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| 25 | For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man? | Question For Men | Previous-Nobody903 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 05:13 PM |
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| – | Every woman eventually gets to experience what’s like to be a man (if she lives long enough)This is such a gross post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 02:06 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness.Who said looks? I said attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 04:10 PM |
| – | Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness.If you’re not attractive, you’re not going to be attracted to. How many posts are we going to see about this subject. It’s not the woman’s fault or responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 11:24 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of the female population do you think are fully straight women?A lot of women are aroused by picturing themselves as the admired woman. We don’t visualize having sex with them. We visualize ourselves as them. Or at least I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Women claim to be into personality but judge everythingWhat’s NEET? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 02:52 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Men have always asked for a lot. They’re more than welcome to keep those standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:06 PM |
| – | Why are women so attracted to talent?Sorry for not providing the answer you wanted or expected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so attracted to talent?I have an answer in this thread somewhere. If you scroll and look, you might find it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 10:55 AM |
| 4 | Why are women so attracted to talent?I really can’t stand “biology” being the go-to all the time. We’re not living exclusively out of our limbic brains, were have more sophistication than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 08:04 AM |
| 4 | Why are women so attracted to talent?For me, I think that he spent any amount of time not thinking about his ego or dick. Even if things were what motivated him to gain his talent, he still had to put some actual effort into it. There’s a guy on FB that does yo yo tricks and it’s such a turn on watching him spin that top. A lot of men are extremely boring. Most of them only think about the two things I listed earlier. If you have a talent, or special interest (that’s shared or unique or useful or eye opening), you will become insta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 08:02 AM |
| 3 | Do heterosexual men and heterosexual women have the same perception of the world?Not even remotely the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 07:51 AM |
| – | Why do women gaslight men so much?I wish men thought about pussies half as much as they think about their dicks and every other man’s dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 09:07 AM |
| 3 | When is a woman too picky or superficial?Dating isn’t mandatory, she’s aware of the risk of not finding someone to meet her standards, but is still willing to keep her standards as they are. Sounds like she knows what she wants and the price she’s willing to pay, so what am I supposed to tell her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 04:30 AM |
| 1 | We need to go back to our roots, especially womenThey have always SOUGHT out men*; not, They have always seeked out men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Do you feel any empathy for men?There are men that marry men. You don’t need DEI policies to choose your spouse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Do you feel any empathy for men?Well, if YOU say so, then it must be true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 06:29 PM |
| 6 | Do you feel any empathy for men?Would it be possible for you to think more realistically and not so juvenilely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Do you feel any empathy for men?The ENTIRE legal system is automatically treating women as having more authority than men on the topic of gender issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Do you feel any empathy for men?That still leaves things even. Women relating to women and men relating to men. What do you suggest as a solution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 06:26 PM |
| 12 | Do you feel any empathy for men?I have adhd which has caused ample amounts of social issues and loneliness. I don’t understand why me being a woman gives me an automatic sisterhood of meaningful friendships and support | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Do you feel any empathy for men?What if women don’t want to partner with you? What if they want to be alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 08:23 AM |
| 5 | Do you feel any empathy for men?Whatever metric you use as a reason for you to not get married is a personal choice and your right to do so. I wouldn’t want to get married to someone that was apprehensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 08:18 AM |
| 8 | Do you feel any empathy for men?Who is treating women as having more authority than men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 08:11 AM |
| 15 | The primary biological drive that has driven male ambition for all of human history is WOMEN (to attract a mate/secure a wife/and provide for a family), and the fact that its out of reach for men today is why they are opting out of societyWomen have fought in wars and have proven to they’re willing to die for their country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 09:15 AM |
| 6 | The primary biological drive that has driven male ambition for all of human history is WOMEN (to attract a mate/secure a wife/and provide for a family), and the fact that its out of reach for men today is why they are opting out of societyThe orginal post and my original comment both sufficiently explain how its not the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 10:18 PM |
| 11 | The primary biological drive that has driven male ambition for all of human history is WOMEN (to attract a mate/secure a wife/and provide for a family), and the fact that its out of reach for men today is why they are opting out of societyNo it’s not the same thing. You want it to be though because you want to stay in a superior role and us in the role of dependent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 10:14 PM |
