure what that has to do with someone who doesn't graduate high school until 25 being incredibly stupid...but okay, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:39 AM
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You must be pretty fucking stupid if it took you until 25 to graduate high school
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:15 AM
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I mean, OP claims she can't figure out what the difference between friendship and romantic relationships besides sex. That's very unusual. In the vast, vast majority of human cultures, romantic relationships are not defined as "a friend you fuck," as seems common in OP's culture. Perfectly valid to ask what culture this is, since it's so uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:10 AM
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Why don't you still live with those friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:03 AM
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"romance isn’t as perfect and wonderful like you guys pretend it is" lol I can't think of anything you could have said to prove her point better than this. It's painfully obvious you cannot feel romance
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:47 PM
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Because you cannot feel or conceptualize those feelings. You are correct: there is no structural difference, just a feelings difference. That's what love/romance is: a feeling. It's a feeling you cannot feel, hence your confusion about the difference between romance and friendship. Since you cannot feel romance and are endlessly confused by it, you are being called aromantic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:39 PM
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Most people consider sex highly personal....so sharing anything having to do with sex would be sharing something highly personal....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:21 PM
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lol this is peak Lillith: takes one group of guys saying one thing, another group of guys saying another thing, makes them into one singular group saying both things, and rages at all of humanity because of this totally fictional, made up group of people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:44 PM
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"Yeah, I am better person than someone who thinks with their genitals 24/7" hahahahaha says the woman whose primary passion in life is writing essays about the lack of men whose cum she wants in/around her holes. The projection is just wild
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:50 PM
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I like how you refuse to not purposely misunderstand very basic ideas (nice guys finish last =/= women like serial killers guy), then whine about other people not reading your posts. Talk about hypocrisy!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:40 PM
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Nope! That's just not part of "nice guys finish last," it's a different thing. Them being the same is the part you invented* *due to being fucking insane
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:10 PM
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Here's the comment I was looking for! See! You DO think that "nice guy" just means a guy who thinks being nice will make women want him. This is all a "nice guy" is. The part about "thinking women only want assholes and don't see women as people" you made up in that psycho little brain of yours
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:04 PM
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Isn't men who listen to "women like nice guys" needing to grow up because only children think just being nice is enough to be attractive one of your favorite things to post about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:48 PM
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"this subreddit and the manosphere will talking about women's shallowness but lack self-awareness of men's own shallowness and the consequences of it. These guys always try to pretend they have the moral high ground by saying 'Atleast men are more honest!'" So...men are simultaneously unaware of their shallowness, but also take pride in admitting they care about looks and are shallow? Just another batshit insane rant with no basis in reality, then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:04 PM
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I know, what a nerd. Bet he's never even shown up at school blackout drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:41 PM
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Dawg THC is some baby shit, just do LSD like a real, hardcore introspective
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:41 AM
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"Being successful at dating in 2026, means being seen. A man about town. Hobbies, interests, traveling, dining out, concerts, festivals, therapy, reading, creating, learning, and experiencing life" "It's 2 days into 2026. What do you know about dating in 2026? 🤣🤣🤣" Uhh... Pot...meet kettle?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 11:01 AM
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No, I don't take issue with it, just an observation But, just FYI, you sound far more unhinged than OP
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:34 AM
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Wow you really love the word "fuck"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:25 PM
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"But I don’t agree" I understand. Obviously men have to do it if they want anything to happen, but I don't see why one side is more responsible than the other. It's never crossed my mind that I'm less responsible for opposing all the awful stuff that's been happening the last few years (overturning Roe v Wade, etc) than women are, just because I'm a man "I think it is worse when someone doesn’t care about a group they personally belong to." Why? Not caring is not caring. Who is doing it doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:03 PM
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"If we cannot even call this out, how can we ever begin to address it?" We can! Amazingly enough, we can even call it out without saying that men not caring about men is worse than women not caring about men, when it's obvious the two are the same!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:07 PM
