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No not really, it won't do you any good. I thought this too when I first got divorced and she had her new surfer boyfriend around my son two weeks later. It doesn't matter. Lawyer up as quick as possible and file. This is a business arrangement at this point. Good luck to you, its gets much better.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 06:00 PM
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We were all blue pilled simps at one time. I think your head is definitely on straight, good luck to ya!
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 05:54 PM
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Check and see if your state is "No fault" divorce state. If that's the case, it doesn't matter what proof you have. Mine gave away thousands of dollars to her parent's early retirement, judge could care less... she still got two houses and half my military pension.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 05:48 PM
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She's just monkeybranching. Don't fall for the shit, she's the one wrecking the home after all.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 05:44 PM
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Tell her not to come back and mean it. She doesn't sound agreeable at all. And I'd rethink the whole cheating thing. They're never alone.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 05:32 PM
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All this cloak and dagger stuff you are doing seems unnecessary to me. It seems like you are looking for confirmation for something you already suspect. Trust your intuition man its rarely wrong. As men, we have to be able to walk away unapologetically. Sure, there's going to be consequences, and life will suck for a bit, but trust me at the end of the day you will be better for it.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 05:29 PM
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Just don't put her in the serious category
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 06:02 PM
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I didn't put two and two together on mine's until three or so years after the divorce. It was more of an ah-hah moment. More of a life lesson to me on the merits of not being asleep at the wheel with ANY woman, ever again. You really really have to cut your losses and walk away. You already know the deal, you don't need validation from anyone, ever.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 05:59 PM
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You don't tell your kids shit. They will figure it out themselves eventually. I always say take the high road. Mine looks like she came out of the meatgrinder and here I am looking and feeling the best I ever have at age 50, and getting all the attention from women I could ever desire. Karma has a way of sorting these pieces of shit out man, not your problem anymore. Get the divorce so YOU can be what you are supposed to be, there's no dust settling, it's blown the fuck away.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 07:46 PM
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Look at this like I did Brother. You get to hit the RESET button. So many men stay in shit they shouldn’t for all the wrong reasons. Look back sometimes, look forward sometimes, but always strive to keep yourself in the NOW. Sounds awesome, good luck to ya!
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 03:52 PM
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Don’t, for real. Work on your shit, it totally sucks ass out here in the modern dating word. Work on it and count your blessings that you HAVE a woman like that. Seriously
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/22 09:42 PM
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Lucky there, son was 17 during time of divorce, daughter grown as well. Hell no, not getting the dog! Even tried that, would have read about me somewhere 😂
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 02:42 PM
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You’re understandably pissed, but it’s GREAT you see it, set the boundary, and are willing to walk away. So many dudes just won’t and will stay in denial, get worse and worse trying to “fix” things, or kiss her ass and still wind up left. I did the same thing but it’s coming from 25 years. The experience cost me two houses, half my military pension, and most of my adult years. I literally left with my guns, clothes, and dog. It will cost but at the end of the day there is no price too high for y…
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 12:28 PM
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Lawyer up. Fight of your life incoming. Keep us posted brother!
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 05:26 AM
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Yep, most questions about the why can be answered by biology rather than bullshit romantic books, movies, and everything your mother told you about women.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 04:22 PM
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They don’t operate logically, rationally, or truthfully. My ex did the whole “let’s agree not see other people until this is over” thing right before I left and had some loser spending the night two weeks after. You can’t believe what they say, watch what they do.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 02:07 PM
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My German Shepherd Ella(non negotiable), my guns, and a few boxes of clothes. That was pretty much it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/22 03:13 PM
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THIS THIS THIS
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/22 04:45 PM
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It sounds to me like you regret forcing yourself to scarf down that blue pill. Unfortunately to get out of it, it's now going to cost you dearly because the law and society always take her side. We've all been screwed by divorce. DON'T ENTER INTO A LEGAL BINDING CONTRACT WITH SOMEONE YOU ARE UNSURE OF
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/22 04:44 PM
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YES, do not pass go and get yourself a lawyer! Things can turn to shit real fast.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/22 12:09 PM
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I didn't forgive, just over the course of three years and living life, it got less and less until I rarely if at all think about it or her.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/22 11:34 PM
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Bro, you need to lawyer up right away, and as someone stated use a mediator. Not sure your state but Texas has temporary standing orders for the who, what, when, where, and how for finances, visitation etc and what you both agree to for the time after filing and before mediation. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/21 07:17 PM
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I know you hear this all the time man, but it’s true. This too shall pass. You’re having to figure out who you are again. It’s hard, but it WILL happen.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/20 04:45 PM
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Take the middle step and get yourself a mediator.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/20 06:00 AM
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My advice, if you are going to do this, get a lawyer. Seasons change very fast in this process man, protect yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/20 02:48 PM
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Hang in there man. Going to get worse before it gets better, but I PROMISE you that you’ll recover from this. Mine is now just someone I shared two kids and some memories with. Grieve, get pissed a lot, get it out. It’s awful, feels like someone is twisting a knife in your gut, but has to happen. Once through the other side you’ll understand that there’s no going back, and nothing you “could have done different”. She’ll start to occupy your mind less and less, and you’ll really start to love you…
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/20 02:49 PM
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Dude, 25 years here. Mine ran off with a nasty pos scuzzy surfer about two weeks after I left and filed, and like you, I got hit square in the face early because I had been sweating that day hard. BUT Man! As quick as the shock came, it really turned out to be the best closure that has ever happened to me! Now I can truly move on and feel great! Turn that shock into an on/off switch buddy, and let her go to hell for all you care! She's worth two things: Jack and shit. Evict her from your head. G…
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/20 06:16 PM
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Yessir, off of that ride recently. Can confirm! Moved the +% out and filed 5 months ago though. No way I was staying around that lying, cheating, thief of a narcissist for one more second. Already stayed ten years longer than I should have.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/19 04:38 PM
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I’m going to let you in on a secret here brother before you beat yourself up any more: Every relationship has two participants, and they BOTH knowingly contributed to its death. I did the same shit you are doing, blaming myself, convincing myself I caused it despite the fact that I left her because she was a lying, thieving, cheating w$&@“, crying on a fence, thinking how to get her back, etc. Then one day I woke up. You will too man, but it’s over. Live for you and your kids now, work on becomi…
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/19 12:58 AM
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Exactly!
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/19 02:39 AM
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Had this same issue last week. Was going to have to go down there but between the lawyers and us agreeing there wasn’t any reason to. If you DON’T agree you need to go and protect yourself. Sucks I know.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/19 09:47 PM
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