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MALE DEPRAVITYPrestigious_Spray_34/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:22 PM
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Also, when women say that they are suicidal, they are automatically diagnosed as borderline, which is usually not fair. We have to be mentally ill or doing it for attention. They refuse to believe that someone could simply be driven to feel that way due to a situation. Therefore, women usually only tell people who are close to them or no one at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:55 PM
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I saw in a MGTOW forum that women are their hottest at 17 and after that, it’s downhill. That’s ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:35 PM
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I’ve heard that men don’t use washcloths in the shower (which means that they don’t shower well). They think that women have to shower well, but they don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:30 PM
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I used to think this way. However, women tend to ghost before there is a relationship. Men tend to ghost out of engagements or entire marriages. That is just extreme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:47 AM
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The original point is that they are still obsessed with a child-like body and the reasons for that obsession have more to do with pedo desires than a mere desire to control women. It is not a fat vs. skinny argument. It is extremely dangerous for a women who has a child-like body to procreate with a man who picked her due to his own pedo desires. He could victimize their children. Of course, bigger women have their own abuses that they suffer at the hands of men, but these comments weren’t about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:17 PM
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Why couldn’t she be single? Why does she have to be a mother?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:44 PM
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TW: My ex used to say that unless a woman actively tried to get away or was beaten, then it is not rape. I tried to explain that women usually freeze in fear because they can’t believe it is happening and he said that men would not have sex with a woman who is frozen in fear unless he had a dead body fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:07 PM
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This is it!!!! I used to live in an area in which each resident had to have a separate trash can. Sometimes, rude neighbors would fill others trash cans and it caused a problem because then that person had to keep their trash in the house until the next week. Yet, there was always a cognitive dissonance: “it’s a trash can, so why does it matter whose trash is in it?” I think men are asking the same question: “it’s a vagina, so why does it matter whose penis is in it?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:05 PM
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That is true in some cases, but you can’t rule out the fact that most men chase super thin women for pedo reasons. I actually heard a man say that he likes super thin women, but he hates women who acquire their thinness through diet and exercise. He said that he only wanted “naturally” thin women who stay that way without exercise because he never wanted there to even be a chance that she could gain weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:46 PM
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Exactly. I have had men who were about 10 years older than me to say “if I were younger, I would date you, but I know that it wouldn’t be right; one day, you’ll find someone you age and be happy”. I respect someone who realizes that an age gap is not wise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:19 PM
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I figured out that he was probably narcissistic when those quotes about intelligence vs. college education surfaced. I don’t know if he said those or not, but he didn’t try to refute it. It basically became clear that he thinks that no one is smarter than he is and he doesn’t even want anyone to attempt to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:56 PM
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Thank you very much and I think that you are right about perception. There are a few women there who have managed to dodge the glass ceiling and the men talk about them as if they hate those women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:25 AM
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Thank you. I’m looking for a way out now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:24 PM
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Yes!!! Men are unaware and don’t care. I have had lazy W men who request extensions on every project and barely complete the projects to receive promotions and better appraisals because, since I’m a younger minority, I didn’t “pay my dues”. Well, I was born to a woman who lived in an old attic at the time of my birth. We struggled forever. We couldn’t buy some appliances until right before I went to college. Yet, I still excelled. I was always on the honor roll, excelled in extracurriculars, exc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:11 PM
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Yes... and then they block us from getting promotions, even when our resumes show consistent hard work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:04 PM
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Yes, you’re right. My ex used to talk about not having good grades in high school or college, but finally getting good grades in grad school. Yet, he was in his 40s and still hopping from job to job. He would get a good job and then quit over some minor issues - lather, rinse, repeat. The problem was that he started to become jealous that my success was more consistent. I was almost always at the top of my class and my career kept growing. After a year of extreme successes in my life, he ghosted…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:02 PM
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If you are of a different race, this may have been a hate crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:50 PM
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That may be, but these guys were particularly criticizing her for hypergamy and saying that she didn’t deserve it. No man has the right to decide what a woman deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:42 PM
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Exactly... a lot of times, the difference between “pretty” and “ugly” is just hard work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:20 PM
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Exactly. Every time that I have met someone and felt that I couldn’t trust them, high anxiety or not, it was always right. Even during interviews, if I felt as if I was scared of the new boss, later on, the boss almost always sabotaged me due to jealousy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:23 AM
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One time, I was one of three women but I was the only woman who could work independently. The others were always behind in their work and begging men for help. My projects were far better than even the men. When they had to transfer someone for “low performance”, guess who was shipped off the quickest? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:15 AM
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Our bodies can never be purchased. We are high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:06 AM