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So interesting that, even when responding to this exact topic, you still can't help but take two equal acts (women not caring much about men, and men not caring much about men), and position the women's version as unfortunate, and the men's version as a "crime"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:18 PM
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"Same with when women complain about wanting more actual messages that show you're not just carpet bombing every woman. Okay. I'll do that. And guess what? It doesn't one bit improve the conversion rate." I'm always so surprised when women complain about this and talk about how badly they wish men would send specific messages. When I was on the apps that's all I did, and it very rarely, if ever, made any difference
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:14 AM
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"most women who are able to hold out and wait for an excellent fit have had the experience of trying a compromised fit, and learned first-hand how uncomfortable and dissatisfying it is to be in a relationship where you've compromised on things that really matter to you. " For sure, I don't doubt that at all, or blame women who can for doing it. But this whole holier-than-thou attitude towards men who partner with women who were not exactly what they were looking for but love them for who they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:58 PM
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Dunno if you're being sarcastic or not, but...yeah. Like if you have a certain type your entire life, then meet someone who is not that type but is so great they make you forget you ever had a type in the first place....why is that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:55 PM
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See, that's reasonable to me, and I'd imagine most men. OP's take on holding out and not compromising no matter what is just....unrealistic, for the vast, vast majority of people. I guess this is where it's tough because women just cannot understand the privilege they have in this regard, to even be able to hold out and wait, knowing someone else will come along, isn't something most men can do. If you only very rarely experience attraction, you really don't have that much of a choice but to com…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:44 PM
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I guess I'm confused, OP keeps saying you shouldn't compromise and wait until you find "exactly what you are looking for." If you are looking for blue eyes, but settle for brown, you are compromising, no? That's not "exactly what you are looking for," so, by op's logic, a man who stays in the relationship has low standards and should leave her to find someone who really appreciates her Yes, I'm being stupid on purpose to point out this "exactly what you are looking for" thing is impossible, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:18 PM
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I guess I'm confused, OP keeps saying you shouldn't compromise and wait until you find "exactly what you are looking for." If you are looking for blue eyes, but settle for brown, you are compromising, no? That's not "exactly what you are looking for," so, by op's logic, a man who stays in the relationship has low standards and should leave her to find someone who really appreciates her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:18 PM
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"they weren’t lacking options either" Okay, so your experience is clearly only with the top 10% of people, who actually do have the ability to be picky and choose. So your viewpoint is extremely narrow and skewed and doesn't understand or address the reality of the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:45 PM
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"If you don’t want to be seen as a consolation prize" That's part of the issue, right? if your expectation is perfection, "the one," etc. then literally everyone is a consolation prize
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:19 PM
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Problem is if you very rarely experience attraction, and someone comes along who does seem to value and appreciate you in some way, you aren't going to be like, "I want someone with blue eyes but her's are brown, so I'm out"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:55 PM
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Those are just different words for the same thing. Going to the gym increases your physical attraction. Simping comes from a place of insecurity, so not being a simp, if you are one, involves bravery and not giving in to those insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 12:49 PM
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lol defining words is not making a personal comment. Her definition of a good man is literally "I want his cum on my face." Pointing that out is not making a personal comment, it's just saying how she defines a word
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:04 PM
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lol how the fuck is that making things personal?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:29 PM
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Obviously it is individual, yes. That's why taking your personal experience and projecting it onto all of humanity and making these blanket statements where you declare that anyone who doesn't feel what you feel is just doing it wrong, is harmful
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:46 PM
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" It's easy not to feel lonely going home alone, sleeping in your own bed alone etc, if you have people you connect with" Strongly disagree. When you have people to connect with, but all those people have another person they are investing in and building a life with , it still feels lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:37 PM
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"Women have more friends than men and are in more relationships than men, yet more reported feeling lonely than men" Feel like you just kind of destroyed your entire argument? If women have more friends and are still lonelier than men, doesn't that mean that friendship is not the answer to loneliness? If anything, it would suggest that friendship increases loneliness, since women with more friends feel lonelier than the men with fewer friends
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:34 PM
