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Honestly, Lilith just doesn't feel like she enjoys romance or dating or dealing with men all that much.... Which is why I'm baffled why she is so active on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:58 PM
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..... Okay buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:34 AM
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How do you know they are incels or 'low value men' (as the other poster described)? Perhaps they might be total playboys who attract a lot of women somehow. But still hate their job and the customers there. Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:26 AM
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Actually pretty true. Especially teenage boy groups, I think. I notice that a lot of them enforce heavy peer pressure on each other on quite a huge variety of stuff: their likes, dislikes, taste in something, even beliefs and politics. It's very filled with groupthink; an echochamber. Though, this seems a lot less severe as the dudes get older. Eventually as a young adult I started noticing men at my age are somewhat less police-y of my opinions than women. Disclaimer: completely personal anecdo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:02 AM
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Also, it's hard to figure out how to be good at 'love' and 'romance' for dudes who don't really get chances to do that stuff in practice....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:32 AM
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What's to say guy isn't from a place like Slovenia or Bulgaria? He definitely ain't American, and there are many countries that use the euro with lower wages. 6.25 isn't a total ripoff on some places
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:38 AM
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Would the right word be acquaintance? Not be as close as being someone's friend, but still know and talk to them somewhat in the sense of being an acquaintance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 12:25 PM
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For a married couple though, shouldn't each other be the most handsome/beautiful person to each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:42 AM
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"or was the most handsome man" Ooooooooooofffff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:16 AM
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I like how they just keep proving your initial point even further
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:12 AM
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I wonder if gay men have situations like this. Supposedly not very interested in their gay male friend, but when he finds out that said friend was actually sleeping around a lot, he gets inexplicably jealous....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:19 AM
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You should bill him for the time and effort spent helping him. Perhaps a tiny $250?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:18 AM
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I don't understand all this talk about female friends. From the way it's written here, you make them sound more like attractive women you or your friend orbited with the hopes of getting something more. Wouldn't female friends just be.... friends? Maybe it's just because I was born on another side of the world, but I could not fathom doing ANYTHING I would do for my girlfriend, for a female friend.... No girl here I've seen ever expects random dudes to be basically her boyfriend without sex. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:07 PM
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Maldives, a country with pretty pervasive Islamic influence in society and law, to the point where only sunni muslims can be citizens, has the highest rate of divorce in the world. Also, unquantifiable, but from what I see personally, possibly amongst the world's highest rates of infidelity. It's rarer to find peers of mine whose parents haven't engaged in some sort of infidelity, than those who do have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 01:34 PM
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I'm replying in this thread for the first time. I assume you are talking about the other person. But fair enough, you do have a point. People do have friendships with people whose negative traits would disqualify them from dating, but not friendship. I severely doubt women are all this discerning about personality, though. Obviously it's hard for someone who is outright vindictive and bitter openly all the time to get a date, but I've seen countless cases of girls and women dating guys with absu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:21 AM
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It's definitely about looks. If it was personality problems, why even be friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:07 AM
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It's there now. Btw, why do some people give answers to the automod rather than to the post itself? Is it to bypass some users having blocked others or something? Or some other reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:35 AM
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I feel bad for people who always wrote in a very formal, polite sense, because they can be mistaken for AI due to most AIs writing in formal, polite register too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:23 PM
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To be fair, if you are a younger person, chances are that you were also a teen who used a phone or other device quite a lot back in your teens, and saw the "it's the phones" people as old hysterical puritans.... Only to realize they were actually right all along as you grow up. Might be one of the few things that most young people almost universally realize the old people were right about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:18 AM
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I mean, presumably, a lot of neolibs would be bluepill too, as well as centrists
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:28 PM
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Damn, that sounds like a legitimately good recess over there. Where I was, from the lowest grades up to 8th grade or so, recess was 20-30 minutes and you weren't allowed to run around or anything, and there was no place to do any sports or activity of any kind. From 9th grade onwards, recess became even ridiculously shorter, just 10 min, only enough to have a little lunch and maybe chat it up with a few friends. The only physical activity was twice a week of Physical Education, which stopped dur…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:45 AM
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I'm confused, are women all that much different?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:26 AM
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Speaking of recess, was it just my school, or is it becoming more common in other schools too, for recess to give absolutely no opportunities for running around or playing any sport or anything of that sort? Cuz that was how it was at the school I went to: anyone who had too much spare energy they needed to run off was shit out of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:24 AM
