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| 4 | Girl from hinge wants me to come to her and her friend’s get together tonight.Really boils down to two avenues of approach: 1) Go out with them, chat the group of girls, flirt with them and maybe get your girl to get a bit anxious with competition or get their approval. 2) Decline and setup another meetup with just the two of you. Depends on your style. Be the man. Lead with what you want. If you don't want to do 1, then do 2. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 02:28 AM |
| 6 | Why is talking to low smv people so hard.Not only that, but a lot of guys think that because they found TRP they are automatically slut-slayers. It's gives them a sense of "higher entitlement." It's an easy trap to fall through, I've done it. People are people and just enjoy them for who they are. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 11:17 AM |
| 5 | My whole "lifestyle" is fucked. Tips for improving yourself and keeping focused, even when stuck at home most of the time?Hey man, I think you need to find other hobbies or "passions" to fill in those gap times. A thing I was raised up with is "Idle hands are the devil's workshop." Keeping busy and getting home tired has been a great thing for the past few months. Keep my mind and body busy so I don't dwell on shitty situations; I see it, solve it and move on. I'm in the MD area so we are close by if you ever want to chat or hang. I'm new to the DMV. PM me so we can get in touch, men can support each other. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Any dancers here? -- Tango, Salsa etc, Is it Fun Enough to learn?Picked up Ballroom Dance (Tango, Salsa, Bachata, Rumba, Cha Cha and Triple Swing) around Oct or November last year; it's a blast. I'm Hispanic as well and enjoyed clubbing before, during and after college. Hopefully when everything opens up again, I'll get to use my skills to get back in the scene. In the case of women, sure, you'll meet them and most of them are in okay-ish shape. You don't have to be skinny and fit to dance but it helps. Initially I joined in to meet new people (men and women)… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/21 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Do you bang blue-haired Twitter wokies?Yeah like hardcore BDSM or nugget. I imagine from the context it's more like "Politics, Orientation, Race and N..." something like that. Basically topics that make her pussy drier than the Sahara around noon. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Will be starting my career soon with my first job out of college. What are your tips for someone about to enter the corporate world?Check CorporateLand by Uncle Vas in the main sub. That helped me get started. Most people aren't there to be your friend, although maintaining a positive relationship will ALWAYS benefit you in the long-run. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Controlling Passion and Emotion during Hobbies?I don't know man, the stick up the ass does help keep my spine straight at least. You might be onto something; I've been hesistating on the more complex moves. I'll just have to drill them harder into my muscle memory. I think I know which one you mean. I'll take a look at the book. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Controlling Passion and Emotion during Hobbies?Lol I said not my teacher, frustrated more with my confusion in the pattern | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Software Engineers or Fellas in Tech, Does Your Career Help or Hurt Your SMV?I thought as OP did, most people will just ask for small talk. You could either pass it off as cool, geeky tech to play with or be upfront. Remember, SMV isn't just one thing: it's a whole-person dynamic. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many girls post shit insinuating that they’re gonna be lonely on Valentine’s Day, when we all know most of them have guys lined up waiting to go above and beyond for them?Gotta read in between the lines. They won't get attention from Chad, hence the loneliness. Beta orbiter attention they can get for a nickle and a dime. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 09:46 PM |
| 9 | Why do you want to fuck women?Because my hand has too many calluses | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Weight, Cut or Bulk, and BFShould I calorie cycle for this or just slowly get to maintenance and then do a 10% surplus? | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 11:11 AM |
| 3 | Best area to move as a 24MI actually did the opposite: I'm from FL and moved to MD. Same age as you, working as a Software Engineer. For career moves: It's not bad, just have to be picky with the companies you select. Lockheed, L3Harris etc. For women/lifestyle: Miami is great if you want to burn money. Tampa is great for beaches and college women as well. Tally is not bad, just careful which areas you move to. If you pick Orlando, you'll have access to travel between cities easily, but UFC is alright when it comes to ho… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Is it ever okay to yell and/or argue with someone? Trp always preaches to keep your cool aka stay in your frame, turn the other cheek and let others live in their own misery.Take this with a grain of salt from a person who used to be unable to manage big emotions such as anger: it's all very situational, just like being an alpha. Think about what you want to accomplish: will yelling achieve your point? Depends on the person you're yelling at. Can you get what you want when you argue? Only if the person is receptive to your logical/debate skills. Most of the time I keep my cool, and when I do yell it takes people by surprise, which works in my favor. I personally try… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Invest or pay student loans?I even forgot to setup that savings and pay myself first. I appreciate it! | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Invest or pay student loans?I have to start somewhere, don't I? I want resources and where to start. I have to learn and do from there on. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Invest or pay student loans?Should I also be more aggresive with a bit of riskier portfolio since I'm younger plus having those index/ETFs? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Invest or pay student loans?Read that briefly. Any resources I can get into with those? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Invest or pay student loans?Ah, but I need to figure out what to invest in first. Since I'm getting my first job soon, I was thinking ETFs, before moving into business/real estate (depending on the market) | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Invest or pay student loans?I made sure to go for federal loans and they are around 4.4 to 4.6% | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experienceFuck, I should have my phone unlocked more often | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 01:50 AM |
