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| – | How has body count discourse affected women?Life is never black and white. Paradox is present in almost every truth. People can do whatever they want as long as it doesn't hurt me. My preferences are my preferences. I'm not an insecure psychopath that needs to police other people's behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:07 PM |
| – | How has body count discourse affected women?Totally agree. I just think there's a difference between hating women and being unsuccessful with them thus using high body count as an insult when the man himself would be a total slut if he had the option vs genuinely holding promiscuity as a negative personal value or an indicator of overall character/future behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:49 AM |
| – | How has body count discourse affected women?Yeah I have no doubt as I said that a lot of men would trade places with those women in an instant (without swapping genders) if they felt it possible for them. Often times when a person feels hopeless in pursuit of their desires their mind will generate a new viewpoint that protects them from the reality of their deep disappointment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 11:51 PM |
| 10 | Is it bad to only like super clingy girls?Way to go man. That last sentence is the budding of deepening self awareness and that's a beautiful thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 09:55 PM |
| – | How has body count discourse affected women?Of course it doesn't work lol Any woman that sees that behavior automatically knows he's "low value" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 09:51 PM |
| – | The men here aren't advocating for free sex but for a greater chance and ability to get a relationship so they won't be alone, but somehow the people here have a hard to processing that.We do need to reform our culture. That's the influence that is needed for healthier everything. But remember that all of this chaos and bullshit has been born from the traditional model. The traditional model failed and we need a new one. Nothing you have suggested besides legalizing prostitution (which I agree with but doesn't provide true intimacy) can be achieved without sliding into authoritarianism. Like, how can you suggest we ban dating apps with a straight face? Okay... then people will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 09:49 PM |
| – | How has body count discourse affected women?A lot of men on this subreddit would fuck anything that moves. Rest assured, a high body count would not keep them from drooling over you. It's all a way to reframe their lack of success and they all happen to watch podcasts that reinforce their world view. That being said, your values are your own. Personally, I feel "dirtier" myself if I totally give myself to hedonism. Don't let society tell you how to feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 09:38 PM |
| – | How has body count discourse affected women?I have had experience with women who have pretty extreme body counts and I know that I cannot stereotype all women based on that, but I do tend to view it as a red flag now based on my personal experience. That being said, I don't find anything morally wrong with being a slut and feel no need to shame women who sleep around a bunch. People have different expectations and values and that is okay. I don't want to sleep with a different person every week and will probably stay away from any woman t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 09:36 PM |
| – | The men here aren't advocating for free sex but for a greater chance and ability to get a relationship so they won't be alone, but somehow the people here have a hard to processing that.If you can't figure it out, yes, you should learn to be content with your lot in life. It's not like anyone can really help you if you can't help yourself. Woman aren't obliged to sleep with you if you can't attract them. Same goes for men, as your standards have probably already informed you. Stop bitching and adapt. Nothing will make a woman less excited than a man who complains that life isn't fair. I'm not trying to be a dick, I just have yet to see an actual reasonable solution. Either way,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old?Personally I prefer my women to not have 6 packs I could've given you way hotter 50 year olds for the example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 04:51 AM |
| 1 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?The reason it doesn't secure commitment is because many men are willing to wait it out but they will still only view the woman as a fuck toy. Probably isn't anything you can do to truly secure commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to want a masculine woman ?Westerners think a 19 year old dating their 17 year old high school sweetheart is pedophilia. Westerners are kind of stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 04:03 PM |
| 7 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romancePeople should be clean and take care of themselves but it'd be depressing for us to become even more superficial as a culture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How many of you would reject this guy because he is redpilled?I know a girl who is incredibly feminist. She always had a thing for my friend. Off and on over the years, all dictated by him. She was legit in love with him and he never really gave a shit. Well they still talk and recently met up to hang out again. Well my friend is basically super far right now (everything she supposedly hates) and he was up front with her about his beliefs and she still told him straight up that she would leave her husband (they live on other side of country and they have k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | I genuinely think dating for women is dangerous... but dont understand why women risk sleeping with men, why?You don't know about the third, secret vagina? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | I genuinely think dating for women is dangerous... but dont understand why women risk sleeping with men, why?In my experience every woman's vagina is located in a different part of her vagina | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 03:11 PM |
| – | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.Porn has ruined a generation and is poised to ruin more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 08:19 PM |
| -1 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?I want a big fat lady and I will eat spaghetti off of her belly (without utensils) The bigger the better ideally it'd be impossible for her to walk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 10:26 PM |
| 2 | What Are Your Thoughts On Straight Men?I think men do exist primarily on both ends of the bell curve while women exist largely in the middle. So our best and worst are usually men. The same neurosis that drives a man to ambition and changing the world is the same neurosis- if not properly redirected - that is responsible for things like the holocaust. Part of this could have to do with women not having as many opportunities and freedoms historically, but I do tend to believe women are less ambitious because they are on average less n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:41 PM |
| – | Why are "happily married" people browsing these subs?Not necessarily. There are married men that still understand dating and those that have completely given their balls to their wife. But there isn't a single incel anywhere that has a piece of valuable dating advice for anybody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 09:31 PM |
| – | Why are "happily married" people browsing these subs?If he isn't trying he probably doesn't have anything to teach you though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 09:23 PM |
| – | Why are "happily married" people browsing these subs?I'd much rather take advice from somebody who is married than guys who can't get laid and blame women for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 08:42 PM |
| 18 | Women, what do you think of men who have never had a girlfriend?I would encourage men to lie to you, then. The people who constantly need a relationship are in my experience the people that are the worst at relationships. They never learned to stand on their own two feet and are emotionally needy. There probably won't be a learning phase any more than any other new relationship. I know you're young but seriously, relationship experience means nothing. So many grown adults that have tons of experience are still perpetual neurotic weirdos. That doesn't change … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Women, what do you think of men who have never had a girlfriend?Women aren't attracted to super simps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 01:37 PM |
| 1 | what do you think is the main reason for men giving commitment to one girl, but not the other?Let me tell you this. Making a man wait to have sex isn't necessarily a way to prove that he really loves you and is committed to you. Some womanizers don't have the patience but others certainly do. A woman in the fuck zone is just a woman the man finds attractive but for whatever reason doesn't want to commit to her specifically. That could be due to clinginess, lifestyle difference, personality, or maybe she's hot enough for him to fuck but not enough (in his mind) to give up other women for.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 02:44 AM |
| 0 | Girls aren't lying about their preferences, they just don't know guys can improveNever forget that you can be genuinely physically attractive, but make a girl think you're unattractive solely based on how you act and the vibes you give off. She can even be into you but if you start to come off as desperate or weird, it's over for you. Don't became a self loathing, women hating incel just because you don't have a chiseled jawline. The vast majority of incels are failing because they don't know how to act around women. They usually got addicted to porn at a young age and the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | When was the last time you saw a strange man approaching a random woman in the streets, or public places?What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 07:09 PM |
| 2 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"How much time have you spent meeting new people in real life vs spending time on reddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:49 PM |
| 1 | When was the last time you saw a strange man approaching a random woman in the streets, or public places?I feel like incels sometimes stubbornly think that because a hot male bimbo can get away with it, they should too. They need to put more skill points in adaptability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 03:41 AM |
| 2 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Okay fair. My friends older brother was like 32, short, beer belly and balding and he was one of those guys that always had a hot young girlfriend. And he was a deadbeat too. Some guys just have game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 03:39 AM |
| 3 | I think “shy / anxious / socially awkward” traits are common in society. I think they affect men’s dating prospects vastly more than women’s. With this in mind, are women too often dismissive of men’s dating struggles?Women are more selective, so what? What do we do with that information? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:36 AM |
| 6 | When was the last time you saw a strange man approaching a random woman in the streets, or public places?The sad part is that those guys are probably totally oblivious to why they're single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:54 PM |
| 6 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Having a nice personality and having game/confidence are two different things. I'm not great looking and I've had girlfriends way out of my league. I've known plenty of short, bald, chubby dudes that are better at seduction than 90% of people I know. Even if it were literally impossible for an ugly dude to pull, what's your solution? Enslave women and force them to fuck Sloth from the goonies? Ugly dudes obviously don't want to fuck ugly girls or they would. If you are ugly you need something el… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:07 PM |
