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False AccusationPretend-Assumption-9/r/MensRights27/04/24 02:20 PM
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DebatePretend-Assumption-9/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:31 PM
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GeneralPretend-Assumption-9/r/MensRights21/11/24 08:39 AM
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thats what they do accuse random people of random things without any proof
/r/MensRights19/09/25 11:03 AM
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This so-called “powerless” group of people, who claim to fight against the wrongs of the world, actually seem to have significant backing from traditional media and social media. They even use huge bot farms to sway opinions in their favor, and in the end, they take the moral high ground of purity and innocence.
/r/MensRights19/09/25 11:01 AM
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But the problem is they are using bot farming on a large scale to spread hate, change/sway opinions, and everything else they say they are against.
/r/MensRights19/09/25 10:45 AM
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People who really destroy future for men are soft spoken, they pick words carefully, they declare good goals about equality and leveling playing field To top it off they make fake studies with a sample size of a 1000 people and use that study or research paper to make new laws favouring them. If you read them close enough you will know that those problems don't exist at all. It was manufactured by them
/r/MensRights18/09/25 12:29 PM
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you clearly are one?
/r/MensRights11/09/25 01:50 PM
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What the f**k is “men’s rights member” supposed to mean? Why does it even matter? The point still stands. They k**d him just for having a different opinion, and people are out here celebrating it. Labels, memberships, ideology none of that changes the fact that this is about how they indirectly destroy anyone who challenges their narrative. Stop getting caught up in your nonsense and look at what’s really happening.
/r/MensRights11/09/25 10:02 AM
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It is extremely relevant after yesterday.
/r/MensRights11/09/25 09:27 AM
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number 1 coz it is making up tv series and movies to make a global impact and change laws worldwide
/r/MensRights03/08/25 04:12 AM
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Dafq is TRP ? I have seen this happen in and around my house. In cities,towns, villages, everywhere. How is this TRP? If a woman is clearly proven to be lying about everything, how do other women still choose to believe her about anything? If you prove each and every lie of her, call out each instance and say your point of view. These women will still believe the words of the women who is lying. How tf does that happen?
/r/MensRights18/07/25 05:42 PM
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"A lot of the stuff you said under here is what girls do simply when they like you." If it is out of love and care I find 0 problems in explaining everything about myself in the most detailed way possible but when they use it as control is when things get fkd up
/r/MensRights18/07/25 06:34 AM
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It is predominantly done by a lot of women, but some men do it too. There I corrected it.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 06:12 AM
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Every sub which is left leaning group automatically hates cis men but at the same time expect them to vote in their favour
/r/MensRights21/06/25 07:07 PM
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"Oh, well The Patriarchy hurts men too!!" Men: And who has put these rules up - the Elite and who is backing the feminism movement - the Elite so who should you be fighting? Feminists: The common man. So that I can partner with the elite and get their privileges and crush the men.
/r/MensRights20/06/25 08:24 PM
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Conflating the very small number of men that have political influence with men in general is the apex logic fallacy. This. the same ones having this influence are running the show but these people are attacking all men
/r/MensRights20/06/25 04:25 PM
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Emotional abuse (arguing, tone of voice). Financial abuse (managing household money, questioning spending). Psychological abuse (making her feel unsafe). Social abuse (objecting to who she sees). Digital abuse (sending too many messages, asking about her phone). Coercive control (a vague, subjective “pattern” of behaviour). Spiritual abuse (not supporting her religious practices). Every single line in this is absolute madness with so many loopholes. And if it is to be practiced why tf is it not …
/r/MensRights29/05/25 11:26 PM
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yes but the opposition could debunk their claims ??
/r/MensRights22/05/25 11:32 AM
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Before they were doing it with articles and "studies", now they have found that movies/series are far more easier to propagate their "ideas".