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Yes!!!! Even men assume that you’re dumb if you look young and pretty. The women bully and sabotage you while the men won’t even allow you to show your skills. The men want you to be quiet, back them in everything, and look pretty while the women are busy ruining your career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:58 AM
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I get it. The brief topic was kids having large breasts, which is not expected. The topic wasn’t older teens who have small breasts. There was nothing wrong with your statement. All of these topics can be addressed without someone acting as if it is a competition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:51 AM
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Some will try to make and/or keep you fat. My ex was always telling me that I would be prettier if I gained weight. I am 5’4” and 135, so I was already curvy and didn’t need or want to gain weight. If I was drinking diet soda, he would try to say that regular soda was better. If I dodged the whole thing by drinking water, he would try to make me have tea with sugar. He was always suggesting the unhealthy choices. I figured out that he really just thought that I was out of his league and that mak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:08 PM
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... And when we take high positions and move mountains to get those positions due to discrimination and undermining, we’re told that we lack integrity and humility... while men lie every day to get their “needs” met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:06 PM
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They say it in a “nice” way. “Wow, you look so young and innocent like a baby but I can tell by the way that you carry yourself that you ain’t no baby. Give me your phone number!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:18 PM
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Exactly... those same men will buy a new car, a gym membership, etc... all things that are not necessary... but won’t buy a simple necklace or flowers to validate a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:53 PM
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Exactly... he doesn’t like the banana flavored ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:48 PM
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I think that this is the reason that men hate childfree women and male bosses block promotions for childfree women. They’d rather see you have children and be devalued.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:13 AM
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Not a movie... but anytime that a man has hated Meghan Markle, it was always bad news for me. It is symbolic that they hate women who use hypergamy or are extremely ambitious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:30 AM
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He is doing worst than that. He sees that he must deposit quarters and when he gets to 100 quarters, he will get sex. But he’s putting tape on nickels so that the sex machine will think these are quarters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:45 AM
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For me, the problem is therapists who invalidate experiences. I experienced severe harassment at a job that caused me to develop PTSD-like symptoms. She kept trying to probe to see if she could simply pass the whole thing as me having BPD. When she couldn’t, she said that the things that they did really were not that bad and should not have traumatized me and gave a diagnosis of “adjustment disorder”. Basically, she said that I just need coping skills to deal with harassment that, of course, she…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:35 AM
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They lie, lie, lie until it is too late for an abortion!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:49 AM
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I learned the hard way. I normally watch my weight, but one time, I was dating a guy who judged my eating habits (even though they are fairly healthy). Because of this, I would eat before the date so that I could drink mostly water during the date. I was at work and ordered a burger and fries. My supervisor noticed that it was unusual and said “what are you doing?” I said “I’m getting ready for a date”. She said “girl, if he doesn’t feed you, dump him!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:13 PM
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Does he even bathe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:05 PM
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This is VERY popular in workplaces, especially between men and women. Usually, there is a male boss who is extremely nice to everyone until he meets someone who is smarter than he is. He is still “nice” to that person, but puts a few well-placed insults in his speech from time to time. Gradually, he does minor things to sabotage that person’s work (such as mildly bad advice), but it can’t be proven while promoting bad workers to this person’s dismay. Finally, the person questions these things af…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:59 PM
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Apparently, we have women here who love to cross boundaries. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:50 PM
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Okay... done and blocked in order to comply with the nonsensical boundary that you created.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:45 PM
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They want to be able to quickly walk away without any sign that the relationship even existed. They will even say that the kids were from a one night stand or FWB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:32 PM
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Yes. Not giving flowers is a symptom of not wanting to validate the entire relationship. My ex used to pretend that it was all about saving money, but whenever he wanted to eat in a nice restaurant, he did it. If he wanted nice clothes, he bought clothes, etc. He was only cheap when it came to my needs, which showed that he just didn’t want to do things that would make the relationship official. Those same men would buy flowers to keep Halle Berry - just not us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:52 PM
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Yes. We can’t accept women pushing boundaries and then reject men who do the same. It is a bad precedent. We have to reject all people who cross boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:45 PM
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I can call anything gross if I want to do so. I already said that it wasn’t gross to the locals. If you tell me that you hate strawberries, but I continue to serve you strawberries over and over, that’s crossing a boundary. I never said that eating or being served gross foods was immoral, but that forcing someone to eat anything after it is clear that they don’t want it is crossing a boundary. My words are very clear. Stop gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:42 PM
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What is the deal with men and flowers? Mine gave me flowers (reluctantly) but became upset when the flowers died and wouldn’t let me throw them away. He would keep talking about the price and still kept telling me not to throw the stinking dead flowers away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:38 PM