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By definition an incel can't have a romantic partner? I mean I guess he could be in a relationship with a chick who refuses to fuck him, but that....seems unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:32 PM
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You're right, women cannot fix all of men's problems. Romance is one problem, not every problem. If a man is romantically lonely, finding a woman to be romantic with will definitely solve that one particular problem He will of course have other problems to contend with that his partner can't solve, but romance won't be one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:28 PM
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Making blanket statements like this doesn't help. Of course there are young women who are lonely. Are there more lonely men than women? Probably, but discounting that women can also end up lonely isn't going to solve anything
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:03 PM
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"But the solution CAN be solved internally" I would say it can definitely help, but not necessarily "solve." Yes, having friends helps with loneliness, but if all your friends are partnered up, and at the end of the night everyone except you is going home with someone they love, it can still feel really, really lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:01 PM
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Wow, thanks for being reasonable. Seriously. I truly didn't think clarifying what op specifically means by "good" would be so controversial, but a lot of people are very upset by it for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 11:43 AM
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What kind of specifics are you looking for? People are saying things like "honest, hard working, kind," etc, and every time she essentially says "but that doesn't make me want his cum on my face, so he's not good" If honest, hard working, and kind don't qualify as good because it doesn't make you want cum on your face, you clearly don't mean good, you mean attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:40 AM
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Truly. Clearly her definition of "good" is really "I want his cum on my face" People are answering "good," and she's like "but that doesn't make me want his cum on my face! That's means he's not good!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:27 AM
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Have you read the thread at all? She asked why men think men are good. Men are telling her why, and every time her response is "but that doesn't make women want to date" By "good," she clearly meant "I want to fuck" Good =/= I want his cock in and around my holes, hence her confusion and frustration at not getting the answers she's looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:14 AM
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Absolutely hilarious that, despite all the people misinterpreting your question because you said "good" when you meant "attractive," instead of thinking "hmm, maybe I should have asked this differently" your conclusion is, "no, it's everyone else who is wrong, and and only me who is right!" And this is exactly what i mean about 99% of the time it being shitty women complaining how shitty men are, and how impossible that is to take seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:55 AM
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lol, it literally does "good" means one thing "attractive" means another Using "good," when you mean "attractive" then telling everyone else they are wrong for thinking you meant "good" when really you meant" attractive" is just...wow Words have meanings. You cannot decide a word means something it doesn't really mean then tell everyone they are wrong for not reading your mind and understanding the unexplained context in which you used the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:40 AM
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"He is bad to be in a relationship with.' right, hence why, once again, you should be using the word you really mean, which is "attractive." Someone not being good to date does not mean they are not a "good" person. It means they are unattractive Please, I'm begging you, just use the right words If you want, I can provide definitions since you're struggling so much to differentiate between the two
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:27 AM
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Once again, good =/= attractive. The longer you continue to equate the two, the more confused you will become. Please, just use words correctly. I promise you it is not as difficult as you seem to believe, and will make your life so, so much more straight forward and less confusing and would mean you don't have to go to reddit to try to get clarity on what are, if you use the right words, very simple questions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:21 AM
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"What good attributes have you explained. None." lol I literally said "doing the best they can in life." If doing the best you can in the circumstances you find yourself in doesn't count as "good," then what does? Just use the right words. It's not that hard Good =/= attractive You asked "good," when you meant "attractive," hence the confusion. I promise you, it really is that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:40 AM
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"why on earth would anyone meet another person and the only positive thing about them is they aren’t out to harm others" This has nothing to do with "goodness," it has to do with attraction. "Really?0" Yes, really. Good =/= attractive. Use words correctly and you'll be less confused
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:33 AM
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Ah, so you meant to say "why do men think there are so many attractive men?" Good =/= attractive. Use words accurately and you'll be less confused
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:29 AM
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Okay, so you aren't defining "good" clearly enough. When you say "good men," I think you mean men who are decent people who aren't out to harm others and are just doing the best they can in life. But by "good" you really mean, "I want his dick inside of me"" Those are two very different things. You're aren't using words accurately, hence your confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:20 AM