/r/MensRights31/03/25 09:10 PM
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Same
/r/MensRights31/03/25 09:06 PM
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Yeah and they are extremely reactionary too. Doesn't matter if it is true or false
/r/MensRights31/03/25 01:37 PM
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The gender pay gap is just one of many misleading narratives perpetuated over the last decade, alongside more serious distortions that have driven incredibly biased policies and laws.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 12:41 PM
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I did not say the goal of life is being with tons of women. I am talking about real life problems that guys face and why having a father is important to navigate life. I did not say that life revolves around women or getting women is difficult if you don't have a father.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 12:33 PM
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What tf lol. Actually it should have the opposite effect. Staying with a lot of women helps you understand how women actually move
/r/MensRights29/03/25 10:20 PM
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Haha tell that to the generation of students who have graduated and have no jobs right now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:27 AM
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Does Alaska even have internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:50 AM
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oh my gawd pls check your sources. These were first mentioned in a website by her. That zawn.substack article isn’t legit research—it’s an opinion piece by some feminist writer, not a peer-reviewed study.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:49 AM
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This is completely false data. It is from this person - Zawn Villines - who does not cite her sources of where she obtained her data. Completely made up false cooked up data. And where does she put this up ? On a trusted peer reviewed site, academic library? No but her own website. Anybody can make up this type of data.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:44 AM
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Yes that article also has been proven to be false, It only shows a select few groups were hunting I have written it another comment. I'll find it and link you up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:37 AM
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Yes you are the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:35 AM
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some will make it, other won't. That's nature... They say control the controllables and when it is so easy to do, why leave it to chance? It's like saying walking is harder when you're born with just one leg. It's not like peeps don't know this, especially with in a 'specialized' sub like this. Take another look at the comment section apparently it is not that evident to people in the comment section here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:34 AM
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I am well past bad grades, self esteem issues etc. I finished my education in good standing with good self esteem etc. But I had to go through a lot to keep myself sane. So I am just trying to tell what I learnt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:33 PM
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Oh okay, I'm here to blame men like you and change the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:31 PM
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This is very true, they try to box him into a certain category to fit their needs. If that does not work they leave. But once the guy is conditioned to be the guy that they want, He is no longer his true self which is detrimental to both himself and his wife. And it is true kids from single mother learn all her ways of doing things including these.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:42 PM
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Oh I didn't know this. This is the my first time posting here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:50 PM
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You are acting like I don't support raising kids. My whole argument is about this only
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:49 PM
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Bruh what is your problem bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:47 PM
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Oh I thought it is the same article you sent in another comment. My bad. But why are you everywhere lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:46 PM
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I don't know what country you are from. From where I am this has never been the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:45 PM
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If I show you some proof with data you won't agree to it. If I tell you that this is what I have seen happening in my life you don't like anecdotal evidence I don't know what to tell you. If you want I can do what you do - Just simply disagree. No you are wrong. Family court is a joke and custody battles is a rigged game. Here you go,
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:43 PM
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"I'm wondering Is another woman the answer we really need?"
/r/MensRights28/03/25 09:40 PM
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Lmao, you keep crying about blame while dodging the point. No one’s excusing deadbeat dads, but pretending single moms can replace them is delusional. Reality doesn’t care about feelings—kids need fathers, end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:13 PM
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Bruh, you’re making this personal for no reason. I never blamed women, I just pointed out the reality of competition and expectations. If you disagree, that’s cool, but no need to get defensive. I’m talking about the system, not individuals. If that hit a nerve, maybe ask yourself why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:10 PM
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But that’s not the point. Just existing—having food on the table—isn’t thriving. To thrive, you’ve got to be at the top of your game in this hyper-competitive ‘survival of the fittest’ world I talked about. Just being in survival mode, like I said in my post, isn’t good enough. You’ve got to dominate, not just scrape by, to make shit loads of money and actually thrive. And if you’re not at the top, you’re nowhere. Fatherless boys miss a dad to teach them that—to be aggressive, take a stand, get …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:28 PM
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You’re saying a single mom providing should be enough, but that’s not the point. Just existing—having food on the table—isn’t thriving. To thrive, you’ve got to be at the top of your game in this hyper-competitive ‘survival of the fittest’ world I talked about.Just being in survival mode, like I said in my post, isn’t good enough. You’ve got to dominate, not just scrape by, to make shit loads of money and actually thrive. And if you’re not at the top, you’re nowhere. Fatherless boys miss a dad t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:27 PM
