PrincepsOmni Archive

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2	Why Men Hate Going To Church henpecking Henpecking is a term used to describe how some women influence and control men who are supposed to be in charge, usually by persistent nagging, guilt tripping and gaslighting. The term comes from the Hen pecking the Cockrel to make him do what she wants even though he's physically stronger and supposed to be in charge.	/r/RPChristians	24/06/22 06:58 AM
5	Why Men Hate Going To Church Indeed. There's a big problem especially in some Catholic churches I have heard with what can only be described as 'henpecking'. But at least they still draw the line at ordination. And you're right, it's all down to men being weak. The fact that more of us are talking about this gives me hope. Feminised churches tend to die out with time. We'll be left with male led churches and that's the foundation to grow again. Christianity has been through far worse than this and overcome. Christ's church …	/r/RPChristians	18/05/22 11:25 AM
6	"To the Word" - a sea shanty Thank you for sharing this. We only had hymns (not 'worship songs') when I grew up so appreciate this immensely. At one time Christianity was infused at every level of Western culture....workmen would sing songs referencing biblical concepts as much as they sung about more sordid and worldly subjects!. Sea shanties are big part of the heritage in my country, especially in coastal areas like Cornwall and Devon. These hymns were often in very official and archaic forms of the language (or in Latin…	/r/RPChristians	24/08/21 12:14 PM
5	Do you believe your exposure to RP was providential? I think so. Most specifically it was presented in front of me at a time when I was paying for poor past decisions and mistakes. It has since set me on a better path. Progress has been slow in some areas but in almost everyway things in life have improved over the last five years since I first encountered the RP.	/r/RPChristians	24/08/21 11:43 AM
1	The Orange Pill I'm only aware of 'red pill' meaning uncomfortable truth. Given how much politicians lie I think it's not a good term to use to describe any political position! However in this era of neo-Lysenkoism I think any truth, uncomfortable or not is not going to be met well.	/r/RedPillParenting	26/07/21 02:08 PM
3	The Orange Pill In the modern world, working out and having a stoic mindset is called 'right wing' in fairness. As if the term 'right wing' is a pejorative - rather than simply a broad categorisation of someone's political outlook.	/r/RedPillParenting	27/06/21 10:26 AM
4	Advice and prayer request for my long term relationship. She certainly needs prayers, as do you. You're not married (or have failed to declare this)- if you are having a sexual relationship with this woman you're indirectly contributing to her being this way - chastity is a virtue. Married or not it is clear she has no respect for you, or for biblical standards of modesty. This is a huge red flag. She goes on 'girls nights out' - Godly women don't do this. They find wholesome things to do with their friends that don't require bars, clubs or the need t…	/r/RPChristians	17/06/21 07:02 AM
1	are signs of promiscuity not always an indicator of promiscuity? 1 Thessalonians 5:21-22 is certainly a clear call to "Abstain from all appearance of evil" - an excellent example across translations. Clearly the theme is clear - avoid the taint of evil/avoid the appearance of evil etc etc. We were made as social creatures - our reputations are very important within our communities. It makes sense to keep ourselves from even being seen to be evil. We're also supposed to set examples to others in how we live. I don't think unsaved people are going to see any ki…	/r/RPChristians	12/05/21 07:57 AM
6	are signs of promiscuity not always an indicator of promiscuity? It's entirely possible, but may not be probable. A truly godly woman is modest, which means she wouldn't be posting pictures of herself in bikinis on social media. Christians are called to flee even the appearance of evil. It's hard to judge without specific examples though. A pic of a modest bathing suit that isn't close up while on beach holiday with family in a wholesome setting is quite different to a close up of her assets in a string bikini while she poses like an Instagram Thot to get lik…	/r/RPChristians	09/05/21 05:51 AM
1	Children before marriage Until you have a priest or pastor (depending on your denomination) bless your union after you exchange vows you're not married. Some countries (like the USA) also have secular paperwork to confirm marriage - that can be left until later if it's a difficult time though...we're talking about Christian standards not secular standards. The biblical ideal and centuries of Christian tradition and precedent is clear - no sex outside of marriage. That means no children outside of marriage as well.	/r/RPChristians	25/01/21 06:17 AM
8	Self-righteous girls " suffocatingly self-righteous " is vague and subjective. Not saying you're not right but I think it would help to get some examples of what makes you think she is that way so we can give more specific feedback. I think in this day and age a single Christian woman who is still a virgin is rarer without a doubt - which might lead some women to brag about that. However it's actually supposed to be the default position for unmarried Christians - like how men are supposed to be self-sufficient leade…	/r/RPChristians	31/08/20 07:27 AM
2	Modern Christian women rejecting submission and male headship How do you guys deal with this? Don't court or marry them. That's the short answer. The long answer is... If you're focused on being your best self, and following Christ's examples and teachings you'll find the right kind of single women will naturally want to submit to you anyway. Feminine energy will response well to masculine energy. Those women who have 'issues' with basic models of Christian family structure are not suitable women for courtship and marriage. It's not your job to fix grown a…	/r/RPChristians	07/07/20 11:59 AM
5	Feeling discouraged with many churches' support of the Black Lives Matter movement, including my own.. Are there any truly alt-right/conservative churches left that don't buy into this? Are there any truly alt-right/conservative churches left that don't buy into this? Most Orthodox churches don't buy into this. Some of the more traditional Catholic groups too (who will now be at odds with the current Pope). Am sure there are traditional Protestant churches out there who aren't supporting Black Supremacist Marxist groups as well... The usual benchmarks apply for selecting a church if one is scriptural and red pilled: Ordination of women. Modesty of the congregation. Gay marriage…	/r/RPChristians	02/07/20 07:13 AM
2	How much effort /work are you willing to put in a relationship if there is some sort of conflict? It depends what the conflict is. A regular, unresolved conflict suggests one or both parties are not communicating clearly and/or not dealing with issues. It would be extremely tiresome to deal with the same issue every single month simply because one or both are unable to communicate their needs properly, or listen and come out with a joint or individual solution if appropriate. There will never be a conflict free relationship of any kind - we're humans not sheep. It's how people deal with conf…	/r/RPChristians	28/06/20 07:14 AM
2	Advice on cannabis use and my future marriage Long term cannabis use is linked to increased risk of psychosis, longitudinal studies in the UK and New Zealand from 2015 and 2017 have linked it as a gateway drug, with users having an increased risk of trying other drugs later on. As it's becoming legal in many countries, we will see more data coming out in the next decade due to new studies on it's affects....and I suspect it will not look very good for regular users. It's not the same as the health benefits of a glass of wine with dinner. Wh…	/r/RPChristians	28/06/20 06:17 AM
4	Thoughts about fraternity/sorority culture? Any organisation not grounded in Christian traditions and values should be regarded as suspect. Christ said that 'by their fruits you will know them' - if people are miserable all week and living for weekends of excess and vice I think we can be sure of their 'fruit'.	/r/RPChristians	16/06/20 07:46 AM
2	How to reach to being “ghosted”? My advice to any man is to avoid online dating as a general thing - and to develop a social circle of trustworthy friends and family - I was introduced to my wife through a trusted friend. Regardless of your chosen methods, keep in mind a woman who cannot clearly say 'no thank you, I'm not interested' but instead ignores you after exchange words is not a woman of good character in the first place. If you're looking to marry raise the bar when it comes to character - you will want a woman who can…	/r/RPChristians	16/06/20 07:39 AM
18	I once informed my best friend that, everything else being equal, the reason why so many girls were after him was that he is very physically attractive- he got offended. If someone told me I attracted girls primarily because of my looks I would take it as a compliment and move the conversation on. I see literally no reason to get offended by that. It't either the way you said it, or your friend is sensitive to this subject.	/r/RPChristians	15/06/20 08:56 AM
3	Should I (21M) prioritise losing fat and building muscle? If my goal is to be more attractive to Christian women, should I be prioritising losing fat and building muscle or working more and saving money (to move out from home)? There's no reason why you can't do both. Without a gym you can get into great shape using your own body weight, and sticking to a low sugar lower carb diet with high animal fats and proteins. If your Uni has a gym use that, it's going to be cheaper or free in most cases. If you're in Australia you have access to some of the best…	/r/RPChristians	14/06/20 07:58 AM
3	Virtue Signaling Indeed, but the term 'virtue signalling' means specifically showing the world how wonderful you are, usually with empty platitudes, not with actual virtuous deeds. I am reminded of Matthew 23:27-28 when I see the current climate of corporate, academic and political signalling. “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for you are like whitewashed tombs, which outwardly appear beautiful, but within they are full of dead men’s bones and all uncleanness. So you also outwardly appear righteous…	/r/RPChristians	11/06/20 03:52 AM
5	Virtue Signaling Great post. One of the spirits of this rotten age is signalling virtue. Christ talked about this when he described Pharisees like 'whitewashed tombs'...they look good on the outside but inside is death. As are subjected to an incessant corporate and media campaign of virtue signalling today it's important for us to remain grounded in God's truths....	/r/RPChristians	11/06/20 03:30 AM
8	The way of man Maybe I haven’t met a true Christian girl? This seems likely. And just being Christian, actually Christian doesn't guarantee she's compatible, or likes you. We only tend to hear about divorces and unhappy marriages. We rarely hear of the successes because those people are busy living their lives and not whining about everything. Even in places with high divorce rates there are still half of them succeeding. This is why regardless of what we want, our first goal should be to live godly lives, and…	/r/RPChristians	28/05/20 12:40 PM
4	How do I stop being a nice guy? I've just finished a book called "No More Mr Nice Guy" by Robert A. Glover. It's a secular book, so some of what it contains should be taken with a pinch of salt, but the core principles are quite sound. It even talks about how Western men have lost their way due to factors, more men left to be raised by women at home and school, feminism teaching us we are bad, the loss of fathers bonding with their sons, the sexual revolution etc. The church has been feminised as well, which doesn't help Chris…	/r/RPChristians	27/05/20 06:50 AM
3	Is Christianity a blue pill religion? It seems weak that the emphasis is on poverty, self-examination of sin, and meekness. It sounds like the “effeminate white hipster liberal” of religions. I would recommend reading this: https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/the-feminization-of-christianity/ I don’t say this to be insulting but just that I am not seeing in Scripture a basis for anything Red Pill. I do see it in pagan religions though. Where am I going wrong? What thing are you looking for that has scriptural basis exactly? …	/r/RPChristians	26/05/20 04:09 AM
11	Response to "Why Men Hate Going to Church" Without seeing how your church operates in terms of hymns, it's position on women speaking and their attire, male headship etc it's hard to give a qualified response. We won't solve male lack of attendance with responses like this though.	/r/RPChristians	19/05/20 05:38 AM
1	How do I approach my husband about this issue? I think this reply is meant for the OP, not me. I've already stated he sounds like he has little respect for his wife. I've also stated that she should seek therapy for past traumas.	/r/RPChristians	19/05/20 05:17 AM
2	How do I approach my husband about this issue? If you have sexual traumas it's good to get professional help with them as it's taking away from your enjoyment of sex, and affecting your marital intimacy. But from what you have posted I think your husband needs to speak to someone as well - he sounds very ungrateful, and disrespectful.	/r/RPChristians	19/05/20 05:15 AM
1	How do I approach my husband about this issue? (This really really hurt my feelings, he makes so much mess around the house and I constantly clean up after him. I‘ve never complained about it, he doesn’t see pretty much any of the work I do he just thinks the house stays clean itself!) While he is right to say housework is your work etc, he could learn some tact there. He sounds like he's not speaking to someone he respects. A good wife should be respected and loved by her husband, not verbally abused. Your husband doesn't sound very gratefu…	/r/RPChristians	18/05/20 12:41 PM
1	Is marrige worth it? If you have low to no interest in women and can handle being chaste all your life you don't have to marry. Some men and women are called to walk this path and that's perfectly fine. However, you need to make sure you're just not being put off by the state of women in your area/nation and modern divorce law vs really having no interest in marriage and women. Because most men in western countries are put off by the women and the divorce laws these days - but most of them still like women and would…	/r/RPChristians	17/05/20 08:48 AM
2	Discovered an inappropriate relationship If you want to cast stones keep in mind I all I did was make a simple statement. It was pretty clear: "emotional intimacy". I'm not the only one who said things to that effect either. I seem to be the only one you're interested in though. If you think I am arrogant and misguided or a troll that's your prerogative to judge as you see fit, and to act accordingly as a moderator...we all know how that goes. Being compared to Pharisees tells me where this is heading. There's little incentive to 'try'…	/r/RPChristians	12/05/20 06:30 AM
3	Discovered an inappropriate relationship I have no interest in what you think you read, what you think of me, or what you think of the subject. Take a hint and give it a rest.	/r/RPChristians	12/05/20 04:03 AM
1	What to do about my dad? Just don't be like him then. It's that simple. Aim higher. Live better. He is still your father though, and doesn't sound too different to many men of his age. You can show him love and respect and simply live a better way yourself. Be careful you're not being overly censorious about this. If you were a teen it would be understandable. For a grown adult to rant this way about their father tells me you have work to do on yourself.	/r/RPChristians	12/05/20 04:00 AM
4	Discovered an inappropriate relationship If you really, sincerely think it's ok to form emotionally intimate relationships with a member of the opposite sex who could potentially become a romantic partner because "it's not in the bible" I have no interest in debating with you at all.	/r/RPChristians	12/05/20 03:52 AM
3	Discovered an inappropriate relationship Are you suggesting that talking and laughing with an attractive person of the opposite sex is adultery? No, my words were a clear statement, not suggestions. How you react to that statement is up to you. Lots of things are not specifically mentioned in scripture... What is mentioned are things like fleeing the appearance of evil, rejecting all evil, not calling evil good and good evil, not being wise in our own eyes, lewdness, sexual immorality, and deceit. I suppose we can make of that what we …	/r/RPChristians	11/05/20 04:55 PM
12	Is it a normal occurrence for women, for your male friends to suddenly suggest having sex? It's normal for weaker, needy men to attempt to be friends with a woman first, then assume they are building enough trust and credit with her to be able to ask for sex. Such men think desire can be built by being nice and friendly and little else. Needless to say such men are not red pilled, not masculine, not alpha. It is a good policy to keep men distant as much as is prudent to avoid these things happening in the first place (and you are right to cut off men who do suddenly ask for sex - that…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/05/20 08:38 AM
7	Discovered an inappropriate relationship So true. Emotional intimacy with anyone of the opposite sex is cheating. Many, many relationships begin with the dishonest statement of being 'just friends'.	/r/RPChristians	09/05/20 08:10 AM
1	Discovered an inappropriate relationship I'm really sorry to hear this, and can only imagine the steamroller of emotion you're going through. Infidelity is grounds for a divorce, Christ said to even lust in one's heart is the same as doing it. Your wife flat out refused to stop this relationship - which means she has no respect for your authority and doesn't put her family first - she has reneged on her vows. I wouldn't move out or take the children just yet if I were you. I would consult a male friendly lawyer about your options, and …	/r/RPChristians	09/05/20 08:01 AM
3	When Is The Right Time To Start Dating? I think your intentions are good...,but I have to point out that no where in scripture are we called to have a 'relationship' with Christ. We are called to follow Him. Like most men you are victim of the femininsation of Christianity, and terms like relationship are a symptom of that. As for dating - at 16 you should be focused on making you and your life strong and interesting so you can attract better women. You have little to offer a woman at 16 - not the kind of woman you would want as a wif…	/r/RPChristians	08/05/20 05:50 AM
5	Is working out THAT important to find a potential spouse. Keeping at least reasonably fit and in shape is first and foremost self respect. If you're blessed to be able bodied you should be a good steward to yourself. Medical evidence shows men who engage in at least moderate exercise will have less risk of preventable disease, better moods and sleep better. This helps you have a clearer mind - which contributes to better decision making. You don't work out to find a wife. You work out as part of being your best self, so you make better decisions, and a…	/r/RPChristians	30/04/20 04:34 PM
