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she already cheated once, that he knows of That's all we needed to hear to get this whole story.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 03:56 PM
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So - if a woman asks you where are the good men gone - tell her that the good men is all we have left, it's the monster she longs after. Damn, what a note to end on brotha.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 11:03 PM
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Great write ups. A lot of ideas and mentalities that I can apply to myself. And yeah, it takes two to tango, but only one of you had any obligation to the boyfriend. If you're just going for a hookup then who cares about the morality on your part? It's her baggage to handle, you're not the one committing the act of cheating - and if it weren't you she hooked up with, it'd probably be some other dude. (Speaking generally, to anyone reading this) Just don't ever think that someone who is willing t…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 10:17 PM
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Yeah brotha, I'm nearing that point of tossing it, I just know I love the nic when I have had a few drinks. And, this may sound lame, all of the girls my age (college aged) have one and it's an easy conversation starter haha
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 12:19 AM
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I got a Juul and don't feel like I can ever go back to cigs (2-3 months cig free). August 1st I'm going to start only using the Juul when I go out to party/drink. It sounds weird, but it's like a retreat into a less unhealthy habit if I fuck up. Before, it would be me going cold turkey with cigs, then a month or two in I get drunk and fall right back into smoking habitually. Now, it will be me quitting the Juul and if I fail, I'll just go back to the Juul instead of cigs. It's just the idea of b…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 10:46 PM
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I think he's more so saying, in the words of Chris D'elia, don't be a 'cuda. Barracudas are attracted to shiny things, if you're only doing things that are 'fun' because it seems like it is what everyone else is doing for fun, then why are you doing it? Just to fit in? No, do what you thoroughly think is fun and rewarding and minimize the amount of pointless things that seem fun but in reality just hold you back (a lot of mindless TV shows and online content). Stop looking at things that can bri…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 12:02 AM
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Dude, I'm gonna be straight up, if you're staying at a hostel DO NOT fuck in the dorms. That's incredibly rude because it is impossible for others to not hear and know what is going down and it is uncomfortable for everyone just trying to get some sleep. They usually have private rooms in hostels, all you have to do is upgrade your room for one night. Other than that you did a great job, nothing wrong with your actions brotha!
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 01:49 PM
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I always heard dick size determined whether your ancestors were promiscuous or not. Could be wrong, but that's what I had heard somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 03:12 AM
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Appreciate this brotha, was some motivation I needed.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 06:06 AM
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My bad brotha, I think that was my fault haha! Thanks for the response
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 06:03 AM
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I never said that carbs aren't more beneficial, I said that a ketogenic diet can be sufficient for gaining muscle. I absolutely agree that carbs are more beneficial. I just disagree with the blanket statement that under 50g of carbs is definitely not enough for any kind of weightlifting. The overall information regarding the keto diet and anaerobic activity performance, testosterone, etc. is relatively inconclusive - too many conflicting studies. As far as a longevity diet for maintaining curren…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 06:02 AM
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Most meats have no carbs AFAIK (example, ribeye steak has no carbs). There are a few other things I'm sure, but that's mostly what encompasses a 'no carb' diet, typically referred to as a 'carnivore diet'. Jordan Peterson is actually doing a no carb diet due to previous health conditions and his health is the best it has been in decades, you can check it out on his daughter's blog by Googling, "Jordan Peterson diet" or searching, "Jordan Peterson Carnivore Diet" on YouTube if you'd prefer to hea…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 01:39 AM
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Which ones? That low carb diets are sufficient for building muscle? Unless you're mincing my words as "Keto is better or just as good as a diet with higher carbs for building muscle," what I said was correct. That Keto doesn't necessarily mean no carbs, just low carbs? That is correct, 20-70g/day of carbs depending on activity level will keep one in ketosis. That pretty much the only time carbs should be considered a necessity is before performance in a sport/competition? That is correct accordi…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 01:35 AM
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I agree, the more I think about it, the only way to enforce monogamy through societal standards is the same way that having a job is enforced. You're considered lazy if you don't have one and it is overall detrimental to the individual. I wish I understood more what JP was talking about with this point, because I don't necessarily agree with it, I just relate to the idea of wanting a society that isn't so promiscuous, but maybe that's a BP desire. It's weird, I used to hate the idea of any girl …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 12:03 AM
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I don't like telling someone they're completely wrong, but you are. A keto diet is achieved by having restricted carb intake between 20-70g/day. Look it up bud. It's even in the article linked to me by the guy who I was originally responding to. You look like a jackass telling someone they have no idea what they're talking about when you go on to provide incorrect information, it is a BP way of arguing; pure ignorance being spouted as if it is fact, in a belligerent and arrogant way.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 11:12 PM