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Bro, you’re delusional—where did I say women don’t pay bills? Read my post again. I said fatherless boys lack the tools to thrive because they’re stuck in survival mode, raised by moms who don’t get the brutal, hyper-competitive world men face. It’s not about women providing; it’s about boys missing a dad to teach them how to win in a ‘survival of the fittest’ game. You need money to survive—obviously—so yeah, men have to make it for themselves. To meet that, you’ve got to be at the top, always.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:14 PM
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okay first of all these problems wouldn’t even exist if women didn’t have such insane expectations. They want a guy with a six-figure salary, six-foot height, athletic build, a provider who pays on dates and ‘acts like a man’—all stuff women demand. To meet that, you’ve got to be at the top of your game, always. The world’s a vicious, hyper-competitive place for men—survival of the fittest, like I said. You’re either winning or you’re out. Fatherless boys? They’re already behind, raised soft by …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:06 PM
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And to add to this these problems wouldn’t even exist if women didn’t have such insane expectations. They want a guy with a six-figure salary, six-foot height, athletic build, a provider who pays on dates and ‘acts like a man’—all stuff women demand. To meet that, you’ve got to be at the top of your game, always. The world’s a vicious, hyper-competitive place for men—survival of the fittest, like I said. You’re either winning or you’re out. Fatherless boys? They’re already behind, raised soft by…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:05 PM
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these problems wouldn’t even exist if women didn’t have such insane expectations. They want a guy with a six-figure salary, six-foot height, athletic build, a provider who pays on dates and ‘acts like a man’—all stuff women demand. To meet that, you’ve got to be at the top of your game, always. The world’s a vicious, hyper-competitive place for men—survival of the fittest, like I said. You’re either winning or you’re out. Fatherless boys? They’re already behind, raised soft by moms with stuff li…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:04 PM
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Exactly my point and the fact that so many people here are completely deflecting on this is why I think a lot of the next generation is absolutely doomed. I can see it clearly now, drug abuse, homelessness etc will be the norm going forward
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:53 PM
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Talking feelings is fine, but does it put food on the table? That’s the real world boys face—one where you’ve got to hustle, not just chat. Yeah, this sub talks male suicide—fair point—but it’s not just about feelings; it’s about pressure to provide, to win, stuff dads teach. You say fights should be avoided, violence isn’t ‘manly.’ Cool, but men don’t fight ‘cause they’re men; they fight ‘cause life’s a grind, and dodging that doesn’t prep boys for it. Safety over risk? Sure, men die taking dum…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:51 PM
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It’s not like single moms sit down and say, ‘I’m raising my boy like a girl.’ It’s not conscious—it’s about what boys pick up from their world. In a mom-only home, they’re surrounded by her way of handling things: talking out feelings, avoiding fights, focusing on safety over risk. That’s how a lot of women navigate life, and it’s not wrong—it just doesn’t match the rough, competitive world men face. Boys learn from what’s around them, not some plan. Without a dad showing them how to push back, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:39 PM
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Hey, let’s get into this. You brought up that Smithsonian article saying 80% of hunter-gatherer societies had women hunting, teaching kids, and using all kinds of weapons. It’s from a 2023 PLoS One study, and you’re saying it proves sexism today—not single moms—is the real problem for kids. I’m calling that out. Your study doesn’t hold up as well as you think, and it doesn’t touch what I said about fatherless boys. First, that study? It’s weak. It looked at just 63 hunter-gatherer groups—mostly …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:36 PM
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You've admitted fatherlessness has impacts. End of discussion. Your personal attacks and pathetic attempts at intellectual gymnastics are irrelevant. You lost. Good faith discussion? You mean like ignoring evidence you yourself admitted? Or pretending your goalpost-shifting is a valid argument? 'Impacted my sense of self'? Spare me the armchair psychology. You're not a therapist, and I'm not your patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:20 PM
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So True
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:16 PM
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Let's be crystal clear: you've admitted fatherlessness has impacts. That's the core of my argument, and you just conceded. Everything else is irrelevant. You claim 'no evidence' while admitting poverty correlates with fatherlessness. That's a self-contradiction. You try to minimize the impacts by comparing them to poverty. But you admitted they exist. Game over. You're shifting goalposts, playing word games, and dismissing my frustration as a 'personal issue.' All to avoid admitting you're wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:13 PM
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oh for godssake please watch the video
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:09 PM
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alright calm down, relax, it does, so what now. HAHAH
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:07 PM
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Oh my god what is wrong with you bruh, why are you everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:04 PM
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Dear crazy women commenting on every single thing. If you could take time to read the replies you have received you would have noticed that I have already given you the answer. The study you have cited is from china where there is a very very very low number of same sex parents. Check this out. Before citing something please do your research https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jF4rNx_JNn4
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:02 PM
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Yes, but most women keep their kids sheltered in the fear of them doing something wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:59 PM
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No thats what you have done you gave a random example of same sex marriage article and when confronted you ran from that comment and are replying on every other comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:56 PM
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Let's be clear: I'm not 'sweeping all single moms' under the bus. I'm addressing a systemic problem, not assigning individual blame. Your personal anecdotes don't invalidate the systemic discouragement men face. Just because your husband mentors, doesn't mean it's the norm. Your 'examples' of support systems are fragmented and insufficient. They don't address the scale of the issue. The fact that you have to cite a 'friend's ex-boyfriend' as a positive example proves my point: these resources ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:53 PM
