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| 14 | Hanging on by a thread, must need a MAP | Victim Puke | PrinceOfCupsMrp | /r/askMRP | 01/07/20 10:47 AM |
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| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 13, 2021Thanks for this. Not sure where I stand with regards therapy, I still half think its bullshit, but I was in such a pathetic state for so long that I tried the free therapist at the company where I work. She said you have to put yourself first, and I'm not sure if it was that but after that, after playing with the thought of putting myself first, and then beginning to both internally and externally do things for my own self interest, I started to be able to internally let go of my relationship wi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/07/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 13, 2021OYS #5 38 years old, 5ft11, 158lb Lifts: SQ 3 sets of 40kg X 10, OHP 3 sets of 30 x 10, DL 3 sets of 50 x 10 Broken up: been together 11 years, 3 kids at 3, 7 and 10 Relationship stuff One date flaked and rearranged, one went very successfully. I find myself already growing attachments and longing to see the date girl again but I guess that's fine and normal. Still chatting with other women but I feel it might be difficult timewise to be regularly seeing multiple women? I'm still house swapping … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/07/21 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 06, 2021Told a girl who currently fancies me some interesting thing on a topic that interests us both. She reacted excitedly, with enthusiasm. Told the mother of my children some interesting thing on a topic that interests us both. She did not react excitedly. Why? Maybe I fucked up too bad over the past years, maybe I lost the masculine energy, maybe I wasn't hypergamically attractive enough. But you know what, maybe I don't give a fuck. There's millions of women out there. Don't waste time with wo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/21 08:35 PM |
| 7 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 06, 2021I'm fairly confident I wouldn't stay in a sexless or low sex or the woman is not interested relationship again. In my experience it doesn't get better and then you get the occasional sex and think everything is fine, but then the no sex continues. I agree with u/Confident_Strategy_1 With no kids, there's nothing keeping you around, the sex should be regular and eager. And yeah, you getting angry about not having sex will only make you less attractive. Is what you have with her really worth… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/21 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 06, 2021I'm assuming it will help my mental state | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 06, 2021OYS #5 38 years old, 5ft11, 158lb Lifts: SQ 3 sets of 40kg X 10, OHP 3 sets of 30 x 10, DL 3 sets of 50 x 10 Broken up: been together 11 years, 3 kids at 3, 7 and 10 I've decided I'm moving out. I was going to stay in the family house, but she has no job and it's near impossible for her to find anywhere. Plus I want a clean start in a place which isn't tainted by her. We've been kind of taking turns living in the family house and then staying elsewhere. However this is damaging my mental healt… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/21 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 29, 2021OYS #4 38 years old, 5ft11, 158lb Lifts: SQ 3 sets of 40kg X 10, OHP 3 sets of 30 x 10, DL 3 sets of 50 x 10 Broken up: been together 11 years, 3 kids at 3, 7 and 10 I recently broke up with my woman after 2 years or so of her telling me she's leaving. I found it was the most difficult point of my life to deal with and I was pathetic throughout the whole thing with begging and pleading and arguing and fighting and trying to keep things the way they were. Couple of weeks ago something chang… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/07/21 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 11, 2020Noted | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/08/20 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 11, 2020OYS3 Based on https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb/the_12_step_plan_of_dread_book_excerpt_from_my/ Dread level 1 Learn to recognise and start passing shit tests What is a shit test? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/22qnmk/newbies_read_this_the_definitive_guide_to_shit/ I'm rewriting these to help myself absorb them. Agree and amplify Agree with the shit test, and edge it towards some logical extreme. I've found that at times if I take it too far towards a logical e… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/08/20 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 21, 2020Yes. Did already lose ground. Didn't STFU when I should have. