| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 255 | Quicker with truth bomb come backs since FDS | MOOD FOR LIFE | PrincessOzPower | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 05:04 AM |
| 112 | Everyday Examples of Red Flags | PrincessOzPower | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 12:55 AM | |
| 1 | FDS Movies? About growth and enlightenment? | DISCUSSION | PrincessOzPower | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Ask a man to give an example of HVM attitude. | STRATEGY | PrincessOzPower | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:59 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | The movie Labyrinth provides good advice on dealing with narcs, creepy older men and fucbois. Always remember the words 'You have no power over me'I'm at work and I'm glad I'm alone in the office - your comment made me laugh so hard!!! I had to sign in to comment and upvote LOL Fantastic !!! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 06:05 AM |
| 9 | Couldn't resist sharing 🤭I think not cuming but continuing to have sex is normal for a lot of us because HVM are so rare. So that means so many women are just used to the disappointment from day one of their sexual experience with a man. That's my experience. But what you say makes so much sense - I can not imagine not cuming during sex now. If I'm not - that's bad sex and why would I put up with that? God bless FDS. But because - is this true? I'm open to thoughts - women are more giving we associate sex with intimacy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 06:26 AM |
| 22 | Couldn't resist sharing 🤭Has FDS done a fictional hottie wishlist yet? I know there is hottie Friday for real dudes, is there a post about fictional studs? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 04:45 AM |
| 20 | Couldn't resist sharing 🤭That post sounds like the post, I wonder why it got deleted? I didn't start having orgasms until into my 30s... when I was single with no men complicating my life, demanding the pleasure spotlight through the same old scripts. And then, finally by myself - it was easy! I found the right toy for the job and holy amazeballs, multiple orgasms. The first time I came I laughed and laughed, it was a joy. I was free lol. I wonder if that's how men have viewed me? As a toy, so it was easy for them to fi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 04:29 AM |
| 44 | Couldn't resist sharing 🤭Yes! I never thought of my body like that until recently. All vulvas are unique - and only worthy contenders may get a chance to be in her presence! There was a post recently about how most women don't get an orgasm from a man. Well, I am one of them. And that comes from allowing a man to pleasure himself with MY body, with little care to the specialness of mine. Its a big lesson to learn that 1) most men are like this and 2) we have been conditioned to come second, in all things, so we let it h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:49 AM |
| 61 | Most men are not worth it and period that is the truthThis is so sad but so true. I have been thinking recently about FDS and people in my life, current and past. And what a disappointing but liberating realization - NO MAN HAS EVER ADDED VALUE TO MY LIFE without TAKING AWAY MORE. This goes for family, partners, friends. Nothing freely given with love and support. Only things given with the expectation something in return. And I've been conditioned to give it! Blerghhhhhhhhh!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:05 AM |
| 50 | Couldn't resist sharing 🤭100% Love your username btw! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 12:40 AM |
| 8 | Quicker with truth bomb come backs since FDSIt was banter in the warehouse between two dudes who are quite respectful towards myself and women in general, which is nice. So not negative at all. I think it may have been about football players and their poor treatment of women that we hear about, but I am not 100% sure. Either way, I had no regrets with my answer. They actually both seemed to think about it. One of them replied "Oh but aren't there some nice ones, you know like us!?" My reply was something along the lines of "Sure, you're o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 12:38 AM |
| 10 | How do you get over post-relationship embarrassment?That's really true.. the odds are against us for HVM. That fact makes me angry and sad sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 04:11 AM |
| 11 | How do you get over post-relationship embarrassment?To be honest - its really hard. To have such an eye opening moment. Its hard to excuse the long term experience of your closed eyes and that can't be gotten over in the short term. Does that make sense? So its going to be normal for you to feel like this for a little while, as you slowly unpack and recall the duration all of his crap. But look at each little negative thing you remember about him as a win - because each of those little things will be a red flag for the future! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 11:17 PM |
| 41 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.My first post to Reddit (last month) was about my partner wanting kids - but me making it clear date one it was not for me. When I finally considered it (in a VERY hypothetical way) and made sure he knew he'd have to grow up and be more resposible etc I was dumped not too long after. Vetting is so important! Don't believe their words, believe their action/inaction and NEVER compromise your standard, boundaries and desires. I did. Ugh!!! Waste of my time. I'm still angry with myself. Dodged a fat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 03:06 AM |
| 4 | Orgasm Inc. - Big pharma creates fake disease "Female Sexual Dysfunction" in order to sell 'pink viagra'. Creating a narrative of what healthy sexuality is 'supposed' to look like & convince the largest amount of women possible they have medical problems only solved by dangerous pills and surgery.Ha! I love this. Hilarious... so true!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 02:53 AM |
| 22 | Bridging the orgasm gap – it is not just biologyI’ve never had a man able to get me there. In my pickmeisha days when asked by LVM, I’ll tell them what I want. The result is that being done for a minute or two, then back to the Jack hammering. Ugh. Never again. Solo? Every time and at lest two or three times, no doodle required, just some good vibrations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 09:28 AM |
| 18 | A lil Pandora ring I got myself in 2019 as a gift for getting into the uni course of my dreams 🥺🥰Hey congratulations Queen! And I don't see wrinkles lol I see lovely lady hands :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 05:34 AM |
| 2 | If you regularly feel sad, confused or less ‘you’—it’s not love. Fall in love with YOU first, then find someone who amplifies you. 💗Love your username by the way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 04:14 AM |
| 4 | If you regularly feel sad, confused or less ‘you’—it’s not love. Fall in love with YOU first, then find someone who amplifies you. 💗This is a great quote, thank you for posting. I was thinking about my LVM and things that should have showed me he didn't love me, the red flags I missed. Disrespect was a big thing - I was taken advantage of because there was no respect. My time and effort were just sucked into his black hole of man-babyness lol. e.g. for some reason he booked his move into a new apartment the day after a bucks night with his mates. He was throwing up and couldn't finish getting his junk out of my car, up the t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?I hope they find each other and live happily ever after HA! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:46 AM |
| 4 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?Trashy is probably the word I should have used! Yeah dirty food containers, old clothes that would fall apart when washed lol. Blergh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:44 AM |
| 155 | What do I need YOU for?Honey if I could up vote you a million a million times I would x x x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:37 AM |
| 102 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?- teenage messy room when you're in your 30s - selfish and tight with money but happy to take yours - bad driving - always very very late - can't enjoy others successes - pitiful sense of humor e.g. my LVM gave a Best Man speech at a wedding, the whole room and myself cringed for five minutes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:10 AM |
| 5 | What is LVM?These are great examples to watch out for. Not introspective is a really good one, so simple but so true. If he can't think about his own words/actions (was I kind? was I helpful? was that necessary? etc) how can he have a deep connection with another person? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 01:06 AM |
| 2 | What is LVM?Thank you for posting this, what a great summary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 01:04 AM |
| 9 | FDS saved me.I'm so sorry to hear about your LVM. I had one too, many similar traits. No dates planned, I always paid, and no birthday gifts unless it was something he could share!!! Ugh. I wish the same, I wish I'd found this page sooner. It's sad we need to be told to have boundaries, but I really needed to. Damn those gaslighters, they know EXACTLY what they're doing while us givers keep on giving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:24 AM |
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