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Question For WamenPrincessFKNPeach/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 11:06 PM
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That's exactly like a white guy saying "blacks are so scary I'd rather be next to a bear than a black guy", and then when black guys get mad at him, he says "I'm right in being this scared, maybe you need to commit less crimes and make us feel safer". This only makes sense if you zero in on crime data and ignore the history of the United States as a whole. If anything, black people should be terrified of white people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:59 AM
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I see, you’re not accustomed to critical thinking. Let me help you. 1) They don’t “gotta” grow a fuckton of corn, they could grow something with actual nutrition content, but that wouldn’t be as cheap. Or, they could let people grow fresh veggies in their yard. Oh wait, most people don’t have yards. Well, corn it is. 2) If they throw the food away, obese people have nothing to do with it 3) Overeating has nothing to do with this because if it was lettuce people wouldn’t be getting fat. It’s eati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:35 AM
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What part of having casual sex makes one not fodder for economic and war machines?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:27 PM
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So you think eating high fructose corn syrup is a form of consuming vegetables? Lmao Do you ever ask yourself why they use so much land on corn instead of actual vegetables that aren’t starch?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:34 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:59 AM
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Do you actually live in California
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:54 AM
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Do you think people are getting obese from overeating vegetables??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:47 AM
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Not agreeing or disagreeing, but this chick sounds like she lacks dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:24 AM
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There are complex elements to this conversation, like race, that aren’t quite allowed here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:21 AM
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Come now, surely you understand the difference between killing children who already exist and allowing people to have abortions. Actual children feel fear and pain. How about we improve the foster care system AND allow people with unwanted pregnancies to abort? I’m not dismissing the impact of adoption, which is a separate thing from foster care in many ways. Abortions don’t nullify the existence of adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:05 PM
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This analogy is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:31 PM
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R/PurplePillDebate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:25 PM
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Damn she can’t even initiate sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:21 PM
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Because the excuse for not strengthening the social safety net is that children are only their parents’ responsibility. You said it yourself, most of them don’t pay, so it’s not even working. All it does it pit poor women and men against one another and add another complication to women getting welfare. (I am gendering this as a form of shorthand, I know it goes both ways) And tbh, don’t get me wrong, I hate men that recklessly get women pregnant with no consequence. I just think the govt can’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:58 PM
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The problem is it’s just the government passing the buck but discounting it. It’s a justification for not providing resources to the children whose existence they benefit from. These kids will grow up to enter the workforce, go to prison where they will be exploited for their labor, and generally participate in the economy/taxpayer system if unable to work, etc. One way or another their existence will generate money, and the govt benefits from the tax revenue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:39 PM
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The problem is when people have children against their will. The one who truly suffers in this scenario is the child. Is there anything on earth that could possibly make someone feel more unwanted, more like they should kill themselves, than being abused and/or discarded by the people who were supposed to love you the most? Keep in mind all people who don’t want to have children don’t end up giving the child up. Children who were not wanted are often punished for existing by resentful parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:31 PM
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If I had my way, me and the homie are both running after that asshole and jumping them. If it’s his shit that gets stolen it’s the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:16 PM
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Are you giving 20% respect and submission to the woman in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:12 PM
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If $430 is the average child support payment, that number already takes into account the outliers who pay much more. Plenty get much less. It probably costs more money to throw them in prison for not paying than to just give single mothers welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:47 PM
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The average child support payment is $430, which isn’t much of a punishment or a reward. Child support does little to support children, it’s just an extra hoop to jump through if you need welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:33 PM
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You’re so close. Oh god you’re so close.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:55 PM
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It’s kinda weird you jumped right to assuming I was talking about fetuses instead of unwanted children in foster care. Fetuses can’t have an input, and if they did, it wouldn’t matter because they never actually experienced life to say that they’d prefer it, just like you say I don’t know what it’s like to not be born. You’re so obsessed with fetuses you didn’t even approach my statement in good faith. You sure you care about foster kids and their disproportionate suicide rates? Bc that’s what I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:36 PM
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Paying child support is not comparable to birth BUT If you don’t pay and you go to prison, where you’re paid far below minimum wage for your labor, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:27 AM
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Did you ever consider that some people think not being born is better from firsthand experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:10 AM
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Show a lil décolleté for the ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:38 PM
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The only difference between the woman you described and popular instagram models is several thousand dollars of cosmetic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:01 PM
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Yes. This is inconsistently applied because it’s not about preserving human life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:55 PM
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Who said one was worse than the other? The point is that we could lessen the amount of people who die in mass shootings, but we don’t because it would infringe on individual rights to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:55 PM
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I don’t care that you think it is murder. Plenty of things are much more detrimental and destructive to human life (like the existence of assault rifles) but nothing is done to end it because people aren’t expected to give up their rights so more lives are saved. Killing someone in self defense is murder but it should still be allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:46 PM
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A lot of “”the left”” IS poor
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:33 PM
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From what I read, the post you’re referring to was about why even though men claim women’s lives are “easier” because relationships, he’d personally rather be a man and then he lists the overall advantages of being a man vs being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:28 AM
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Homie watches too much cuckold porn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:33 AM
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Thanks, I’m now calling service/hospitality “pink collar work”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:34 PM
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You only think that because you assign too much value to getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:46 AM
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Then why do you keep presenting worthless information? How many people it helped doesn't absolve it from being sexist. But let's go back to the original point: the medical community's only options to collect information aren't "exploit poor women of color to engage in medical trials" or "know nothing about the human female body" so why are you going down this rabbit hole about how they aren't learning more about the female body because someone might say they hate women of color?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 05:04 PM
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When everything can be feminism, nothing is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:56 PM
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Men just want a match. Men are depressed because they don’t get any matches. No, they're depressed because they don't get any matches they don't want. Men bitch about how all women on OLD are fat all the time. OLD is depressing to women who actually think you can meet a man who wants a relationship and a connection on OLD. All that a man swiping right on you mean is that he'd fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:55 PM
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What part of this is supposed to be feminist, again?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:04 AM
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The amount of women benefitting from the Pill since its release is in the realm of billions by now, and keeps growing. Do you think something cannot be sexist if it helps at least one woman? If not one, how many?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:23 AM
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The guys developed a drug that liberated women, on purpose; I mean of course they hated women, why else would they make life-improving drugs for them. I have better shit to do than to argue the semantics of the definition of "sexist" with you. I hope you're being disingenuous because you like winning internet arguments, and not saying this because you actually think men had nothing to gain from the invention of birth control or that something can't be sexist if any woman benefited from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 11:19 PM
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What about women who aren't religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 10:12 PM
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So you acknowledge it wasn't making those women of color's lives better because they were test subjects but you still typed out that intellectually dishonest claim that they were accused of hating women of color becuase they were trying to "make women's lives better" Alright, thanks for the clarification
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 10:11 PM
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Sometimes... women are also black
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:39 AM
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Alright, you've got my attention, I want to hear your reasoning (please).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:27 AM
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Yes; you (the scientist who runs clinical trials) will not get accused of hating women of color for trying to make women's lives better a couple generations after your death, when you can't argue back. Very much a real-life consequence. This was trying to make their lives better: Because the pill was still illegal in half of the country and women consistently dropped out of the studies, Dr. Rock and Pincus decided to travel to Puerto Rico and test women there. Unfortunately, their studies had ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 08:19 AM
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Debatable. Most probably did but I concede that probably a fuckton didn't. So you agree that majority of men did not sacrifice their need for sexual variety for monogamy. So for the most part, the arrangement was always unfair to women. However unlike women's current case, they were still punished for it both by the law and the community. I think you're saying women aren't punished for following their imperative currently, but men of the past who followed their imperative and cheated were? No, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:22 AM
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Men sacrificed their need for sexual variety No they didn't and that's exactly why everything has gone to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:58 PM
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Online dating is depressing to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 08:00 PM
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We're all just easily replaced commodities now (even more than before). I agree with you, and this is just a nitpick, but slavery is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:55 PM
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I think this point is being missed on people. Planned obsolescence is designed into all products. If relationships are being marketed as a product, why would they want them to last? That's not good for business.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:53 PM
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Well if a guy is paying for sex he probably is not interested in relationships - which is why he is paying for sex. There is an old cruel saying that goes: "Men don't really pay prostitutes to stay with them for sex, they really pay them so that they leave afterward." What this means is that men who are paying hookers for sex only want the sex and don't have any desire for relationships. They want the girl to leave them alone after sex. They do both, they just lie to their wives. Most johns are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:43 AM
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If a man would pay for sex, why would he turn it down if it were offered for free? Paying for sex is taking being a slut to the next level. I would never trust a man who pays for sex to not cheat. I want sex work to be decriminalized because someone will always need to make money from it, but the disgusting thing about paying for sex is that the money is buying the client the right to ignore the sex worker's discomfort or unwillingness to do certain sex acts. Why the hell would I want to have se…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 05:03 AM
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The pervasive theory among guys is that the reason women hate sex work is because it means they will be losing their manipulative control over men. Women want to hold a monopoly on sex so they see any women who offers, or sells sex, as a threat to them. Is this the best explanation men can come up with or is this just their favorite?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:18 AM
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Unless she can fuck other people and you can't, you're trading commitment for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 08:34 PM
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If shame made people lose weight, nobody would be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 08:23 PM
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Threads like this are always such a circlejerk, did anyone even actually challenge OP's view? Fat bitches live in y'all heads rent free
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:47 PM
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Making people feel like shit for being fat simply makes them feel like a lost cause
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:39 PM
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​ 1) My best friend from HS? No. My smoking buddy? I said yes before but maybe? I think that he noticed that I assume men aren't attracted to me by default and has went out of his way to dispute this, ie telling me he's dated black women before and telling me "you know I see you as a woman, too, right?". Sometimes, I think I'm misreading it and he's just being kind and sees me as a source of feminine wisdom in his life because even though he felt my boobs before when we were drunk, it didn't fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 06:18 PM
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Do you want male friends? Do you specifically want some of your friends to be men? If so, why? If not, why not? Yeah. I guess I'm just used to having male friends because I had to check out of all-female friendship groups when they started discussing how to suck dick because we were 12 and I just wanted to talk about vidya gaem/animay. Don't get me wrong, I love having female friends who play video games with me, but they are few and far in-between. Do you seek (or have you ever sought) male fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 05:49 PM
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Log the fuck out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 03:41 AM
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Nah I think her point was men hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 05:30 PM
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Why is it so important that you have male friends? Bc mostly men have the same interests as me. I'm not a "NLOG", I have a few female friends, but they rarely play vidya gaem ): I didn't have friends of either gender for very long as a child, but it got better when I stopped trying to hang out with girls when I was 12. I would like a boy here and there in elementary but I was a lesbian for the most part and didn't have romantic interest in men until I was 19. Is it because you want to be valued …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 05:22 PM
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Yeah seconded, now I'm curious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:37 AM
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There's a thin line between love and hate ):
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 12:38 AM
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Looks like you already do. Congratulations. Do I??? I don't know. The odds of any man actually injuring you because your prime value lies between your legs, are minuscule. It'd be lower if I were male Yes, everyone does. That's why we hear every goddamn day about how all men are evil, horrid rapists On Twitter? Yeah. In real life? No. In mainstream media? No. Cynicism about men is only tolerated in echo-chambers. Most men are. Mostly because they have to be. ... Horseshit. Hiring a hooker is ill…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 12:22 AM
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Only because we learn to tune out people telling us about our fuckedupness. I know about my fuckedupness - I don't need to hear about it from you. I don't want to know to nag about it, I want to know to avoid it. That really bothers you, doesn't it? Yes. I get the feeling you think I'm offended because of something like "How dare u value women only for their vagina I can be the president if I want to" but like... nah, being able to create humans is pretty lit, the problem that it's like if you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:53 PM
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I can relate. Trust me, the things I know about women make it really really REALLY hard to like them. I've dated women before, and been shoehorned into the masculine role and I hated it. Women are annoying, but I always could see right through them. I knew what they were going to do before they even did it, maybe even before they knew they were going to do it. Men can compartmentalize the fucked up parts of themselves too well. For example, this whole sex being the primary value any woman has to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 08:03 PM
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Being fuckable is a woman's PRIMARY value in the eyes of men. Yeah, I can see that Not to men it isn't. Sex is easy for you to get. It's difficult for men to get. Sex has value to us, even if it has no value to you. The "ease" which women can get sex with is offset by the consequences, but that's not the subject at hand. But anyways, why would this make a woman who is "fuckable" valuable vs a woman who is willing to fuck you? Try looking at this as a man would, and not as woman would, and not fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 07:30 PM
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My RP moment was talking to my sister about how she'd be sitting in the passenger's seat of some married dude who paid her to have sex with him, looking him directly in the eye as he told his wife he had to stay late after work and to kiss the kids goodnight for her My RP moment was finding out the only two men in my family I ever thought were decent people both had second families
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 07:22 PM
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Maybe being able to get fucked is worthless to women, but being fuckable makes a woman have some sort of value in the eyes of men? Is that what you're saying? What I'm saying is that "being fuckable" is such a low bar to clear, men's standards for what is fuckable is so low, so virtually nonexistent, that saying this is "value" in the eyes of men is being generous with the word "value". You could cut a gash in an amputated leg and fuck it, that doesn't mean amputated limbs have inherent value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 07:12 PM
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I must know a thousand men. Not a rapist or physical abuser in the whole lot, I’d wager. Do you think they'd fucking tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 02:10 AM
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no, I'm way too horny/sexually possessive for all that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:08 PM
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I'm not sure what you're asking. Can you explain or clarify? In your opinion, how does a woman strike a balance between being jaded and letting shitty men into her life?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:23 PM
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Because as a black woman, I know very few white people, even fewer white men, and virtually none that are older?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:20 PM
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Also you don't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:05 PM
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You have to be joking. As a group we are probably the most likely men in the world to actually say the dumb shit we think. But in what location?? I'm usually not there to hear it live ): I did international sales for a Chinese company for a few years. I went with the CEO and some upper management on several trips. In public these guys would never say the kind of stuff that you see an idiot like Trump say. Behind closed doors these guys said some of the most racist stuff you can ever imagine. I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:44 PM
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Being able to get a man to fuck you holds no inherent value
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:24 PM
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I'm sure this is some kind of veiled insult. But I'll ignore it and go with it, knowing that you will viciously attack me for it and call me names.... My apologies, I was just trying to illustrate that I respect the experience that comes with age and the unfamiliarity of your POV (I'm not a white dude), and that I'm more interested in picking your brain that starting a "debate" On the contrary - most women who are getting pumped and dumped and having all this casual sex are the ones who talk con…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:16 PM
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And if she were a man, that would probably be valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:31 PM
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There is no such thing like a low-value girl before she is at least 30. Girl always have at least sex value. There will be always some guy for her, even if only for pump & dump. This isn't value
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:21 PM
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I don't always like what you have to say but I find you and your opinions... fascinating. It's not every day I get to see what older white men think unfiltered lol -she's been pumped and dumped more than a few times. Has a poor idea of her own sexuality. Has never had good, enjoyable or fun sex. Can orgasm only when masturbating. Has distorted notions of sex and what its role is in her life. Can you elaborate here for me, please? Aren't the women who have been "pumped and dumped" the ones who en…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:15 PM
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I was half joking, but half actually curious if buttcrack surgery was a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:54 PM
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why would I do that when finding a man who will do oral costs $0 and has no recovery time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:51 PM
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brb, getting ass crack extending surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:45 PM
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Men should slay, women should be chaste Male and female promiscuity are two sides of the same coin You will never have one without the other
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:27 PM
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Maybe this dude is onto something and yall are giving men too much credit. Who knows, if they can financially abort, maybe they would run around getting random women pregnant for entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:25 PM
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So Netflix is a valid personality trait* ​ *If you're just trying to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 10:37 PM
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Netflix isn't a personality trait, lets argue
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 10:20 PM
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According to women here the main reason why paid sex is problematic is thats johns are misogynistic. I'm just saying that the prevalance of misogyny among johns is no more than say, guys who have lots of casual sex. Yeah, I know. I'm not stupid enough to think men see women as people, let alone the promiscuous ones. I don't want to get with a slut either. Sure, those men are hot so women don't care about their character. Womwn are extremely poor judges of men's character anyway Nobody cares abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 10:16 PM
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Why do you specifically have a problem with johns hatred for womem when other men who have casual sex are the same or worse? Is your point that all men are trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 09:47 PM
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I don't think it's a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:52 PM
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That means nothing. For all I know, all men think like this, but only admit it with the anonymity of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:03 AM
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for some men, the unwanted feeling makes their dick harder How am I supposed to like men when they say shit like this???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:42 PM
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hey thank you for answering. What is gross about this thread. Its a discussion like any other. That you might be right is disgusting? And if that can soothe you, the low estimate of guys who pays/paid for sex is still fairly low at 15-20% in North America. 1/5 Isn't low... And married mens in dead bedroom, with Low Lib wives, unsatisfied relationships are the first customers so it has nothing to do with Incels. Who said anything about incels? More of my males friends cheated on their Girlfriends…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:37 PM
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Since the dawn of times, men always have paid for sex. In Greco-Roman classical history, it was pretty much expected and even encouraged. Ergo the classical Greek quote ''A man has 2 lovers, his wife and his concubine/mistress (usually escorts at that time). Go read the long broad history of Brothels and Sex Workers in Europe. Despite the heavy moral compass on chastity, prudishness and strict religious stance on sex, prostitution was widespread and broadly used by all men of all social spheres,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 11:02 PM
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In regards to appearance... I think that is a part of femininity... just as it's a big part of masculinity. However, I think you will find some very heavy ladies that are exceptionally feminine. So, I apologize if I sounded like weight played a big role in this... I don't think it does. I actually think being too skinny is masculine. My objection wasn't about weight so much as size. I've been perceived as masculine just because I'm tall (and dark skinned), and I think it's unfair. Naturally, I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:51 PM
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Bisexuals... yes. Lesbians... I've never met on that qualified as feminine in my mind. Although it could be because they are so frequently obese that I just attribute that as being a manly thing. "In my mind" well there you go. Of course you see women who explicitly make themselves sexually unavailable to men as unfeminine. You probably think there's something inherently feminine about fucking men or something. You kind of threw me off with the obesity thing. When you say femininity, you simply …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 02:18 PM
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No source... I'm just guessing. What numbers sound accurate to you? I think like 20? But to be fair, I live under a rock. Taller women care less about height.... I think because they don't have as great of a need to feel protected. Actually, some tall women care even more, because it's not just about the safety aspect, it's about feeling small/feminine. I don't see being tall as inherently masculine, but a lot of women internalize that and want someone who makes them look short in comparison. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 06:23 AM
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I'd say in the US if you are dating 30 year old women than demanding anything under an N count of 50 is pretty picky as the majority of still single women are probably high above that. Source? I don't believe this. This is what makes the Red Pill so amazing and transformative for guys like me. Once the Red Pill teaches you why women want this... then you can develop techniques and tricks that allow you to make her feel this way without worrying about your height. I'm 5'11" and I've only ever had…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:54 PM
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However, if it were just that I was earning more $$$$$$, I too, would probably be getting angry with the AF/BB thing. I think that sometimes it might seem like it's just a higher income that is making the difference, but earning a higher income can improve self esteem issues But also, the difference could be that you're around different people. It's still makes no sense to resent people who just met you for others rejecting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 09:58 PM
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If the majority of 50% of the population you encountered were not interested in you. Then suddenly they were, would you not think something strange was going on? Yes, but I'd decide based off that individual person whether or not I could trust them to be sincere. This has happened to me, and it is hard to believe when people are interested in me, but I can either push all men away and be alone because I don't want to be hurt again or I can learn to judge character and accept that I might get hur…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 09:41 PM
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Different people want different things. Why would you hold women who didn't even know you when you were younger responsible for what other women in your life did?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 09:19 PM
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And again, what makes that guy suddenly attractive? Did his face restructure itself overnight. Did he suddenly get jacked? I'm talking about completely different women who didn't even know these men when they were both younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 09:09 PM
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Good luck finding extroverts on here? I've scored as both, but idk if that counts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:50 PM
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A woman turns 18 and decides to marry a good dependable man who has his shit together. I see no problems with that because she didn't wait. Nothing else would make it a problem. Even if 10 years down the line she divorce rapes the guy it'd be worth it to have had a young attractive wife for 10 years. LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:48 PM
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How often does the same exact woman who rejected you in the past come crawling back after becoming a single mother vs Some random woman who is 30 being interested in men her age and being held responsible for all the woman who rejected that man when they were both younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 08:47 PM
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You think "average men" don't say shit like “jocks and the football players got all the attractive women"? This article makes it seem like the solution is avoiding men in general: " Indeed, experts note one last trait shared by men who have raped: they do not believe they are the problem. "
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:25 PM
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As guys, we are forced to constantly compete with one another over women. I think a lot of guys have a need to feel special, and high N count women simply can't do it. That moves this from a picky thing into a basic search category item. What does this have to do with morals? Once again, regardless of what the standard is, if it's rare, you're being picky. Is it rare to find a woman who doesn't have a high n count? What even counts as high? Good job admitting it's about feeling special. That's v…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 07:11 PM
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Interesting, so you don't think there is any kind of moral baseline for how we treat one another? I think there should be, but obviously everyone doesn't adhere to my personal morals. And tbh domestic violence is so common one of the things that influenced me to think my ex wasn't that bad was being told that he's a good man because he didn't hit me. Now how does that relate to promiscuity/n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:08 PM
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Female desire for what? Because this is devolving into a conversation about casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:59 PM
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If it's a rare trait to find in a man, then yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:22 PM
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I never said that at all. I said being attractive makes it less likely they will be appreciative. It's an analogy the point isn't the animate vs inanimate the point is appreciation and the factors that play into what makes someone appreciate something someone literally anything. You have yet to define what you mean when you say "appreciative", so even though I think this is bullshit, I'm going to wait until you define it because I get the feeling we're operating on completely different definitio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:57 PM
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Why didn't you ask the specific woman who said it instead of making this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:13 AM
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Is that supposed to sound less sick? "I don't rape and kill you because you're useful and I like you" I'm supposed to think men like women when they can't shut the fuck up about how grateful we should be that they don't rape and kill us all? I actually can't wait for men to stop feeling like they need to pretend they like women. Bring on The Purge! I want to meet men who think like this in real life, because I'd rather die fighting than walk down the street not knowing which of you are this disg…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 06:11 AM
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Do you even want a 3 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:12 AM
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There are always inhumane people both men and women but y’all wanna frame only men as cruel and inhumane when men could literally decide to be cruel and inhumane and fuck shit up.. fuck the laws fuck any constitution and go hunger games style on women.. and there’s nothing women as a collective could do to defend themselves.. but we don’t because men aren’t inhumane and cruel and we kinda need each other to reproduce and continue to survive and we like y’all too despite our differences so don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 05:03 AM
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Why wouldn't I take their word for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 04:32 AM
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Careful with that line of reasoning. I'm bigger and stronger than the majority of women, so me throwing my weight around is fine because I can. Right? Nope, I do that, I got to prison. So the question becomes: why are women able to get away with the equivalent of throwing their weight around, while men are punished for it? Imagine comparing violence with being picky about who you fuck I'm ascending
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:54 AM
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The fact that y'all repeatedly say this (and the fact that rape has been used as a tool of war) undermines the FUCK out of your claim that men aren't inhumane and cruel. Jesus fucking Christ, how am I supposed to not want to murder men when you say shit like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:51 AM
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I don't think avoiding high N count women is being overly picky. I mean this is like a bottom barrel basic trait. It's only overly picky if it's rare. Same thing with height. Wanting a man who is 6ft is only picky because that's 10-ish% of all men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:42 AM
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It shows they would put zero effort into maintaining it which was the point. They'd expect their inherited money, which in this case is a stand in for naturally gained good looks, to take care of the issue for them. So attractive people make shitty partners because they're attractive? You think how people treat their possessions and how they treat people in their lives are a 1:1 comparison? Ugly women have impossible standards for them to reach. Ugly men do not. In the analogy ugly women would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:59 AM
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But it is no less a killing of a live individual human being. I misunderstood what you meant. Laws are supposed to deter people from committing crimes. The fact that it deters men less is worrisome. And again, that doesn’t make it any less of a killing of a live individual human being. Most Nazis didn’t care about the killings of Jews, Slavs, Catholics, and homosexuals either, yet that didn’t make those killings any less immoral. Fetuses reside in another person's body, and the only way to remov…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 12:40 AM
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Because the repurcussions of outright killing more people than that are enough to prevent them from doing so. Abortion is legal, what are you getting at? But women (mostly) also happen to administer the largest, most profitable, and most predatory child trafficking rings in the world as well. This is a better example because it's actually morally reprehensible. I don't care about abortion, most people don't. Also I'd like a source on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:52 PM
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They would put zero effort into maintaining the car. They'd tell someone else to do it. And it would get done. Yet another way maintaining a relationship cannot be compared to maintaining a possession, you can't outsource the labor of maintaining it. Uglier women are generally unappreciative regsrdless Have you considered you think this is somehow different for ugly men because you don't date men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:50 PM
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No. You said it meant women lack a fundamentally sound moral compass. If that were true, why stop there?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:45 PM
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You've got a right to your opinion, but if this were remotely true, women would murder actual people more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:38 PM
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That's not relevant. You know what's not relevant? Material possessions. And yet... Let's say you spend all the money you've saved on a shitty car. You're going to maintain that car better than someone who flippantly spent mommy and daddy's money on a car. Where are you getting this? The person who got the money would maintain the car better because they have more money and maintaining a car takes money. This isn't how human interactions work. Do you think uglier women appreciate the men who cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:36 PM
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If you aren't a fetus, why would the amount of abortions per year make you think women are dangerous?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:33 PM
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That's my point about objects vs people: Short of being destroyed, objects can be secured. People cannot. This is why treating someone like shit, cutting their self-esteem down so that they think they can't do better than you, is a common tactic that works. I would like to know more about what you define as appreciating someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:22 PM
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Appreciating an object a d appreciating a human being are two completely different things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:03 PM
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This analogy doesn't make sense because houses don't have agency and can't leave you. You don't have to maintain a relationship with a house, you don't have to be kind to a house, once you buy an object, it's yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:42 PM
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You handicap your own argument by trying to slide abortion into everything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:31 PM
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It would be cool if the aims of grade school for children were centered less around regurgitating information and becoming an obedient voter and more on developing critical thinking, cultivating your own personal strengths, figuring out how to use those strengths to serve society, building relationships with your classmates, and finding a future partner. Like maybe the school counselors make suggestions for pairings based off observing the kids' temperaments and how they interact with one anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:13 PM
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It's telling them to adjust their standards to men who wouldn't lie to them, aka men who would appreciate them aka ugly men who weren't preselected This is a lie and a half, ugly men don't appreciate women more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:07 PM
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I was asking out of curiosity about your username lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 09:00 PM
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This sounds like you're complaining that western men have to try
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:56 PM
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Why did you resurrect this only to say nothing /:
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:23 PM
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Actually, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:16 AM
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Were you born in January 1962
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:12 AM
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Women are more predisposed to weight gain than men are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:50 AM
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But also, don't forget... don't be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 06:05 AM
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Never, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. So the belief that women always lie about this is projection
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:49 AM
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It's sad, really. Why do you think women do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:47 AM
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Obviously you red my comment about "culture of narcissism" and called me "friend of Ana", so I thought it was red scare reference, am I wrong? Nah that was the codeword for anorexic chicks to gather and share tips on how to make yourself throw up the best or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:35 AM
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I just got under 250, and I'm still hella fat, I think you're not giving women enough credit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:31 AM
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I doooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:30 AM
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That's same girl when she was 154 lb haha, delete your first comment, it's embarrassing lol I think you're doing that thing where you're being overly harsh because you think women's egos need to be cut down to size but all it really does it make you seem delusional. She can't be a landwhale because she isn't even scratching the surface of how fat she could possibly be Also I'm not deleting my comment. I'll edit it to reflect the accurate information, but I'm an adult. I can handle making a mista…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:26 AM
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She is 143 lbs in first picture, not 154 lol My b, I missed that And yes, 5'4 170 lb is landwhale Ok friend of Ana
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:18 AM
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If OLD really is nothing but fat chicks, I wonder why men argue tooth and nail against the notion that women generally don't like casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:15 AM
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I have never seen anyone here acknowledge the nuance of how people carry weight/muscle, it's only discussed in numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 05:06 AM
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You lie so much that you lie to yourself that everyone else is lying too in order to justify your deceit. Sounds spiritually exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:54 AM
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Is it? Idk, I see it treated like a zero-sum game a lot. https://www.reddit.com/r/intermittentfasting/comments/m6d3qg/160cm_53a_year_ago_vs_today_sw_70kg_154lbs/ This chick's before picture is 5'3, 143lbs*, which is 16lbs shy of the average American woman statistic rattled off here when men want to complain about how hard it is to find a woman who isn't a landwhale. *I originally put 154 because I read the title wrong, but here's pictures of her at 154.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:48 AM
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"Did I mention... fat?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:16 AM
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don’t look down on them I don't think that's possible for men wrt prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 01:41 AM
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That's where I got the idea Larp as a sex-positive feminist ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 01:21 AM
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Keep going, this has to the be woman's fault somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:49 AM
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Me neither. We gotta act like it's fine so we can screen them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:43 AM
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did u know someone can lose 100lbs and still be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:49 PM
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You've never heard someone say they think bisexual women are straight women playing pretend and bisexual men are gay men playing pretend?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:39 PM
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I think the problem is that people are treated like you either like dick or you don't. Bisexual women don't challenge the status quo because they're still women who are sexually available to men, but bisexual men do challenge the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:31 PM
1