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Where, exactly, did I say any of that? 'Sweeping away' mentoring programs? I acknowledged their existence and pointed out their systemic failures. That's not 'sweeping away,' that's addressing reality. 'No research or education'? You're making baseless assumptions. I've cited studies and data. You're just ignoring them. 'No solutions'? My point is the system is broken. That's a problem that needs systemic change, not individual band-aids. 'Complaining about women'? I'm criticizing a system that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:52 PM
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It has timestamps in the video look into it from the methodoly and outcomes part
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:48 PM
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Look, you're not just wrong, you're actively trying to dismantle my original argument. And it's pathetic. You're demanding a study where poverty doesn't exist? That's not research, that's a goddamn fantasy. You're demanding the impossible to avoid the point. You're creating an artificial scenario to ignore the real-world impact of fatherlessness. You're playing make-believe. You're demanding evidence that cannot exist, to make it so I can't provide any. If fatherlessness contributes to poverty, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:46 PM
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What studies are you talking about? The study is from china where there is a very very very low number of same sex parents. Check this out. Before citing something please do your research https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jF4rNx_JNn4
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:38 PM
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Sweetie you were the one who said there are a lot of articles - Please show these articles. Please back up your comments with proof instead of empty words when you mention something. I was not the one who mentioned that there are articles about something, you were the one. Please don't make empty claims
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:31 PM
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Where is it included?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:30 PM
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She is just pretending to not understand
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:28 PM
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An uncle, grandfather will be there and give you support but it will not be unconditional like a father. They have their own problems to cater to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:27 PM
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I never talked about getting girls as the problem at all. That is the least of the problems that we face.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:25 PM
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Big Brother's a band-aid on a gaping wound. You admit they're starved for male mentors, and your solution is 'men should just step up'? That's a joke. 'Families and friends'? You think these kids live in some Leave It to Beaver fantasy? Many are isolated, with zero support. This isn't about individual men 'being better.' It's about a society that neuters men's ability to be mentors. The shortage of mentors isn't an accident. It's a symptom of a system designed to fail. So, keep peddling your 'pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:23 PM
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I already did in the previous comments. But i'll send it again: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10666570/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3904543/ https://fathers.com/the-consequences-of-fatherlessness/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:21 PM
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You were the one bringing up the articles for the debate, so you should link the articles. Me searching up the articles then doing analysis on it and if you link up another article it wouldn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:16 PM
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Okay, let's break down this word salad, because none of this makes any sense. 'Poverty migrated': What in the actual hell are you talking about? You're throwing out random phrases and expecting them to mean something. That's not how logic works. 'Study barriers': So, instead of addressing my points, you're just going to vaguely accuse me of not understanding 'methodology'? That's a classic cop-out. If you have specific criticisms, lay them out. Otherwise, you're just blowing smoke. You are tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:07 PM
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One mother = two mothers = many women together = feminine. What men need to survive = masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:05 PM
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That's a steaming pile of garbage. You want 'better'? How about we stop pretending men are disposable scapegoats for every societal problem? "Oh, just tell them to stop." Like it's a goddamn light switch. You think men want to abandon their kids? There's a whole toxic mess of systemic failures at play. Family courts? A joke. They're designed to screw men over. Custody battles? A rigged game. And don't even get me started on the women who actively sabotage father-child relationships. That's a war…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:00 PM
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Oh lucky for you, I'm also a data analyst. If you could link the studies that you are talking about I'll give you the best interpretation removing any bias
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:58 PM
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Bruh what are you even saying it makes 0 sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:51 PM
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Don't give me that bulls*it. 'Just men doing better' is a lazy-ass cop-out. You think individual guys are gonna magically solve a problem created by systemic failures? Wake up. You're ignoring the fact that society actively discourages men from taking on nurturing roles. We're told to be emotionless robots, not mentors. Where the hell are the support systems? Where are the programs connecting these kids with decent male role models? Non-existent. And let's be real, the scale of this problem is m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:49 PM
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No where does it say this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:44 PM
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First of all I don't want to argue with you about the study. You just keep bringing this random article from somewhere. Second of all there are extensive studies on the affects of fatherlessness in almost every country. You keep saying that this study only has low income families etc. there are tons of articles out there. I have included a few here. Third I don't understand why you are stuck up on this one article and keep making all your points on this article. Let me help you out with more art…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:41 PM