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"I actually never argued that most women were moral" Hence the reason men say other men aren't so bad. 99% of the time, the women complaining about how shitty men are aren't any better, so it just comes off as hypocritical and ridiculous and impossible to take seriously It's shitty people complaining that people are shitty. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:09 AM
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...why would that make him "bad"? What's his background? His childhood? Has he had any trauma that explains the gambling debts? Is there an explanation for it beyond simple lack of responsibility? Is he trying to harm others and bring them down with him? If not, then I don't see why he would be "bad" in any sense, outside of being an attractive partner
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:06 AM
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"is it your belief that most men are moral based on the examples I gave" Are most women? Answer (of course they're not)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:57 PM
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lol no, I mean my friends are sympathetic when I talk to them, that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:44 PM
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"this just shows how women can never have empathy for men who struggle chad is exception" In my experience, women, at least in real life, are fine about it (maybe I've just been lucky with the women I'm friends with? idk). It's mostly just online they become monstrous, probably due to their own negative experiences and projections stemming from them, and how much easier it is to roll your eyes at words on a screen than an actual human face
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:35 PM
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"they should be pouring that energy into self improvement so they can do better." And when that doesn't work? To answer your question: it's the internet and anonymous. I can almost guarantee men are not talking about this face-to-face with people, due to the shame and wanting to hide it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:29 PM
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No, because you make post after post after post that is just as insane and detached from reality as any of the men here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:30 PM
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The unhinged part, I mean. Makes sense unhinged people would gravitate to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:36 PM
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True! Guess you found your peoples here, makes sense, really
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:03 PM
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lol we're not. See what I mean about coming to unhinged conclusions that have no basis in reality? Thanks for proving my point!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:13 PM
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Sadly, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:32 PM
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"But if one does believe in personal responsibility to such an extent then people are [collectively] responsible for the ills of the world in which they inhabit." Well I definitely agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:31 PM
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Oh, for sure, but ultimately we get the politicians we vote for, and right now everyone is voting for crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:55 AM
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"Then by that logic evil politicians, corporate leadership, community heads, etc. are the fault of the people regardless" I mean, if you live in a democracy, getting evil politicians is quite obviously the fault of the people voting for them...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:39 AM
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Wow. A Lillith post that actually makes sense and isn't mashing together a bunch of different shit to come to some totally unhinged conclusion that has no connection to reality. Is the world coming to an end?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:35 AM
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Okay. I only know of one divorce where the woman weaponized the kids against the dad, most of the time the parents are sane and mature enough not to put their personal issues on their kids. Sorry the people in your life are crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:14 AM
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Dawg you're never going to get anyone to seriously listen to what you're saying if you keep making incredibly idiotic comments like this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:56 AM
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"Any man” is definitely not true." Right, hence the reason her concluding such as if it's fact is poisonous...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:31 PM
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It's funny, because sometimes you're very reasonable. You really don't see how concluding that any man who wants to date someone who cares about him beyond what he can provide actually secretly wants to be worshipped is poisonous?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 11:15 PM
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"However men DO want to be desired for their genitals." You have anything to back this up? That this is how the majority of men feel? Seems like a pretty wild claim, and, as a man who has met many other men, not at all in line with the reality I know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 10:08 PM
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"You are taking things out of context." lol I promise you I'm not. I have never heard it used in the context you are referring to (though I'm sure it happens!). I've only ever heard it specifically in reference to dating...has it occurred to you that, perhaps, your experience is not a universal one? You see, just because you do not personally see or hear something, that does not mean it did not happen and cannot happen, as you seem to believe I'll say it one more time since you're struggling so …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 09:06 PM
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Yeah it's pretty disheartening that literally all I'm saying is I wish women would be honest about their standards and stop talking about how low they are when, in reality, they are as higher, or higher, than they've ever been, and for some reason women have a huge problem with that, apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 03:35 PM