Shit, I do too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:04 PM
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I know women who see it as unmasculine or see queer men as promiscuous/don't want other men as competition
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:54 PM
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A lot of women rule out bisexual men as an option
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:46 PM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:44 PM
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Because it's more accepted. I think more men are more sexually fluid than they let on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:15 PM
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Accountability? For men? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 06:54 PM
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Well I’m sorry to break it to you but women consume porn just as much too.. and even in countries were they have internet they also consume a lot of porn too.. like shit porn cds are literally sold openly in common place markets in foreign countries (seen it live) Just as much? Nah. Well the racism claim is very very difficult to prove .. you just threw that in there This feels intellectually dishonest. You're the same dude who think nobody values young white women for being white so I'm just go…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 06:27 PM
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Also I've seen many smart, educated, and well-off black girls who still end up with that kind of guy. I'm not "educated" and I'm not "well off", that's not who I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 06:17 PM
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The social recognition part is pure bullshit. Black people who graduate from college and make it in the corporate world get the most social recognition. People with lower standards get more pussy. Maybe the women fucking criminals... are criminals? Women join gangs, too. I got bullied by black boys all throughout school for being dark skinned, tall, and a nerd, but I don't get on majority white subreddits and throw y'all under the bus. I hate when men say shit like this because the women who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:52 PM
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I'm African American, and our culture seems not to value common human decency at all, especially our women in my experience. Yes, it's black women bolstering the crime rates of black people. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:43 PM
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And what baggage exactly are western men bringing? Porn consumption is widely common here in a way that it isn't in other more conservative countries Their resentment of women doesn't magically shut off when they get on an airplane Racism and racial fetishes/thinking the people of other countries are beneath them The power imbalance of being a westerner (currency exchange rate and being privileged in the eyes of other governments) Was this an honest question? Y'all really think y'all shit don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:34 PM
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So aside from the attempt to debate, you admitted that single women are the primary consumers of vibrators despite claiming that vibrators are intended for use during sex with a partner. You're so desperate to win an argument that you're just going to pretend that I said that so you can feel right? Show me where I claimed vibrators are intended for use during sex with a partner and you actually get a point. Hint: "Many sex toys are made to be used with couples =/= vibrators are made to be used w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 05:19 PM
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Idk. You tell me. I already gave my solution (vibrators) and you didn't like it Well yeah because the inside of the vagina is almost dead anyway. I'm talking about with any stimulation at all, whether it be another tongue or a hand or whatever other part of a man's body can be used to touch it. Something tells me a dude who says oral sex isn't "actual sex" wasn't gonna make an attempt anyway I don't think this is true because I own a hitachi wand that plugs into the wall and I still just use my …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 10:47 AM
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No I made it my flair because ppl always shit on short men and I'm sick of it /: Also I'm not a dominatrix at all, quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:48 AM
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I mean dudes who are older than her, 30+, including creepy grandpas.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:32 AM
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Something, something, simulated pregnancy puts them in a state of mind to want a provider
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:25 AM
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the only way that women can actually get off is by oral sex or manual stimulation, which isn't even really sex So women are just supposed to not cum? Vibrators are only further ensuring that women won't orgasm from actual sex. Here we go with the boring ass "actual sex" shit. They don't lessen the sensation of penetration, so this makes no sense. No, I asked you why single women are the primary buyers of vibrators. Who the hell uses vibrating cock rings anymore besides boomers? What does this qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:24 AM
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The pill destroyed the dating market through overriding women's natural priority for parental investment. I thought birth control made women want betas
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 02:05 AM
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Obviously, we don't/won't. If vibrators aren't exclusively made to imitate/replace dicks, how can they be setting unrealistic genital expectations? Then why are single women the biggest consumers? Vibrating cock rings were made for single women? ​ Most women do not use erotica to masturbate. They use toys and a mix of media and their imagination. The imagination comes from erotica lol it's not like anyone takes out a book and is just reading it and fapping at the same time Let's not forget some …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:59 AM
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I think we need to get medical science to the point where we can ensure that everyone is born with the genetic potential to fall within the conventional ideal range of physical appearance. Either that or improve cosmetic surgery so that everyone who doesn't have the genes to be tall attractive ect can just fix their flaws with surgery. Elliot Rodger wasn't ugly, he was a fucking weird asshole. You can be genetically engineered to be handsome and still be a weird asshole. Genetically engineered p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:50 AM
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oh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:45 AM
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Why not? I've seen advice given to not use vibrating sex toys because they are unrealistic (genitals don't vibrate) and they in some cases can cause resistance to stimulation so it actually takes more stimulation to get the same effect. Genitals don't vibrate, but... how were you gonna use your dick on a clitoris anyway? Also, many sex toys are made to be used by couples I think it would be correct to say that we can compare men's porn usage to women's sex toy usage. The real comparison would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:32 AM
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Nah dude I totally called the cops
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 01:20 AM
2

don't hate on vibrators lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:35 AM
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if the relationship is going stale, you likely don't have very strong feelings and you don't feel like you're "in love"/in a relationship apart from saying/affirming that you are and maybe living together if you are living together. I was still in love with him, but I wanted more for myself and he didn't. Right, so if you're seeing the relationship deteriorate, you feel less and less like you're in that relationship because you've already mentally separated yourself. That's what I meant by "brea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:33 AM
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I hate them all and it's not because they're ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:26 AM
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Jesus .. why did you feel the need to frame Guys that go to different countries for better dating prospects as some sort of pedophiles?? Define "better dating prospects" All this out of spite? The only part of this I'm resentful about is western men acting like they're not a part of the problem and bringing all this baggage to countries where they have financial leverage. I didn't invent the term "sexpat".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:22 AM
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I didn't break up with him before the relationship ended though, I just noticed the decaying of the relationship even though I wanted to keep trying. There's a difference between thinking you're in a happy relationship and then suddenly finding out you're being cheated on and seeing your relationship slowly deteriorate until you find out you're being cheated on. The latter is less painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:16 AM
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I didn't find anyone else, I'm just hesitant to give up on a relationship over a gut feeling. I feel like something is wrong, try to talk about it or fix it, and am not shocked when the relationship deteriorates further.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 12:05 AM
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I'm 5'11" and my boyfriend is 5'3", so was the last one. I like when my man's face comes up to boob height and I think tall men are overrated because I have six 5'9+ brothers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:58 PM
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if she's 23 and white she's in demand bc older dudes thirsty for her fountain of youth skew the dating market you discussed variables in weight but what about variables in age?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:58 PM
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yeah but how old is this hypothetical chick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:45 PM
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lmfao I felt something was off for a while for many reasons, he kept accusing me of cheating when I didn't then suddenly I get a DM of screenshots from some other girl he cheated on me with, and it all just made sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:44 PM
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​ If at some point you come to the realization that this will be over soon, why not just end it right then? It's not always practical, and sometimes I wanted to be wrong, so I tried to keep it together, but in the end, it dissolved anyway, and I had already started the mourning process so I was ahead of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:38 PM
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I'm calling the cops
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:32 PM
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This comment has only been posted for an hour lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:30 PM
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I personally always see the end of relationship coming. That's why I seem to bounce back fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:28 PM
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I think the unsaid part here isn’t that the choice is “woman or no woman,” it’s that they don’t want the Western women who will have them. So they want to move somewhere where they can get a higher league chick Yes lmao They bust out this bullshit sob story about how toxic the western dating market is for men, but in reality they just want to use their whiteness and good currency exchange rate to get a 19 year-old.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 11:27 PM
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Who is he trying to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 07:37 PM
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This is the second post I've seen in the last ten seconds where women couldn't use paragraph breaks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:42 AM
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This seems extremely low-effort but if anyone answers this it'll be hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:50 AM
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We don't want to fuck multiple women because we want to be Chad. We want to fuck multiple women because we can't have the ideal monogamous relationship. Also, the state of the SMP makes this is the best dating strategy for men. We aren't doing this because we want to, we are doing it because its the only option. And not a single grain of accountability was had that day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 08:18 AM
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Now you're just making hamstering into an Olympic sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 11:25 PM
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You can’t say shit like “the law is the only thing protecting women from the wrath of men” and then bitch about women who express fear of men or say all men are potential rapists. The fact that they even compare women hating men for this to men hating women for not fucking them blows my mind every day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 09:32 PM
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True, I think some young women have no idea just how terrible men can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:51 PM
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Quick question, so is a man who is approached by women automatically a chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 03:59 PM
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Not intimidated, but I find all people who live life on easy mode boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 12:55 AM
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Opinions are personal. The only person any of us can really speak for is ourselves. Or is there some data you're pulling from?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 03:15 PM
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Yeah sure, actual equality is a bad faith argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:03 PM
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It seems like this is one of the men here's biggest fantasies lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 03:12 AM
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So what you're really saying is that YOU needed a slut phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:54 PM
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do you feel the same about a sugarbaby? nope Generally, fear that the manslut will cheat. Is that a "fear" or do promiscuous people cheat more?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:56 PM
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most chose not to, they can afford an escort. Most don't take that route. I mean being able to have casual sex (for free) but choosing not to. Being a John is a completely different story and something I find extra disgusting. You don't get brownie points for not doing this lol They will be more naturally attracted to the manslut Maybe in real life, but in this hypothetical, they're identical. but then might force themselves to pick the virgin. If they "forced themselves" to pick the virgin, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:08 PM
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By that logic, being a virgin is better than being a manwhore because it's the path of least resistance. Well, that's not why. I said being a promiscuous woman is NOT AS BAD because it's the path of least resistance, but I didn't say it was good. Some men are virgins despite trying their damndest to get laid. I wouldn't select these dudes just because they're virgins, but a man who could've lost his virginity but chose not to? Now that's effort that I can see as valuable. Yet we all know who wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:15 PM
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Damn, whatever it takes to defend the good honor of casual sex, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 07:42 AM
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Sure it is! Staying home and fapping is a much more realistic, obtainable goal, compared to becoming a billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:18 AM
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Now I know you're bullshitting. Let's have a race: You become a billionaire as fast as you can and I will... stay home and masturbate as fast as I can. Let's see who gets to their goal first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:58 AM
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No, it's pointless because I could get a better outcome without risking pregnancy, all from the comfort of my own home.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:51 AM
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No, that's perfect. Do that. Interactions like these just demonstrate how goddamn pointless it is to have casual sex as a woman, so thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:42 AM
2

Is that because apparently men like you hide your selfishness "until it's too late"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:35 AM
2

When I say I wouldn't fuck a man who thinks like this, it's not because I'm trying to insult you, it's because that is a boring-ass outlook on sex and an opinion of sex I find unappealing in people I actually want to fuck. Your assertion that I can't have this standard and that men who think like you will simply trick me is pure hater shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:02 AM
2

yes, skewed, like your concept of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:51 AM
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What a bitter-ass reply Yes I would lol all I have to do is not have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:14 AM
3

I'm just gonna stop because I would never fuck a dude who thinks like this, so this isn't my problem either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:09 AM
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Who is that a solution for? Oh right women. Isn't it a solution for everyone? If instead of intercourse, the focal point of sex is the man getting the woman off and the woman getting the man off, that would be the most equal exchange!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:00 AM
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I don't think promiscuity itself is good in the first place, so not only do I disagree with the "effort" argument in favor of male sluts being seen in a better light, I think it has the reverse effect. Being a slut because you tried to is more pathetic than being a slut absentmindedly or because it's the path of least resistance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:09 PM
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One time I hooked up with this dude who was spiritually meh and the vibes were awkward, and he beatboxed at the end, but he did not give a fuck about any kind of future with me until I agreed that the interaction should be casual and talked about wanting to get back with my ex. It's almost like he wanted me to have a one-sided attachment to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 08:17 PM
1

I don't need to date modern men to know why women are more narcissistic than men. 30% of young men can't even get laid to begin with, you think they are narcissistic? Bold of you to assume someone has to get laid to be a narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 09:31 AM
2

The only strong desire I want her to have is the desire to have sex with me. This doesn't sound sustainable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:51 AM
2

Penetrative sex is enough for men so you needing clitoral stimulation is by default more than he needs. During sex you need clitoral stimulation to cum. He just needs the sex. You need extra attention. This is so self-absorbed lol I guess the solution is to reject the premise of penetrative sex being the focal sex act. We can both give one another oral. If your partner cumming is "extra", why waste everyone's time when you could just jack off? But also, do women never suck their dick before they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:28 AM
1

I think a good leader leads because he thinks he's best for the job, not from a thirst of power. Good leaders want what's best for the people they're leading, not what appeases them. Bad leaders are looking for a reprieve from their sense of powerless and care about exerting their will first and foremost. Bad leaders are control freaks who cannot take any criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 05:43 AM
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From where I'm sitting, touching my clit isn't "more". Most, if not all, women who masturbate touch their clitoris. Your entire mentality of sex revolving around penetration is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:51 AM
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I've dated a couple of women, and yeah, didn't like it much, but have you dated modern men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:44 AM
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I love seeing men here get accused of being women lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:36 AM
1

Oh? I thought only Chads were getting casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:32 AM
1

And I'm sure those are very real statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:31 AM
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Because a third of women can cum from piv so the clit is not the dick. It's probably because the G-spot and the fact that the clit surrounds the vagina entrance. Maybe a better analogue would be the prostate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:29 AM
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Nah more like if a dude complained about not being able to cum without you touching the tip of his dick
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:19 AM
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It works on men, too! I'd explain it in more detail but then I'd have to charge you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:17 AM
1

I know your comment is 2 months old, but I can't resist. You know what I hear when you women say "my temporary body?" I think what you're really saying is you choose a guy for "who he is as a person" so you can securely let yourself go. Actually, getting into my current relationship made me want to take better care of myself. Part of what keeps me going is my boyfriend telling me how proud he is of me. I've definitely heard other women say the thing about not having to try anymore, but whether y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:16 AM
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Sucking up is too a skill
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:05 AM
1

If I didn't think a man was good leader, I wouldn't want to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 02:37 AM
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You miss understood, im talking about strict monogamy and the united states military is not a good group to use for that argument since their OVERSEAS. Why does it matter whether or not they were overseas?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:54 PM
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Nah you have no proof or evidence so deal with it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_military_and_prostitution_in_South_Korea And that's just one war. Nah, I like my FWB and spinning plates lifestyle very convenient. So men... DON'T like monogamy...?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:38 PM
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Yea a handful of them, most people had a partner back then unlike now, there are always the small outliers. Men always say it was outliers or only a handful of men, but I call bullshit, especially considering that men used to be drafted into wars. Nah, men liked monogamy because it worked, and it's better than what we have now. Then go be monogamous lmao nobody is stopping you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:18 PM
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There is a high chance caring women will corner this market which was for the taking for MGTOW leaders I've been thinking about doing this! Part of why I came here was to understand these men more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:12 PM
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For the most part it was, because it was rooted in Christianity and the church. Fucking prostitutes is NOT casual sex your paying for it. "Evening the playing field", now yall are complaining because dating is messed up and still "unfair" because it took yall decades to realize casual sex only benefits the top men and not women in the long run. Sucks to suck. 1) It doesn't matter whether they paid for it or not, men were still having extramarital sexual relationships. Men of the past only liked …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:08 PM
3