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Where does it say this? It definitely doesn't say so in the study that she had given. And I don't agree with this at all. It is actually detrimental and I have listed exactly how it is detrimental
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:25 PM
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Look, you’re the one not getting it. Your own Psychology Today link lists a dozen studies showing fatherlessness directly correlates with stuff like 85% of youth in prison, 71% of high school dropouts, higher mental health issues—all beyond just poverty. You say ‘we don’t have data’ for those other areas, but we do—it’s literally in your source. Poverty’s a factor, no one’s denying that, but you can’t wave it away as the only cause when the data shows father absence has its own impact. And your …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:19 PM
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Exactly if you cannot tell "if the fatherlessness or income issues are the route that causes a lot of what I listed are seen in solely low income studies." why did you say this with so much confidence - "you are talking out of your ass. Guess what the biggest issue is its poverty from living in a single income family."?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:03 PM
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So let me get this straight? You are saying when a father leaves, it causes poverty and all the things mentioned in the original comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:01 PM
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Bruh, You literally have no point to debate on, you just want a reason to be annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:55 PM
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I just wanted to highlight when a father leaves, that's the least of the impact compared to what we know happens. How would you know that when you cannot separate the studies between poverty and fatherlessness?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:53 PM
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If these reasons cannot be separated then how did you come to the conclusion that all the reasons that are caused in your original argument are from poverty and not fatherlessness?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:51 PM
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That’s cool you had women step up for you—honestly, I’ve never seen that where I’m from, so maybe it’s not as common as you think. My post wasn’t about who’s mentoring who, though. I’m saying boys without dads miss out on a male perspective for a world that’s still cutthroat for men, and that shapes them. You’re spot-on that men don’t always mentor other people’s kids—tons see it as a waste if there’s no blood tie. That’s part of the mess I’m getting at: no one’s filling that gap, and boys end u…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:46 PM
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Oh okay, What do you think is the root of the problem btw?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:44 PM
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My take is about what I know of, I don't know about motherless men so I did not talk about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:37 PM
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First of all I'm the OP. Next, I'm Not pretending that at all—moms who stick around aren’t the issue. I’m not blaming the parent who stays and grinds; I’m pointing at the hole left when dads bounce (or die, or whatever). My post’s about what boys miss without a father, not saying moms fail them. The ‘women don’t get the male world’ bit wasn’t about fault—it’s just how it can play out. Reasoning’s intact here; I’m just looking at the fallout, not slinging guilt at the ones who show up. Holy fk do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:35 PM
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Alright, let’s break it down by your questions: Do children that are fatherless lack the tools to thrive because they have no father or because they are raised by a single parent? It’s specifically about no father. My point is that boys miss out on male-specific guidance for navigating a world that expects men to compete and provide in ways it doesn’t always for women. Single-parent struggles like poverty matter, but I’m zeroing in on the fatherless angle. What if they have two mothers? I didn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:31 PM
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She is basically saying that Fatherlessness == Poverty /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:22 PM
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Are you asking me or the bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:18 PM
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Leave her be she has a Master’s degree in Childhood Development
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:09 PM
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I get where you’re coming from—ideally, we could ditch rigid gender expectations, and yeah, men and women share a lot in common. I’d love a world where that’s the reality. But I’m not talking about what should be; I’m looking at what is. Society still judges men heavily on being providers and competing in ways it doesn’t always for women. Fatherless boys, without that male guidance, often scramble to figure that out solo, and it can mess with how they adapt. Treating everyone the same sounds gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:06 PM
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Thanks for the detailed response and the link—I’ll check it out. I don’t dispute that poverty is a huge factor in single-parent households; the data you shared makes that clear, and I’m not arguing against the stats on behavioral issues, crime, or health outcomes. My post wasn’t meant to cover every angle or claim poverty isn’t critical—it was more about how fatherlessness might shape boys’ mindsets differently, especially in a world that demands certain traits from men. I’m not saying single mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:04 PM
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I appreciate your take. When I said single moms might raise boys in a more 'feminine' way, I didn’t mean it’s a conscious choice. Kids naturally absorb what’s around them—behaviors, attitudes, and dynamics at home. My point wasn’t about dating success specifically; I was focusing on thriving in the broader, competitive 'real world,' where traits like assertiveness or resilience are often shaped by male role models. Growing up with women might help with understanding them, like you mentioned, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:54 PM
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True
/r/MensRights26/03/25 06:31 AM
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I thought the laws in Canada and USA laws were fair and impartial, looks like a lot of western countries have biased laws too. Here is what you could do: Transfer Assets to a Trusted Third Party How: Move assets (e.g., savings, investments, or even the house) into someone else’s name—like a close friend, sibling, or your sons—via sale or gift before she files a claim. Legal Angle: Asset transfers aren’t inherently illegal if done before a court order freezes them. Canadian law doesn’t automatica…
/r/MensRights14/03/25 11:30 PM
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Maybe if you also have A medical condition you can keep the 50 percent?
