Nikola Tesla and Isaac Newton not only didn't mind the fact that they didn't have sex, they were also one of the greatest scientists in the history of mankind.
Many women lack a sense of justice. To them how they react to those with male faces are solely based upon facial attractiveness. If someone with an ugly male face does something, even non-sexual like just interacting with a woman, it's wrong, evil, dirty and an atrocity that requires the harshest punishment such as harassment allegations, ostracism, spreading rumors, getting them fired from their jobs, expelled from school or even arrested. But someone with an attractive male face could do the s…
Of course I'm not going to have sex with every dirty whore I come across. I didn't burn that much. Many stink and cannot be washed. By the way, I know people who got HPV despite using condoms.
My advice is not to think about it at all. Personally, I have never thought for ONE SECOND about approaching a girl. Women are not Gods who judge my life. If I happen to get into a relationship that will be great, if not I will definitely not kill myself. I believe that I have to deal with primary life problems first, and there is time for a girl afterwards.
I know several people who have literally all the desired attributes: self-confidence, attractiveness, they are tall, smart, educated, they want to help, one was even in the war ... but women STILL bypass them. So basically all the advice is worthless. I don't think even Albert Einstein would know how to treat women today.