In the link, Batman is tied up and he's talking to some Cheetah-themed villainness about her motives and how she was a scientist and used herself as a test subject. He shows admiration for her ambition and then starts dropping breadcrumbs of attraction, saying shit like "Maybe I like danger... try me" Then she kisses him lmao He didn't lie, he verbally sparred with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:02 PM
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Because too many women know in their heart of hearts they should leave a dude and are asking for advice so someone can convince her otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:48 PM
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Yeah but sometimes the cinematography of rape scenes makes me feel like the director was getting off to it ):
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:47 PM
1

Your point was to ask a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:36 PM
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Casual sex was looked down on during that time, it was only after women were given rights that the sexual revolution came which introduced casual sex so I don't see your point. You said it was "strictly monogamy", it was not. Casual sex as we know it is new, yes, but men have been fucking prostitutes and "loose women" whether or not they were married for a long time. Women fighting for their right to have sexual freedom were simply evening the playing field. Men are the architects and leaders of…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:35 PM
1

Time and time again, men have demonstrated that if the definition of disrespect still includes getting laid, they don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:26 PM
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No women are only to blame, it was women that wanted casual sex in the first place, under a traditional society it was strictly monogamy. No it's not lmao, hookers always existed, and nothing was stopping a husband from fucking hookers when his wife was financially dependent on him. Fuckboys were the blueprint for the Sexual Revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:17 PM
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He's bitter-posting, that's what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:13 PM
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What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 10:12 PM
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It isn't about "should" though. I've definitely seen an argument with a man here who said men shouldn't be expected to do anything but have a dick to get their partners off because "women aren't expected to do anything but have a pussy"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 09:51 PM
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I may have commented on that. Penetration is nice, and I don't mind if I don't orgasm IF there's an intimate connection. I don't like the idea that women should enjoy penetration for penetration's sake in casual encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:52 PM
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Because compared to men, casual sex is a high risk, low reward situation for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:49 PM
2

IKR?? I was gonna say something like that, but didn't know how to not sound like a pervert lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:41 PM
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Neither of us were chasing Stacy or Chad (I'm no Stacy lmao) I left this really pretty pashmina scarf over one guy's house, and he was so scared I caught feelings he couldn't even answer the phone long enough for me to get it back. Another guy didn't want me to get any ideas of wanting something more but backpedaled when I agreed and talked to him about getting back with my bf at the time. My point is that even if they aren't a "Chad", or douchebag or high school bully, many average men envy Cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:38 PM
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Not TikTok!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:05 PM
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I mean, while you're 100% right about it, you can't do anything once she plays the trust card. It's sad, but what it is at this point. That's a trap, homie. "Don't you trust me?" Famous last words. Ask for her to show you the CarFax (proof of birth control) or RUN
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:04 PM
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this is kind of a modern radfem take Shhh don't tell them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:59 PM
6

describe "ghettoization" without being racist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:57 PM
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No, subcommunication, aka how to say something but nothing at the same time. Cartoon example: https://twitter.com/greatgalaktyka/status/1361112371163504642
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:52 PM
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Okay wait I think I had the bases mixed up, I thought first base was kissing and touching above clothing and second base was under clothing, third base was where STDs come into play, and a homerun was penetration
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:48 PM
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Was the conversation about sex or casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:46 PM
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Often these men were portrayed as being effeminate because of this lack of manly virtues. Interestingly enough, men who are best at talking their way into a woman's panties have mastered the art of communicating like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:43 PM
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In a casual context, second base max?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:41 PM
2

The handful of times I had casual sex, I picked really average, run-of-the-mill guys, and it still wasn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:37 PM
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Yeah, but only a fool takes someone's word for it when it comes to birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:32 PM
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Don't be! <3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:13 PM
3

So 90% of women you know get off on penetration, okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:56 PM
1

Do you remember which thread it was?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:55 PM
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You said "penetration feels good for 90% of women most even get off during it" You can't say that just because YOU do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:46 PM
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How can it be from personal experience if you made a statement speaking on other people's experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:42 PM
1

Well I, for one, don't eat ice-cream because I'm lactose intolerant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:40 PM
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No. Casual sex is a stupid concept for women who haven't gotten a tubal litigation. There's nothing casual about risking pregnancy, tricking your body into thinking you're pregnant by taking hormones, or getting an implant in your uterus. There's nothing casual about getting an abortion. Any woman willing to do that just to fuck a dude is lowballing herself. inb4 someone accuses me of having low/no libido: NAH, I'm insanely horny. Fucking men is much more worth it after getting to know them, bui…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:39 PM
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I don't think casual sex is bad because I'm a prude and I want to control women's sexuality, I think casual sex is bad because men don't deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:22 PM
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Penetration feels good for 90% of women most even get off during it Souce?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:19 PM
2

In a picture? Women. Moving/talking/interacting with? Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 05:32 PM
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It's considered settling because simply being alone is an option now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:03 AM
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Just because you're HUMAN with PASSION for SOMETHING, doesn't mean shit. What if the person is a human with passion for NOTHING? Nothing as in death or the end of all things? That can be interesting lol Here's another mentaly gymnastics exercise example, what if the person is a human with passion for the most nihilistic black pill out there? LOL Optimistic nihilism is good, actually. It personally convinced me to cherish my temporary stint on this earth and not to get too depressed about existin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:06 PM
2

Since when do board gaming groups have good gender ratios (assuming you mean MTG and not Monopoly)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:47 PM
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No Jesus Christ you should be interesting because you're HUMAN with PASSION for SOMETHING, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:44 PM
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I am a six foot tall woman and my boyfriend is 5'3". I think he hopes our kids are all, but I know being tall isn't all it's cracked up to be and I hope our children are somewhere in the middle. I feel confident in my ability to help my son get bitches if he's as tall as his dad lmao One thing I know my children are going to catch hell for regardless of their gender is my preference for dark skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:26 PM
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it's just a matter of if he's willing to commit or not. Yeah exactly so I don't fucking care how "desirable" he is because I want commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:10 PM
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wtf is a low n-count whore lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 03:50 AM
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It also means he's dedicated and willing to put in the work to achieve what he wants. If what you want is pussy, this "ambition" doesn't mean shit if you're looking for a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:26 AM
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Yes that's HOT
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 02:24 AM
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I know great people with high n counts of both genders. Maybe it's just who you talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:57 AM
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A low N-count gained through self-restraint is far more valuable than a low n-count due to lack of choice. Facts. The former is what I'm looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:51 PM
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Why complain about how women have no consequences of sex and get mad when I make suggestions aimed to increase men's reproductive agency the exact same way women got it? From all the pushback I'm getting, I'm starting to think men don't want birth control options lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:26 PM
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Some people just want to believe their opinion is unpopular lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:31 AM
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Okay, now do men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:29 PM
2

RPW as in RedPillWomen or RedPillWives?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:28 PM
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ITT: Men find out about no nut clarity and are upset
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 07:31 PM
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I didn't say a man did it. Not that it fucking matters when you're raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 06:45 AM
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Eventually he liked her smell, and she was irrational for having it weigh her down for years despite that things changed. If he eventually liked her smell, that means there was never anything wrong with her, and he decided to make her feel like shit instead of admitting that he was inexperienced. He was being irrational, you just think she should get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:06 AM
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All of you can -- and have. Come ON LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 10:58 PM
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Thereby making this not a ghetto post?You can pretend to be "ghetto" because you heard it on the internet, but actual "ghetto" people throw hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:15 PM
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Unless they heard it on TikTok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:11 PM
2

I see violence as the end-all, be-all, when I have beef with anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:58 PM
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If this was truly ghetto, the girl saying she could steal someone's man would've gotten the shit kicked out of her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:57 PM
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same lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:22 PM
1

I dated girls but wasn't sexual with them. At most, I kissed one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 01:31 AM
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Omg there's this video of these dudes building an underground pool circulating on the internet... hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 12:03 AM
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Sad people are funnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 11:58 PM
2

I realized after watching this video that I would have realized I'm attracted to men earlier if someone had made me sit down and watch professional tennis. It's not just their legs, it's the technical skill and seeing their decision-making process. Also the noises he's making
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:50 PM
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When men could follow their biological imperative, having multiple partners, they decided not to and embraced monogamy because it was better for everyone. Having a side-piece isn't embracing monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:44 PM
1

cocaine fuckin sucks lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 08:11 PM
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when I can't imagine rape (in the form of e.g. a girl riding my cock while I'm asleep without my consent) being comparably traumatic for me. How about being anally penetrated against your will?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 07:12 AM
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i think the pedo hysteria is doing a lot to help sexlessness in young men. Damn now I don't feel so bad about sexlessness lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 07:08 AM
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It's not empathy lol I didn't defend feminist hypocrisy, because I don't spend much time complaining about benevolent sexism. Saying it isn't the same as empathy isn't saying I don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 06:05 AM
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I am definitely attracted to benevolent sexism lmao I just said it isn't empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:30 AM
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I've helped my best friend do yard work and clean his house before. But also, I've done woman shit like cook food for him =P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:07 AM
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My best friend since high school is a man. We met because we were both nerds, but like, emo, so too cool for the other nerds? I started talking to him, and it turns out we live one block away, so we started walking to school together and he would come over to my house to play video games. Whoever had money paid for the food. There were many times I was the one with money, and many times he was the one with money. One time I bought us tickets to the Legend of Zelda Symphony, just because I wanted…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 03:22 AM
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Also men will save women strangers' lives from danger, but women won't lift a finger for men. Even gay men will protect women. How do you explain that? That has fuck all to do with empathy, and more to do with chivalry/benevolent sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 02:39 AM
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Nice to see someone openly admit they aren't interested in the truth. Duly noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 02:05 AM
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In one of our early lovemaking sessions, she asked me why I never went down on her. The honest truth was I had never gone down on any woman before and didn’t have an experience with giving oral sex. When I did go down on her the first time, her smell was very foreign and off-putting to me. I told her she didn’t smell so fresh down there and gave that as the reason why I never went down on her. Instead of admitting that he had no experience he decided to make it about her smell. There is no indic…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:19 AM
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When I see anyone act like this I will assume they are a femcel. And you'll be wrong lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:10 AM
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Men have been half-assing their role as fathers for generations Feminism only caught on with the government/media because it's financially beneficial The anticipation of having to wait to fuck someone is really hot The whole 80/20 thing with men and attractiveness is only true in situation of a hypothetical woman just wants casual sex. Why wouldn't you just go for a hot one? IRL seeing the way men move, the way they smell, the way they sound, it's easy to find many regular-looking dudes attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:09 AM
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Yeah you're wrong lmao This wasn't a woman, and there's nothing stopping other men from using the same talking points that you're scapegoating onto "FDS" posters
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:31 PM
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There's gotta be more to life than getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:08 PM
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Then it doesn't make sense for you to blame this on female posters?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:07 PM
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Let us not sugarcoat it : rejecting the sexual advances of someone is equivalent to denying the meaning of their existence. I'm at a loss for words
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:55 PM
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Me: No, your choice is to either associate with shitty people or not. You: Exactly, we can either associate with women or not. It's really not hard to come to the conclusion that to YOU, shitty people = all women You could just say what you fucking mean instead of copy-pasting the same comment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:47 PM
2

So all women are evil, got it. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:44 PM
1

These rabid femcel posters Is u/FatGirlsInPartyHats even a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:43 PM
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No, your choice is to either associate with shitty people or not. This learned helplessness shit is tired. Take responsibility for your interpersonal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:40 PM
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Nah lmao, you're responsible for the kind of people you associate with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:34 PM
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If there is a chance their partner sees them as means to attain resources/emotional support Emotional support? You mean mutual love and companionship? You're equating that to wanting to get into a relationship for "resources"? What the fuck are relationships for, then? If the woman you're with gives all the markers that she will likely desire you without all the time/money you put into the relationship, you have a far higher incentive to put more effort into the relationship, as your chances of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:14 PM
1

Shifting men's personal responsibility onto women in general again?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:53 PM
0

You mean to tell me... that just like many women hyperfocus on "Chad", many men hyperfocus on "Stacy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:50 PM
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You mean at least one woman settled for him. And who's to say another one won't "settle" for him long enough to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:34 PM
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No, I mean the ones who commented on this thread to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:12 AM
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Everything doesn't warrant a comment. Did it ever occur to you that many people, women even, saw this and simply said nothing because they agreed? The fact that you didn't even challenge the men shifting the blame to women makes me question your sincerity in OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 10:02 AM
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Ain't that why we're all here? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:53 AM
1

I saw your post and upvoted it. Do you only consider a post acknowledged if someone posts a response? But why don’t you tell me what the female perspective is again? ??? I think you're talking to the wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:46 AM
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Is bitching that nooooo it's the OTHER SIDE that's the problem adding more to the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:41 AM
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Men are far more empathetic toward women than women are toward men. Nah That's why you have so many male feminists and simps out there Trying to get laid =/= empathy Women are for the most part quite cold blooded toward male strangers and that's not even talking about sex where they literally hit zero kelvin. So your previous statements are about how men treat female STRANGERS? Lol hell no they're not empathetic. The most popular way to attempt to imbue men with a shit to give about women's prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:36 AM
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The joke was I could've deflected from the point of this post and put all the responsibility onto one side but you beat me to it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 09:30 AM
0

