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You were just a beta provider to her....someone to pay the bills so she could sit on her ass. Sure, she got a job quick once you booted her ass to the curb but guess what? I can guarantee you 100% that she hates every second of working an 8-5 even if she is giving you the fake "boss babe" appearance. That is how it is with women in my office, you can tell 90% of the women there silently hate working.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/23 07:15 AM
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I don't get it either. If you aren't married as a super rich guy, women will be on your balls every night trying to show you why she is "wroth it". You can dangle the idea of marriage out there to get her to do whatever you want her to do. If she doesn't act how you like, you simply dump her and move on. Not like there aren't a million other women out there.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 04:14 PM
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Sounds par for the course my man. Women heavily optimize for risk aversion (avoiding risky situations). That's why they always line up another man to jump to before discarding the previous man. It is the reason why they want multiple men pursuing them or providing them favors.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/23 06:50 AM
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Read up on the dual mating strategy that women use. Pretty much, women use men for different things. Some men, only good for sex. While other men, maybe not attractive but they're a good listener. Other men might be willing to buy her stuff, take her on trips, give her money etc. She will use each man for whatever she wants from that man. For women like this, unless they're giving you what you want (sex, love, companionship etc.), they're not worth your time. For most men, we are stupid and thin…
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/23 06:46 AM
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Bingo and I am glad a lot of the gen Z men are wising up to the scam that is called marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 10:12 PM
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It has more to do with her thinking kids were the magic bullet to happiness. She basically used you as a way to get kids. Now she realizes that kid are a hell of a lot of work (and expensive!). She also knows she doesn't need you anymore because she will get child support and you'll be on the hook for paying it for a very long time.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 10:08 PM
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It isn't mind blowing at all. That's what feminists do. It is all about power and control at the end of the day. I'm sorry you fell for it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 10:05 PM
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Femnazi indoctrination in college is why
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/23 08:41 PM
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No more fear of the court process.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/23 08:37 PM
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Get in with a good construction company that pays cash and keeps their mouth shut.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/23 08:36 PM
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Don't fall into that "you can't retire" bullshit narrative. Don't have kids, don't get married and focus on a minimalist lifestyle.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 09:02 AM
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It is a two factor issue. Poorly operated and declining marriage rate.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 10:14 PM
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You dang selfish men are to blame for this. Refusing to marry all of these women! /s
/r/MensRights14/04/23 09:23 PM
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I don't think you understand what I'm saying. What I'm saying is the overall trend is that more men do not want kids at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:25 PM
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I agree with more traditional/conservative men, yes, but isn't the amount of men who want kids declining significantly? To me it seems more of just about having consistent sex for pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:56 PM
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Still, the romantic relationship is probably one of the tightest bonds you can form with another person, outside of the bond you form with your parents. Even though women complain about men, when you look at the demographic data, women still benefit immensely (financially) from being in traditional relationships, especially marriage. If that structure goes away, more women will be expected to carry their own weight and most likely it means more women will be living in poverty. High-income men (t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:03 PM
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You don't need a full sized doll. I'm talking about a VR headset and a device you put on your weiner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:16 PM
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It will fundamentally change society though. As people move away from traditional relationships (date-->get married--->have kids etc.). Financially, a lot of women will be made worse off since men traditionally earn more than women. In divorce, most alimony and asset splitting is from men to women. As the traditional family structures continue to break down this flow of money will stop. Men will become wealthier over the long-term, especially unmarried men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:54 PM
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The current sex toys for men are pretty good as is though. I'm assuming you haven't tried? I highly recommend it. Obviously it isn't the same thing but if you're just looking for a pure sex or oral sex simulation then it gets pretty darn close.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:48 PM
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I honestly have no idea how you would cope with it. 3-5k/month for 9 years straight is 325k-540k....you could buy an entire house with that kind of money! It would be a total gut punch to me.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/23 10:10 PM