/r/MensRights14/03/25 11:03 PM
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How tf is this a universal experience for a lot of people
/r/MensRights14/03/25 10:14 PM
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carry the rayban glasses that come with meta don't remove them even when you are having s*x or while taking a dump. /s
/r/MensRights13/03/25 02:27 PM
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It would take time for it to happen. For example, canada accepted a lot of refugees from ukraine, they all left the country as soon as they got to know of the war.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 08:33 PM
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I hope every leftist from all the countries promoting war and asking ukraine to stand its ground to be the first ones to be sent to the battlefield
/r/MensRights10/03/25 01:53 PM
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No you are on your own
/r/MensRights10/03/25 01:41 PM
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We staying in a different country don't want to be affected by war in another part of the world and we would like to keep it that way. If ukraine has to lose for it, or give up whatever for it, so be it. If it is not big enough to defend itself it shouldn't have fought.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 07:11 AM
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Exactly, the only thing that runs is their fkn mouth
/r/MensRights09/03/25 02:24 AM
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Yes like the femen group we should protest naked for mens rights
/r/MensRights22/12/24 05:33 PM
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Lots of demoralizing gossip too.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 03:40 AM
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I don't know how many times this myth has to challenged for them to finally recognize as a false statement. In most countries there is no gender pay gap for a similar job role. These stats are calculated by taking the average money made by men vs women which is completely wrong to do without taking the number of hours worked etc. In most countries it is illegal to pay men and women differently for the same job. These articles create the title in such a way as to make it look like there is a gend…
/r/MensRights22/12/24 03:37 AM
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why are you asking this question? To use it against us? Been with enough women to know not to answer this question
/r/MensRights19/12/24 09:04 PM
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No one credible says that, but once an allegation is made the public presumes the GUY is guilty.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 11:24 AM
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Yes i agree, because of your presence
/r/MensRights02/12/24 07:00 AM
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In the 1960s there was this book which was published called "To Kill A Mocking Bird". It is based on a false accusation. So clearly it is not new
/r/MensRights02/12/24 06:59 AM
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Who cares about their lies and gossip and rumours bruh, a lot of them talk sh*t about each other, whenever their friendship breaks they b*tch about their best friend who they knew for so many years. And Is every allegation right? Even women know how vicious some women are. You dig deep enough about that women you will find the pattern they operate in?
/r/MensRights02/12/24 01:36 AM
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It is not the law though, its an instruction to support their friends. But not including men into any of the statement is SUS.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 12:21 AM
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It does not say that it encourages guilty until proven though?
/r/MensRights02/12/24 12:11 AM
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i was replying to the other comment
/r/MensRights27/11/24 03:19 AM
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I think Canada is conservative enough to make it gender neutral. But also liberal enough to oppose that and make it pertaining to only one section of people. Actually canada is too woke, so they have one too many LGBTQ+ relationships here. So hopefully they include ALL genders. If they make it only for women then a large section of LGBTQ+ is removed. I don't think that is possible because there are tooooo many such relationships here.
/r/MensRights27/11/24 03:01 AM
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time for guys to leave UK
/r/MensRights26/11/24 04:20 AM
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It is the complete opposite. Everyone knows who wanted to do what to men after the results were announced. How are they ignoring that?
/r/MensRights26/11/24 04:19 AM
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Lol why is that?
/r/MensRights25/11/24 03:45 AM
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subset? you are referring 14 million as a subset, its a whole country?
/r/MensRights24/11/24 04:16 PM
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Most of the western countries don't have inequality in pay for women. There are laws for "equal pay for work of equal value".