no, men ):
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:58 AM
1

Financial autonomy can never be put on the same plane as biological autonomy because our financial autonomy is shaky at best. You can't opt out of paying taxes, and you have very little agency in what the money goes to. Your right to your body is more important than your right to your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:51 AM
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Because scientists used to think women didn't have orgasms?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:29 AM
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Most married men - most men - are so unattractive they can't attract any woman. Remember OKC- 80% of men are below average. "Below average" = UNATTRACTIVE. I think the 80% thing applies to through the internet only. If they got married, at least one woman wanted him for some reason and for some reason, being married can also make a man more attractive to women. Most men do not cheat because they can't. They are not attractive enough. And never will be. "Attractive" is too subjective for this to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:04 AM
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Because we are told that they're going to inevitably act on that desire? It's like you said: Married women don't fuck other men just for the sake of fucking other men. Married men, however, do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:51 AM
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Who doesn't want to fuck other people? The desire to is meaningless without action.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:30 AM
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It’s really a test of whether or not the woman is actually attracted to him for his being as opposed to that utility which he can provide for her. Just because you're attracted to someone doesn't mean it makes sense to jump into bed with them, especially as the gender who gets pregnant. It's very presumptuous to assume that a relationship is one-sided utility. People in a relationship "use" each other. It's a mutual exchange of give and take. Men who have options to be sexually intimate with wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:58 AM
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If a man leaves because a woman doesn't want to have sex until there's a relationship, waiting is a test of character in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:23 AM
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Second, the point is that women have a very hard time accepting that men want to fuck other women while being married to, and loving, them. Define "accept". We know lmao The whole "and loving them" part is up for debate if you act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:15 AM
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lmao then what's the fuckin point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 01:28 AM
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It makes sense as someone who can get pregnant, duh. I don't like birth control, I don't want to have an abortion, and I want to have children. It only makes sense to wait until I find someone interested in starting a family with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 01:18 AM
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Crying is a shitty way to deal with your emotions. There is no conclusive evidence that crying makes you feel better. Any benefit is felt in a small amount of people and never consistently. Objection!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:19 AM
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Condoms suck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:11 AM
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I'm horny all the time, I just hate hormonal birth control and I don't want to have an abortion, so that helps with the self-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 12:02 AM
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Why even go through the trouble and discomfort of preventing pregnancy with someone I'm not committed to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:55 PM
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Blanket philosophical claims tend to be illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:54 PM
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You keep glossing over this shit in a way only someone who will never have to deal with it can
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:51 PM
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Youre conflating sex in the philosophical sense with sex in the personal sense. You're the one expecting a philosophical position held by a political group to be reflected in individual actions "Feminists" aren't even a monolithic group, there's plenty of in-fighting and disagreements. The point is for women to be able to choose for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:48 PM
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The sex ended up being great because we worked on it constantly. You can learn how to be good at sex, you know? -- Just wanted to add in, I didn't make him take me on dates before we became official, we could tell we were good for each other by hanging out casually. Two very important points OP doesn't realize
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:34 PM
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You specifically targeted this post towards women who want to have sex within a relationship though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:27 PM
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No it isn't lol Nobody has the right to make that call for others
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:23 PM
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No, my goal is finding a life-partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:22 PM
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Where's the nuance? what if I asked that dude to call me a bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 10:39 PM
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It is not in my best interest to fuck men who haven't demonstrated interest in a committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 10:38 PM
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It makes sense for men to believe this, but why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 10:30 PM
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Not instantly fucking a dude is treating him "worse"? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 10:22 PM
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If sex is "no big deal" like some purport, then act like it? Treat sex no different than a game of chess or a handshake. Or drop the "sex is no big deal" argument altogether. Or just admit that sex has the ability to damage women. Or let people decide how they feel about it as individuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 10:20 PM
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Waiting until a relationship to find out if you two have sexual compatibility is moronic There are ways to measure sexual compatibility without having sex any man who agrees to take you on many dates and go as far as entering an Relationship with you without ever having sex is a beta male you will lose attraction for sooner than later anyway Maybe I like betas =P The part about losing attraction to them is just wishful thinking on your part I think women lose out on a lot awesome guys because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 10:18 PM
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shouldn't be like that since you didn't choose you are not responsible BUT if your bad experience with men is based on those you did chose then you need to work in yourself. My negative experiences with men have been with my family
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 10:06 PM
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If we're accepting polgyny is a real drive of men, why bitch about alimony existing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 09:46 PM
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Well, the plan is to fuck plenty of women while young and then find some chick to be monogamous with once I've had enough. Maybe the accusation that women want to do this is projection lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 09:42 PM
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Sometimes the first time you learn men are trash is through men you didn't even choose (family)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 09:06 PM
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I also am doing an olive oil, lemon juice and apple cider vinegar "cleanse" every other day. Been going good so far. May I ask why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:54 PM
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I do OMAD now, after cutting carbs out of my diet in December, I don't even feel hunger as intensely as I used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:41 PM
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Here? On PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:39 PM
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In the "red pill" past women weren't nutting more, it just didn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 08:38 PM
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Once again, men cannot be held responsible for their own actions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:57 PM
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Men have been strong and independent for millennia and never prevented men from bonding and be the father/husband and provider to the household. No they haven't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 07:07 PM
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I think a lot of people don't live in the moment in general, kind of like the point about loving the earth: some people just exist and don't even let themselves marvel at nature, and the human body is a part of that. Sometimes you gotta just stop and smell the roses. Do you ever just do foreplay without penetration? Do you ever just try to discover your partner's sexual personality? Things like tantric sex and different kinds of kink encourage looking at sex in a different light.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 06:43 PM
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You could use an eyebrow pencil on it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 05:26 PM
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Polycules
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:59 AM
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This is to suggest that a can of Campbell’s soup chooses its buyer with the same agency as its buyer has in choosing which soup to buy (or whether or not to buy soup at all). In reality, one of the two actually has a choice and the other doesn’t. The analogy can be extended to the Campbell’s soup company executives with similar holding. Nope, when you remember that men are actual people and not cans of soup, this gets a bit more tricky. Campbell's executives choose primary audiences and changes …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:57 AM
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Maybe if they focused on the physiological clit FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 03:04 AM
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It’s not really that hard. Most men do not get to choose anything but whether or not to accept what they are offered. Period. The grocery store analogy would be standing outside the store and choosing to accept whatever you are given by shoppers exiting the store or not. They also get to choose who they offer themselves to. The pivotal part of this analogy where men are allegedly outside "the store" and women are inside is because men CHOOSE to be easy. The only thing stopping men from being ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:56 AM
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Men will fuck anything, focusing on what men do on OLD is shifting the goal-posts. Even on OLD, the women who are perceived as the least attractive are black women, and the stereotype that we all wear weaves/wigs is a component of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:26 AM
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I've never in my entire life seen a woman ridiculed for wearing a wig. And God fucking knows if you haven't seen it, it doesn't happen, right? I could post twenty different videos made by twenty different people shitting on black women for wearing extensions/wigs, I could do much more than twenty, but they're so abundant that the only way you could possibly not know of this phenomenon is not giving a shit, so why waste my time? I don't understand why you have a vested interested in denying reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 01:07 AM
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You're out of touch with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:55 AM
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CRITICISM-FREE? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:51 AM
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Who wears a wig and navigates the world completely criticism-free?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:48 AM
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No, we criticize men who wear toupees AND CAN BE CLOCKED, ie Donald Trump. Anyone who wears a wig and it's super obviously a wig (the tracks are showing, hair texture doesn't match) will get clowned. Case in point: " especially poc. " lol no, white women wear extensions all the time, you just don't THINK they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:43 AM
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Yes, somewhat, but not nearly as limited as men are in sexual selection. Once again, this is a hard comparison to quantify. This is literally comparing apples and oranges getting laid. Offering oneself for choice and competeing to be chosen is not agency in choice. Yes it is, you have a choice in who you offer yourself to and who you compete for, or the option to opt out, just like women do. A Mercedes E-class, BMW 5-Series, and Audi A6 all compete with each other to be the choice of a given lux…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:41 AM
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I looked it up and the Internet says he's 5'10", but tbh I feel that he looks fairly tall. I think that's enough in tandem with his whiteness for him to do well with women, especially considering he's on 90 Day Fiance. But it could just be the fact that the best fuckboys learn to be emotionally manipulative from their fucked up relationship with their mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:32 AM
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Nope, he's a tall white man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:27 AM
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Most men can’t tell because women will tell them they’re not wearing makeup, when they really have foundation on. lol most men can't tell because they don't know anything about makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:10 AM
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Men should do their eyebrows for sure. Some men should wear eyeliner. I think getting your beard filled in with makeup should be a thing, too. Also, go to a good barber and get a line-up. The point of makeup is supposed to be to look like it isn't makeup. If men mastered that, women wouldn't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 12:03 AM
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Yes, they really do. Poor people in the Western world are given a subsidy payment which allows them to go into Whole Foods and select almost anything that the person with an Amex Black Card can, though they are more constrained in the amounts that they can consume. They're also limited to which grocery stores they can go to and bring groceries home from in the first place. Men, on the other hand, have almost no choice other than to accept that which they are offered or not. A man who "shoots his…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:57 PM
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Poor people in Western countries (and probably most countries) have vastly greater degrees of freedom in their choice of diet than men do their choice of sexual partners Simply not eating isn't one of the options poor people in the west can make, though, so do they really have more freedom? There is no tangible way to measure choice of diet against choice in sexual partners, why even make that into a contest? noting here that satisfying sexual relationships are fundamental to human happiness, we…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:41 PM
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You went out of your way to vet millionaires unless that's just your social circle. And if it is just your social circle, I'm uninterested in more media about wealthy people because it's abundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:21 PM
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Three things about this analogy: This resembles real life and poor people are still held accountable for their restricted dietary habits via death. If you don't eat, you will die. You can live without a relationship. This analogy doesn't really answer the WHY of why you think men have no agency, just that you do, and you also believe women can select whatever they want from a quality pool in comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:03 PM
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went on about 40 dates exclusively with high value men. -- why I rejected men worth $50mil-$250mil This is where you lost my interest. There's enough books and movies about wealthy people, I don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:43 PM
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Accountability lies with those who have the power to be first movers. Accountability lies with those with free will. Women hold the power of sexual selection in Homo Sapiens Sapiens. With that great power comes great responsibility. Why do men think they have no agency? A woman can choose you and you can say "no". Very often, women only choose from the men who choose her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:41 PM
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Since women use it commercially (to extract utility from men), you teach us to see it as a good which is part of an exchange. You don’t have to teach us that, but you do. I thought dodging accountability was for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 09:36 PM
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Most people don't think about others outside of their utility to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 09:34 PM
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I'm pro-choice and I agree with all of this but until this is realized, I cannot be against abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:50 PM
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If women are not biologically obligated to support their children, men are not BIOLOGICALLY obligated to support their children Both men and women are FINANCIALLY obligated to support their children
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:48 PM
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27F knows the value of his traditional gender role (father/provider) and takes pride in fulfilling it spiritual; loves the earth and is discontent with modern society Tenacious/Has faced adversity in life and is overcoming it Elaborating on the last point, compassionate/understanding of people who face adversity in life Likes to learn Ambitious/wants more for himself Artistic/creative Loves sex (I gotta elaborate on this bc I think a lot of men don't actually like sex, they just like sexual rele…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:40 PM
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her improving just increases the chances she leaves. lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:49 AM
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Not effective enough, apparently. If there's that many unwanted pregnancies still, men need more contraceptive options than just condoms. You say women have been "liberated from all consequences of sex", but freedom ain't free. Contraceptives have a litany of side-effects, but that's the cost of increased agency over your fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:55 AM
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So we should give them more options like MALE BIRTH CONTROL?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:40 AM
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"holy shit I was a dumb kid making the same mistake she was making but it was totally up to her what would happen to me after that." If that was the real reason, you'd be advocating for male birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:30 AM
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There's more obvious equality issues here. We, having liberated women from all consequences of sex through abortion and contraception, we also have to do the same for men. You mean like male birth control?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:26 AM
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The same way any voter can effect any change. Voting for peeps and policies that you agree with Does voting for workers' rights count? Calling your local legislators and asking them to advocate for injustice towards men I'd need to be more specific than that, wouldn't I?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:43 PM
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This looks like you tried to write like a SJW
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:40 PM
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Can you give me a specific example in what way I, as a woman, can wield my power as a voter in the favor of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:38 PM
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Yeah, this is true, I also think she's sort of a "SJW" dating a regular straight guy and experiencing the culture shock
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:34 PM
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I think she's one of those queer women who never dated a heterosexual man before and is jarred by how straight men think/talk I can relate, but I didn't find it off-putting, I found it fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:33 PM
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.... go look at her pictures in her post history
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:30 PM
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Is what you're asking women for even within our power to change? I thought we were specifically talking about societal and legal disadvantages men deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:28 PM
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The alternative is cheating, so no, I am ALL FOR people breaking up over withholding of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:19 PM
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Lmfao yes they do. I don't think this guy did that, but they definitely do. There's a difference between being a feminist and avoiding the topic altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:15 PM
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Why else would they listen to what women want and give it to them if they didn't care? Because it was convenient lol Child support and alimony laws takes the burden off taxpayers and makes it an individual burden. Women entering the workforce gives employers more power by making employees more expendable. The men with mistresses (lawmakers) passed laws about birth control and abortion? SHOCKING. Women are the largest voting block. If they don't want it, it won't happen Women don't want paid mate…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:14 PM
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Surely these conversation happened pre-coitus Not necessarily the alternative is that she's fucking strangers and than learns how misogynstic they are. Or he wasn't a stranger, he just hadn't revealed that part of himself yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:11 PM
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She's got one foot out the door, so not hot/wealthy enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:10 PM
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She goes into it a bit here https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/luax4j/im_not_gonna_do_it_just_because_i_feel_bad_for_him/gp5j1g2?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:07 PM
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I'd like to know what she means by that EDIT: Okay so I found it " He generally speaks to an ideology of women being very dependent on men. I’ve tried to explain why I don’t think some of the things he says come across so great, and might make women feel like they aren’t fully autonomous or able to be self-satisfied, and it’s faced with a victim complex that I have little patience for. " " In general, and in a lot of conversations I’ve had with him, he mentions his mother, sisters, ex-girlfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 07:53 PM
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Men care about women? lol Don't mistake male lawmakers passing legislation that favors women as men caring about women. Men don't care about men, that's the real problem. Why would you be advocating to women instead of lawmakers in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 07:33 PM
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The logic is that men wouldn't say no even if they're not attracted to you because it's an opportunity to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 06:10 AM
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Can we have some men here to debate. ): Men aren't doing the work simply cause they want to. It's what they have to do to not end up lonely. For them to have same success in social life, women have to step it up which they won't cause the average man simple isn't attractive enough for them nor does he knows how to inflate his value which takes us back to my post of the balance being established through resources so everyone misses on some things and no one misses on some, making it equal. When y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 06:09 AM
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I hate this solution from women that always pushes the work onto men lol. It's actually encouraging them to do LESS work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 05:44 AM
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Don't worry, gender norms are pushed on everyone. Women just congregated and advocated against it being unfair. I think men should do that, too. As a woman who tends to approach men, I get the impression I'm stupid and I'm setting myself up to be used for sex, and that's the reasoning a lot of women use for expecting men to approach them. Wouldn't the pursuance rate balance out if men approached less?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 05:36 AM
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They're not willing to give up their inherent sexual power over men What do you mean? What would women giving up sexual power over men look like in practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 05:26 AM
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I was saying that if I accept her argument is true which I do not I still think it is a preferable alternative It doesn't matter because they're still single mothers and that's what the thread is about. These "good men" you champion as the solution don't want to have kids with them, and if they get them pregnant, they'll still leave. Let's not kid ourselves, part of the goal of economic mobility is access to "better" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 01:24 AM
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So your original argument was they just can't find good men and now it is well they can but they are just being used so they are better off dating guys who won't support them? So the difference is being a single mother who can get child support vs being a single mother who can't? Isn't the point of this post that some woman cannot find a man interested in staying and co-parenting?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 01:16 AM
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Yes because there's genuine attraction involved. It feels very validating when a person you barely know likes you enough to perform the most intimate physical experience with you It's not that deep, sometimes you're just drunk/high and horny
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:37 PM
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Not to join this dogpile, but entertain me: why are fat women way worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 05:06 PM
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Wait... You actually think there are no male prison guards/staff in women's prisons?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:36 PM
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Male sexual predators getting into women's prisons. You mean like how prison guards/staff already do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:07 AM
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Bold of you to assume that anyone would give a shit if you demanded to go to a women's prison
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:34 AM
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They are synonymous now. I have some sympathy with socialist ideas but I am patriotic and fairly nationalistic. It's not synonymous lol. Liberals want nothing to do with the left. Joe Biden spent the entire first presidential debate defending himself from Trump accusing him of having left-wing policies like police reform or climate change. Democrats are Republicans with better PR. How can any working-class White vote Left anymore when they attack them more than they attack the Oligarchs? Keep be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:01 AM
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Don't kid yourself. If things get really ugly, I'll just put on a dress, smear my mascara with some salty tears and call the police. "I'm an in-transition transwoman and they're attacking me! I don't feel safe!" The police? Help a trans woman? lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:57 PM
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Outsourcing to cheaper labor sources predates women "entering the workforce"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:48 PM
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"Women" didn't fight for shit, I wasn't even born yet. Jobs suck; I'm trying to be a housewife with a home business, you feel me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:36 PM
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Jewish is an ethnicity, not a race They're white lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:35 PM
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We even have the Corporations backing LGBT and BLM That's not the left, that's liberals my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:34 PM
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When you said a large part of "it" is biological, I thought you were referring to women valuing themselves based off their physical attractiveness, not other people valuing women based off their physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 10:18 PM
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for the 999th time... there is nothing to take for granted about being able to fuck random men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:25 PM
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So you have no basis for your opinion. Just your feels. Fair enough, but that's not a sufficient basis for your opinion and facts don't care about your feelings. And then you say: Wife Goggles is not about virtue. It's a phenomenon that happens to us married men. It's not something we choose or develop. It's something that just happens to us. lmaoooo this conversation is DEFINITELY about feels, buddy. "Wife Goggles" are not a tangible scientific phenomenon. It's about how you FEEL when you look …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:24 PM
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The only way you can express an opinion on this is if you've had experience with it AS A MAN. Then why isn't my comment disintegrating into the ether lol I can and will clown men trying to make up fake virtuous bullshit like "wife goggles" and not even having NOT fucking cheating as a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:15 PM
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Sorry, how you see your wife doesn't mean SHIT if you cheat on her. We can all quote ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:10 PM
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Then the term is worthless. Sorry, how you see your wife doesn't mean SHIT if you cheat on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:07 PM
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Men can't claim to have ""wife goggles"" and cheat at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 04:45 PM
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Women can see men's faults clearly, and make no bones about pointing out those faults to men every chance they get. lmfao if only this were true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 04:44 PM
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But there's a large part of it that's biological. you said this but didn't elaborate at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 04:35 PM
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Why would online dating raise anyone's self-esteem? Men will fuck anything, their sexual approval is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 04:12 PM
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No, it's not a risk, it's a modifiable risk-factor, meaning that whether or not kids participate in team sports affects their self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:07 AM
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yeah but Low self-esteem was associated with a number of modifiable risk factors including obesity, television time, team sports participation, school performance and parenting style Getting good is associated with higher self esteem. Watching television, aka social conditioning, is associated with lower self esteem. It makes no sense to go deeper into this without acknowledging that women deciding to base their self-worth off of their appearance doesn't happen in a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:02 AM
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Ugly women git gud in other areas of life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:50 AM
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Its even worse that they can change is but they don't lol. You mean that they haven't yet. The potential to not be fat/have facial hair only makes it worse if you're talking about people who refuse to change. But these equivalencies start to fall apart even harder when you consider that some women just naturally have facial hair and cannot be compared to something that is a detriment to your health. Might be both. The end result is she's a faulty being due to biological constraints or social con…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 04:33 AM
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Ugly women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 04:08 AM
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She doesn't see it as the equivalent of women with beards, because women with beards can shave. That's a malleable trait. Shortness is static. That's what I don't get about the "lol" attitude, at least women with beards and fat women are in a potentially temporary state. That's why I said being short is "worse". If someone has preferences that the majority of the opposite sex's *healthy* baseline population can't meet, you are genetically predisposed to disappointment and failure. I don't think …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:42 AM
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Not being tall affects the majority of the male population though lol My point is: I agree that being short is not the same thing as being fat, but that is also true in ways that discount the argument that being fat is "worse" in the context of the thread topic. How can we expect people to be open-minded about static human features when we can't even expect them to be open-minded about malleable ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:11 AM
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Well, I don't think it's an imperfection at all. I'm gonna engage with your second point anyway, because, lol why not? Playing devil's avocado, unlike being fat, you cannot hit the gym and get taller. Bringing us back to the point about "lowering standards", if a man sees a woman with a stache, he's not gonna think about how she could just shave or lazer it, he's gonna be repulsed. If a man sees a fat woman, he's not gonna factor in the fact that you can lose weight, he's gonna be repulsed. When…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:46 AM
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Women are more likely to define their self-worth on how attractive they are. We don't have to, everyone else does for us. I really relate to the part about the artist. If I knew for a fact that I would never be in a relationship, and never have children, I would easily dedicate my life to art and be happy because I base a lot of my self-worth off my ability to learn/improve, and one of the things I've worked on all my life is art.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:37 AM
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Is this is a low-effort post?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:30 AM
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If men thought like this upon seeing a woman with flaws, they'd get with fat chicks because you can fix that imperfections will be perceived the same way whether or not it is a permanent part of who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 12:14 AM
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inb4 we learn just how hard the overton window has shifted
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 09:06 PM
1

Is this about intimacy or sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 11:18 PM
1

Do you not want to fight out of fear or out of practicality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 09:13 PM
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What if game just recognizes game? She's crazy and likes that he's crazy, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:26 PM
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This is the most ratchet shit I've ever read on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 09:00 AM
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Let's agree to disagree lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:42 PM
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Enough for men to still bitch about how they disproportionately do more dangerous jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:11 PM
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Being a deadbeat dad is only a flex to absolute losers lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:55 AM
1

Working on an oil rig is not "fun"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:28 AM
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Lol men don't even need to be fat to die early
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:24 AM
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Apparently nobody (desirable) likes thin men either. ):
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:59 AM
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So what, he got peer-pressured into feeling bad about not liking fat chicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 02:14 AM
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They actually don't have anything to do with this post though. He didn't get harassed for not liking fat chicks. His problem lies with thin women who can do better than him: It seems simply being a healthy weight woman in America makes you an automatic or 6, 7+ in SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 02:00 AM
2

Have you ever licked a clean spoon? That mineral-y metallic taste? Chocolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 01:47 AM
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Being mad at fat women isn't going to change the fact that thin women apparently don't want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 01:20 AM
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Chocolate tastes like dirt and sugar
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 10:18 PM
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Women see our honesty here and automatically go, “you don’t get women teehee/ inc3l teehee/ men IRL don’t think that” Where are these naive women who think #NotAllMen??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 09:27 PM
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I find it interesting that this subreddit complains about fat women, as if women don't have alot of fat men to deal with. Not only are women NOT disproportionately fatter than men, but men have an easier time losing weight, and yet won't stfu? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 09:23 PM
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Americans eat way more sugar/high fructose corn syrup, way more protein (which your body digests into glucose), and way more carbs (which your body ALSO digests into glucose) than the rest of the world, and the sizes are much bigger. When I was a kid, they had buckets of fries at McDonald's. Like a 6-7inch tall bucket with a diameter of about 6 inches. Full of fries. Dirt cheap, too. Much more food per dollar than going to the grocery store once a week to get actually nutritious food. Many peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 09:20 PM
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Would you guess that's how most women feel about it? Be honest its the internet Probably? Casual sex is fucking lame. Well its like a party that everyone is going too but you can't get in. Most women and some men do casual at some point in their life so obvi guys want to experience that. You're just experiencing FOMO, go do drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 07:13 PM
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Can't really speak for anyone else here, I just think it's strange to put casual sex on a pedestal or base your self-worth off of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:20 PM
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So short guys should just accept they are only dating material? .... yeah??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:09 PM
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Corn, sugar, too much meat, and milk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:06 PM
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I unironically want to grow and raise my own food, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 06:01 PM
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Perhaps without the previous role of being the only source of income, or supplying the strength on the farm, etc., the expectations of "what husband should be doing" increase beyond that which men are innately willing to put forth. And this is why I want traditional gender roles and a farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 05:34 AM
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As for the wall for men I’d place it at 50. Men’s SMV starts to deteriorate once they hit this age. Even sex symbols (famous actors) tend to stop drawing as leading men once they hit this age. Is this factoring in plastic surgery and hairline implants?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 05:30 AM
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And here I was, on a perpetual diet, thinking this was kind of funny. /: Trolls need to get better
/r/RedPillWives15/02/21 04:48 AM
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getting horny from images sounds so wack
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 01:50 AM
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Yeah, that's not what a breadwinner is. Bringing home the most money is what makes someone the breadwinner. But if the woman works, that depends on how much money she makes. Also you keep ignoring the point about different cost of living in different areas. If a woman wants to live in New York City, even if she works as a barista, she's not gonna see a man who doesn't make enough to live in New York as a potential breadwinner. Sounds like you're talking about Love Languages here, which isn't the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 12:57 AM
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"Being the breadwinner" means making more money than your partner. Not rocket science. If a woman makes 50k annually, and her man makes 60k, he's not a breadwinner lmao I'd define a breadwinner as "able to solely support our standard of living", which varies from person to person Being caring is pretty cut and dry, and anyone can do it. It's not a static trait like physical appearance is. My point was that "caring" ISN'T static. I don't think it's cut and dry. Some people want words of affirmati…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 12:38 AM
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There are varying standards for what constitutes being a breadwinner based on the cost of living of a particular area and lifestyle of the person with the standard. "Caring" isn't very cut and dry, either. I don't see how this is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 12:20 AM
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hey we agree on something!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:36 PM
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Okay, so you're intellectually dishonest and annoying on purpose. I feel a little better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 08:12 PM
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I'd expect a white dude teaching black history to have a semblance of nuance on this matter. Obviously, I expect too much from white people. The education system is truly a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 07:22 PM
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Only dumbasses think FEMINISM ruined the Black American community.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:52 PM
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no they aren't lmao doing this shit for a dude who's bills YOU pay is being a pickme
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:21 PM
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The overwhelming majority of men simply do not earn enough to provide for a woman, and I am not saying this to make anyone feel bad, but really, median wages are simply not high enough for me to believe that men can provide for women. This depends on what you want from life. This is absolutely true if you're trying to stay in Los Angeles and have a McMansion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 05:12 PM
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Replace sex with money and you have a gold digger. And then the top comment is “In your 20s, sex should be a thing everyday” lol. Im suppose to believe these people care about relationships. Sex on a daily basis, really? Maybe every day is a bit of an exaggeration, but this is totally what I want, and I'm very relationship-oriented! We can miss a couple of days...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:32 PM
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LOL you're getting your opinion of western women from HERE??? The way you were talking, I thought you had first hand experience. Please... Don't do this to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:42 PM
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women LOVE throwing around the entitled word so much. She never used the word entitled, he's paraphrasing. The jig is up, dude. Now all of PPD knows you didn't read OP before bitching about your trigger word being in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:14 AM
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Show me the part of OP where she even used the word "entitled", quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:08 AM
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Don't waste my time if you aren't willing to actually argue your weak ass point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 01:19 AM
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For example, I saw this suggested to a woman in her late 30s, while the poster is presumably in her mid 20s: But what were her standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 01:10 AM
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That is so not the spirit! How is it entitlement if I only hold myself responsible for finding love?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:52 PM
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Lol, then you hate like 80% of men :D :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:05 PM
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Fuck generalizations. Fuck anecdotes. What do the actual studies say?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:04 PM
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I know you're trying to draw some sort of equivalence between this and being told "you're not entitled to sex", but the difference is that if I were in a relationship and I didn't feel loved, I'd just go find a relationship where I do. I'm not arguing for state-mandated love, or tax incentives designed to get me love easier. I'm willing to keep trying until I find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:01 PM
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This was one woman lol NOBODY said NO women like casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 08:35 AM
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Find me a picture of single "poor uggo" who gets consistent casual sex with non overweight women? Why does it matter if she's overweight or not if he's a "poor uggo", which includes fat dudes, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:52 AM
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You can't do real-deal power exchange BDSM with a random, so, relationship sex>casual sex, bc that's what I'm into. Power exchange is very emotionally-charged, and I can't get emotionally invested in casual sex, so it's lame and mechanical. Emotional investment, passion for the other person is what makes sex better than masturbating. Even if I clicked with a random person and we had passion right off the bat, I'd get attached and want them more, which ends badly. This happened to me once; I imme…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:59 AM
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You cant be a wholesome woman and hit the switch and do something completely out of character HOW is refusing to have sex with randoms unless for monetary gain out of character for someone who doesn't want to have sex with randoms for free. That's like saying "it's out of character for you to work at McDonald's, you don't even like volunteering at soup kitchens ):"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:49 AM
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So let me get this straight. You find it farfetched that someone would do something only for financial gain or for someone special to them, but not want to do it for free for randoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:46 AM
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Nah I'd hate this. I wouldn't feel loved at all, and I get even MORE neurotic and moody when I'm not getting regularly laid. ): I'm totally on the HL partner's side when it comes to dead bedrooms, I just think they should be transparent about wanting to leave/fucking other people with their spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 11:28 PM
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Not hurting people =/= protecting them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 11:02 PM
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If you'd say non-minoroties interests are better represented I could get behind that I guess but it's kinda splitting hairs given the overall lack of regard for said class' interests regardless of race. All that really matters is if they think their best interest is being represented.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 11:02 PM
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Working class minorities know neither party have our best interests at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:55 PM
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I'm talking about how race and wealth are related.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:48 PM
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The difference is that this group of women is disproportionately more capable of just going overseas to get an abortion if they so choose. This doesn't matter to me, if I needed an abortion and I couldn't get one, I'd do it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:44 PM
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White women aren't more anti-abortion than other races of women, they voted in their own interest as white people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:36 PM
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We already don't, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:33 PM
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They voted for him because they're white first, women second.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:16 PM
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52% of white women Well there you go
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:10 PM
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Yes and no. On the one hand, wives often help advance their husbands' careers, directly and indirectly, so you can't act like alimony is staking a claim to something one had no part of building. On the other hand, if you're more interested in material possessions and keeping them, marriage would be to a man's detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:06 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:10 PM
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ABC of housekeeping by Barty Philips, because it's full of interdasting, easy to integrate into upkeep routine ideas and well compartmentalized, so it's more peeking for suggestions regarding specific topics than "reading from start to end". *puts this on my thriftbooks wishlist*
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:54 PM
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I can't believe I have to be th first one to point out that Jeff Bezos cheated on his wife, AND he openly admits she was a large part of the success of Amazon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:52 PM
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I really like reading Laura Schlessinger's books The first time I found one was on a security guard job at a church, The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage, and reading it kinda pissed me off, but over time, I realized it pissed me off because she puts full responsibility for the health of a marriage onto the woman and the man I was with at the time definitely fell under her "none of this counts for pieces of shit" rule, because I knew a lot of piece of shit men this book didn't apply to, and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:05 AM
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Fax
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:20 AM
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I'll never forget the guy who said he was SO alpha and ran such good game that even his aunts/female cousins were dripping in their panties at the family get together. I wish I could unread this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:28 AM
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Western men really think they're different lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:20 AM
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Source and it better not be about abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:19 AM
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Get a chick hobby, like sewing or makeup. Take a class at a community college. Get a job at Joann's. Become a bartender. Go into it with the expectation that nothing but friendships will come of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:25 AM
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Sometimes I don't know if people here are serious or not ):
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:23 AM
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Imagine being a lonely loser guy and just wanting someone with a hole between their legs to acknowledge your existence then you come online and have to read that you have “unrealistic expectations”. Lmao Did you make this "lonely loser guy" sound like an irredeemable piece of shit on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:19 AM
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what possesses men to type comments like this why are men like this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 05:14 AM
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Yeah, don't just walk up to randoms on the street, your two options aren't "OLD" and "cold-approaching". Get to know women in platonic contexts like shared hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 04:06 AM
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Have you tried dating IRL instead of dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:57 AM
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Eyyyy. Keep up the good fight of being completely honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:39 AM
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But do you say that out loud?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:34 AM
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Money =/= food. Fewer than 5 Americans die every year from hunger. 48,344 die from suicide a year, most of them men, some of them from loneliness. I never said money = food, there's plenty of things necessary to survival that money grants you access to. I mentioned access to medical care earlier. We are all adults here, let me know if I shouldn't expect you to argue in good faith. But let's pretend I did say that money = food for one second: In the US, poverty is linked to obesity. People aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:33 AM
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Yeah, lots of girls say that, but as soon as you tell them you only see them as fuck buddy material, they get offended and bounce. They have the right to leave if you two want different things??? Some women will be cool with that??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 03:13 AM
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Did you just make another comment without a SINGLE source? I've wasted my time here long enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 10:50 PM
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I think as a culture we go way out of our way to attempt to convince every last girl to get into hookup culture This is very true, and I think lauding access to casual sex as a benefit to women feeds into this. It should be said though that one of the top factors in why men resent this situation so much is due to how hard we are judged based on sexual ability... and endowment. I'd say it is the issue at the very heart of this discussion. I agree. I think it would make men feel too vulnerable to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 10:38 PM
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​ I understand. That's still irrelevant. Your desire for money is equitable to a man's for sex. The benefit might even be greater for the sex for a man. Unless men stop needing food, this is just a lack of sexual temperance. People die without the things money grants your access to. This is not comparable. That's my entire point -- you have access to sex so you don't think it's a big deal. In fact you're adverse to casual sex. You're not listening, I don't think it's a big deal NOT because I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 10:08 PM
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I was explaining my position which you were laughing about. You gave your source afterwards. Besides, I literally addressed that later. I was laughing because you sound naive as shit for trying to limit the preference to light skin to East Asia based solely on your personal experience. Do you really think that East Asia is that isolated from the rest of Asia, Southeast Asia in particular? Nah, that sounds more like you. I forgot that some women here have complexes about such matters. Sorry. "No …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:53 PM
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I manipulatively straight up asked him out lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:34 PM
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I didn't have a mom either Test-tube baby gang
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:24 PM
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no actually I'm in a relationship and I hate you all <3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:24 PM
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But back to the original point. Dating is generally speaking a similar power dynamic to a job interview. I conceded this point comments ago. What I disagreed about is what's on the line. It's real in the sense that rich kids often share similar negative characteristics with each other. One of those is a belief that rules don't apply to them, or that consequences do not. As a legal defense... its not a particularly good one. Reminds me of the folks who tried to kill Reginald Denny arguing that mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:22 PM
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That's the spirit, son! I'd like for men to think like this, the world would be a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:13 PM
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I guess the reason I suck at manipulation is because I never had a dad. *jazz hands*
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:10 PM
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*womanipulate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:09 PM
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I think this is a little too far in the opposite direction from the one I was contesting. I think it's more nuanced than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:08 PM
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All I ever ask is for men to keep it 100. You wanna fuck other bitches? Cool, just tell me so I can react accordingly. You want to have casual sex? Let me know so we're on the same page. Am I too fat? Who cares if it hurts my feelings, I'll probably sense that you feel like that anyway, JUST FUCKING TELL ME.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 07:24 PM
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That doesn't tell us anything. I'm divorcing because he cheated on me. Just because men don't formally file divorce papers doesn't mean they're just being dumped left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 07:21 PM
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whereas the people I knew who expressed the opposite sentiment were Thais and Indians (and the latter had strong opinions on pale people being ugly). That's it. That's a cool anecdote and all but For example, according to this WHO pamphlet, 50% of all cosmetic sales in India can be attributed to skin lightening ​ Here too, about your emotionality. Call it emotional if you want, I call it passionate. Apparently the alternative is being detached from the reality of this subject and not knowing wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 07:17 PM
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either this is a dude or it's gonna be deleted soon because women can't post questions for women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 06:53 PM
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You have an abundance of access to sex. This would only be worth anything if I was a man. I'm begging you, stop telling WOMEN the opportunity to become a single mother is a benefit. A better analogy would be a billionaire who chooses to not spend because spending makes him uncomfortable so instead he lives a frugal but fulfilling life. You just rephrased what I said. Sex access/attractiveness (esp in men) is correlated at .7 to Intelligence (G-factor) which is correlated with life outcomes at .9…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 06:30 PM
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Actually... I think Gigababe explained this extremely well on more than one occasion from a female perspective. I don't discount what she says, it makes a huge amount of sense, yet still it's 1st world problems. Lol taking access to clean water and adequate medical care for granted is first world problems, telling people that getting laid isn't important isn't. I don't think you can see out of your wealthy little bubble enough to really have this conversation. I recognize that kids that grow up …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 06:28 PM
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In some places in East Asia. Do you think that pale skin isn't valued in the rest of Asia lmao For example, according to this WHO pamphlet, 50% of all cosmetic sales in India can be attributed to skin lightening Not e.g. in Africa or Latin America afaik. It also depends on what you mean by dark skin. Countries with more dark-skinned people are more likely to have more people using skin lightening products. And I am pretty sure if your features are too fair, you are taken less seriously too (I re…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 06:16 PM
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1) Alabaster skin is seen as beautiful in many places. On the other hand, darker skin is nearly universally seen as inferior, not even just for dating, for things like getting a job, too. Nobody tans to be seen as more professional. 2) In order to tan, you don't necessarily have to harm yourself with UV rays. Using a tinted moisturizer is very common and harmless. The same cannot be said of chemical bleaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 08:43 AM
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coloring(hair skin etc) Nobody here ever talks about colorism and how skin bleaching is one of the biggest cosmetic industries worldwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 06:49 AM
1