| 2 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Every incel I've ever met 100% were poorly socialized. When you can't even realize the reason you are failing there isn't much hope. If you need to advocate for half of the population to change so that you can get a date you might want to rethink why you aren't getting dates when other people are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so common for straight people to complain so much about the opposite sex?It's not straight people per say it's a type of person who struggles with dating. If a lot of those guys, let's say, happened to be gay, they would have a much easier time of getting laid and would have less to complain about. The dynamics between men and women are quite a bit more complicated, I'd say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:56 AM |
| 5 | Women who are in "alternative" scenes like punk rock/metal/raves etc, are more open to dating broke or short men but red pill men don't want those types.Neither does your original comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 11:37 PM |
| 6 | Women who are in "alternative" scenes like punk rock/metal/raves etc, are more open to dating broke or short men but red pill men don't want those types.Idk I knew an alt girl that pretty much exclusively fucked gross 40 year olds... if you knew what patchouli was and didn't wear deodorant she would fuck you on the spot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 09:57 PM |
| 0 | The struggle between the elites and the brutes in Halo 2 is akin to the struggle between RPers and BPers in real lifeGotcha, anything else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:42 AM |
| 1 | The struggle between the elites and the brutes in Halo 2 is akin to the struggle between RPers and BPers in real lifeThe world isn't actually divided up between redpillers and bluepillers... that's how a terminally online person organizes things in their mind And truthfully, it only serves the "powers that be" to have the common person trapped in binary perception. Your post was written from within the matrix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:41 AM |
| 7 | This is the key difference between men and women's thinking that causes conflictAs a man who is not particularly misogynistic, I will admit that I would choose being a man 100% of the time. Both have unique struggles, but the pressure to shave my body and wear make up everyday is enough to make me totally uninterested in being a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 10:00 PM |
| 3 | If men are inherently driven by the obtainment of sex, and the lack there/in search of effects their thoughts, feelings and behaviors about themselves/towards others. Would it be better for society if men held less power and influence in society?I think what you are describing is also the reason men tend to be more ambitious. They are driven by the neurosis of their cock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 04:37 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of the concept of ‘true burning desire’?When a relationship matures and endures over time the initial "burning desire" or infatuation simmers down to a gentle glow. The people who always expect constant burning passion are the ones constantly starting and stopping new relationships chasing that mythical dragon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Women insist that their “taste” or standards are instinctual and without any outside influence, and that they can’t be changed when the opposite has been proven when it comes to physical attraction. Their inflated standards are quite clearly the direct result of their abundance of options.As for the end of what you said, I think most of the world could be considered black and white pilled regarding the inability for any kind of thinking or framing that isn't totally binary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Women...ALL WOMEN...hate men who act like pussiesOP doesn't believe what you say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 05:01 AM |
| 9 | Women insist that their “taste” or standards are instinctual and without any outside influence, and that they can’t be changed when the opposite has been proven when it comes to physical attraction. Their inflated standards are quite clearly the direct result of their abundance of options.At this point I honestly don't think there is much coherence in any given dating ideology. Red pill is all over the place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 11:02 PM |
| 6 | What if humans laid eggs?This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 10:46 PM |
| 3 | You cant hate the opposite gender and expect to succeed in datingWhen I see men in a miserable marriage, I view it as them basically having their soul crushed and they are terrified of being alone. Which is sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Nonverbal consentWhich one is more likely to shoot up a mall? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Nonverbal consentThis is it. I've never once asked for verbal consent but have always had consent. I guess some people can't figure out non verbal communication and I can't relate so I'm not going to say they're wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 08:34 PM |