3	I'm 21 and unmarried. What should I be doing right now to prepare myself to be a good wife and mother? Get online and find courses and/or good YouTube channels that deal in the following: Personal Finance & Budgeting. The basics of interior design. Cooking. Home cleaning and basic maintenance. Feminine style - attire and modest make up etc. Laundry, ironing and sewing. Basic first aid. Ask these kinds of forums about recommendations for the above. And consider the following: Work on cutting out people from your life who are perpetually unhappy and unlucky, and who drag you down. Seek to be closer…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/20 09:42 AM
8	Past possibly effecting future Red Pill advice would be: Make self care a passion - It's not hard to stand out in most Western nations where yoga pants, jeans, flip flops and obesity are the standard. Just cutting out sugar and carbs from your diet, and taking moderate exercise 2-3 times a week will make you stand out from most of your peers. Wearing dresses more than pants, and taking 15 minutes more to groom/make up will also set you apart most women in most places these days, where being modestly feminine seems to be forbi…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/20 08:37 AM
3	Am I in the right place? That's encouraging to hear. Many people are isolated, or worse - in with the wrong kinds of people. Even from a totally non-religious perspective, who we spend most time with really shapes us as people. Proverbs 27:17 "As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another" is as true as ever.	/r/RPChristians	28/04/20 09:30 AM
7	Am I in the right place? I don't know your area, it's demographics and culture - but as a general rule the more traditional the church the higher your odds will be. If I were looking for a wife now I would say the following red flags apply when vetting a church for marriage material Christian women: Female pastors/priests, leaders or speakers of any kind - this is a big no from both the bible and Christian tradition (which is very clear that women are not to lead or teach men). Any women who disagree and think they shou…	/r/RPChristians	28/04/20 09:13 AM
5	Has anyone seen dynamics change lately Some women are starting to realise that civillisation doesn't work without men. Decades of feminist indoctrination has to give way to reality at some point. This is also not just a result of recent pandemics. For the last five years I have noticed (and this of course anecdotal) and number women begin to wake up to the facts at hand. This ranges from politics to religion to culture. In my own country (the UK) I see some women suddenly realising that open borders and soft touch policing they and, …	/r/RPChristians	28/04/20 08:38 AM
8	Are there some worship songs you enjoy? It seems I stand out quite a bit here as I don't listen to most modern religious music at all....and won't attend a church that has modern music - (I do love modern music though, my father owned a record store - I am especially into blues, jazz and rock, but not as a devotional/sacrament). Examples of what I listen to, for those who are interested include: Laudete Dominum omnes gentes - (Praise the Lord, all nations) The first part of this is Psalm 116 Miserere mei, Deus - (Have mercy upon me, O…	/r/RPChristians	28/04/20 07:51 AM
3	Question about my youth group First embody in a positive and inspirational way the masculine virtues yourself. If you want to speak to him to do privately first, and ask him with tact to explain why he teaches men should be walked over....and cite examples of men in the bible who didn't allow that to happen.	/r/RPChristians	27/04/20 08:37 AM
4	Question about my youth group What kind of feminine values is he teaching men?	/r/RPChristians	27/04/20 04:42 AM
1	Need some advice, long post. And apologize for the scatter brain There's a book called "Passionate Marriage: Keep Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships" By David Schnarch...you need to read this book. You also need to e the best version of yourself - diet, exercise, grooming and cultivation of character. (You've admitted to premarital sex in a Christian forum as well....if you're a Christian you should be praying about that). Once the lockdown is over ask parents or trusted friends to take care of the children for a few hours or overnight if that…	/r/RPChristians	26/04/20 05:55 PM
3	Endure! The fact that YOU are rejecting women after vetting them to a Godly standard tells me you are a high value man who won't waste his time with women beneath him. You may be struggling but you're actually far ahead of a lot of men...peak performance involves a lot more struggle than coasting or inactivity.	/r/RPChristians	26/04/20 07:48 AM
3	Reposting as text: Advice on how to manage and potentially create a Red Pill women’s subreddit for Christian women. I've followed both and don't see alignment if the intent is to 'merge' the two. The main reason I see is this: Many 'red pilled' women still think sex outside of marriage is OK, and have simply engaged in mental gymnastics to justify it. r/Redpillwomen is full of women who advocate limiting what they do for a man until he 'puts a ring on it'. So they will have sex with him but not live with him or do his laundry because that's 'wife stuff'. Or only engage in the most bland and 'vanilla' sex beca…	/r/RPChristians	26/04/20 07:02 AM
12	Boyfriend [30M] is accusing me [29F] of riding the cock carousel… The ideological Red Pill resonates with many Western men, who have been emotionally battered and broken by a laissez-faire, licentious, and lewd society over the last 60 years or so. It offers men truth, but often delivers it with pessimism and an unhealthy distrust of women (women raised in the same broken society are rarely going to even know how broken they are either - we all think we're pretty much ok and that this is a normal way to live even with demonstrably worse outcomes). A big red pi…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/20 06:23 AM
5	Why Men Hate Going To Church Throwing the baby out with the bathwater is a good analogy. I think leaving a particular church or denomination is sometimes required but there are still plenty of traditional churches out there to look into, and people can also found their own in most parts of the world. It's also a good lesson for us all to take on board. We are called to shun the very appearance of evil. To serve with humility. To help our brethren. To show our hearts by our works. There are also sometimes opportunities to se…	/r/RPChristians	16/04/20 12:09 PM
7	Why Men Hate Going To Church Faith is indeed personal but our religion is communal and was founded that way. We have been called to form communities and spread the Word. Even if we only read scripture alone and followed it we would still be showing by our lives and example a very different way of living to the world - from how we conduct ourselves in our personal lives, to how we dress, speak and what our priorities are. Even more reason to have high communal standards and uplight those who fall short, and call out those wh…	/r/RPChristians	15/04/20 03:26 PM
2	Why Men Hate Going To Church How did we go from: "I will not cease from Mental Fight, Nor shall my Sword sleep in my hand: Till we have built Jerusalem, In Englands green & pleasant Land. " To 'Come Jesus, come"?	/r/RPChristians	15/04/20 08:52 AM
11	Why Men Hate Going To Church We have nearly 2000 years of deep, serious devotional hymns and liturgy to draw from that are entirely non-sexual and unwordly....yet many churches want soft rock and pop?? Baffling.	/r/RPChristians	15/04/20 08:49 AM
9	Why Men Hate Going To Church A good friend of mine who was an hardened atheist and converted then went as far as wanting to be a priest has walked away from it entirely now He gave two reasons: Ordination of women and feminisation of the church means it's a place that doesn't offer anything to young men at all. He's a white south African who has been rejected by his own country and who now works overseas (despite being a child during apartheid some people, mostly white liberals will bring it up and make out he's somehow per…	/r/RPChristians	15/04/20 08:47 AM
7	Why Men Hate Going To Church A friend of mine calls them "Hellsong" unironically haha. It's a shame many churches that are actually more grounded in scripture have an older demographic. Younger people who are looking for a proper church rather than a feminist led dating gathering should really pour into these older demographic churches or found their own.	/r/RPChristians	15/04/20 08:43 AM
30	Why Men Hate Going To Church The Orthodox, the traditional Catholics, as well as a small number of 'old school' Protestant churches have entirely avoided these issues by keeping to scripture in a few key areas. First they don't ordain women or let them speak in service or read or sing to mixed meetings or anything like that. ( 1 Corinthians 14:34 , 1 Timothy 2:11–12 etc) Second they insist on traditional standards of modesty which means things like skirts (no pants/trousers) below mid calf, hair covered, arms covered, no cl…	/r/RPChristians	14/04/20 06:50 PM
8	Should I tell my girlfriend? (porn slip) I personally wouldn't be reporting every sin to my wife or girlfriend. She doesn't need to know your every mistake - she needs to know you work on being a better man. I would be cultivating trusted male friendships to help me with these issues. Few things challenge a man like having other men around who are also chasing their own excellence. There's a reason why some Christian denominations have confessional...and men's groups etc. It's worth taking up new hobbies if you find there's enough free…	/r/RPChristians	14/04/20 10:54 AM
2	If people marry for love (now), then why are divorce rates higher then ever? Because people confuse initial rushes of chemistry for love. Because the culture and society brainwashes people to think love is about hearts and flowers and nice feelings. Historically most people didn't trust these feelings - they were considered immature. Romeo and Juliet was a warning - a couple of teenagers who let their hormones dictate their actions. Yet we think this is 'romantic'. A broken society with no understand of deep and lasting love is bound to have higher divorce rates no matte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/20 05:48 AM
1	Believing that men in their 30s have it better than women in their 30s is pure wishful thinking. Depends on the man and the woman. On average it's simply not true.... A fit, healthy man who makes reasonable money and disciplines himself is going to have it really, really good in his 30s...for men their SMV peak is usually in their mid to late 30s. Meanwhile I don’t know any girls who find older (NON CHAD) men attractive, Is that why all the Bonds are played by men over 30? Because women swoon over 20 somethings? Is that why women in nearly every culture tend to marry men a few years older t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/20 05:44 AM
1	The Sexual Revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race. The issue today is we have abandoned ideals because in the past some people never lived up to them. This is like doing away with laws because some people break them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/20 05:33 AM
1	[CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the most I, however think that most women today pick and choose what to be when based upon what benefits them. Women have always done this. Unless their culture has forced marriage and rape women have always had a say in what they want that benefits them. If women were truly principled they would not pick and chose what benefits women the best, they'd either be 100% for equality or 100% for tradition..... A principled woman will simply seek an equitable (not equal) exchange for what she wants in a relati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/20 05:32 AM
1	I Still Can’t Tell If Y’all Think Women Should be MORE Selective Or Less I think the first step is self knowledge. People who don't even know what they really want are just lost ships at sea. Once you know what you want you can proceed accordingly, knowing all the knowledge you have your disposal. If you want to roam the land banging everything you will live a certain lifestyle to accomodate that. If you're looking for a traditional LTR you craft yourself to fit that. It all starts with the individual deciding. Vetting applies even at extremes of what people want tho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/20 05:25 AM
2	Why are men becoming weaker and weaker? Gentlemen's clubs in the past were not usually posh strip joints - some were very puritan and devoted to certain causes and ideals. Why bother creating such clubs when brothels already exist for men who are into that sort of thing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 12:57 PM
1	Why are men becoming weaker and weaker? Women in the workplace, golf courses, gentlemen's clubs, politics, military, you name it....the girls are everywhere that were only for boys once. Feminism is a giant shit-test western men have failed. That's why they are being replaced by immigrants now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 12:32 PM
10	A woman is less valuable the more men she’s been with. Why then don’t the most valuable men seem to care? Why then don’t the most valuable men seem to care? Says who? Because a few celebrities don't care? There are exceptions to every rule...and we live in a culture that now tells us any criticism of women's free choices is sexism so many people will overlook behaviours that were not acceptable to anyone just a generation or two ago. A lot of the upcoming generation of men are not tolerating it by the way. I have an 18 year old and hear him and his friends talking - they are more conservative than m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 12:30 PM
21	Women do not have it easy I saw disproportionately more women with breakups than men. And women suffer much longer after breakup than men. There were women who are in non contact mode for 2 years and still they've not got over it. Looking at this objectively all that you have done is confirmed there are a more women on some breakup forums struggling to get over their breakups than men. This says nothing about wider society or the world. If we were discussing statistics it would be a very poor sample size. Whatever the ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 11:10 AM
3	Just ask men and women this question to check for entitlement "Why don't you create your own company and then run it as you please?" This no longer works in many countries...labour laws go far deeper than safety, fair pay and hours worked in many parts of the world. Why is it a thing of entitlement? It is because it shows if you want others to change to your whishes or if you just create something the way you think is right. I agree. Some people want the world around them to change without any effort on their part. And others make themselves change to get …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 08:35 AM
1	Average men would get more casual sex if they had female friends Socialising with women can be highly beneficial because it can increase 'social proof' (other women see you know lots of women so are probably at least an ok guy - especially if those women are interesting and attractive). It can also help you demystify women and gain confidence. The question here assumes 'average' men want more casual sex in the first place. Some people do. Others seek relationships. If casual sex is the goal it's wiser to keep away from a close circle of friends - most people …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 07:51 AM
5	For men, are all friendships with women, orbiting? One criticism that rp has of male to female friendships, is that it is orbiting on the mans part. It's a frightfully simplistic worldview that doesn't consider female relatives, professional connections etc. As a rule though, if a woman is in your SMV range (age, looks etc) you're always going to have an element of sexual potential there...and all orbiting is, is sexual potential. This is why people who want strict monogamous relationships limit their friendships with the opposite sex, and avoid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 07:44 AM
1	Female sexual selection unintentionally made men superior Women are generally the choosers...always have been. The quality of men in a culture can be traced to the quality of it's women's selection ability...and their ability to raise the men. Societies can therefore be judged by their women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 07:29 AM
3	How will the world adapt to the single mother epidemic? What impact do you see it having on the world in coming years and how will relationships be affected as people try to adapt to this new normal? While nothing is absolute, the statistics show children raised by single parents are more likely to develop a host of issues from lower educational attainment, lower mental health, increased risk of criminality and less ability to forge lasting relationships when they become adults. We already see the effects. We have more depression, more boys dropping …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 07:24 AM
2	Why are men becoming weaker and weaker? Yeah and most of these people over 40 decided to raise their kids in the opposite way then blame the next generation. It's because of how you decided to raise your kids nothing else. This sounds like accountability and personal responsibility. Frightening stuff. I raised my son on it and he's more conservative than me...he hates most of his generation for their softness and addictions to porn, gaming and pleasure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 06:54 AM
1	Why are men becoming weaker and weaker? We had the cane when I was growing up....women weren't raised to try and discuss feelings with unruly boys in my time though. They know what we responded to very well because they didn't buy into the idea that males and females are the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 06:52 AM
1	Why are men becoming weaker and weaker? What’s wrong with women joining Boy Scouts? Most other scouting organizations around the world are coed and America is the only country that isn’t coed. Because it's for boys. There's also a group for girls. And there can also be one that is co-ed too if people want that. Why does everything have to be mixed? What choice?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 06:45 AM
2	Why are men becoming weaker and weaker? Well in a sense every single boys club/mens club etc opened their doors... Men who listen to women and do whatever they want get what they deserve - whether individually or on a societal level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 06:15 AM