I hate team games lmao But I love feedback on my gameplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 04:22 AM
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The men here are somewhat honest, but what they also say is that they make it a point to not say these things IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:01 AM
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Well GGs I guess I'm about to be banned for race baiting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:13 AM
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Is Biden a Trump supporter 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:11 AM
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I find it downright COMEDIC that you brought race into this conversation but not to acknowledge how blackness is seen as inherently threatening but is not seen as inherently respected (which aids your point).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:53 PM
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There is no group in the entire country MORE disrespected and attacked than white men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:50 PM
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There's plenty of things about the male experience that I don't buy. I just trust the people who actually experience it know better than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:08 PM
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Women can get sex Yes quality sex no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:05 PM
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Men can create life, and they don't have to risk pelvic prolapse for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:03 PM
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That's not how fighting games work. You can't just get better without interacting with opponents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:02 PM
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You have an abundance of sex and not money. Therefore you think money is more important. I don't have an abundance of sex, though. The closest comparison would be if someone had billions in their bank account but they still slept in their car and wore thrifted clothes. I don't indulge in copious amounts of casual sex and then get online and tell men sex doesn't matter. Money is more important than sex because wealth is correlated with material differences in quality of life such as life expectan…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:58 PM
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​ Are there any extremely attractive men here no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:20 PM
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I can't just not talk to men, I'm a gamer ):
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:18 PM
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I think what stresses me out about this sub is how men will openly admit to being willing to lie to get what they want, which makes vetting more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:18 PM
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just like a lot of women who dont like men .. they just like what they can provide and that they have a man. Yeah. I never said women like that don't exist. Why deflect, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:02 PM
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Is lusting after a woman incompatible with seeing her as a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:01 PM
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In the US... criminals get better access to clean water and healthcare for free, than the general population does by working their asses off. So, this isn't particularly a benchmark of anything great. Keep this same energy when I tell you how worthless being able to easily get sex is for a woman. There is a reason why men who can't get laid kill themselves at such a high rate. I've never seen proof that the reason men kill themselves more than women because they can't get laid. As a woman it's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 09:57 PM
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But the scary part is, what if they just pretend to be like that in public??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 09:39 PM
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everything they lacked in intellect and personality they more than made up for in prettiness and sex. This is not seeing someone as a person let me log the fuck off before I hate men more; this website fans the flames of my hatred more than any feminist OLD screenshot circlejerk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:19 PM
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You don't like women as people, you like them as pretty things to look at and to fuck. Just get a sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:13 PM
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Not getting laid doesn't impact your access to clean water and adequate medical care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:10 PM
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You make comments like this and then wonder why the bare minimum of decency towards men is too laborious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 08:02 PM
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No, just say the shit you're saying here on reddit right out the gate: "I just happen to be looking for a unicorn and she's probably not the one" "BB has to dangle the commitment-carrot to get some." Just be fucking honest lol quit arguing in bad faith, this is really simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:50 PM
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Maybe you feel like the power dynamic is the same the but overall importance of the outcome is NOT. Quit being extra, you need money more than you need to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:40 PM
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She's probably not the one and you don't tell her that Men continuously prove that they don't deserve casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:33 PM
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You don't have to be miserable just because you aren't getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:29 PM
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So the alternative is lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:24 PM
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But do you actually say that, or do you keep up this lying by omission bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:23 PM
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Putting food on the table >> getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:22 PM
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Long hair isn't a feminine trait. A feminine gay man is not associated with having long hair at all, though things like make up and other overwhelming feminine traits are associated with them. Feminine gay men don't have long hair because it doesn't make them appear more feminine. Long hair is definitely perceived as feminine. Gay men are considered feminine even when they typically don't wear their hair long because... I didn't say long hair was the only feminine trait in the world? We could mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 06:09 AM
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Long hair, pretty eyes, shaven face/clear skin, full lips
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:27 AM
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Lying is lying. Women lying about having lower n counts is a lie to make herself look better. Men lie about having higher n counts because they don't want to look bad. ​ Women will leave good men for better men, while men will leave shitty women for less shitty women. A less shitty woman is a better woman. A better man is a less shitty man. This seems like semantics and you seeing things from a heterosexual male pov and assuming that's the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:25 AM
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There is no tangible difference between "better" and "less shitty".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:06 AM
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I don't date women anymore, so I don't really care. I was assuming the question was pertaining to who someone would get into a relationship with, which is why I only answered about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:00 AM
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For a straight man, 10-20. If it's "so hard" to get laid as a man, you're a fucking loser for sinking time into it. Men can be sluts, and they have to try, unlike women, which makes it even more pathetic. Get a fucking hobby. Also the sheer recklessness it takes for a man to run around nutting in random women is staggering. Men always complain about how little agency they have when it comes to birth control, and they're right. A large part of it is screening for men who don't value themselves an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 11:43 PM
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Reading this thread was like taking a hammer and chisel to my respect for men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:04 AM
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I'll hate both.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:41 AM
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It depends on why she left.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:54 AM
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"lalala I can't hear you" k got it, have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 12:46 AM
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Nor me males who does females. Is there any issue? Have you been formally introduced to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 12:35 AM
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The "vow" argument is interesting. So are you saying that, in a culture where polygyny is allowed and a man marries another woman and has sex with her half of the time, he is not being disloyal either sexually or emotionally because he made no vow to be monogamous to one woman? If that was the agreed upon arrangement, then yes. In that sense, in any LTR where a man has not made a vow, my arguments would still stand in that a man has made no agreement to stay loyal to a woman and, hence, he could…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 06:52 PM
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You're wasting your time. Every moment you spend in this miserable relationship is a moment actual happiness passes you by. It isn't your fault her life has been unfair, and it isn't your responsibility to fix her life. She needs mental health services.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 06:41 PM
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I understand this, but what do you expect when sex is so commonly available and other men around him are getting it? I'm not absolving them of blame, but again if women refused sex outised marriages, guys would have to commit. Every single woman would have to do that, including sex workers, and women simply aren't a hivemind. Some women want to be thots. Some men love thots. Not fucking people you aren't serious about isn't that hard. It sounds like you have too much empathy for western men; you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 05:32 AM
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But like I said, what incentive they do have for marriage if they can get sex outside it easily? The divorce laws aren't in their favor. Obviously men would be averse to the idea of marriage. The incentive would be creating a positive environment to raise children in? Idk, lifetime companionship? Men who would only marry for sex opting out is a good thing. If you don't want kids, that's another story, and I understand why people who don't want to have children don't want to get married. Too bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 05:23 AM
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True, but women are still the gatekeepers and they can change this. Do men have no agency in your eyes? You've made guys (the top 20%) accustomed to sex in the first few dates. Except it's not just the "top 20%" who expect this. It's the most valuable thing a woman can offer to a man. Why would he want to commit to you, if you've let him enjoy your body the first night you met? This is why your family system is a mess. My point is that women feel pressured to "put out" to make a man stay. That d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:51 AM
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They sleep around with the thug types in their youth and settle down in their 30s. Divorce laws mean a lot. I feel women in the West aren't marriage or motherhood material. You can't just write off the men who do things you don't like as "thugs". Men in the west aren't suited for fatherhood or marriage, either. Western men don't value being in a child's life, and they don't value being a provider, simply getting a woman pregnant is enough of an ego boost for them. ​ I'm recovering from addiction…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:43 AM
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No, we aren't. The expectation of premarital sex is embedded in our culture. Wanting a man who doesn't watch porn is an unobtainable standard. Western women don't engage in debauchery by themselves, they do it with western men. The ability to take half of your husband's money in divorce means nothing if you are trying to stay together in the first place. Divorce laws say nothing about how good dating and relationships are for western women and say everything about how good money-making opportuni…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:21 AM
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How can you acknowledge how fucked up a society is but pretend it only affects one half of it? Western society as a whole is hedonistic and superficial, and western men aren't exempt from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:11 AM
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You people are hedonists who chase your desires like animals. Why would anyone respect women who engage in such activities? Your society is a mess. So much superficial materialism. I feel sad for the guys there. They can't even get a decent and chaste woman Everything you said is true about westerners in GENERAL, but you only feel bad for the western men who have to date western women? I didn't think you were sexist until you said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 04:05 AM
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How is saying you should dump her taking her side? That's not what SHE wants. It's what both of you need. You can't let her throw a tantrum to get what she wants just because it's the path of least resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:32 PM
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Someone who tries Meth and then smokes weed will think weed is weak as heck. Have you ever actually done drugs, because fuck, this is off-base.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 08:33 PM
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Buckle up and put her out of her misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 08:20 PM
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This can apply with rape also— if giving a violent rapist a blowjob means you can avoid permanent brain damage from being punched in the skull, this might be the smarter option. Rape > death. lol I'd rather die than negotiate with a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 05:35 PM
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Also fat women probably have more dates and sex than fat men do yet somehow they still get more sympathy for it 🙄 That's not because body positivity, that's because men will fuck anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 04:37 PM
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How dare you make this thread and not say why you got divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 04:29 PM
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Loser who approaches here. I just can't help it, I know when I want someone, so I can't stay quiet about it. I used to tell boys when I liked them in grade school, not even trying to get into a relationship with them (I didn't even know what it really meant), just because I'm emotionally obnoxious, but I'd get rejected and bullied. I asked my current boyfriend out, and at first, I felt really insecure about it, like it meant he didn't want me, but I wear my heart on my sleeve so we talked about …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 04:23 PM
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It depends upon how one measures loyalty. If I tell my wife I'm at work, but instead go hang out with my male friends, but don't even look at another woman, one could make an argument that I'm not being loyal because I lied to my wife. By slippery slope, any white lie one partner tells another could be "disloyalty." Yeah, intentional lying is disloyalty. I don't see it as a slippery slope because it was an intentional lie. Is it grounds to break up with you? That's up to her. ​ My entire point i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 03:42 PM
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If he's not being sexually loyal, he's not being loyal. What's the point of breaking loyalty into categories? It's a zero-sum game. You can't "kind of" betray someone's trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 04:17 AM
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Men stay loyal to women (even the ones who also cheat with other women) because they treasure sex. Are you referring to women who cheat with other women, did you mean to say "cheat with other men", or are you redefining "loyalty" to include men who cheat but don't break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 05:23 AM
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Extremely female view of the world. Attraction from women, and certainly not dates with them, doesn’t grow on trees. Of course you think it’s too much time and money, you’re not investing either one into the process and as far as you’re concerned your next opportunity is right around the corner. Nah I totally dated girls lol I will admit it was infuriating, but that's because the odds were against me. There are way more straight women than bi/lesbian women, and even then, I think women always ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 03:31 AM
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#NotAllMen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:25 AM
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But trad men have trad values, trad expectations, and ultimately, want the kind of relationship where having a penis gives him authority over certain aspects because.... reasons. Hey, that's fine. What's not fine is cherry-picking traditional gender roles. If a man plays his part, I'll play mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:16 AM
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And it cost $25 a meal? What kind of hole in the wall costs that much??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 12:07 AM
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Shit. In my world, you took a chick to Denny's on a first date, she'd look at you like you just farted out loud. Denny's is a wonderful establishment, and farting is a natural process like burping /: ​ It's not about being emotionally guarded. It's about not wasting time or money on a woman who's not sexually attracted to me. Establish attraction on the phone? ​ Not at all. I have dated my share of high maintenance women (who were still nonStacies). I certainly don't prefer high maintenance. Did…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:57 PM
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Not the first one, but that's why it went to shit: Because at the end of the day, we didn't like one another. We weren't really friends, we didn't have shared interests, we didn't want the same things for ourselves. We just got attached to one another because of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:40 PM
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$50 per date for two, let’s say 4 dates a month The more comments I read from men, the more I think y'all are putting WAY TOO MUCH TIME AND MONEY into this. It's not black and white, your only two options aren't McDonald's and a steakhouse. Try to make it $30. Invest more into getting to know women, and less into taking a variety of women on dates Also all this shit flies out the window in an established relationship, just cook together. Eating out too much isn't good for you. Now go ahead, use …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:34 PM
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I don't put my friend in the same bracket as the people i date. 99 percent of the people I date are complete strangers. This is your problem. If I wouldn't be friends with someone, I'm for damn sure not gonna go on a date with them. You're buying dinners for randoms that might only be in it for the food.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:24 PM
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After the online interactions and the man asks you out to a first date, what does his asking you out mean to you? What does it signify in your mind? Do you think it means he cares about you or likes you? Do you think it means more than just "interest"? As I said in the thread, I gauge interest on the phone/internet. We don't need to meet up IRL to know we're interested in one another. Asking me out signifies that we're comfortable with one another to spend time together. From talking to you, I'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 11:21 PM
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For science lol I find men fascinating. I want to know what's going on inside their head and what makes them tick. One thing I can agree with you is that I don't participate. I only watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 10:10 PM
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do you think we do not want to punch or rape your female boss at almost every day of our interaction So like... men are trash, some of them just "fight" it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 10:04 PM
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So all I have to do to avoid men like you is make it abundantly clear I'm dating to marry and not fuck men who refuse to commit. You make it sound so difficult!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 09:45 PM
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This is exactly how I think about candy!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 09:40 PM
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So please, by all means, don't take anything from it. Don't look. Don't watch. Don't participate. Leave it alone. No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 09:36 PM
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No. ALL women demand that they get something in return for the time they spend with men. ALL women. Maybe it's money. Or time, or attention, or an orgasm. But women demand and expect that if they are going to give a man some of their time, she should get something in return. .... How do you give someone some of your time WITHOUT demanding at least their time in return? This seems like an extremely broad statement designed only to be accurate when you say "all women". ​ Sure. Women need skin in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 05:37 PM
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All women look at it that way. All women demand that the man pays. All women demand to have it both ways- woman does what she wants; man adheres to traditional gender role. I definitely think some women do that, but some women actually don't mind traditional gender roles in both directions. Maybe you'd have more luck with women who are against gender roles and practice what they preach? ​ Women need skin in the game too. Can you explain what you mean by this? What you described, taking a woman o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 01:04 AM
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Honestly, I think the main flaw of OP is talking about looks and not actual hypergamy. That would probably exclude men and begin a much more interesting conversation on female friendship dynamics. Just because it's not traditionally a route toxic men use doesn't mean that even if a man isn't trying to be toxic, putting down your friend because you think his girlfriend is ugly could be ruin his relationship with her. Sometimes women bully one another into hypergamy aka picking men with better soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:49 AM
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But no fucks will be given until I get something out of it. This is a jaded way to look at it, and it probably attracts women who feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:44 AM
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The part of your post I quoted made it seem like men are only giving valid criticisms of women, and they're not. There's nuance to be had here, even if a dude's girlfriend is ugly, he could be saying that out of bitterness. But honestly, who cares why they did it, it's a dick move. I agree that women do it for different reasons, and it's refreshing to see someone correctly identify what toxic femininity is, but their motives don't matter nearly as much as the effect of their actions: overly crit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:21 AM
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But they don't say they do it intentionally, and it is a trend in the population, it's very common. Some of them are measurable, so it's not about what they say necessarily. Did she develop chronic illness? Does her husband spend less time on foreplay and nonsexual affection than at the beginning of the relationship? ​ Something like "I can't exist in the relationship anymore, if we can't fix this dead bedroom, then we need to consider the reality that we both need to find other people..." What …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:11 AM
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Ew no. Thinking about the specific friends I have like this... oh god no. I know him way too well to think that's a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:06 AM
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"we" as in "men"? Collectively? nah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:02 AM
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aka, they're cool dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:02 AM
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OK, but any girl I spend $10 on for food will laugh in my face. Better I spend that $10 on a drink for her. I wasn't outlining an amount you should spend on someone, I was pointing out that I can spend it on a random stranger without feeling like they had to "earn" it. There's building rapport, and there's "giving a fuck". Building rapport still doesn't earn her anything nor does it require my fucks. ... But that's not really how it works. By the time we get to "date 1", there's some rapport est…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:02 AM
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My friends have earned a dinner from me. My friends have earned me giving a baseline fuck about them. I also said "homeless people". I don't know them at all, and hearing their life story could be uninteresting, but hey, it's just $10. A date has not earned anything. A date is not my "friend". She might become that. She might be more. But she isn't anything, not yet. She has to earn dinner. She has to earn my giving a fuck. First date - no food. One or two drinks. That's it. That's more than eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:51 PM
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At face value, only wanting to have sex with someone at the start of a relationship, then losing interest once cohabiting seems manipulative too. But it's much more complex than that for women, isn't it? Nah, with no other nuance considered (illness, other relationship issues), that's manipulative. ​ That is very interesting, because most women in this situation just consider monogamy as meaning not having sex with other people (anymore). Maybe it's because I have a sex drive, too, and can empat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:34 PM
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Go for it. I never said it wouldn't get you bitches. Me personally? Fuckboys are very fun to have as friends, but nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 09:26 PM
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You mean like fuckboys?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 09:13 PM
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Do you realize the first one sounds like a fuckboy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 09:11 PM
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It's a related argument because it illustrates a legitimate and common situation where the man isn't leaving because he thinks he's Chad. Actually, he's leaving because he knows he's Brad. You're going to call this a result of an abundance mentality, but like... why get back with her? Plenty of fish in the sea. Dumping someone because they won't put out anymore to kickstart the sex again sounds manipulative and pointless. At LEAST let her come crawling back to you, come on. But a very common thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 09:08 PM
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In a casual friend group it’s more likely to go something along the lines of, “your girlfriend is a bitch and she’s really annoying” or “she whips you man, there’s so much more out there, ditch her.” I’d argue it’s more often out of some direct aversion to the woman on the male friend’s part Or they just think she's ugly. She could be perfectly nice but she's fat or ugly and guys will rip on one another for being seen in public with her. I think you're sugarcoating this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:05 PM
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I agree with the headline itself, what I DON'T agree with is making this about looks and not money/status. This is a lot more of a legitimate point if you only talk about actual hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 07:57 PM
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Guys build each other up when their homies meet new women Not if they think she's ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 07:54 PM
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It seems like you're throwing out a lot of unrelated arguments here. If only 30% of women lose interest in sex one year in, I'm willing to bet they're simply low libido, and dumping her to make her want sex again is more manipulation than it's worth. If your statistic is true, that wouldn't mean it has nothing to do with thinking you're a Chad, it'd mean the number is 7/10 max. You really think no man has ever dumped a woman because he thought he could do better and then backpedaled on it when h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 07:53 PM
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(If talking only for men). Wait, let's talk about this. Weren't the women in the USSR also, like... vibing? I remember reading something about sexual liberation and some dude who was salty that being a doctor didn't get him as many bitches as it used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 07:28 AM
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Congrats on being the 10%? 9/10 = #NotAllMen. Do you think there's a study on this? I'm open to the idea that 9/10 is statistically wrong. But then again, I'm not the one who made that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 07:20 AM
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But did you try to get back with her 30 days later? You sound like you rightfully wouldn't want to. ​ It's men now who have to pretend they are clumsy and walk into doors. ????
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 06:35 AM
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I'm gonna answer as if the dude broke up with a woman because she cheated, because nobody did that. Even if this were the case, getting back with the dude would be kind of sadistic, but he's also a sucker for trying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 06:31 AM
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Well, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 05:58 AM
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If you are chad it's sexy tho apparently Maybe if you have zero fucking dignity lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 05:58 AM
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If you count men simply not leaving as acceptance, why don't you count the women who don't leave a man as acceptance, too? Even if she uses it against you in an argument, even if she is less sexually attracted to you for it, she's showing acceptance of a man's vulnerability by virtue of staying. It doesn't matter what you say, it matters what you do, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 01:38 AM
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I'm sorry, are you trying to date chicks from FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 11:42 PM
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Here's what I did when I was on OLD websites: I talked to the dude through DMs for a while. If we vibed well enough, I wanted to hear his voice so I'd give him my number. Phone calls feel more intimate and organic. We talk/text on and off for a while until we aren't random strangers, long before we go on a first date. Nobody had to tell me to do this, it just came naturally. As a woman, going on a date with an absolute random is a risk, so I wouldn't be shocked if the only women willing to do th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:12 PM
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Constant complaints about how overemotional women are isn't being "accepting". And for that matter, what even counts as women NOT being accepting of men being vulnerable? If I take men's word for it in this thread, I'd have no choice but to make it about sex. You applaud this group of hypothetical men that you admit you're not a part of. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:07 PM
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So first you said women are whiny but men are accepting of it, now you're saying that men WOULD be accepting of women being whiney, but we just whine too much. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:01 PM
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Men complain about women being overemotional alllllllll the timee Just because they're still willing to fuck them doesn't mean they are accepting of it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:40 PM
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The difference is, women do it far more often and to a much greater degree and men are generally accepting of it. You just complained about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:28 PM
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No. It's annoying to deal with since they get upset over every little thing. Insanely exhausting having to constantly hear about petty bullshit. This is a universal sentiment. Nobody likes whiners. Why do men have a hard time understanding that women feel this same way if it's not an assumption on their part?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 07:15 PM
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Because not fucking someone = Disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:50 PM
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That's the problem. That's all men like you care about. If OP wanted to ask if men crying makes women horny he would've gotten an unanimous no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:49 PM
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I think this is a case of men and women using words differently. Apparently when women are vulnerable, it turns men on? As in, they find it sexually appealing? Women don't want to fuck dudes when they're crying. Some women need therapy and are completely repulsed by men exhibiting human emotion, nonviolent or otherwise, but for the most part the vulnerability is appreciated, it just doesn't make us horny... but men might interpret not wanting to have sex as disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 06:25 PM
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You’d expect it from women Why tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 05:31 PM
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Whats the diffrence between a female character that is portrayed as sexy for "no good reason" and a women irl who puts on a miniskirt and sexy lingerie for "no good reason"? For example, an anime girl with bouncy titties can make girls roll their eyes out of their skull with disgust because its "male gaze". A girl irl being told "dont dress like a sexdoll" on the other hand, is opression. What is the difference between a fictional character drawn for fanservice vs a human being with agency choos…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:15 PM
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Don't the desperate ones just go the BB route?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:50 PM
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That's easy to say when you pay infrequently. The male in this scenario is paying for dates weekly with his chosen partner, lets say at 40$ a date on the cheap end (that's paying for 2 20$ meals his and hers). That's far more than paying for a birthday party or for your friends ONCE IN A WHILE. We're talking dates, as in, getting to know women, not established relationships. So just go on less dates? Also tbh idk where yall get food but 40$? Take that hoe to Panda Express lmao Think outside the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:48 PM
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Wrong. I guess you've never been to Denny's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:38 AM
1