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He will dump her anyway. It’s better to get dumped while having an intact body and not being a parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:31 PM
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Exactly... many of those men get women pregnant on purpose! Definitely, do not tell them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:28 PM
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Exactly... this was my experience in the south. They won’t accept the boundary. I was also thinner than most of the women and would hear “let me make some cornbread to fatten you up” and then they would constantly push as much food toward me as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:36 PM
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Exactly. My ex was from the south. Whenever we went to other places, he would start conversations with the cashiers (who were often teen girls). They would act visibly uncomfortable, but he would persist. When I told him that, outside of certain places in the southeast, that’s not acceptable, he just stuck with “well, I was raised to start conversations with strangers”. The odd thing is, he clammed up around adults and teen boys - he was only talkative to teen girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:34 PM
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No... they were trying to make me try foods that I didn’t like. I had already tried these before and didn’t like these foods. I actually had vomited before after eating these things. They would NOT take no for an answer and automatically decided to shame and embarrass me. That IS crossing boundaries. Simply sharing a culture is asking if someone wants something one time - not asking over and over. Also, it is against my beliefs to eat pork and I told them so, but this was one of the foods that t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:19 PM
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When women argue that marriage is just a piece of paper, I hear: “My man can’t let go of the idea that he can find something better, so I am going to go along with it”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:11 PM
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I still have this problem in my 30s because I am short with a round face, large eyes, tiny nose, tiny ears... Most people think that I am 18 and at worst, 25. A lot of older men chase me for “legal” pedo. They can pretend that I’m really young, but can’t go to jail because I’m not that young in reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:50 PM
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I don’t know a lot about it, but it seems that BDSM is just an excuse to rape. They know that if they do it, the woman is going to be too startled to remember any “safe” word and the man can justify it in court by saying that she didn’t really want to stop or else she would have said the “safe” word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:42 PM
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It still has to do with crossing boundaries. I dealt with this when I moved to the South for a few years. They eat a lot of gross foods there that are not considered gross to the locals. Every time that I didn’t want something, it was met with “just wait until the right person cooks it”. Sometimes, they would just hand me foods that I already made it clear that I didn’t want and try to “shame” me into eating it just to prove their “niceness”. Someone’s “niceness” should not be placed above someo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:36 PM
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Yes!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:29 PM
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Huh? 😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:27 PM
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I have heard of this - it might be cultural. A lot of Black American men say that the first date is for sex only. If they like the sex, the woman gets a meal - but not before. It’s almost like prostitution, but a “romantic” dinner is the prize instead of money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:24 PM
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Yes... also, in the larger Michigan cities, her “niceness” would be viewed as being rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:19 PM
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Best karma ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:26 PM
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Ew... I’m so sorry. They need to stop asking for “innocent” sleepovers if the really just want to act sexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:15 PM
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Thank you very much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:11 PM
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Similar... Because I try to maintain my appearance, they think that the skills on my resume are “baloney” and that I must be exaggerating. When I outperform them, I usually get punished or sent to another department so that I can’t get promoted over the old yt men and then I have to start over. I should be a senior researcher right now and I am still at entry-level because of their stinking egos and misogynistic mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:20 AM
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... or they change what you are saying... Woman: “Would you ever cheat?” Man: “How dare you accuse me of cheating?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:11 AM
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I think that sex makes HVM turn into LVM. HVM are used to working for things, but sex might spoil them and they become accustomed to getting something for nothing. Have you noticed that a lot of HVM have unattractive faces? These men are not used to getting sex easily and naturally associate sex with hard work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:38 AM
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Yes!!! Yes!!! I endured a situation like this. I am from a very religious background and I know very little about sex. Theoretically, I understand it but I didn’t understand the situations that men would use to get it. I have only dated one man. After months of dating in public, he told me to spend the night at his house (several hours away) and promised that sex would not occur. Naively, I believed him. Well, sex did not occur, but he demanded (nicely) that I touch him and then forcibly used my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:31 AM
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Yes! Most men engage in some kind of questionable behavior that kind of falls in between consent and no consent. For instance, if a man asks a woman to have sex and she screams “yes” and happily removes her clothes, he loses interest. If he asks a woman and she says “I don’t know” and sadly removes her clothes while covering herself with her hands and moving away, the man will usually pounce on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:43 PM
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Exactly and yet, he would blame her if something happened “what did you expect by going to a man’s house?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:57 PM
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Men pretend that they are in it long-term to get sex. Waiting for marriage is the best option. Some men will get married for a few weeks of sex and then annul, but these men will have a lot of explaining to do and most just leave before marriage and find a “feminist” who thinks that she is liberated by giving up sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 12:39 AM
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