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Okay? Doesn't mean it's not disingenuous to say the bar is in hell over and over when women's standards are actually perfectly normal and reasonable and not at all "in hell"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:58 PM
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No, it's extremely disingenuous to claim your standards are "in hell," if in reality you are looking for someone you want to connect with emotionally and find sexually attractive. Those are normal standards. Not in hell standards. Women saying over and over that the bar is in hell when in reality the bar is very normal is disingenuous, you may not like it, but it doesn't make it not true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 02:57 PM
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Yes, that is the reason it is disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:36 PM
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Fair. I think you're right about this when it comes to coworkers, friends, etc, but unfortunately, as far as dating goes, it's essentially useless advice. Hence the frustration from men hearing it over and over, when they know it doesn't actually make a difference the way women lecture at them that it does. Appreciate you not doing that and telling the truth, btw, that treating women like people won't make men dateable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:35 PM
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"Women don’t have a herd mentality. People do" /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:26 PM
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I mean, the vast, vast majority of us don't. I've never, ever met a man who believes women only exist to fuck him, yet here you are presenting it as the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:24 PM
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"I was told by two dudes that my request was worthless to their lives." And how did you reach the conclusion that this means they think women only exist to fuck them? Because those aren't sounding the same to me, at least
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:18 PM
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Right, hence the reason it's disingenuous to do the whole "the bar is in hell, men are trash, dating should be easy as long as you treat women like people" thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:53 PM
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"when they say they just want someone to treat them like a human being?" That they want someone who listens and respects them and with whom they can actually connect emotionally. I realize women don't literally mean these things. But when you're simultaneously being told men are terrible and women just want someone nice and then do that and get told that being nice is the bare minimum and anyone can do that, it does feel like being gaslit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:48 PM
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Okay 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:35 PM
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I agree! Which is why women should stop saying that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:34 PM
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I'd still argue that saying "I just want to be treated like a person," if you really mean "i want a hot guy to do what I tell him" is gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:08 PM
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Got it, thanks. How silly of me not to know that "i just want to be treated like a person" actually means "i want the guy fucking me to do what I want"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:46 PM
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"They are too simple for that." Saying shit like this is also extremely detrimental, FYI. Like...are you just trolling here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 12:18 PM
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Please, tell me, what is the secret meaning behind "I just want men to treat me like a person" that I'm missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:55 AM
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lol, should have known better than to try and reason with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:52 AM
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Yes, obviously. How would women be telling me this if they weren't in my social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:43 AM
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"What you're referencing is women explaining alot of men are misogynistic losers which leads to this "Male Loneliness Epidemic" that those losers complain about." No. Women tell me this about their current, active dating lives and how hard it is for them to be treated with basic respect and how that's all they want "not women being evil liars." lol i don't think women are evil liars. I think women are frustrated and say things they don't really mean, or aren't saying their full thoughts, due to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:36 AM
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"That's not the same thing as a woman telling a little boy "Girls love it when you're nice to them". True! It's women telling a grown man "dating will be easy for any man who treats us like humans" "What you're referencing is women explaining alot of men are misogynistic losers which leads to this "Male Loneliness Epidemic" that those losers complain about." Actually I hear it from women who are frustrated with being unable to find men to date Again, I just hope the gaslighting can end in 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:31 AM
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"It almost seems from their post that they’re suggesting being respectful, being kind, being a good person, etc doesn’t have much, if anything, to do with being “sexually desirable”." That's because it doesn't. Women do not find these things sexually desirable. They're totally irrelevant, as far as attraction goes. If you get into a relationship they start to count, but not in the initial dating stage
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:24 AM
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Especially when 90% of what I hear from women is how awful men are and the bar is in hell and they just wanted to be treated like they're people and not objects of men's pleasure. Then of course you do that, get rejected, and get this lecture. The gaslighting needs to end