Is it still partying if I just did drugs with a select group of friends in a select group of places?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 05:49 AM
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Many of them don't want sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 05:38 AM
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I don't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 05:19 AM
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Women will increasing be upset and were already see this in higher educated women looking for their equal. Some will be left out when twice as many women earn a masters than men. Either they go for men less educated than them, fight to the death over the few men who are more educated than them, or be single. It be like that sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 05:18 AM
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I think we can agree on one thing: Someone who dies alone because none of the options they had were good enough will get no sympathy from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 05:08 AM
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You mean like in stubbornness? I suppose it's stubborn if we approach it from the mentality that getting into a relationship is the default. I think people who are like this fancy themselves "ambitious".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:21 AM
1

I have a similar experience! except I was trying to get over a dude who was in and out of jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:05 AM
1

It's just as fucked up for you to lie about your n-count as it is for women to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:04 AM
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lmao it took me hooking up like 4 times to hit the "wtf am I doing" point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:02 AM
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Did it, though? Or is it, in the end, more desperate for fewer pool of guys and silently accepted increased chance of having to go without commitment in the end as a consequence of who/how they picked? You mean "less desperate". Refusing to "settle" for less than what you want (let's just say we're talking about an alpha widow) even if you don't get it is the opposite of desperation. Accepting the possibility of nothing is the opposite of desperation. ​ Does filing for divorce end up in her beco…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 02:29 AM
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If most of the people on this subreddit live in big cities But 38% also makes 25k or less and you say that's because they're students Why aren't they dating other broke ass college students? I doubt a broke ass college student who isn't a Stacy is going to demand you spend 80$ on her as a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 01:09 AM
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So they aren't going after other students?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:58 AM
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According to the survey, 38% of the people here 25k a year or less
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:52 AM
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Yeah, I know. My hometown got gentrified to hell and back, so I moved to a more rural area. If you're going after the women who can afford the rent in these areas, then it makes sense that they'd expect money to be spent on them. People with money like to spend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:26 AM
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Is it hypergamy, or did women being able to make their own money make them less desperate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:17 AM
1

Do the peasants holding up these big cities not count in your averaging?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:15 AM
1

Interestingly enough, I identified as a lesbian until I was 19 and tried with a man. I think I was always bisexual, but I had to come to terms with childhood sexual trauma before I could actually let myself be attracted to men. Going after lesbians seems like a one way ticket to a dead bedroom, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:13 AM
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Stop chasing Stacies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 12:10 AM
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I guess I'm ugly bc I'm going where the good food is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 11:51 PM
1

Anyone who loves food knows that family owned > chain restaurants. The best restaurants are the ones who don't put lots of effort into their appearance. They're too busy making good ass food.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 11:36 PM
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women source of self esteem in the men they date has nothing to do with their n count it has to do with getting a guy who is hard to build an emotional attachment with to build an emotional attachment to you where as men desire sexual exclusivity not emotional exclusivity. Maybe I'm just built different. Logically speaking, men with high n counts had to put in effort to get there and find success in those efforts. They're much less likely to stop and be faithful than men who didn't prioritize ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 11:34 PM
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Mom and Pop's? Diners?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 11:20 PM
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What blows my mind every time this conversation comes up is how little paying for dinner actually means. I buy dinner for my friends. I will buy random homeless people dinner. One time I spent like 100$ taking my friends out ON MY OWN BIRTHDAY. Know why? Because if I give the slightest fuck about someone, it doesn't bother me to give them FOOD, and because I enjoyed their company. It's not that deep. It's such a low fucking bar, and we don't even have to go to a Michelin Star restaurant. If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 11:16 PM
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Don't trip, I know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 11:09 PM
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look i do have a lot more sympathy for this than u think but when like just about literally every girl ive ever talked to about the topic has tried to make me feel like shit for it and im so incredibly jaded about this topic at this point u have no idea. I think I have a slight idea of how jaded you are about this topic ​ i could get over it but id want an apology, which is offensive to most women cuz premarital sex isnt even wrong. What would the apology do? ​ and yes the girl not being a virgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 11:08 PM
3

Sounds stupid and reckless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:52 PM
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I knew that but like, fuck! Imagine fucking 100+ different people, I don't even think I'd like sex anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:42 PM
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It's things like the complete lack of self awareness you're displaying. Did it ever occur to you that some women feel like they have to get rid of their virginity, too? Do you have no empathy for a woman with the same plight as you? Did you care more about your pleasure than a stable marriage? Is not being a virgin even a surefire death to any future marriages? It's like men don't even consider women as humans with nuanced motivations. I know men and women are different, but we're all still peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:37 PM
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there's very few women i can even respect on a basic level anymore to be 100% honest The feeling is mutual, but I have more nuanced reasons than simply n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:19 PM
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Over 2% of women with advanced degrees fall into the top percentile of promiscuity; in other words, over 35 sex partners. Almost 1.5% of men report top-percentile promiscuity of 150 or more partners. JESUS why is the top percentile for men so HIGH fuckin thots
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:18 PM
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So you've resigned yourself to never getting married because you felt like you were "forced" to throw your virginity away?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 10:07 PM
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Is there not a difference between n=1 and n=20? I see this as a sliding scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 06:34 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 07:19 AM
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Emotional constipation. You have to emotionally constipated to not see a relationship disintegrating before it finally dissolves and you have to be emotionally constipated to not deal with the reality of the end of the relationship head-on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:39 AM
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Because sex without a condom on feels really good. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:27 AM
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FWIW, I only think dudes who are obsessed with chastity are assholes if they aren't chaste themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:22 AM
2