| 11 | Nonverbal consentAnd on the flip side, if I can make an unfair conclusion from your comment as you have done here, you are teaching men to interact with women in ways that will ensure they are never sexually desirable to the opposite sex. They will become incels and wonder why such a nice guy like them don't get any attention from women. To be clear I am making a crazy extrapolation as you have done. Nobody reads the comment you are responding to and thinks she is encouraging men to go around raping women. The i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Nonverbal consentI understand the situation is complicated but to me, what is exciting and enjoyable about sex is somewhat ruined by having to stop and essentially become removed from the passion in the heat of the moment. Luckily, I'm aware enough to read non-verbal cues correctly. I am confident that I can continue not asking for verbal consent as I always have and be certain that she is indeed consenting to have sex with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.This isn't exactly true. Plenty of incels are totally normal looking and sometimes even quite attractive. They can't get laid because they are basically insane. Sex workers would never fuck their customers because anyone paying for nudes is a loser. Plenty of normal looking dudes for some reason can't figure it out and all my life I've known short ugly fat dudes who were true pick-up artists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:12 PM |
| 9 | Reminder this is who you are arguing with.It's okay if you don't like pussy I just hope you know that you just called a perfectly normal vagina disgusting which is a very gay thing to do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:09 PM |
| – | What are guys supposed to do to improve their situation realistically?Are you sure you don't give off weird vibes? I have so many experiences of meeting below average men that always have a hot girlfriend. One of the biggest players I've ever known was my friend's older brother. He was probably 5'4, balding, beer belly and he was a cocaine addict. But he had "IT" he didn't weird girls out and knew how to excite them. Dude always had a girlfriend in her 20's even as he started getting deeper into his 30's. This guy wasn't successful by any means either (he was a co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Women largely objectify themselves for validation and profit and pretend it's empowering.Ah yes social media influencers... Not at all known for their rampant narcissism/insecurities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 09:11 PM |
| – | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allFuck dudes then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Women largely objectify themselves for validation and profit and pretend it's empowering.People constantly seeking validation on social media are absolutely insecure. There is no explaining the psychology behind that behavior otherwise. Or they are narcissists. I don't agree with OP though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 07:26 PM |
| 9 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allNothing more attractive than complaining that you aren't attractive I wonder why you're not getting laid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Phrases like, "A real man..." or "Yes, but the right man..."When you only wanna improve to get girls you'll most likely not improve at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Is it possible for a woman to choose a man based on how he would treat her?Get this... Actions speak louder than words and people usually date for a while to feel each other out. It is during this time a woman can get a good grasp on the character of the man she is dating which will inform her broadly of how he will treat her. She also will experience how you treat her right from the moment you start hanging out. Explaining how well you will treat a woman comes across as weird because you could just show her. It also comes across as insecure like you don't think she'll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 03:04 AM |
| 0 | dating isn't easier for womenUltimately women have it easier because they can have absolutely zero personality or character and still get suitors because a lot of men only care about fucking something relatively attractive. That's not women's fault though, it's men having no standards. Men on the other hand need genuine and authentic confidence/charm and an interesting personality/life above all else (or a bunch of money if you want golddiggers) It just feels like so many guys in these online spaces just complain about wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 01:20 AM |
| – | CMV: The problems expressed here are middle class, primarily white people’s made up issues. Upper class and lower class don’t have issues like what you’re describing.If you're upper class you are probably going to marry someone of the same class the majority of the time. People that don't come from rich families don't think about things the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:15 PM |
| – | Is there such a thing as hot girl hobbies?Your post is implying that the majority of women have no hobbies besides having threesomes. Which you don't even have adequate anecdotal evidence to suggest let alone real data. Nobody is denying that there are women who participate in group sex. Also, who are you following on Instagram (who isn't a sex worker of some sort) that is always posting about the threesomes they are having?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:05 AM |
| – | Is there such a thing as hot girl hobbies?Idk how old you are but go to a college town and most of the local employees will be hot college students | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 01:53 AM |
| – | Is there such a thing as hot girl hobbies?There's a streamer called Ahrelevant who thinks he's an incel because he can't find a woman who will talk to him about Warhammer 40k. He's just autistic and doesn't realize you don't need to share all of your niche hobbies with a woman to date her. I know there are definitely boring ass people out there but I don't consider myself a silver tongued devil and I never struggle to make engaging conversation even if I have nothing in common with the other person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 01:52 AM |