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:20 AM
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Women really need to stop saying the bar is in hell and men are awful and they just want to be treated like they're human, then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:18 AM
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You say that, but then all I hear is how the bar is in hell, how awful men are, and how women's expectations are so low that dating should be easy for any man who just treats women like human beings. Until of course a man does that and gets rejected...then he gets this lecture I just hope the gaslighting can finally end in 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 11:16 AM
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"Men think finding a woman through an app or online means he’s ordering uber sex." Source? "I did meet my soulmate through dating app though," Your soulmate ordered you as uber sex? Weird flex, but go off, sis
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:03 AM
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To be fair, women are far, far, far worse in this regard than men. The chastisement of romantically unsuccessful men from women is constant and never-ending and encouraged and cheered
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:56 AM
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"They’ll complain about a-hole guys but then be a-holes to normal guys who treat them with respect" So confusing, right? The narrative is "the bar is in hell, men are trash," etc. etc. until you show a woman kindness and she has no appreciation for it whatsoever, then all of the sudden it flips to "being nice is the bare minimum, anyone can do that, women are expecting a lot more than just niceness now that they don't have to rely on men to survive"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:51 PM
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"online-won’t be doing that again" Online dating...I don't know. My instinct is to say it needs to become a thing of the past because it's obviously harmful to both men and women....but also the majority of my friends met their partners through apps and they all seem pretty happy, so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:27 PM
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lol glad someone else said it. Whole thing is like...duh? By definition, if what you feel is "truly lonely," you are not happy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:22 PM
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"but they don’t have an equal say in if they want a kid." Why not? Surely this is a thing people can talk about and agree or disagree on ahead of time, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:04 PM
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lol you're saying it's not men's fault they abandon their kids because women are forcing them to have them and men have no control over pregnancy happening in the first place " FORCE THESE PARENTS TO BE ACCOUNTABLE." Says the guy who believes men have zero control over where and in whom they ejaculate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:58 PM
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That's fine, but don't turn around and talk about how much you love everyone, if that's your stance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:49 PM
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"women initiate divorce between 70-90% of the time." Okay. That stat isn't related to parenting, though. So...it's not really relevant? Your claim seems to be that, dad's want to be involved, but women are preventing it from happening. How does a divorce stat prove that? I'm not seeing the connection between the two, at all. As far as I know, unless there's a court order, not being in a relationship with the mother does not prevent a father from being present in his kids' lives, so who initiates…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:46 PM
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hahaha hilarious, the projection is wild with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:23 PM
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It's hard, a lifelong commitment, and very expensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:13 AM
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Okay you said something about women being hypocrites for not having big dicks while wanting big dicks? Or something. What exactly does that have to do with my logic, because I'm not seeing a connection. I can't argue against a connection you are inventing and claiming as fact
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:39 AM
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lol calling you a hypocrite isn't hating what you said. It's just calling you a hypocrite. What did I not combat? You saying that men are hypocrites because women don't have penises? What is anyone supposed to say to something that makes that little sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:34 AM
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idk, I feel like making an entire post arguing your opinion then in the comments proudly stating you don't argue over opinions is just really stupid. What exactly am I supposed to be coping over?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:22 AM
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Don't forget his daughter has an incredible role model to look up to, since mom was a virgin when she was married
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:12 AM
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I really hope he isn't actually married and this is just a larp...his poor wife
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:01 AM
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I think he's just really, really stupid. Made an entire post to argue his opinion, and now is saying that he doesn't argue over opinions. Not a good sign for his intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:56 AM
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Yes, and yours is worryingly stupid to the point where you probably shouldn't go outside and attempt to cross the street without assistance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:50 AM
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lol it's worrying that you are unable to see just how fucking stupid this is I really hope you don't sincerely believe that men wanting to put their dick in a vagina and you saying that women who aren't virgins can't be good role models but men who aren't virgins can are equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:45 AM