| 16 | No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experience,vznga zscc's z | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Get Laid Like a Warlord QuestionWhere polarizing comes in to help | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Get Laid Like a Warlord QuestionSo the mindset is still great to have, just I have to make my own choice of whether to invest time or attention on someone making it complicated. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Get Laid Like a Warlord QuestionI get the LMR. Two steps forward, one step back. How about at the beginning and middle part of the dynamic? | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 11:43 PM |
| 7 | Let’s talk about k-close. How bad is it on a first date if you can’t pull off a f-close?Honestly, I've been more of experimenting and seeing what works. I feel like the more aggressively I escalate (without being borderline socially retarded) the better results occur. The more I have a "nice first date," less action happens. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Let’s talk about k-close. How bad is it on a first date if you can’t pull off a f-close?Same here! I'm relatively young (23) and have a roomate and mostly see college girls. I move in for k-close knowing that maybe by the 2nd or 3rd I can hook up. However, I've had way more success pushing for an f-close even during the first date. It's weird. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Making moves on drunk/tipsy women?I'm starting to enjoy the game as it is, and putting alcohol in the mix either makes it easy or just adds a disaster. Plus it's enjoyable to have them go nuts like your bud does. Appreciate it! | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Making moves on drunk/tipsy women?Good plan | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Making moves on drunk/tipsy women?Precisely. Also I don't want to be a forgettable lay, fuck that. I'll just keep it to flirting and leave at that unless they're sober. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Making moves on drunk/tipsy women?I get that. Not a good chase at that point. It's more like for example, a girl was tipsy but coherent and all out flirting with me at a day kickball tournament but I didn't make a move just because I was stone cold sober and she waa slight under the influence. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Making moves on drunk/tipsy women?I'm straight edge. But I do go out with friends and women that flirt me with when drunk. I meant more like that. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 01:17 PM |
| 0 | Super high testosterone, what to do?55.5 nmol/L | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Super high testosterone, what to do?Edited question: is there a common underlying to cause? | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Super high testosterone, what to do?Thanks babe. Your place or mine? We can gossip there too | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Tips on patienceSame thinking here! I'll do what I can in the meantime | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Tips on patienceYou're good! I appreciate nonetheless | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Tips on patienceYeah! Got my own federal resume done, plus my Army experience and still waiting | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Tips on patienceMainly looking for cyber or government, but that is if I get to be picky. Currently hold a Secret Clearance, moving to a TS soon. Located in Florida but want to relocate to big cities, possibly northeast. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Tips on patienceComputer Engineer | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Withdrawing attention without being butthurtI see. Without a previously established frame, now changing the rules upsets the status quo. However, by incorporating other activities to take my time I can now use them to withdraw attention. Correct me if I missed any important points here | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 03:38 PM |
| 4 | Withdrawing attention without being butthurtWell, not just texting. I'm toning it down to logistics only, but in person as well. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Asking to get introduced to a new girl from a former (prospective) plateUsed the escalation ladder. We got handsy but she would push me away. After making out the first date, the second date was even drier. She would physically move away, so I went to two steps back, one forward. Didn't work. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Asking to get introduced to a new girl from a former (prospective) plateMy thoughts were similar. I was algo thinking due to the the other comment about having one last go at the girl, more of a "meet me for drinks at xy bar tonight" and play it by ear from there. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Asking to get introduced to a new girl from a former (prospective) plate23 and yes I have. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Asking to get introduced to a new girl from a former (prospective) plateShe wants me to take her on dates and "take things slow," not a "fast and easy lay." Hence the soft next. So I should re-initiate contact? | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | How to balanceSounds like a plan, appreciate it | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 01:47 PM |
| 3 | How to balancePrecisely. I put too much effort before on getting laid (and it worked, slightly) that I realize that there's more to life than women, but it's something I should still get better at regardless | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 01:32 PM |
| 2 | How to balanceI was thinking of "approaching" as more as a skill that I should hone. But as you put it, it's not something that is forced. I should of asked instead how can I slowly but surely incorporate it into a day by day basis. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 01:24 PM |
| 0 | How to balanceAh, now I can tell why that was your first comment. Oh well, you do you buddy | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 12:58 PM |
| 0 | How to balanceIf you need help finding a job, hit me up and I can help you on your resume | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Financial AdviceNormally I only speak to the hiring manager, but I'll try to schmooze the bar manager next time | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Financial AdviceI have gotten a few job offers of doing serving/busser/waiter. I am bartender certified but all places want me to put in my time first serving before bartending. I also have a overnight security gig, but they are asking for 11 pm to 9 am shifts (which takes a toll since I still am a student and also an assistant teacher) | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Financial AdviceWell, I'm currently living with my brother (he's going to highschool) but he graduates and moves out soon. I need to get a cheaper place | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 12:58 AM |