| – | Is there such a thing as hot girl hobbies?This describes a niche type of hot girl though and there is a male equivalent. There are definitely cool ass, down to earth girls that are very attractive. You are describing the most superficial version of a human and there are men like that too. Socially, it's just easier for women to fuck off on social media all day and still survive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 01:48 AM |
| – | Is there such a thing as hot girl hobbies?Can I ask what has encouraged you to participate in this kind of space? I honestly don't know what differentiates the purple pill from the other pills but these are typically spaces dominated by frustrated males so I'm wondering why you're here? Do you struggle with dating or are you mostly curious about how men are feeling about women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 01:45 AM |
| – | Is there such a thing as hot girl hobbies?Who would've thought the advent of porn would lead to such an insane and infectious degree of paranoia amongst men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 01:43 AM |
| – | Is there such a thing as hot girl hobbies?This honestly sounds made up. Like how a teenage boy fantasizes about what girls are doing when he's not around them lol. When my friend who is a girl is not around I always just assume she's sucking 50 cocks on a ski lift somewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 01:42 AM |
| – | Is there such a thing as hot girl hobbies?Do you think women literally do nothing besides fuck men when they aren't at home in bed? The last two girls I met were hot university students and one played piano and painted and the other also painted and did gardening. Most people have stuff they do in their leisure time. But there are men and women both that have essentially nothing going for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooI don't even know what that is but why would being happily married not count? Count towards what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - How many average women have you had serious crushes on?The one girl who I was craziest about in my life (she always rejected me) was average and in some ways or rather to a lot of people maybe even under average. To this day I can't explain it. I was always prepared to dump my amateur model gf for her at the drop of a hat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 12:43 AM |
| – | CMV: if a woman is financially dependent on a man she doesn’t love she’s completely justified in cheatingThat's true of all people though. That statement is just the inverse of red pill douche bags shitting on women for the exact same behavior they themselves display. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 05:51 PM |
| – | CMV: if a woman is financially dependent on a man she doesn’t love she’s completely justified in cheatingIf you know you're being coerced and willingly enter into an agreement with the person in spite of that knowledge can it really be considered coercion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:07 PM |
| – | CMV: if a woman is financially dependent on a man she doesn’t love she’s completely justified in cheatingNo that's impossible!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4W : Are you attracted to him because of his confidence, or is it that he happens to be confident because he’s good lookingYou are brainwashing yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooThe bathhouse I'm talking about is literally just for gay men to hook up and there just so happen to be saunas and hot tubs. It's a gay man culture thing. I was also making a joke initially not realizing you are a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooCruising bathhouses is exclusively for gay men, to be clear. If you are looking for sex you aren't going to be able to go anywhere and fuck a woman just by virtue of having gone there unless it's a rub n tug or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooAsk your local homosexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 01:05 AM |
| 4 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooLiterally yesterday I saw a total dork with a hot wife. He wasn't horribly ugly but he was entirely unremarkable. But guess what? He had his shit together and was starting a family with a high value woman (as some might say). I highly, highly doubt any man obsessing over attraction ratios between couples has very much going for him. Even if you have money if you are mentally unwell that's a huge turn off. Also, I don't know if some of you guys are only looking to sleep with what you consider 10'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooThe local bathhouse or perhaps a secluded truck stop with custom made toilet stalls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Long lack of experience does affect the views on any current or future relationshipTo simplify, all of this thinking you are doing is called neurosis and it's not providing you with the objective view of reality that you think it is. I will grant that this kind of neurosis typically develops during long periods of isolation and withdrawal but it is nothing to hang your hat on. If you can manage to drop this neurotic line of (likely) cyclical thinking and live your life in the moment as opposed to a person tainted constantly by the past and bitterness and regrets and what is an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Most PEOPLE are undateable. Women are just held to a lower standard when it comes to undateable behaviorCMV: You can only hold this opinion if your entire life has been spent on the internet. Both men and women will put up with psychos if they check other specific boxes. For women you pretty much just need to be hot and for men it's the equivalent of that but isn't purely based on looks. If your world view is informed majorly by the internet you'd be inclined to believe a lot of things are happening a lot more than they actually are. The truth is if you are a mess the type of people you get drawn … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Do you know any men that previously had no success with women and were able to find it? Why do you think so many men believe that is impossible?Yes. People don't realize that when you have no mental discipline and constantly reinforce negative beliefs about yourself it creates a self fulfilling prophecy that is nearly impossible to overcome. My buddy in HS was a turbo virgin who tried as he may could never even get a kiss and then in college he immediately became the man. First semester he locked down the hottest girl everyone else wanted to fuck and he still basically kept her only as a fuck buddy. Most dudes that struggle with women w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 02:29 AM |