1	Why are men becoming weaker and weaker? Men have become feminised. Women respect us less, and we respect each other less. Easy times create weak men...and weak men create bad times...which will create strong me again. Perhaps we're just moving through a phase.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/20 06:12 AM
5	Why are men becoming weaker and weaker? These days men aren't even graduating at the same rate as women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/20 01:04 PM
2	Why are men becoming weaker and weaker? High sugar high carb diets. Processed foods. Less sleep. less exercise. Plastics (remember we were told to switch to plastics to save the trees....that didn't work out so well)	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/20 01:02 PM
6	Why are men becoming weaker and weaker? Western culture was rather different in the 1970s - I grew up in that era too. Women were quite different back then too. Aside from a few fringe feminists most women seemed quite comfortable being feminine and not treating boys like defective girls as the modern system does. The wider culture and society was different too. We both know us boys would settle differences with our fists and often become friends afterwards. Very few men over 40 didn't grow up scrapping at least a few times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/20 01:02 PM
49	Why are men becoming weaker and weaker? Why are men becoming weaker and weaker? More single mothers - less masculine influence. Most teachers from kindergarten to high school are female Education policies lean towards treating boys like defective girls. More and more screen time - less and less play. Shortened recess/play breaks. The invasion of male only spaces by women (boy scouts comes to mind).	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/20 10:43 AM
1	Q4All - what do you mean by “respect”. Respect is earned. It's that simple. It's hard to get it from people who feel entitled or who are inward looking and cannot see what others do for them. But that's then a cause to cut off such people from one's life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 10:46 AM
3	"Reformed sluts" are probably among the worst types to date. Newly resistant strains will certainly make free love look kinda stupid. But if it harms and kills off people who would screw anything I think that's just nature removing idiots from the gene pool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 10:24 AM
1	Do you think the popularity of Project Melody on Chaturbate proves that there is something up with modern women? It can't work without total control of the supply chain...which is nearly impossible in the case of porn and drugs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 10:23 AM
5	"Reformed sluts" are probably among the worst types to date. Reputation is definitely also a factor. The reason being is that it indicates he would be a man with so few options he would have to shack up with the town bike. It's an insult to his ability to find a better woman basically. Because she's been had by everyone and is less likely to be able to pair bond well. More so in the past when STDs were much harder to cure and it was common for most women to educate their daughters in keeping away from men who were not demonstrating good traits for marriag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 07:06 AM
1	Did men and women used to have lower sexual dimorphism in ancient times? Before the advent of hormonal birth control women were far more likely to select more masculine males for paring with. Capable, strong men (of mind and/or body) were far better equipped to be able to produce surplus resources needed for family survival. There was zero welfare, the world was dangerous, outsiders were a risky proposition - people NEEDED each other directly....you knew the man who herded or farmed, you knew the woman who weaved, you were probably related to half the people who prov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 07:03 AM
1	Did men and women used to have lower sexual dimorphism in ancient times? Even in academia it's becoming hard to talk about this because of modern ideologies creeping in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 06:55 AM
2	Let’s play devils advocate - Men, what issues do you empathize with women on that they have to deal with, and women, what issues do you empathize with men on that they deal with? This focused mostly on Western women - here are some issues I feel bad for them for. If they want traditional relationships it's much harder today - the pool of men able to provide shrinks as women graduate more and now earn more in the under 30s bracket. Men simply aren't raised as well anymore - many state education systems treat them like defective girls. This results in far more uninteresting, incompetent males who are simply not appealing to red blooded women for anything - whether she want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 06:48 AM
2	Do you think the popularity of Project Melody on Chaturbate proves that there is something up with modern women? Given people can make porn today with a camera phone almost anywhere I can't see this as a solution. It may end up like the war on drugs. I think more creative approaches including a focus on the culture are going to be more effective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 06:38 AM
7	"Reformed sluts" are probably among the worst types to date. The funny thing is even if I disregard it as a factor, for most women I know with high n-counts, they would still make terrible LTR candidates due to other attributes they have (lazy, debaucherous, self-centered etc.). Surprising coincidence, isn't it? People are complicated, but it would make sense that someone who is not a suitable candidate for an LTR will have many traits that work against them like the ones you mentioned - even without a high notch count you're not going to get excited abou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 06:37 AM
1	Dating experience and increased maturity for women versus men? I didn't catch your gender from your post and am assuming you are male - please correct me if I am wrong. Firstly 22 year old men are usually years off their prime - most men hit their looks peak around their early 30s (some even older). Second, women tend to mature faster than men. A woman in her early 20s will usually be more socially adept and 'wise' than a man of the same age (faster maturity plus different brains). Men don't even finish growing until 22-25 mentally and physically. Now I am …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 06:30 AM
1	The so-called "traditional" model serves for average men being able to control women A woman who gives up working to care for her family would be at the mercy of her husband's kindness and financial situation. Which is why if a woman wants this life she has a huge burden to carefully vet men to find one who is capable and trustworthy. Unless we're talking about Afghan hill tribes most of us have free choice in these matters... As a breadwinner, the husband would be able to get away with treating his wife badly (perhaps not necessarily at an abusive level), and their livelihoods …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 06:18 AM
10	"Reformed sluts" are probably among the worst types to date. By the term "reformed slut" I refer to women (since I don't think this applies to men) who engaged in casual hook ups in their early 20s, regretted it and now try to act like Mother Mary. It's more of a convenience term, I am not trying to insult women with high n-counts. This tends to suggest she's approaching her 'wall' and cannot attract the kind of men she used to be able to so suddenly finds Jesus and settles down so she can attract a man she might have long term prospects with, rather than…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 06:03 AM
1	What do you think of coffee first dates? Well if you never did anything with women besides drink coffee would attest to your lack of dating experience and skill. I was basically a playboy before I became a Christian - so I'll ignore your comments about lack of skill and experience entirely. I became abstinent after converting and married three years afterwards . My wife was introduced to me by a priest and our first three dates were over coffee - we followed a courtship model and avoided dating's tendency for perpetual recreation. I'm …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 05:44 AM
1	Do you think the popularity of Project Melody on Chaturbate proves that there is something up with modern women? Not sure how a ban would work. Massively increasing taxes on the porn industry would be a start though. And educating children in high school about the addictive effects - perhaps not deconstructing everything to do with more traditional morals and ethics would help too. It's the younger minds most at risk from this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 05:38 AM
5	Do you think the popularity of Project Melody on Chaturbate proves that there is something up with modern women? It's already happening - younger people have less sex and get married less. You can't run a civillisation this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 05:36 AM
3	Whether men like to admit it or not, we DO feel entitled to women and it is a huge part of why we feel the way we do. You're speaking for yourself now. Plenty of men don't think they are entitled to anything. And plenty of men are able to handle rejection and just move on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 01:02 PM
1	Straight people are nostalgic for awful times. There's freedom and there's regression. The collapse is likely. Or in the case of most Western nations, the white majorities will simply be replaced by immigrants. Same result either way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 12:51 PM
2	Straight people are nostalgic for awful times. The reason why we have the views we have now is because of a near total deconstruction of social and civil norms, the erosion of culture and religion and the lack of any viable replacements for whatever academia decides needs destroying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 12:40 PM
2	Straight people are nostalgic for awful times. I don't think many people want children to suffer. But no one wants to say that alongside help for these children we should have other measures to prevent these often too young women from broken homes from having children in the first place. Moral/ethical teaching. Science based warnings about the outcomes of poor choices. Birth control shots from puberty to age 21 (optional), lessons on vetting prospective partners, etc etc. Only treating the outcomes of bad choices doesn't reduce the probabili…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 12:09 PM
1	Straight people are nostalgic for awful times. Any private institution or individual can already do this if they want. Subsidizing people who choose to breed with people who are not capable of raising children without handouts from institutions or the State that is. I am assuming this is not something limited to widows and rape victims.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 12:00 PM
1	Straight people are nostalgic for awful times. But the only way to achieve this would be more taxes, more State control and power. And because it's the State they would encourage it over independent families caring for children because it means more votes and more control. When a family doesn't need the state they are not as easy to bribe with nice sounding ideas and handouts paid for by taxpayers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 11:41 AM
1	What do you think of coffee first dates? Would this be relevant if it were true?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 11:20 AM
2	The BP claims that its mens inability to adapt to the rise of the working woman and fulfill a caretaking role a major reason for the marriage crisis is kinda bullshit. True. It's also generally not as good for children as being cared for by their parents: Daycare isn't good for your children It's linked to higher rates of aggressive and disruptive behavior, weaker social skills, and weaker parental attachment. Additionally there are links to higher rates of anxiety and depression	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 11:20 AM
1	Chinese imperial harem as male ideal? The point of looking at this is to say that maybe this is what men, free of the concerns of money and social restriction ideally might want. I think a good way to tell if you actually want any woman at all in your life is to ask yourself two things and answer with extreme honesty: If neither of us had any interest in sex would I want to be around this person? If I had $10,000,000 in the bank would I be with this woman? I think a lot of men in relationships would answer no to these questions, whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 11:03 AM
19	Do you think the popularity of Project Melody on Chaturbate proves that there is something up with modern women? Do you believe that this is an example of what’s to come in the future as technology advances? Yes - many modern things are substitutes for human interaction and effort. Or is there something deeply wrong with these men who subscribe to these forms of entertainment? There is something wrong with the men and the women (and bot creators) pandering to it in my view. The effects of addition to porn and cheap thrills are still under study, but the initial results do not bode well for interpersonal re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 10:53 AM
1	What do you think of coffee first dates? However many it takes, not just the first date. I dated with a purpose. I was looking for a long term partner - marriage. So having goals like romance and perpetual recreation which dating encourages is not helpful. A woman with similar goals will have no problems with a courtship model - people always have a choice if you're upfront with them about what you're looking for out meeting someone - I'm big on choice. I prefer dates to be structured around everyday family and friends events than spec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 10:41 AM
1	The BP claims that its mens inability to adapt to the rise of the working woman and fulfill a caretaking role a major reason for the marriage crisis is kinda bullshit. Indeed. But there's quite a difference between daycare and care by close relatives...	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 10:36 AM
1	What’s considered “female nature” is actually human nature. Most things that are common to women can be found in men and vice versa. This doesn't change the general trends each gender has, or what the general mating strategy of men and women is. Something can be typically male or female and still be seen in the opposite sex to one degree or another. Women aren’t really seen as human. It's always easy for either gender to dismiss the experiences and differences of the other by accusing them of not seeing them as human - male suicides, life expectancy, hom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 10:02 AM
3	The BP claims that its mens inability to adapt to the rise of the working woman and fulfill a caretaking role a major reason for the marriage crisis is kinda bullshit. How much choice is involved when most of the media, entertainment industry, state school system and now even some religious groups all encourage a certain way of life for women? Under the old system we said women were being forced or brainwashed to be mothers and wives and look pretty and bake. So to fix this we've fixed the economy so most women have no choice but to work whether single or married, and brainwashed them to think anything else is slavery anyway. I feel sorry for many women today …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 09:49 AM
6	The BP claims that its mens inability to adapt to the rise of the working woman and fulfill a caretaking role a major reason for the marriage crisis is kinda bullshit. Because from my own experience, men who do assume the feminine role of support for a working spouse or have entertained the idea of ditching their stereotypical masculine role of becoming a primary breadwinner for a caretaking role, even with some part time employment experience a lot of hostility and derision from many women and are massively penalised in the dating market. There is some data to support this view: Stay at home Dad's more likely to divorce Men who earn less than their wives more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 09:43 AM
1	Chinese imperial harem as male ideal? It works if you are a medieval Chinese Emperor because the entire culture was geared to this system. The average man in China in that time who could afford to have several wives even had a somewhat different system to Imperial harems. The top of the tree is usually always different in every society. In a modern context, even in China it's going to be different even if you wanted to have a poly relationship with several woman. If you're looking at this you would need to frame it in your own cultu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 09:12 AM
2	Christian Girls From what I read, you think your works keep you saved. I think you read what you want to read rather than what is there. I am telling you that you lack love What a female way of debating! Next you'll be asking me "who hurt you" I suppose. Why are you calling instagram girls thots? Because a woman who puts pictures of herself online to attract men and gain 'likes' and validation is a Thot. It's not a hard concept. You think you're any better? Never said I was. I was responding to you. You're putt…	/r/RPChristians	23/02/20 08:47 AM
1	Christian Girls And now he's trying to lecture people who point this out on scripture and how they 'don't have Christ in their hearts' !	/r/RPChristians	23/02/20 08:38 AM
0	Christian Girls Perhaps you need to look at the beam in your own eye rather than the splinter in someone else's	/r/RPChristians	23/02/20 08:36 AM
1	Christian Girls Lol, dude, calm down a bit. I don't chat instathots anymore. I am just saying I had a way easier time with them. I'm not laughing, I don't like being called dude and I don't like being told to calm down. If you want nice, sweet comforting words I'm not your man. Sorry. If you have a correction to make because you have failed to explain yourself then do so without guessing the mental state of the person you are addressing. You had an easier time with fornicators and whores because that is the nat…	/r/RPChristians	23/02/20 08:30 AM
1	"Don't pay for the first date. Don't take care of a woman." and "Make him wait for sex" are two sides of the same coin. And are BAD ADVICE in both cases. Bad advice for dating. Perfect advice for courtship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 08:10 AM
2	What do you think of coffee first dates? I never did any other kind of date. It's low pressure, weeds out gold diggers and you can learn a lot about how someone is everyday in their manners and attire. When vetting people for LTRs this is invaluable. I save the treats and nice things for someone who has already committed...I had no need to impress strangers with my ability to by pay for meals, the theater or other things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 08:09 AM