| 54 | The primary biological drive that has driven male ambition for all of human history is WOMEN (to attract a mate/secure a wife/and provide for a family), and the fact that its out of reach for men today is why they are opting out of societySounds like women are the real providers if they’re the ones providing meaning, drive, purpose, and a man’s will to live along with securing his “legacy” through childbirth and raising kids. Maybe think about that next time you act like a divine authority because “men provide” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 08:33 PM |
| – | For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man?You might as well have said employers are prone to telling women they’re getting sent to see the vet but they’re actually being sold off to the glue factory. And that only men are literate enough to read the writing on the side of the carriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 03:29 PM |
| – | For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man?You’re the enslaver in this scenario. Capitalists, if anything, is just the marketplace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 11:37 AM |
| 1 | For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man?John C. Calhoun, a leading Southern politician and intellectual, argued that slavery was “actually superior to the ‘wage slavery’ of the North.” He claimed that enslaved people benefited from “special protection under a caring and paternalistic master” that free workers did not receive under capitalism, because slaveholders provided for their needs directly rather than leaving laborers vulnerable to market forces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 02:20 AM |
| 1 | For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man?Did you know slave owners in the US called themselves “fathers” and their slaves “children”? It was built and maintained in a paternalistic structure as a means to exploit people. It’s interesting how you went right into that ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Love is charity, anything else is businessCharity is used in the Bible to describe love. The original word was Agape. Here’s a description: Agape love is a profound, selfless, and unconditional love, often considered the highest form, characterized by sacrificial action for another's well-being, originating from God in Christian theology but rooted in ancient Greek concepts of benevolent regard. It's a willful choice, not just a feeling, defined by commitment, empathy, and an active desire for the other person's highest good, demonstrat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Love is charity, anything else is businessWithout sacrifice, it just becomes a matter of utility and self interest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Love is charity, anything else is businessThe word for love in 1 Corinthians 13 actually is charity. You’re not wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Women should chase menThat’s true. There’s no winning sometimes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Is there any hope for "good guys"?They mean why aren’t single women not online considered leftovers? I’m almost 40, twice divorced, 2 kids, no formal education, and I work part time. I’m not online dating (or dating in general) and there’s no doubt in my mind a good chunk of the women online are in a better position, are more capable, and more desirable than I am. To call them leftovers but not me is a real disservice. Edit: I say this as a fairness issue, if they’re leftovers, so are the women still single in real life. But we’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 02:16 AM |
| 13 | Is there any hope for "good guys"?Probably because of coercion and deception, which they can believably do because they don’t feel guilt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Most examples of good male role models still covertly represent traditionally masculine ideals of unachievable levels of wealth, status and success that harm men's mental healthJesus was a carpenters son | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 12:11 AM |
| 4 | what happened yesterday on this sub only fuels the pointless gender warsYou can’t because that hasn’t happened. You can make another account and do so now, then come back with the results so you can back up that “guarantee” you’re giving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 12:08 AM |
| 8 | what happened yesterday on this sub only fuels the pointless gender warsTell me about it. But you also can’t feel an attraction towards anyone else, past or present. That would also be bad, bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 11:57 PM |
| 6 | what happened yesterday on this sub only fuels the pointless gender warsOne of them plays with people’s emotions and puts full consent into a grey area, the other one is a woman practicing self agency and not engaging in people she’s not attracted to. They are not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?What work do you do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 09:42 PM |
| 3 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.Tell me how it’s not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 08:37 PM |
| 2 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?This man is acting like little girls aren’t still being sold into marriage by old men, don’t experience abuse or assault, aren’t statistically more likely to be killed by their partner while pregnant, didn’t experience centuries of being beaten at home by fathers and husbands, aren’t murdered in honor killings, aren’t lit on fire or assaulted with acid after rejection, aren’t killed or made infertile by extremely violent r***s, aren’t abandoned with children by the fathers, aren’t ignored by med… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 08:36 PM |
| 2 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?I’m a woman and I work as a dog walker in a nice area and I was mauled by a pitbull. If I didn’t have my back against the exit, I would have died. Why do you think only men work dangerous jobs, only men get killed, only men make sacrifices, and only men put their lives on the line? What job do you do? How many times were you attacked with violence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 08:31 PM |