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No I do, in fact it's way more common for women, for multiple reasons, ranging from the aforementioned distractions, to just general safety and some parents' general social conservatism as well. It's actually a bit rarer to find guys who got the same treatment, because of double standards around how men and women are controlled. But to digress, I don't think advice like this originates from a lack of someone getting relationships, but is actually the cause, or one of the causes. It starts from p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:47 AM
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It seems like this advice started well from the dude's preteens, very possibly. An insistence, even demands, from some dude's parents, and elders, that he avoid dating completely until a certain age. It may not be very common in the West but it probably still happens, and I think it happens somewhat in Asian families. The rationale is that a girlfriend would lead the dude away from studies or whatever and just act as a distraction, and because the parents view even high school performance as a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:32 AM
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I think what he's saying is that's the furthest his empathy can go
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 10:17 AM
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Because those men are grifters
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:29 AM
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Plus, even the US in the 70s or 80s or whatnot would be still quite liberal for some of those patriarchal societies. The US being liberal didn't cause them to become more conservative; they have always been that conservative. In fact, it is the US being so liberal and progressivism (relative to other countries) dominating the internet sphere that has led to those other countries to start moving on a leftward/liberalward direction. That's why we see more backlash now; there simply wasn't any move…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:50 AM
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Exactly. For a lot of men, who would otherwise have a pretty decent face and jawline, a double chin and general facial flab from even just being weightier than normal can really make a huge difference in appearance. It's drastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:21 PM
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How would anyone just easily get 16 partners an year if none of them were attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:12 AM
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Huh, that makes sense. I also do like slender fingers and painted nails, and I've known other women to also have hand preferences, though similar to mine, so it's a bit interesting to know there are people who lean the other way too (big hands). But then I suppose it makes sense; I'm a straight man, and those women with similar preferences to mine were bi, whereas most straight women probably like more masculine features overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 03:40 PM
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True, but I think military, at least, would teach some cooperative skills. A military lacking in cooperation at every level wouldn't work very well, after all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 09:05 AM
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You have attraction to.... big hands? Is it more about the size or shape, or both? Is that a common thing among women? Just curious, because it leapt out as a bit random compared to the other stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:15 AM
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I mean, most people presumably wouldn't know how to describe a body fat percentage just from looks alone. They could describe the overall look (Chubby? Fit and relatively toned? Absolutely ripped? Skinny fat? etc), but not really know how to give a number since they wouldn't be acquainted with the body fat thing and not know a baseline.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:59 AM
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It's not just about muscle, I think, but for a lot of men nowadays, getting rid of that flab or outright potbellies and double chins, which mess with your appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:36 AM
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For women, it seems like that is quite common. I've noticed most men don't really get hugs that often. Well, maybe occasionally from friends, and can get em from family. Though it does depend on their friend and family circle; personally for me, I don't really hug or get hugs. As for cuddling, that's something I've literally never done with a friend or family, and while I'm wary of generalizations, I assume a lot of men haven't, either. Also, this is mostly just physical stuff. There are things …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:15 PM
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I mean.... Sure. You can't really do that with male friends, I suppose. Even so, consider just the open space to be more affectionate. Physically, mentally, verbally, etc. Not nearly as many barriers as between friends
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:00 PM
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As in, more opinionated?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:29 PM
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I think you got it spot-on. It's something I noticed a lot of women just don't get. The thing with a lot of male friendships nowadays (At least, in some places, for some people) is that they don't really go all the way deep the way I've noticed some female friendships do. Sometimes it's sort of like there's an invisible barrier, preventing you from going deeper and forming a deeper connection. That, and friendships, a lot of the time, just do not fulfill the same desires we have. With male frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:51 AM
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I don't agree with the other guy's constant complaints about video games and TV shows (I don't really care about being turned on by stuff on my screen, it sounds shallow), but I would just like to point out, about your 2nd paragraph... Those hot women are probably out with their friends or family and, like most people, probably don't want to be bothered by random strangers who found them pretty and came up to talk to them. Even though a man can see attractive women (or men) at a restaurant or a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:52 AM
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Wait, some clarification. The boyfriend, does he have a past of BEING the sexual assaulter, or have a past of BEING the victim?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/24 12:29 PM
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Abolish WAR
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/12/23 01:33 PM
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Perhaps South Asian dudes need their own version of K-Pop to make all the girls start lusting for them. East Asian dudes had a bunch of bad stereotypes like small dick, nerd, etc until all of a sudden, Kpop took the world by storm and now for some reason, a lot of young women slobber all over any remotely nice-looking East Asian man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:37 AM
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