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"“But that’s a double standard!” Right! Right, so...because it's a double standard...you are a hypocrite. That's, like, the definition of being a hypocrite: standards for thee, but not for me "Just like a woman might want her hubby to have a big dick. NO man wants his wife to have a big dick." It's worrying that you are unable to see just how fucking stupid this is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:40 AM
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But you're not a virgin? Therefore, by your own logic, it is impossible for you to be a good role model "I want a daughter someday, and she should have a good role model to look up to as her mom" remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:33 AM
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Sucks your son, if you have one, won't have a positive role model to look up to since you're not a virgin. Well, that's not totally fair...maybe you have brothers or something to do the positive role modeling for you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:21 AM
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"so in the majority of cases its the woman's own fault that she is a single mother." You have anything to back this up? Or are you just making shit up and presenting it as fakt? Because I'd imagine the vast majority of cases it's just the dude running out and not wanting to deal with the kid. So I'm very curious how you know the majority of the time, single mothers are only single because they banished the dad from the kid's life and made the choice for the father not to be involved
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:16 AM
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"Wrong" So you think parents have no responsibility whatsoever to the children they create? That's...really fucking stupid, man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:14 AM
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Okay? Not sure what that has to do with you sticking your head in the sand and screaming about how men literally have no choice but to abandon their children and it's all women's fault if something bad happens because they're women and have a responsibility to their children but men don't for....reasons! but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 02:08 AM
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lol I'm clearly not. Saying men have agency too, since you are pretending they do not, is not saying women don't have agency, it's just saying men also have agency
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:06 AM
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"Why are you trying to remove their agency?" Ironic, considering how you're totally removing agency from men and pretending they simply have no choice but to abandon their children. Is that really how little you think of men? That they are so incapable and incompetent that they can't not abandon their kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 12:04 AM
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It's definitely not a dice roll. But I also don't think it's fair to say that women who grow up in environments where single mothers are common and it's literally all they know are 100% capable of and responsible for knowing whether a man will stick around or not. Surely the fathers who are running out on their children deserve at least as much, if not more, blame than the women choosing them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:09 PM
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Honestly kind of wild you think so little of men that you think there's literally no possible way for them to control where or in whom they ejaculate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 11:05 PM
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Dawg saying a dude who impregnates a chick then runs for the hills has "successfully completed his biological purpose" is nuts, assuming that by "biological purpose," you mean being a successful parent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 10:52 PM
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"If most women weren't hellbent on weaponizing their children against the fathers" That's...a hell of a claim to make. How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 10:42 PM
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"You can’t always predict somebody changing, but it’s fairly easy to predict whether a man is going to be a deadbeat or not" If that's the kind of environment you've been raised in and you don't know anything else, it can be harder to tell than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 10:39 PM
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Yeah it's wild the way, if women don't like you enough, treating them with kindness and respect becomes an indisputable sign that you're secretly a bad person who deserves to be used and taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:39 PM
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lol. pretty funny you can't see you're literally doing it, right now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:20 PM
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What....is the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:13 PM
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Literally all the time? "being nice is the bare minimum, women aren't machines you can put niceness coins in and get love in return, you have to do a lot more than just be nice, that's why she took advantage of you. You should have known she didn't care because she wasn't matching your energy, you shouldn't do nice things for women unless they do them for you in return"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:10 PM
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Right...and I'm saying me experience is the exact opposite, and it's women doing the thing you are saying men are doing. Going the next step and exploiting kindness then blaming me by saying I'm a bad person for wanting some small sign that said kindness was appreciated, and that's why I deserve to not be appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:08 PM
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Seeing posts like these is so confusing when my experience has been the exact opposite and women tell me I'm a bad person for wishing that my empathy/kindness/selfishness for women was appreciated by those women. Apparently wanting your kindness appreciated counts as an ulterior motive and means you deserve the exact opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:03 PM
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