2	Why don't adulterous men leave their wives? Many reasons. Just like how many women who cheat won't leave their husbands. Sometimes it's just about sex and the thrill of the whole thing. Sometimes they both know but don't want to break up the home because they have children and/or because of social shame and stigma. Most just want to have their cake and eat it though. It's often a sign of not trying in the relationship from one or both parties. Some people are just not able to control themselves though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 08:04 AM
1	Is the current state of the sexual market place skewed heavily in favor of women? Is the SMP heavily skewed in favor of women right now? It always has been, even in most primitive societies a large portion of males will never breed. Boil it down to evolution and it's clear men are disposable, and always have been. The different in the progressive modernist West is that men are also denigrated and despised.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 07:57 AM
0	When a man says they doesn't care about woman's career, job or education, he should be avoided at all costs When a man says they doesn't care about woman's career, job or education, he should be avoided at all costs If a woman doesn't want a career outside the home should she also avoid such men? There can be 3 reasons why a man would say that: He is very undesirable by woman, so he lower his standards as much as possible. Anything with a vagina would do. By saying he doesn't care about her career or education he is implicity stating he's more than able to provide for her material needs (unless he's j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 07:44 AM
3	Straight people are nostalgic for awful times. All I read here is "Give the State more money and power" - so it can do at greater financial cost what individuals can do for themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 07:36 AM
2	Straight people are nostalgic for awful times. The old Dynamic of I provide (male) and I'm pretty (female) is dying and honestly that's a good thing. You both have to be pretty now, you both should be able to provide for yourself or a partner. A good thing for you. You don't get to decide what other people prefer though. Even under the 'old system' plenty of women worked if they wanted to (or had to). For alot of us we won't have a dependent partner like that. No one is forcing you to. What's preferable to you might not be preferred for othe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 07:35 AM
3	Meeting people and dating especially changed after 2012 Tinder was released in 2012. Instagram became popular in 2012. Smart phones and 4g internet became popular in 2012. Online dating is generally cancer and any sensible human will avoid it. Incel rates started soaring in 2012. Yes, the fruits of decades of raising boys as defective girls, and the rise of the sense of entitlement without work have manifested themselves even in the dating world. Obesity rates started soaring after 2012. I think this goes back further. But the decline in physical edu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 07:28 AM
7	Why are so many incels and MGTOWers delighted at the thought of "post wall" women being rejected? You would think that lonely people struggling to find a partner would have compassion for others in the same position. Incels, why is it different when the person is a woman? Many feel vindicated in seeing women who have likely been raised to fail (denial of biological clock, inability to vet men well and thinking that competing with men is attractive to quality men etc) so they delight in seeing old women fail. But many women also delight in seeing incels fail. And they delight in denigrating t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 07:14 AM
-1	Christian Girls I had an easier time pulling instagram models than sub 5 genuine Christian girls (not cultural christians). As a Christian man you should not be chatting to InstaThots or wasting your time with any women who are not Christian. I am a born again Christian so I am not trying to date/fornicate anymore. So why are you admitting you've had an easier time pulling "Instagram models"? A fornicator and a whore is always going to be easier to open a dialogue or more with because they are loose women. I am…	/r/RPChristians	23/02/20 07:02 AM
2	The reason why men feel “lied to” by society about what women want is because, what women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are two different questions that we never differentiated This is why men should always look at a woman's actions first and foremost. What women say can vary from day to day and even different hours during the day. And this is never seen as lying or being inconsistent in their eyes. It is simply a different way of approaching things. The average woman is different to the average man. Men who cannot accept this basic truth will be upset with women and even hate them for being something they are not. The man that modernity in all it's feminist glory want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 06:47 AM
1	The reason why men feel “lied to” by society about what women want is because, what women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are two different questions that we never differentiated These women aren't conservative if they say that. In fact most conservatives aren't conservative - the conserve little and many certainly don't follow basic biblical tenets. Truth is a biblical virtue. A real Christian will always want a partner who shares their faith - but why would the lie about not caring if that partner is also intelligent, attractive etc? It's not like there aren't any men of good character around who are not also handsome and smart...	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/20 06:38 AM
1	"Sacrificing" your career Anyone who thinks spending time to raise their own children...their own genetic legacy, is somehow a 'sacrifice' from work needs their head examining. Why is the man never really considered "sacrificing" for this to happen? Because of the solipsistic nature of the modern women, where everything is about her. Many are unable to appreciate or understand the male experience but are insistent men understand theirs - and work and chance to accommodate them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/20 06:10 AM
6	Men aren’t angry because they realized women want Chad. They’re angry because they realized they aren’t Chad. Men aren’t angry because they realized women want Chad. They’re angry because they realized they aren’t Chad. In some cases this is true - but that would only apply to men who are not willing to put in the work to make themselves better. Women do this too. Some of them simply refuse to better themselves and make themselves and their lives attractive to the kinds of people they claim to want and desire. People who think others should 'love them as they are' when they are fat, lazy, rude, unintere…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/20 06:02 AM
1	Men slut shame women more than woman slut shame each other. Some people are jealous...jealous of sexual competitors. This is not a theory - people often compete for the affections of what they see as worthy mates. And responses to competition vary from attempting to undermine potential threats (shaming, spreading rumours, questioning character and motives etc) to attempting to better oneself to exceed that which one feels is a threat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/20 09:09 AM
1	Men slut shame women more than woman slut shame each other. In my experience women slut shame far more than men. Often as a way to try and depreciate the competition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 01:05 PM
5	Does attraction mean anything to men? I've never been so thirsty I would sleep with anyone, and I have been a very naughty boy in the past. I know men who do fit that bill and I know men who come to blows if you tried to even advocate anything other than strict monogamy - and in both cases it had little to do with the men's SMV. I know of men who will pay prostitutes and just sit and talk, ask for a massage and basically satisfy their craving for sympathetic connection with a woman. I know others who use them for what everyone think…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 01:02 PM
2	Women with less ambitious partners The internet brings out the best and worst...as a mass medium it easy to spread bad ideas or half understoon ones. Red Pill for women is different, but it still boils down to own your choices, make yourself the best version of yourself, and accept the different natures of men and women. Feminine women attract masculine men and vice versa....half the red pill is just what the average person before 1965 knew to be true about the nature of men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 12:45 PM
2	Q4A: Married Redditors on PPD, Why Did You Marry, Have Gender Issues Caused Problems, and Would You Marry Again? For the married redditors, why did you marry? I married because I am a traditionalist - I don't want illegitimate children or any kind of co-habitation. I am also religious and rebel against modernity when I can. I see marriage as a contract that forms the basis for wider family and community rights and obligations...not just a hearts and flowers romance thing. Have gender issues such as unequal chore division of childcare come up? Gender issues are what other people have, not us. I was upfront …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 12:10 PM
1	Even though women seemingly lose out- are patriarchal marriages the only marriages that can seemingly last and provide contentment? The current process is already long and complex. If you don't agree that people shouldn't just be able to get divorced because they get bored and lazy you're entitled to your opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 11:30 AM
1	Women with less ambitious partners Even Rollo Tomassi doesn't present the red pill the way many self described 'red pillers' present it. A generation looking for quick fix cheat codes to life tends to lack nuance. Ultimately the real Red Pill is a man who works hard to improve his mind and body will have a better chance in work, health and relationships than one who does not...rather than whining about hypergamy many of these guys should be putting energy into themselves. And there's a female Red Pill as well. I am sure there are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 11:28 AM
1	Women with less ambitious partners Hypergamy is not a straitjacket. It's just an evolved social dynamic. It is not a binary absolute (you either satisfy it and are the golden boy, or you don't and you are absolutely nothing to her). A woman's ability to 'optimize hypergamy' is relative to her own appraisal of her own SMV as much as an objective appraisal of a man. And women are also not robots (usually haha). They are sentient beings who will have their broad gender mating strategies wrapped up in their personal set of needs and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 10:10 AM
1	How much does a career offer in terms of increasing the male smv? I never said teachers have high SMV. In fact I was pretty clear they do not...except perhaps at the high level in Universities where they earn more and have more prestige. Some women want intelligence more than looks. Some want brawn. Some want wit. Some want talent. Some want combinations and will make trade offs. I know military men who have very plain wives as well as hot wives. SMV is as much about who's looking as what there actually is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 09:25 AM
1	Even though women seemingly lose out- are patriarchal marriages the only marriages that can seemingly last and provide contentment? If we assume each trial will take 5 days (which doesn't include all the pretrial conferences), what is your proposal to accomodate the extra 12,095,980 court days required annually? Divorces are not usually trials, they are hearings and negotiations. And they can take months or even years regardless of reason in most jurisdictions. I think you haven't understood my comment - I have proposed measures to reduce divorce and make it fairer when it does happen. A spouse letting themselves go is not s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 09:19 AM
0	Unattractive/beta men just aren’t meant to have sex and they should just accept it. For millennia in most functional societies many men never reproduced. Male mortality from childhood until adulthood is higher than females for starters. Even without counting male mortality most males don't get picked by most females...in the past a man was only attractive if he could provide a measure of stability and protection. In a world without Welfare, modern medicine and where even travel was risky due to man and beast and weather a thinking woman who wanted her genes to propogate had to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 09:05 AM
3	Strong welfare and equal rights for women leads to Eugenics In the countries where women have equal rights and weflare policies, women do not have any incentive to associate with men who they deem of less value even if they make money and can support a woman finanicaly. It's actually the total opposite. Women have no incentive to select stable, long term thinking men who have the ability to provide for them and their children because the State does that. They can instead select men for short term mating strategies knowing sex is just a dopamine hit, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 08:00 AM
2	Do men only care about sex? I'm a man and I desire good sex with a decent woman. I also require companionship, love, respect and affection. Creating myself and living the best life I can enables this to be a reality for me. I want a healthy, productive relationship and a legacy in my family and community. I will and do worker harder as a result of this. Sex is very important to me without a doubt, for I express love with it. But so is raising my children well, and having a good home, a network of people who share my values…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 07:44 AM
2	Even though women seemingly lose out- are patriarchal marriages the only marriages that can seemingly last and provide contentment? but how do women feel in such a scenario? How do women feel about men wanting sex, loyalty and their wish to be loved? No healthy, normal thinking human being would look down on this. If a woman loves a man it is shown through her actions - which will include sex, loyalty and acts of affection and love. If a woman doesn't have these things why would she be with a man? Unless she's forced to marry (which is not common even in many patriarchal cultures - the concept of consent can be seen in parts…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 07:36 AM
1	CMV: Since Women Are The Gatekeepers of Sex Before And After Marriage, and Initiate Dovorce More Than Men, Women Too Contol Commitment This is only true if the man has no frame, no self worth and doesn't know how to lead. A thirsty beta will always be at risk of being used because of his need for sex...the person who needs the most has the least power. This is why many women find me who don't need sex threatening. They deride them because they know they have nothing else to offer. But in any case women have always been the primary choosers. A 'red pilled' stable woman is still choosing a quality man and accepts his frame and su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 05:42 AM
1	The Philosophy Side of The Bible Would y’all recommend non-believers who have taken the Red Pill to read The Bible, whether they believe in Jesus or not? Absolutely. There are many firm moral truths in the bible even when read from a totally secular viewpoint. Truth is truth no matter what. There are many truly human stories there, many familiar acts and thoughts from thinking, feeling people we can draw deep lessons from.	/r/RPChristians	20/02/20 05:38 AM
1	Is it possible that women ride the carosel in college because they don’t understand that male sexual attention is very cheap? There are many reasons but some women crave validation and attention - simple as that. They are likely not happy inside and derive their happiness from outside themselves. Like many things this can be tracked back to childhood. Well raised people don't feel a need to flaunt themselves or sleep around just to get a dopamine fix and feel good about themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/20 05:24 AM
9	[CMV] Women's hypergamy is dysgenic and anti-civilisation It's dysgenic when a society has no boundaries about promiscuity and divorce and children born out of wedlock. It's dysgenic when a society forces producers to pay tax which is given to women who make bad choices repeatedly and subsidizes their breeding and degenerate lifestyles. In the past men had incentive to work hard because they knew by doing that they could find a partner. Having a relationship would also motivate you to work and help balance out the stresses of a long day True. And this …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/20 11:34 AM
1	How much does a career offer in terms of increasing the male smv? Having a career (most people have jobs) usually means (not always) being in a relatively stable profession or industry, with fairly clear growth prospects. Depending on what a woman is looking for this can be quite attractive. Common sense would suggest having a career would mean being above average in some way but it depends on the career. Teachers in most countries don't earn much except at the university level or if they work in private fee paying schools...saying you're a high school teacher…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/20 10:22 AM
13	[Q4All] Women who are reluctant to provide porn-like sex. Men who are reluctant to providing romanticism. Are you expecting your partner to indulge in theses, respectively? What on earth is 'porn-like sex'? Unpleasurable positions to suit better camera angles? Porn rarely shows anything close to everyday sexual encounters, is not a good guide for average people to base their own love lives on. No more than watching action movies is a good way to learn how to properly fight or shoot guns. It's acting - it's fantasy - it's fake. Designed to give you your dopamine fix until the next time... Most men want to be desired by a woman - genuine desire not negotiated or begr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/20 10:03 AM
1	CMV: It’s easy to make a girl fall for you. One of the most alpha men I know is called Norman - utter scoundrel with a stunning and lovely wife many are jealous of. If you want to 'make' a woman fall for you make yourself interesting and like able. It's that simple. The focus is chasing excellence, not women. Excellent men barely need to try and attract women, even if they are average looking Normans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/20 07:11 AM
