PrettyBoiWayne Archive

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1	How do I get a idgaf attitude? Just sit down and focus on your breath and let your thoughts pass without dwelling on them. It can take years to master. I personally had the most progress learning how to consistently clear my mind by taking a small dose of psilocybin mushrooms before meditating. When you first start using mala beads is great because the physical active of moving the beads will keep you focused. I personally don’t like using any of those meditation apps or even a mantra. Just basic breath meditation gave me the…	/r/seduction	24/10/22 10:39 PM
1	How do I get a idgaf attitude? Meditation and experience. A strong meditation habit helped me personally let go of anxious intrusive thoughts, which is really what the “idgaf” attitude is at its core, just a lack of anxiety. I remember one of the girls on the Red Scare podcast described being an alpha male as “just having a lack of an internal monologue”. If you train yourself to think about nothing in the moment you approach you’ve achieved what I think you’re looking for.	/r/seduction	24/10/22 10:08 PM
1	On the rise of lonely single men The majority of advice on this sub is about getting laid. I’m assuming you’re looking for an actual relationship. In previous generations people met through church or various social organizations, attendance to all of which have rapidly declined since the invention of television and even more since the internet. I’m the same age and have had success pulling from bars and what not, but am in more or less the same position in terms of finding something long term. I wouldn’t seriously date or marry…	/r/seduction	24/10/22 06:12 PM
4	Asked a girl out once and she said she was busy, 2 weeks later I ask her again and she says yes but doesn’t seem enthusiastic. Look up Todd V’s text strategy. Also just put yourself in her shoes and ask yourself “if I was a girl who had 5 guys texting me, what would make me respond to this one and not the others?” Nothing you said in this interaction was the least bit interesting or would make someone eager to respond to you.	/r/seduction	24/10/22 02:08 AM
3	Asked a girl out once and she said she was busy, 2 weeks later I ask her again and she says yes but doesn’t seem enthusiastic. You can’t sit here and tell me that this is good game. I’m sure there’s other reasons she’s not feeling him, but bruh…	/r/seduction	24/10/22 01:57 AM
3	Asked a girl out once and she said she was busy, 2 weeks later I ask her again and she says yes but doesn’t seem enthusiastic. No, that shit was terribly dry and I get the feeling their entire convo before that was just him asking basic ass, uninteresting questions. There’s a reason she’s not interested.	/r/seduction	24/10/22 01:54 AM
5	Asked a girl out once and she said she was busy, 2 weeks later I ask her again and she says yes but doesn’t seem enthusiastic. I wasn’t tryna be a dick, but that shit was pitiful bruv	/r/seduction	24/10/22 01:48 AM
6	Asked a girl out once and she said she was busy, 2 weeks later I ask her again and she says yes but doesn’t seem enthusiastic. This convo is so fucking dry. Drop it and reevaluate your strategy	/r/seduction	24/10/22 01:40 AM
1	If having hobbies makes you attractive to women, why isn’t attractive if a guy is into video games and Reddit as opposed to more traditional hobbies? It’s not just having a hobby, its displaying that you have a skill or competency in something that is valuable to others. Nobody respects redditors, and unless you’re one of the best in the world nobody respects gamers either. It’s not about the hobby, it’s the social proof it provides and the demonstration of your ability to be good at things.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 03:07 PM
2	What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s? The real answer	/r/seduction	22/07/22 05:56 PM
1	Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps? You’re over analyzing this. If my goal I set for a night is to make a woman laugh, the way to do that would be to make an effort to tell jokes and use humor in your sets. If my goal is to kiss a girl, the way I would do that would be to ATTEMPT to escalate to a kiss in a set. The first time I had that as a goal I just said “you have a beautiful lips, can I kiss you” like 2 minutes into every set, which actually worked surprisingly. If this is something you actually want to learn how to do you wi…	/r/seduction	19/06/22 03:40 AM
0	Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps? Being able to sustain eye contact if that was something that was hard for you before is progress. Being able to 10 sets in a night if you have approach anxiety is progress. Making a girl laugh, getting physical, going for a kiss, getting numbers. These are all micro-skills that make up the macro-skill of pickup. It’s the same thing I did when I had to learn how to do sales. There’s different parts of the rap you might have difficulty with. Maybe you suck at closing or you’re terrible at handling…	/r/seduction	19/06/22 03:12 AM
6	Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps? When you go out you’re goal should be to have fun and to work on one skill, not get laid. Start a journal and write down every improvement you make to your game. Some nights you may want to practice eye contact, or push pull, physicality etc. When you see yourself making progress in these skills you will feel more motivated and confident the more you improve. It will become cyclical and you will get into the habit of going out and enjoying it, because you’ll enjoy seeing yourself get better, lit…	/r/seduction	18/06/22 10:15 PM
15	Online dating, especially Tinder..can go F%@$ itself Next your gonna tell me your an ex navy seal and know 500 different ways to kill me?	/r/seduction	18/06/22 09:39 PM
9	Online dating, especially Tinder..can go F%@$ itself I think you forgot to put “/s”	/r/seduction	18/06/22 09:19 PM
–	Fun night but girl got mad I wouldn’t fuck her without a condom first night Some women just like that risky shit. I went home with a girl not too long ago who wouldn’t let me put on the condom and then starts moaning “cum inside me” right as I’m about to bust. I ask if she’s on birth control and she says “no, I’ll get a plan B”. Thank god I have a sliver of self control.	/r/seduction	10/06/22 08:50 PM
1	(M28) Show me how to be more seductive. Working out is definitely a great habit to have! Not just for improving looks, but seeing yourself making consistent progress in gym will do wonders for your self confidence. I would just avoid making looks your ONLY goal, it’s really the icing on the cake. Idk how many women will realistically be in your IT courses (attractive ones at least), but the gym is a GREAT place to meet women. Especially once you’re like 6 months in and start looking pretty good. Also a great way to filter, because eve…	/r/seduction	04/05/22 01:22 AM
1	(M28) Show me how to be more seductive. It adds a couple years for sure. Looking at you I’d think you’re around 35, but that’s really not a bad thing with women. I wouldn’t recommend doing any type of surgery just to get women because you really don’t need it. I’m a few years younger than you but here’s my recommendation: A: if you want an LTR, you’re not going to find many “pure” women at nightclubs. I’d recommend trying meet women at church or some other hobby or organization you enjoy. There you’ll meet people who are of a similar …	/r/seduction	04/05/22 12:56 AM
5	(M28) Show me how to be more seductive. Honestly he rocks the bald head pretty well so I wouldn’t worry about that. Even if he started using Rogaine that could take multiple years to fully grow back all your hair. Tbh he seems to have his shit together, just gotta go approach!	/r/seduction	04/05/22 12:27 AM
5	Anyone else have a past of missing a ton of super easy opportunities out of fear? Bro I just graduated and all I could think about were all the easy lay ups I missed. Not just in game, but career opportunities and general life experiences as well. The good thing about hindsight though is that it shows you how important taking future opportunities really is.	/r/seduction	02/01/20 06:41 PM