| 7 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.The patriarchy really just means the man is the head of the household and is the leader of women. Men believe they are superior to women and that women are made for them, there is no true equality in human value. But cute post. It was fun seeing how men like you reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 04:07 PM |
| 2 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?I bet you work from home, if you work at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?Yeah, no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the *economic* feasibility of sex work for the average womanThere’s a hell of a lot of conjecture going on but that’s a you problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the *economic* feasibility of sex work for the average womanReally? How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 02:56 AM |
| – | How should men react in an age of female expendability?Uh huh. Yeah that really balances things out. You’re soooooooo right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 12:37 AM |
| 5 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?What would that do for us? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 12:35 AM |
| 3 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?And may I add men are declaring war, fighting each other, and women are legally allowed in combat in the US and other countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:36 PM |
| 5 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?Women in war torn areas experience sexual violence, danger, and poverty. If their men die, they’re left permanently vulnerable, and STILL more women give birth than men die in war…what is your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:35 PM |
| 0 | Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the *economic* feasibility of sex work for the average womanIt’s social suicide to be a prostitute. There’s unfortunately no having a normal life after that. She’s not only getting paid for her services and all the risks she’s taking, she’s also sacrificing any chance for a normal future and respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 09:33 PM |
| 1 | For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man?My ex’s did that too. She put on the good church girl image outwardly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 09:17 PM |
| 1 | For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man?Good for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 07:59 PM |
| 3 | For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man?Literally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 07:59 PM |
| 21 | For men who say they’re afraid of being used by women, what are the things she’s using men for? What are the signs a woman is using a man? What are the signs she isn’t using a man?Um damn. I wasn’t expecting to be read so hard in a post. I was used by my ex husband and everything you described, down to the humiliating pain, is true. And yes I did think I was above it so I was an easy mark. I was expecting to hear men’s perspectives here, not have my experience written out so plainly. I guess there are definitely some universals, even if there are differences in perspectives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Guys will claim "Society generally treat women better than man" and yet never look at other generalizations that could contribute to that.I’m going to DM you about this. I don’t want to write it out here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 05:19 PM |
| 6 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?Being good got me nowhere. I’m done being good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:45 PM |
| 7 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?Up until modern medicine and even a little bit after, women risked their lives every time they had sex due to death during childbirth and if not death, certainly devastating injuries like fistula. I’ve given birth twice, how many wars you been in?0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?Who are you talking to? I hold every man to this same standard and I don’t have flings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:43 AM |
| 5 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:38 AM |
| 8 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?Yeah it is. I’m going to be a selfish bitch from now on because it’s not worth it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:36 AM |
| 8 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?What’s the point of being a good person or genuinely caring about the man we’re with if all vaginas they have access to are valued the same? I gave my ex husband my heart and soul but I wasn’t any different than the shitty women he dated before me. I could have just been selfish and mean the whole time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:50 AM |
| 17 | How should men react in an age of female expendability?Was there a time when men didn’t treat women as expendable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:39 AM |
| 16 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?They think relationships are work and effort that they invest for sex. The fling gets the sex without making any “payments”. They don’t actually like women outside of what women provide, mainly sexual gratification and validation. This isn’t me saying it, the pattern is blatantly obvious on this sub and elsewhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 12:49 AM |
| 10 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?Yes. Men get very emotional very quickly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 12:45 AM |
| 5 | Is sexual enthusiasm behaviour that's for Chads only?If she can “get it up” for Chad but not for you, that’s a you problem. What do women have to do with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Women should chase menI have done this. It backfires. Men’s egos can’t sit long with the position of being the one approached. They’ll ask themselves why it was so easy, they will be restless from not having “conquered” you, they’ll feel like they were “controlled” and will rebel against a perfectly happy relationship, they’ll take your pursuit as a sign of their greatness and will believe women like you will flock to them (instead of it being a sign of the woman’s uniqueness for stepping outside the norms), they’ll … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 09:19 PM |
