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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 56 | Queen in TrainingTo Freedom! 🎉🥳🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 03:30 AM |
| 46 | CAn wE JUst DO SoMEthINg NiCE FOr MEn 🤪Hell to the Ño. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:01 PM |
| 47 | Thank you all! 💋Haha loved "I certainly dont." Good for you girl! Thats so inspiring. Currently working on my savings and a new car now. Congrats! 💕🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 08:29 PM |
| 93 | Seen this wayyy too many times!🙄 Women are held solely responsible for breaking relationships by other women because of internalised misogyny. The poor cheating bf is a "good guy otherwise".I literally saw a video from FB of the other woman hiding in the closet and the GF was spitting on, hitting and cursing out the WOMAN. I was so disgusted. She was in genuine fear and getting beaten while the BF was behind the GF. Absolutely ridiculous. Edited: Grammatical errors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:26 PM |
| 189 | A bad case of pickmeisha disease!Shes right. I'm single and I disagree. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:07 PM |
| 63 | I didn't see this posted here yet. This felt powerful!Wow, this gave me chills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 11:53 PM |
| 73 | Why do men date or have a GF for 5+ years, then when the relationship breaks down they find someone else and marry them within 2 years?Aww, I can only imagine how you felt when you found out. Big praise to you for sticking to your standards! Totally right if they want they would. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:39 PM |
| 67 | Why do men date or have a GF for 5+ years, then when the relationship breaks down they find someone else and marry them within 2 years?Simple. He doesn't marry her because she is a place holder. Not only that-- she allowed to be strung along all those years. Both knowing the woman wanted to get married. If he wanted to settle down with her he would have. He didn't because he didn't see himself living the rest of his life with her. I totally remember GfvsBF. He ends ups having a 15 year old daughter after all those years by a woman he got pregnant when while in the army. Overall so messy. Im happy she left the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Wolves in Suits: Proper vetting of Wealthy men and Economic abuse 💸💅🏽🚬Some men are truly wolves. Yes, Ladies we seek to be sought-after HVM. For some of us, very wealthy ones. But don't let the Rolex watch and tailored suits fool you. The lavish lifestyles may seem appealing and highly desirable. But at what cost? We must look for quality of character when pursued by said men especially the "well off" ones. Taking a look on the darker side of it: Economic abuse is a real life issue! It can take place in relationships and in marriage. That's why it's very important… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 10:25 PM |
| 27 | Nothinggg! 👸🏽💕Have confidence Ladies! When all the hard work of leveling up pays off and you start seeing results be appreciative and receptive. Sit back and enjoy what's happening. After your hard and laborious sowing. Don't feel undeserving, don't feel less than; not a d*mn thing is too good for you. This journey wasn't an easy one. You deserve every great thing that is about or is happening right now. Thank you for reading! 💕 Photo credit to: @levels_of_women on insta. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Never let yourself go!Thank you! I will defend myself to the ends of the Earth. I knew what I meant to say. Appearance does matter and is relevant to keep up. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 10:55 PM |
| -1 | Never let yourself go!Not mad at all. Just clarifying what it actually meant. I'm not going to have ladies go ballistic over something that was misinterpreted. Seems like people only look at things negatively. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:41 PM |
| 4 | Never let yourself go!Far from upset. No one is going to tell me what I meant to say in my own post. Don't like the fact that I'm defending my case? Too bad. Carry on. 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:36 PM |
| -1 | Never let yourself go!This was not relationship advice nor was I implying to look good for "the next man". Completely and utterly for ourselves. Thanks for commenting. 🎀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:41 AM |
| -6 | Never let yourself go!Do not tell me what "I know" tf? I said what I said. It is NOT for men I specifically said for yourself a plethora of times. Feel free to go on the original post where I got this from in Instagram (its water marked) and look at what they are saying. Its to not feel like utter garbage if your relationship ends. Theres nothing worse than a break up and looking and feeling bad. I swear its like we're playing on 2 different teams here. And some ladies love to argue. End of discussion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:35 AM |
| 4 | Never let yourself go!Nope, you completely ignored my OP comment and made it into what YOU think it is. When im telling you, you missed the point. Feel free to look at my other comments when I explain further more in depth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Never let yourself go!Thank you for sharing! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:08 AM |
| -8 | Never let yourself go!No, I did not frame it as for a man. Keeping up for yourself was not intended for a man's eye to be intrigued throughout the relationship. Nor did I mention men once in my original comment. I'm done explaining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Never let yourself go!This is legitimately what I'm not saying. Goodness gracious, is it really that hard to understand? A lot of women lose themselves in relationships. And quite a few women let themselves go as well. There's nothing wrong with saying "keep up your appearance". Nobody said anything about a 24/7 burden of looking good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 10:56 AM |