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I appreciate you owning up to that and your response, seriously.. The research you posted seemed overall inconclusive in the majority of areas and still needing research, I'm not at all dogging it or disagreeing, I just don't feel convinced that because anaerobic performance is slightly lowered that a ketogenic diet is bad for weight lifting. I said originally that a ketogenic diet provides what is necessary for building muscle, but I will add that I do agree that it is at a reduced speed compar…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 11:06 PM
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I heavily disagree with what you had to say, and what I had to say isn't at all shit advice. Your body shifts to using the fats as the source of energy. There is plenty of research out there if you would like to educate yourself. To maintain ketosis, from what I understand, it is no more than 30g of carbs a day for someone who is not active and no more than 40g of carbs a day for someone who is active (works out). The majority of people on a ketogenic diet follow some sort of intermittent fastin…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 10:43 PM
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Listen, I didn't approach your comment saying, "You have no idea what you're talking about and every single thing in your comment is wrong." Even though I disagreed with it mostly. I'm not going to discuss something with someone looking to argue, especially when they approach it in a directly condescending manner. You're not looking to have a discussion, you're looking to be right. You can look up the scientific articles and educate yourself or keep believing your bullshit. I was wrong about the…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 10:37 PM
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Care to give any examples of situations with him you've seen played out? I'm just interested, thanks again brotha!
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 10:21 PM
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If people listened to the podcast, enforced monogamy as referred by JP is not the government forcing marriages. It is enforcing the idea and values of monogamous relationships in society. At least that is what I understood it as, I apologize if I misinterpreted it.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 10:18 PM
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Low carb diets provide a sufficient amount of carbs for weight lifting. Mostly, the only time a higher amount of carbs is important is when going into competitions such as fighting, lifting, or other sports. Even then, a ketogenic diet is fine until the days leading up to the event. Keto doesn't mean no carbs, it is just another low carb diet with intermittent fasting involved.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 10:16 PM
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Not necessarily true according to scientific research. Many individuals noticed a neutral or positive benefit in cognitive function from low carb diets. Just Google "brain function and ketogenic diet". Your system alters and begins using ketones for brain function after prolonged periods of low carb intake (which, by the way, low carb still means you're taking in carbs). If you're attaining it from sources such as Omega-3 Fatty Acids, then it is proven to decrease cognitive decline and diseases …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 10:12 PM
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I really like this, puts it into perspective for me. Thank you, seriously.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 06:36 PM
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Can someone give an example or examples of ignoring? Or the 'way' of ignoring that you use? I know it sounds dumb to ask, I just feel I give way too much attention on useless shit that a girl makes seem important; and I typically find it hard to tell when what she says IS important, I'm not sure if that is due to her not really saying much of importance or if it is me just thinking that every big deal she makes is a topic of discussion.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 04:45 PM
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Yeah, I guess I'm someone who feels they would have substantial premarital assets that I wouldn't want to even run the risk of being taken. Their system, their game I guess (government) - don't have to play all of the games in the casino of life though, some of the pit bosses seem a bit cruel haha Also, I need to look up statistics, but I feel like 18 year long marriages end less frequently then marriages < 10 years. In my mind, I wouldn't be surprised if most divorces happened within the first …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 11:39 AM
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What happened to AWALT? What happened to all of the marriages that start off with the girl you knew and end up with both/one of you just growing into another person? To the point of there being no more semblance of a relationship? Happens very often and the ones that try to make it work are miserable the majority of the time it seems. This all applies even more so if you have something worth taking to protect before a marriage. Also, wouldn't you have questions and feel disheartened hearing that…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 11:35 AM
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Exactly, l would definitely be fine with it in that scenario.. Even then though I have a friend who has like $1,100 to send to his wife every month AND he gets the kids about half of the week. She has a job as well.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 11:23 AM
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Kinda makes one feel sick that the system is so set up for the woman's side in the case of a divorce. I've seen a lot of people be taken for their money in pitiful ways through divorce in courts, but knowing that even with preventative measures in place you can't be protected is just disheartening.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 03:06 AM
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Seriously?! What's the point? Especially if you have premarital assets worth protecting.. There has to be some sort of contract that can be signed that a judge won't throw out, right?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 02:56 AM
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I know prenups exist, and I'd definitely get one if I ever considered marriage, but are people allowed to have a contract stating in the instance of a divorce that it would just be a clean break or x% of assets? Just something that I've always been curious about.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 11:42 PM