| 9 | Why some guys find it so much easier than others (it's not just looks)It really isn't that complicated I feel like these dating communities are weaponized autism and 9/10 a man will be better off never visiting one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 05:52 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.Even if a woman used to fuck everyone on the first date she is allowed to change her ways. Maybe she realized one day if she wants to find a good man and a real relationship she should probably stop putting out so easy. It would be a positive change for her and she shouldn't be judged for it. I get the feeling as a guy having to wait but it shouldn't be hard to put that feeling of unfairness out of your mind because it's kind of a simple way to look at things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.I think he could end up dating her. I view it more about him being so desperate for pussy and/or afraid of being alone for any amount of time that he's dropping thousands of dollars to either get pussy or find a warm body to keep him company. Definitely doesn't make me think any better of him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 09:55 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.I see your point but expecting sex early on doesn't necessarily mean a guy is playing her or that she would pick up on it if blinded by infatuation. There are also dudes that will spend lots of money on dates and wait for pussy. I know a guy doing all that right now for a girl he says he barely even likes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 05:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.How are they supposed to know that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Personality can't compensate for looksYou know how some RP guys talk about wanting intense passion from their girl and nothing less? I pursued a woman WAY out of my league that I worked with and it took me awhile but eventually I won her over and she became obsessed with me. Like that undying passion. I honestly treated her like shit and she'd always come back to me. She straight up told me she wasn't attracted to me at first and didn't consider me romantically. I eventually broke things off with her and most people will say "you mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 12:15 AM |
| 5 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexI feel like there is a phenomenon where men almost care more about impressing other men with their sexual conquests than they do finding somebody they actually like. Public perception of the girl is what is most important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 05:37 PM |
| 10 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexMost guys are fucking losers too what's your point? We're all perfect for each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Any women here..Lol "yeah I started reading about the beatniks and next thing I know I'm in rehab" sounds about right I hate people who think that "accept me as I am" is a justification to let your mental illness become other people's problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Any women here..Can I just say that a lot of guys overestimate themselves to be grotesque when they are really just average or slightly below average and their insecurity makes them disgusting dating prospects. They give up and let their bodies and style erode away until they're a shell of a man basically begging for any scrap of pussy. If you get your shit together, go to the gym and take care of yourself you will become an attractive man even if your face is kind of busted or whatever. Men aren't women. We do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 04:22 PM |
| – | Women hate to be treated as they treat average menThere's a difference between initiating a hook up or a date and looking at a man with those eyes of puppy love after only dating for 2 weeks. Or talking about having kids or being super jealous/possessive right off the bat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 03:29 PM |
| 12 | The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girlYeah they are usually old women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beWhat you're describing is far more likely to be something a man feels. All this pill shit has ruined people's perceptions. The old PUA stuff was better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beDating purely by looks gets old fast and I genuinely don't like having sex with a woman if she's dumb as a bag of rocks even if she's a 10. We like good looks because we want good sex but sex has more to do with compatibility than simply finding the hottest person to fuck. I think just like with men, confidence and a personality go a lot farther than most people seem to admit. But if you're putting the blinders on for anyone that isn't a 10/10 you are cutting yourself off from attraction you cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Highly Sexually Vulgar Book taught to Young Kids (9-10) - Lawn Boy by Jonathan Evison | All in the name of learning about diversity and inclusionJust hearing about this. I saw a different article saying LGBT students and groups were advocating that the school deny requests the remove the books. This makes it seems as if they were LGBT books that were sexual in nature and not a mistake by the school. The site wouldn't let me read the entire article though so I don't know the validity of it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/10/21 06:42 AM |
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