| 15 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.I can’t believe women aren’t knocking down your door for an offer like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 06:34 AM |
| 13 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.What’s in it for her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 06:21 AM |
| 13 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.What is sexually submissive? You don’t want a sexual equal? What does submissive look like to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 06:18 AM |
| 24 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.I love how easy he thinks being hot and unbearable to a man’s perspective actually is for women that live in reality and not male fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 06:18 AM |
| 15 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.Woman are looking out for their own interests. What’s wrong with that? If they end up single, how does it affect you? You said yourself you can find the type of woman you’re looking for everywhere so it doesn’t seem like a scarcity issue for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 06:15 AM |
| 5 | Why don’t women get guns?No I don’t feel safe around men in general. It’s not physical safety I’m always worried about. It’s the need to dominate us so lots of emotional and psychological abuse, coercion, gaslighting, lies, ill intentions, etc. Men don’t want whats best for me. They want me inferior and controllable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t women get guns?I do have have guns. Many of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesThe way men argue and debate is hilarious. Sure, yeah, let’s make predictions and call them argument worthy. You really changed my mind there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 04:04 PM |
| 1 | The idea of men gaining more emotional intelligence is backfiring on fake feministUh huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 10:56 AM |
| 0 | The idea of men gaining more emotional intelligence is backfiring on fake feministNice ChatGPT post. I’m curious what prompts you’ve been feeding it to give you those results | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Are men are more comfortable in competence hierarchies than women?Do you honestly think men are being objectively ranked on competence?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 08:57 AM |
| 5 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesWhy not be the change YOURSELF? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesYes, in 100% of cases only married people are cheating on married people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 05:00 AM |
| 5 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesSure does! And when the men can’t take it anymore, maybe they’ll be the change they wanna see in the world and start being faithful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 04:20 AM |
| 0 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesYeah, why not? It’s the only way to restore reciprocity since men aren’t stepping up. You got a problem with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesYeah, not everyone that cheated reported it to a census | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesI believe there is no truly accurate recorded data on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesIt should be equal. If men aren’t gonna be faithful, why should women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 09:21 PM |
| 5 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesBecause every case of infidelity was reported and no one has lied about it or justified it as not cheating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 09:20 PM |
| 2 | "Men should listen to women" yeah and women have radically differentiating opinionsThat’s ridiculous. Explain how legislator can force you to fuck and marry fat single moms? And how does shame force you into anything? People can have strong opinions without it having any effect on how you choose to live. Women are shamed for being sluts but women still decide their own sexuality regardless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 05:28 PM |
| 1 | "Men should listen to women" yeah and women have radically differentiating opinionsHold them hostage how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself.More need to, then. Not enough are doing it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself.Women need to blatantly and unapologetically exploit men for their resources and spit in the face of all men’s attempts at moralizing their behaviors. It’s immoral for women to disadvantage themselves and since love is just a fairytale, there’s no other reason for relationships besides getting your own needs met and coming out better than you came into it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 11:42 AM |
| 5 | Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself.This system only works if all women are dying to get a man. If women choose singlehood and celibacy in large numbers, you may need to think of things outside your ego or be left in the dust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 04:15 AM |
| 4 | What are the signs that a woman is genuinely desired - and not just settled for as the available option?He needed viagara equal to his looks? But we can’t reject men that don’t measure up to us? Under their logic, we should have self respect and not sleep with any of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 03:29 AM |
| 3 | What are the signs that a woman is genuinely desired - and not just settled for as the available option?That’s deeply depressing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 03:26 AM |
| 2 | What are the signs that a woman is genuinely desired - and not just settled for as the available option?No, it’s actually not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 03:25 AM |
| 4 | What are the signs that a woman is genuinely desired - and not just settled for as the available option?Now you know what we deal with with talking to men. The way they can’t follow along and harp on one insignificant detail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself.You don’t understand love. That’s what’s making me sad. Everything I believed my whole life has been a lie and it’s incredibly disorienting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 03:03 AM |