1	I tried to do good works, and effectively got insulted in return. Could use advice with handling this situation I think you should completely cast it all out of your mind. If you offer someone a friendly face to vent at and they refuse that's their problem not yours. You already lied about not being interested in her and that's set the tone - so you shouldn't try to back track and be friends - you're not her girlfriends or her priest/pastor so it's not really your concern to do anything except pray for her and live your best life. She doesn't owe you anything - and her actions confirm she's not interested…	/r/RPChristians	17/02/20 01:04 PM
1	Why would anybody want marriage? Government was not mentioned - just the idea of monogamous marriage. How, why and if the State needs to be involved due to matters of inheritance, divorce, children's rights, tax, etc is another discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/20 11:57 AM
2	Why would anybody want marriage? No one is forcing you to marry so are you asking this to find further justification for why you personally don't like the idea of marriage - or are you sincerely looking to be convinced?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/20 11:55 AM
1	Is it women’s duty to satisfy men? Women today in the West are relying on large numbers of thirsty beta cucks to become their slaves and keep the society that hates men from collapsing. As they have the vote and outnumber men they will be able to play the system for a while longer at least. No politician will dare upset female voters. It's unsustainable of course. Although I don't think it's as simple as women pleasing men. But when the power goes out and the water stops running a lot of women will become very much aware of men's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/20 11:51 AM
3	So do guys only want sex? Or do they want relationships Ask different guys and get different answers. It's probably a surprise to many, but it's also possible to have lots of sex inside a relationship too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/20 11:34 AM
1	Why would you expect people to maintain a naive vision of loving throughout their lives? Ive seen some salty comments here and there on the internet about how a woman is messing things up for her future partners if she decides to not be stupid with. Her love again. As if she doesn't have a right to grow and learn? I don't think many people, men or women, truly grow or learn. That is the worst kind of naivity and at the root of people's problems. I also think some people are capable of growing and learning without needing to make major mistakes that can have life-altering consequence…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/20 10:54 AM
1	Which sex has an easier time suppressing their biological imperative? Biological imperatives are tendencies not rules written in stone that everyone cannot help but be pushed towards. Every individual will have varying degrees of it within a gender. There are so many contributing factors that will encourage controlling the imperative or pushing it to run wild...including individual and group genetics, religion, culture,and environment. So for either sex to have an easier time suppressing basic biological imperatives one would need to look at environment and geneti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/20 10:33 AM
3	What are some things women think men like but are very wrong about? The biggest one, at least with the average modern western woman is that many firmly believe men find the same things attractive as they do. They seem genuinely shocked that we aren't getting hard and horny for their degrees, or their professional achievements. And they seem shocked to discover that beauty and agreeableness are sexier than a woman's job title, or her impact in the business world. Unless I need supporting financially (which the vast majority of women won't do and be happy with) wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/20 09:17 AM
1	Men aren’t less shallow than women; they’re just hornier. This is so true. In the under 30s bracket women the average western woman is getting better education and better jobs. She also has more laws specifically favouring her. Yet her biology still dictates she find men of at least 'a few notces' higher up the socio-economic ladder (or some other higher trait or talent)...or at least with potential to move up the ranks a few spots at least in a reasonable time frame. A person can be shallow. Men and women following their biology isn't shallow - it's n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/20 08:29 AM
1	Why is it so common for men to think that if a girl is nice to him, she must want him? Most men do not have much in the way of love, affection and attention in their lives - including men in relationships. They have a large deficit that can cause a deep yearning for affection and attention. This often results in innocent friendliness being interpreted as desire. If you want to know more about this look up how some prostitutes/mistresses don't even sleep with their a lot of their clients, they talk with them and given them affection they don't get elsewhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/20 08:23 AM
1	Aren’t women with high notch counts men’s best bet? Much depends on what one wants. If you have no intention of a serious, long term relationship then this would be 100% correct in societies where promiscuity is easy and acceptable. There are plenty of women who sleep around who are not very fond of men though - they might like sex but actually liking men is another matter. If this were the case prostitutes and porn starts would all love men - which is not always the case. If one wanted to start a family, marry etc then they would be the worst ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/20 07:43 AM
3	Dating friends vs. dating women you don’t know entirely well You haven't stated your end goal here. Based on your statements I think it's reasonable to assume you're looking for a wider pool of prospective women to marry - and I think I can safely assume like most men you want a woman who is genuinely attracted to you (if these assumptions are wrong please correct me). Women are drawn to interesting men. From a purely worldly sense a man with passions, interest and hobbies who is chasing his own excellence is far more interesting than a man trying to befr…	/r/RPChristians	16/02/20 07:58 AM
1	What do you guys think about this? If we are Christians we have the Spirit of truth is within us - our frame is Christ in that sense.	/r/RPChristians	14/02/20 01:36 PM
1	Why do you think men are more prone to anger/rage? Good point about people that transition. I knew someone in my extended circle whose gf decided she was a man and went on the hormones (they broke up). She become violently aggressive, argumentative and generally unpleasant - even with dose adjustments she/he is now known for being a very aggressive. Women aren't raised with a lifetime of experience to manage the T...well raised men can have the stuff raging all day long and keep it under control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 01:13 PM
1	Why do you think men are more prone to anger/rage? Testosterone is the prime driver...a lifetime of it (especially from puberty onwards) certainly makes men more aggressive in almost every aspect of life. Social condition can positively (self control, healthy outlets for anger, positive masculine bonding and influence) affect it...and negative conditioning can make it worse (no self control, negative male influence, unhealthy outlets etc). No doubt men's lives can produce anger to. In almost every traditional gender role anywhere we are expected…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 01:10 PM
21	Someone Suggested I Crosspost This Here Then, my wife came on staff as the pastor’s administrative assistant. It was okay—at first. Then, she began working crazy hours. She’d be at the church from 9am-10pm nearly every day. There began to be nights where they’d be there alone until midnight or 1am. I voiced my concerns. I was treated like I was bringing baseless accusations. This is where the massive red flag went up for me. You asked what we would do - I'll tell you my thoughts. I'm sorry in advance if it's raw or rude in anyway. You…	/r/RPChristians	13/02/20 12:52 PM
1	If a man has an ugly face, can building a muscular body make that much of a difference in improving attraction? Any man who exercises and minds his diet will improve his looks (same with women). However a man must develop his mindset first and foremost if he wants lasting success in anything - work or women or just keeping the motivation to exercise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 06:19 AM
4	What do you guys think about this? MGTOW is a symptom of a dying culture and people. Men are leaders and doers. Going off in a huff and sulking in dark corners of the web is passive aggressive, it's weak. It's sinful. These are not men to follow any more than we would follow a feminist. We must be our own frame of reference. We must chase God's excellence. If we wish to marry we do it according to God's law and our own best choices. We must learn to vet...in many countries we'll need to protect ourselves with pre-nups as well. We…	/r/RPChristians	13/02/20 06:12 AM
1	How to stop being a people-pleaser I was raised the same way - the results were me pleasing completely unworthy people and basically wasting years of my personal and professional life. It takes time (and sometimes trauma) to break free of this conditioning. Our sense of community and helping others has been warped and new ways of thinking have to be developed. I would suggest reading The Way Of Men by Jack Donovan...and focusing your energies on self development. You need to socialise with better men who are chasing their own exc…	/r/RPChristians	13/02/20 05:55 AM
3	There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to. Women have less incentive to change in societies where men have low standards/are encouraged to chase sex and do whatever women want, and where promiscuity is acceptable and even promoted. Naturally this doesn't help them secure high value males though. So a thinking women who wants to have something better than cheap lays and relationships with sub-par men will still need to work on herself. Even if she's attractive if she wants a quality man she'll need to preserve her beauty and learn to care…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 05:49 AM
1	How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids? You're welcome. I hope my answer provides some food for thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 05:40 AM
1	[CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had. And you too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 05:39 AM
1	[CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had. No one said not having children automatically equals hedonism. Faithful and dutiful monks and nuns have proved that for centuries. When someone posts on a forum promoting a life of work, casual sex and consumption thy can't moan when the word hedonism comes up in response....	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 05:39 AM
3	There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to. Red Pill theory is just a tool, one of many. Some people seem to think it's the be all end all because they have no knowledge of things like r/K selection theory or developments from that. Discounting factors like culture, religion, societal access to resources and individual variation in favour of broad brush terms is rarely going to create a multi-faceted appraisal of reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 07:50 AM
1	How come tradcons aren’t open to adopting kids? Many orphanages are run by churches. Plenty of tradcons run fostercare homes. Not sure where you are getting your information from really...before the advent of state welfare pretty much all orhans were taken in by the churches and/or rich Christian people. Most churches donate to orphans, widows and foster care homes in their areas. Most traditional churches would be a good point of call to speak to people about adoption in fact. I know a number of people who couldn't have children for one reas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 07:42 AM
1	Pursuit of status, no matter how dangerous I don't doubt it. I would question how red pilled someone is if they cannot see the individual as clearly as the group, or if they ignore culture and religion. Many are still very angry about certain truths, and have yet to apply them as just one of many tools for navigating life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 07:04 AM
3	Pursuit of status, no matter how dangerous Women are more than the sum of hypergamy. There are cultural and religious factors, plus her own estimation of her own ranking and worthiness. Some women won't even date outside their racial group, and others will. No doubt some women would sleep with Bin Ladin. But I know attractive women who have refused the advances of very wealthy men in my own circles....men with a lot less baggage than Bin Ladin, who tick a lot more positive boxes. So the answer is probably "it depends".	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 06:26 AM
22	There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to. I think both men and women often have a disconnect of what is attractive and what they think is attractive. A lot of men think women should 'love them as they are' but they present no markers of attraction in mindset or body. The rise of the incel is marked by men who refuse to change, who won't accept some women will never like them even if they look like Brad Pitt and who think women must love them as they are... On the flip side we have women with very unrealistic veiws of their own attractiv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 06:16 AM
1	Q&A With an untrusting wife This is very interesting and thoughtful. I can imagine it will upset some modern sensibilities though! I asked my wife about this, and she said that a woman who chooses to marry a man has to trust him and accept his decisions - which is why it's crucial to vet carefully (applies to men as well of course). Aside from adultery there are not really any biblical grounds for divorce, certainly not money or simply being 'unhappy' (sorry but no fault divorce doesn't cut it)...so asking lots of question…	/r/RPChristians	12/02/20 06:03 AM
0	[CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had. You're making a lot of effort now - I'm replying out of politeness but really don't care what you think and certainly won't be addressing all those paragraphs. Thanks for your time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 05:40 AM
1	[CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had. I have children, include one about to file a patent, who has offers for STEM scholarships. I find the harder I work the luckier I am. I clearly have a very different mindset and view to you - and apparently a lot more confidence in my ability to raise well adjusted people. Thank you for your comments - I don't particularly care if you think my views are wishful thinking or not...I am living the outcomes and don't require your approval.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 03:24 AM
5	[CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had. It seems that not only do you need to validate your own choices, but you also feel threatened when people who make difference choices criticise the choices you advocate. You don't get to tell me what's important, and you're assuming I care what you think in any case. Go and enjoy yourself - no one is stopping you. Why waste your time here? Go out and eat and screw for pleasure. Every minute you waste with the doormats is a minute you don't get back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 03:21 AM
0	[CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had. You're missing the point entirely. And you're playing on the fact of being animals to hide the fact that calling another person an animal is widely regarded as an insult. Thank you for your comments.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 03:19 AM
2	Men, do you feel like you’re made out to be dangerous/a threat? True. Weak men are far more dangerous because they have low to no self control. Strong men can turn off any impulse they wish...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 06:17 PM
1	Men, do you feel like you’re made out to be dangerous/a threat? I'm above average height and look like a man from every angle. That's immediately a potential threat to some people I suppose. I also know my own value and am my own point of reference...that makes me dangerous to a lot of people, especially women. But i'm a big softie really...honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 06:16 PM
0	Would it be better for everyone if women couldn’t work? Amazing how everything is taken so personally isn't it? I'm sorry you're only able to attract fat, balding men instead of men who practice self care though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 06:06 PM
-1	[CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had. You're arguing facts I don't dispute to refute the psychological, emotional and societal impact of widespread belief man is a mere animal. If it means nothing to you that's great. I'm interested in wider impacts and outcomes, not individuals who have it all worked out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 06:04 PM
0	Would it be better for everyone if women couldn’t work? It's not about you though. Individuals vary even if group rules are true. I think equality is a lie, and believe men and women are different and compliment each other. Just having this opinion seems to trigger some women....and please others. Weird how that works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 06:01 PM
1	[CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had. My eldest son is close to filing his first patent. He's being offered scholarships from top tier institutions for his engineering work. You've chosen your path. I have chosen mine. You don't have to convince me your way is superior. Go and live it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 05:57 PM
0	Would it be better for everyone if women couldn’t work? Are you suggesting women prefer to have long term fulfilling relationships with men they look down on? That they knowingly choose men who are weaker, poorer, less intelligent, shorter, and less able to successfully navigate life? This must be why taller, richer and more aggressive men just can't seem to get laid anywhere, let alone find a wife. All those poor athletes, scientists and millionaires. If only women would love them for who they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 12:57 PM
8	[CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had. Your need to justify your own exit from the gene pool is interesting. I think you're very concerned with it. Anyway the doormats have work to do. Look out your window and remember that world was build by doormats. Enjoy your life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 12:51 PM
