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I can relate to your situation, especially how you relate to your husband and the social changes. I was 18 and he was 21, and we had people saying the same types of things, but I almost had to laugh because for me, those people had gotten married very young also. Hypocrisy seemed popular among those people, but we also had supportive people behind us as well, and we knew where each other stood when it came to being married. To answer OPs question, I'm now 21 and he is 24. No regrets, even if we …
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 08:37 AM
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That's an interesting view about not having "the one". It does differ from mine, so I'm interested to know a little bit more of what you mean. Are you married or on a LTR? What has set this man apart from others, if you are?
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 09:26 PM
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I'm not sure if the way I went about it was the best way, but it worked, haha. We were both living on campus and had a lot of mutual friends but hadn't met yet. When I did finally meet him, I was head over heels from the start. He took his time when speaking, observed a lot, and when he did talk it was something with value to it. He was definitely a popular guy and everyone was always knocking on his door asking him to hang, even though he didn't seek it. I think they were drawn to his attitude …
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 09:24 PM
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Disturbing to you. You are not looking at it from any of their views, you see it through your own. You do not understand eastern values or practices if you are western. You can't be some martyr for someone who acts in a way you don't agree. Also, my understanding is in the Middle East, oppression of women is the result of the militant taking over. Edit- I feel I should add that I don't know a terrible lot about the Middle East so I don't want to come off like I think I'm all knowing. But as far …
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 06:32 PM
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I'm beyond sick of feminism. And I'm sick of being called a man because of it. When I have spoken out again feminists on my alt account I get called a man and told that because I'm a man I can't get the big picture. Seriously?? It's so hard for them to believe *not all women actually agree? Apparently so... Edit- spelling. Oops
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 06:18 PM
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I'm new to this sub so I'm sure other ladies will have a lot more wisdom. But though I've only been married for three years I've found myself taking my SO for granted also before. My advice? Be aware of it. The little things can go a long way. When he gets home from work I try to not bug him and let him relax. When he works the next morning and I don't I like packing him lunches, laying out his clothes, anything that can make his life a little easier. Write notes and let your SO know how gratefu…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/14 05:34 PM
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First, I feel it is unfair to ccompare a polygamous scenario in any way to a rapist scenario, even if using it in terms of happiness. One is a menace to society which caused another harm, the other is not. My stance is simple since we are talking of just acceptance of the concept. I would never be in any type of polygamous relationship. Neither would I ever be in any type of homosexual relationship. But just because I wouldn't myself shouldn't limit someone else's desires. If they are productive…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 02:47 AM
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My husband and I figured this out early and I'm we did. We are both young, and when we decided to start trying the first thing I did was write out a reasonable monthly expense charge for a newborn. Assuming I was able to breast feed, and if we did things like cloth diapers, I was really suprised how cheap it actually was. Even with both of us working we knew too one of us could always be home so there's no need for daycare. I feel a lot more confident going forward. I think if more people actual…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 10:48 PM
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So now that you're done with pitiful assumptions about every RP women on there, how about you go on the sub and do more than just spout what other BPers have told you. You can't assume a group of trolls account for the whole sub. You have one thing spot on though. My morning routine was cut in half when I decided to become a better woman by pumping out kids octomom style, quite wearing shoes, and began hating myself. Edit- I feel I should add I that I don't give a shit what other people do. Live…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 03:58 PM
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This seems like a lot of money put into something very frivolous. Frivolous in this case though, is friggin cute. The cuteness wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 10:29 PM
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Basically, use common sense and shit won't even have the potential to go south. I agree with you. But oh what a couple of scum that makes us, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 07:21 PM
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You got me, I literally believe what I do not because I feel aspects of it better me as a person, but because i strive to be a doormat who kisses her husbands feet, has his pipe ready for him, and has sex with him 10 times a day. No. "Some" plays into every single group you talk about. Some men, some women, some feminists, some MRAs, some democrats and some Republicans. To state that every person holds values of the negative few is a shallow minded way to start any argument and sets you up for f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 07:11 PM
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Your example of solipcism is spot on. I remember one boyfriend in particular who fit what you said to a T. He would beg and plead. Skip work to be with me. I have a feeling he'd have kissed my feet if I asked him... and how can I respect that? It ended fast and I had no remorse breaking up with him and telling him he had a lot of maturing to do. I need my husband to lead. He's far more level headed than I, and he keeps me grounded. He will do anything for me within reason, and lays boundaries. W…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 03:17 AM
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If I can jump in to your question, I think that yes, women have to work harder than men to impress other women. In my last job, I clashed hard with the other women I worked with, but when I worked with the men in that job, I gained respect easily, simply because I preformed my job well. In my current job with 18+ women and only one male, 90% of the women would agree that when a new hire comes in, they automatically don't trust her or like her. I think this is a difficult social construct some wo…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 01:28 PM
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I wouldn't doubt you can find plenty of examples of every single thing you mentioned. But the key word here should be "some". When talking about the women associated with RP as you were, you'll find happy, complete women. "Healthy sex life" in the negative context of "whore" you used means, to me, a woman who decides to screw every man she comes across. A healthy sex life instead is a woman who enjoys having sex with her husband or SO in a healthy relationship. A gold digger, to me, is a woman w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 01:12 PM
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I like that "emotional dump" name, it gives a good title to a negative behavior. I think it'll be easier to reflect before I speak if I think of it like that. Bonus that I'm going back to work tomorrow so I very well could have to be conscious of the whining and ranting urge after. Thanks for the response :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 11:52 AM
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When you do have issues, how do you recommend they get phrased so it sounds less like whining or ranting? This is something I'm not good at and that i really need to improve... I get stressed too easily and can rant too quickly
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 01:43 AM
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This is absolutely wonderful. I'm not a new user to Reddit, but I created a new pro for only RP related things. I've been in the mindset already but didn't have a clear sense of direction before finding RPW. I've been soaking up readings for a while on my old account, but this is the first post I felt inspired to comment on with this one. I have a lot of work to do, I already know my husband can be alpha... and posts like these give me a direction to go in and improve how I communicate with him …
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 10:48 PM
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