| 4 | Never let yourself go!Someone who gets it! Thank you for sharing. 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Never let yourself go!Anndd, you missed my point completely. I said previously health comes over all. But many fail to see that and like to jump into calling it superficiality. We are talking about specifically looks today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 10:47 AM |
| 25 | Never let yourself go!Totally agree with the former. Your latter statement is exactly what I'm NOT talking about. This is post is exclusively about a woman doing this for herself and herself only. Nothing to do with men or keeping them. This is for keeping yourself. Thank you so much for sharing! 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:35 AM |
| 34 | Never let yourself go!Precisely. 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:05 AM |
| 5 | Never let yourself go!Yes, being overall healthy is paramount. My post isn't about doing it for "other people" though; I specifically said multiple times to "do it for YOURSELF". We live in a society that cares about appearance more than anything else. And your appearance is an outward representation of how you take care of your health. But if you want to let yourself go that's fine too, sis. 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:03 AM |
| 37 | Never let yourself go!Ladies, looks DO matter. There, I said it. Do it for you. Look the most beautiful for yourself. Not only will your confidence sky rocket, so will your self worth. Never get comfortable in any circumstance. Do not neglect yourself. Eat the best food and have weekly beauty treatments done. Whether it be a pre-made salad or a dollar store face mask. Please, start somewhere and do this for yourself. 💕 Edit: I would like to add that this post is specifically talking about appearance/self care. Becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 01:23 AM |
| 31 | One of the reasons I left a sexist religion/cultThis is the exact reason why I don't go to church. People have been using the Bible out of context to control the masses for centuries. Here's proof: Ephesians 5:21-33 English Standard Version 21submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. We are supposed to submit to one another. As in everyone. Man, woman, child. By doing so showing respect to Christ Pastors purposely skip over that verse! And then later in the verses it talks ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:33 AM |
| 16 | Sex before marriageI am a virgin. I am also waiting until marriage for religious and personal reasons. I know for a fact I will not have or enjoy sex if there isn't a serious emotional connection or legal binding to a man. I think sex is beautiful and a passionate way to express your love for one another. I just couldn't do it with a guy within a few months like I see some ladies saying. No matter how much vetting I want to see this guy for who he really is. Because I know men are notorious for changing up after t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:49 PM |
| 10 | Just a lil funnyMy heart would sink to my stomach. Utter disappointment. 😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:32 PM |
| 8 | Just a lil funnyOmg, and I'm planning to wait until marriage. God, help me. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:26 PM |
| 8 | This thread made me realize how much I have been groomed. I remember this man called «Batmanforever» that wanted to meet me when I was 13 years old. He told me he was 25. Its heartbreaking to read.Wattpad! Full of fan-fics and kink stories. Most written and Read by tween/teenage girls. Totally remember reading and commenting when I was younger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:22 PM |
| 6 | Don't "act" busy be busy! Have your own life.Thanks for sharing girl. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:40 PM |
| 21 | Don't "act" busy be busy! Have your own life.Mmm, my favorite hobby. Invest in some killer pajamas/nighties and a weighted blanket. Best sleep yet...🤗😴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:08 AM |
| 52 | Don't "act" busy be busy! Have your own life.I encourage all Ladies to get an actual agenda/planner that you can write in. And fill it up! Take some time to yourself, get off your phone, and get out your gel pens and highlighters and plan out your week just for starters. I challenge you to make "self care time" a priority at least 3 times week. Whether it be a face mask, meditation/prayer, bubble bath, booking a massage, pedi/mani etc. Yes, I know work and kids can get in the way. But also try a fun activity once a week with you and the gi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:02 AM |
| 83 | Why do men think stuff like this is going to make us want them? 🙄Lmaooo, I thought I was the only one who noticed. Looks like he's sporting AA cups too. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:02 PM |
| 20 | "A man being rich is like a girl being pretty." Marilyn is speaking nothing but facts. 🗣️💯 What are your thoughts Ladies?Precisely, that's why in this film Marilyn mentioned his kindness and generosity in the beginning before she even talked to his Father about them wanting to get married. HVW know when a man is a cheap ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:45 PM |
| 11 | "A man being rich is like a girl being pretty." Marilyn is speaking nothing but facts. 🗣️💯 What are your thoughts Ladies?That's why I said "at the least". Some women would compromise certain attributes when it comes to a man. I was just listing a few from my point of view, babe. But yes those are the bare minimum. But it doesn't hurt to say for the newbies who don't Know that it's okay to have standards ; especially talking about looks for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:35 PM |