-1	Would it be better for everyone if women couldn’t work? Women have always worked - unless married to rich men who can provide them with an allowance, and staff to clean, cook and do the laundry. Working class women worked in their homes for their families - given the absence of post industrial age comforts we take for granted, things like laundry, cleaning and preparing meals were full time jobs. I'm always weary of looking at the past with rose tinted glasses, however today a woman who doesn't work outside the home will have a LOT more free time to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 12:46 PM
0	[CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had. As a detached,, clinical definition this is true. Most human beings are not inclined to apply such detached definitions to their lives, and certainly derive little meaning or motivation from them though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 12:22 PM
7	[CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had. In the sense the she controls the male with sex and/or her validation or approval I would say quite a lot of women do share a lot in common with bonobos today, including normalised promiscuity and cuckoldry of provider males. Naturally they are not exactly like bonobos...but I am assuming I don't need to add caveats about literally being like apes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 12:21 PM
10	[CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had. Men are kept passive with porn additions and/or hook up culture. Chasing the next cheap lay or jacking off session is pretty much all there is to it. Unless you're saying we have a cultural standard of temperance, self control and long term multi-generational thinking pushed out by the state education system and media?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 10:50 AM
5	Be my friend? Unless one is a traditional Maori there's no need to get a face tattoo at all.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	11/02/20 10:27 AM
1	How does a guy not know anything about girls? Mothers can lie and set their sons up to fail. Useless and/or absent fathers can also set their sons to fail. The media and education system pumps out 'blue pill' mantra's all the time for boys to soak up as well. Most men (in western countries) are raised never to be critical of women, always to believe them and certainly not to hold them to the same standards as men. Given how many people now grow up with single parents, and without strong community it's far more likely a boy (or a girl) will …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 09:38 AM
-3	[CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had. That we are 'just an animal' is an opinion....as valid as any other I suppose. Telling generations of particular nations they are just animals seems to have certainly had some effect, alongside changing technologies and top down social engineering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 09:02 AM
3	Women are not more attractive than men on average I can believe that. I've seen a few articles that show women won't even swipe unless the man is in the top 30% by her estimation - assuming she's using the app for wanting to meet people, rather than just for validation. In any case Tinder and other apps are pretty unfriendly environments for the average straight male - a waste of time really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 06:16 AM
71	[CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had. Not everyone wants to live in the shallow consumer bonobo masturbation society. Those who do are welcome to do so of course. I do wonder why they have a need to keep validating their choices though. Like the 'strong, independent woman' who constantly needs to affirm she 'don't need no man', I find men who sign up for the brave new world of fucking, eating, working and dying alone need to tell us how wonderful it is. When these childless hedonists have died out, other people's children will be bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 05:42 AM
2	What are your thoughts on the changing nuclear family? A nuclear family is only part of a wider family - it's just the smallest block in a bigger unit. It may centre around the husband and wife, but that connects to grandparents, uncles, aunts and cousins. It's pretty obvious that better outcomes exist for children on average when they have two parents and a wider extended family. Given we evolved this way it makes sense. A nuclear family alone is the absolute smallest family unit - and while it is certainly better than one parent raising children a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 05:37 AM
0	Women are not more attractive than men on average Interesting. Men also aren't using online dating apps simply to collect likes and validate themselves either - a significant portion of women do that so they don't bother to even swipe/like men that do that to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 05:30 AM
2	Does it turn you off when a woman makes more money than you? It's not even on the radar. As long as she doesn't have pointless debt and demonstrates an ability to wisely manage money regardless of her level I don't think see money as having any bearing at all in finding a woman attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/20 06:14 AM
1	CMV: Male thirst is as big of a problem as female pickiness. Both genders have their issues. Male thirst is a real thing and leads men to poor choices in women. Women's need for validation leads them to make poor choices as well. Not appreciating something that's a dime a dozen is a real thing too - high value men won't appreciate women who flaunt their sexuality in public and/or who have high notch counts...and high value women won't appreciate me who thirst for every female they see and cannot control themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/20 06:13 AM
0	How to regain reputation/dignity? There's no need to apologise or feel bad. However, it's never a bad idea to keep some cards close to your chest in future, especially at work and in certain social situations. As a rule ask yourself what is the benefit to you and those closest to you if you wear your political 'heart on your sleeve' in an age of increased polarisation, where people loose jobs and business opportunities just for having certain opinions. This is simply about seeing the bigger and longer term picture, not being wor…	/r/RPChristians	10/02/20 06:08 AM
1	Shouldn’t female hypergamy be fulfilled by the average man? Different groups of humans have different average IQs. Rather than name calling you had an opportunity to disprove this...the fact that you went for the personal attack says a lot about you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/20 12:20 PM
1	Shouldn’t female hypergamy be fulfilled by the average man? Not surprised with the state of Government run education and the rising imported lower-IQ demographics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/20 07:21 AM
2	Shouldn’t female hypergamy be fulfilled by the average man? Hypergamy is not the sole driver of attraction in women....there are all sorts of individual and cultural factors at play as well. We know in virtually every society the average women does pair with average men...because on average men are taller, stronger, have more earning potential etc. We also know that in most Western countries the education and media machines brainwash boys into becoming more effeminate which has made the male average drop. At the same time women are getting more degrees, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/20 07:17 AM
3	Men overestimate how much women care about male approval Most women care more about what other women think than what men think. Beyond validation from men that low self esteem women have, most don't care unless the man is close to them and/or they find the man attractive...and a good number of women don't even care much for what men close to them think as a number of married men will attest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/20 07:05 AM
2	Is cheating more acceptable in some cultures over others? Marriage is supposed to create a stable environment for children to be raised. Cultures that don't think a generation or two ahead tend not to last very long, or be very stable. We know from multiple studies that giving children the best chance in life means giving them a mother and father in their lives. This makes marriage a social/communal contract as much as a personal commitment. I can see how some cultures take this to mean people can take discreet lovers outside of it if it has no effect …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/20 06:37 AM
1	I’m at a confusing place and don’t know what to do MATTHEW 5:28 tends to answer this point rather well. Cheating, lusting and that includes flirting and general impropriety are all forms of sin. Speed dating would suggest someone is not simply open to a relationship, but is unable to vet one by one in a formal and deliberate manner. Hence Christians need to promote courtship not dating - which involves the input of older, wiser heads in the vetting process to help offset the distraction of hormones. The average 20 year old Western woman has near…	/r/RPChristians	09/02/20 06:10 AM
1	I’m at a confusing place and don’t know what to do Emotional cheating is a thing as well...and leads to physical cheating.	/r/RPChristians	07/02/20 07:07 AM
1	[Update] Wife advice Thanks for the update. These things are done a day at a time. You won't see immediate results but you'll look back in months and be able to see changes. You're building stronger frame, and demonstrating self care and higher value. You're building a masculine man and she'll respond step by step by becoming a more feminine woman hopefully. Whatever happens you'll be happier when you are fitter, stronger and growing your knowledge and character. Keep fighting the good fight. None of us are perfect …	/r/RPChristians	07/02/20 07:06 AM
1	Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years. Everyone gets less fertile as they age. Men and women's fertility is rather different though. It's a lot more likely that a healthy 50 year old man can father a viable child than a 50 year old woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/20 06:19 AM
1	I’m at a confusing place and don’t know what to do This must be a cultural thing in North America - dating around. No wonder your society and women have a reputation for being untrustworthy and promiscuous. An actual Christian woman would be a lot more guarded about her reputation, and a lot clearer about her intentions. In any case the OP has no abundance mindset, is clearly setting himself up to enter the friendzone, and is failing to follow advice from two people in positions of leadership and trust. He would be better off working on himself …	/r/RPChristians	07/02/20 06:16 AM
1	Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years. Like my Dad. He was 50 when I was born. My twin sisters were born 5 years after. Men are definitely all done by 35	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/20 08:52 PM
1	I’m at a confusing place and don’t know what to do Your first mistake was to ask her to go for coffee 'as friends' after she said she's " kinda talking to someone else (a rejection, but only half-hearted - this is a woman who doesn't set boundaries, doesn't respect a man she's already talking to (by stopping if she wants to talk to someone else) . These are things that will become red flags down the trail. You're also making the mistake of trying to see a girl you liked romantically in a friendly light in order to hang out with her - you're putt…	/r/RPChristians	06/02/20 08:34 PM
4	There are a lot of jewelry commercials encouraging men to buy expensive gifts for the woman in their life... why is there no female equivalent to this? Any woman raised in the modern, western, secular hyper-individualistic culture will indeed be likely to think this way. It's feeding their worst impulses and denying the shit outcomes. Just as it feeds ours worst impulses as men: Alcohol, drug and porn addictions, carb and sugar laden foods, entitlement and short term thinking, no accountability, sports addiction to replace genuine tribal/communal ties, etc isn't doing men any favours either. Breaking free of this is imperative for men (or women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/20 07:05 AM
3	Relationship books say, the longer you wait for sex, the more likely the man will commit to a woman. Why do most men push for sex early on then? Men push for sex early on for a number of reasons: Today we have few cultural or religious (or legal) reasons not to wait. Regular women are easily available and make it obvious they are available. Most men are thirsty and will say and do almost anything to get laid in any case. The false sense of security modern contraception gives removes barriers as well. When you live in a culture where 'nice girls' will meet a man in a bar or party and screw his brains out within a few hours of meeting him,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/20 07:00 AM
1	CMV: Most women don't "settle for betas". They marry the hottest, most stable guy that they are able to snatch. Only unstable, unintelligent or emotionally damaged women would settle with a beta. They want a man who is at least equal or better than them in areas that matter to them. That's usually height/phsyicality, character, wealth, intelligence, talent etc. It's always been this way. A women with a brain isn't going to breed with a beta. That said we have growing evidence the widespread use of the contraceptive pill keeps women in the part of their cycle where they prefer softer men. We are seeing a l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/20 06:34 AM
2	There are a lot of jewelry commercials encouraging men to buy expensive gifts for the woman in their life... why is there no female equivalent to this? I think we all agree much is broken and needs to change. Men who engage in the hook up Tinder thot culture aren't exactly improving anything - I'm sure it's nice to get that thirst quenched though, and it's certainly a big ego boost to pump and dump women they have no respect for. And yeah, many men are still playing those 'old rules' too, with 'new women' and getting cucked left, right and centre. But who's fault is that? These men need to learn to vet, and stop being thirsty dogs looking for p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/20 06:28 AM
11	Why do some people criticize toxic masculinity, but still use "virgin" as an insult? Because of hypocrisy. Like how women claim to the strong, free and liberated yet will accuse each other of sleeping around. Modern ideology meets biological reality. Here's the reality" Most men will, given the opportunity have sex with a wide range of women. Most women will not have sex with a wide range of men though. A man with multiple women who want to pair with him (dating lots of women, multiple wives or concubines etc) means he is a differentiated product that is sought after. Thus, call…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/20 05:43 AM
0	Why doesn’t being hurt by alphas make women attracted to betas? Some women are able to see where they have gone wrong (offering themselves without commitment to any man, especially an alpha, will not make a quality man want to commit to anything - she's simply said she's easy and likely will do the same when someone 'better' comes along...so men see such women as pump and dump prospects and little else). However attraction is still attraction. If I get hurt by a really good looking women does that men that after that I will only date ugly women? Women who ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/20 05:34 AM
1	There are a lot of jewelry commercials encouraging men to buy expensive gifts for the woman in their life... why is there no female equivalent to this? I cannot tell you why 'we' should get a girlfriend. Or why you think you'll get more meaning and satisfaction in life screwing cheap thots. You need to find your own meaning and purpose in life. If that's a full subscription to the hedonisic crass consumer hyper-individualistic culture that caused most of these issues in the first place go and do that then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/20 05:26 AM
3	There are a lot of jewelry commercials encouraging men to buy expensive gifts for the woman in their life... why is there no female equivalent to this? How many women work in advertising? How many women expect gifts for birthdays, valentines etc? How many women drop hints to their partners about wanting gifts? This is not complicated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/20 05:24 AM
4	There are a lot of jewelry commercials encouraging men to buy expensive gifts for the woman in their life... why is there no female equivalent to this? Because men buy things for women when asked/encouraged. It's not hard to understand. The people making most of the wealth aren't the ones controlling or influencing how it is spent. Advertisers know men buy gifts for women (worthy not) because men have pressure in most cultures to buy things for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/20 05:23 AM
154	There are a lot of jewelry commercials encouraging men to buy expensive gifts for the woman in their life... why is there no female equivalent to this? Because women control consumer spending. About 85% of everything purchased is based on a decision a woman has majority influence over or on her behalf. Even in societies where most women don't work full time this is true. Women consume more than men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 01:21 PM
35	Men who say they were “lied to about women’s nature”: what do you mean? What did you used to believe? Most men are taught to be good men, but they are no longer taught to be good at being men. So they just seem weak and ineffective. Most women are taught to be good at being women, but not taught to be good women anymore. So they just seem to be narcissistic and solipsistic users.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 01:11 PM
1	Rollo Tomassi In Real Life In real life he's married to a good looking woman, and is by most measures a successful husband and father, with his own property, hobbies and interests. He keeps fit and healthy for his age, and while he's not a big, jacked guy he's not a wimpy soy boy either. Anyone who pays attention to his books will remember he actually caveats repeatedly that the Red Pill is not empirical, and is just a tool (one of many) men can use to build a better life for themselves. He's a human being with flaws same…	/r/askTRP	05/02/20 01:01 PM
9	She said the thought of fucking me “disgusted her”. Shit test or plain not attracted to me? If you don't care you wouln't be asking here. The reality is every woman is different. Some women just don't dig certain looks and others do.	/r/askTRP	05/02/20 12:34 PM
40	Men who say they were “lied to about women’s nature”: what do you mean? What did you used to believe? Many men are lied to from a young age. Told to believe women want caring, nice men and that it's more important to them than being masculine, having ambition and looking good. Same as how many women are lied to about how a career is the most important thing, and having equality, and that having a high notch count is not going to affect their ability to pair bond or attract a high value male for a stable LTR.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 12:03 PM