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100% this. I lived with a woman for 3 months, big mistake. First thing she does when she moves in is starts criticizing about how everything isn't done "right". She wants to change everything in the house. She starts doing a crap ton of laundry. All utilities goes up at least double. I didn't renew the lease, moved out instead and broke up with her. She wanted to know if she could still live there. I said yes as long as you can qualify for a lease and pay the rent. Then I left.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 11:57 PM
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Family court is one of the main reasons why I will never have kids. Fuck that shit.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 11:50 PM
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I Read the book. It isn't mgtow. It tells men to do basically what you said and give some hard truths to men In general. This book is good for men that simp too much and waste too much time or money on women.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 05:29 PM
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Yup and I think books like this going viral is a big issue for them because it means more men are waking up to the scam and probably not going to engage in it anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 08:13 AM
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Most likely she will get half of your appreciation since you got married. Homes have appreciated a lot in the last 10 years so you could be in for quite a punch depending on how long you've been married. If you were married less than a year then she might not get anything at all or very little because homes in the last 1 year have basically been flat.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 09:14 PM
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Yup and sayings like that really shows why stuff like marriage is basically pointless. It literally means nothing other allowing someone to put a claim for your assets/income etc. Lots of men have stupid ideas around marriage like marriage means the woman will be loyal to you, treat you right and be exclusive sexually for you. All are complete myths.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 09:10 PM
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Absolutely foolish to keep talking to this person or have any interactions with her. Absolutely foolish.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 06:35 PM
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She deserves it because without her he would have never been a world famous sax person! /s
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/23 05:28 PM
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It was his 2nd marriage too
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/23 04:00 PM
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You shouldn't be making concessions. With her income being so high, she should be paying you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/23 09:10 PM
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Government has a monopoly on violence. The average joe does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:35 AM
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Except we live in a society where using violence gets you locked up. Using violence isn't an effective tool anymore and hasn't been for hundreds of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:02 AM
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It is simply a needs mismatch. Women no longer offer men what they want and men no longer offer women what they want. So there is no benefit to really being together. If you want sex, you can just get that from a one night stand or friend with benefits situation. There is no need to be formally together anymore. Most men and women are better off just being single and living their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:56 PM
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The bar/club is usually a pretty fake place to be honestly, especially if there is any type of dating level tension going on. Most of the ones out here in southern California are basically a sausage fest with mostly horny men trying to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:53 PM
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At this point, I think for a lot of young people, the typical goals that used to exist (buy house, get married, have kids etc.) are so far out of reach that many just throw in the towel. Instead they just switch to doing stuff that they enjoy immediately like playing video games, movies, tv etc. All of these can be done with minimal money. I've met a lot of young men where the idea of marriage, kids, house is not even on their radar at all. Many even say they don't see those things in their life…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:45 PM
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Yup, women hide their past big time but you can tell there are loads of slutting women out there just by talking to other men. I've seen many men that get loads of attention from women because these women view these guys as attractive and just want to bang them. That's what a lot of women never tell you, they often just jump into bed with any man they find really attractive. If you go to clubs/bars that have younger women you will see the slut behavior clear as day. Also yeah, I agree 100% with …
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 08:33 PM
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Exactly and every man that has dated around has had experiences like what you're talking about. Many of these women (not all) will gaslight like a mother fucker. The reality is women put each man in a specific category with different rules. Attractive men or rich men have different rules from average guys. I dated one woman who was similar to what you are talking about. I dated her for about 6 months and was completely in the dark about what her past was like. Women will often hide their past an…
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 08:00 PM
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They all say that but look at them when they're young and doing it (at a bar/club whatever). They're having the time of their lives. They only come around the corner when they're over the hill and need to find someone serious to bail them out of their shitty life.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 06:07 PM
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Then she can give full custody of the kids to the father and be the one paying the CS instead.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 05:57 PM
