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| 1 | How do I move from small talk to a fun, specific date suggestion without it feeling forced or awkward?Mate with some women it will work to just be direct with specific plans and with others it won't. Stop trying to analyse what should work and just go there to get experience by trying things and fucking up and trying again and see for yourself what tends to work more often. Cuz the big problem here is your indecision to act until you have the perfect strategy and there is no foolproof strategy dude. If a girl is interested it won't matter what you say or when you say it, or if it's abrupt or not… | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 03:40 AM |
| 1 | she just wants to be friends but…WHy do you assume a girl has to act according to a protocol of behaviour when she says she is not interested? Your confusion comes because you are trying to standardize women's behaviour. As in: Premise 1: "if she is not interested, she should then not be interested at all in talking with me" Premise 2: "If she still acts close and seeks my attention then she must totally still secretly want me" But the problem with these premises is that women are not computers. And women do not neccesarily hav… | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Shot my shot at the beauty salonAre you there to get a number or to connect with herin order to build something? Choose one. The problem is you are going there to ask lie a beggar to an stranger to give you something. Get to know her in the salon, don't assume girls you barely know for less than a minute will be interested in meeting you over the phone or seeing you agian even if they give you a number. If you want to go out with girls, talk at least for 10 mins or more first and forget about getting numebers, vuz The number i… | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 02:05 AM |
| 2 | I suck at texting?"What else you got to offer besides your looks" is a very on the nose, not so subtle way to get her to qualify. It's almost like you are saying "Prove you are good enough to deserve someone like me". That's how she probably interpreted it, which of course is not gonna go down well and will often lead to an ego battle. Qualifying the girl isn't about directly asking her to give you reasons why you should be interested in her. It's about subtly making a mental note of what qualities she has that m… | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Do you think “confidence” is overrated in seduction?Confidence is not about performative stuff like being loud and obnoxiou. It's about being comfortable in your own skin, being sure that what you did is perfectly fine even if others might challenge you or question you, not second guessing yourself all the time or doubting your worth as a man just because someone doesn't like you, not doubting yourself and whether you are still liked by someone, and doing and saying what you want wihtout letting fears of negative outcomes stop you. So your questi… | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 11:28 PM |
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