Dita von Teese is a fucking Nazi Sauce? She looks like a Nazi but I never thought she actually was.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:20 AM
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If a woman denies consent for a paternity test, assume that the child isn't yours. It's that simple. You can't DNA test a kid if you don't know they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 10:42 AM
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We gotta stop these pissing contests yall
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 09:26 AM
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At least you can DNA test the kid. A man can get a woman pregnant on the other side of the world, and his wife will never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 04:35 AM
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Most girls self worth revolves around male attention This and and the status/quality of man they can lockdown. THIS are two different things. If all women revolved their self worth off male attention INDISCRIMINATELY, low self esteem women wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 12:56 AM
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I actually haven't had sex in over a year. COVID keeps me and my love apart ): I'm not going to die. I have a hitachi wand. ​ Anyways a gold digger is no different than any women out there, they just focus on money while some other women focus on other things like looks, status. You're no different than any woman out there either, then. You just focus on getting your dick wet instead of getting money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 12:14 AM
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Considering the fact that guys would validate a literal piece of cardboard provided it were warm and boobie-shaped I do not understand how anyone builds an ego off this. Fax Attention from stray cats validates me more than attention from men ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 12:07 AM
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Just like a gold-digger could've just gotten a job, you could've just jacked off into a flesh light. Making your own money isn't as satisfying as using someone else's money. That's probably how you feel about sex vs masturbation, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 12:04 AM
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I don't care how you feel about gold-diggers, I'm just disputing your point that you're somehow different than them. The only difference is that money is actually valuable enough to be converted into being beneficial for one's livelihood, aka, gold-diggers are doing the same shit as you, but they have better priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 11:54 PM
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That's unreasonable, suit yourself. It's not unreasonable to hate someone for something they chose to do. ​ It affects my wellbeing and mental health, so not getting laid is equal to cutting my skin with razor, that's self harm Not getting free shit affects gold-diggers wellbeing and mental health too. I think you're being unfair to gold-diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 11:44 PM
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if the guys (that you believe are at your level ) are all assholes to you, then you aren't actually on their level. Quick question, do you disagree with this portion of the comment you responded to: This is a tired meme that needs to die. Dating men who are the same "value" as you or lower is not some kind of magical guarantee of better treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 11:38 PM
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No TRP is fooled by actually thinking that playing pretend makes you it. It's fake it til you make it for a reason. Not believe it til you make it... It's not playing pretend when you actively go for women that are "lower" value than you because you're "taking advantage of hypergamy".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 11:35 PM
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Don't hate the player, hate the game. No thanks, I'll hate both. ​ Not even relevant, a better comparison coıld be a woman doing prostitution to survive No, it wouldn't be, quit being dramatic. You aren't gonna die if you don't get laid, just like gold-diggers aren't gonna die if they don't spend other people's money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 11:33 PM
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Nah, you're a piece of shit, just like gold-diggers are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 11:29 PM
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Sex is a really good litmus test for someone’s true personality Literally the opposite NOT getting sex is a really good litmus test for someone's true personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 11:15 PM
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Majority of his videos are on black women. But that's besides the point. I'm not getting a clear answer as to how a woman can know a man is on her level. "Lose weight", I know. "submissive isn't a bad word", I know. "Don't be a single mom", we get it. That's what women should do to make themselves higher value, but all things controlled for, what does batting within your league look like for women? EDIT: One of his video titles, "Can White Women Teach Black Women How To Get High Value Black Men?…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 11:11 PM
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I tried putting that into youtube search and got nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 11:01 PM
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I'm not going to stop watching his videos, but I had a feeling this was racist and here's how I'm sure: I started watching a video of his. It's four women talking about submission. Two are black, one is Asian, one is Latina. He complains about the black women wearing weave but doesn't even acknowledge that the other two women are. All women in show biz wear "weave", just like all women in show biz wear makeup. Yes, even white women. It's no mystery to me that black women are inherently seen as l…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 10:57 PM
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Can you point me to a specific video of his?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 10:44 PM
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Never forget that they're okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 10:34 PM
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Those men think they're better than the women they date. But men do this on purpose and advise others to as well lol ​ If women want to be treated better, they would benefit from stopping hypergamous dating, dropping their unrealistic expectations of men and seeking out men who are at their level. Define this in detail, please. I tried making a thread about what a 1-10 scale for men was but everyone just said it doesn't real. Help women seek out men who are "at their level"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 10:18 PM
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As someone who hasn't read his comment history, I read this as being about both sides safeguarding their feelings with deceit but maybe I give people too much credit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 08:42 PM
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But then this is a good way to filter out men like you. This is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 08:28 AM
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but men are usually way better at them, when they shouldn't be, by biological means. IIRC men have faster reaction time, which is important in fighting games. I think my outlook on fighting games as an exercise in predicting and manipulating your opponent psychologically isn't super mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:38 AM
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I think you’re too harsh on GTA however. San Andreas or RDR2 are amongst the greatest game ever created. Okay ngl Red Dead Redemption doesn't count. The historical setting sets it apart from GTA in my opinion. ​ As for cellphones I still have a hard time considering them legit gaming platform. For me playing on your cellphone is like going to Wendy’s. It’s good enough Cellphones are handheld computers at this point. Even the most basic cellphone is powerful enough to easily emulate Gameboy and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:28 AM
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There's a couple of genres/IPs you listed that I have zero respect for the fanbases of, like FPS, Hack n Slashers, and shit like Grand Theft Auto. Braindead as shit. Go steal cars and shoot guns irl, pussy. Some of the dumbest motherfuckers on the planet solely play FPS games. However, I cannot deny that they are games. I like puzzle games. I never played Candy Crush, but I play Bejeweled, tetris, and I was really into that Sailor Moon puzzle game for iOS. Puzzle games are a legit genre, and cel…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:10 AM
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When I first joined this sub I had to tell someone that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:05 AM
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Are you the same dude who was talking shit about Tetris?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:57 AM
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They question me as though I can't possible enjoy video games or otherwise patronize me: "Oh? Do you mean you play Candy Crush or an actual game?". I have to answer 1,239 questions to prove I'm a "real" gamer, and God forbid I don't know something relatively obscure like the release date of Metroid Prime. I hate this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:22 AM
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Likewise I define the interests of women as being people but I mean to say they are interested in how people see, think, valur feel, interact, and how it can be changed This is actually why I like fighting games
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:21 AM
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What's a "real" game?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:17 AM
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Slightly off topic but I tried to watch this season and the chick who got called fat is extremely annoying and seems to be only being kept around for the drama she causes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 11:23 PM
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I watched it, it's not that bad, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 10:40 PM
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You seem to have a really hard time actually addressing what I'm saying No, it IS the point. Men COULD use their superior strength to hurt women, the fact that generally they don't, shows just how much restraint they have. No, they just "generally" don't want to go to jail lmao It's 2021 my dude. We have guns now. If women hated men more than men hate women, why aren't women killing men as much as the reverse? ​ If men actually hated women as much as women hate men, you'd have situations FAR wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 08:49 PM
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): People call me cute
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 03:18 AM
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I've never heard that, nor have I known any guy to admit they attacked a woman. Even all the 'tough guys' and jocks who I used to work with as a bouncer would have never did that nor put up with it. Battle of the anecdotes! I know men who admit they use corporeal punishment to "put their [women] in their place", kind of like they do with kids. ​ I know how they communicate... the problem is they don't even speak honestly to each other, or even to themselves. You sure I'm the one hamstering about…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 01:19 AM
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Depends on the situation. I don't think you should punish out of anger but I think spanking can have it's uses. But that's a topic for another thread, and inappropriate punishment is hardly a gendered issue (both parents can go too far). My point wasn't that it is a gendered issue, my point was that protectiveness over children, which many men here compare women to, is used as a justification for inflicting violence "for their own good". ​ My mother loved me and certainly didn't think I was belo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 12:04 AM
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Neither women nor men 'look down' on children. We look out for them, we protect them, and we do so because we care for them. No, people definitely look down on children. They say all this feel-good bullshit about everything they do being for their own care and safety, and the ignore the science behind hitting children and how it doesn't work and do it anyway, because at the end of the day, they see children as their possession. You can care for someone and still think they're beneath you. ​ You'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 09:39 PM
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You're not going to sacrifice for someone you hate, or for someone you look down on. Men here refer to women as children all the time. People sacrifice for children and look down on them. Maybe men don't hate women, but they definitely look down on them and don't respect them. ​ The whole 'men hate women' bit is just female hamstering/projection women use to justify hating men. The number of men that actually hate women is minuscule, the same can't be said of women hating men. What do you count …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 01:33 PM
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People say a lot of shit, you want to know what they really believe watch their actions. The evidence, across the board, falls heavily in favor of men. But this isn't about sacrifice, it's about "like". If women "liking" men as a means to an end doesn't count, then men "liking" women as a means to an end doesn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 12:15 PM
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Funny... in another thread another BP was saying how MRAs are toxic misogynists. Not saying you have to account for what other people believe, I just find it funny how both sides of the coin are being argued. I don't agree that MRAs as a group are "toxic misogynists". Feminists always say men should advocate for themselves, so there you go. ​ I've found that the only women who seem to actually have a 'deep and profound respect for men' are mother's who have had a boy. That seems to be the only d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 11:18 AM
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I disagree they're relevant, because women understand tacitly why straight men interact with them. Assuming all straight men are trying to fuck you is sexist af lmao No, women aren't genuine friends to men, because they know why those straight men are interacting with them, and women use that knowledge to manipulate those men. If you interact with women with the ASSUMPTION that just because you're a straight man, it is KNOWN that your primary intention is sex, that's your fault. Why should women…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 08:11 AM
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Drugging people and shoving things into their ass isn't that difficult. I wouldn't even say it's that women are "morally superior", we just got... better shit to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 07:57 AM
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https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2013/crime-in-the-u.s.-2013/offenses-known-to-law-enforcement/expanded-homicide/expanded_homicide_data_table_6_murder_race_and_sex_of_vicitm_by_race_and_sex_of_offender_2013.xls 409 (black on white murder perpetrators / 3005 (white murder victims) = 13.6% vs Black americans making up 12.3% of the US 2509 (white on white murders) / 3005 (white murder victims) = 83.4% vs White americans making up 75% of the US (62.4% if you aren't counting Hispanic/Latino white…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 05:54 AM
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Again, your are considering joint probabilities (probability of being violent + being specific race) when one needs to consider conditional probabilities (probability of being violent given specific race). Yes, the race of the VICTIM. It makes no sense to look at black people killing other black people and as a white person, and fear for your safety. ​ Because the point is that even though this crazy cult only would hypothetically be committing 0.0001% of murders most people would still avoid a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 05:27 AM
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it doesn't outnumber it but it is disproportionate and that is what matters! This doesn't make sense, especially considering the criminal justice system of the US is very biased. White-on-black crime was historically state-sanctioned and doesn't count for these statistics. To this very day, black men will be found hanging from trees and it will be declared a suicide. The disparity isn't significant enough to overlook that unknown variable, and it still doesn't dispute the fact that if you're a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 04:54 AM
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I'm not even gonna answer this question lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 04:19 AM
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​ 19 missionary-cuddling 6 0 yes yes yes no no yes no yes yes yes yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 04:17 AM
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How many male feminists have been outed as sexual predators, proving they don't believe a word they say vs female antifeminists/MRAs?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 04:10 AM
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Plenty of women have a deep and profound respect for men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 01:31 AM
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I used black people as an example because not many people in this sub are racist and therefore recognize racism as a bad thing. Lol are you new here ​ And also the amount of black on white crime is disproportionate.. I could sit here and argue about overpolicing all day but the fact of the matter is that this is irrelevant because it still doesn't outnumber white-on-white crime. White people still have no statistical basis to be more wary of black people than they are of one another, but women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 01:25 AM
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Black people are actually disproportionately committing violent crimes also! And even then, the crime rate wasn’t relevant to the analogy. If the crime rate wasn't relevant to the analogy, you wouldn't have used black people as your example in the first place. Who are they committing violent crimes against? Mostly one another. If you're a white person, you're more likely to be victimized by another white person, you should be afraid of other white people. You can't say the same for women. ​ My p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 01:06 AM
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Majority of white people don't actually know black people irl and base their fear off what they see portrayed in media. Most crime is intraracial, the people who should be most afraid of black people is other black people. On the other hand, women are not the most likely to commit crimes against other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 12:53 AM
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Do you think reddit comments give me the ability to teleport into these people's rooms and bash their keyboard to pieces? It's a stupid comparison, and just like they can still say it, I can say it's a bad comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 12:09 AM
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There it is again. "What TRP says about 'women' is incorrect because I, one woman in the whole world, am (allegedly) not like that." This sounds like an anecdote too: You think women are GIVING attention and commitment in an LTR? No, they GET attention and commitment FIRST and THEN give society, services, and sex. But they aren't "committed" or dedicated to doing so; and they aren't paying attention to him most of the time, at least not the kind of attention he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 12:06 AM
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Y'all gotta stop trying to draw this equivalence with black people and men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 11:38 PM
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Female. I guess I'm an INTP... today. Agreeableness: 83 Emotional Stability: 47 Conscientiousness: 7 Intellect/Imagination: 95 Either me scoring as an introvert is bullshit, or what people see as introversion is 2-dimensional. I don't like people all that much but I can talk to nearly anyone and relate to them. I'm relatively socially outgoing, but maybe that's out of necessity. My room (and life) is a clusterfuck, so the conscientiousness score makes sense to me. I want to be more organized ): …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 06:52 AM
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I generally think sex dolls are mad cringe, but I watched a mini-documentary on it that kind of softened my opinion on the men who get them. One of the guys genuinely seemed to love the doll. He even learned how to do her makeup, and he was so sad when he had to send her to get repaired. He was the only of the men who only had one doll. He was a little awkward, he'd been on dates, but at the end of the day, what the sex doll provided for him was unconditional companionship and acceptance. But th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 05:44 AM
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The results of the study show that women are more likely to have sex to maintain a relationship and be reassured that their partner is committed to them. That isn't what was actually said. You interpret having sex because you love someone as using sex to secure a relationship. ​ Men compared to women are more likely to have intrinsic motivations for having sex.Like being horny,experience seeking,physical desirability of the partner etc. Why should anyone consider having sex for self-centered rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 10:01 PM
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I think "FWB" is a way of deluding yourself into thinking you have a commitment. ​ Nevertheless, it seems that for some reason many women do choose casual sex with men whom they've just met despite the fact that they seem to like to complain that this casual sex is bad. Somewhere around 40% of women have only had 1-2 casual sex partners, which doesn't contradict the idea that they didn't enjoy casual sex. Some people have to try it to realize they don't care for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:11 PM
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I actually agree with you,because your a woman you have much higher parental investment if you were to get pregnant.This is why women are biologically programmed to not desire sex the way men do.If women just wanted to fuck like men do then they would loose their ability to be selective.it has to be this way so women can follow their ideal mating strategy. Women don't desire sex the way men do =/= Women don't desire sex Men don't set the standard for what sexual desire looks like. ​ Or it could …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 08:56 AM
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No you wouldn't. I know you. I know what you value. I know this is PPD but you're really pushing the boundaries of trolling ​ You'd rather be the titty game streamer making a solid income with 1,000s of viewers than the male game streamer who's dedicated years of his life to a game with high ELO who averages less than 50 viewers. This is a false equivalence. I would rather be a male game streamer who's dedicated years of his life making a solid income with 1000s of viewers than a titty game stre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 12:05 AM
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No. I'd much rather be valued for something heavily under my control vs something that isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 11:29 PM
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To you lol What's most important is who it's easy to get sex from (men) and what they're offering (penetration).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:59 PM
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If you don't like casual sex It does mean that you don't enjoy sex,because if you only enjoying have sex in a relationship then it's not about the act of sex itself it's about the person your giving sex to. lmao im gonna scream I'm a WOMAN. I logically cannot AFFORD to fuck whoever I want, I HAVE to be selective. You're saying I don't like sex because I won't fight my instincts to have it. It's as if the only way you can perceive of someone liking sex is if their desire for sex can override thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:58 PM
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I've had 8 different casual sex partners in the last 12 months, would have been more but Covid idiocy canceled 2 trips to sex parties. I feel like you just wanted to get this weird flex off and this was the best time to inject it into a conversation. It doesn't add anything of value, except an insight into your mind: because you, a swinger, can find women who want casual encounters, all these internet chicks must be lying. For the love of god stop trying to superimpose your logic on all women. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:41 PM
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That's only a tiny part of why women have casual sex. Show me the carfax.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:28 PM
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So you’re point is that a straight woman can easily find a gay guy to fuck her in the ass? You're hyperfocusing on sexual orientation. A woman can easily find a man to fuck her A man can easily find a man to fuck him Men are easy. It's not a privilege only women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:25 PM
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Not enjoying casual sex =/= not enjoying sex For the love of god, stop trying to superimpose male logic onto women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:18 PM
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It isn't fair to judge an entire gender off of what you see on dating apps and at bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:08 PM
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Romantic dates, romantic gifts, emotional support etc. Emotional support is our thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:05 PM
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I'll give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:53 PM
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Right but what about the huge difference between having sex with a partner that matches your sexual orientation vs with a partner that does not? The problem with this is that getting penetrated=/=penetrating ​ A straight man could easily find a gay guy to fuck him in the ass -> the straight man wouldn’t be into that -> therefore easy access to sex with men is not desirable, i.e. not a privilege. Interestingly enough, it doesn't change when you replace the straight man with someone who IS sexuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:52 PM
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She said 39, the number in the article was 40
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:48 PM
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I think people have an overinflated sense of how common casual sex is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:45 PM
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lmao how is me talking about my own experience an "asinine take"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:40 PM
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You can't just call someone BP because you don't like what they say lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 01:48 PM
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I can't help but feel like you're taking this personally, as if I'm saying the men were complicit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 01:43 PM
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They constantly talk about how terrible it is, how much it hurts, they never get off, how degrading, etc Did women say ALL SEX is like that or just CASUAL SEX?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 12:24 PM
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Fucking random dudes even though it makes you hate yourself is engaging in self-harm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 11:59 AM
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Self-harm isn't always physical pain. Drug abuse can be a form of self-harm and doesn't necessarily hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 11:40 AM
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There's two ways to look at this: 1) No it's not, the option is to fuck men. That's the option women have. That's what we're discussing, that's what's being called a privilege. Any other time you'd understand men=/=women, why not now? 2) You wouldn't have a hard time finding a woman who wants to fuck you in the ass, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 11:03 AM
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That's where I got my hitachi wand, I just didn't know they had forums! EDIT: Okay i realized you don't mean some sort of message board.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 10:47 AM
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The one casual encounter that I had that was overwhelmingly positive turned into a relationship, though brief (1 year). Having a positive encounter with an individual dude doesn't make me want to go fuck different dudes, it makes me want to fuck that specific dude again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 10:38 AM
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Yeah, sure, Men Are Wonderful, whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:49 AM
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Big IF. This doesn't sound like meeting halfway, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:29 AM
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That sounds like an expectation for women. Men already don't expect women to make the first move. What about the other side?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:44 AM
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Men and women can either fold their arms and refuse to budge until the other side caves to their demands, or they can both start trying to make things better by meeting in the middle and accommodating each other. What would that look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:16 AM
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I can't speak for others, but I wouldn't say orgasms are a privilege, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 07:18 AM
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Nobody is blaming men, they're saying it's not a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:57 AM
1

... there's an Adam and Eve message board???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:44 AM
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Go get the attention girls do. Go to a gay bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:43 AM
4

How about... food poisoning? A little glass in my mashed potatoes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:35 AM
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Well, yeah, because that's not even "sex" then. It isn't exactly our fault that women don't get pleasure from actual sexual intercourse. You BETTER NOT like getting head bc that's not ackshual sexual intercourse either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:27 AM
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You're preaching to the choir brah I tell all the teenagers I know how wack casual sex is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:25 AM
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No, no, I definitely cannot blame men for this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:09 AM
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LMAO thanks for the source to her claims, but I wish there was a real link to a study. She said 40% had 1 or 2 hookups, the link says: The majority of respondents, 39 percent, had only had one or two partners with whom they had practiced casual sex. One percent off? We're nitpicking one percent? She said 18% had never hooked up, the link says: The report analyzed the responses of 2,000 unattached women between the ages of 18 and 63, and found that 82 percent of them have engaged in casual sex. 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:04 AM
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I kinda just want to lol Tbh I am not at liberty to say what I'd do if I devoted my life to my husband and family and he left me, but I'll keep the state-by-state difference in mind, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:50 AM
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Yeah, you willingly give another person a power over you, because he's a man you chose to rule over you and who has authority just because he's a man. That doesn't really make it any better. How about he has authority because I allow him to? At the end of the day, submission is a continuous choice. ​ If you're financially dependent SAHM, there's no legal contract providing you with a salary, health insurance, pension, sick-days or vacations. It all depends on your husband. And if he leaves you, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:42 AM
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Does a therapist have to be smarter than you, or do you mean they thought they were smarter than you (and were wrong)? I can see the latter getting in the way, but I think you get what you get from therapy, you bounce ideas off of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:39 AM
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I suppose I set myself up for that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:27 AM
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I agree, but I like talking to therapists. Talking helps more than any medicine. If you've never had a male therapist, try it. I've had more fulfilling experiences with them, they don't coddle me as much as female therapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:22 AM
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ITS THE INTERNET
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:19 AM
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I see what you did there. Do you ever think about the implications of the fact that majority of studies are done on college students?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:17 AM
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The worst part is that they jump right to trying to give you pills instead of helping you with any other aspect of your life that might improve your symptoms like diet and exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:11 AM
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Dudes can find someone to fuck them in the ass easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:03 AM
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Please give me a source on this so that I may spread the word
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:59 AM
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Slept on comment. My brief stint with casual sex was 100% a creative form of self-harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:59 AM
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I just remembered when one of my exes was taking Seroquel, he went from a pretty high sex drive to being so lethargic all the time that he never wanted to have sex ): I would just hug him while he slept.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:57 AM
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Bars
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:55 AM
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I wish OP had made it a point to ask people to list what meds they take, I think this is really relevant. Can't remember what meds I took at the time (maybe Wellbutrin) but there was a point in my life where I'd just do nothing but sit around getting high and watching porn and not even getting aroused by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:36 AM
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I wanna know the theory!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:13 AM
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Not if they're MAN nipples
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 11:33 PM
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She would've moved on. I mean, she's gonna move on from this, but I think the part that had her reeling enough to make it a pinned tweet was that she's like 7 years younger than him and that's still too old for him. Don't ever let anyone tell you ghosting is bad. Sometimes just fucking off is the best thing you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 11:33 PM
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Idk how much luck you're gonna have with lesbians as someone without titties. /:
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 11:29 PM
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When will u be getting titties? I don't think trans women should have to transition, but surely you want titties?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 11:16 PM
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No, literally, not explaining is more polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 11:15 PM
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Most other women disagree with me on this but will freely admit to overlooking a dude being ugly because he's tall lmao Most other women have told me they prioritize height because they want a man to make them feel small, aka feminine. I've never felt small, so I don't see smallness as inherently feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 11:12 PM
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Yeah, pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:44 PM
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I've never been on birth control and I can't due to it having major bad reactions with some of the medications I truly need, so I will never know how that might affect me, so I can't answer there. I've never been on (hormonal) birth control either, I get the feeling that is very relevant to this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:35 PM
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No, it's more like "you don't know what kind of person he is or if he has a wife, or herpes, or can't eat pussy/sucks at sex, and even if all those things are true what if you get pregnant ):" aka practicality overrides sex drive. I'm not trying to have an abortion, but at the very least, if I had to have one, I'd want the dude to emotionally support me through it. Additionally, in my experience, men fuck better when they're emotionally invested. Or maybe I can't really let go and enjoy sex with…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:26 PM
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I love short men! I think it started with me being tall and how unrealistic a standard it would be if I was only looking for men taller than me, but the more I dated them, the more I liked it. I'm 5'11" myself, so not only do I not see tall men with rose tinted glasses (all 6 of my brothers are 5'9+ and... let's just say I don't see the allure) but I also find their struggles with defying gender norms bc their size relatable, I think they're more down to earth, and I think it's hot when a man wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 10:18 PM
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I'm a woman I'm always horny, but I noticed the intensity fluctuates with my cycle. It's most intense when I'm ovulating and during my period, as in I don't even really want to do foreplay, I just want to get the need to have sex out of my system, THEN maybe we can be all affectionate. My sex drive is also intense when I'm in love. I can't help but lust for someone when I'm in love with them. And on a purely sexual note, I do look at random guys and imagine having sex with them all the time. Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 09:27 PM
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Agree. Men are doing something calling out simping but nothing seems to be happening on the female side Worry not, we call out female simps all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 09:10 PM
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I agree. And while we're at it, the donut is a bit much but like... maybe a peach ring...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 09:07 PM
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And like you said. Sex comes with way more risks for women, so even if we had the compulsive sex drive men had, we would still temper it because we have risks and things to consider that men don’t experience. I keep saying this but they don't listen! I'm RIDICULOUSLY horny. A guy doesn't need to be a Chad to make me fantasize about fucking him when I'm walking down the street, far from it. I picked my last ex because he gave me the vibe of being sexually adventurous and trustworthy. Just because…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 05:21 PM
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so we should logically be more concerned than women are, but we aren't because we are personally responsible and have to defend ourselves. Being prepared to defend yourself is definitely exhibiting concern. ​ Women are more afraid of men with less actual reason than for other men to be. Women have had it drilled into their heads that they are inherently weaker than men since they were young. I don't think that I'm inherently weaker than men, and men fight me on this point all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:43 AM
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Yes I can lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 06:45 AM
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What I find interesting though is how everybody says they'd oppose it. But I know I could recreate this again. And I know that, whoever that person I recreated it with is, if you asked them today, they'd react strongly negatively to the idea. "everybody" doesn't say they'd oppose it, though. I definitely know women who think like this and will openly say so. I'm saying it's not INHERENT to women. Maybe they would be reluctant about who they admit it TO. You do realize who you're talking to, righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 06:25 AM
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I don't really know what you want to hear. Clearly you think everything sexual should be the same and 'fair' for both sides. Equality = sameness. I just don't think that. It's not really that deep, just a difference in philosophies. I don't "want" to hear anything. You're not my boyfriend. This is a discussion board lol I'm discussing The problem, and what I was discussing, was you making up some sort of line of "logic" in which a woman could potentially gleam an ego boost out of her boyfriend/h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 04:39 AM
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Feelings or beliefs that they might do something to them is the figurative gun. That's all? Better to assume that people are going to be bad than wait for them to actually be bad? If people held this as a standard, the US would be even more desolate than it is already becoming. I cannot think of a single point in US history when this wasn't already the case. That would probably be the effect of a complete collapse of society and reversion to a more primal lifestyle, and those are basically the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:53 AM
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I feel like these dudes are right, your ex just wants another chance to fuck you, and you shouldn't even allow his words to permeate your eyes. Block the fuck out of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:32 AM
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May some guys who fuck some random girl in a relationship want to date her too? Sure. But we'd be kidding ourselves not think most of the men wouldn't either be grossed out by that, or just have not wanted to date her in the first place. All women don't want relationships either lol If some of those dudes wanted a relationship with her, isn't she choosing her boyfriend the same way a man who fucks other women but comes home to a single one chooses her? Both people sitting at home waiting for a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:24 AM
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The point was that women are basically walking around with a figurative gun pointed at every random man that they encounter. "Just in case." It's not a literal gun, so I'm not sure what you're talking about. Lack of trust is a figurative gun? ​ Do you understand the concept of "innocent until proven guilty?" Women treat men in the opposite respect. Better safe than sorry. By the time one is "proven guilty", it's too late. This would only be unjustified if there were material consequences for wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:53 AM
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I don't know whether someone is going to mug me, but you don't see me walking around pointing a gun at everyone in public. You're being absurd on purpose. Having a gun is a good idea, but you don't have to have it out and ready to shoot. ​ The cops don't know who's going to commit a crime, but they're not arresting everyone they see walking down the street. Racial profiling lol ​ There's quite a difference between "thinking some random person is going to do something" and "being on guard." Not r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:38 AM
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The entire POINT of being on guard is that we DON'T KNOW
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:27 AM
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Men are way more likely to be attacked. Shit happens. But out of 5000 times I leave the house, 0.5 times something violent occurs if even that. I’m not gonna assume the next bloke that talks to me is ill-intentioned. I’ll feel safe in knowing the odds. Because chances are if I’m attacked I’ll be fucked either way What if men get attacked more because they're less neurotic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:26 AM
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"likely to happen" vs "unlikely to happen" and self-efficacy in the face of a potential threat aren't mutually exclusive. I find it hard to believe men fear other men less simply out of trust and not out of a lack of feeling helpless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:27 AM
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I'm not less neurotic. Less neurotic would be me trusting men, which isn't what I'm doing "I can take this guy in a fight" =/= "I trust this guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:09 AM
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I still assess whether or not all men are threats, I'm just choosing fight over flight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:05 AM
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We're not less neurotic, we're more secure in our ability to defend ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:57 AM
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I mean, for one, a girl can definitely get a rise out of 'damn, my BF fucks all these girls and picks me. That's kind of sexy' whereas... the flipped-gender version reads more like "all these guys use my GF and don't want to date her." Excessively biased wording on your part aside... ​ 'damn, my BF fucks all these girls and picks me. That's kind of sexy' That's not getting picked lmao, that's being the one who tolerates his bullshit. ​ "all these guys use my GF and don't want to date her." Who s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 11:08 PM
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1 Karma? Nice troll post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 10:28 PM
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If it were about facts, it would be applied to "males and females" equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 10:57 AM
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Do you have any idea how many places people simply cannot own guns?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 12:52 AM
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Bad women are still women, though. Nobody is denying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 11:22 PM
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A No-True Scotsman would be saying they're not women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:52 PM
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Why is it that men aren't entitled to sex, but women are entitled to orgasms? I didn't say women are entitled to orgasms, I was responding to the notion that there is an abundance of quality sex just floating around that women can get. ​ And whose to say male and female orgasms are equivalent? Based on every experience I've had with a woman they're not even in the same universe in terms of quality. An orgasm is an orgasm. There's no real way to quantify it beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 08:04 PM
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In an ideal society, women would be attracted to their value match. If she's a 30th percentile woman, she's attracted to a 30th percentile man. Can I get a visual of what this means? I tried to make a thread asking about a 1-10 rating system but of men so I could understand what men mean when they say "looksmatch" but it got deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 07:59 PM
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I'm not religious, but if any religion comes closest to the right approach on all of this, it is Orthodox Judaism in my opinion. Perhaps with some updates for the modern world. But there is such a wealth of deep knowledge in the Jewish tradition it really is miraculous. Can you please elaborate on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:08 AM
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I think this is true to an extent, but you're assuming there's no other environmental factors responsible for how my parents are. If you see being born to adversity as a bucket of red flags, that's fine. I don't think I could be into someone born into an easy life, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:33 AM
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Maybe "idpol" isn't always stupid? Maybe it's often misapplied?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:23 AM
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That's cool and all, but it's still more of a risk than not taking birth control pills at all. Simply not having casual sex is still a better choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 11:42 PM
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Here's a concept: men are more hostile to women who they see as less attractive because they're indignant that an ugly woman wouldn't value any male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 11:37 PM
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Like an increased risk for cancer? The study found that recent (within the last 12 months) combined oral contraceptive use was associated with a 50% increased risk (odds ratio [OR] 1.5; 95% CI = 1.3-1.9) for breast cancer compared with never or former use (discontinuation at least 12 months prior). -https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6124967/ Birth control and abortion are safe compared to other procedures and medicines, but not safe compared to not taking birth control/getting an abor…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 11:06 PM
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I already don't have casual sex. That's the thing, I'm not misrepresenting the danger at all. Dismissing the side effects of birth control and abortion is misrepresenting the danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 10:17 PM
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Driving is infinitely more necessary than casual sex. I don't get why men insist on going back and forth on this. As a woman, simply not having casual sex is a better option on paper. Therefore, having an easier time getting casual sex as a woman isn't a benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 10:00 PM
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Let me give you a breakdown Sex within a loving relationship > Hitachi Wand > Just using my hand > humping a pillow> using a dildo> casual sex It must also be noted that "sex within a loving relationship" and "hitachi wand" aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 09:16 PM
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You shouldn't have a hard time finding a woman with these standards. Try childfree groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 08:59 PM
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I could go for this as long as the man doesn't want kids. But then, I'd have to not want children, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 08:51 PM
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Minimal, but not nonexistent. Simply not having casual sex is still a better option on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 08:50 PM
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I'm not addicted. Casual sex is just worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 08:49 PM
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Nope. the negative consequences of sex for women have been all but eliminated. Because men worked to do that for women. And women demanded it. Dream on, men did it because they wanted fucking to be more convenient. You just ignored the myriad of ways I told you that it has negative consequences because...? You're just going to bury your head in the proverbial sand? ​ And yes, I am comparing shitty condom use to IUD insertion. Condoms reduce sensation. It would only begin to be equal if you had t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 08:48 PM
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battle of the anecdotal evidence!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 08:38 PM
12

