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| 2 | How do you get drunk level confident?Nothing wrong with a drink or 2 to calm you but definitely not ideal getting drunk. More you do it the easier it gets. Stop putting pressure on each situation because it’s meaningless in reality. Worst that happens is you get shot down and try it on someone else. I will say though I’ve always been more uncomfortable in public settings and around friends doing this cause I feel more judged. But by myself one on one nothing phases me and I’m very confident in myself. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Should I text the guy after the first date?If you like him put in effort on your side, don’t leave it all up to him. Forming a relationship takes 2 people to work towards it. Sending a simple text won’t strip you of your dignity or make you look desperate. | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 11:04 PM |
| 2 | What's the worst way you've ever fumbled a babe?When I was 18 I chickened out and pulled away when my crush went to kiss me at a party. didn't have any expierence and wanted to get her alone first. Another kid with borderline special needs also liked her and then ended up following her around, wouldnt leave, cockblocking me for the night by coming in the same room we went off to and trying to sleep on the same couch. She started dating another guy a week later. A year later I invited her over and ended up smoking way too much to where i just … | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 04:19 PM |
| -1 | How do you tell the difference between no, and No!When she screams for help or calls the police is usually a good time to ask her again to confirm if she’s being serious | /r/seduction | 22/03/24 02:45 PM |
| 14 | How do I (22F) make a move on my uni professor (around 30M)Leave him alone -He hasn’t shown actual interest other than knowing your name as his student and making small talk -You don’t have any actual feelings and just want to fuck him, which he could lose his job and career over. I’m sure there’s other people you could sleep with as a 22 year old girl at university that won’t cause problems. | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Great ways you steal kiss with styleIf you can’t kiss her on the 1st or 2nd date you’re 100% doing shit wrong. I’ve had girls say to me no sex the on first date but I don’t know any that would say no kissing until the 3rd. Granted I’m considered pretty attractive but work on Body language, tone, eye contact, and building comfort through being genuine/authentic. | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 03:52 AM |
| 1 | How important is penis size for one night stands?If you’re not gonna see or talk to her again it doesn’t matter at all As long as you can get it up and aren’t noticeably below average you’re good. I know women who have said they left after the guy was REALLY small like child like or micro peen but not just below average. | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Would the gym help (19M)?You don’t even have to get jacked but right now you’re an unhealthy weight. Won’t be some huge commitment to workout 3 days a week and eating more. Eating more gets easier the more you force yourself. I used to struggle with 2500 calories when I was 17-18. I can pretty much eat the same clean food every day now at 4400 cal with no problem. The hardest part for me is just meal prepping but establishing a routine builds discipline. Not saying you need to jump to some absurd calorie intake either. … | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Looks wont keep the girl. Money wont keep the girl.I feel bad for people like you who think they have everything figured out and couldn’t be farther from the truth. By saying it’s all black and white you’re denying that the quality of the relationship or experiences has any affect on the outcome. That if a woman is treated like shit and unhappy in her relationship she’s just as likely to leave as someone who is happy and feels secure in her relationship. because of some predetermined part of her own makeup. You think there aren’t dudes who end u… | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Looks wont keep the girl. Money wont keep the girl.It’s an example of black or white, all or nothing thinking, which most of the time is bullshit. People grow up, change, can be wild when they’re young and mature as they get older. The partner they’re with and their experiences can influence their development. If you truly believe that you can put everyone in 2 boxes while completely disregarding the environment and experiences then you’re retarded. | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | are there any other guys on here in the US who are in their 30s living with their parents and are still able to hook up or date with women?I’m 26 and have been able to with women in early 20s. Whenever I’ve talked to older women they usually lose interest. Although my ex gf is 39 I dated her for over a year. Im in nursing school so it’s not like I’m just burnt out with no aspirations. | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Looks wont keep the girl. Money wont keep the girl.Acting as if there’s only 2 set of circumstances for the 4 billion women on the planet is snake oil bullshit. Sorry you got burned at some point OP. | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Any real advice on getting out of my head when seeing a very attractive woman?If you have full blown panic like fight or flight maybe look into propanolol or beta blockers. I use it not only to control my BP but I take a little extra when I know I have public speaking or a lot of interaction. IMO the most effective pill alone along with not slowing you down mentally or getting up fucked up like Benzos | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good text to ask out my crush?