| 8 | Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself.You aren’t the same as every other man. You all get treated differently. Just because you treat us as interchangeable vaginas doesn’t mean we see men the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 03:00 AM |
| 2 | "Men should listen to women" yeah and women have radically differentiating opinionsDon’t listen to us, don’t even think of us, just leave us alone at this point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself.I really don’t care how much pussy any man is getting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Men who complain about women wanting terrible men also complain about women who actually want good men.Are men anything beyond their penis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 12:39 AM |
| 6 | Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself.Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 12:39 AM |
| 10 | Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself.These comments have me thinking they don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself.Men seem to want to all be treated the same whereas women want to be special, and all the men’s responses are making me super sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 12:34 AM |
| 26 | Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself.They want us to sleep with people before knowing them but also have a low body count and strict boundaries with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 12:25 AM |
| 17 | Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself.And they don’t even factor in who the woman is, either. It’s just “woman”. What’s the point of us being good people and going through all that effort ourselves to find a compatible partner if I’m valued the same as literally any other woman? Who we are isn’t even a qualifier, they’ll just sleep with any woman that they’re physically attracted to, and love isn’t even a factor. I could give my whole heart and soul to a man, but not be valued more than an attractive woman that makes him feel like “… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Men who complain about women wanting terrible men also complain about women who actually want good men.I’d hate to be seen the same as all the other women. It’d make me feel very replaceable. Why date me if 100 other women within a healthy spectrum of attractiveness would do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from men? What do you think will change?So if it’s a misalignment, the tie breaker is that you’re a man and you decide it’s normal so therefore it is normal and we’re wrong if we disagree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 11:54 PM |
| 4 | Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from men? What do you think will change?What are the risks men take in dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from men? What do you think will change?This guy thinks spending time with women on dates is risky? 😳 But having sex with them is not?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from men? What do you think will change?Let her handle her business how she sees fit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Men who complain about women wanting terrible men also complain about women who actually want good men.You must have dated women you were more or less interested in, unless they’re all the same so long as you have sexual access to them all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Men who complain about women wanting terrible men also complain about women who actually want good men.And yet so many men do those very things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 11:36 PM |
| 6 | Men who complain about women wanting terrible men also complain about women who actually want good men.Maybe it is on purpose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Men who complain about women wanting terrible men also complain about women who actually want good men.What if you’re just not that attractive? Do you treat women that look like Megan Fox and Amy Schumer the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Men who complain about women wanting terrible men also complain about women who actually want good men.They’re just looking to blame us for why their life isn’t working out the way they want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Men who complain about women wanting terrible men also complain about women who actually want good men.Not every man is the same and not every man enters a woman’s life in the same stage of her development. We’re people not objects. We’re all complex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 10:20 PM |
| 8 | Men who complain about women wanting terrible men also complain about women who actually want good men.Your 3rd point is why bad men go after and deceive young, submissive, inexperienced, well meaning women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Men who complain about women wanting terrible men also complain about women who actually want good men.Why don’t men ever think about how the women feel or how things affect them. The focus is ALWAYS on men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Men who complain about women wanting terrible men also complain about women who actually want good men.You ought to read the book No More Mr Nice Guy. It’s pretty eye opening as a woman to read men’s thoughts on “good” and “nice”. 😳 Also want to add, I’m saving this post. You made such a solid argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 10:02 PM |
| 1 | You cant trust a man’s observational skill on female nature when he’s heavily biased and doesnt use analytical skills.I wonder why their fathers are telling them that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 08:25 PM |
| – | Men are entering a " zero expectation " phase in datingI don’t think you’re a misogynist. I think you’re very basic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 08:19 PM |
| 0 | Men are entering a " zero expectation " phase in datingI bet you’re one of the “good guys” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 06:52 PM |
| 1 | You cant trust a man’s observational skill on female nature when he’s heavily biased and doesnt use analytical skills.Men already do what’s best for them. That’s not new. Have you been living under a rock? Also you have no reasoning skills. You fail to answer my request and only use vague and subjective assumptions. It’s all emotional based arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 06:50 PM |