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Posts millionaires and billionaires as examples. Look up studies showing how people are living longer and longer bud, no need to pick apart a comment that is pretty spot on. .. I mean just my grandparents on both sides of the family are in their 80s/nearing their 80s now.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 01:02 PM
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This anecdotal story happened to me: Girl (FWB): So what do your parents do Me: My mom did ______ and basically raised me from 11 on. Girl: Cool, what about your dad? Me: He passed away when I was a kid Girl: Sorry to hear that, what happened? Me: He committed suicide Girl: Oh.. [couple of seconds pass] .. That isn't something you would do, is it? I thought it was such a ridiculous question that I laughed. I told her while it wasn't something I would ever do, I saw the pain it brought everyone a…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 10:09 PM
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Basically, if you stop basing your emotional response off of what you wish theirs was, and instead base it off of the fact that you got what you got and there's more to go get, you'll become much more satisfied and indifferent to what you used to view as negative situations.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 09:21 PM
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Yeah, not only do you learn to live an awesome life just yourself, but you make new friends by going to events alone. Good luck, and just find things that you catch yourself feeling accomplished by that are healthy and latch onto them. Some of mine are composing music, reading (mainly nonfiction), exercise (lifting & cardio), diet (meal planning), and doing something for others.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 03:12 PM
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/u/AuthenticRP Basically, anything for you that you KNOW is healthy. This means things like drinking, masturbating, smoking, all of the things we know we shouldn't do - don't. At least not in excess. They release the same chemicals but ruin the rewards systems due to their ease of access and potential for unhealthy addiction. You are right with exercise and socializing - but socializing should be way deeper. Socializing is talking to your friends, going to meetups for things you're actually inte…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 02:30 PM
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Creating yourself is the best. You're doing something that is not only more impressive, but you're actually doing it for yourself. This means that it is going to stick throughout social groups, that once people notice it'll be more noticeable/exciting for them, and more importantly - it's for you. A man who values himself in a mature and healthy way is miles above a man who bases his value on what his social group thinks of him. What if something goes awry in those social groups? Is your value s…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 02:16 PM
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Way, waaaaaayyyyyy different hombre
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 05:36 AM
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Treating a woman like a lady doesn't mean being a nice guy, you feel me? You can still treat someone like a lady while being sexual and using kino. Being a nice guy means being polite and giving resources when they haven't been earned, you can be nice without being polite, that's what separates a nice guy from a respectable man. Niceness is a character trait, politeness is a learned behavior trait. Niceness is giving the random stranger who is lost directions and parting ways, politeness is goin…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 08:42 PM
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The idea is you're treating them ways they're not used to being treated, but want to cause the grass is always greener, it's exciting for them. That's my take on it, at least. A whore doesn't get treated like a lady, so when she does - it's special and attractive.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 04:14 PM
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MAKE SURE YA HIT 'EM WITH THE PRENUP! - Drake
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 03:53 PM
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I'm gonna mention this beforehand so you can understand why I'm being so blunt: I've drank a lot of wine.. Fuck texting dude, if you wanna be that guy, you let her try to text you about stuff, but you only use texting to set up plans unless the conversation is interesting - BUT WHY WOULDN'T YOU RATHER HAVE THAT INTERESTING CONVERSATION IN PERSON?! The main rule I have when texting is to wait 3 times as long as they took to respond unless it is urgent for the situation (meet me in 30 mins at a ba…
/r/seduction27/12/17 06:42 AM
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I'm definitely talking in terms of hours and what you said hasn't been true for me. A majority of the time in my life, that waiting to respond mindset is already in act by the girl, I only started doing it recently because girls always did it to me and I didn't realize how it looked when they took forever to respond and I would immediately respond. It's always started with them taking hours, I take 2-3x that, then at a certain point they respond more frequently because of this, and my 2-3x goes …
/r/seduction07/11/17 02:59 PM
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3 things: 1) Text early in the week and say, "Let's go to (place) at (time)" for some day that weekend or say, "Let's go to (place) on Saturday, what time can I pick you up/meet you?" 2) If you notice she's constantly texting other people when you hang out, but doesn't text you back frequently there's probably reason - either she isn't interested or wants to make you interested w/ her delayed responses 3) Don't be afraid to take time to respond, it's typically encouraged. 3x however it took them…
/r/seduction06/11/17 10:39 PM
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Yes sir, it gives them in a way that is natural, not some bullet points you might forget in an actual conversation. I'm about to start the book for the second time (read it at the end of May) just to keep the great ideas fresh in my mind. It talks about how to talk, how to feel comfortable and be yourself when you talk, and how to actually tell entertaining stories from your experiences (believe there is a whole chapter on this near the end). Highly recommend it.