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/07/20 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 21, 2020Abundance is a mindset Doesn't this mean I could have an abundance mentality now? https://theredarchive.com/archive/13295 People with a scarcity mentality tend to exhibit: An exudence of desperation resulting in the pursuit of social dead-ends. Chase women. They cannot hold frame. Spend a lot of their time living mentally in the past. Going over and over things they cannot change. Have profound regrets which shake their confidence. Are averse to taking risks, they hold themselves back. Low T. Do… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/07/20 10:59 AM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 21, 2020Yes, Fedora | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/07/20 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 21, 2020OYS #3 Current reading Married Man Sex Life Primer Vision Gain marginal productivity in everything I do. This means every move I make should be towards some improvement for myself. This is to create abundance for myself, which I may or may not share with whoever I please. Objectives and where I'm at Addictions Smoking cigarettes- Restarted smoking when my girl told me she wants to jump ship. Still smoking. Should probably stop Computer games- Opened Steam once during the week. Opened up a game. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/20 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020Reading back over my OYS 2 to see how I come across as a 22 year old kid and yeah I see it. I've got these suspiciously airy ambitious targets all in very early stages. Aiming to have multiple businesses but not even able to have any money left over at the end of the month. My focus appears to be scattered thinly. What do I want to write a book for? Why am I spreading myself so thin? Why have I not mentioned my actual job and how to improve my actual skillset that actually makes me money? Why do… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/07/20 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020The biggest change for me has come from stfu. But you're right. Most of the responses I've got here have been a breath of fresh air in their brutal frankness, have seen the phrase steel sharpens steel and can see how that's happening here. You can see in my OYS that I didn't even mention finance. But I run out of money every month. I'm a shitty blunt piece of metal and with every response I get here, which is like a hammer strike, I do get a realisation that I'm fucking up in ways that I wasn'… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/07/20 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020Have responded to InchargeMan and will respond further, but yeah, haven't responded to anything in my first OYS. See your point. Am on it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/07/20 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020Financially I'm earning over £40k a year but that works out after all compulsory expenditures at maybe £600 spare a month for food and trips etc. Generally we spend all of that each month. Have quit computer games already, my abuse of them has definitely damaged my life a lot. The kids have everything materially they want and continuous support. Definitely I need more money. That's why starting the side businesses. Could visit a friend or two here in the town I live but my main socialising is do… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/07/20 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 14, 2020OYS #2 Current Reading Married Man Sex Life Primer Vision Have a large income from multiple businesses I own. Be physically strong. Look sharp. Be comfortable with approaching women or anyone else I want to without feeling uncomfortable. Be confident. Write a book. Socialize regularly. Make lots of friends and close acquaintances and host parties that are fun. Lift regularly so I can be a strong man. Objectives and where I'm at Side business 1 Basic elements of the site already made Target for w… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/07/20 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 07, 2020OYS #1 Background https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/hj7xe6/hanging_on_by_a_thread_must_need_a_map/ Reading No more Mr Nice Guy-Finished \1* Hang out with guy friends, don't try to please everyone The Rational Male Year one Hypergamy The Book of Pook Embrace the dream first, the girls second. Have fun. Keep oolala in mind Married Man Sex Life Primer Near the beginning of this. It seems to have described my situation extremely accurately. Importance of positive Alpha and Beta traits The way… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/20 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Hanging on by a thread, must need a MAPMight put being acting alpha, passing shit tests, holding frame, learning game, lifting, dieting into my MAP and build on them as a base. | /r/askMRP | 02/07/20 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Hanging on by a thread, must need a MAPPuke is something you do when your body is poisoned and it tries to reject the poison and get rid of it so it don't damn well die. My pathetic behaviour over the past years has put me into a situation where I'm mentally barely able to deal with the situation I created. My pathetic behaviour has been the cause of the situation. Didn't know what I was doing, didn't know the effect it would have. Thought everything was cozy and I could relax. NEVER going to happen again | /r/askMRP | 02/07/20 08:13 AM |
| 3 | Hanging on by a thread, must need a MAPI've already had some shifts from the brutal words I've read in the replies and the sidebar writings. Of course I don't agree with some of the replies, but the sidebar seems pure gold and I would probably justify my determination to continue with the relationship by saying you don't understand the subtleties of my particular situation and that I'm the one who caused the situation. But I've put myself in a weak pathetic state so its possible I don't know what I'm talking about. Yes, I posted my… | /r/askMRP | 02/07/20 07:53 AM |
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