/r/MensRights22/11/24 04:15 PM
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Not yet apparently: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmJfU8b3RYE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8eoV6pgNoHE
/r/MensRights22/11/24 02:41 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmJfU8b3RYE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8eoV6pgNoHE
/r/MensRights22/11/24 02:22 PM
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For example this article: https://canadianwomen.org/the-facts/the-gender-pay-gap/ It says : "There is a 17.1% difference between annual median earnings of women and men relative to the annual median earnings of men. For self-employed people, this gender wage gap is 28%. In its ranking of countries for full-time employees, Canada has the seventh worst gender pay gap." Here is how it is calculated : https://www.oecd.org/en/data/indicators/gender-wage-gap.html At the end of the article they are ask…
/r/MensRights22/11/24 02:16 PM
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+1
/r/MensRights22/11/24 08:03 AM
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Draft equal number of women into the war to reduce the gender pay gap
/r/MensRights21/11/24 07:53 PM
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small country
/r/MensRights19/11/24 03:22 PM
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Yeah plz go and watch r/CombatFootage for the war footage. I hope you are drafted too. JK
/r/MensRights19/11/24 09:01 AM
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Skills like fkn up the country?
/r/MensRights19/11/24 08:52 AM
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Would you rather loose a small portion of you country or half of your population (entire male population) right from the age of 14-15 yrs? What will you be left with at the end of this? Women running away to other countries to take refuge and men dying in war. What will you be left with at the end of the war? An empty and useless piece of land ? Who is gaining from this war? The ones who are providing Ukraine with the loans and artillery
/r/MensRights19/11/24 12:31 AM
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That was different but this was for a completely different cause. Why would you want to fight the largest country in the world? Ukraine is a small country with a comedian as president. He should know better. That's what you get for making a comedian a president.
/r/MensRights19/11/24 12:02 AM
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Their citizens are crying to end the war but their president wants a full blown world war. I don't know what his motives are ? What are you going to do with half of you population dead? With mental health issues, loss of family members, loss of economy. What is even the end goal? All that russia wants is for ukraine to not join nato, Is joining nato more important to them than loosing their economy, country, men. I really fail to understand the end goal
/r/MensRights18/11/24 11:31 PM
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I think uk and india have the most biased laws for men ever. I wonder why that is??
/r/MensRights18/11/24 11:25 PM
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What bad opinions are you talking about?
/r/MensRights15/11/24 04:26 AM
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There was no point in history when peasants were privileged. We are just the modern day peasants now. Our purpose is to work work work and pay the taxes and take off.
/r/MensRights15/11/24 02:27 AM
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Not just the father, the father's entire family. Same story in every single household.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 06:16 PM
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All i see is BPD eyes
/r/MensRights13/11/24 08:22 PM
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That's not deep enough. Men want Power. Absolute Power.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 04:08 PM
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agreed
/r/MensRights12/11/24 02:58 AM
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Oh thats better, now we can have two people fighting for the country
/r/MensRights12/11/24 02:34 AM
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At this point of time, Every country hates men
/r/MensRights12/11/24 02:18 AM
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Show me one video where he says it, not democrat propaganda
/r/MensRights10/11/24 04:59 PM
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Trump has never said that he was involved in making the plan or did he say that he will implement the 2025 plan in any of the speeches he has ever made
/r/MensRights10/11/24 04:24 PM
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Ban this fkn tiktok, a chinese made app collecting user data for god knows what. #Bantiktokinamerica
/r/MensRights10/11/24 04:05 PM
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yeah the corporate(Democrats) owned media needs to be boycotted. Along with hollywood, anyway the movies from hollywood are not working.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 03:31 PM
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It is RAGEBAIT for this sub to get cancelled
/r/MensRights07/11/24 03:30 PM
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It is because men in power will fight back for what is to come. Women in turn will fight on behalf of the one who sets a narrative. Men are needed to fight back for what is to come - The rule of the elites, here is what AI is going to be taking over - the opportunity to make money or thrive. When you have no money people will go back to the basics, hard manual labour or maybe that will also be gone. But the elite and their families will stay rich forever. Women are being used as scapegoats they …
/r/MensRights07/11/24 02:49 PM
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Exactly it was okay until it was until social media, high school etc. Nobody stopped their bullying in high school, so now they are taking it everywhere with them. Using the same strategy in US election campaign is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 12:08 PM
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They know the truth but yet say things like this because it works for them. They get money + revenge on the husband. For them revenge is more important than their kid's upbringing.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 09:13 AM
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Yeah coz taking action > Crying
/r/MensRights27/08/24 11:31 PM
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It is because as a member of this sub, you are not permitted to comment on a few other subs, so some people unsubscribe and comment on other subs etc
/r/MensRights18/08/24 08:13 PM
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So fighting for yourself is now cultivating an audience, Noice
/r/MensRights18/08/24 06:35 AM
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Coz they are easy to attack. And once they are attacked it sends the message to all their followers
/r/MensRights18/08/24 06:20 AM
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You ppl are getting support?