/r/seduction02/11/17 02:39 AM
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Every answer is subjective of course, but Models by Mark Manson was the very first book I read of this genre and let me tell you - I started reading this on a vacation and I'm not a big reader but, 3 days in I was 80% through the book and had 4 girls genuinely interested in me as I was in them (like when we got back from the trip 3 of them wanted me to come visit them when I could). It's more self-help than PUA which is GOOD. None of these issues you have with picking up girls will be truly reso…
/r/seduction02/11/17 02:14 AM
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I like what Mark Manson had to say about it in his second AMA that is located on the sidebar: I'm familiar with Mystery Method and it was somewhat useful for me when I started out, but I can think of a ton of counterexamples to the structure. There are a lot of flaws with MM, not the least being the "7-hour rule" and also waiting for female-to-male interest before showing interest as a male (i.e., being indirect). And unfortunately, you can choose to ignore the tactics, but MM includes negs, DHV…
/r/seduction27/10/17 03:59 PM
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I just want to add, I used to hate picking up girls at bars because they typically ended up not being too great of humans. Then I realized, "Dude.. You only go to dive bars, and even though the girl is cute, it's still a fucking dive bar." So now, if I am interested in approaching someone in that scenario, I try to go to something more wine or health-oriented (wine bars are great). That's nothing against people who go to dive bars, I love them and their more-so unique/homely atmosphere, but they…
/r/seduction25/10/17 03:34 PM
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That's not the way to think about it because that isn't how it would work out. Just don't invest more, do whatever she's willing to do, it's not that hard of a concept and you're overthinking it. It obviously works or people wouldn't be using that advice. You should try it before knocking it. The point of it is that girl, if she's attractive, probably has a bunch of other dudes talking to her - what would make you different? All of those guys are probably instantly responding, texting more frequ…
/r/seduction18/10/17 02:30 PM
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But those points are pretty valid in the grand scheme of picking up a woman you're attracted to, right? Guys just about always have to lead, and I especially agree with the idea of not investing as much in her as she does in you. I believe the actual thing he says is don't invest more in her than she does in you, and this is very serious because the second you do that you come off as needy and very off-putting. The best pieces of advice from that book weren't even dating-oriented, they were just…
/r/seduction18/10/17 01:09 AM
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To each their own, but what specifically made you feel this way? And imo, this subreddit is much worse at doing that, especially when his whole thing is approaching through honesty and expressing vulnerability in being yourself instead of something fake. If you get through the book and feel like it had a good effect on you, I'd recommend his website which has courses you get access to (I think it is $4/mo) and they teach beyond dating, how to handle social anxieties and develop better conversati…
/r/seduction17/10/17 10:16 PM
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I'm not a big reader but I read Mark Manson's "Models" and it changed the way I interact permanently, that'd be a great start for you, I believe. It actually sparked my desire for me to read more it was so good.
/r/seduction17/10/17 07:37 PM
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It's all about how you do it. It comes off much worse to not think highly of yourself than to think confidently of yourself. It's not only that you're not saying anything positive about yourself, you're just being straight up negative, shooting yourself down before you get the chance to try anything. Not being a dick, just trying to help ya out :) it all takes practice and that practice isn't just going to start randomly unless YOU put the foot on the gas pedal. Action (actually doing the first …
/r/seduction17/10/17 10:23 AM
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You should pay them their money before spending it on stupid stuff for yourself, that'd be a good first step. Actions speak louder than words, and you doing immature actions like that really put them off. Lastly, they probably don't 'hate' you, just think it's scummy what you did, but to answer your question - you forget the people that hate you, they aren't worth your time and if you ever get in a relationship with them it will be hell and pointless 99% of the time because you will put in all o…
/r/seduction16/10/17 10:10 PM
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The way you respond throughout this post lacks confidence. All confidence is, is certainty in the uncertain. That means being comfortable with whatever happens, because you understand that whatever happens happens and you are in control of nothing else but yourself and your actions. If you aren't confident in your own actions then that is one of the biggest issues to address. There's more to it than that, of course, but that is the basis of confidence.
/r/seduction16/10/17 09:42 PM
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I used to have this same perspective, but I hope you can read what you just said and realize how ridiculous it is. Imagine worst case and best case. Worst case (realistically): She says she isn't interested/has a boyfriend and you 'bothered her' for less than five minutes of her whole day and probably flattered her. Best case: You meet someone who you can enter a serious relationship with.
/r/seduction16/10/17 06:55 PM
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