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Going out to do sets is not needed nowadays with the convenience of dating apps like Bumble and Hinge, which tend to work better for relationships than say Tinder. As for guys who complain they can't get matches, it's usually because they either have no sense of style in their picture or they take selfies in the bathroom. All you really have to do is dress well, go out and ask people to take your picture, then pick 4 to 6 of the best ones, each being a different night out with a different outfit…
/r/seduction07/05/24 02:30 AM
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Dating apps attract the ladies who want to hookup with a player. But a lot of the women in real life are not on dating apps and it's because most of them don't just want to hookup with strangers and they are not impressed by guys who seem so full of themselves, so it's just different criterias. If you were attractive in person then you would struggle with dating apps, unless you were able to switch between two personalities at will like someone who has split personality disorder.
/r/seduction05/05/24 08:55 PM
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Height has a bigger impact in real life, while on dating apps, it's all about the face, and looking like a cool bad boy/player who has lots of sex. In real life, most women want a relationship, while on Tinder, a lot just want a fun hookup with a dominant guy who knows what he's doing who is cool. The gangster style helps you because on dating apps, to have success you want to look more interesting and cooler than the average man, it's not enough to be good looking, you have to seem like the coo…
/r/seduction05/05/24 08:50 PM
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No, it's because you're genuine while OP is the type of guy who puts on an act and pretends to be someone else, it works but at the cost of never finding someone who likes you for yourself. It's not a huge deal when you're just looking for sex but it would make for a terrible relationship when you find out you have nothing in common or she finds out you're not actually the guy you're pretending to be.
/r/seduction05/05/24 08:42 PM
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Don't set it up as a hookup, very few women are actually into the idea of just having sex and never seeing each other again. They will at least want a sexual relationship to develop over time, they don't want to just get used like a piece of meat. You don't have to commit too early either, but it has to be under the pretense of eventually wanting a relationship and then it's her job to try to get you to commit, if you're looking for a big commitment right now.
/r/seduction05/05/24 08:39 PM
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If she doesn't want to go to your place, it's because either she isn't attracted to you, or she doesn't feel comfortable to have sex with you yet, which could mean having to go on more dates. People on here talk all the time about physical escalation but it's not something you're supposed to do in public. When you're alone together at your apartment or hers, that's when you do it, but it happens naturally without a second thought and it feels more appropriate because there aren't a bunch of peop…
/r/seduction05/05/24 08:36 PM
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I always go for bars or coffee shops, because it's cheap, and it's easier to talk over drinks, and in the case of bars, alcohol tends to make people tell the truth, which is how I got to learn that a date was addicted to drugs and alcohol and not the right girl for me in terms of overall lifestyle. I don't think she would have told me her secrets if we hadn't been drinking. So it makes it easier to get to know each other.
/r/seduction05/05/24 08:33 PM
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Racists be like
/r/seduction03/05/24 05:06 PM
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What I was trying to say is that some guys like to be submissive, it either turns them on or pleases them emotionally, or both. Personally, I am sexually submissive, and cowgirl is like my favorite position. But I wouldn't sacrifice my friends, hobbies, or interests for a woman. But I get that guys who do that either are insecure or sometimes, they just have nothing else going for them in life, and it's not necessarily a bad thing, but it does make them very codependent. I am a very independent …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/23 06:30 AM
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In my opinion, not all betas are necessarily simps. Some of them get off on the idea of their partner wanting to cheat on them or their partner doing very kinky dominant stuff to them in bed, it's simply a matter of sexual preferences. It's not simping if you enjoy it. I personally believe that men shouldn't sacrifice their own needs or values to satisfy a woman, because most of the time, they will not get what they want by doing that. And yes, it is true that being alpha will make the woman sub…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/23 05:59 PM
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Usually, it's lonely guys who struggle to talk to women in the real world who have no dating prospects who pay to get any kind of connection. Sometimes, it's because the woman produces special content catering to either one or multiple fetishes that is/are appealing to the man and better than regular porn.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/23 05:46 PM
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Don't fuck with damaged women (those who have trauma), those who take drugs, those who get drunk often, those who party a lot and those you are not physically attracted to. Of course, you shouldn't be too picky, but having no standards and ignoring red flags just to get your dick wet is worse and can actually be dangerous.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/23 02:40 AM
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Ï personally don't understand how a guy can have sex with women that he finds unattractive, because I personally cannot get hard for a woman that I find unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/23 02:36 AM
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Working out for years doesn't mean anything. Unless you've built a physique that is at least on the level of a superhero (Chris Evans or Henry Cavill), you don't really have the physique looksmax in dating. Men who have that physique are less than 1% of men on dating apps and in bars and clubs. And yes it is possible to have trained for 10 years and still be far away from that look and it's not due to genetics but mistakes in your training. I got more results in 2 months of efficient bodybuildin…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/23 08:02 PM
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It's because he lacks inner game, because he never worked on himself so he still needs women to have purpose in his life so when he sees them, he puts them on the pedestal and values them too much. You have to take a page out of the MGTOW playbook to have good inner game, you have to have goals and hobbies that allow you to self actualize before you can develop the confidence necessary to talk to girls without being nervous. The thing that helps the most is lifting, not the act itself but gettin…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/23 07:47 PM
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The biggest mistake he made is that he was too direct with his intentions. A good player would have at least made her believe he wanted to get serious with her one day, and he would have kept using that as a tool to keep her interested in him. Women don't want guys to ask them directly to have sex, they appreciate subtlety, and guys who are not aware of that will get rejected even if she was attracted to them. That's the problem with trying to apply blue pill advice to achieve red pill results. …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/23 03:50 AM
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I have been looksmaxxing since the age of 18, so no, my goals are not just arbitrary. And the only thing in all of this that I have faith will get me laid more is acquiring a muscular ripped physique and I am already very close to this goal because I have acquired the same level of muscle mass as Henry Cavill in Immortals, but at a higher body fat percentage because I am bulking. But yes you are right, becoming a musician or getting a good career does not really increase a man's ability to get l…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/23 04:51 AM
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That is very naive thinking.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/23 04:27 PM
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Moving to Dubai as an atheist is a dumb idea. Thailand would be a better choice, but it's just not an option for most guys because high paying jobs only exist in first world countries. And it is not so easy to start a business that can be completely managed in a third world country, unlike what dropshipping scammers would like you to believe. Also, if you had read the sidebar, you would see why most of us don't want a traditional conservative lifestyle (male disposability and so on) regardless o…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/23 04:26 PM
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This is only a problem if you date women in their 30s. And even then, you can still hookup with single mothers or even married women as long as they look good.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/23 01:51 AM
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Your problem is that you let women's attention and validation define your self worth and you lack hope. Playing guitar is a great way to self actualize as a man but to do that, you have to develop a real passion for it and not do it just to get women. Women chase men who excel at something, either sports, the gym, music or any other field of interest linked to a skill. A man who is good looking will get women's attention at first but won't be able to maintain it for very long if he is boring. So…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/23 01:49 AM
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