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It changes at every interval, for the worse. When you are just "seeing" each other and nothing serious is when you have the high ground. If you become "official" then she will start slowly becoming lazy. If you move in together, likely even more lazy. If you get married, her mask will drop and you will see the real her. If you have kids, the kid's needs take priority over anything (bye bye sex!). Every man is best off simply living a bachelor lifestyle and not getting too serious with anyone.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 05:56 PM
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You have to change your mindset to not revolve around women. Focus your life on yourself 100%. Youll be good man. Many men have walked your path and it is a shared struggle.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 04:30 PM
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Sounds like bipolar or cluster b personality disorder. Glad you escaped from this woman. The kids will understand with time that she is off.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 04:27 PM
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He is the next victim. Be glad you escaped.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 04:55 AM
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100% facts right here
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 06:47 PM
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That's how most women are these days. They don't know how to cook or just lazy. I've seen many women where their idea of cooking is to just cook with those pre-made meals like knorr rice packets and pre-cook chicken fillets from Tyson. Nothing wrong with that but I can cook that stuff myself. Boiling a rice packet for 10 mins or microwaving a chicken fillet isn't exactly complex.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 06:18 PM
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Poly women are okay but only as a FWB type arrangement. Make sure your nuts are cut of course lol you don't want to have anything long-term to do with that though.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 06:12 PM
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100% this. I've been on a few dates with 30+ y/o women and the date is very very strange. Almost feels like it is an interview to see if they can figure out if they want you to marry them and have kids with them. Not fun at all and of course many of these women are completely asexual most of the time on these dates because they've learned to not have casual sex. They "wised up" at that point in the sense that now they want to use sex as a bargaining chip whereas maybe in their past they were all…
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 06:09 PM
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Exactly one of the reasons why I don't really date anymore and I'm in my early 30s. I've noticed that women are in their prime from 18-25 because they're not usually jaded at that age, they're optimistic about life and the future. They don't have much baggage. As they age, they seem to get exponentially more jaded based on their past experiences. The way I look at it, I would only want to date 18-25 year old women. If I can't have that, I would rather be single and alone honestly. I'm at the top…
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 06:01 PM
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tldr summary: don't get married :)
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/23 07:01 AM
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I'm sorry you got hustled but if you asked for advice from anyone sane, they would have told you to run for the hills just based on her past. This lady had 3 very serious and massive red flags, yet you decided to proceed with marriage and have a baby. That was entirely you decision to do.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 07:25 PM
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Exactly this. If you're going to get married, it is pretty simple: she works during the entire marriage she makes more money than you do she is perfect with finances.....saver and investor mentality. A big plus is if she already has assets built up in the form of stock assets An even bigger plus is if she has pre-martial assets that she is willing to transmute into marital property.....could serve as a sort of "cushion" in your favor in case it doesn't work out. Preferably doesn't want kids If y…
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/23 10:07 PM
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Now you know why so many young men these days are just going straight red pilled or black pilled. Having kids is pretty pointless when you think of it. Passing your genes on is literally pointless.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 09:06 AM
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You're ol' reliable and women like this more often than not are just a train wreck in their personal life. Eventually she will have money problems and know you were able to take care of the bills. she will come back because she wants to get bailed out but that's when you tell her to fuck off.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 11:43 PM
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Just relax. This is a common scam. Most likely these people are in another country and can't really do anything to you. It is all a mental game they're playing with you. I would start by getting a new phone number. Do not respond or communicate with them at all. Delete WhatsApp. Freeze your credit reports so they can't do any identity theft against you. Enable 2 factor authentication on all banking so your bank accounts can't get compromised. If they reveal any information to your close contacts…
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 11:34 PM
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Wow, drop her ass immediately. The sisterhood is real with lawyers. It is a rough situation to be in for sure but these days everyone knows that marriage is about money. You got to marry those rich women, not the poor bimbo chicks.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 11:11 PM
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Stay where you're at. Don't go anywhere. Setup a room in the house and basically barricade yourself in there. Try to minimize all contact with her as much as possible. Get a lawyer ASAP and start planning your exit. Make copies of every important document you can. Video and audio record all interactions with her going forward. If possible, have no interactions with her at all. Set the precedence that you are the primary care giver of the children. Document everything. Learn as much as possible a…
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/23 11:23 PM
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