| 1 | You cant trust a man’s observational skill on female nature when he’s heavily biased and doesnt use analytical skills.Oh you really believe that, don’t you? That’s adorable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 06:45 PM |
| 0 | You cant trust a man’s observational skill on female nature when he’s heavily biased and doesnt use analytical skills.What about how they act? Are you making a neutral observation or are you making a judgment/opinion about how they act? Think logically for a second | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 07:46 AM |
| 0 | Men are entering a " zero expectation " phase in datingThere’s double standards absolutely everywhere you look. Men say “not all men” but make blanket statements about women themselves. Let it go. Live your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 07:44 AM |
| 3 | You cant trust a man’s observational skill on female nature when he’s heavily biased and doesnt use analytical skills.Women should do whatever is best for them. She’s not going to disadvantage herself because your feelings are hurt that you’re not as sexually desirable as Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Men are entering a " zero expectation " phase in datingDon’t pay attention to what other people say about your standards 🤷♀️ just a suggestion that’ll solve your problem for free | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 05:49 AM |
| 2 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.What emotion are you feeling? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 03:17 AM |
| 2 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.Where’s my anger? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 03:00 AM |
| 0 | Men are entering a " zero expectation " phase in datingI love your answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 02:22 AM |
| 10 | Men are entering a " zero expectation " phase in datingWomen are allowed to have whatever expectations they want. No one is owed another person. You don’t have to meet their standards and they don’t have to lower theirs. It’s free will. You not liking it doesn’t matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 02:21 AM |
| 3 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.No? I think I did though. What’s attractive is attractive you just might not meet the standards which is a you problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 01:21 AM |
| 5 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.And some men love women with horrible characters and some cheat on their beautiful loving wives. I have a good enough character to disregard Brad Pitt after his violence but there are no flowers for me because some random chick still likes Chris Brown. I am a beautiful woman, I married a very average looking guy 10 years my senior, I never even glanced at anyone else and within the first year of marriage, he cheated on me with a stranger and lied about it for years. I don’t know what men want fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 09:12 PM |
| 0 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.Charlie Hunnam. When I see him, I forget my own name. I have never once come across a man like him in real life. I don’t think they realize how our attraction works, because Brad Pitt has always been the most beautiful man ever but all that attraction was gone when I heard about his DV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 07:38 PM |
| 7 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.But you equated spending time with women to be the same as being a dancing monkey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 02:35 PM |
| 4 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.Can I ask why you want to date women? What are you looking for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 01:25 PM |
| 16 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.I like how the problem is being focused on women’s responses to risk and danger, not the actual risk and danger itself. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Why male and female heterosexuality are so different?It’s because our real turn on is being admired, adored, yearned for, etc. A loving gaze, if you will. Its something we almost never receive in real life. The closest we get is lust or being sexually appealing. We’re not turned on by men’s physical bodies the way men are of ours. Women are meant to be the beauty. If women look at women in porn they’re most likely turned on by imaging themselves as that woman and being admired. Just a theory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:41 AM |
| 6 | Women shouldn't in most cases be allowed to accuse men of being lazy in the dating climate.Be allowed?? Women have the right to be assholes if they want to be, and they can deal with the natural consequences of that. What the fuck are you talking about “shouldn’t be allowed”??? You shouldn’t be allowed to post dumb questions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 07:35 AM |
| 1 | When women say they don't want dating to be transactional, they mean they don't want it to be that way for women onlyWomen are allowed their own standards and expectations whether you agree with them or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 08:10 PM |
| 0 | Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to themI will give you a small piece of legal advice in case this comes up again. I know you were scared and acted more instinctually than logically, but the courts would have picked apart the fact that you handed her the child after she just tried to stab you as evidence that she wasn’t as dangerous as you alleged, or possibly even that the attack didn’t happen at all. It’s also not good for the kid’s safety, you know? What if the mom had a second knife or she had a gun? 🤷♀️ If you did keep the child… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to themI just want to thank you for answering my question. I was more curious than anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to themHe said he was bigger than them and could kill them himself easily if he wanted to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 03:30 PM |
| -3 | Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to themIt is what it is I still want to know the answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 03:29 PM |