| 4 | Learning how to be a "good guy" vs a "nice guy"Shame I don't juul lol but I see the example | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Learning how to be a "good guy" vs a "nice guy"Always make her work for it | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Learning how to be a "good guy" vs a "nice guy"She had a some sort of blouse that didn't cover her arms, shivering and asked for my jacket | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Learning how to be a "good guy" vs a "nice guy"Thank you! So in a circumstance like this how would I have proceeded? Live and learn | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 04:35 PM |
| 6 | Learning how to be a "good guy" vs a "nice guy"So just be cultivate self-awareness at all times about my behaviors essentialy? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 03:59 PM |
| 2 | What are financial moves I should make?I journal frequently. I'll use that to keep track of any slow changes to my self. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 12:00 AM |
| 1 | What are financial moves I should make?I see your point. Do you think a month is enough to give it a test run to see if I can handle it? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 11:54 PM |
| 1 | What are financial moves I should make?I was thinking of bartending the weekends plus I am also a dog sitter. Any way to spin those two into a simple business? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 11:48 PM |
| 1 | What are financial moves I should make?I already have a budget, so that should help with that. Anything I should start doing now in the short-term? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | What are financial moves I should make?Just full focus on school then. Not even a bit to save up, like only work some weekends? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Education/Career ChoiceWell the grad position is included with doing research with the school and any contracts they have with companies or government entities. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Education/Career ChoiceThank you! My degree is a mix of software and hardware and so I a big fan of hardware more than programming, should I still go for certs in software? | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Education/Career ChoiceYeah, my fear is "overspecializing" | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Education/Career ChoiceI mainly want to work Government jobs and contracts. Most people don't but specializing does provide a higher income. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 10:07 PM |
| 2 | What was your most brutal firsthand experience of AWALT?Two moments of clarity: The first after my relationship that I acted incredibly beta and withheld sex from me. Cheated on me after I bought her a ring for Valentine's and proceeded to hook-up with other people while "on a break to find herself." Second was today, a plate of mine is contemplating getting back with her ex. She proceeds to cut ties with me, I ignore and she comes back. Asks for sex, goes on to say how she loves to chase me, I don't do anything for her and "make her feel like a … | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Best up to date seduction and pickup guide?Same here! | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 12:29 AM |
| 1 | First Date AdviceTrue. Just work on my SMV and keep going. I'm 22 and most women I date are probably 19, 20. Almost all of them in college | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 11:53 AM |
| 2 | First Date AdviceSame. I'm glad I'm making progress through daygame but closing sometimes is the hard part whether through logistics or her just changing her mind. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 11:29 PM |
| 2 | First Date AdviceJust position myself where sex will naturally happen for it to happen. Appreciate it! Sometimes the obvious things are not so obvious for us starting out. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 09:58 PM |
| 2 | First Date AdviceI understand that, but from the little experience I've had they normally don't put out on the first date. I've been reading Daygame Bang and trying to abide by the up to date 3 rule, if not, next. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 09:53 PM |
| 2 | First Date AdviceSorry, any advice to secure the second date? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Making (right?) movesThat's where changing venues and compliance comes in correct? | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Making (right?) movesSo it's more of a do-it and see what happens kind of situation. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Making (right?) movesAh! Understandable. How about if we are constantly surrounded by people? Might ASD kick in? | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Making (right?) movesI understand. It's a work in progress as I'm coming off the track team | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Muscle gains over strengthAnd then the 2 miles for the APFT? Any big setbacks? | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Muscle gains over strength400 m | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Muscle gains over strengthCustom routine done by some of the Track trainers. It's focus is strength with TUT. I'm having it modified to include more upper body as right now it's main focus is my lower body. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Muscle gains over strengthI normally do a HIIT workout consisting of sprints for my cardio. If there's any big mileage due to PT, I do cut back on it. Should I lift everyday? I'm currently lifting 3 days per week. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Muscle gains over strengthI'm studying to be a 35, possible attached to an 11-B unit. I'm getting a 340 PT wise, and I want to keep getting better but at this point I also want to look AND perform better | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Muscle gains over strengthShould I follow the rule of gram of protein per lb of bodyweight? | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Muscle gains over strengthSame, running Alpha. I'll hit the weights and eat more then. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Muscle gains over strengthMy bad, I made the relevant edit adding that I'm also in the Army. How do I strike a nice balance? | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:15 AM |
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