/r/MensRights16/08/24 11:32 PM
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So do it like the women whenever there is a issue of false accusation make sure to keep it trending on social media, run hashtags for the victim. Amplify your voice by posting it on social media. It is every guy's responsibility to make it heard.
/r/MensRights16/08/24 05:03 PM
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That is literally SA. How can they do this to a stranger? It is giving creepy
/r/MensRights15/08/24 06:54 AM
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Most of the women i met were really nice. However, there were 1-2 people who were such big manipulators that my entire opinion of women changed all at once. However, there are still a lot of good people out there.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 06:27 AM
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That's why whenever they describe someone as a manipulator ask them to explain the entire situation once or twice and they will either deflect it or they will try to evade the question, dodge it or give confusing takes. These people have three forte's which is why they are able to get away with anything. One is gaslighting , the second one is communication skills and the third is to play the victim when and where required.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 11:19 PM
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Not just women, people tell on themselves, You just have to look at the finer details
/r/MensRights08/08/24 03:20 PM
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Its not just the west
/r/MensRights01/08/24 04:24 PM
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woman will do anything but go to therapy
/r/MensRights01/08/24 04:22 PM
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Woman will do anything but go to therapy
/r/MensRights01/08/24 04:12 PM
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Actually have money. LOL thats funny af
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/24 05:10 AM
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Maybe if we all collectively identify as women we all will have jobs. LOL When filling a job application i found a job with 15-20 selections for the pronouns column. When you have the opportunity to identify as whatever. Why not identify with the gender who is actually privileged??
/r/MensRights11/07/24 04:56 AM
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It's because most guys are tired of nagging so they die sooner.
/r/MensRights04/07/24 03:03 AM
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With 0 accountability comes 0 consequences. Now if you have caught their act they come with deflection, gaslighting. If you have solid proof. They start crying. If that also does not work. Some even go to the lengths of being violent. Only men play by the rules. All the rules are made for men. For women there are no rules. So there is no need for being accountable, whatever does the work is good enough for them. Therefore, We also learn a thing or two from them.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 01:28 PM
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The example i gave is shit ik, but in essence the main takeaway is to think for yourself and do your due diligence before acting on everything your partner says. I recently saw a lot of cases like these in offices, Most woman these days have not come out of their high school era. Bitching about people, spreading rumours, making hate groups.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 10:35 PM
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It's not just the USA. This is happening everywhere
/r/MensRights02/07/24 07:12 PM
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Plus i own less things as a single guy. So i have to clean less things
/r/MensRights12/05/24 04:05 AM
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If i identify as a woman will i still be denied???
/r/MensRights08/05/24 08:25 AM
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That's why they were forced to work
/r/MensRights07/05/24 10:38 AM
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Waiting for it to get banned asap. Why would anyone use a chinese app when they don't use any of our apps.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 10:38 AM
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It doesn't matter all the chicks dig me.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 10:10 AM
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I've got a pun for you: "A tourist lady thought a bear was cuter than any guy, but the bear explained how claws don't work well for dates." Keep it coming guys.....
/r/MensRights04/05/24 09:58 PM
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We are back where we started. So to conclude ( Men - wrong )
/r/MensRights03/05/24 01:12 PM
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Women breaks up from the relationship - He must have done something. Men break up from a relationship - He must have done something.
/r/MensRights03/05/24 12:02 PM
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You cannot escape a war, if you are fighting, you lose your life. If you are not fighting the economy loses. There is no win win in war. You as a man cannot runaway from it. So why should woman be able to runaway from it?
/r/MensRights28/04/24 02:56 AM
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it won't double anything, as long as there is equal representation. At least half the men would be exempt from the war.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 02:25 AM
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I'm not for wars. But, throughout history, there has only been war. So it is not going to be any different in the future.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 12:50 AM
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There aren't ?? This is new. LOL
/r/MensRights28/04/24 12:18 AM
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why should men be the only ones to suffer? Have you seen the state of ukraine, before the war all the women were pro equal rights and representation, but when the war started the women were the first ones to fled the country. Why the double standards?
/r/MensRights27/04/24 11:40 PM
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Now, this is the equal representation i would love to see more of
/r/MensRights27/04/24 01:52 PM
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Yeah Never
/r/MensRights16/02/24 07:31 PM
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