| -3 | Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to themYes we’re two different genders, and in my comment, I explained how and why those differences motivated my question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to themCall me tactless, I still wanna know the answer and if he didn’t provoke them in anyway, his answer should only prove me an insensitive dumbass, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to themOh I proudly hate men, so you burn me at stake for it if you’d like. 🧙♀️🔥 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to themI mean this guys saying 2 women risked their own lives to try and kill someone they knew could easily overpower them, and he didn’t mention them having a murder weapon, at least not one that would make up for their physical differences. Biologically, socially, statistically speaking, however way you wanna put it, my question wasn’t unreasonable to ask given the circumstances | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to themYou didn’t read my comment but I didn’t expect men would | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to themWhat’d you do to make 2 women wanna kill you? Women aren’t operating on surges of testosterone, murderous rage isn’t an emotion we often get unprovoked. Not saying it never happens, but … what am I asking you for anyway? You’ll never actually tell us the truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 02:34 PM |
| 9 | Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to themI’ve never heard either of those, but statistically speaking more men are killing women globally than the other way around so I think you bros are probably pretty safe to walk the streets at night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 02:31 PM |
| 5 | Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to themIt’s hard to be attracted to a whole group of people that sacrifices everything in life to the altar of ego signaling. Men only process the world through what validates or threatens their ego. Women only exist insofar as their role in validating or threatening men’s egos. The women and children and maybe some male elderly folk actually think about the things outside of our egos and are working with a lot more information than you guys have which is why you alll sound so STUPID when you try to ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 02:30 PM |
| -1 | The men women choose are the men they later blame everyone else forHow many years have you spent as a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 04:02 AM |
| – | Where are the TikToks of men being angry towards women?Where are you seeing these videos? I see the opposite. Women who’ve decentered men, dumped their shitty partners, became sexually abstitnent, and are pouring their energy back into themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Dating women is SIGNIFICANTLY harder than dating menThat’s because being alone is preferable to being with most men. Men are awful in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Dating women is SIGNIFICANTLY harder than dating menYou’re criticizing women for not choosing average guys but also for not being attracted to the person they do choose long term? So women are obligated to be instantly attracted to all men or else they’re bad people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Dating women is SIGNIFICANTLY harder than dating menWe want to be loved though. I don’t think you realize how different we are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops.Yeah a lot of women don’t care and have found a lot of peace giving up men entirely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 02:03 PM |
| 5 | Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops.Women are not enjoying dating or marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops.If only being likable and adding value to a woman’s life was the future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 05:20 AM |
| 5 | Paid intimacy is a much better option for 95% of men. They have to put in a lot of effort when dating, with no reward. Just accept that women won’t love you if they could love you, you wouldn’t have to jump through hoops.You think women are enjoying the dating and marriage experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Where do women want to be hit on?There was a man who started chatting me up as I was getting my oil changed and it’s been 3 months and I’m still thinking about him. I wish he had asked me out or told me he liked me. Right now I don’t know if he did like me or was just being nice. I got married as a teenager so I’ve never really dated anyone or been pursued. I pursued every BF I ever had (I’m told I’m very attractive, I just never felt like “that girl”. People tell me they were into me long after the fact and I was obvlivious to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 05:11 AM |
| – | Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrificeMen have lower thresholds for attractiveness. I don’t think I’ll ever have a body even remotely close to Sydney Sweeney’s, but I have a prettier face and plenty of stares on any given day. Less men are concerned with having the “full package”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 07:29 PM |
| 11 | Reasons for age gap relationshipsYou’re hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 04:51 AM |
| 18 | Reasons for age gap relationshipsI’m a woman who prefers older men. My husband is 10 years older than me. Your post is major cringe. In no way are you getting young women with your attitude unless they’re coming with a side of Chris Hansen. Nice rage bait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 04:41 AM |
| 1 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenI had a facial deformity due to severe TMJ. I didn’t heal from it until my late 30s. I’m hotter now than I’ve ever been, mainly because my jaw is no longer fucking up my face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | The Overabundance of Male Validation Has Made Us DisposableI’m too easily swayed by male attention which is how I ended up in bad relationships. I’ve got that low self esteem unfortunately. I’m not even bad looking, I just grew up with an overly critical mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 02:41 AM |
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