Yes, I would. I have a Hitachi wand. All I need is some platonic cuddles and I'm set.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 08:38 PM
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I consider not being able to have casual sex champagne problems but I'm thinking as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 08:36 PM
8

I also see older women happy about being ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 08:35 PM
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So - no orgasm = crappy sex? You have to cum every time, or it's crappy? News to me... but OK... If I have a better time masturbating than having sex... then yeah lmao Do you cum every time you have sex? If not, do you consider that good sex? ​ Man who wore condoms - "doesn't know how birth control involves physical suffering" Yeah, no. Seriously? You think wearing a condom is on par with manipulating your hormonal balance when it comes to physical suffering? Getting your cervix manually dilated…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 08:32 PM
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you can always find hot guys to have sex with and women keep saying the sex is OK, even if it's not mind blowing. Most women are not having consistently crappy sex. They get a little bit of crappy sex, but it's not crappy all the time. No one gets great water. It's good. It's OK. It's adequate, acceptable, and consumable. Like the sex you can get. What is the stat on how many women don't orgasm? ​ Safe? Women have never had it so good in this regard. Risk of pregnancy is all but eliminated. Even…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 07:57 PM
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So then how is me... just turning the word "man" to "woman", and asking if you " judge privilege by the lowest members of society " when it comes to women idpol? If you're not using idpol, and the only difference between what i said and what you said is gender... why'd you even mention idpol?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 07:44 PM
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I literally just did the inverse of your statement. If you don't care about idpol, why'd you bring up lower class black men....?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 07:32 PM
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I hate indirectness. If you're going to talk shit about someone, say it to their face or shut the fuck up. I have no respect for women who talk shit behind people's backs. I much preferred physical bullying to social bullying. I hate hate HATE how women enable shitty male behavior and hold higher standards for women than they do men. A man can be a rapist and some dumb bitch will still defend him because she "loves" him or that's her son. A man can cheat on his wife and the wife will go around t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 07:30 PM
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Doesn't apply to the conditions of my birth that I didn't choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 07:18 PM
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So then you're judging women's "privilege" by judging the experience of a lower class black woman then, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 07:15 PM
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Neither water or sex is like that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 07:05 PM
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Being on PPD is a bucket full of red flags in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 07:04 PM
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Wow people really have parents? There are two people who had sex for me to exist, but I wouldn't call them parents. I only ever called my "dad" by his real name, and only saw him a handful of times before he died from drug-related heart problems when I was 13. My "mom" ran away from home at 13 and hasn't matured a day past that. She had 9+ kids by like 5 different dudes and left them with her mom who she herself couldn't stand. I think my real parent is my grandmother and my grandfather. My gran…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 11:30 AM
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Black men prefer Latinas over white women "Latina" and "white woman" aren't mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 10:50 AM
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*you're <3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 04:36 AM
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Can I repost this as a question for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 11:31 PM
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When I say that, I get accused of The C Word.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 11:16 PM
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What does it mean when men say shit like "women see a couple and think the woman is a 7 and the man is a 5, but in reality they're both 5's"? I'm trying to understand what women think a man's "looksmatch" is. I know the concept is kind of bullshit, but enough people believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 11:15 PM
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Speak for yourself, I wanna bury my face in that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 11:12 PM
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Whether or not you relate to someone has nothing to do with what you can learn from their perspective. Let's stay on topic. You seem to think me not relating to white westerners' fictional depictions of themselves means I determine who I can relate to based solely off skin color. I never said that, and as proof, I never said I relate to continental Africans just because they're the same color as me. ​ What is real is that we build our own jails, and you have chosen to build yours based on the am…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 10:56 PM
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Because it gives you perspective on your Western context for the meaning of race. Not really. I never said that I relate to continental Africans. I went to great lengths to make it clear who and where I was talking about and you started arguing against points I never made anyway. ​ We all see the world as human beings. You choose to limit that breadth of possibility by the amount of melanin in your skin - and that is your choice alone. This is cute and all but it's unrealistic as hell. ​ I suspe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 09:33 PM
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I do too but there's no doubt in my mind that that's how men interpreted you saying you don't care about n-count lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 09:05 PM
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You should spend some time in Africa. And then spend more time being open-mindedly inquisitive here in America. About 20 years ago I had three stage tea in Northen Mali with two Tuaregs who were darker than me (and I’m very dark) who explained to me that they weren’t really black (but I was) because their ancestors were Muslim (and mine weren’t), and that’s why it was OK for their ancestors to sell mine into slavery. You ignored a large portion of my comment to make this point. I made it abundan…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 09:05 PM
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1) if I find characters unrelatable, they won't resonate with me 2) If I find characters unrelatable, their actions won't make sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:36 PM
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I think there's a difference between caring if he's ever had sex vs if he's racked up 100+ n count. It just says something about the kind of man you are, especially taking into account how allegedly "difficult" it is for men to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:33 PM
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People with different skin colors in western society are treated differently, navigate the world differently, and they view the world differently. As a result, I can't relate to narratives that center them. For the record, I live in the US, and I primarily meant white (fictional) movies. Can't relate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 07:49 PM
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If I waited for a relatable main character I'd never read a book, play a game, watch a movie, or watch an anime. Interestingly enough, this is why I don't care for the overwhelming majority of movies, but not on a basis of gender. I got tired of watching white people all the time, and the white person being a woman doesn't make her more relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 07:36 PM
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Hot dudes who don't know they're hot >>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:13 AM
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I don't think those gender swap apps should be taken too seriously, I think they make you into an idealized version of the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:10 AM
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You know how there's that one viral picture outlining what a 1-10/10 woman is? Do you have one for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 07:24 AM
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No. "Nice/kind men" who are also sexually attractive and who learn to dole out their niceness and kindness sparingly, and who learn to suppress them, do well in the SMP. What's the difference between this dude and the dudes you claim are "really nice and kind"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 07:11 AM
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That's a tidbit of a population of 7billion lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 06:36 AM
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You're misinterpreting me not giving a shit about your deviation from the original point from me disputing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 04:07 AM
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Why reply to my comment with this irrelevant shit like I wasn't arguing with someone who said ALL women in a certain age bracket posts thirst traps?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:04 AM
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Why isn't it fine to not want to waste your time if that's what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:02 AM
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its "dont say things you shouldnt say.. if you dont have to" What the dude I originally responded to said isn't about what not to say, he's straight up saying not to engage in honest and open communication with women because it will detract from your chances of getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 11:54 PM
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​ Despite what you see on TV and in the movies, women are weaker than men when it gets down to brass tacks (or knuckles). Act as tough as you like, but be not fooled. In a Lord of the Flies without sexual attraction, you lose. I'm counting on men being stupid enough to believe this applies across the board. Please, underestimate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 11:23 PM
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Because saying whatever it takes you get what you want sounds sociopathic??? Because if being honest means someone won't fuck you, why wouldn't you find a partner you don't have to lie to? If all men only tell women they're in relationships what they want to hear, that makes their words worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 11:20 PM
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Really? Plastic surgery, make-up, uncomfortable and impractical clothing, not to mention OLD, the social behaviors of teenaged girls and young women signal an awful lot of stupidity. Half of that shit women do for themselves and other women. Idek why you put online dating like that makes up a meaningful amount of women. Women mostly don't have to go to great lengths to get pregnant in the first place. ​ No you don’t. Women don’t realize they shit they get away with because men are societally hes…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 11:04 PM
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Short women are valued, not in the exact same way tall men are, but in a comparable way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 10:05 PM
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I have seen several women here unironically claim that the equivalent/looksmatch of a short man is a fat woman. SMP-wise, it sure ain't a short woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:26 PM
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Not the gay and asexual ones. However, the vast majority of men are infused with a very strong urge to sexually reproduce, just like the males of every other sexually reproducing animal species on the planet, as it is the primary function of a male animal. I don't think that's the same as being obsessed with how to get pussy, because women have a biological drive to reproduce and we don't act stupid about it. Nope. It’s based off of the understanding that if men didn’t constantly want to get lai…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 08:15 PM
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It’s called the state of being male. Gonna have to pull a #notallmen here ​ Just as the state of being female holds what gets various other forms of utility central to your thought processes. Like food... and water... ? ​ And you’re not really sad about it. Your world would be a much more challenging place for you if it weren’t so. Is that based off your personal experience of having a vagina or some hackneyed copy-paste job of how you'd feel if women as a whole were obsessed with getting dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 02:30 PM
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You, previously: We obviously aren't talking about face pictures. I knew you were gonna pull this lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 02:00 PM
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I think its unhealthy that women go into relationships with this expectation, because they are setting themselves up for failure. Not every relationship will end with a ring. It's not setting yourself up for failure if you know what you want and make it abundantly clear to your potential partner. Marriage and LTRs aren't Disney magic, they're a choice you have to commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:51 PM
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my b, I edited
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:46 PM
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It must be really sad for what gets you pussy to be so central to your thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:34 AM
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No, that's MY inbox. Men suck at analogies, take 5893707
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:30 AM
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Time and time again, men on here tell eachother to say what gets them laid, not what is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 04:52 AM
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We obviously aren't talking about face pictures. Then you genuinely believe all women have posted a picture of their ass on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:26 AM
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That's correct, it's a thirst trap because her intention in posting it was to attract male attention. The point of posting pictures on the internet is to attract attention in general, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:24 AM
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I mean you accused me to consider that men are never a minority and now you say this. Men AS A CATEGORY have more systemic power than black people or women (as a category was implied here because why the fuck wouldn't I be comparing categories to categories?) =/= Men are never a minority YOU said minorities are never men. You. ​ Some people love to be "victim" because they can be the "heroes", the good guys on their own political narrative. Maybe you feel that way lmao And no, there's no point t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:22 AM
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By that definition, all women, even in the age bracket you specified, don't do that. A girl can be pretty and post a picture of her face and men will DM her. Just because an image invokes thirst, doesn't make it a thirst trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:01 AM
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So men aren't minorities? Right? Because according to the victimhood Olympics you can be oppressed if you have "systemic power". Amarite? Stop trying to hold me accountable for what you THINK I think. Men as a CATEGORY have more systemic power. When America had a black president, it was a man. And before you accuse me of the Apex fallacy, emphasis on AS A CATEGORY. Most homeless are men, but they also make up majority of the government. That is men having more systemic power AS A CATEGORY. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:00 AM
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Photos intended to be viewed as sexually attractive and show a lot of skin are considered thirst traps. Not my opinion alone on this one. This is a self-centered view of other people's motivations. A chick posting a picture of herself in a costume or at the beach isn't a "thirst trap" just because it made you thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:56 AM
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This "in one way or another" bullshit just gives you leeway to interpret whatever suits your point as a "thirst trap".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:44 AM
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No, that's how you're interpreting these PEOPLE posting sexual pictures of themselves. Objects can't post pictures of themselves. If you see a woman who makes your peepee hard and you immediately jump to "she wants to be seen as an object" that is a problem for you and your god of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:42 AM
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That's you and your friends who consider that men (when you're a woman) and/or white men (when you're a minority) are the oppressors and so not the minority. You said it yourself that " Men as a category have much more systemic power". You can't just cut a sentence in half to make your point. I said: "Men as a category have much more systemic power than black people or women" And it's fucking true? ​ Pretty rich coming from you. I mean, you're advocating for people we ended up calling snowflakes…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:41 AM
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This sounds like you can't be sexually aroused by a woman and treat her like a person at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:24 AM
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So it's a good thing men are smart enough to not emulate women and minorities in their victimhood Olympics and just bear it. This just in: The Minorities are never men. I can't believe you said this on MLK jr. Day. Not a damn thing you listed is remotely violent. You have no idea what actual vengeance and domination is. Hint: making you uncomfortable isn't vengeance and domination.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:19 AM
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When men say that women shouldn't be wary of men as a collective, but if you take this advice and a man assaults you, prepare to answer 99 questions as to how you let this happen to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:45 PM
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Men as a category have much more systemic power than black people or women, it'd be much worse. The most radical black people and women are separatists and strive to live apart from white people/men. I think the expectations of "vengeance and domination" are you projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:25 PM
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But those same emotions, expressed in the exact same manner by a woman aren’t examples of toxic femininity. That's because it wouldn't be called "toxic femininity", it'd be that thing where women are accused of "emulating all of the worst traits of men and none of the good". Toxic femininity would be refusing to let your children grow up, or emotionally manipulating someone with tears or suicide threats to stay with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:19 PM
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Women want to hear what they want to hear, not what anyone else actually thinks. So if by open communication you mean “telling women what they want to hear,” you’re correct. If you mean actual open and honest communication, you’re dead wrong. The last thing women want in communication is actual honesty and frankness. You respond quite poorly to that. From my experience on this sub, I've learned that men don't like the advice that they should be honest, because they feel "honest" doesn't get them…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:16 PM
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their cum
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:05 PM
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I agree that men are the best to solve their own issues. My point is that using the modus operandi used by feminists and other black activists isn't a good idea. I agree with you on principle here. I disagree with the practice. This reads like you agree with the concept unless it's black people or women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:02 PM
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Just so we're on the same page, poppy_blu said feminists should "shut up, listen, examine your own bias/role, and let [men] have the voice and lead the way and YOU follow" when it comes to men's issues and you're disagreeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:07 PM
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No, sometimes we're saying women are literally humans. Men seem to forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:36 PM
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Lol she was talking about what feminists SHOULD DO wrt men's problems Why on earth wouldn't you shut up and listen to the people with lived experience if you actually cared?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:33 PM
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Adding the sex part is not taking it at face value
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 08:28 PM
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Sounds like when women say "I want", men hear "I want to fuck"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 07:05 PM
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In that case, I'm on the "cheater"'s side here. If I was facing a dead bedroom situation, I'd be like "Either you fuck me or someone else will". I know it's hard to be that honest but I just don't respect lies and deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 07:04 PM
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I agree. Sometimes people stay in relationships because it's the path of least resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 07:01 PM
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You know what? That's not cheating. I can't even be mad bc by saying that she set herself up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 07:01 PM
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You wanted to mirror what I said but contradicted it in the second sentence, proving that even you think that's bullshit. I already said he should inform her, aka "declare it open". Let her do with that what she will. None of this "but what about the kids" having-your-cake-and-eating-it-too bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:34 PM
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But WHY would he divorce? He is getting his sexual needs met elsewhere. His sexless wife is also happy with no sex. If SHE wanted to divorce then she already would have done so. If that were true, it wouldn't be cheating, it'd be a negotiated open relationship. Did he inform her or go behind her back?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:27 PM
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I don't give a fuck enough about this dude that I would never marry enough to consider him an "enemy"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:46 AM
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So men are expected to work all day while she sits at home and then come home and do the chores, too? WTF? I don't even think you genuinely thought this was about housewives. ​ Lemme explain something to you - those of us whose wives both work, we do the chores. This feminist bullshit narrative is just outright hatemongering. The dude I'm replying to literally said the opposite: Ladies, the few extra hours you sweep the floor doesn't make up for $40k+ income difference and the amount of hard wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 05:33 AM
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Mothers coddle their sons Some women need to be needed and will coddle a man into being a manchild, doing everything for him. This wouldn't work so easily if it wasn't for the fact that Men see cleaning as "beneath them". It's "too easy" or not rewarding enough. They bullshit like they don't know how to get out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 01:42 AM
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Housework is low value work. Housework doesn't even have performance reviews so housework is easy and low pressure. This is why men are "lazy", they think cleaning is beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 01:37 AM
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It's also extremely pompous to find security in allowing her to only fuck other women. TBH I hope she leaves him for her girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 08:40 PM
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I'm bisexual and I like bisexual men. Idk about that threesome combination because there's not enough dick to go around lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 03:26 AM
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Either we both give up extramarital heterosexuality or neither of us do. I'd be willing to do the reverse where we're only allowed to fuck people of the same sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 03:12 AM
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For whom? I could never respect the kind of man who wants to be allowed to fuck other women but won't let me fuck other men. Maybe I could be talked into a straight up open relationship, but this having your cake and eating it too bullshit? nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 03:01 AM
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You really like talking to me today, even when you're saying nothing. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:49 AM
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All due respect to sex workers, I couldn't do it because I don't see Johns as people and I didn't want to hate men any more than I already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:42 AM
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I'd spit in a dude's face if he said some bullshit about a "one penis policy"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 12:48 AM
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It was found that male sexual desire remained fairly constant, or even increased throughout the course of the relationship, while female sexual desire declined over time, but that male desire for "tenderness" declined and female desire for "tenderness" was generally constant. This seems like a fucked up sort of synergy. A woman isn't going to want to have sex without tenderness, a man isn't going to want to be tender without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 07:23 AM
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It's called, quit being a babyback bitch and break up with her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:10 AM
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Like I said before, there needs to be tiers to this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:08 AM
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Imagine a female 29-year-old NYU graduate from a middle-class Yankee family dating a Lakota 35-year-old that she picked off from the mountains out west. Or if she dated a ranching boy from Alabama. It would be kind of silly and wacky. Nobody would even take it seriously. Coooooope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 05:05 AM
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Casual sex is better for men than it is for women. A 2012 study in the American Sociological Review found that roughly 40% of women said they climaxed during their last hookup, compared to 80% of men. I been saying this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 09:24 AM
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I'm talking about HER kids. I never said her mom was a crackhead. Stop hating this random bitch so bad it impairs your reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 05:42 AM
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One drug-addled mother I was referring to in another post - she doesn't work, she doesn't go to school - she just fucks, uses drugs, neglects her kid I like how you claim nobody is poor because of their born conditions, and then outline the dysfunctional childhood that serves as a disadvantage to poor people. Pulling yourself up by the bootstraps sounds pretty fucking easy to people who's mom wasn't a crackhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 03:25 AM
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Don't care, from down here, all you bitches are rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 02:39 AM
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Thank you. Maybe kids are expensive if you're a relentless consumer and you want to buy them dumbass Fisher Price toys and fancy clothes to shit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 02:37 AM
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same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 11:24 PM
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I said single motherhood isn't a problem with college educated women, which is absolutely true It's not a problem because they have money and stable support systems lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:29 PM
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Anyone who thinks having children for the welfare is in any way worth it have not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:25 PM
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Men are too stupid to be manipulative The entirety of RP is teaching men how to be manipulative. When I read RP shit like maintaining plates, I'm like "this is exactly what other women have told me to do to men". ​ that fact that women think they are 'complex' is pure projection I don't think men are complex at all. You don't have to be complex to be manipulative. Men's motives are extremely easy to figure out if you know what you're looking for, aka if you stop listening to what they say and wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:21 PM
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Men who hate women won't leave them alone either, it's unfair to hold me to that standard. ):
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:18 PM
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Don't want to be "race baited", quit bitching about things that disproportionately affect MOC (like false rape accusations and the prison industrial complex) and leave the racial part out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:40 PM
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Nah, I'm not going to make the mistake of underestimating how manipulative men can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:28 PM
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Reality, or the women you've met? The thing is, women don't have to lie to get casual sex like men do, why would they? I doubt OP will see this but here's to hoping.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:27 PM
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Is this adjusted for cost of living? I'm from west coast USA, and the cost of living... holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:22 PM
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With all the men in these subreddits justifying lying to get what they want, maybe I should adopt that mentality, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:16 PM
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You have no studies on this, seems like you're just hesitant to believe it. You could just take the women who say they're like that at face value, because the reverse, women trying to get into relationships to look cool for the girls, is common, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:53 PM
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There's nothing in OP suggesting that these women don't make it clear they're only in it for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:42 PM
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Is it that hard to believe there are some women who don't want LTR with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:38 PM
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Women need to realise that their desire for a "Long Term Relationship" complete with bonding and communication and bla bla bla for a man is really him trying to get a "regular sex scenario" - and she can call it what she wants to. If NetFlix charged me $20 for one movie, or $20 for as many movies as I can watch, which plan would I want? That's how most men view sex. As a scarce commodity. Prove me wrong. Based and pink pilled Stop making me hate men ):
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:36 PM
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If they're a player and don't get attached to women after sex, they're an asshole and they objectify and are using women for thier pleasure. Lol you're only an asshole if you use deception to get what you want. I have nothing but respect for honest fuckboys. ​ If they get attached, they're needy and clingy and that's unattractive. Seems like you lose both ways. To the woman mentioned in OP, yes. Different women want different things. ​ I don't think these particular guys would become "clingy", i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:28 PM
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even an average looking guy trying to meet a woman has such rarity that he would probably be inclined to “cling” to her even as a FWB or a plate. Ohhh, scarcity mentality, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:18 PM
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It's not double-standards if a war-hardened thot is saying this. She's obviously not the kind of woman to get clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:12 PM
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The woman could also just be dark triad herself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 11:06 PM
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But Pilates...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 11:01 PM
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