1	Women who want to have relationhips should probably lie, down-play or omit details from their sexual history. Western women have been spoon fed comforting lies from childhood that encourages their worse natures to flourish. The culture, media and education system support this. It's very hard for women to see past it, let alone break free. But there is a push back coming....as men have started to push back on the lies fed to us, I see some younger women rebelling as well...	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 10:54 AM
13	Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future? Women do vary in the specifics of what they want in a man. It doesn't hurt a man to better himself in all areas though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 10:20 AM
3	Question For All: Do young people today, on average, just put less effort into relationships and friendships? As a general thing this is true in some demographics today. There's a lot more screen time and isolation than there was 30 years ago...and a lot more social fragmentation. But this is general. There are still plenty of young people who do make the effort, who do see friends and family and community as the bedrock of human life, and who aren't looking to quick fix everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 09:32 AM
1	Men should NEVER get married without a prenup in todays world. Well that would certainly be something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 08:17 AM
1	Men should NEVER get married without a prenup in todays world. It is indeed sad. An outcome of more intrusive government combined with a dying culture and society that has become low trust.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 07:33 AM
3	Men should NEVER get married without a prenup in todays world. I think the pre-nup is one the benchmark tests if you want to marry withou a doubt. A woman who agrees without fuss to a pre-nup is one you would seriously consider. A women who has excuses or becomes defensive about pre-nups is one to not consider. Just agreeing to one moves a woman up about ten steps in potential in my eyes. However, pre-nups are not always honoured or exclude certain things so it's best to speak to legal professionals long before considering marriage. The earlier one is d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 06:50 AM
5	Women who want to have relationhips should probably lie, down-play or omit details from their sexual history. This applies to women who haven't had the foresight to preserve their value by avoiding having sex with men there were not confident of having a relationship with in the first place. A huge problem today, especially in Western nations where women ride the cock carousel for years, wondering why these chads they open their legs to aren't committing to them after being given full access in exchange for absolutely nothing. Then they wake up and realise relationship material males might want to pair …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 06:22 AM
1	Can you advocate for both men and women’s rights? Yes. You can do it from a position that men and women are the same (aside from plumbing differences) and advocate the same rights. Or you can do it from a position that we're actually different and thus may need different treatment when it comes to rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 06:16 AM
2	How does being redpilled/blackpilled as a man not make you want to give up on relationships all together? Assuming you're not chad to begin with. Because the actual Red Pill/Black Pill is simply a praxeology - it's not supposed to be a fixed in stone ideological lifestyle. The millennials looking for that cheat code to life seem to think the Red/Black pill is the ONLY factor in human interactions. Hypergamy being a great example. In their eyes it is not simply something to be aware of as a driver behind desires for example....it's the ONLY driver. Here's the core truth. These 'pills' are meant to help you see reality as it is, and thus na…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 06:14 AM
0	Women aren’t master manipulators. Many men are just suckers. A man of average intelligence has the brains to see through all but professional-level/genuis-level manipulation. Here's the thing though. Our (western) society simply doesn't warn men to not think with their dicks. Unless you're one of the declining traditional religionists who takes it seriously and has a good priest/pastor you're raised to be a sucker from birth. Pop culture, media and education might not openly tell you to think with your dick, but it's certainly not warning you as a man to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 06:07 AM
2	Do men have a moral obligation to fix what other men broke? Men enacted laws to protect women from abusive men. Violence without justification (self-defence or saving another's life) is a crime. Rape is a crime Sexual harassment is a crime Rape within marriage is a crime too in many countries now. Women's shelters are common in most developed countries to help women get away from abusive men. Around the world millions of policemen and judges enforce these laws to one degree or another. And in nearly every country these laws tend to get better enforcement…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 05:57 AM
8	Why are a record number of millennial women not settling down, and what will be the resulting social implications of this in 10/20/30+ years time? Why: Media - Women are bombarded from a young age with images of sexual promiscuity, partying, 'rewarding' careers, traditional family as a source of oppression, fathers as a source of derision and scorn, and men in general as something they don't need except for fun or to mock. It also encourages extremely unrealistic self appraisals in women so they no longer know their actual 'rank' in the sexual market place (bunch of 5's chasing after 9s and 10s men ain't gonna work out well) Education - Th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 05:49 AM
1	Do men REALLY like “good girls”? Most men, as a general thing want a woman who is a Nun in the streets, and a Whore in the sheets. Being sweet to a man is only part of the package. And none of that means diddly squat if the woman hasn't properly vetted the man to ensure he's the kind of man who will appreciate her effort in the first place. Women who do 'wife stuff' for a man who hasn't demonstrated commitment get what they deserve - just as men who shut themselves out of the 'sexual markeplace' for a woman who isn't demonstrat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/20 05:32 AM
5	Are surgeries and hormones really want Trans People need? If we were talking about any other disorder or disease, and stated that the currently preferred treatment had a 60% suicide/death rate we'd be rushing to look for other forms of treatment as a matter of urgency. Instead we're pushing for more people to have surgery and/or hormones, encouraging children and young people to do it, and actively deplatforming anyone who questions this. This tells me there's no interest in successful treatment...which would involve removing all feelings of Dysphoria …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/20 06:30 AM
1	You can't be religious and red-pilled at the same time You've not read Dalrock's blog obviously. And you're assuming a literalist interpretation of religion. Major traditional Christian groups accepts evolution by natural selection - the Catholic church had priests who contributed to it. Perhaps the Protestant Puritans where you are from ignore the first 1500 years of Christendom to push their own myopic version has shaped your views on this subject. Or the feminised cuck churches that worship pastors and equality have contributed to this. Christian…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/20 06:23 AM
0	What are some examples of men you find good-looking who don’t have “prettyboy” features? Examples of more masculine looking men who are/were widely considered to be good looking/attractive include: Sean Connery Steve McQueen Richard Burton Timothy Dalton Cary Grant Gregory Peck Kirk Douglas Jon Hamm Clark Gable Roger Moore Jason Statham Daniel Craig I've left out bodybuilding types like Schwarzenegger, Stallone and Mamoa deliberately - if you're full of muscles you'll look manly even with a baby face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/20 06:08 AM
1	What would you think would happen, if a women where to apply RP tactics and strategies on men? Red Pill simply means uncomfortable truths one swallows. Men accepting uncomfortable truths about women is not the same as women accepting uncomfortable truths about men. This is because male and female nature is different. A woman who can accept male nature, male sexuality and realise she's perfectly made to be in a strong man's frame will attract alpha males and leave betas weeping in their soy lattes. She'll accept her biological clock, her wall, and would see how her hypergamy can become a s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/20 05:56 AM
2	Is being a genuinely nice guy seen only as a detriment in the pursuit of sex or as a detriment period? As with most things....it depends. Ultimately we need to balance two things. Being good men Being good at being men. If we stray too far to the first we become weak, boring and will not turn on women. If we stray too far the other way we'll end up in jail or go down in history as the next Genghis Khan or Hitler. Most men who are described as nice are usually pitied or looked down upon by men and women. I think it's possible to be a gentleman but to have firm boundaries, chase your goals and be y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/20 05:47 AM
1	Would you be ok with a woman sleeping with you because she has to? I doubt it - I am big on consent. And I can sense when she's simply going through the motions rather than expressing genuine desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/20 05:41 AM
0	Men do not want to LTR nice, chill, low maintenance girls. I couldn't disagree more. I want a very low drama woman. No time for games. I want someone who is grounded, can regulate her emotions, has no baggage and who is into me. Very simple really. The moment a woman begins to unleash the crazy is the moment I start to consider spinning plates. You're not looking in the right places probably.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/20 05:34 AM
1	Is Hypergamy or Polygyny worse for monogamous relationships? Not sure I can concur with you that an alpha would be happy to be cucked. Not sure pimps are alpha either - most are brutal men who whore out manipulated and broken women. I don't think JFK was particularly alpha - just high value and being from a prior generation, naturally more masculine than most men of his class today in the US.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/20 05:31 AM
2	Is Hypergamy or Polygyny worse for monogamous relationships? None of us can help finding others attractive. All of us can help how we process that what we do when encounter attraction though. Attraction cannot be negotiated but it can be accepted and ignored, same as any other impulse from hunger to pain... I am reminded of a girl I had a relationship with years ago, who was always checking my phone, smelling my clothes and looking for evidence of other women. She was a very attractive woman who you would think wouldn't need to worry about things like tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 07:31 PM
3	Is Hypergamy or Polygyny worse for monogamous relationships? There's little thinking behind these things. They are more impulsive. If you've not vet a woman properly and tested her and had her enter your frame you're going to be with a woman who puts herself in situations where men can easily hit on her (let's face it, plenty of men also put themselves in situations where they can find women to flirt with or more...Mike Pence has his rule for good reason). Even if she's unavoidably hit on if she's a moral women she's a lot less likely to do anything excep…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 12:59 PM
2	Why are women so terrified of the idea of their sexualities being restricted? They are not. They are terrified of restricting themselves to men who they see as unworthy, incapable and useless. It's actually fully within a woman's interest to limit herself. If she's assured a high value man who not only makes her feel she's picked a top man, but who also provides and protects her and their children she has zero reason to look elsewhere, or 'dabble' with lots of different men. If women realise that the higher their notch count the less likely they will be to attract the bes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 12:48 PM
2	What makes a women relationship material? Instead of pump and dump or just fwbs I hear you - mine was ticking off a few of those as well. I am glad that's over and I learned to vet better, and focus on myself first as a point of origin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 12:39 PM
3	Is Hypergamy or Polygyny worse for monogamous relationships? To hit on another man while still married she'll need to think that she's capable of 'catching' such a man...and not think much of her current man as well. If she's raised in an environment of low morals, no shame, and instant gratification she'll be more likely to do this than if she's more accountable and from a different background. A smarter/well raised women won't leave a good but imperfect man for a man she see thinks might be a notch higher than her man in most cases because she'll be thi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 12:38 PM
8	Is Hypergamy or Polygyny worse for monogamous relationships? What reasons would she have not to remain attracted? Same sort of things that make a husband loose interest in a wife...they let themselves go, they get lazy, they become comfortable, content, etc. Men who own their shit aren't worried about how hypergamy might play out - they are busy getting better at everything and building strong frame. If she doesn't stick around he'll find a replacement easily. If she does stick around he can be happily married to a woman who desires him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 11:47 AM
11	Is Hypergamy or Polygyny worse for monogamous relationships? Both can be damaging. And both can be managed by a high sense of personal responsibility and continuous self improvement - combined with strict vetting of a potential mate. Keep in mind some women, regardless of culture and religion, would rather share a man they see as a worthy alpha than be single or be with a lessor man. No man who sees himself as an alpha will ever share a woman knowingly though...	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 11:26 AM
1	Would you be okay with your SO being (currently, or in the past) a sex worker? I would not get involved with someone who was or is a 'sex worker' - even for a casual sex encounter. This includes someone who has had any kind of sex for money, so a prostitute or porn actress for example. I wouldn't date someone or get involved if they were or have stripped on or offline line, or who had any revealing pictures of herself online. This includes Instagram, Snapchat or anything even if it's 'soft core'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 11:05 AM
2	What do you think of Women Obsessed with Disney? Are they Dating Material? This sounds like a lot more than a kinky cosplay thing that might be fun. Definitely a yellow flag - possibly a red flag. If you're also obsessed with Disney it's probably a good match though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 10:05 AM
1	MRP and Watching Sports - Repost for relevance I have little interest in most sports, and aside from token support for my national Football and Rugby teams, I don't follow any teams or sports. Outside of needing to network with men who do follow teams (my job requires me to be social) I have little interest, and certainly don't let it dictate my life.	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/02/20 08:12 AM
2	Ending Child Support and Special Welfare Benefits Fixes the SMP It would also fix a number of massive economic issues. In my country a third of the annual budget is spent on welfare today. Welfare is well meaning "It's for the children" after all - but it's also ensured many women no longer need to be selective about mating with higher value men without securing commitment. To secure commitment with a higher value man a woman needs to make a lot more effort to attract and retain him through thick and thin. No welfare (except for Widows and Rape victims) woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 07:41 AM
1	Would you, as an under attractive male, date an unattractive female? Date...yes. But I'd be working on my finances, fitness and confidence so I won't have to date unattractive females for long.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 07:29 AM
6	Why aren't all girls on Tinder? There are many reasons why a woman isn't on Tinder: She's in a committed relationship and is loyal. She already has options for ONS and doesn't see the need for online dating apps (higher value and/or simply in a place with a lot of suitable males. She's not someone who needs the validation-seratonin rush of likes, swipes and clicks to feel good about herself. She's religious/traditional and takes it seriously, so avoids ONS and the modern dating scene in general. She's very social and can get m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 07:13 AM
5	Why do a lot of men describe women who have had a lot of sex (whether with one guy or multiple) as “used up”? What’s the psychology? Increasingly, data suggests that women with higher notch counts have a lower ability to successfully pair bond - this is especially the case in marriage, where women with more prior sexual partners are more likely to file for a divorce than women who have fewer to none. This correlative date, not causative. Like everything, there are exceptions to rules. But we're not discussing rare, special exceptions here, just general rules. On an anecdotal level, most men, regardless of culture, religion or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 07:06 AM
1	Discussion: How do you feel about the red pill now offering financial advice? I'm a qualified Wealth Manager and Adviser and have no issues with men being encouraged to seek financial independence. I wish more would, and have offered coaching on this before. Money creates options which allows you to live life more on your terms. Men need to detach from the sick socialist welfare state dependency in most countries, or the single income mentality many of us work for - money needs to work for you, and in most cases even the smallest incomes can be enough to invest small amou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 06:49 AM