| 30 | "A man being rich is like a girl being pretty." Marilyn is speaking nothing but facts. 🗣️💯 What are your thoughts Ladies?Thank you so much for sharing! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:09 PM |
| 34 | "A man being rich is like a girl being pretty." Marilyn is speaking nothing but facts. 🗣️💯 What are your thoughts Ladies?Lol don't we all! Atleast decent looks and good hygiene. He also must have pearly white straight teeth. That's the deal breaker for me. But most importantly how her treats you REALLY matters. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:47 PM |
| 50 | "A man being rich is like a girl being pretty." Marilyn is speaking nothing but facts. 🗣️💯 What are your thoughts Ladies?Honey, I don't know if you actually watched the whole movie or not. But "Lora lee"-Marilyn in this film was very sly with her words and some-what manipulative. Read between the lines of what she is saying. She even states earlier in the film that she loves him for his kindness and Is not like other men. She's saying money isn't everything but it "sure does help" and why limit herself to a man that doesn't have when he (FIL) himself wouldn't want his own daughter to be in a predicament of struggl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:24 PM |
| 54 | "A man being rich is like a girl being pretty." Marilyn is speaking nothing but facts. 🗣️💯 What are your thoughts Ladies?Exactly, and that is what Marilyn was trying to explain to her future FIL. That looks (her) and money (her fiance) to was not all they had to offer each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:14 PM |
| 81 | "A man being rich is like a girl being pretty." Marilyn is speaking nothing but facts. 🗣️💯 What are your thoughts Ladies?Yup, that's what they were implying in the video as well. She is more than her looks and he's more than his wallet. She just dumbed it down for her future FIL to get it. But in a very tactful and feminine way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 13 | Do NOT Date A Broke man!Precisely, a cheap man is just as bad as a broke man IMO. Good for you for getting out of that relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:22 PM |
| 42 | When FDS opens your eyes and you're free!Right, it's just so exhilarating! 🥳🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:22 PM |
| 7 | Do NOT Date A Broke man!Yeah, with their hand. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:56 PM |
| 4 | Do NOT Date A Broke man!How lovely! That really does seem like a good gift. Congratulations on finding a true provider, dear. 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:47 PM |
| 7 | Do NOT Date A Broke man!Omg, very Interesting you say that. I was just thinking about being called "judgmental" in the past. You know what? I am, and usually my judgments are spot on! Yes, I'll take being high maintenance over anything else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:42 PM |
| 48 | Don't take nude photos of yourself!Exactly. It's a high risk/low reward to even take them. You can't even trust sending nudes to a spouse. Just don't take them Ladies. If your SO wants to see something it's best to do it in person and in private. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:04 PM |
| 23 | Do NOT Date A Broke man!Agreed 100%. This advice is leaning towards the Ladies in the intermediate and advanced stages in their level up journey. Who are fully healed and know how to vet men properly. ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:16 PM |
| 10 | Do NOT Date A Broke man!How beautifully put! 👸🏽💅🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:47 PM |
| 55 | Do NOT Date A Broke man!Facts, almost all married women or divorcees told me to marry for money and not for "love". You can learn to love someone. There, I said it. 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:41 PM |
| 117 | Do NOT Date A Broke man!Ladies, Hypergamy is the way to go. Struggle Love is not Cute and is no longer acceptable. Please, don't waste your time on a man who doesn't have anything to offer other than what's between his legs. This economy was made and created for Men to thrive. I have no sympathy for a man who doesn't have. If he doesn't have a savings, trusts, stocks, IRA's or assets of any kind. Drop his ass. A woman cannot be fully secure and comfortably in love when the relationship is not only broken but BROKE. Let… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:58 AM |
| 8 | I will not be dating interracially anymore. Here is why.Yaknow, I think it stems from European beauty standards pushed into almost every culture. White is seen as the ultimate standard of beauty. It's not. It's like people are brain washed. Any man who mentions my race is cut off. He should see a beautiful woman first before my race. Other than that it turns straight into a fetish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 10:08 AM |
| 3 | Be the first one to pull awayTook the words right out of my mouth. You don't owe him an explanation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 07:46 PM |
| 21 | I’m Declaring Our Right As Women to Have Specific Penis PreferencesOh goodness, well I'm glad mammals have evolved from that because that doesn't sound pleasurable at all. Haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:00 PM |
| 43 | I’m Declaring Our Right As Women to Have Specific Penis PreferencesHonestly, those penis papules made me gag just looking at them. Like, how disgusting looking. It looks like an HPV infection. Can't even imagine it even be out by me let alone TOUCHING me. 🤢🤮 Absolutely unacceptable, no woman should settle for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:42 PM |
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