| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 108 | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do | Debate | Prestigious_Gain5421 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 02:38 AM |
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| 0 | What is your goal in dating?I don’t believe in wasting time. If I have a man that is my person, I wouldn’t want anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 10:54 PM |
| 12 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.The only unconditional love that exists is the love a mother has for her child. Romantic relationships are conditional. You’re either naive or you’re too stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 09:24 AM |
| -1 | What is your goal in dating?Just say you’re a lustful man and you’re weak in that aspect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 09:19 AM |
| 2 | If you're in an age gap relationship, it's better to charge him for your time.If a young woman makes a lot of money, she won’t be with an old, ugly rich man. She will probably choose someone around her age or slightly older. The only exception I’ve seen is when the old man is in shape and is quite attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:36 PM |
| -3 | Women, by and large, are not "settling" with guys they aren't attracted toFrom my observation based on personal encounters in public. Also, I have a very strong sense of smell. I can tell you about 80% of men have bad body odour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 12:06 PM |
| -6 | "I'm overwhelmed by matches on dating apps" so stop swiping???This post : “I hate women who complain they get a lot of matches when I can’t even get one match in weeks”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 11:10 AM |
| -2 | Women, by and large, are not "settling" with guys they aren't attracted toI’ve been saying this but I think my previous post got taken down by the mods lol. Males have themselves to blame if women don’t find the lot of you attractive. So many men have bad hygiene, don’t shower, don’t even workout or take care of their fitness. These are all within your control. Other factors that are not within your control are of course your facial features or height. But look into factors that you can control first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 11:02 AM |
| – | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realiseI want to upvote this a 100 times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 12:31 AM |
| – | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themAnd? We are talking about looks not money. Both of those men are objectively uglier than their partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 04:27 AM |
| – | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themBut look at celebrities. There are clearly an imbalance in their attractiveness level. JayZ and Beyoncé an example. Adriana Lima and her ex husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 02:12 AM |
| 6 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.OP chose to ignore this fact. There are women who are actually the breadwinners in the household. Their men just sit at home and do nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.Yes. Even broke men do not want women that are at their level. They all want a certain type of woman, usually a woman that will make them look good to other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:05 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doAnd do you think people that workout like to workout ? No, we hate it. I won’t go into detail why being active is important but if you don’t like being active , you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doI’m not American | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 03:26 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doI won’t go into detail talking about makeup because I believe this is not a beauty standard..that’s why I stress on fitness because everyone can do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 03:23 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doTLDR most men don’t work on increasing their attractiveness level but most women do. Reading the comments you can tell some of these men don’t even try to work on their fitness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 03:20 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doAnd I wonder who set these standards? Other women? Oh let me guess…it’s your gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 03:11 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doYou sound bitter. I’m sorry if you never had experience dating beautiful women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 03:07 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doThis is a debate and an open discussion and I have offered you my views even though I am not in favour of it. You seemed almost defensive though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 03:03 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doMy main post is talking about fitness. Not beauty facials etc but how quick you are to point this out. Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 02:55 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doI for one don’t believe in dating men I am not attracted to and dating ugly men. But some women like doing charity work so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 02:52 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doI don’t trust studies. I see what is happening in real time. And what I have seen in real life. How often do you see an attractive man with an ugly woman? Not that many I guess. I see the reverse more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 02:50 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doThis should be the way. Taking care of your fitness and doing it for yourself. But reading these comments, some of these men don’t even try | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.This is so funny. These men won’t even admit it to themselves. Women are hypergamous in terms of resources and men are mad? Men are hypergamous so that they can look good in the eyes of other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.They don’t say it openly is what I’m trying to say. Some women still cling to the idea of struggle love or dating men for their potential (like men who have not proven their ability to provide but may in the future). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Women are in business while men are looking for love.This post is diabolical. For ages, men need to prove themselves worthy to women. They need to show proof that they able to provide, have land, cattle etc. The script changed somehow along the way and women are made to believe that “love is enough”. They brainwash women this idea with romantic movies, shows that love will overcome all. What a joke. Only recently we see women claiming they want a man with resources and men like you are barking. I don’t know why is this even a matter of discussion.