4	Do any of you radicals (red or blue pill) have someone of the opposite sex you look up too? Yeah, a woman called Mychael Klajic She wrote one of the most honest pieces about the consequences of being a modern woman who then realised that a more traditional approach was going to have better outcomes for her, her partner and her children. It goes way beyond the usual female red pill - where women who have had high notch counts, and got up to all kinds of thottery but don't really express any regret or even encourage younger women not to do the same. She even ends the article warning youn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 06:37 AM
1	What makes a women relationship material? Instead of pump and dump or just fwbs There are books on this subject - Richard Cooper is realising one on 'red flags' which looks to be a pretty concise list of traits you should run a mile from if considering a relationship with a woman. You should Avoid Relationships with women who have the following: Daddy Issues Feminist Views Unhappy and Unlucky Competes With You Keeps Men From Her Past Around Bad With Money Violent Extreme Jealousy Heavily Tattooed/Pierced Big Notch Counts Single Mothers By Choice Needs External Validation Wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 06:31 AM
5	Why does creating space, make men more attracted to women? Erotic/romantic love thrives on mystery and the concept of 'the chase'. It's hard to be fully attracted to someone who has little sense of their own autonomy. Even in sub/dom relationships people do their own thing as well. This is why it's really important to have hobbies and interests of your own - 'wholesome' (which means things that do not put you in any kind of position to mess up your relationship) things you do that help you relax, learn, get fit etc. Even when you can't get enough of eac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/20 05:51 AM
2	An interesting career dilemma..... It sounds like another door is opening. Unless you are an absolute genius in manipulating the man who hired you, you won't be able to change a dictator - and not in any kind of time frame that will happen before losing your sanity. I would do two things, in this order: Secure a written offer on the table from the CEO who wants you. Sit down with the VP who just hired you. Ask if he'll support you in making big changes that he hired you for. And ask him if more flexibility can be given. If he say…	/r/RPChristians	02/02/20 12:55 PM
1	CMV: Why would any man want women's sexual freedom/sexuality to be restricted? Yes, I can thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/20 09:02 AM
0	CMV: Why would any man want women's sexual freedom/sexuality to be restricted? I haven't advocated authoritarianism - you really want to debate someone who isn't interested. Go and enjoy yourself - why waste time online trying to convert people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/20 07:19 AM
3	CMV: Why would any man want women's sexual freedom/sexuality to be restricted? The world is a lot more fragile than most think. It wouldn't take much to interrupt food and energy supplies on a large scale. I'm not interested in arguing against the hyper-individualist bonobo masturbation society...that might be enough for some. Great - you don't need my permission or approval. Do you thing and I'll do mine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/20 06:26 AM
3	CMV: Why would any man want women's sexual freedom/sexuality to be restricted? If you don't care about society, legacy and continuation of culture I suppose this hyper-individualistic view makes a lot of sense. But if you do then it's beneath even what savages in primitive tribes get up to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/20 06:02 AM
1	It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDS I never said anything about women being self-sufficient sets women up to fail. If you're going to put words in my mouth and misrepresent my comments we're not going to make any kind of progress.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/20 04:27 PM
2	Is female sexuality actually a trap for men? People who think like this have descendants who rule the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/20 03:40 PM
4	Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlled This is 100% spot on. Every major civilisation that achieved anything worth a damn kept sexual desire under a lid. The modern world teaches men to be slaves to base lusts - the outcome of is results in decline of a nation. Young men spending more time chasing skirt or locked in a room tossing over porn they can't stop watching. The superior man controls this. Sex is just part of his life, not an end in and of itself. Men like this invest in their own learning, their own excellence. They build le…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/20 03:38 PM
0	Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be? Being religious can also correlate with many of those things you mention too. Women who get college education today are more likely to be left wing, promiscuous and other charming factors that don't lend themselves well to successful marriage. Maybe that suits the mating strategies of beta males though. Outside of STEM I don't see a need for degrees - I don't hire on the basis of it or select mates on the basis of it. It's not difficult to discern a woman's intelligence, agreeableness and the ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/20 02:11 PM
1	Do men still pump and dump if she’s less attractive but REALLY good at sex? If that's all you want that's all you will get I am sure. It seemed like you wanted more, hence my question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/20 06:33 AM
0	Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be? If women with high school education in the 1950s and earlier were able to fulfil these things I'm sure a modern women who is likely to have a degree than a modern man (in the under 30 bracket) is more than capable of looking up and learning all of this. Just like a growing number of men who take that Red Pill and don't spend all day online complaining about women often get fitter, think better and end up wealthier and more manly than if they had not. Many of these things are just lifestyle choic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/20 06:32 AM
0	Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be? The main issue here is that the more educated a woman is the smaller the pool of men she will find remotely interesting in...thanks to good ole hypergamy. You're also correlating education with formal schooling - they are different. The smartest people are not always academic nor do they have qualifications.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/20 06:25 AM
1	Why is it so common for men to belittle women after rejection? Some men probably do. I would call out any man in my circle who cannot accept rejection without becoming an idiot. Such men have no self-mastery and some are potentially dangerous. These are weak men. That said I wouldn't give my number out just to avoid being called names by strangers - a rude name is a lot easier to handle than finding out your number has been tracked and they know where you live.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 12:23 PM
3	Do men still pump and dump if she’s less attractive but REALLY good at sex? Why? She'll be used and dumped when he gets bored. If this Chad is an actual high value man he will have his fun and move on. He's not going to commit to anything with a woman who is so easy to get into bed....only a beta male would be that thirsty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 12:12 PM
4	Do men still pump and dump if she’s less attractive but REALLY good at sex? Perhaps I have misunderstood but if you're hoping not to be used as a wham, bam, thank you maam experience - why are you planning to have sex with him so quickly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 12:06 PM
1	Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be? They are the choosers in our species for the most part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 09:36 AM
1	Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be? Indeed. Even a modest woman knows one of her points of desirability is her looks. Only a seriously low IQ woman wouldn't get this - even animals get the cues of attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 08:19 AM
2	Heartbreak A woman who follows the teachings of Christ will as a minimum: Not 'date', let alone date 'casually' - she will engage in courtship with suitors. She won't have any non-Christians as close friends, and will not entertain men who are not Christians for courtship. She'll be in a church that doesn't let women preach as well. And will dress and behave modestly....she's saving herself for her husband both physically and emotionally. And as a Christian man you are supposed "Fear God, and honour the Ki…	/r/RPChristians	30/01/20 08:10 AM
1	What is your bar for personality to date someone? I treated dating like an interview - I stopped trying to make it 'fun'...I only did it in coffee shops, museums, parks etc. This immediately weeds out women who are interested vs women looking for a free meal (I'm happy to demonstrate wealth but that comes later, when I have secured genuine interest). I then made a list of things I would need to see in order to have more dates. I completely stopped looking at looks...that's not a criteria - I am a straight man and see dozens of women every day I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 07:33 AM
1	A New Paradigm: A partner for children & a separate dating life from the outset If this was workable at the national level it would have been done already centuries ago. The reason why most major cultures and civillisations since recorded history began had leaned towards a male provider/protector and one or more legally bound females and a commitment to build close knit families with less importance given to base impulses, and more importance laid on "Planting trees our grandchildren will sit in the shade of" is because it works. These are ideals. Somc cultures made them le…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 07:14 AM
1	Why is it so common for men to belittle women after rejection? Men who don't have an abundance mindset will be inclined to do this. They get angry because they are prone to oneitis, are not making themselves their own point of origin, and don't understand that it's MUCH better to have a woman who doesn't need a lot of chasing (I am ok with courtship ritual but chumps chasing women who clearly aren't getting damp panties when you enter the room aren't women you want to bother chasing in my opinion). Some men think if they follow 'steps' or 'rules' they can g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 06:56 AM
1	It is so much better, healthier and more successful for women to follow the red pill women strategies than the FDS Feminist thinking sets up women to fail. Just as modern 'ideals' in the pop culture for men set us up to fail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 06:34 AM
3	Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be? We want beauty. But we need (for optimal gene transmission and good relations) agreeableness, submission, loyalty and a solid commitment to raise children as well as possible, Tits and Ass are nice to look at, and tickle our base desires - and focusing only on that produces a load of damaged, useless single mom's, thots and all kinds of trashy women so many men are currently complaining about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 05:55 AM
1	Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be? If a man complains it's unfair that he has to chase excellence I would venture that he's not Red Pilled. The list of things men look for in women for optimal gene transmission and best outcomes for offspring are pretty 'unfair' in the eyes of non-RP women as well. Ask a feminist if she thinks being loyal, nurturing, and keeping herself as beautiful and charming as possible in exchange for a good man being exclusive with her is fair... ...put in ear plugs though before asking ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 05:52 AM
1	Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be? Many of us have been there. It scares me how few actually learn from our experiences though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 05:47 AM
2	Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be? No one is better at everything. The best relationships are complimentary. Let's say I am a tax bracket or two above a lady - but she's a great cook, a wonderful homemaker, a charming conversationalist, reads a lot, has a good circle of wholesome friends, doesn't club, go to bars or hang out with men. She's frugal, agreeable, submits to my frame, helps and supports in whatever way she can. But she not as good at me as making money though, or at putting up shelves and fixing the washing machine, o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/20 05:46 AM
2	Dalrock is shutting down his blog Dalrock helped me see the problems of chivalry and the femininsation of Christianity. Whoever he is in the real world I wish him well.	/r/RPChristians	29/01/20 01:34 PM
1	How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped? She can do it if she meets a needy man with few options, and who cannot discern women very well I am sure. If half decent men with potential will shack up with fat, 35 year olds with other men's children anything is possible. But a woman who throws herself at an alpha (which is going to be her strongest urge even if she is a nun) is going to be just another lay in a long list of lays and potential lays. There's a dichotomy there for women - she wants to show she's different and special, vriginia…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 01:26 PM
1	what would you tolerate with your "pre-wall" wife that you wouldn't once she's "post-wall"? She's getting the same treatment post and pre-wall. I'll still expect her to chase her own excellence, submit to my frame and work with what she has to maintain her beauty and character.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 01:16 PM
1	Is it right to marry your first if she's a great partner? Please advise! There is no 'one'. There are women who are good for you and women who are not. There are even women you can pair up with for life and have a good time with - but never, ever think of any woman as 'the one'... Women want men that other women want to have sex with - but they don't want their man to actually have sex with other women. The more you make a single woman your frame of reference the less desirable you become...and the higher the risk she'll leave, turn bad or just not be that sweet, lov…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/01/20 10:36 AM
18	Q4Men: What SHOULD a Woman's Selection Criteria Be? From an adaptive evolutionary perspective a woman wanting optimal chances to pass on her genes will be looking for a male who ranks a 'couple of steps' above her in more than one of the following areas: Height/Strength Intelligence/high instincts (street smarts) Talent Stoic Outlook/Mental Resilience Confidence/Wit Wealth or the ability to create wealth. Negotiation Skills in work life. Social rank/Social Awareness (network, family etc) General health and vitality. Combinations and trade offs of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 10:19 AM
2	Isn’t hypergamy just common sense? Common Sense is knowing your own value first before trying to chase value many, many times above oneself. Common Sense knows the difference between short term desires and instincts, and long term planning for better outcomes. Hypergamy certainly makes sense in that human females are vulnerable during pregnancy, childbirth and our children are too for a number of years. Wanting to mate with the best mate possible is a reasonable strategy. Wanting to jump around hoping to get better and better by …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 09:27 AM
1	How do men and women respect each other knowing their natures? The purpose of the Red Pill is not to hate women for who they are. It's to not hate women for what they can never be to us. Once you know the truth you can truly admire a woman who regulates her own hypergamy and emotions, and who has a real view of her own value in the 'sexual marketplace'	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 09:04 AM
1	What age do u think women hit the wall Firstly, divert all that stress to eating well, avoiding the party lifestyle and getting plenty of moderate exercise. You'll feel and look better than you will if you don't do those things. Do it for you first and foremost as well. It's your health and well being - own it. The Wall is usually describing women approaching the end of their viable fertility - and usually coincides with a decline in looks. This can begin as early as 30 but is typically late 30s for modern women - I cannot stress eno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 08:30 AM
2	Are TheRedPill and similar movements going to make any difference, or is the rate of people happily married still going to drop and drop every year? As with everything it begins with the individual...so: Men need to be Red Pilled young. They need to be able to vet women carefully. They need to be comfortable in their masculinity. The need to know to associate with better men. Women need to be Red Pilled too (their red pill is different to men - accepting their biological clock, their hypergamy and having a realistic sense of their 'sexual marketplace value' etc). They need to chase their own excellence in their way, manage their expectations…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 08:06 AM
2	What are the effects of having many sexual partners on men? Similar risks of STDS. Probably not to different in terms of finding it harder to bond with one person. I think men will find it easier to sleep with many women and not be a broken wreck unable to pair bond than women - as a general thing. When we look across cultures, beliefs and ideologies at common human behaviors in we see that: Most men will sleep with most women if given the opportunity. Most women will not sleep with most men if given the opportunity. That says a lot about the general nat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 07:27 AM
0	Men: do you lose respect for women after sleeping with them? If they are willing to sleep with me soon after meeting I wouldn't say I lose respect. Actually I would. If she's happy to do that with me she'll do it with anyone. Her hypergamy and chemistry might flare into overdrive when chad enters the room...but humans are capable of self control...if she's not able to do that she's not going to be seen as anything but a plate to spin, and someone who helps scratch a biological itch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 07:14 AM
1	If you’re struggling attract high value people it’s because the circles you frequent and subsequently you are not in fact high value Couldn't agree more. We can create the conditions to attract better people into our lives by living better lives. Moving in better circles, choosing better hobbies, and moving in better directions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 06:48 AM