“Hey lets/hey we should —————- either (day one of the week) or (day 2 of the week) if your free | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Is this a good text to ask out my crush?Hey we should———————— either (day of the week 1) or (day of the week 2 ) if you’re free Shorter the better. Be direct.You offer 2 dates so if she’s busy one she’s got the other that works. Don’t ever act too eager. You can show interest but if you start chasing she’s gone. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 11:14 AM |
| 8 | How to get girls at college without playing sports?You either gotta force yourself and get the fuck out of your own head or you’re not gonna make friends or meet anyone man. Sorry but it’s your choice. I get the anxiety part but you gotta out the work in if you wanna change shit. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | How do I even talk to girls without coming off as a friend?Tone, touch, body language, eye contact. You can talk about the Fucking weather and still seduce someone if you’re doing the other stuff right. The words themselves really aren’t that important as long as you don’t put you’re foot in your mouth and say dumb shit. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 02:57 PM |
| 2 | FWB with an older woman?Dumb answer, FWBs aren’t serious so why does it matter? Probably giving advice when you’ve never been in the situation. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 02:54 PM |
| 4 | FWB with an older woman?It’s not a red flag if it’s just for fun and she’s older. You do wanna verify she’s real though, ask for her Ig and if she won’t give you that id be concerned, otherwise there’s no issue. I’m 25 and became fwb with a 37 year old. Actually got a job out of it and it’s like 90% professional now with fun here and there, we have an understanding though it’s not serious and openly see people our own age. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 02:50 PM |
| 13 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...Are you going out and doing multiple approaches every weekend? If you are a good looking guy and atleast putting yourself out there and have some common sense you should do pretty well. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 02:32 AM |
| 2 | The quality of photos of girls to boys in tinder is DISPROPORTIONATEDude how many dudes take a retarded mirror pic with their shirt off? Lmao | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 02:14 AM |
| 2 | The quality of photos of girls to boys in tinder is DISPROPORTIONATEI mean if you take selfies in your house or car and don’t know how to dress it’s kinda your own fault and you can’t complain at the results you get from it. Id rather put the slightest bit of effort into a few decent pics that you can use forever rather just say it’s cringe cause you don’t feel like it and never be able to get a match off the app. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | The quality of photos of girls to boys in tinder is DISPROPORTIONATEGirls profiles are generally way better than guys. I mean just go turn on the gay mode or whatever and see for yourself what a train wreck most dudes profiles are compared to some of the womens you’ve seen and just think, gay dudes are generally better than that stuff than straight dudes too. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 02:08 AM |
| 2 | The quality of photos of girls to boys in tinder is DISPROPORTIONATEguarantee it’s more likely 95% have shit profiles. If you’re average looking and actually have good pictures of yourself you’d atleast get some matches. For whatever reason every once in a while a guys profile will pop up on my feed and I always go through it to look at how terrible his profile is and it always sucks. buying a phone tripod and adding like 2 pictures I took of myself outside at the beach (only excuse for shirt off in picture without looking douchey)and hiking, along with one of m… | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 02:01 AM |
| 23 | How do I a 23m hook up with older women?Older women on tinder are just trying to fuck if their matching with someone your age. I’m 24 and had a nice friends with benefits situation for a few weeks with a 37 year old recently divorced. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 02:13 AM |
| 0 | How to make the first move as a female?If you’re an attractive female you could literally just dive headfirst lol. Seriously though just eye contact while you’re talking close and give him the look and that should be enough. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Guys…can you be just friends with a girl?You can be friends but If they’re straight they’ve probably Atleast thought about sleeping with you | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else have this issue?Don’t fuck yourself over and fall behind in classes over it. I feel like you can do both. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else have this issue?If you’re skipping classes and work regularly and you’ve only got laid once out of it its not worth it. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 10:17 PM |
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