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 02:05 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doIs he secretly gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 01:36 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doYes exactly. Some women get eating disorders, get dangerous procedures just to meet beauty standards. It’s crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 01:25 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doPrecisely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 01:14 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doWhy are you so pressed. This is a debate and is open for discussion. Unless you are blind or just socially unaware, most men have high expectations for women in general but they themselves do not meet them , especially when it comes to looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 01:13 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doMen have enjoyed benefits of the patriarchy and they don’t even acknowledge it. Surprise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 01:01 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doHere’s the link : https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSk8w6UpD/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 12:56 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doSo you’re black pilled now or what? You seemed angry or frustrated. Do you like average women or only go for women out of your league? There was a TikTok video on this where men are interviewed and most men answer they go for women out of their league. I wish I was joking but no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 12:55 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doI looked at her Youtube channel. It seems she has an illness that's why she don't have hair. But okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 12:13 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doDo you even try though. Are you trying to say that you don't work on your fitness just because of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 12:10 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doI wish I was joking but no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 12:08 PM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doI’m not referring to men like you. Just straight men in general that have expectations for women that they themselves don’t even meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:53 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doYes, grooming and basic hygiene should be the bare minimum but some men don't even care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:38 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doAbsolutely. Women are always expected to have slim figures. We try to stay on top of our figure by working out, taking care of our diet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:36 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doDo you work out? Yes, it takes time to see progress. Working out, eating healthy is a lifestyle. You can't do it today and then decide the next day to stop. Men like you seem to complain a lot on subs like these than actually doing the hard work. Yet I can bet that you're the type that also want a slim attractive woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:30 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doI've known this all along. But thanks for confirming this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:08 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doShe is still not considered ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 10:08 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doshe is covering her acne. But looking at her facial features alone, if she has clear skin, this is not an unattractive woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 09:53 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doSo you’re saying I’m right, then? That attractive women are used by men to look good. Hmm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 09:48 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doMakeup can slightly enhance a woman’s attractiveness but no, if a woman is not attractive she is not. Women know this. That’s why some of these women go and alter their facial features by going under the knife etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 09:46 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doThat’s sad. I’m not American so. But from what I’ve seen is most men want a slim attractive woman even if they themselves are not fit or take care of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 09:38 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doThis sounds like misogyny. A woman can put thick amounts of makeup but if she is not attractive she is not. You sound defeated here. Not all women find bald men attractive but there are women who do. Just go where you’re liked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 09:33 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doMakeup can be a form of self expression, to make themselves look more attractive etc, to elevate an outfit etc. Wouldn’t a woman look funny if she wore an elegant dress with no makeup on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 09:26 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doAre you sure you’re blue pilled? This sounds like what a red pill man would say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 09:23 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doWhy would a woman be with a man who thinks she is just “good enough”. That’s sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 09:15 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doTaking care of yourself is being narcissistic? Wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 09:12 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doMen are hypergamous when it comes to the approval of other men and their position in the patriarchy. Attractive women are used by men to make themselves look good in the eyes of other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 09:06 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doWomen will date down looks-wise if the man has other good qualities. I’m sorry if you never had that experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 09:02 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doThese men don’t get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 08:41 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doWomen are more forgiving when it comes to looks. I see attractive women dating down looks-wise most of the time. Men are more shallow when it comes to looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 08:39 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doHow short are we talking here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 08:21 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doRight. Then i guess it depends on the woman in question. If we are talking about the ideal woman every man dreams of…slim figure, attractive. Will this woman go for the average man who don’t take care of themselves? Probably not. The only exception to this is if the man has financial means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 08:13 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doMen are not flexible when it comes to looks especially if we are talking about the ideal dream woman every man has (whether they admit it or not). Men will however settle for a woman even if they don’t like the woman, especially if they are desperate and no other women want them. Not forgetting also whether a man has financial means…this will also determine their preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 08:09 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doYe but you say men find all body types attractive which is a lie. I’m redpill when it comes to looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:36 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doI don’t know if those women are trying to be PC on the internet. Or maybe what you define dad bod is different that what those women define a dad bod. Either way, if I’m a man, I wouldn’t trust what women say they like but work on improving myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:34 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doYou say this but why is it when I go to Instagram and see a slightly overweight woman (not obese, maybe a bit thicc) and she get hateful comments on her body? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:25 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doExactly this. It’s beyond embarrassing sometimes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:14 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doI’m not American. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:04 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doSkincare, fitness, diet for the most part. Some women do beauty enhancements like getting aesthetic treatments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:03 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doMaybe in your city. In my city, most of the women are very slim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 05:51 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doNah, it’s the overall package. Also, facial beauty is subjective. I may find a man facially attractive, another woman may not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 05:43 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doHuh. Looking good is a form of self love. If a woman don’t even try to look good, she don’t love herself enough. Period. Whether she looks good for herself, other women or men, it’s the mindset. Most women at least try to improve her looks, most men don’t. That’s my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 05:39 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doThis is obviously a picture that I found on the internet and he is a male model. You asked me to give you an example of what I meant by athletic look and this is the example. Just focus on the body and not the face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 05:33 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doNo amount of makeup can cover up bad skin. Makeup only enhances a woman’s beauty. Why do you think a lot of women spend a lot of money on skincare or beauty enhancements? Or taking care of their fitness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 05:31 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doAttractive women will never make the first move. Even if they find you attractive. But they will give you signs that they’re interested by smiling, body language etc. This is IRL of course. In dating apps, it’s your pictures and how you present yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 04:47 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doIs it because you want to attract a specific type of woman? Sometimes, it is like that. We are attractive but we are not everyone’s cup of tea and that is okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 04:28 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doRight. So the women love your money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 04:24 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do<image> Even if he wearing a shirt like this, I can tell this man works out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 04:23 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doYou can’t be that unattractive if you take care of your grooming and fitness. Maybe it’s something else, ask a female friend irl to rate you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doYou can’t be that unattractive if you take care of your grooming and fitness. Maybe it’s something else, ask a female friend irl to rate you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 04:04 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doExactly, they think we just “eat right”. These men have no idea. Fitness is important too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 03:49 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doIt’s the physique, men that work out usually have an athletic look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 03:18 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doTikTok is where you can observe the sentiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 02:59 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doThis study is in 2017. Times are changing. Go on TikTok and see what women are talking about dating ugly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 02:57 AM |
| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doYes, so why aren’t more men taking care of their fitness ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themYe I mean ugly. Not average looking men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themOP needs to understand that people are shallow but between men and women, men are more shallow. Most men don’t give ugly women a chance but we can see more hot women dating average or ugly men. However, recently there’s a trend where hot / beautiful women should NOT give ugly men a chance. Give an ugly man a chance and he thinks he owns the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 12:18 PM |
| – | Recent Wizard Liz stuff, Andrew Tate equivalent but for hypergamous females that's really popular who got cheated by 6ft+ millionaire boyfriend when she was 4 month pregnant.It’s usually broke men that bark when women date up. Women are hypergamous by nature. They either date / marry their equal or up. Only foolish women marry down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 11:56 AM |
| – | "I see far more attractive women than men" shows that beauty standards for women are not highWomen take care of their overall appearance for the most part more than men because it is constantly in our face : the media , society etc. Also….some women really don’t dress for the male gaze. Some dress for themselves, some for other women. Why is this a discussion? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 10:41 AM |
| 2 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themIt’s all about control and dominance tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 02:06 PM |
| 1 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themThere you go. When we women say this, some men want to argue with us.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 02:05 PM |
| 1 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themThese men are rare. I’m sorry, but the average man is not like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 02:03 PM |
| 1 | High earning women don’t intimidate men from dating themNo, it has to be higher imho. I wouldn’t date my equal tbh. Or someone who is in the same field as me, it would feel like competition and if I surpass him in earnings, most men won’t be able to take it well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 02:00 PM |
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